There's a difference between coming up to me and saying, "Your really pretty" and saying as i walk by, "damn ma, dat ass!." I like compliments, but hate when people try to objectify.
Yet, quite a few of these women get turned on by these thugs and low-lifes who spit their words raw towards them. So many hypocrites as many of these ladies claim they are christians. But wait, some guy just said he wants to eat your booty hole and its cute b/c how he said it. I seen a sista with a white dude that called her a nigger and she wants him to love her like he hates her. Its some twisted shit these days.
o.m.g. girl, ive seen a couple of your vids and u should never lose the body u got and if u were mine and lost weight im riding out 2 lol, naw jus kidding u are most sexy
...because some of them are just stupid and vain, they think everyone that says ANYTHING to them, they are trying to get with them. They can't tell the difference between a compliment or dirty come on. NOW sometimes it's the way they say it. When I get compliments I smile, say thank you, and then if they continue with the can I get your number or anything in the way of further contact & relationship, I simply say , I'm sorry, I'm don't mess with men like that, they respect it and keep it moving.
It depends on what vibe the women gets from the guy. For example I was at walmart and a girl passed me by and I thought I said to myself wow...so sexy. She turned around smiled and said what did you say? I apologized and told her I didnt mean for her to hear...its just that her body was very sexy. She walked right up to me and said she didnt mind because I didnt say it in a nasty way. I was confused, how is it I said what other guys say but it wasent nasty? I think some guys just come off crude.
@b7r7u7c7e That's exactly what it is, how it was said. Like I commented to someone earlier, it's not what you say, but how you say it. I don't get offended when someone says I'm sexy, even face to face, but it depends upon HOW it's said. If he staring at me and undressing me and I can SEE his thoughts, then that TOTALLY upsets me, but if he just says it in a casual way or with a smile, then I smile back, say thank you and keep it moving.
I wouldn't consider this a compliment, but this video reminds me of the incident. I decided to meet up with a guy I used to go to school with. He always thought I was cute I guess. Well anyway, we met at a bookstore and we started talking about books and stuff. Well he complimented me a few times. Then we got to the point of joking around. Well, he playfully tapped my ass with his foot. That's when everything went to a halt. So I said to not do that and I managed to sneak out of the store. :(
@AuraSoulful Awwww man, for some reason, I'm sitting here just envisioning that scene and I could see everything just freeze when he did that....i bet it got so silent for a few seconds that you could hear the dust land....talk about akward!!!! I am sooo sorry hun. I would've left too though.
First of pear your looking beautiful in your outfit and those glasses look great on you. I live in New York and I remember seeing beautiful lady on the bus I said you look nice today she looked at me like I was on anothor planet yo that blow my mind then I realized some women take to things different from others.
@stevey3100 Thanks 4 the compliments luv. I've actually seen that happen time or two. A man will compliment a woman and she looks at him as if he smells like elephant dung and keeps walking or rolls her eyes and turns her head...so sad...
Hey Pear. Unfortunately we live in a world where everyone is a suspect. You can be nice but some people take that niceness and turn it into something else. I, being born in Texas, gives compliments. I mean no disrespect but I give compliments. Life is hard and compliments are needed to give us all the boost we need to keep going in life.
@bguard64 It is very unfortunate that everyone is a perceived suspect. I am so loving the last sentence of your comment. I couldn't agree more. Thanks 4 sharing hun
A statement is a compliment if the person who made the statement intended it to be a compliment. Unfortunately, some people always look for a negative connotation, or even take it negatively when there is no way to take the statement negatively.
@manlan8 I agree, and I think that has to do with their on preconceived notions. Some people genuinely believe that all compliments come as a result of the giver being "after" or "up to something."
where im from lil mama if u look good u gna get complimented weather it could be very voulger or somethin nice its gna b a compliment now sometimes it can b real disrespectful but down here my nigga we speak our mind thts just how sht go.......
@snoopntina Nothing wrong with speaking your mind, but if you are trying to compliment someone, it just seems as if you'd want it to sound nice and not vulgar, right?
SO I C U LOST SOME WIEGHT AND I HOPE U R THE SIZE U WANT.....BUT THE TRUTH IZ THAT U-R- STUNNING.....B 4 AND AFTER......EVEEYTHING THAT A BROTHA LIKES IN A WOMEN "PYSHICALLY" AND IT SEEMS AS THOUGH U HAVE A GOOD HEAD ON UR SHOULDERS, DEFINITLY "WIFEY" MATERIAL AND I'M NOT INTO MARRIAGE...LOL....SO STAY POSITIVE, STAY SEXY AND STAY FROSTY SISTA....PEACE
@TRONGRAPHIX I have lost some, thank you for noticing luv, but I still have more to go. I'm okay with it coming off slowly now, though. And I'm cracking up off your wifey material part of thee comment! Thanks luv
Great topic pear..I dont compliment women it aint worth it i just look but i dont stare. Most men just dont know how to shut up! A pretty woman already knows she has heard it her whole life. Most women just wanna go about thier bizz. Also i dont hold doors for women unless she is mine or if she looks like pear!
women want to ne equal so hold their own doors open.I feel like women should hold doors for men.
@mandangalo72 lololololol! U are something else! But I ain't mad atcha boo. I don't see anything wrong with looking, but like you said, just don't stare. Oh, and by the way, believe it or not, I am the type of female that DOES hold the door open for a man. Do it all the time actually, and don't mind at all. Thanks 4 commenting hun.
Its carzy but you have to pick your words carefully. Pear your beautiful but if I said a bitch your beautiful you would be mad as hell. Thats the problem people dont know how to say the simple things like your sexy or good looking they have to take it to far
@MrJFR yep, you're right, you do have to know how to phrase things. if a dude ever said "bitch you're beautiful" to me, he would get cursed from A-toZ and I would tell him how he is the beautiful son of a bitch
1:35 was the best lmao love you pear, and with the topic homeboy has to understand that the ignorance of others can be the downfall of all when they say dam bitch you fine and all that other non sense. Im respectable to women ill give women complements but im careful about cause like you said someone like it and other women look at you like you have other motives.Its tough for men these days
@velazquez3630 i don't think it has to be tough, though, especially if he chooses his words carefully. No, you can't win them all over, but you surely can win a few over if things are phrased properly. it's not really what you say, it's how you say it that matters the most.
@pearshapedsista I personally wont say black men as a race have devolved but men in general i find myself in clubs and bars drinking and hearing the bullshit that these men say to women and i just think about your previous post "i need a girlfriend" and just think you just gotta be real with women i never have a problem talking to ladies but it is all about what you say and you general approach and attitude
@velazquez3630 the reason a lot of men sling bullshit to some women is because some women accept and eat it up. I truly believe that even the most thugged out, inarticulate man will switch up his approach (or try his hardest), depending upon the woman. They may try that initial bullshit to see if she bites and if she does then he just saved himself a few niceties, a couple of bucks, and even a few syllables. Doesn't take much effort to say "psst, lemme get them digits shawty."
a true gentleman pays a complement to a woman out of the sincerity of heart .now some complements i can agree with a woman are not approtiate to be spoken. how ever it also depends on the class of a woman .if she carried herself in respect and taste then the complement should be percived as so.Hoever if she would carry herself as loose and in poor taste then she may be offended by some of the complements she recieves.
@twomenyfacez2 if a woman carries herself loose and in poor taste,more than likely she isn't receiving compliments, but rather insults disguised as compliments. thank you for commenting luv
Hey Beautiful! That happens to me sometimes. I've had held open doors for some women only for them to walk through as if I wasn't there! And that really pisses me off. To the point that I'll say something to the women. A lot of women, all they know how to do is complain, and say men don't do this or don't do that. Then when a man does something nice for them or give them a compliment they're still not happy. So glad you're not like that! Much Love!!
but I think you got a good point..some women are so damn afraid a man is gonna ask them out if he gives them any attention that they give him nasty attitude to keep him from wanting to say anything..its a defense mechanism..This is why I keep my mouth shut and save my compliments to myself lol but if I EVER get lucky enough to bump into YOU in public, I'll be sure to tell you in person what I think about that body of yours lol
@othelloxxxx lolololol! I guess I can understand it being a defense mechanism, but sometime there is nothing to defend against. It's like a board game, I allow my "opponent" to make the first move, then I know how to proceed. You never know, that opponent may end up being an awesome ally ;-)
I just wanna tell you my pear shaped sista, I'm not tryin'to come on to you but girl you got it goin'on. Your such a beautiful creation. That body is bangin'baby. Your tight work forreal girl.
Keep that sexxiness poppin'. Your thickness is my weakness. I got compliment for dayz for you but I'll leave some for others to come up with.I'll tell about yourself later.. Yours truly,
1:34 .... that side view is beautiful!!! but for real, too bad more women dont think like you...smart, open minded and you definitely got your head on straight..love these videos, keep them coming.
rethinking on what i just said i had to look at some of those women that dont like the compliments... sometimes they get the comps in the wrong way therefore it turns them off to guys that say nice harmless things. when a woman is used to hearing "damn gurl how you get all dat in dem jeans" the classic "Gat Damn lemme holla at u right quik" is the ignorant comments that they are used to which shows no respect at all. or that you dont care about anything other than looks.
@ackissa You are EXACTLY right! I could not agree with you more! Sad as hell that some people only think on that level, but it's very true that some people do not appreciate a purely genuine, nonsexual or nonphysical compliment.
"i cant stand that..." when a woman shows negative attitude for someone giving them a nice compliment. OTOH check this out Pear there are some "Mr. Creepys" as you call them (lol) that dont mean any harm they may just feel like your gonna lash out like some women that dont know how to handle the comp. and keep it movin', it dosent describe me cause i care less what people think of what i say if thats how if i feel im gonna say it if if hurts or helps. lol it may be phucked dup but hey....
@ackissa As true as that may be, I would think it would come across as a little more offensive to just stare at someone if I am interested or think they deserve a compliment, as opposed to just taking my chances and telling them. You never know what may come of it, but if you stare and don't say anything, it could be a wasted opportunity for a beautiful friendship or just to make someone smile. thanks 4 commenting luv.
If I give a compliment to a female other than a family member...I'm trying to get in those draws,lol. I'm just being honest. Most of the time...they know what time it is.
What I sometimes face is that when women find out I'm an FA then they are offended typo know that I find them attractive. Especially online where my BBW admiration is more obvious
I've seen this happen before here in NY, it was so funny I had to tell you about it. I was downtown one day, a homeless guy with a shopping cart came up to a woman, and was spittin his poison, ya know, hey ma, bla bla, can i get your digits? When she turned him down, he had the nerve to get upset, and told the woman, you ain't all that anyway. I really don't get some people Kay. Maybe he was gonna take her for a ride in his cart, lol.
Can't lie, my complements would be geared towards getting to know you, but they would all be with much respect. You would never feel disrespected by a guy like myself, but you would know that you're desired.
I learned something from this...because I usually *‹(•¿•)›* REAL HARD...Then I *Compliment (but if I'm in a setting where I couldn't get close enough to the Lady where I could respectfully compliment Her...I figure the *Admiring Stare* spoke for Me)
Ok...sometimes it's a *HUNGRY LIKE the WOLF ‹(•¿•)›*
OK. WHERE IS THE REST OF YOU!!! DAMN PEARSHAPEDSISTA, WHAT THE HELL HAVE YOU BEEN DOING. I REALLY SEE A DIFFRENCE, I MEAN YOU HAVE ALWAYS BEEN THE BOMB.COM, BUT YOU LOOK GOOD MAN...MUAH, DAMN I WAS SO BUSY LOOKING AT YOU LET ME GO BACK AND WATCH THE DAMN VID. LOL LOL LOL SO PROUD OF YOU. MUAH
@mscrystalofdc lololololol!!!! Awww you got a sista blushin' hunni! Thank you sweetie. I'm tryna get it right. And don't think I 4got about ya, I hope you doin' ya thing because you know imma check up on ya lol. Thanks 4 commenting hun
back when i was in school i would see the finest girl in school and when i see her i would say whats up ashley and keep it movin yes i was attracted to her but i thought she was out of my league
so one day she just asked me do i like her and i was like um where that come from all i ever say to u is whats up and smile
women should stop jumping to assuming just because a man is friendly he wants something he just speaking to u like he would speak to a man
@TheEaglesfanindc lololol, hold up...now how are you gonna say women should stop assuming things, but ashley was exactly right with her assumption? She should get props for stepping to you because I doubt she would have said anything like that to you if she was not interested herself.
Dont be upset of someone just stairs at you sweetie, they just may be to afraid or shy to say anything or to approach you.man our woman not everyone have the courage to approach someone that is beautiful.
@keving52002 I understand that people may not have the courage to approach others all of the time, but to me, staring and not saying anything is just plain rude lol.
i was wondering why women think a man is trying too talk to them when he just says hello to them ???
my mom does that she so conceited smh a man can say hello and she would give him attitude but he just said hello
but all older people i see they always greeting every single person they see i just wanted to know why most younger women dont like people talking to them just a simple hello
@TheEaglesfanindc I have no idea why ppl jump to those types of conclusions. It could have to do with their upbringing. I am from the South, therefore, it is totally normal to be approached by a perfect stranger and they are just truly saying hello or complimenting you and mean nothing more by it. Some ppl are very conceited and automatically assume that ppl are trying to come on to them, but I don't make assumptions like that. I take the compliment, then see where it goes from there.
Little Mark tho? Lol but I honestly believe women think men always want something from 'em. Like we always have ulterior motives. Sometimes u are trying to see if it leads to more, other times u just being cordial. Lol I think if women had to make the 1st move and approach pol they would appreciate the courage and social skills it takes to do it. If a woman has an attitude or rejects u, you still gotta bounce back the next time.
@tommybrown187 I personally don't always believe that men want more, but in may cases that may be so. Some women are probably only used to that from men, therefore when she receives a genuine compliment, she misconstrues it as a come on. I do agree with you, however, that it does take lots of courage and tenacity to be able to approach someone, especially if you are interested in them. The thing is, some ppl do not possess the appropriate social skills required to do so and it comes out all
There is nothing wrong with giving compliments.But sometimes as guys,we can take it a little futher.You can say,damn you look good today,Thats ok to say.Then someone could say,damn look at those hips and booty.Thats not what you want to say to a lady.Trust me,i'd be thinking it,but i wouldn't say it.But there are two types of women.Those who carry themselves like a woman,and those who carry themselves like HOOCHIES.
I don't mind compliments. but yes if you compliment me in what Iwould consider the wrong way yes I GET OFFENDED.. EXAMPLE....I THINK YOU ARE VERY PRETTY AND YOUR BODY LOOKS GOOD , I WOULD LOVE TO KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE. HELL NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO...OH YES NOW THERES A PROMBLEM BETWEEN YOU AND I SO IT DEPENDS ON WHAT AND HOW THEY SAY IT.
@TheFoxyja47 Now if a mofo EVER had the balls to say that in my face, he betta be prepared to have his balls handed to him! You can compliment me all day and all night, but please don't talk about feeling on me, that's a no-no lol! Thanks 4 commenting sis.
There's a difference between coming up to me and saying, "Your really pretty" and saying as i walk by, "damn ma, dat ass!." I like compliments, but hate when people try to objectify.
wonderangel987 2 weeks ago
@wonderangel987 i totally agree!
pearshapedsista 2 days ago
Yet, quite a few of these women get turned on by these thugs and low-lifes who spit their words raw towards them. So many hypocrites as many of these ladies claim they are christians. But wait, some guy just said he wants to eat your booty hole and its cute b/c how he said it. I seen a sista with a white dude that called her a nigger and she wants him to love her like he hates her. Its some twisted shit these days.
can06 2 weeks ago in playlist More videos from pearshapedsista
@can06 Twisted is the RIGHT word!!!!
pearshapedsista 2 weeks ago
o.m.g. girl, ive seen a couple of your vids and u should never lose the body u got and if u were mine and lost weight im riding out 2 lol, naw jus kidding u are most sexy
hatahurta20 3 weeks ago
...because some of them are just stupid and vain, they think everyone that says ANYTHING to them, they are trying to get with them. They can't tell the difference between a compliment or dirty come on. NOW sometimes it's the way they say it. When I get compliments I smile, say thank you, and then if they continue with the can I get your number or anything in the way of further contact & relationship, I simply say , I'm sorry, I'm don't mess with men like that, they respect it and keep it moving.
ITZM3BYTCH09 3 weeks ago
@ITZM3BYTCH09 Exactly, it's all in the approach. Some people are really respectful and others are just plain dirty!
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
It depends on what vibe the women gets from the guy. For example I was at walmart and a girl passed me by and I thought I said to myself wow...so sexy. She turned around smiled and said what did you say? I apologized and told her I didnt mean for her to hear...its just that her body was very sexy. She walked right up to me and said she didnt mind because I didnt say it in a nasty way. I was confused, how is it I said what other guys say but it wasent nasty? I think some guys just come off crude.
b7r7u7c7e 3 weeks ago
@b7r7u7c7e That's exactly what it is, how it was said. Like I commented to someone earlier, it's not what you say, but how you say it. I don't get offended when someone says I'm sexy, even face to face, but it depends upon HOW it's said. If he staring at me and undressing me and I can SEE his thoughts, then that TOTALLY upsets me, but if he just says it in a casual way or with a smile, then I smile back, say thank you and keep it moving.
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
I was offended when a girl told me she liked my "swag" I'm like I'm 34yrs old, I'm too OLD to have swag
ayyojah 3 weeks ago
@ayyojah lol lol lol!!!! Aww, I'm sorry hun.
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
I wouldn't consider this a compliment, but this video reminds me of the incident. I decided to meet up with a guy I used to go to school with. He always thought I was cute I guess. Well anyway, we met at a bookstore and we started talking about books and stuff. Well he complimented me a few times. Then we got to the point of joking around. Well, he playfully tapped my ass with his foot. That's when everything went to a halt. So I said to not do that and I managed to sneak out of the store. :(
AuraSoulful 3 weeks ago
@AuraSoulful Awwww man, for some reason, I'm sitting here just envisioning that scene and I could see everything just freeze when he did that....i bet it got so silent for a few seconds that you could hear the dust land....talk about akward!!!! I am sooo sorry hun. I would've left too though.
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
First of pear your looking beautiful in your outfit and those glasses look great on you. I live in New York and I remember seeing beautiful lady on the bus I said you look nice today she looked at me like I was on anothor planet yo that blow my mind then I realized some women take to things different from others.
stevey3100 3 weeks ago
@stevey3100 Thanks 4 the compliments luv. I've actually seen that happen time or two. A man will compliment a woman and she looks at him as if he smells like elephant dung and keeps walking or rolls her eyes and turns her head...so sad...
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
Hey Pear. Unfortunately we live in a world where everyone is a suspect. You can be nice but some people take that niceness and turn it into something else. I, being born in Texas, gives compliments. I mean no disrespect but I give compliments. Life is hard and compliments are needed to give us all the boost we need to keep going in life.
bguard64 3 weeks ago
@bguard64 It is very unfortunate that everyone is a perceived suspect. I am so loving the last sentence of your comment. I couldn't agree more. Thanks 4 sharing hun
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
Good response !
cecilthomas1976 3 weeks ago
@cecilthomas1976 thank u
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
A statement is a compliment if the person who made the statement intended it to be a compliment. Unfortunately, some people always look for a negative connotation, or even take it negatively when there is no way to take the statement negatively.
manlan8 3 weeks ago
@manlan8 I agree, and I think that has to do with their on preconceived notions. Some people genuinely believe that all compliments come as a result of the giver being "after" or "up to something."
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
You're welcome
derricbam1 3 weeks ago
You are sexy but your belt is too damn high.
nimitzopsoi 3 weeks ago
@nimitzopsoi that's because it's called a high waist belt, so it's supposed to be high lolol
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
where im from lil mama if u look good u gna get complimented weather it could be very voulger or somethin nice its gna b a compliment now sometimes it can b real disrespectful but down here my nigga we speak our mind thts just how sht go.......
snoopntina 3 weeks ago
@snoopntina Nothing wrong with speaking your mind, but if you are trying to compliment someone, it just seems as if you'd want it to sound nice and not vulgar, right?
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
SO I C U LOST SOME WIEGHT AND I HOPE U R THE SIZE U WANT.....BUT THE TRUTH IZ THAT U-R- STUNNING.....B 4 AND AFTER......EVEEYTHING THAT A BROTHA LIKES IN A WOMEN "PYSHICALLY" AND IT SEEMS AS THOUGH U HAVE A GOOD HEAD ON UR SHOULDERS, DEFINITLY "WIFEY" MATERIAL AND I'M NOT INTO MARRIAGE...LOL....SO STAY POSITIVE, STAY SEXY AND STAY FROSTY SISTA....PEACE
TRONGRAPHIX 3 weeks ago
@TRONGRAPHIX I have lost some, thank you for noticing luv, but I still have more to go. I'm okay with it coming off slowly now, though. And I'm cracking up off your wifey material part of thee comment! Thanks luv
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
i <3 you sooooo much ...hands down
rodger495 3 weeks ago
@rodger495 luvu2boo
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
Great topic pear..I dont compliment women it aint worth it i just look but i dont stare. Most men just dont know how to shut up! A pretty woman already knows she has heard it her whole life. Most women just wanna go about thier bizz. Also i dont hold doors for women unless she is mine or if she looks like pear!
women want to ne equal so hold their own doors open.I feel like women should hold doors for men.
mandangalo72 3 weeks ago
@mandangalo72 lololololol! U are something else! But I ain't mad atcha boo. I don't see anything wrong with looking, but like you said, just don't stare. Oh, and by the way, believe it or not, I am the type of female that DOES hold the door open for a man. Do it all the time actually, and don't mind at all. Thanks 4 commenting hun.
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
Its carzy but you have to pick your words carefully. Pear your beautiful but if I said a bitch your beautiful you would be mad as hell. Thats the problem people dont know how to say the simple things like your sexy or good looking they have to take it to far
MrJFR 3 weeks ago
@MrJFR yep, you're right, you do have to know how to phrase things. if a dude ever said "bitch you're beautiful" to me, he would get cursed from A-toZ and I would tell him how he is the beautiful son of a bitch
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
1:35 was the best lmao love you pear, and with the topic homeboy has to understand that the ignorance of others can be the downfall of all when they say dam bitch you fine and all that other non sense. Im respectable to women ill give women complements but im careful about cause like you said someone like it and other women look at you like you have other motives.Its tough for men these days
velazquez3630 3 weeks ago
@velazquez3630 i don't think it has to be tough, though, especially if he chooses his words carefully. No, you can't win them all over, but you surely can win a few over if things are phrased properly. it's not really what you say, it's how you say it that matters the most.
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
@pearshapedsista I personally wont say black men as a race have devolved but men in general i find myself in clubs and bars drinking and hearing the bullshit that these men say to women and i just think about your previous post "i need a girlfriend" and just think you just gotta be real with women i never have a problem talking to ladies but it is all about what you say and you general approach and attitude
velazquez3630 3 weeks ago
@velazquez3630 the reason a lot of men sling bullshit to some women is because some women accept and eat it up. I truly believe that even the most thugged out, inarticulate man will switch up his approach (or try his hardest), depending upon the woman. They may try that initial bullshit to see if she bites and if she does then he just saved himself a few niceties, a couple of bucks, and even a few syllables. Doesn't take much effort to say "psst, lemme get them digits shawty."
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
a true gentleman pays a complement to a woman out of the sincerity of heart .now some complements i can agree with a woman are not approtiate to be spoken. how ever it also depends on the class of a woman .if she carried herself in respect and taste then the complement should be percived as so.Hoever if she would carry herself as loose and in poor taste then she may be offended by some of the complements she recieves.
twomenyfacez2 3 weeks ago
@twomenyfacez2 if a woman carries herself loose and in poor taste,more than likely she isn't receiving compliments, but rather insults disguised as compliments. thank you for commenting luv
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
Hey Beautiful! That happens to me sometimes. I've had held open doors for some women only for them to walk through as if I wasn't there! And that really pisses me off. To the point that I'll say something to the women. A lot of women, all they know how to do is complain, and say men don't do this or don't do that. Then when a man does something nice for them or give them a compliment they're still not happy. So glad you're not like that! Much Love!!
Stallion575 3 weeks ago
@Stallion575 lol, I feel ya hun, that's just rude and sometimes there is absolutely no need for that. Thank you for commenting hun, luvu2
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
but I think you got a good point..some women are so damn afraid a man is gonna ask them out if he gives them any attention that they give him nasty attitude to keep him from wanting to say anything..its a defense mechanism..This is why I keep my mouth shut and save my compliments to myself lol but if I EVER get lucky enough to bump into YOU in public, I'll be sure to tell you in person what I think about that body of yours lol
othelloxxxx 3 weeks ago
@othelloxxxx lolololol! I guess I can understand it being a defense mechanism, but sometime there is nothing to defend against. It's like a board game, I allow my "opponent" to make the first move, then I know how to proceed. You never know, that opponent may end up being an awesome ally ;-)
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
I just wanna tell you my pear shaped sista, I'm not tryin'to come on to you but girl you got it goin'on. Your such a beautiful creation. That body is bangin'baby. Your tight work forreal girl.
Keep that sexxiness poppin'. Your thickness is my weakness. I got compliment for dayz for you but I'll leave some for others to come up with.I'll tell about yourself later.. Yours truly,
Godsson724 3 weeks ago
@Godsson724 lolol, thanks boo!
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
1:34 .... that side view is beautiful!!! but for real, too bad more women dont think like you...smart, open minded and you definitely got your head on straight..love these videos, keep them coming.
othelloxxxx 3 weeks ago
@othelloxxxx thanks hun, i will keep em comin'
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
A true bumble-bee–shaped beauty! <3 That belt. G-dang.
jacquelinelacan 3 weeks ago
@jacquelinelacan lolol, bumble bee? that's a new one, at least to me it is. thanks hun
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
good response!!
iteslabot 3 weeks ago
@iteslabot thank u
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
wow, wow and wow
newmecca19 3 weeks ago
nice vid and topic stay in that blue lol.
ccutta1983 3 weeks ago
@ccutta1983 aww, come on cutta. Now you know I look forward to your comments boo...you just took it all the way back with that one...lol
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
@pearshapedsista lol well i try to do what i can do when i can do it.
ccutta1983 3 weeks ago
rethinking on what i just said i had to look at some of those women that dont like the compliments... sometimes they get the comps in the wrong way therefore it turns them off to guys that say nice harmless things. when a woman is used to hearing "damn gurl how you get all dat in dem jeans" the classic "Gat Damn lemme holla at u right quik" is the ignorant comments that they are used to which shows no respect at all. or that you dont care about anything other than looks.
ackissa 3 weeks ago
@ackissa You are EXACTLY right! I could not agree with you more! Sad as hell that some people only think on that level, but it's very true that some people do not appreciate a purely genuine, nonsexual or nonphysical compliment.
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
"i cant stand that..." when a woman shows negative attitude for someone giving them a nice compliment. OTOH check this out Pear there are some "Mr. Creepys" as you call them (lol) that dont mean any harm they may just feel like your gonna lash out like some women that dont know how to handle the comp. and keep it movin', it dosent describe me cause i care less what people think of what i say if thats how if i feel im gonna say it if if hurts or helps. lol it may be phucked dup but hey....
ackissa 3 weeks ago
@ackissa As true as that may be, I would think it would come across as a little more offensive to just stare at someone if I am interested or think they deserve a compliment, as opposed to just taking my chances and telling them. You never know what may come of it, but if you stare and don't say anything, it could be a wasted opportunity for a beautiful friendship or just to make someone smile. thanks 4 commenting luv.
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
If I give a compliment to a female other than a family member...I'm trying to get in those draws,lol. I'm just being honest. Most of the time...they know what time it is.
Thrown2010 3 weeks ago
@Thrown2010 WOW!!!! Ain't nothing like honestly, no matter how brutal lolol, thanks hun
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
What I sometimes face is that when women find out I'm an FA then they are offended typo know that I find them attractive. Especially online where my BBW admiration is more obvious
GPSC998 3 weeks ago
@GPSC998 Pardon my slowness, but what is an FA?
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
I've seen this happen before here in NY, it was so funny I had to tell you about it. I was downtown one day, a homeless guy with a shopping cart came up to a woman, and was spittin his poison, ya know, hey ma, bla bla, can i get your digits? When she turned him down, he had the nerve to get upset, and told the woman, you ain't all that anyway. I really don't get some people Kay. Maybe he was gonna take her for a ride in his cart, lol.
nostalgicmalcontent 3 weeks ago
@nostalgicmalcontent lmao lmao lmao!!!!! what I wanna know is, how the hell did he plan to call her? from his car(t) phone?
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
Can't lie, my complements would be geared towards getting to know you, but they would all be with much respect. You would never feel disrespected by a guy like myself, but you would know that you're desired.
lovembig41 3 weeks ago
@lovembig41 awww, too sweet hun
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
I learned something from this...because I usually *‹(•¿•)›* REAL HARD...Then I *Compliment (but if I'm in a setting where I couldn't get close enough to the Lady where I could respectfully compliment Her...I figure the *Admiring Stare* spoke for Me)
Ok...sometimes it's a *HUNGRY LIKE the WOLF ‹(•¿•)›*
CNVRSKDAJW 3 weeks ago
@CNVRSKDAJW lolololol! yep, that's exactly how it comes across! don't do that! wave at her, at least, but don't stare only...not a good look hun.
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
@pearshapedsista ...Thank You :-D
CNVRSKDAJW 3 weeks ago
@CNVRSKDAJW yw
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
Like your hair, Nice outfit too!!
madfran6 3 weeks ago
@madfran6 thanks luv
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
new hair style
TheChevygearheads 3 weeks ago
@TheChevygearheads yep, pulled it back into a ball
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
OK. WHERE IS THE REST OF YOU!!! DAMN PEARSHAPEDSISTA, WHAT THE HELL HAVE YOU BEEN DOING. I REALLY SEE A DIFFRENCE, I MEAN YOU HAVE ALWAYS BEEN THE BOMB.COM, BUT YOU LOOK GOOD MAN...MUAH, DAMN I WAS SO BUSY LOOKING AT YOU LET ME GO BACK AND WATCH THE DAMN VID. LOL LOL LOL SO PROUD OF YOU. MUAH
mscrystalofdc 3 weeks ago
@mscrystalofdc lololololol!!!! Awww you got a sista blushin' hunni! Thank you sweetie. I'm tryna get it right. And don't think I 4got about ya, I hope you doin' ya thing because you know imma check up on ya lol. Thanks 4 commenting hun
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
@pearshapedsista MUAH MUAH MUAH
mscrystalofdc 3 weeks ago
back when i was in school i would see the finest girl in school and when i see her i would say whats up ashley and keep it movin yes i was attracted to her but i thought she was out of my league
so one day she just asked me do i like her and i was like um where that come from all i ever say to u is whats up and smile
women should stop jumping to assuming just because a man is friendly he wants something he just speaking to u like he would speak to a man
TheEaglesfanindc 3 weeks ago
@TheEaglesfanindc lololol, hold up...now how are you gonna say women should stop assuming things, but ashley was exactly right with her assumption? She should get props for stepping to you because I doubt she would have said anything like that to you if she was not interested herself.
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
Dont be upset of someone just stairs at you sweetie, they just may be to afraid or shy to say anything or to approach you.man our woman not everyone have the courage to approach someone that is beautiful.
keving52002 3 weeks ago
@keving52002 I understand that people may not have the courage to approach others all of the time, but to me, staring and not saying anything is just plain rude lol.
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
i was wondering why women think a man is trying too talk to them when he just says hello to them ???
my mom does that she so conceited smh a man can say hello and she would give him attitude but he just said hello
but all older people i see they always greeting every single person they see i just wanted to know why most younger women dont like people talking to them just a simple hello
TheEaglesfanindc 3 weeks ago
@TheEaglesfanindc I have no idea why ppl jump to those types of conclusions. It could have to do with their upbringing. I am from the South, therefore, it is totally normal to be approached by a perfect stranger and they are just truly saying hello or complimenting you and mean nothing more by it. Some ppl are very conceited and automatically assume that ppl are trying to come on to them, but I don't make assumptions like that. I take the compliment, then see where it goes from there.
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
Little Mark tho? Lol but I honestly believe women think men always want something from 'em. Like we always have ulterior motives. Sometimes u are trying to see if it leads to more, other times u just being cordial. Lol I think if women had to make the 1st move and approach pol they would appreciate the courage and social skills it takes to do it. If a woman has an attitude or rejects u, you still gotta bounce back the next time.
tommybrown187 3 weeks ago
@tommybrown187 I personally don't always believe that men want more, but in may cases that may be so. Some women are probably only used to that from men, therefore when she receives a genuine compliment, she misconstrues it as a come on. I do agree with you, however, that it does take lots of courage and tenacity to be able to approach someone, especially if you are interested in them. The thing is, some ppl do not possess the appropriate social skills required to do so and it comes out all
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
@tommybrown187 wrong lol. thank you for commeting luv
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
Im totally a gentleman ! I compliment women all the time on their face and body
rainbow1892 3 weeks ago
@rainbow1892 lol, that's what's up luv
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
There is nothing wrong with giving compliments.But sometimes as guys,we can take it a little futher.You can say,damn you look good today,Thats ok to say.Then someone could say,damn look at those hips and booty.Thats not what you want to say to a lady.Trust me,i'd be thinking it,but i wouldn't say it.But there are two types of women.Those who carry themselves like a woman,and those who carry themselves like HOOCHIES.
SLAVEDUA 3 weeks ago
@SLAVEDUA I agree, you can think whatever you want, but you shouldn't let certain thoughts roll off your tongue. Thanks 4 commenting luv
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
Gorgeous ShapedSista My Nickname For you! You Really Have been Blessed...
derricbam1 3 weeks ago
@derricbam1 lol thanks hun
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
Im 19, and I think u would be an awesome older sister<3
TruRansfer92 3 weeks ago
@TruRansfer92 aww, you are just a darling! I'd gladly be your older sis!
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
I don't mind compliments. but yes if you compliment me in what Iwould consider the wrong way yes I GET OFFENDED.. EXAMPLE....I THINK YOU ARE VERY PRETTY AND YOUR BODY LOOKS GOOD , I WOULD LOVE TO KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE. HELL NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO...OH YES NOW THERES A PROMBLEM BETWEEN YOU AND I SO IT DEPENDS ON WHAT AND HOW THEY SAY IT.
TheFoxyja47 3 weeks ago
@TheFoxyja47 Now if a mofo EVER had the balls to say that in my face, he betta be prepared to have his balls handed to him! You can compliment me all day and all night, but please don't talk about feeling on me, that's a no-no lol! Thanks 4 commenting sis.
pearshapedsista 3 weeks ago
that outfit looks great on you. 5stars.
deeroks1 3 weeks ago