When It Hurts So Bad - Lauryn Hill

[kchambers777]

Never second guess thumbs up-ing me I'm official always : ). Contrary to popular belief real love doesn't hurt, but attachment which chemically can feel like love, is built to inevitably hurt b/c all things in life are impermanent...except problems lmao

[MrBMOSA]

YES YO SICKKKKK

[kchambers777]

Whatever you do NEVER confuse Love with Attachment, both are powerful, but only ONE is built to inevitably hurt. 

[ThecuttingEj]

@kchambers777 meaning attachment no? ("built to inevitably hurt") sorry if that seems like a stupid question.. i was gonna thumbs up then i second guessed my interpretation of the statement lol..?

[skimask78]

THIS CD SAVED MY LIFE ABOUT 13 YEARS AGO WHEN HAVING MY FIRST CHILD/SKIMASK

[quyetstorme09]

Love this

[dwhirtle1]

I thought you came here to help me, and I am sorry for what I have done to you. I saw and felt and followed my heart. For once it has led me so far astray that I don't even know where I am.

I have lost my life, my love, and my labors. I don't even have a tomorrow. If you could please do one thing, just be HONEST with me before sunrise, and in private. Why must a true person be repaid with lies? This world is beyond cruel...

I hope some of my words have helped you. That's all I ever wanted...

[imelectrick]

@overxposedkc91 it's because you love them so much, you will let them hurt you as much as they want, just so they won't leave. the relationship in this song sounds very on-and-off, similar to one i was in. and i used to prefer him breaking my heart over and over as long as he was still there.

[Jecire]

#BestAlbum

[watgoddamit]

its better to feel pain then nothing at all

[ThePendragonFamily]

@watgoddamit

[Bellameamoure]

If I was asked to tell my story this would be the song that told it!

[genini1980]

This is very well put,when hurt that time 2 let it go. I No.

[MsSupris]

@overX it means ur in love no matter how much a person hurts u it feels good cuz u love them and u cant let go or wont let go and u keep hangin on no matter even if it hurts u or not

[TheGangstabitch88]

@dahighbar thats sooo true

[drea12392]

This is so weird I just heard this song & I wrote a poem that sounds similar to it a couple of years ago...Thats Interesting ; }

[heyitskierra]

This Song Is So True Like I Love Him And He Hurts Me But I Still Go Back Why ? Idk Cuz I Love Him And I Know We All Feel Like This Sometimes.

[thickjamma91]

<3 <3

[amouravent]

this happens when ur heart and mind are conflicted. the mind knows that the only logical thing to do is leave that person, but the heart is knows there is no logic to love, there is only forgiveness... a cruel tug of war... the heart makes u have that impossible hope that things will get better. love is soon unexplainable, making you do the things you never thought you would... huh a curse and a blessing

[Lajoy1997]

@amouravent I LUV IT SO TRUE

[AMIAD35]

understanding that not every pain comes to harm you every thing about heartbreak hurts so good evrything u been thru an everthing your going to go thru it's mos def a siccness !!!!!! knw that u knw when enough is enough !

[NAGEM22]

i don't know i look at it in the way that i just broke up with my fiance' and it hurts really bad but it's for the best for now.

[Jazzybepiphany]

This song.. god i need to go to sleep. *Looks through draws for The Miseducation of Lauryn Hill* ;-)

[kevin75c]

This album was without a thought ahead of its time.What a classic

[terrancemelvin1]

i love this song!

[Shiizopath]

lauryn needs to come back so hard...

[Jhenelicious]

I was 10 years old when this album came out and now I'm 22 years old

and 'till this day this is still my favorite album!!

[tiffiloveful]

my soul need more .... pleasse kcome bk Lauryn

[tiarataylor09]

gosh i feel the pain in her voice its the shit the its almost like she was sad ova a break up and that is told through the vocals and then its like she gettin ova it and thats told through the music(instrumental)

[lovejangie1]

Good song!

[OverXposedKC91]

please explain what part feels good when it hurts so bad.. because nothing about heartbreak feels good to me...

[ladyceetee]

That is the sad part, it feels so good more so when the man is NOGOOD!!!!!! We must let it go!

[EG2691]

@OverXposedKC91 You're too young to understand baby!

[OverXposedKC91]

@EG2691 hahahahahahaha!!! im starting to NOT want to understand...

[EG2691]

Well isn't that what they used to always tell us, when they didn't know the answer! Well you made my day! I do love this song! Take care and God bless! SMILE!!

[OverXposedKC91]

@EG2691 Thanks, I needed that. God Bless You too!

[macmerlin87]

@OverXposedKC91

I guess that what she means is that man kind always searches for a kind suffering.. and it's bad but it feels good. I mean, even when we have what we want sometimes we create problems and suffer and only thing with should do is open our eyes and see what we've got. But it's easier to feel hurt than to accept that what we need is right in front of us.

This is my song of the day.

[101mkw]

@OverXposedKC91 shes tlkin bout how she loved him and it felt good but it hurted because she loved him but didnt get love in return nd if no one knows this whole cd was about wycleaf do you get me now u have to go buy the cd then listen to the whole thng then it will make sense jjust listen to it and youll see trust me

[OverXposedKC91]

@101mkw girl i have the cd, it's my favorite. i understand now, its just that this whole song talks about the bad part so it was confusing to me. but yeah i completely get it now. you have to be able to relate to really understand

[rogerdamnit]

@OverXposedKC91 i guess it like when u in love..u knw that the person you are with is no good 4 u..but you are so in love with them that you are blind to how much they are hurting you..its like chasing something that you can't get..i hope that helps a little lol

[SweetIvyPr]

@rogerdamnit so true...... so bad when u love they one who doesn't loves'ya in return but they know how u feel for theme

[Marshayne]

@OverXposedKC91 if love feels so bad why does it feel so good... its not specifically referrin to heartbreak in that line

[isavakoya]

@OverXposedKC91 you'll innerstand once you get older. Your still wet behind the ears.

[michael085609]

@OverXposedKC91 it feels so good to know and understand that you wont let the same thing happen againg, specially when it finally hits you that all you had to do was look pass the love and love your self sooo much to not let it hurt so bad again! its jus a short metaphor for love. lol

[OverXposedKC91]

@michael085609 i like your interpretation. its different from the ones i've been hearing. & thank u for NOT saying im too youg to understand like half the people on here been telling me. lol

[michael085609]

@OverXposedKC91 ur welcome sweetie ur never too young or too old to learn anything its very good and wise that u even have an open mind to want to know!!! jus learn from this song and believe in gods word and he will direct your path.

[stendeb]

@michael085609 think youv'e hit thenail on the head there pal

[wildcats02]

@OverXposedKC91 no disrespect but...... keep on living!!!! you will find out first hand!!!!

[OverXposedKC91]

@wildcats02 will do!

[creative0824]

@OverXposedKC91

I took it to mean that even though a man or woman is Completely dogging you...you still love them no matter what...though it hurts that they are playing you..you still love them anyway...What feels good is the love that you have for them...what hurts so bad is the way that they are treating you..get it?

[OverXposedKC91]

@creative0824 thanks, i like that explanation

[ljoywatson]

@OverXposedKC91 A lot of times pain is the strongest emotion that you'll have in a relationship, and even though it hurts, we long for that surge of emotion, and even more for someone that can make us feel that emotion so strongly.

[jspankin]

@OverXposedKC91 "When it hurts so bad, why's it feel do good" means your in a abusive relationship (so it hurts) but your still in the relationship (so it must feeling good)

[dahighbar]

@OverXposedKC91 I believe it could feel good when the person who brakes your heart is a person who didnt deserve you in the first place once you realize your worth you realize they lose in the long run and if can feel good

[vanutra]

@OverXposedKC91 "If you've ever been in love then you'd understand"

[OverXposedKC91]

@vanutra =.)

[MallyNG]

@OverXposedKC91 She's saying that Love itself hurts so bad but it Feels so good.

[kamiebaybee]

LOVE THiiS SONG

[AnastasijaKobrinska]

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