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  • lol i cant come out eaither i dont trust anyone well... a few people no i like guys but ive never been in a realetionship with a guy wich is what i want..

  • why are all gay guys so fucking hot? -.-" 

  • that guy is so hot

  • i am a very shy person, ive never came out to anyone due to trust issues because i cant trust anyone

  • :)

  • totally off topic but~I love yout hair so much! You are extremly hot ^-^

  • i'm 15 male in FL. When i was 11 i started having sexual feelings (freaking early if you ask me). it was only about girls. I then thought about what would it be like to kiss a guy...and the thought like grossed me out. but i liked it for some reason. So a little bit later i thought about it... and it didn't gross me out anymore. So then i thought about guys and then when i thought about girls...THEY grossed me out. it was 3 years when i was 14...october of 2010 when i came out to my friend.

  • @DaDaDaaaa4

    Her name was morgan. i got sick of keeping this secret from everyone so i told her in a text. i had known her less than a month. I came out to her as bisexual and she was very supportive. after that..i told a few others. and 4 months ago i practically went on a coming out spree...now over 30 ppl know. (i live in a small town so 30 ppl is a lot). Mostly ppl have been cool with it. I will express my affection for men if i'm not in my home town area. so if i go to a mall

  • @DaDaDaaaa4

    or something that's several miles away from here then i will hit on guys and stuff lol. But i kept coming out to ppl as bi because i was afraid of being beaten to a bloody pulp. Much of the time...people will tolerate bi's more than gays and bi is closer to the norm...something i desperately wanted to be. i didn't want to attract attention to myself. Now...I literally just told her in a text (she lives in TN now so i don't get to see her hardly) "I lied to you." she said "huh"

  • frist of all...you're cute.

    Second of all...your accent is cute

    third of all...you're cute.

    wait did i already say that you're cute?

  • so I like both sooo what should I do?

  • lol at 8:16 - 8:24... "ooh!... ooohh!" haha :P

    and my coming out story is: when i was about 13, i started having feelings 4 girls as well as boys, n i told my mum n she took it really well, n she said 2 just let it go for a while n see where u are in a few yrs. i also told my dad, who kinda took it well, but im not sure. so i waited til yr 11 when i realised that i was bi, n i told my mum n she asked if i was sure n i said yes, but im not sure that either of my parents r ok with it yet.

  • i just told my family to get over it i'm gay love it

  • Btw it's pretty difficult to come out with being asexual, well... seeing as being asexual consists of being able to reproduce with yourself. btw you're cute ^-^

  • @edouardENSANGUINE

    You can seriously reproduce with yourself? I thought that was a myth! Damn you learn somethin everyday.

  • you speak the truth broski.

  • my coming out story?

    it was pretty stupid i guess¬¬U,well,uh.first i wanted to tell my best friend (we were friends since i was...like wut?uh.3 years old? XD)

    and she in some way betrayed me,cause she strarted to ignore me...i tried to talk to her,but it ended up bad..and our relationship broke up my parents,when i told them,my father was like"ok" and my mother was in the phase of"is just a teenager phase,it will go away you will see",she took 3 months to understand things.now i'm fine.i think.

  • i hate when they say" god hates homosexuals"

    dude, if "god" hates homosexual,then they wouldn't exist right?"god" loves EVERYONE.

    use your brain.DAMM. don't be stupid homophobes.

  • i have not come out about being bi :(

  • Another beautiful gay love story:

    Chrolli love story

    You Tube clip with the title:

    Christian & Oliver 04.04.08 English Subtitles Part 45

  • or you get alot of laughing and find out they put a bet on you if you were straight of gay funny day that was lol

  • very useful :)

  • 8:18 lol :D

  • your hair is awesome

  • Your Accent is BEAST!

  • u look hate wif black hair:) juz sayin

  • I want to come out to my friend on tuesday cuz Ive been telling her something awesome happened but dont tell her what it is and it was that I kept geting pared up withthis guy I like sos I want to tell her that thats what it is should I not do it?

  • i have no idea what emo is. but he is certainly austrailian. doesnt seem gay

    but that doesnt mean anything....he says he is. he is pretty cute. real cute.....

  • So cute! I love you!!! Your the most beautiful human being ever! And your accent is really hot :)

  • you are so beatifeul..I'm in love..!!!

  • I got dragged out by my friend's mom. She told my mom that I was gay, when I was waiting to tell her. Then my mom yelled at me about how wrong and how stupid I am. Oh boy.

  • I don't agree with the person below me vvv ppl that don't like the word emo or being labeled are true, there just themselves but by calling urself "emo" your basically just a poser.. I guess it depends on the country because I'm from the us

  • I'm Australian, and emo, I guess you'd have called me. But seriously I don't get why people hate emo is pretty much just a style now, barely anyone cuts themselve and pretend to have bad lives, they just dress differently and have dark hair. 

  • my coming out story is i was actually whatching the real world DC, and it was the bi guy on that show that made me want to stop hiding in the closet, cause it felt like a big wieght was lifted off of my shoulders when i told, and i knew it would feel that way, but it scared me of what people would say, and all the way down in the US and in the georgia state, it is hard, down here, but once i did everyone was scared at first then got use to it

  • Mmmm my mom found my journal and me and my parents had a talk and they were almost ganna take me to a freaking theropist and I was like oh hell no, so they told me I'm confused and stuff but I never listen to them ugh eapecially my dad bugs alot asking if I have a gf and in my mind I'm all like, um dad I'm gay remember? lolz but I know someday they know and I hope they do accept me...I'm just 15 lolz

  • i came out wen i was like 13 2 my frend who i thought i could trust but she told the whole school so now the only frends i hav r the 1s who dont no but that wont even last long

  • I haven't actually told my parents yet... I am going to wait until later in high school maybe when I am a sophmore...

  • You're gorgeous, totally luffing the hair!!! :)

  • such a prissy little faggot , hippies are best, smoke weed , eat and sleep...

  • You don't become gay, you are from birth. Discovery is part of growing emotionally with yourself. Self esteem and not Pride (stolen esteem)

    Only you will gauge when the time is right, get your options for what may go wrong so you have built a base for all situations before coming out. Plan your coming out before doing it.

    Good luck, and remember God made you gay, liars take God to court, they are called pious self righteous liars. Most of them don't even know who God is.

    HallEluYah.

  • i support gay ppl cuse i think they r awsome i have a couple of gays friends and i love them alot so i think being gay to me is the same if u liked girls so yeh 4 me its not a big deal so good 4 u that u r gay(: and haha ur freakin awsome 2

    ~JeSsIcA

  • you are so right and cute so tahnks you forgot bisexual

  • Im thirteen and im gay, i came out to my friends last year and my sister afew months ago, and only cause shes bi. But im to afraid to come out to my parents because im afraid of what there reaction will be because there like hardcore catholic school kids, and they already cant stand and dont want me, so i think that it will just push them over the line

  • wow ur really cute...do u have a myspace?

  • Wow, australian's emo are better than italians'

  • You are a real emo?

  • mathew lush is my freind on myspace he is supper kool

  • Dude! emo . GAY. AUSTRALIAN!!! YOU COULD POSSIBLY BE THE BEST FRIEND EVER THAT LIVED!!!! =D

  • O.M.Gee. Your hot ;) Im moving to australia in 3 years (I'l be 16) and I'm kinda emo :) I'm a bit worried that I won't fit in :l Is there many emo kids in australia? (I know its nothing to do with your video, sorry XD ) <3 Your videos btw :)

  • you're so cute... I said to my best friend that i'm bi and she said to me, that this isn't a problem for her... But I'm scared about, what my brothers and my parents could say... I dont want to tell them anything of it...

    (sorry if i said something wrong, my english isn't the best i guess...)

  • Are there really parents who kick their children out of their house or harm them just because they're not straight? That's really really really sad ...

  • Australian accents are so amazingly hot. =P But good job on the video!

  • hmmm , my parents r nt so open , my dad says if im gay is goin to force me to change, and taking me to therapist...

  • I came out yesterday  O.o

    Thanks u r so hot :3

  • Hey im bi and iv been doing loads of thinking over the past year or two and iv just now decided to tell my friends that i am bi and they are cool with that but i really dont know when and how to tell my parents that im bi? xox

  • Thanks I.O.U my life xxx 8D

  • You like fish sticks?

  • omg your soooo hot (L)

  • I wish my phone made that noise xD. Anyways , your accent is amazing and why do all hot guys have to be gay? ): you make me wanna have a sex change LOL. <3. :) -x

  • U ROCK XD <3

  • God Loves the Gays, And So Does Lady Gaga" The God Of Pop.

    When i came out about 5 months ago it was hard... but it was best. Being trapped in the closet almost drove me crazy, i couldnt talk about anything i wanted to because some of it was about guys and boyfriends and all that stuff.

    I came out to all my friends, not family yet! Im too young, I ish 12. (:

    Just come out when your ready.

    Ps. Jesse is hott. ^-^

    ------------------------------­-----

    Lots of Love

    Xoxo

    KellyBoi/Bunny

  • lol, i think its really funny how some people ( catholics) say that being GBLT is unnatural, yet apparentlky, a man walking on water, rising from the dead and another parting water, is natural, lol, religion is fucked up !

  • o lord you're cute... and the accent adds to it *DROOL*

  • God created Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve!!!

    lol just jking god doesnt exist

  • hahahahahahahhahahah xD good one xD

  • Beauchmasta,

    The belief that God hates gays is kind of contradictary to the fact that GOD LOVES EVERYONE WHO LOVES HIM!!!

    If God hates gays, why did he create them!

    Thank you sooooo much Jesse xxx

  • I sooooo agree with you!!!

  • god made man in his image...... suck on that christianity !!!

  • @Willzdc god doesnt exist lol

  • Jebus you're hot

  • gay guys know about girls, help me please

  • just tell tem and get over it my sister was cool with it

  • Tell me this guy has a facebook!

    *I have a new phone! Look at me new phone! Whoo! Whoo!*

  • OMG HOW CAN YOU BE GAY.... your so hot D=

  • because these kind of guys are always either bi- or homosexual. Just look at him ROFL! He`s one of those LEANDROS!!!!

  • i like your hair :D

  • yo so hot

  • Me,Mother Im homosexual. She, Would you have sex with Rock Hudson? me, In a heart beat. She called a priest which surprised me; shes an Atheist. He talked sin. She hung up and said, This man has nothing for you. She gave me Walt Whitmans Leaves of Grass saying, Read this, youll find beautiful things for you in it.; lines like, Oh boy of responding kisses and We lay in the field at nigh. I loved my Mother before her gift. After it I knew she loved me. I was 14. This was in 1958.

  • You were so lucky! You had a loving, wonderfully intelligent mother. I wish every mother and father were.

  • Me also...

  • i'm 22 and can't let my family know or my friends i'm living a lie

  • HAHA

  • hmm lovely i dont know why i clicked on this im not gay or bi but i do like ur hair :D

  • Whops stupid I touch ha ha ha ur cute I came out when I was 12 and kept it a secret till 14 now every one knows !

  • Hah

  • Coming out to myself was an issue for me.

  • buddy, i think they knew you were gay once they saw ya.

  • I just want to say that, for one, im gay, i didn't come out to my parents till i was 18, I will say that coming out to my parents was one of the hardest, yet relieving experiences.. I know people are afraid to come out to thier parents, but most of the time they will love you no matter what... my dad was cool with it, however, my mom was very harsh about it......

  • W/O the mom thing. I feel the xact same thing!

  • I've come Out 2 all my friends dat i can trust.... nd a few dat i cant, i also came out 2 one of my older cousins but i'm nt ready 2 come out 2 my parents yet. My advice 2 any1 hu wants 2 come out is pick one person hu u can trust nt 2 tell any1 nd tell them first....there is no need to tell everyone at once. I think u are completly gorgeous btw :) xx

    (age 15)

  • cuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuute!!!­!!

    <3

  • For those people who are asking...

    Pansexual and omnisexual is when like ur like attracted to them romantically or sexual desire for someone not realated to their sexuality... :)

    And I'm a lesbian and from australia too! :D haha

  • Muskiskoka: If You look the date on this video is 2007 babe [;

  • i havent come out im to scared to

  • you think thats a new phone? we had that 3 years ago lol

  • what the bloody hell is pan omni ????

    interesting

    im bi

  • So many gay australians. Like how do their dads have children? lol

  • It may be a stretch for you to understand, but gay people can have children too. In fact, now hold in tight ,,, they do!

  • "When you become gay" What are you on about. I never became gay it's just who I am. I was born like this.

  • eve's

    its more of a general term...you cant really suit everyone can you?

    i dont really have a belief either way because its not provable..

  • Okay no worries mate.

    I think you are born gay to be honest. Weren't you just born this way?

  • @Jessematheson LOL? So? You would still know if you "Became" gay or not....you would still know if it was a choice no matter what so I don't see the improtance of that comment...

  • what the the song at the first bit of the video?

  • Dance floor anthem good charlotte

  • dAMM THis guy

    is HOt!

  • i'm a girl but i love gay

    male chick gay....male chick gay...

  • UR A TODAL GAY GUY.....SHWEET!! cus i iz BI BABE MPOWahAHAH IMa EAT UR MUFFENS

  • what's an omni ?

  • maybe laterz but not now. :D

  • ya... it took me a while to decide whether i was bi or not, idk why it was confusing but i was bi courious for some time. it wasn't hard coming out to my friends about it cuz the school that i'm in right now, there's tons of bi's, lesbians, and gays, most of my friends were bi anywayz. so that wasn't a challenge at all really. and the whole parent thing.. no way :P i know my parents, my brothers autistic so he's the star child, they know nothing thats going on in my life, so i'm not going to try

  • the song at the begining is the anthem by good charlotte

  • im not gay, im just straight, but i dont think " comming out " should be hard, obv it effects other people, but fuck them? its your choice if they dont unerstand that then they arnt worth it ?

  • Try telling your parents you're gay when you wake up tomorrow and maybe you'll begin to have an inkling of what gays have to go through, LouisReeceWinter. Or tell your girl friend you're breaking up with her because you're really gay and prefer boys. You can't even imagine the shit you'll go through!

  • I love the song at the beginning! What was it?

  • Gays are hot. lol

  • this wud be a reli good vid for my brother he's gay but scared to come out to my parents lol btw ur reli cute

  • my mum didnt mind that i was emo! but when she found out that i was bi she was really upset and didnt want to talk to me but she gave up

    dont say anything

  • k every body add me k.... i really need people i can trust 2 talk 2!!

  • you are vary cute i wish i lived in australia

  • my parents started flipping out when she found out i was emo !

  • i admire you maaan :)

  • Finally AN AUSTRALIAN!!!

    um ill ad my vid SOON!

  • ps, byron bay is awesome, that is a prettty cool gay scene. lol

  • awesome vid, nice to hear an aussie accent again. as a young gay aussie guy myself its nice to see u talking so honestly and openly.

    thanks

    Matt

  • Best coming out video ive seen, addressed a lot of things that other ones didnt. I think you're a very intelligent (and cute) person.

  • i told some of my friends n they took it ok but then 1 of them started tellin like other ppl dat i didnt no wat 2 do so i went threw some hard times wit dat i also told my mom idk what her reaction was but how do u tell ur dad wen he think gays r not right

  • Hi all im new here on You tube im Gay(male ) and looking to hook up in Aus !! I find it hard to find crew in my area and looking to move on please Call me im Brad 0419658463...Thanks. Very nice Video.

  • how old r u just asking..... i live in america.... im either bi or gay of course, guys are sooooo much better! lol give me a message bak! *kiss kiss* lol -^ . ^-

  • Hi Jesse you really helped me thanx

    (u r the fucking hottest guy on the planet)

  • i love you!

  • okk. I'll get onto doing a coming out video

    =3

    <3 Maxx

  • Good stuff Mr Spunky, you're so not emo...you're too cute and totally not a depressed budgey. love the hair keep it up sweetie.

  • Get a life!

    *shakes head at bigot*

  • very nice...

  • DAMN! Would you be mine

  • hi there can u b my boyfrend hehehe

  • peace out hotty

  • You guys celebrate Mardi Gras?? Awesome!! I'm from Louisiana, I went to New Orleans for Mardi Gras a few weeks ago!! : D

  • you told your nan??!!

    Love you <3

  • Whats with people and youtube hah!! XD

  • No actually Gob is Bob spelled wrong

  • no to both of those answers you dick

  • oh im gay so yea i don't go for girls

  • actually god doesn't exist and its very ironic that you say niggers are bad when jesus himself was black haha you are a redneck you dumb fuck haha

  • you know what im not arguing with someone who isn't even a real christian

  • really insulting homosexuals isn't going to do you good in any way man...

  • OMG!! JUST THE FUCK UP!! what the hell is wrong with you???

  • nothings wrong with me

    but you wow you'll need at least 10 years of therapy with your fucked up attitude

    goodbye

  • ohh

    i wasnt even talking to you. idk how it went to your comment. i was talking to poopdoolarroo.

  • wow, you seriously need help. im not even gay. but i do think what youre saying is VERY WRONG and hurtful.

  • thats the way he wants to live

  • My god man. are you still ragging on this guy? I mean shit I'm sure there are plenty of ruggby players at his school to make sure that his life is miserable enough to kill the jocks then himself and maybe a jesus freak or 2 killing 3 birds with one stone.

  • so what? go away.

  • Dang. marry me?

  • heeeyj xD

  • *looks at my phone .. wooo hooo *

    bahaha

    no IDEA why that made me laff so much for bahahaha

    ur coming out story was much more interesting then lush's or sleds babahahaha

  • I just saw one of your videos about hair and thought it was really interesting to see two very different sides of you. Serious vs, no offense, flamboyant. I think the more people watch this, the more the gay community will be respected. Thanks for making this vid.

  • but now theres just explaining the emo part... i mean you dont seem very emo to me buut is just the hair orr.. what