The true core of the problem is todays ultra-feminist black grandmothers who rebelled and went from being strong black women who were the rock of their families to being loud and extremely proud strong totally independent gangsta b****es who have extremely warped concepts of strength and masculinity.
As is very concisely explained in the book called "The Black Girl Curse" no one had ever heard of strong totally independent black women before the advent of mass govt assistance in the mid 70s.
Your style is divine. Post traumatic slavery syndrome is a silent killer. The Bible instructs its followers not to choose the ways of the oppressor. We've done just the opposite. If we're smart
enough to know better, then we should be smart enough to do better.
@TheFlutevisions Ephesians 5:21-23 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
@abhilashasooveet Ephesians 5:21-23 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
There is a very informative book called "The Black Girl Curse" that covers this exact subject. Black men were falling and crawling to black women until black women completely lost their minds behind an absolute tsunami of government assistance programs in the mid 70's and early 80's that ranged from free rent and medical care to free on the job training to preferred military recruiting for minority females and since the mid 70's there has been a mass exodus away from black women.
WOW! You must be the 1st sista who is a 1.Educated and 2. Emotionally Stable! I'm a latino man and I have NEVER met a mature lady your age. Keep doing what your doing.
The sister said a women in her 50 or older or sista please some need to shut up some time.I would like to leave u with this in 1967-1977a name Vietnam war darthed your father and brother 18 years and older andsome when to jail who was left to raised black son and daughters BLACK WOMEN .the some men and women u what to check them raised them your leaders,your revolutionary bro,your early 70s hophip artist raised by single moms and your black panther sista soldier.Their dont stand behind but
WOW! conscious black women AKA mother earth without u there NO NO!!!! black men or as u put it Horus.We need to understand queen dont stand behind her king she stand with him and a conscious (awakeing person) women and men know it.So when u say who will check the black women no one need to you teach them give true info.if they get or not .
Wow! So glad to hear a sister say what I've been saying for years.
One sister even cussed me out because I said I don't date women with children. She was basically saying it's okay for women to have standards (I.E., Man must be over 6 feet tall- unless she needs help raising some tall guy's kids). I simply refuse to be a "Plan B" for some woman who now realizes the thugs who left her with kids were not as good as a choice as a "nice boring guy". I invite you to see my Aimed At America videos.
Well, black men trash and disrespect black women all the time on "national TV". They exploit black women for their own monetary gain all the time. Black comedians, actors, black rappers/singers, etc...they all exploit and disrespect black women.
So a black woman telling that clown to shut up really isn't all that bad, if you think about it.
GAH! It's the face of THE PREDATOR! She's going to have her face split open at the jawline and 4 giant fangs will poke out. Run boys before this alien space beast turns invisible and then rips your skull and spinal cord out... RUN!!!!
Tell me if I am wrong, but hasnt the liberal political wing of government perpetuated this type of behavior by telling blacks that white people owe them for slavery and builds a false sense of entitlement which also breeds a lack of personal responsibility? Instead of black people working hard and building an identity of productivity and healthy living, its been subverted with welfare dependence, entitlement attitude?
Not to mention the culture destruction glamorized by drug/crime in rap
Now see u I want to learn from not many older Africans talkin anything of substance about anything any more they kinda just go with the flow of America like we never had any culture beliefs or ways of being I always knew their ways were not ours
I love you sister! You have a very deep understanding of the real issues. You're speaking truth. You understand what's going on. We need more sisters like yourself. It's like this: Black women get themselves in proper oder; consequently, the house gets in order, and it follows then that the whole community will get in order. Then the brothers--those out of order--will have no other choice but to get themselves in order. There would be no escape from it or excuses.
the fact that the black community needs checks & balances, further shows how we are no longer unified and starting to become a non civilized, dysfunctional race. rising from slavery, and creating discontent within our own race and culture is just sickening.
Sister Okeba thank you for being a beautiful light and inspiration! I just finished reading your Radical Ways book yesterday and I will tell you that it was one of the most insightful books that I have read in a very long time. You presented some real challenges, but your healing solutions were full of love and wisdom. You are very wise for your years. I know that your work was inspired by God and the ancestors. Please continue the work that you are doing.
Thank you or this message!!! In my opinion there is no creation more beautiful than a black woman. However, sometimes loving a sista can feel like swimming against a tidal wave. Good men want peace, understanding, & respect, which is something that we usually don't get from the outside world. I oftentimes see brothas walking behind their wives with their heads hung low while the wife is stomping like Genghis Khan. If sistas would just build us up, they might just enjoy the results! Peace
So i stop speaking about because i realised that no one is going to check this woman and it's preventing her from progress. The other black women at work do not have the stereotypical attitude but yet they are not interested in check black women who do.
This is so true there is a particular black girl at work who is an out of work actor and i know she is frustrated but her attitude is completely wrong the white mangers are too scared to say anything to her me and this girl became friends and she is a really funny sociable outgoing person very popular. but when she gets out of hand she think because she is black it give a license to be rude i checked her but she turn on me and when is spoke to other black women they make excuses for her.
Excellent video. It opens up discussion on the refinement of our women. It is not all about being cute and having a "good" job (working to uphold this system). That is not true womenhood. A true woman knows how to use her tongue wisely, respectfully and does due diligence in her thoughts and actions. We have lost this in many ways. OKeba is opening the conversation that few are brave enough to open. You are a rare gem, a true Goddess to be protected and honored.
Um people yell out on national TV all the time none checks anybody on television it is kept for the entertainment to keep the audience attention. If it bothers you turn the television off. People of all races yell out on national television why does a black person on TV the only needs to get check. Oppression at its finest.
what about men they don't need to be disrespecting women either, no but its all about the women they the only ones who need to be check because there always the ones wrong guys are never wrong
My goodness, I don't even know where to start with this. Some of what you say is true, but you need to really talk about what is really going on out there.
Black ( Womb)men and Men are being Checked by the system. I see many brother's of the conscious community Praise the White and Red sister while their black daughter's are left feeling insecure. I am off the Afro centric movement back to being Pro Mother, when a man realize that the ( WOMB)men should be honor and respect then we have a peaceful world. We teach our male children
about the GOD like ability but our DAUGHTERS SUFFER..
Sisters have to share in the responsibility of our men 'praising the white & red sister'.
If 70% if our sons are born to into our homes that are without men, then we are for the most part raising them.
That being said, we mothers must be doing and/or NOT doing something that contributes to our sons' rejection of us & our daughters. We have to raise our sons to be the disciplined, self respecting, responsible & courageous men that WE would want to build a life with...
@10Musicislove1 Well said, I'm with you 100%.Too much abuse, violence & crimes against the female gender. the overwhelmingly majority committed by the male gender. They lack respect for women, forgetting that they came from the womb of a woman, without women they wouldn't exist. Men planted the seed, but women watered, nurtured & cared for it. A woman's body is the fertile seed that promotes it's growth. I wish more men would recognize, so they'll be better able to appreciate & respect us women
@mayorofblacktown2 CHECKING THE SISTERS? who the fuck do sisters listen to? any fucking thing that is critical to the black woman she aint damn listening, she think she so damnnn stronnngg , but all the bitch can dio at the end of the day is call the white man on you and hide behind him , jeering you, NOT ALL black women but most need to be checked Verbally and sometimes with the ONE HAND yes lol , and brothers need to check each other
The behavior of old middle young black women is absolutely TRAGIC! The majority becomes the norm and then the few that have dignity is considered an enigma. We can also speak up by refusing to befriend and "amen" black women when they are behaving badly. Do not laugh, do not smile, do not speak to them when they behavior in public with malicious intent. The checks and balances left when many black women wanted to rub elbows with the white female in the 60's feminist movement on college campuses.
a gr8 topic ! and well addressed too Sis ..... in this time area both parties and the even the children are out of order !! we as a race are out of balance .... the young and the old .... theres no point that our men or children getting there act together and the women are still clueless or behaving wreck less. We must check what see , eat , drink , & listen too , and what we medicate our bodies with , these factors are altering the minds of our peeps and are driving them crazy literally !!
@Gypsy, take some time to absorb...she's speaking for you for they do not know what they do, her agenda is "the" agenda which will restore our cities and stop our children from killing each other and free our brothers. No disrespect, but maybe you have not embraced you as a black woman, that which you are. Yes, men have their own action's but men do what we allow them to do. If all sisters were in fact sisters men would have no leverage to pull anything on anyone and would strive more to honor.
Sorry. Nobody is reverting backwards. I don't know what culture you're speaking about or what people you're speaking for but I disagree with your stance solely on the fact that you're focusing on women's responses that you feel are negative but completely disregarding the man's actions that warranted the response. "Our culture" "who we are as a people"? Who are you speaking for? Definitely not me, as a black woman. Anyway good luck with your agenda.
Ur hair is Beauitful Sista Ive been Growing Locks for Almost a Year Now but I feel much Closer Etc..to my Creator and this is GOOD Video U had Great Points Your Spirit is Sweet Peace U brought your message Well&Out of Luv Much Respect!!!!!!!!!
no one is checking black sistah's coz no one wants to deal with them, i love my black sisters coz im a black woman but i really cannot deal with their attitudes and it hurts because we as black women are looked down upon in the eyes of society so my question is how do WE as black women come together even if we have to march and show the world that we got this sisterly love and is willing to give FREELY and we're more then what ppl portray us to be in the media ...giving love and peace to all :)
Awesome video, wish we could clone you, so we'd have more like you out there. Then maybe we could get this problem with black relationships cleaned up.
Sister Okeba, I believe that I like this video better than the first one. You went more in depth about proper alignment (even dropped the science of Asar, Aset and Heru). Our women (and men) need to study the story of the 14 pieces of Asar and see why it is most necessary at this time that we begin to RESPECTFULLY check the Black woman.
osunk 2 you motivate me to want to be a better more efficient ok well at least maintain that becuz I'm no slouch.....my natural male sense burst with ambition when a sister like you speaks and addresses men and women fairly i wouldn't mind being in a matriarchal society under women of your essence and caliber your the type of woman and i know thers more who motivates men like me it feels natural i mean my internal "man gps" is responsive....am i the best no can i do better yes
this goddess is real....i mean it ain't about being bias towards females or women but if your honest with yourself its a lot of ish that "sisters go unchecked on the source of balance lies in the female whether that source is generated for the good and better ment of the people or the destruction honestly imo women are loving creatures by nature bcuz she is nature but apparently she is readily guilded to self infliction........so much to it
I do not think a man needs a woman to "put him on the throne." Either the relationship is sound or it is not. If both are observant enough to see problems then they can take measures to adjust or to separate. In my opinion; the mere act of having to place another on a throne means someone will be subject/slave or serf to them. This imposed serfdom is problematic at best and relationship suicide at worse. Plus it encourages co-dependency and yields a symbiotic relationship.
families the position of the mother was valued (in many ways..again not all) over that of the father. Men where just considered depositors of genetic material and wallets not to be honored as fathers. Plus, many women were taught (from my experience and those of others I intimately know) to placate the male, allow him to think he had a position of equality or leadership and undermine his efforts by means of stealth. Sometimes directly depending on the neurosis of the people involved.
various unstable elders, institutions, media, etc. has encouraged people to behave in irrational ways. It sells corrupted unity of self and materializes love! If you are a fragmented individual there is little to no chance you will be able to deal with others; from a healthy position. Plus people do not (on average) question why they do what they do or think for themselves!
Then there is the issue of equality between the sexes. When looking at many (not all) black
Hmmm yes I agree that systems...especially religious, all racial organizations, and political need to be "checked". I prefer to use the word inspected. But genders? No, I respectfully submit that adults should be capable (without outside influence) to accomplish this feat.
As far as public interactions contemptuous (maybe that is too strong of a word) or disrespectful behavior between black men and women...well, this will not stop! The programming of
@NatTurnerIsAlive Well, not everyone. My family is traditional in regards to keeping our women in check. And I am very quick to call bullshit on anyone especially a woman.
@NatTurnerIsAlive Its clear that you are here on YouTube to mock,shame,harass,insult,put down,distort & defame Black females while deceptively proclaiming to 'help them'.None of your many YT personalities offer pro Black male /female unity.Quite the contrary. Your so-called 'gender war' (but actualy anti black foolishness) doesn't pass unnoticed by wide awake Africans,who actualy love the opposite sex & our Beautiful black babies & honor the good intentions of our elders.We see you.
@NatTurnerIsAlive where's YOUR DVD on how to raise intelligent Black children that don't go to prison or become homo's and lesbo- bulldaggers? O,i forgot..Black men becoming homo's & women lesbos & both black men & women becoming interacialist & or being in prison instead of the front lines fighting together,as united Africans fighting for Black liberation & againts white supremacy IS your entire default effect & purpose on YouTube.
@NatTurnerIsAlive Why don't you try 'exposing the lies & deceit' of whites againt Black & the mentality that whiteness imposes in the minds of it victims,Black Men AND women AND children?'Gender war' is a willilynch tactict to promote disunity in the core building & reproduction unit of the Black community,the male/female unit.And YOU-tHE1iAm38,illumantiDaDon,IntellegentBlack Man,NatTurnerIsAlive- probably all the same person-are willi lynches' principle agent on YouTube at present.
@tHE1iAm38 & NatTurnerIsAlive(who some believe is the same person) why don't you go & try to destabilise white male & female relationships?Why don't you make multiple YT accounts & target the authors of Black peoples pain & confusion,the white collective,instead of its prey,the global captive African & dark nation?We all know the answer.You work for white supremacy againts Black people,thats why.
@NatTurnerIsAlive;I think blackwomen would rather make a DVD talking about their hair as oppose to making a DVD talking about how to raise intelligent Black children who don't go to prison.LoL!!!!!!
@NatTurnerIsAlive......CONT'D(3).....she mention the effect that racism/white supremacy,has had on the global black community.And yes.......All of this goddess talk,"only serves to boost matriarchy",as you stated in a previous comment.I'm glad you peaked that as well.We have a lot of afrocentric feminist running around our communities who want blackmen/boys to worship them.
@tHE1iAm38 "We have a lot of afrocentric feminist running around our communities who want black men/boys to worship them" as opposed to what?You & your other YT personalities,ie 'Nat Turner Is Alive' who by your relentless anti black female campaigns worship white women(& white men) by default?Healthy Black people should worship,honor & treasure the opposite sex reflections among black people.The fact that you have a 'problem' with it just reveals another further clue as to what you r
@NatTurnerIsAlive;Bruh......I wouldn't even waste my time going back and forth with the person who goes by the username "yorubablk3".You see how this user dodged your questions,tried to put words in your mouth and tried to flip the script and accuse you of being a double agent when in all actuality...they are the one who come on to youtube and continually act as a agent provocateur.But anywho.....CONT'D
@tHE1iAm38 You call dialoguing with me a 'waste of time' be cause i'm on to your multiple YT identity anti Black heterosexual rant.But as 'sybil-crazy' & anti black as you want to be ,you will FAIL,because Black men & women will find each other & unite & raise new generations to overcome you & your masters foolishness.Black unity is inevitable & Black people will win.You will lose.
That girl in the McDonald's who was cursing out that woman and her kids needed to be checked. Her hunger for fast food wasn't greater than any other person in that line.
@buttaluv10 Not "what,"WHO.Heru (Horus) is the "divine" son of the god & goddess Ausar & Auset of ancient KMT (Egypt). He is the original Christ figure. And the three: Ausar, Auset & Heru represent the 1st Holy Trinity (Father, Son & Holy Ghost--originally Auset/Isis). Heru represents the warrior male figure who is honorable; he is a fighter & protector; he avenged his father's death & was guided by Wisdom (Tehuti). Look up his name & you'll find more. Thanks for the question.
@OsunK2 I'm familiar with Heru so I kind of figured it had some connection. And actually based on my research Christ nor God is part of a "trinity" and although the stories of Heru and Jesus are similar they are in fact not the same(i.e. Jesus was not born on Dec 25,etc)...but thanks for answering my question. :-)
@buttaluv10 Haru is the true name of the Black male in his free & sovereign state of being & with the accompanying mindset. It is taken from the name of the Neter Haru,what some write as the God Heru, or the God Horus from which the english word 'Hero' ultimately extrapolates from.
@NatTurnerIsAlive U wrote "I love ALL Black women and men".Yet on your page you allow a poster "IntellegentBlack Male"- who recently posted on young ra warriors page : KILL ALL BLACK WOMEN.ALL OF THEM" & on your page "The white man and the black woman is the black man's sworn enemy. We as black men must destroy our enemie without further hesitation" - & who some think is just one of your many YT Avatars,to freely post countrary messages,none of which go countered by you.
@NatTurnerIsAlive And while you're on your idiotic & anti Black rant.,& since you are such an 'adovacate' & promoter of "YouTube Exsposers",can you point us to the channels were SUCCESFUL ,self affirming people have channels were the Males denounce the females & the females denounce the males & thus the whole people is advanced & overcomes its enemy?Thanks.We're waiting.
@NatTurnerIsAlive White people create & foster conditions in those they target for attack & subjugation acts that facilitate their aims.They promote DISUNITY.It is up to the target,Black PEOPLE,not genders separately or generations separately,but Black PEOPLE as a collective,interdependent WHOLE,to counter those anti black aims & promote our own success & survival as a PEOPLE,together.
@NatTurnerIsAlive No,but in conditions of global captivity of the African collective which results in the fact that Africans globally don't control our resources,lands or in many cases our minds,a circular firing squad inside the central core of the Black reproduction unit is both counter intuitive & counter productive.To advocate it from either gender or generational group is a form of suicide in the face of the enemy.
@NatTurnerIsAlive :Stop pushing anti Black ethnocide. Black ethnocide is not an answer to Black genocide.Both end in Black death.Neither of which the actual 'Nat Turner' or anyone in his true legacy will uphold.Black men & women need to come together& not be driven further apart..
@yorubablk3 - look silly women, when did I say leave Black women alone? We do need to come together, but we don't need to come together as dummies, we need to examine the Black woman's behavior, it's origins and pathology. I know what I'm doing and I'm really good at doing it. The Black woman has never been examined in America, UNTIL I GOT IT STARTED ON YOUTUBE!
@NatTurnerIsAlive I know what you are doing as well.You are poring salt in the wounds that the white collective opened with its war on global African & dark people.You are a divide & counter agent for the white collectives' war on Black heterosexual union.
@NatTurnerIsAlive And Black women ,men & children have ALWAYS been examined,by our white captures.This examination started in Naukritis in Kemet & the info gathered has been used in a millennial war againts African people.While upper & lower Kemet was engaged in a silly fratricidal war that culminated in Black overthrow,whites were examine how to use the issues we raised to benefit them.The lessen they learned:Black disunion helps them.Black unity defeats them.Its all quite simple & fundamental
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The true core of the problem is todays ultra-feminist black grandmothers who rebelled and went from being strong black women who were the rock of their families to being loud and extremely proud strong totally independent gangsta b****es who have extremely warped concepts of strength and masculinity.
As is very concisely explained in the book called "The Black Girl Curse" no one had ever heard of strong totally independent black women before the advent of mass govt assistance in the mid 70s.
pc0p1mp 1 week ago
very good video
GQbum 2 weeks ago
Your style is divine. Post traumatic slavery syndrome is a silent killer. The Bible instructs its followers not to choose the ways of the oppressor. We've done just the opposite. If we're smart
enough to know better, then we should be smart enough to do better.
TheFlutevisions 1 month ago
@TheFlutevisions Ephesians 5:21-23 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
LISTENtotheMANofGOD 1 month ago
hahahahahaha ur into patriachal stuff sista
abhilashasooveet 1 month ago
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@abhilashasooveet Ephesians 5:21-23 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
LISTENtotheMANofGOD 1 month ago
I'm going to spread this around!
Dtoldon 1 month ago
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There is a very informative book called "The Black Girl Curse" that covers this exact subject. Black men were falling and crawling to black women until black women completely lost their minds behind an absolute tsunami of government assistance programs in the mid 70's and early 80's that ranged from free rent and medical care to free on the job training to preferred military recruiting for minority females and since the mid 70's there has been a mass exodus away from black women.
pc0p1mp 1 month ago
This is brilliant!!! What a SISTER!!!!!!
malarki5 1 month ago
i will buy the book. she is saying the truth
emmanuel43 2 months ago
WOW! You must be the 1st sista who is a 1.Educated and 2. Emotionally Stable! I'm a latino man and I have NEVER met a mature lady your age. Keep doing what your doing.
Dave12371 2 months ago
Compare this message to the video called "What Women Want is Worship".
vincent15641 2 months ago
Hotep!
williams0530 3 months ago
Black women get checked in the video called "Top 10 Reasons Black Women are the Enemy".
vincent15641 3 months ago
your right about black women being unchecked thats why they act the way they act.
326Ka 4 months ago in playlist More videos from OsunK2
you are very positive, thank you for your messages
eliheru 4 months ago
The sister said a women in her 50 or older or sista please some need to shut up some time.I would like to leave u with this in 1967-1977a name Vietnam war darthed your father and brother 18 years and older andsome when to jail who was left to raised black son and daughters BLACK WOMEN .the some men and women u what to check them raised them your leaders,your revolutionary bro,your early 70s hophip artist raised by single moms and your black panther sista soldier.Their dont stand behind but
freedomfreewillthink 4 months ago
WOW! conscious black women AKA mother earth without u there NO NO!!!! black men or as u put it Horus.We need to understand queen dont stand behind her king she stand with him and a conscious (awakeing person) women and men know it.So when u say who will check the black women no one need to you teach them give true info.if they get or not .
freedomfreewillthink 4 months ago
If a woman is really feminine and if she is a non feminist, skin color is nothing important.
dulanthad 4 months ago
Wow! So glad to hear a sister say what I've been saying for years.
One sister even cussed me out because I said I don't date women with children. She was basically saying it's okay for women to have standards (I.E., Man must be over 6 feet tall- unless she needs help raising some tall guy's kids). I simply refuse to be a "Plan B" for some woman who now realizes the thugs who left her with kids were not as good as a choice as a "nice boring guy". I invite you to see my Aimed At America videos.
vincent15641 4 months ago
dont bother with a brother....just find another. LOL!
mrtundra45 6 months ago
Well, black men trash and disrespect black women all the time on "national TV". They exploit black women for their own monetary gain all the time. Black comedians, actors, black rappers/singers, etc...they all exploit and disrespect black women.
So a black woman telling that clown to shut up really isn't all that bad, if you think about it.
blahblahblahman 6 months ago
@blahblahblahman
BLACKWOMEN ARE STUPID noboddy is making do anything
JODYJOE 6 months ago
GAH! It's the face of THE PREDATOR! She's going to have her face split open at the jawline and 4 giant fangs will poke out. Run boys before this alien space beast turns invisible and then rips your skull and spinal cord out... RUN!!!!
Matrix29bear 7 months ago
Tell me if I am wrong, but hasnt the liberal political wing of government perpetuated this type of behavior by telling blacks that white people owe them for slavery and builds a false sense of entitlement which also breeds a lack of personal responsibility? Instead of black people working hard and building an identity of productivity and healthy living, its been subverted with welfare dependence, entitlement attitude?
Not to mention the culture destruction glamorized by drug/crime in rap
labartic 7 months ago
Gonna have to get that book too
zenith2070 7 months ago
Now see u I want to learn from not many older Africans talkin anything of substance about anything any more they kinda just go with the flow of America like we never had any culture beliefs or ways of being I always knew their ways were not ours
zenith2070 7 months ago
I love you sister! You have a very deep understanding of the real issues. You're speaking truth. You understand what's going on. We need more sisters like yourself. It's like this: Black women get themselves in proper oder; consequently, the house gets in order, and it follows then that the whole community will get in order. Then the brothers--those out of order--will have no other choice but to get themselves in order. There would be no escape from it or excuses.
pedrom41 7 months ago
the fact that the black community needs checks & balances, further shows how we are no longer unified and starting to become a non civilized, dysfunctional race. rising from slavery, and creating discontent within our own race and culture is just sickening.
Brookshiii 7 months ago
@Brookshiii Ditto!
pedrom41 7 months ago
this is an extremely BEAUTIFUL black woman !
JayT194 8 months ago
this is an extreeeeemmmely BEAUTIFUL black woman !
JayT194 8 months ago
she makes some interesting points.
watchMEshyne 8 months ago
Sister Okeba thank you for being a beautiful light and inspiration! I just finished reading your Radical Ways book yesterday and I will tell you that it was one of the most insightful books that I have read in a very long time. You presented some real challenges, but your healing solutions were full of love and wisdom. You are very wise for your years. I know that your work was inspired by God and the ancestors. Please continue the work that you are doing.
By the way, I love your videos too.
pritiToni3 1 year ago
Thank you or this message!!! In my opinion there is no creation more beautiful than a black woman. However, sometimes loving a sista can feel like swimming against a tidal wave. Good men want peace, understanding, & respect, which is something that we usually don't get from the outside world. I oftentimes see brothas walking behind their wives with their heads hung low while the wife is stomping like Genghis Khan. If sistas would just build us up, they might just enjoy the results! Peace
tazfam 1 year ago
So i stop speaking about because i realised that no one is going to check this woman and it's preventing her from progress. The other black women at work do not have the stereotypical attitude but yet they are not interested in check black women who do.
albaid 1 year ago
This is so true there is a particular black girl at work who is an out of work actor and i know she is frustrated but her attitude is completely wrong the white mangers are too scared to say anything to her me and this girl became friends and she is a really funny sociable outgoing person very popular. but when she gets out of hand she think because she is black it give a license to be rude i checked her but she turn on me and when is spoke to other black women they make excuses for her.
albaid 1 year ago
@albaid , sooo true. I've witnessed the same thing.
SLICENSLASH 8 months ago
maat!
biminij99 1 year ago
Any Black man who brings life thru a Black woman, and subject his seed to the Black woman's pathology is guilty of murder !
TheBlackGlenBeck 1 year ago
Excellent video. It opens up discussion on the refinement of our women. It is not all about being cute and having a "good" job (working to uphold this system). That is not true womenhood. A true woman knows how to use her tongue wisely, respectfully and does due diligence in her thoughts and actions. We have lost this in many ways. OKeba is opening the conversation that few are brave enough to open. You are a rare gem, a true Goddess to be protected and honored.
naazirra 1 year ago
Um people yell out on national TV all the time none checks anybody on television it is kept for the entertainment to keep the audience attention. If it bothers you turn the television off. People of all races yell out on national television why does a black person on TV the only needs to get check. Oppression at its finest.
serious7231 1 year ago
what about men they don't need to be disrespecting women either, no but its all about the women they the only ones who need to be check because there always the ones wrong guys are never wrong
aliyahlili 1 year ago
This sounds silly to say the very least. What was the parameters of the conversation? When does being a man trump being a elder?
AtlantaSistah 1 year ago 2
My goodness, I don't even know where to start with this. Some of what you say is true, but you need to really talk about what is really going on out there.
Morgainell 1 year ago
i dont agree tht brothas or sistas shld disrespect each other for the world to see
but
man: "talk to the bigger hand" (?)
woman: talk to the Original Hand
yes brothas know that they will get takin out if he puts his hand on a woman
..as he should
and no sistas should NOT provoke them at the same time
RootsRunDeeep 1 year ago
you resemble jackie-o the rapper from the south
RootsRunDeeep 1 year ago
Black ( Womb)men and Men are being Checked by the system. I see many brother's of the conscious community Praise the White and Red sister while their black daughter's are left feeling insecure. I am off the Afro centric movement back to being Pro Mother, when a man realize that the ( WOMB)men should be honor and respect then we have a peaceful world. We teach our male children
about the GOD like ability but our DAUGHTERS SUFFER..
10Musicislove1 1 year ago 4
@10Musicislove1
Sisters have to share in the responsibility of our men 'praising the white & red sister'.
If 70% if our sons are born to into our homes that are without men, then we are for the most part raising them.
That being said, we mothers must be doing and/or NOT doing something that contributes to our sons' rejection of us & our daughters. We have to raise our sons to be the disciplined, self respecting, responsible & courageous men that WE would want to build a life with...
DocsLocs 1 year ago
@10Musicislove1 Well said, I'm with you 100%.Too much abuse, violence & crimes against the female gender. the overwhelmingly majority committed by the male gender. They lack respect for women, forgetting that they came from the womb of a woman, without women they wouldn't exist. Men planted the seed, but women watered, nurtured & cared for it. A woman's body is the fertile seed that promotes it's growth. I wish more men would recognize, so they'll be better able to appreciate & respect us women
buttercup5773 1 year ago
A lot of sistas want violent men to check them. Unfortunately.
logician3 1 year ago 5
No one is checking black women BECAUSE SHE IS STILL THE PROPERTY OF WILLIE LYNCH SLAVE OWNERS, BUYERS, AND SELLERS OF SLAVES!!!!
Black women are still the white man's mammy (Oprah, mother-love, Queen-Latifah!)
Thanks for seeing that black Feminist women are OUT OF ORDER!
It seems the bedroom is the only place she allows black men to rule, control and dominate!
mayorofblacktown2 1 year ago
@mayorofblacktown2 CHECKING THE SISTERS? who the fuck do sisters listen to? any fucking thing that is critical to the black woman she aint damn listening, she think she so damnnn stronnngg , but all the bitch can dio at the end of the day is call the white man on you and hide behind him , jeering you, NOT ALL black women but most need to be checked Verbally and sometimes with the ONE HAND yes lol , and brothers need to check each other
americangangster86 8 months ago
The behavior of old middle young black women is absolutely TRAGIC! The majority becomes the norm and then the few that have dignity is considered an enigma. We can also speak up by refusing to befriend and "amen" black women when they are behaving badly. Do not laugh, do not smile, do not speak to them when they behavior in public with malicious intent. The checks and balances left when many black women wanted to rub elbows with the white female in the 60's feminist movement on college campuses.
estellelight 1 year ago 2
Sisters need to hear this. You're speaking truth Queen!
SacredWombman 1 year ago
Sisters need to hear this. You're speaking truth Queen!
SacredWombman 1 year ago
You are amazing Goddess! I thank you once again.
moonstar7 1 year ago
a gr8 topic ! and well addressed too Sis ..... in this time area both parties and the even the children are out of order !! we as a race are out of balance .... the young and the old .... theres no point that our men or children getting there act together and the women are still clueless or behaving wreck less. We must check what see , eat , drink , & listen too , and what we medicate our bodies with , these factors are altering the minds of our peeps and are driving them crazy literally !!
BlackRose938 1 year ago
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samanyarein 1 year ago
@Gypsy, take some time to absorb...she's speaking for you for they do not know what they do, her agenda is "the" agenda which will restore our cities and stop our children from killing each other and free our brothers. No disrespect, but maybe you have not embraced you as a black woman, that which you are. Yes, men have their own action's but men do what we allow them to do. If all sisters were in fact sisters men would have no leverage to pull anything on anyone and would strive more to honor.
samanyarein 1 year ago
Sorry. Nobody is reverting backwards. I don't know what culture you're speaking about or what people you're speaking for but I disagree with your stance solely on the fact that you're focusing on women's responses that you feel are negative but completely disregarding the man's actions that warranted the response. "Our culture" "who we are as a people"? Who are you speaking for? Definitely not me, as a black woman. Anyway good luck with your agenda.
GypsyQueen84 1 year ago
Ur hair is Beauitful Sista Ive been Growing Locks for Almost a Year Now but I feel much Closer Etc..to my Creator and this is GOOD Video U had Great Points Your Spirit is Sweet Peace U brought your message Well&Out of Luv Much Respect!!!!!!!!!
WeAllHavePain1 1 year ago
Thank you Auset
Ahkenra 1 year ago
WONDERFUL 100% TRUTH...BLESS YOU MY SISTAR! BALANCE IS THE KEY!
YoungRaWarrior 1 year ago
hmmm... u r very interesting.
pi6314159 1 year ago
i LOVE THIS!!
miatta91 1 year ago
no one is checking black sistah's coz no one wants to deal with them, i love my black sisters coz im a black woman but i really cannot deal with their attitudes and it hurts because we as black women are looked down upon in the eyes of society so my question is how do WE as black women come together even if we have to march and show the world that we got this sisterly love and is willing to give FREELY and we're more then what ppl portray us to be in the media ...giving love and peace to all :)
latonyalls 1 year ago 2
@latonyalls
You said it. No one can check the Black Woman but fellow Black Women. Us Brothers cannot do it without a huge backlash.
BIGBKELtheGOD 1 year ago
@BIGBKELtheGOD ..RIGHT! one day we'll get it together, if the brothers can have a million man march so can we sistah's!
latonyalls 1 year ago
wow i never heard a Ahkee talk like this verry intelegent shalom ..we need to respect our women also great job!
Law55987 1 year ago
We will continue to lose out until we get back to our culture. That is how order will fall into place.
NubianKeyuana1 1 year ago
Many people are lacking in a backbone and fear which prevents them from standing up in a respectful irrefutable grounds
NubianKeyuana1 1 year ago
Excellent video sister.
StatuesqueOne 1 year ago
Awesome video, wish we could clone you, so we'd have more like you out there. Then maybe we could get this problem with black relationships cleaned up.
CurtisNowTV 1 year ago
Teach Sista.... I AM SO LOVING THIS.... Peace and Bliss to you Queen thank you
Intouch34 1 year ago
Sister Okeba, I believe that I like this video better than the first one. You went more in depth about proper alignment (even dropped the science of Asar, Aset and Heru). Our women (and men) need to study the story of the 14 pieces of Asar and see why it is most necessary at this time that we begin to RESPECTFULLY check the Black woman.
justfarr1030 1 year ago
osunk 2 you motivate me to want to be a better more efficient ok well at least maintain that becuz I'm no slouch.....my natural male sense burst with ambition when a sister like you speaks and addresses men and women fairly i wouldn't mind being in a matriarchal society under women of your essence and caliber your the type of woman and i know thers more who motivates men like me it feels natural i mean my internal "man gps" is responsive....am i the best no can i do better yes
force999 1 year ago
this goddess is real....i mean it ain't about being bias towards females or women but if your honest with yourself its a lot of ish that "sisters go unchecked on the source of balance lies in the female whether that source is generated for the good and better ment of the people or the destruction honestly imo women are loving creatures by nature bcuz she is nature but apparently she is readily guilded to self infliction........so much to it
force999 1 year ago
I do not think a man needs a woman to "put him on the throne." Either the relationship is sound or it is not. If both are observant enough to see problems then they can take measures to adjust or to separate. In my opinion; the mere act of having to place another on a throne means someone will be subject/slave or serf to them. This imposed serfdom is problematic at best and relationship suicide at worse. Plus it encourages co-dependency and yields a symbiotic relationship.
EuphoricImpact 1 year ago
families the position of the mother was valued (in many ways..again not all) over that of the father. Men where just considered depositors of genetic material and wallets not to be honored as fathers. Plus, many women were taught (from my experience and those of others I intimately know) to placate the male, allow him to think he had a position of equality or leadership and undermine his efforts by means of stealth. Sometimes directly depending on the neurosis of the people involved.
EuphoricImpact 1 year ago
various unstable elders, institutions, media, etc. has encouraged people to behave in irrational ways. It sells corrupted unity of self and materializes love! If you are a fragmented individual there is little to no chance you will be able to deal with others; from a healthy position. Plus people do not (on average) question why they do what they do or think for themselves!
Then there is the issue of equality between the sexes. When looking at many (not all) black
EuphoricImpact 1 year ago
Hmmm yes I agree that systems...especially religious, all racial organizations, and political need to be "checked". I prefer to use the word inspected. But genders? No, I respectfully submit that adults should be capable (without outside influence) to accomplish this feat.
As far as public interactions contemptuous (maybe that is too strong of a word) or disrespectful behavior between black men and women...well, this will not stop! The programming of
EuphoricImpact 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive Well, not everyone. My family is traditional in regards to keeping our women in check. And I am very quick to call bullshit on anyone especially a woman.
DionLaurent1 1 year ago
My sentiments in verbal pefection. Blessings to you sista~~~
AfriNaija12 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive Its clear that you are here on YouTube to mock,shame,harass,insult,put down,distort & defame Black females while deceptively proclaiming to 'help them'.None of your many YT personalities offer pro Black male /female unity.Quite the contrary. Your so-called 'gender war' (but actualy anti black foolishness) doesn't pass unnoticed by wide awake Africans,who actualy love the opposite sex & our Beautiful black babies & honor the good intentions of our elders.We see you.
yorubablk3 1 year ago 2
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yorubablk3 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive where's YOUR DVD on how to raise intelligent Black children that don't go to prison or become homo's and lesbo- bulldaggers? O,i forgot..Black men becoming homo's & women lesbos & both black men & women becoming interacialist & or being in prison instead of the front lines fighting together,as united Africans fighting for Black liberation & againts white supremacy IS your entire default effect & purpose on YouTube.
yorubablk3 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive Why don't you try 'exposing the lies & deceit' of whites againt Black & the mentality that whiteness imposes in the minds of it victims,Black Men AND women AND children?'Gender war' is a willilynch tactict to promote disunity in the core building & reproduction unit of the Black community,the male/female unit.And YOU-tHE1iAm38,illumantiDaDon,IntellegentBlack Man,NatTurnerIsAlive- probably all the same person-are willi lynches' principle agent on YouTube at present.
yorubablk3 1 year ago
@tHE1iAm38 & NatTurnerIsAlive(who some believe is the same person) why don't you go & try to destabilise white male & female relationships?Why don't you make multiple YT accounts & target the authors of Black peoples pain & confusion,the white collective,instead of its prey,the global captive African & dark nation?We all know the answer.You work for white supremacy againts Black people,thats why.
yorubablk3 1 year ago 2
Excellent points made on this HOT topic. Your book is going to ROCK the world!! naazir!com
naazirra 1 year ago
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naazirra 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive;I think blackwomen would rather make a DVD talking about their hair as oppose to making a DVD talking about how to raise intelligent Black children who don't go to prison.LoL!!!!!!
tHE1iAm38 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive......CONT'D(3).....she mention the effect that racism/white supremacy,has had on the global black community.And yes.......All of this goddess talk,"only serves to boost matriarchy",as you stated in a previous comment.I'm glad you peaked that as well.We have a lot of afrocentric feminist running around our communities who want blackmen/boys to worship them.
tHE1iAm38 1 year ago
@tHE1iAm38 "We have a lot of afrocentric feminist running around our communities who want black men/boys to worship them" as opposed to what?You & your other YT personalities,ie 'Nat Turner Is Alive' who by your relentless anti black female campaigns worship white women(& white men) by default?Healthy Black people should worship,honor & treasure the opposite sex reflections among black people.The fact that you have a 'problem' with it just reveals another further clue as to what you r
yorubablk3 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive;Bruh......I wouldn't even waste my time going back and forth with the person who goes by the username "yorubablk3".You see how this user dodged your questions,tried to put words in your mouth and tried to flip the script and accuse you of being a double agent when in all actuality...they are the one who come on to youtube and continually act as a agent provocateur.But anywho.....CONT'D
tHE1iAm38 1 year ago
@tHE1iAm38 You call dialoguing with me a 'waste of time' be cause i'm on to your multiple YT identity anti Black heterosexual rant.But as 'sybil-crazy' & anti black as you want to be ,you will FAIL,because Black men & women will find each other & unite & raise new generations to overcome you & your masters foolishness.Black unity is inevitable & Black people will win.You will lose.
yorubablk3 1 year ago 6
That girl in the McDonald's who was cursing out that woman and her kids needed to be checked. Her hunger for fast food wasn't greater than any other person in that line.
SilentJutube 1 year ago
What is a haru?
buttaluv10 1 year ago
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yorubablk3 1 year ago
@yorubablk3 Interesting,thanks for sharing that with me.
buttaluv10 1 year ago
@buttaluv10 Not "what,"WHO.Heru (Horus) is the "divine" son of the god & goddess Ausar & Auset of ancient KMT (Egypt). He is the original Christ figure. And the three: Ausar, Auset & Heru represent the 1st Holy Trinity (Father, Son & Holy Ghost--originally Auset/Isis). Heru represents the warrior male figure who is honorable; he is a fighter & protector; he avenged his father's death & was guided by Wisdom (Tehuti). Look up his name & you'll find more. Thanks for the question.
OKeba
OsunK2 1 year ago 3
@OsunK2 I'm familiar with Heru so I kind of figured it had some connection. And actually based on my research Christ nor God is part of a "trinity" and although the stories of Heru and Jesus are similar they are in fact not the same(i.e. Jesus was not born on Dec 25,etc)...but thanks for answering my question. :-)
buttaluv10 1 year ago
@OsunK2 dont you think christianity stole this trinity method my sista? or what is it?
MDefsquad9 1 year ago
@OsunK2 A whole lot more. "Haru" (as well as Harou and Hiro) is a Japanese variant of the same Heru and Heru is the origin of the word HERO.
Others include Horus (Greek variant; hence HOURS, HOROScope and HORIZon) which can still be pronounced Heru with a silent 's' (hence HERUcles).
Bro. Bobby Hemmitt tells us that Ankor Wat (Ankh-HOR-Wat) was named for Heru.
We can also make a connection to the word HIERO (since vowel sounds are interchangable) which is Greek for "Holy" and/or "Sacred."
LLO525Star 1 year ago
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yorubablk3 1 year ago
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@buttaluv10 Haru is the true name of the Black male in his free & sovereign state of being & with the accompanying mindset. It is taken from the name of the Neter Haru,what some write as the God Heru, or the God Horus from which the english word 'Hero' ultimately extrapolates from.
yorubablk3 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive U wrote "I love ALL Black women and men".Yet on your page you allow a poster "IntellegentBlack Male"- who recently posted on young ra warriors page : KILL ALL BLACK WOMEN.ALL OF THEM" & on your page "The white man and the black woman is the black man's sworn enemy. We as black men must destroy our enemie without further hesitation" - & who some think is just one of your many YT Avatars,to freely post countrary messages,none of which go countered by you.
yorubablk3 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive And while you're on your idiotic & anti Black rant.,& since you are such an 'adovacate' & promoter of "YouTube Exsposers",can you point us to the channels were SUCCESFUL ,self affirming people have channels were the Males denounce the females & the females denounce the males & thus the whole people is advanced & overcomes its enemy?Thanks.We're waiting.
yorubablk3 1 year ago
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@NatTurnerIsAlive White people create & foster conditions in those they target for attack & subjugation acts that facilitate their aims.They promote DISUNITY.It is up to the target,Black PEOPLE,not genders separately or generations separately,but Black PEOPLE as a collective,interdependent WHOLE,to counter those anti black aims & promote our own success & survival as a PEOPLE,together.
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yorubablk3 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive No,but in conditions of global captivity of the African collective which results in the fact that Africans globally don't control our resources,lands or in many cases our minds,a circular firing squad inside the central core of the Black reproduction unit is both counter intuitive & counter productive.To advocate it from either gender or generational group is a form of suicide in the face of the enemy.
yorubablk3 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive I believe in all & anything that pushes Black people & Black life forward & in nothing that counteracts that.
yorubablk3 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive :Stop pushing anti Black ethnocide. Black ethnocide is not an answer to Black genocide.Both end in Black death.Neither of which the actual 'Nat Turner' or anyone in his true legacy will uphold.Black men & women need to come together& not be driven further apart..
yorubablk3 1 year ago
@yorubablk3 - look silly women, when did I say leave Black women alone? We do need to come together, but we don't need to come together as dummies, we need to examine the Black woman's behavior, it's origins and pathology. I know what I'm doing and I'm really good at doing it. The Black woman has never been examined in America, UNTIL I GOT IT STARTED ON YOUTUBE!
NatTurnerIsAlive 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive I know what you are doing as well.You are poring salt in the wounds that the white collective opened with its war on global African & dark people.You are a divide & counter agent for the white collectives' war on Black heterosexual union.
yorubablk3 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive And Black women ,men & children have ALWAYS been examined,by our white captures.This examination started in Naukritis in Kemet & the info gathered has been used in a millennial war againts African people.While upper & lower Kemet was engaged in a silly fratricidal war that culminated in Black overthrow,whites were examine how to use the issues we raised to benefit them.The lessen they learned:Black disunion helps them.Black unity defeats them.Its all quite simple & fundamental
yorubablk3 1 year ago
@yorubablk3 - do you respect ANYONE who critices Black women's behavior? If so , who?
NatTurnerIsAlive 1 year ago
@NatTurnerIsAlive Do you love any Black women? Who?
yorubablk3 1 year ago
@yorubablk3 - do you respect ANYONE who critices Black women's behavior? If so , who?
NatTurnerIsAlive 1 year ago
White supremacy needs to be checked
yorubablk3 1 year ago 2
i still love them cuz we both got some healing n de-programming to do
soularflarez 1 year ago
@soularflarez True words!ashe
yorubablk3 1 year ago
It's the time of Kali that divine feminine energy of change. Peace Goddess OKeba
TranscendentalProdco 1 year ago
respectful sister..good to see you again.
faynadia 1 year ago
I am a Haru and i will check a sister! Nice vid! Keep up the good work
777OGU 1 year ago
I'm checking sisters!
DionLaurent1 1 year ago 3