How do you know a woman is into you? Smile to you. Touch her hair. Laugh about your jokes even the unfunny ones. Scratch her hands, neck or face. Ask things about you. Leans in when talking to you. Licks het lips when talking to you. She touches you. She make contact with you. And much more!
This is just an example of negative thinking. Sure, if you make her laugh it doesn't mean she fancies you, what it does mean is you have a substantially better chance of taking it to the romantic level than if you bored her.
Good video, but you forgot to mention the difference between a actual smile and a polite smile. You kept saying if she is smiling then it a good sign, but its not really a good sign if its just a polite smile.
You're a big man, I'm sure. There are indeed subtle markers when to proceed with flirting instead of back away, not today, disco lady.
So I'm guessing your style of picking up women involves going to a bar where people are fuck drunk and a dry heave is easily mistaken for body language, so this may be above your head.
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Don't worry about HIV,STD's,Etc. You will not be alive long enough to be concerned about any of the above. Something a lot worse and way sooner than you think will happen to you.
Hell is quick is ready immediately as quick as the fun was over. You will forget about that after what happens to you immediately next.
Then you find out as you get ready to fuck her,she tells you she is married and has children. She tells you her husband spends too much time with his job career and not enough at home. Guys, stay the fuck away from any woman like that no matter how beautuful and fucking hot she looks. Death is right at her door!!!
It's important to view the body language as a whole; the meaning of certain cues means different things in different situations. In this situation it isn't about evaluating him; it's rather a matter of showing interest.
And oh yes, reading book helps; but you have to put the ideas into practice, and actually view body language as a cluster rather than individual parts conveying meaning.
Gees! This is stupid! If a girl is listening to what you have to say, and not going away (or asking you to go away) - she's into you. If she's willing to go with you somewhere - to the bathroom - she's into you. Then you escalate. Try to kiss her, or get her into a cab back to your place.
ummmm!!!!!intresting, its true what this guy is saying about the body language that women shows when she's attracted to you and its funny how he explains it too! he said "as she give you the puppy look" . Thats funny the way he explain.
Around 6 minutes, that girl in the black is actually showing a critical evaluation pose. This guy narrating the video missed quite a few things throughout the entire video.
I've read quite a few books on this subject and consider myself very knowledgeable when it comes to body language. I suggest that everyone here pick up the book titled Body Language: How to Read Others Thoughts By Their Gestures. You'll learn a hell of a lot more than watching these short, basic videos on Youtube.
Oh no, this is coming so late. I hope you see get this. that is so nice of you to say. That meant a lot to me. Thank you for your kind words. =) Why can't everyone be like you?
que bueno que alguien sube videos asi sirven de mucho aprendizaje y el tema esta buenisimo
solo mi pregunta seria como diferenciar si una girl esta realmente interesada en mi o alguien o solo esta coqueteando conmigo como lo haria con alguien mas osea en el momento se ve bien el encuentro pero despues que pasa como que pasa la magia y el interes desaparece y se vuelve indiferente y no me llama
You also have to pay attention to the i-n-d-i-v-i-d-u-a-l of the woman, if she always smiles and laughs at jokes she's just outgoing and friendly with everyone. If her arms are crossed she could also be shy with guys. Who knows what this "I think she's interested in me" is based on? I just saw a tilted head means concern, so also read books or read articles.
Sorry but sometimes I smile and learn towards a guy & smile at him and have eye contact because I want to be your friend and nothing else. Sometimes a girl might look guarded but have you thought maybe she's just actually listening to what he has to say.
If a guy doesn't already know that he's a bastard. But I'm not sure he meant it in that way. And "go for it" could mean anything, and I would never go for an opportunity to encourage the "lay a girl leave a girl" lifestyle. Not that it's much of a lifestyle.
just cuz a girl may not be into a certain guy doesnt make her a bitch. In fact it makes her clever cuz shes probably not fallin for the guys bullshit. Majority of men just wanna get into bed with a girl anyway, so I think all girls should be on their guard!
I hate this retarded question. Its SO OBVIOUS to anyone who has done a lot of approaching. If shes listening to you very interested, laughing, and keep her eyes locked on you thats when you know you have her interested. All the other stuff happens but its also doesnt happen even when she is into you. Girls arent so unconcious they start flipping their hair, licking their lips, smiling with their hair tilted, that shit is just ridiculous
Getting a girl to open up and to gradually turn around so she faces you square on is part of the flirting process. It may take weeks or minutes depending on how fast rapport is created.
Most women will, unconsciously, expose intimate parts of the body such as wrists and neck (the classic pushing back of the hair) when they are interested in a guy. These gestures should be examined in clusters, that can basically be divided into open and closed gestures clusters, as you correctly pointed out.
How one handles their wrist has to do with femininity (the watch turned to inside of the wrist is considered very feminine.) In romance it's "exposure to vulnerable places" but a woman can also do that plus fold in her arm for guard and protection while also slouching, being laid back. When I do the wrist thing it's because I'm amused and in admiration of someone.
As a clueless girl who has been reading about how to flirt with guys and improve my body language, I want to thank you. I've been working on appearing more open, receptive, and approachable. My body language and facial expressions are sometimes like the uninterested woman in the last picture.
I have read about the gaze over the bridge of the eyebrows ("look up from underneath your eyelashes") and open wrists, but I could not picture how to do that without looking silly, so this helps.
You know what, I thought you did a really good job, and this is even coming from a girl lol. You like to draw a lot XD ...but seriously..all of those were pretty accurate!
this is disrspecful true but wtf man not all girls are like that they all smile at bois i dont like i cross my legs towards boois i dont like to tell on me is harder then metal first day i see you ill walk up to u nd say hi and say wanna be buds or summinn you know what nvm i ait tipping out 4 u guys yall fags need to get advive from a loser who thinks he has game
Okay.. body language was yesterday and has only weight in "static" situations. When she`s not able to settle, she`s not able to comfort herself into the situation.. it`s like a studio-situation compared to a club-situation. This is NOT reliable!
I think it's reliable (psychologically) .. the woman make this signs spontaneouslly if she's attracted & in an unprompted way! whatever the situation is.
Look.. it`s like communism: You put all these people under the comdition and expect them to develop quite the same. And the reason communism doesn`t work is? Yeah sure, personality! They WON`T develop in the same way, because they are individiuals. Maybe you`re surprised now, but.. even women are individuals and therefore have their own way one by one. This is not to be generalized.. you simply can`t. Go sarging and find out. :D
lol aren't these just stock photos
Chacha5678 1 week ago
rinzeko 3 months ago
THIS IS Fanny!!
nelyismerai 2 years ago
gay sorry im a girl so i shuld no
RosiHernandez 2 years ago
You're a girl who doesn't know the difference between "know" and "no". This video shows what smart girls do.
zivoticmika 2 years ago
If she laughs at your joke it might actually mean your funny,I make people laugh,male and female and it doesn't mean they fancy me.
tizRYANblud 2 years ago 4
This is just an example of negative thinking. Sure, if you make her laugh it doesn't mean she fancies you, what it does mean is you have a substantially better chance of taking it to the romantic level than if you bored her.
vapourmile 2 years ago
Good video, but you forgot to mention the difference between a actual smile and a polite smile. You kept saying if she is smiling then it a good sign, but its not really a good sign if its just a polite smile.
SockShoeplayFreak 2 years ago 3
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your dumb. and you sound fat. how would u know about girls?
trackkid231 2 years ago
-You're*
-Everything you wrote was a sentence fragment
-Don't start a sentence with the word and
-It is spelled "you"
Well, see you later.
kre8havoc 2 years ago
could it be that the last girl(in white) was jealous ???
duckie808 2 years ago
i think so too.. she might be jelous
iLikeFanta 2 years ago
No depth to this analysis at all.
flano1 2 years ago
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this is fuckin stupid.
So basically, any time a woman smiles she wants your cock?
Umm...no.
Any time a woman crosses her legs near you she wants you?
no.
Did it ever occur to this dillhole that maybe she's wearing a skirt, and therefore HAS to cross her legs?
I bet this nut job has never even seen a woman naked.
theILLESTsnow 2 years ago
You're a big man, I'm sure. There are indeed subtle markers when to proceed with flirting instead of back away, not today, disco lady.
So I'm guessing your style of picking up women involves going to a bar where people are fuck drunk and a dry heave is easily mistaken for body language, so this may be above your head.
Have fun with your date raping you pathetic mook.
spleenblender 2 years ago 2
very good to explain female body language
watmero 3 years ago
u erased her eye, lolz
monkichirmon 3 years ago
you made me lol
littlemute 3 years ago
A Woman who likes the Same Foods you like. The Same Exact Color That You Like.
Ontario0925 3 years ago
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Don't worry about HIV,STD's,Etc. You will not be alive long enough to be concerned about any of the above. Something a lot worse and way sooner than you think will happen to you.
Hell is quick is ready immediately as quick as the fun was over. You will forget about that after what happens to you immediately next.
Ontario0925 3 years ago
Then you find out as you get ready to fuck her,she tells you she is married and has children. She tells you her husband spends too much time with his job career and not enough at home. Guys, stay the fuck away from any woman like that no matter how beautuful and fucking hot she looks. Death is right at her door!!!
Ontario0925 3 years ago
LOL your gospel astounds me to say the least!
dav231988 2 years ago
great vid!
HoodArt916 3 years ago
znzo, huuhuuuuuu
It's important to view the body language as a whole; the meaning of certain cues means different things in different situations. In this situation it isn't about evaluating him; it's rather a matter of showing interest.
And oh yes, reading book helps; but you have to put the ideas into practice, and actually view body language as a cluster rather than individual parts conveying meaning.
Rawnesss 3 years ago
Gees! This is stupid! If a girl is listening to what you have to say, and not going away (or asking you to go away) - she's into you. If she's willing to go with you somewhere - to the bathroom - she's into you. Then you escalate. Try to kiss her, or get her into a cab back to your place.
kebmann 3 years ago
i don't think so. i meet a woman and she trying to scared me with her hairy pussy smell
tadokauli 3 years ago
Ahahahahaha.... awesome!
HugeVictor 3 years ago
ummmm!!!!!intresting, its true what this guy is saying about the body language that women shows when she's attracted to you and its funny how he explains it too! he said "as she give you the puppy look" . Thats funny the way he explain.
Shadow80Watcher 3 years ago
Around 6 minutes, that girl in the black is actually showing a critical evaluation pose. This guy narrating the video missed quite a few things throughout the entire video.
I've read quite a few books on this subject and consider myself very knowledgeable when it comes to body language. I suggest that everyone here pick up the book titled Body Language: How to Read Others Thoughts By Their Gestures. You'll learn a hell of a lot more than watching these short, basic videos on Youtube.
znzo 3 years ago
LOL awesome video, ive seened this allot towards me from women.
LOL "even her breast are pointing in his direction"
KillxEmxAll92 3 years ago
this was funny. lol. but informative nonetheless.
rsaini1 3 years ago
where can I find this "group theory thing" you refer to at the end of the video? Thanks
DubBush 3 years ago
haha, i absoluely LOVE your drawings!! lol XD XD
popct20 3 years ago
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This didn't do much for me. I'm gay!
Tonetare 3 years ago
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die faggot!
qqq1985 3 years ago
lol get a life qqq1985. get a job or something
whyareyousooofat 3 years ago
haha nice one whyareyousoofat ;) thank you!
Tonetare 3 years ago
Yeah its kinda sad that some people have nothing better to do- :)
Stay strong! dont let people bother you for something as stupid and pointless as your sexual orientation. Good for you!!
whyareyousooofat 3 years ago
Oh no, this is coming so late. I hope you see get this. that is so nice of you to say. That meant a lot to me. Thank you for your kind words. =) Why can't everyone be like you?
Tonetare 3 years ago
lol thnx but im not perfect. lol
whyareyousooofat 3 years ago
yes
Vdidde 4 years ago
are you the dude from cubase?
muso4all 4 years ago
good job
que bueno que alguien sube videos asi sirven de mucho aprendizaje y el tema esta buenisimo
solo mi pregunta seria como diferenciar si una girl esta realmente interesada en mi o alguien o solo esta coqueteando conmigo como lo haria con alguien mas osea en el momento se ve bien el encuentro pero despues que pasa como que pasa la magia y el interes desaparece y se vuelve indiferente y no me llama
easydoggangs 4 years ago 2
Joseph Matthews!
sounds like an author of the next best seller book.
forever2cool 4 years ago
I agree with raebaby93,,,comment number one of the first page...Seriously,completely, and obviously obvious.
julsnewcrew 4 years ago
her breasts are pointed out to the guy.
lmfao!.=)
cassellyo 4 years ago 7
very nice
TubeTurk1 4 years ago
You also have to pay attention to the i-n-d-i-v-i-d-u-a-l of the woman, if she always smiles and laughs at jokes she's just outgoing and friendly with everyone. If her arms are crossed she could also be shy with guys. Who knows what this "I think she's interested in me" is based on? I just saw a tilted head means concern, so also read books or read articles.
Shadowsadist 4 years ago
Sorry but sometimes I smile and learn towards a guy & smile at him and have eye contact because I want to be your friend and nothing else. Sometimes a girl might look guarded but have you thought maybe she's just actually listening to what he has to say.
mariposalinda07 4 years ago
well this stuff is all really obvious
unless your like completely completely stupid.
sucky vid.
raebaby93 4 years ago
I didn't realise the women on my computer screen could actually see me like this guy suggests, cripes.
visiocomb 4 years ago
haha thinking Naughty Naughty thoughts?? haha.. thats what u want her to think.. haha
BlueangelM 4 years ago
tOight definitely boning some bitches tonight
ch-yeahs
steady ass
raulbarrientos007 4 years ago
aww yeah
robinp1987 4 years ago
great analysis BUT just cos the girl didn't like the guy, doesn't mean she's a bitch.
Pranikki1 4 years ago
Yes it DOES, haha jk
TonySoprano55 4 years ago
To guys, us girls will always be a mystery. Period.
Pranikki1 4 years ago
it was a meant as a funny
but yikes....
raulbarrientos007 4 years ago
It's true, guys never seem to figure us out! Even if it is blatently obvious that we fancy the pants off for him!
Pranikki1 4 years ago
If a guy doesn't already know that he's a bastard. But I'm not sure he meant it in that way. And "go for it" could mean anything, and I would never go for an opportunity to encourage the "lay a girl leave a girl" lifestyle. Not that it's much of a lifestyle.
Shadowsadist 4 years ago
Nice work man, thx for the tips very useful.
kniferunknown 4 years ago
That's right I love the drawings too... THEY'RE amazing.
trxmedia 4 years ago
lol
i love the drawings there amazing :)
mattotoole 4 years ago
just cuz a girl may not be into a certain guy doesnt make her a bitch. In fact it makes her clever cuz shes probably not fallin for the guys bullshit. Majority of men just wanna get into bed with a girl anyway, so I think all girls should be on their guard!
KrazyChick17 4 years ago 4
Ahhh.. Bullshit.. LOL
2337908 4 years ago
I hate this retarded question. Its SO OBVIOUS to anyone who has done a lot of approaching. If shes listening to you very interested, laughing, and keep her eyes locked on you thats when you know you have her interested. All the other stuff happens but its also doesnt happen even when she is into you. Girls arent so unconcious they start flipping their hair, licking their lips, smiling with their hair tilted, that shit is just ridiculous
sviewow 4 years ago
yeah but what is she smiles or chuckles nervously .Her legs crossed tords you but face away from you ???
airman64 4 years ago
Getting a girl to open up and to gradually turn around so she faces you square on is part of the flirting process. It may take weeks or minutes depending on how fast rapport is created.
MacbethLondon 4 years ago
I agree with your analysis Sartware.
Most women will, unconsciously, expose intimate parts of the body such as wrists and neck (the classic pushing back of the hair) when they are interested in a guy. These gestures should be examined in clusters, that can basically be divided into open and closed gestures clusters, as you correctly pointed out.
MacbethLondon 4 years ago
How one handles their wrist has to do with femininity (the watch turned to inside of the wrist is considered very feminine.) In romance it's "exposure to vulnerable places" but a woman can also do that plus fold in her arm for guard and protection while also slouching, being laid back. When I do the wrist thing it's because I'm amused and in admiration of someone.
Shadowsadist 4 years ago
As a clueless girl who has been reading about how to flirt with guys and improve my body language, I want to thank you. I've been working on appearing more open, receptive, and approachable. My body language and facial expressions are sometimes like the uninterested woman in the last picture.
I have read about the gaze over the bridge of the eyebrows ("look up from underneath your eyelashes") and open wrists, but I could not picture how to do that without looking silly, so this helps.
Chipotle77 4 years ago
Adopting open stances, smiling and acting natural is always a good start Chipotle. Act as if you're with a good friend.
MacbethLondon 4 years ago
You know what, I thought you did a really good job, and this is even coming from a girl lol. You like to draw a lot XD ...but seriously..all of those were pretty accurate!
fortunecookiee 4 years ago
this is disrspecful true but wtf man not all girls are like that they all smile at bois i dont like i cross my legs towards boois i dont like to tell on me is harder then metal first day i see you ill walk up to u nd say hi and say wanna be buds or summinn you know what nvm i ait tipping out 4 u guys yall fags need to get advive from a loser who thinks he has game
muffin4lyfe12 4 years ago
Okay.. body language was yesterday and has only weight in "static" situations. When she`s not able to settle, she`s not able to comfort herself into the situation.. it`s like a studio-situation compared to a club-situation. This is NOT reliable!
mgfster 4 years ago
I think it's reliable (psychologically) .. the woman make this signs spontaneouslly if she's attracted & in an unprompted way! whatever the situation is.
sartware 4 years ago
Look.. it`s like communism: You put all these people under the comdition and expect them to develop quite the same. And the reason communism doesn`t work is? Yeah sure, personality! They WON`T develop in the same way, because they are individiuals. Maybe you`re surprised now, but.. even women are individuals and therefore have their own way one by one. This is not to be generalized.. you simply can`t. Go sarging and find out. :D
mgfster 4 years ago
Well it's your opinion & I have to respect it... maybe you are right so let's wait & see if someone will agree with you.
sartware 4 years ago
great advice, i needed to find someone who knows what there talking, plus ur not a uptight crazy person!
texoralan89 4 years ago
This is totally awsome,thank you so much Sartware. I have learned quite alot. Now I will be open to these situations. Thanks again.
Jileek 4 years ago