Ok,you don't know me.Emo is a steorotype...Get help for that other person though.You dont know what their going through...I don't like the people that brag,but MAYBE there just reaching out for help?!Ever think of that?
Its hard to explain. I cut myself because it takes away my anger and the thought of killing myself. I want to kill my self because life's not worth living if no one cares about you. It's an escape from every idiot, jerk, bitch and whatever else in my life. I cut myself because it calms me.
@ICETHEMUSIC I don't like the people that brag...but maybe there reaching out for HELP!? And how do you know your friends dont do this?Some keep it a secret.Do something with your lifes?*Try*? Explain that... -.-
well if u want the stupis scientific side of it... the cutting releases the bodys natural pain killers (endorfins) which causes a sort of euforic state in the mind... so in a way its actually a break from pain however short it may be. and no i didnt look that up jus to answer this vlog... i used to cut and so did my best friend and once i stoped i decided to research it and help other ppl to stop... because ur right i can never get rid of those scars.
ppl cut cause they here abt others doing it so it starts w that. most ppl do it cause they feel like theyre being forced to feel like they need to die bt fight it by cuttin cause it makes em feel better and happy to "fight" the thought of death. most ppl who die frm cuttin dnt mean to die. yhu wouldnt know cause yhuve nvr done it b4.
look i know its hard to find out a friend is cutting but people dont cut cause they want to di they do it cause they want to feel alive again so bad that you resort to hurting urself but try to support them through it insted of getting angry cutting is very hard to understand unless u r or have been a cutter
i dont cut myself, but 5 of my friends cut themselves. i truly freak out everytime they cut themselves and i take their needle scissors whatever theyre using to cut themselves away from them. they get mad at me and cuss me out but idc im helping them. now, theyve told me the reason they cut themselves is because they truly think life is pointless and that theyre worthless, like ur saying daniel. they think its their "tradition" or sumtin since most of em r emo....hoped this helped:)
moron people cut as a way of relieving stress not all people cut to stop them from killing there selves it doesnt hurt it releases endorfines in you and makes you feel good dumbass
I cut myself, I've been cutting for 4 years. I do it because I like to control my own pain.I think that's why most people do but I'm dont know. I recently was rushed to the hospital because I cut my stomache so deep and I had to get stiches. And I completely agree with everything you said. I know that sounds weird because I'm a cutter. I've tried cutting so many times before and it's way harder than people think. Everyone is like just stop cutting like it's NOT something that happens over night.
Go and talk to your friend and try to confes him that he is a wow ...ok i don't even know what else am going to write ok so......i don't know if he cut him self so that he avoid killing him self am sorry but that is a stupid and i know<<< this all none sense cuz the cutting and suicideing it self is no sense and the cmment is no sense and that all....peace
as any addict why they do it and they will say that they dont know and that they wish they could stop
suicide and cutting in alot of cases are not linked people need to stop assuming that some people do cut instead of suicide but most dont its just like a drug
wouldnt u rather people cut than kill themselves? if everyone who cuts is important to u enuf to make a vid than wouldnt u rather them do that
its hard to understand but if u were a cutter or and addict of any kind u would
why do people do drugs why do people not eat why do they overeat i know whta u mean but its a disease an actual mental illness just like anorexia or addiction becasue it is an addiction its just a newer form of self destruction
why do people do drugs because for that half hour or hour they can focus on something else same with cutting it may seem more destructive but thats is only because people can see the scars tracks look bad to right? and skin and bones look bad too
here il try to help it works where when ur depressed and suicidal chances are tht inside u feel num, cold etc. when u cut u get a warm feeling and sometimes tht the only feeling ul get out of anything in life. hope i helped a bit and i might not be right but thts how it works for me
People cut themselves because there sad or angery. and THERE life may not seem bad to you but to them it may just be torcher. But you do have a point no human is worthless and everyone has a purpose but you have to see from the other side of the bridge they may want to die or cut themselves. But really they just need a true friend. and they may say" well i am fine alone and i dont need anyone" thats when you step in and help them get throught to hard times =)
we try 2 stop but it got addicting. i hurt myself wen im mad so i dont hurt others. i cut wen im sad cuz it makes me feel stronger 2 feel pain on da outside while pain on da inside makes me feel weak it hurts so bad. it gives me relief. almost comfort but i know its wrong so i try 2 stop. its 2 hard tho! its like if i dont cut a part of me's missing! ... i need help.... i don't need therapy. i need a friend. help.
Cutting is like a release. People think it will relieve the pain temperally. Its like oh, that pain came and left, so this pain will come and leave. Once you feel the release of it, it becomes addicting as drugs or alcohol would become addicting. You get so used to the feeling, it becomes your escape from the pain and fromt he reality of it all.
Just because you actually seem to care, i'm going to explain it for you;
Have you ever had this panic feeling, when you feel like you're losing the reality and get lost in your own head? Thats panic angst(i don't really know what the english translation is).
I have that kind of panic very often. It's a diagnose. I'm not good at handle my feelings. Not at all. I've never been good at it.
Cutting was my way of handle panic, as it made me feel the reality again.
people who cut feel there's no better way to express their feelings. I personally believe its people who make everything seem worse than it is. shit happens in everyones lives but some just think they are so special that there's is that much worse. but its not. and for suicide people I mean its pretty much selfish bastards that are too wrapped up in thinking their life is so horrible and no one can do anything because they don't want anyone to do anything. its just fucked up and so are they.
Kk my bestfriend cuts herself i know exactly how you feel, she has scars all over her wrist and her theighs she does it because her emotional pain is worse that any other pain tthat she feels. she was suicidle as well,
she does it to make the pain go away. instead of hurting other people she hurts herself
I have your precious hair straightener up for ransom Zackary James Chant and Daniel Vanderkief. If you want to see it ever again you will need to do something for me...
Oh come on. Teenagers aren't that dumb, to cut your themselves. My opinion is, nearly any people actually cut themselves. I think it's a new trend to get attention on the internet. Normal people don't go "I'm gonna go cut myself and bleed to death because the dude i like doesn't have me on his top friends on myspace.
its addicting, and not everyones lives are as good as they seem.. cutting makes it all disapear for a couple minutes, you're focused on something else thats crucial to take care of right away.. its just a happier moment for them i guess.
cutting releases endorphins, and sets off a sort of calm right after people do it, so its like doing some types of drugs or eating chocolate for some people. the endorphins also make it addictive and, like with drugs or alcohol, people come to depend on it
It is really nice that you are so concerned about your friend that you are asking to understand. it is a very difficult thing to understand. i have a lot of experience with depression, self harm, and suicide. it is hard for someone to explain why they are depressed, often they dont know themselves. but cutting is one solution for them. physical pain is easier to understand than emotional pain so cutting makes the emotional pain go away. another reason is that when someone gets so depressed they
become numb, they no longer feel alive and the physical pain reminds themselves that they are alive. it is one of the hardest things in the world to have to deal with and it is really hard for the ones that love them that can only sit back and try their hardest to understand and help. It's almost impossible to understand unless you yourself are going through it. But the best thing for you to do is remind this person that they are not alone. You can be angry at them, it is understandable,
but don't leave them. Just love them as much as you can and try and always be there for them, hopefully they will get through this. I'm still going and I've been diagnosed with severe depression for six years now.
i dont get it that much eather but i have alot of emo friends but none of them ever fully explained to me y they do it! i dont like that some of my friends do it but i try my hardest to help them get through wat ever it is that makse them do it???!!! i mean i luv emos n skaters n punks n everyone to death but i really dont get it??? god put every one in this world 2 live there longest n live there life to the fullest!!!!!!!!!!
People do it for different reasons. And I understand it. Most people don't know what true depression is. Being depressed is not the same thing as being sad. And they just want to make the pain go away. Cutting makes them forget. Or atleast thats how it is for some people. There isn't one reason why people do it. They could be a manochist, or punishing themselves because the think they deserve it. It's a complex subject, and some may never understand, until you've been through it.
i dont understand why ppl cut either! its so pointless. i understand why ppl would want to kill themselves because the kid that like went to a mental institution last year for teens who are suicidal or homicidal cause he was suicidal. but cutting is definitely worthless and stupid. it doesnt help anything.
lol...i see wat ur trying to say...lol...but u should try to explain the bad things that happen when u cut....i also have a freind that cuts....IT GETS ME SO MAD TOO!...write bak!....IM STILL TRYING TO GET HER TO STOP!
but there are many other things people do that are completely unrelated to depression that people have no reason to do but do it anyway and how you were feeling then, i feel all the time about these types of issues.
Your mood wont improve while you are around people who do this. My advice, don't get involved. People with deep depression are like a black hole of misery and if you get too close to a black hole your will be inescapably sucked in. If you want to improve your mood, stay away from the depressed.
basically any opiate or benzo and most amphetamines are just a few of the other options besides cutting yourself. And I much prefer those fo sho. And I have some crazy fucking depression sometimes. Cutting has never made sense to me but to each there own.
yeah, so idiotic its not even funny. yes it is stupid so are those kids. dont waste your time with people who want attention. even if you are mad abuot this for no apparent reason... why mkae a youtube video about it?
seiously this "youtubers" have nothing better to do than whine abuot how their boyfriends hate there lives and how their parents spoil them yet they hate them,? thats what makes me made.
hmmm to the people on here saying its pointless etc have you been to the point where you feel like there is no way at all to deal with any number of things that are affecting you?
i understand why people do it because i used to i also know that all it took was one person to truly care and just ask me about it that helped me to stop a year and a half ago - i still think about doing it sometimes but knowing someone is there helps alot so GOOD WORK DANIEL! it will help them to know that you care!
"I take the pain out on myself"...and everyone else you know.
Its suicide where you get to stick around and watch everyone's reaction. In fact, the point IS everyone else's reaction. No way you'd be cutting yourself on a desert island. No one else to react. No one else to hurt.
"I take the pain out on myself"...does Daniel not look pained? Please get help, before your selfish "solo" act hurts everyone you know.
Or do you care? I doubt it ...unless you get HELP!
i say props for daniel for caring enough about a person to express the views on it. Seriously. You asked for what other people thought of it so obviously you want to know reasons why and how to help the person. Love you to death Daniel <3
It usually sterts with sadness then progresses to depression...they then feel i need to relieve that depression so,through the great vine they hear about cutting and they give it a try. Now ya have to be pretty damn depressed for cutting to actually work. so basicly when they make the cut it releases indrofense hormones in their body,wich creates a physical high and makes them feel good. so they keep doing to escape that depression and feel good...wich intern for your freind helps him stay alive
Whoever this person is needs to get on an SSRI and a benzo and they will be all set and not cut them self anymore. They'll be way too stoned to give a shit about anything, which is why its so fucking awesome. I tried cutting myself once but it hurt way too damn much and made no fucking sense to me... but basically drugs solve everything!
I don't hate cutters i just think they did to learn that cutting doesn't solve any problem all it does is leave scars on your body and leaves pain. Unless you like pain why do it, why like it, why habbit it, why?
people cut because physical pain is easier to deal with than emotional pain or theyre punishing themselves for something. I stopped because i realised it would be harder not to do it and therefore more punishing. The sooner you can get your friend to stop the better because people underestimate how addictive it is. Dont ever give up on your friend because no matter how long they do it for theres always a chance they can stop, but only if they have people supporting them.
their reasons for doing it dont make much sense, but some people honestly do have issues with it and it does get addicting. and to be quite honest, i used to do that for 2 years. and i dont know. it makes me numb. and your friend shouldnt be complaining about their life. x.x
You basically told the answer to yourself. Cutting is so that people can feel physical pain to distract them from emotional pain. Now depending on the situation, it can either be completely stupid, or a cry for help. Has anything painful emotion wise like a family death or a divorce happen in that guys life. Because if so, he might just be really depressed about it, and if not, he needs to get over himself.
to be truthful, im a cutter and i love it. there are reason to cut and not everyones life is normal. i'll make a video response to this and explain my reason for it. this kinda did anger me
morgan please stop cutting sweety. your too beautiful to have those marks on your wrists. pain is a bad thing. i know ive been through so much of it lately. i tried to kill myself and cut my wrists... its so stupid. just try to stop please
theres hellof different reasons people cut. one is that they do it to feel alive, because they think pain makes them feel alive for some stupid reason. another is that they wanna hurt themselves because they don't think their good enough, or something. another is that they just like the pain. i don't really get it. but, you have to prove to your friend that people love them, and that theres a reasons their alive. idk. good luck <3
i have a friend exactly the same as you. hes all suicidal and cuts / burns etc himself. ive got to the point where i dont even try to help because when i do he just verbally abuses me and drags me down with him. makes me so annoyed as well. *GRRR* but yeah.... good vlog :P
2 years ago my best friend had a girlfriend whi cheated on him and he told her its over, but after that he started beeing depressive and segrated him fom all of his friends. i tried to help him but cant...
than ( a week later) i want to visite him, but nobody opened the door so i toke the replacement key and... found him passed out in his room and there was a lot of blood... i called the ambulance, opened the door and passed out too...
Lol It Pisses Me Off When People Cut For No Reason. If Like Your Mum DIED Or Something then I'd Still Disagree With It But You'd Kinda Understand. Being "worthless" Is A Retarded Excuse.
I Mean I'm Pretty Useless But I Still Have Fun With It. :]
Well, let me help you out here...uhm...(shut up I'm thinking ass lol jk.) Most people do it for attention, they just do it to get attention..uhm..Most "Emo" Kids do it for emotional pain(you got that one right.) And...this is where Im lost..I don't know why MOST people do the shit anymore I really don't know.
I Agree With Your Descripton. People That Do This Say That It Relives The Pain. Personally It Looks Like They Are Just Hurting Themselves Even More!! Great Subjet =D x
in gym, we had this suicide prevention class and it was so stupid. it was like "warning signs" are blahblahblah. i was like wtf suicidal people arent going to follow the fucking rules.
Ok,you don't know me.Emo is a steorotype...Get help for that other person though.You dont know what their going through...I don't like the people that brag,but MAYBE there just reaching out for help?!Ever think of that?
CookieCrumbs31 2 weeks ago
I'm a emo-punk. Once suicidal, had kids, used to drink, smoke now. My wife, ex-wife, and my kids are dead. Hard to deal with it. So, I write songs.
Psychochild14 1 month ago
i cut elf to get the anger out my sister cuts heself because she thinks it is the only way of not killing herself like adam crowe did
199threedaysgracefan 3 months ago
Its hard to explain. I cut myself because it takes away my anger and the thought of killing myself. I want to kill my self because life's not worth living if no one cares about you. It's an escape from every idiot, jerk, bitch and whatever else in my life. I cut myself because it calms me.
DeadyTeady 3 months ago
You're adorable.
TwilightLover6361 7 months ago
its like an episode of degrassi
analiz12100 7 months ago
This has been flagged as spam show
people are just stupid
MAIDEN068 1 year ago
Things that piss me of about this:
People doing youtube videos that show you cutting yourself
bragging about it to freinds
moaning about how sad they are all the time
Seriously, ive met so many people who have really bad lifes and they dont do this? they just get on with there lifes and dont moan about it.
If your ilfes so bad maybe insted of cutting, do somthing with your lifes. *try*
ICETHEMUSIC 1 year ago
@ICETHEMUSIC I don't like the people that brag...but maybe there reaching out for HELP!? And how do you know your friends dont do this?Some keep it a secret.Do something with your lifes?*Try*? Explain that... -.-
CookieCrumbs31 2 weeks ago
well if u want the stupis scientific side of it... the cutting releases the bodys natural pain killers (endorfins) which causes a sort of euforic state in the mind... so in a way its actually a break from pain however short it may be. and no i didnt look that up jus to answer this vlog... i used to cut and so did my best friend and once i stoped i decided to research it and help other ppl to stop... because ur right i can never get rid of those scars.
RavenMasen 1 year ago
your telling the truth but i thing your drunk lol xD
EvilEmo23 1 year ago
Some people cut because feeling pain on the outside feels better than feeling pain on the inside.
4000molly 1 year ago
@populargirl03 well I stopped because of a girl that did the same thing for me so sorry god
ljsrel 1 year ago
ppl cut cause they here abt others doing it so it starts w that. most ppl do it cause they feel like theyre being forced to feel like they need to die bt fight it by cuttin cause it makes em feel better and happy to "fight" the thought of death. most ppl who die frm cuttin dnt mean to die. yhu wouldnt know cause yhuve nvr done it b4.
PopularGirl03 1 year ago
look i know its hard to find out a friend is cutting but people dont cut cause they want to di they do it cause they want to feel alive again so bad that you resort to hurting urself but try to support them through it insted of getting angry cutting is very hard to understand unless u r or have been a cutter
thestereotyper1 1 year ago
@thestereotyper1 Sadness or anger drives you to it,but then you grow to love the pain,that's what makes a good majority of si's
KoRnXOwnsXMeXForever 1 year ago
i dont cut myself, but 5 of my friends cut themselves. i truly freak out everytime they cut themselves and i take their needle scissors whatever theyre using to cut themselves away from them. they get mad at me and cuss me out but idc im helping them. now, theyve told me the reason they cut themselves is because they truly think life is pointless and that theyre worthless, like ur saying daniel. they think its their "tradition" or sumtin since most of em r emo....hoped this helped:)
peaceluvjesuskmc 1 year ago
Guys if u need help email me and friend me I stopes and you can to.
ljsrel 1 year ago
@ljsrel just cause yhu did dnt mean yhu can help ive been doing it fer 3 years ish nw sence iwas 12...ican nvr stop cause therrs no need to
PopularGirl03 1 year ago
you look like my friend tristan baha 8D
flippyproductions10 1 year ago
I'm a cutter and I'm 11 I cut because it almost let's all that stress out through blood I've been doing it for 9 months and I need help
wiwamproductions2 2 years ago
moron people cut as a way of relieving stress not all people cut to stop them from killing there selves it doesnt hurt it releases endorfines in you and makes you feel good dumbass
XXXsexyemodudeXXX 2 years ago
I cut myself, I've been cutting for 4 years. I do it because I like to control my own pain.I think that's why most people do but I'm dont know. I recently was rushed to the hospital because I cut my stomache so deep and I had to get stiches. And I completely agree with everything you said. I know that sounds weird because I'm a cutter. I've tried cutting so many times before and it's way harder than people think. Everyone is like just stop cutting like it's NOT something that happens over night.
ilovehim34xo 2 years ago
rofl your such a fag. Grow some balls
ERICJIN707 2 years ago 2
@ERICJIN707 rofl.. you neeed a life douche!
OxxFallen 1 year ago
Go and talk to your friend and try to confes him that he is a wow ...ok i don't even know what else am going to write ok so......i don't know if he cut him self so that he avoid killing him self am sorry but that is a stupid and i know<<< this all none sense cuz the cutting and suicideing it self is no sense and the cmment is no sense and that all....peace
sh8lob911 2 years ago
as any addict why they do it and they will say that they dont know and that they wish they could stop
suicide and cutting in alot of cases are not linked people need to stop assuming that some people do cut instead of suicide but most dont its just like a drug
wouldnt u rather people cut than kill themselves? if everyone who cuts is important to u enuf to make a vid than wouldnt u rather them do that
its hard to understand but if u were a cutter or and addict of any kind u would
rr21andlillien 2 years ago
why do people do drugs why do people not eat why do they overeat i know whta u mean but its a disease an actual mental illness just like anorexia or addiction becasue it is an addiction its just a newer form of self destruction
why do people do drugs because for that half hour or hour they can focus on something else same with cutting it may seem more destructive but thats is only because people can see the scars tracks look bad to right? and skin and bones look bad too
rr21andlillien 2 years ago
you may be something
but people make you feel like you are worthless
and you grow up with that mental image of yourself
ShutUpNtellMe 2 years ago
Right now I've got to agree with you 100%.
About a year ago this video would of MADE me cut...
kristenjonas2008 2 years ago
here il try to help it works where when ur depressed and suicidal chances are tht inside u feel num, cold etc. when u cut u get a warm feeling and sometimes tht the only feeling ul get out of anything in life. hope i helped a bit and i might not be right but thts how it works for me
Joshw124 2 years ago
cutting is a way of release ...
its really hard to stop i try but cant
rawrlambrawr 2 years ago
i stopped cutinng after i watched this video... u truly helped me
skullgirl606 2 years ago 2
People cut themselves because there sad or angery. and THERE life may not seem bad to you but to them it may just be torcher. But you do have a point no human is worthless and everyone has a purpose but you have to see from the other side of the bridge they may want to die or cut themselves. But really they just need a true friend. and they may say" well i am fine alone and i dont need anyone" thats when you step in and help them get throught to hard times =)
BabyGrrlEmo 2 years ago 2
I use to cut my self. I just liked the feeling. It felt good to me. (and maby that person just wanted attention?) idk, but you do have a point
xxkillerxxinxxmexx 2 years ago
that pisses me off to
dadewd11 3 years ago
it feels beta wen u quit trust me case ppl really do care i us to cut cause my family
zwinker1 3 years ago
we try 2 stop but it got addicting. i hurt myself wen im mad so i dont hurt others. i cut wen im sad cuz it makes me feel stronger 2 feel pain on da outside while pain on da inside makes me feel weak it hurts so bad. it gives me relief. almost comfort but i know its wrong so i try 2 stop. its 2 hard tho! its like if i dont cut a part of me's missing! ... i need help.... i don't need therapy. i need a friend. help.
soccachick4525 3 years ago
same exactly :S
Message me and I'll listen
xXMistyXx
Innergoth333 3 years ago
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666defeats 3 years ago
u got it right we cut ourselves to refrain from dying and then we become addicted to pain r u happy
p.s. we try to quit
BassistKid 3 years ago
Cutting is like a release. People think it will relieve the pain temperally. Its like oh, that pain came and left, so this pain will come and leave. Once you feel the release of it, it becomes addicting as drugs or alcohol would become addicting. You get so used to the feeling, it becomes your escape from the pain and fromt he reality of it all.
cliquex2 3 years ago
Just because you actually seem to care, i'm going to explain it for you;
Have you ever had this panic feeling, when you feel like you're losing the reality and get lost in your own head? Thats panic angst(i don't really know what the english translation is).
I have that kind of panic very often. It's a diagnose. I'm not good at handle my feelings. Not at all. I've never been good at it.
Cutting was my way of handle panic, as it made me feel the reality again.
ThereIsNoTimeForUs 3 years ago
After a while, I developed a need for this way of handeling my angst.
I got satisfied when i saw the bloody scars on my arms. It's like smoking.
I've been trying to stop many times. Right now i'm "clean".
Why?
Beacuse the scar was about this; _________ deep, and i had to go to the hospital.
Right now I cannot feel anything in a little part of my left arm.
I'm going to get help in January.
ThereIsNoTimeForUs 3 years ago
So, thats my story.
I'm sorry for the bad spelling and all. I'm typing just like you *bambambambambam*
Have a nice day and all.
ThereIsNoTimeForUs 3 years ago
dude i fu**ing loved this vid! even tho i do cut, but god damn it you smoke right? well the onoly reason i don't smoke is because i cut, so haa.
emoboisrule 3 years ago
people who cut feel there's no better way to express their feelings. I personally believe its people who make everything seem worse than it is. shit happens in everyones lives but some just think they are so special that there's is that much worse. but its not. and for suicide people I mean its pretty much selfish bastards that are too wrapped up in thinking their life is so horrible and no one can do anything because they don't want anyone to do anything. its just fucked up and so are they.
furychica7 3 years ago
Kk my bestfriend cuts herself i know exactly how you feel, she has scars all over her wrist and her theighs she does it because her emotional pain is worse that any other pain tthat she feels. she was suicidle as well,
she does it to make the pain go away. instead of hurting other people she hurts herself
rockpaperkarate 3 years ago
I have your precious hair straightener up for ransom Zackary James Chant and Daniel Vanderkief. If you want to see it ever again you will need to do something for me...
scum1811 3 years ago
Oh come on. Teenagers aren't that dumb, to cut your themselves. My opinion is, nearly any people actually cut themselves. I think it's a new trend to get attention on the internet. Normal people don't go "I'm gonna go cut myself and bleed to death because the dude i like doesn't have me on his top friends on myspace.
Inkbonance 3 years ago
its addicting, and not everyones lives are as good as they seem.. cutting makes it all disapear for a couple minutes, you're focused on something else thats crucial to take care of right away.. its just a happier moment for them i guess.
dRUMsKELETON 3 years ago
cutting releases endorphins, and sets off a sort of calm right after people do it, so its like doing some types of drugs or eating chocolate for some people. the endorphins also make it addictive and, like with drugs or alcohol, people come to depend on it
iluvtots516 3 years ago
It is really nice that you are so concerned about your friend that you are asking to understand. it is a very difficult thing to understand. i have a lot of experience with depression, self harm, and suicide. it is hard for someone to explain why they are depressed, often they dont know themselves. but cutting is one solution for them. physical pain is easier to understand than emotional pain so cutting makes the emotional pain go away. another reason is that when someone gets so depressed they
wykle001 3 years ago
become numb, they no longer feel alive and the physical pain reminds themselves that they are alive. it is one of the hardest things in the world to have to deal with and it is really hard for the ones that love them that can only sit back and try their hardest to understand and help. It's almost impossible to understand unless you yourself are going through it. But the best thing for you to do is remind this person that they are not alone. You can be angry at them, it is understandable,
wykle001 3 years ago
but don't leave them. Just love them as much as you can and try and always be there for them, hopefully they will get through this. I'm still going and I've been diagnosed with severe depression for six years now.
wykle001 3 years ago
i dont get it that much eather but i have alot of emo friends but none of them ever fully explained to me y they do it! i dont like that some of my friends do it but i try my hardest to help them get through wat ever it is that makse them do it???!!! i mean i luv emos n skaters n punks n everyone to death but i really dont get it??? god put every one in this world 2 live there longest n live there life to the fullest!!!!!!!!!!
jenabennaily 3 years ago
personally i don't think very many people understand it unless they've been through it.
shelby0x 3 years ago
i cut myself
XwithxbrokenXwingsx 3 years ago
People do it for different reasons. And I understand it. Most people don't know what true depression is. Being depressed is not the same thing as being sad. And they just want to make the pain go away. Cutting makes them forget. Or atleast thats how it is for some people. There isn't one reason why people do it. They could be a manochist, or punishing themselves because the think they deserve it. It's a complex subject, and some may never understand, until you've been through it.
xxmyantidrug66xx 3 years ago
I think the writing on your arms are sexy
=D
Strange observation
xBakedxBunnyx 3 years ago
i dont understand why ppl cut either! its so pointless. i understand why ppl would want to kill themselves because the kid that like went to a mental institution last year for teens who are suicidal or homicidal cause he was suicidal. but cutting is definitely worthless and stupid. it doesnt help anything.
PoqSolo 3 years ago
If someone wants to die, they're not truly strong enough to live.
angelfaith203 3 years ago
OMG<3
KStarr2 3 years ago
lol...i see wat ur trying to say...lol...but u should try to explain the bad things that happen when u cut....i also have a freind that cuts....IT GETS ME SO MAD TOO!...write bak!....IM STILL TRYING TO GET HER TO STOP!
latnatalia 3 years ago
what in the world is on ur arms!!
mggr1234 3 years ago
i COMPLETELY agree daniel :]
<3daniel ily (: xx
sophielikespie 3 years ago
yeah, i totally agree with you daniel.
but there are many other things people do that are completely unrelated to depression that people have no reason to do but do it anyway and how you were feeling then, i feel all the time about these types of issues.
xoxo
nadine6559 3 years ago
wow first thing i have to say is that this video has LOOONNNG comments. o.O
but um yeah i dont think cutting will help anything. =/
iammyowngenius 3 years ago
Your mood wont improve while you are around people who do this. My advice, don't get involved. People with deep depression are like a black hole of misery and if you get too close to a black hole your will be inescapably sucked in. If you want to improve your mood, stay away from the depressed.
buttonsg1 3 years ago
basically any opiate or benzo and most amphetamines are just a few of the other options besides cutting yourself. And I much prefer those fo sho. And I have some crazy fucking depression sometimes. Cutting has never made sense to me but to each there own.
x3xPLiCiTx 3 years ago
yeah, so idiotic its not even funny. yes it is stupid so are those kids. dont waste your time with people who want attention. even if you are mad abuot this for no apparent reason... why mkae a youtube video about it?
seiously this "youtubers" have nothing better to do than whine abuot how their boyfriends hate there lives and how their parents spoil them yet they hate them,? thats what makes me made.
zachypwns 3 years ago
hmmm to the people on here saying its pointless etc have you been to the point where you feel like there is no way at all to deal with any number of things that are affecting you?
i understand why people do it because i used to i also know that all it took was one person to truly care and just ask me about it that helped me to stop a year and a half ago - i still think about doing it sometimes but knowing someone is there helps alot so GOOD WORK DANIEL! it will help them to know that you care!
Liefje717 3 years ago
minus to the point where.
ranasaspazzx 3 years ago
it's not right.
people go through a lot of shit. including myself. my life sucks to the point where
but not just because of some stupid problem like some guy broke up with me or whatever.
i'm talking about serious things
im here because i still know there are a few people that care, a few people who give me hope.
there are people who it would emotionally kill if i did cut.
i would never do that to them. im going to take the pain without cutting and i'll be a stronger person in the end.
ranasaspazzx 3 years ago
i like your video. its so true!
skullms1203 3 years ago
And oh yeah...good luck.
DougCock 3 years ago
aw this a nice video showing you care Daniel, I hope things get better for you Zack hun <3
x
KarmaQueeen 3 years ago
and its not being selfish,
because i dont tell people.
i take the pain out on myself.
so yeh. the end.
lovexteasex 3 years ago
"I take the pain out on myself"...and everyone else you know.
Its suicide where you get to stick around and watch everyone's reaction. In fact, the point IS everyone else's reaction. No way you'd be cutting yourself on a desert island. No one else to react. No one else to hurt.
"I take the pain out on myself"...does Daniel not look pained? Please get help, before your selfish "solo" act hurts everyone you know.
Or do you care? I doubt it ...unless you get HELP!
DougCock 3 years ago
i didnt tell daniel,
in fact id be alot happier without people knowing,
dont pretend you know me.
shut the fuck up.
my friends mean everything to me, and youve no idea what i deal with.
get over yourself, dont pretend you can understand if youve never been there,
and if you have then cngrats on getting over it.
yeh ive also been to countless psycologists and counsillers so the "get help" thing is reeli kinda overated
lovexteasex 3 years ago
yes, i did just make an account so i could comment this vlog.
this vlog is about me, so thankyou daniel.
it meant alot that you care enough to have made this.
the person that commented that i should kill myself, thanks heeps..reeli *rolls eyes*
daniel, thankyou, ive a new found respect for you, even though you dnt understand what i do, i dont need you to.
your an amazing person and friend, i just figured the whole youtube world should know that.
love you heeps hun <333 thankyou.
lovexteasex 3 years ago
fuck what i think about cutting
i say props for daniel for caring enough about a person to express the views on it. Seriously. You asked for what other people thought of it so obviously you want to know reasons why and how to help the person. Love you to death Daniel <3
jacqay 3 years ago
Forget logic...their logic is bullshit.
Forget their "suicidal impulses"...its not suicide, its cutting themselves.
Forget trying to reason with them, forget trying to pump up their self esteem. They need professional help, and you're no professional.
Personally, I treat it as I see it: Selfish beyond belief. I'd get them help and back off.
DougCock 3 years ago
It usually sterts with sadness then progresses to depression...they then feel i need to relieve that depression so,through the great vine they hear about cutting and they give it a try. Now ya have to be pretty damn depressed for cutting to actually work. so basicly when they make the cut it releases indrofense hormones in their body,wich creates a physical high and makes them feel good. so they keep doing to escape that depression and feel good...wich intern for your freind helps him stay alive
madelineisFRENCH 3 years ago
Wrong
DougCock 3 years ago
Cutting releases endorphines into the brain.
It's a coping mechanism. Similiar to the way a person would use eating disorders or drug addiction to cope with emotions, life, stress, etc.
It's not lame, it's not stupid. It's a real problem. I hope you're able to help your friend make better choices for themselves.
christenrenee 3 years ago
Wrong
DougCock 3 years ago
uhhh...i dont think so...and "wrong" isnt exactly an smart answer....
madelineisFRENCH 3 years ago
really? you dont seem so smart yourself, because its "isnt exactly A smart answer", not "itsnt exactly AN smart answer."
DigitB 3 years ago
Some people cut to release the pain inside.
In Austrailia their are more suicides then homocides.
CiwwafX73 3 years ago
Whoever this person is needs to get on an SSRI and a benzo and they will be all set and not cut them self anymore. They'll be way too stoned to give a shit about anything, which is why its so fucking awesome. I tried cutting myself once but it hurt way too damn much and made no fucking sense to me... but basically drugs solve everything!
x3xPLiCiTx 3 years ago
I don't hate cutters i just think they did to learn that cutting doesn't solve any problem all it does is leave scars on your body and leaves pain. Unless you like pain why do it, why like it, why habbit it, why?
silystring 3 years ago
i hope theyre okay :[ tell them itll all be alright, please?
weareNOTemo 3 years ago
people cut because physical pain is easier to deal with than emotional pain or theyre punishing themselves for something. I stopped because i realised it would be harder not to do it and therefore more punishing. The sooner you can get your friend to stop the better because people underestimate how addictive it is. Dont ever give up on your friend because no matter how long they do it for theres always a chance they can stop, but only if they have people supporting them.
HorseyHeavyMetalGirl 3 years ago
I totally agree with you, You're sooo beyond right!!!!
LISTEN TO HER....SHE'S GOT IT!!!!!
tkia2 3 years ago
their reasons for doing it dont make much sense, but some people honestly do have issues with it and it does get addicting. and to be quite honest, i used to do that for 2 years. and i dont know. it makes me numb. and your friend shouldnt be complaining about their life. x.x
zomgkate 3 years ago
You basically told the answer to yourself. Cutting is so that people can feel physical pain to distract them from emotional pain. Now depending on the situation, it can either be completely stupid, or a cry for help. Has anything painful emotion wise like a family death or a divorce happen in that guys life. Because if so, he might just be really depressed about it, and if not, he needs to get over himself.
CripShat27 3 years ago
to be truthful, im a cutter and i love it. there are reason to cut and not everyones life is normal. i'll make a video response to this and explain my reason for it. this kinda did anger me
morgan1228 3 years ago
It angered you that he doesn't want you to hurt yourself?
frostedblakess 3 years ago
no it angered me that he says it doesn't do anything and there is no reason to do it when there is.
morgan1228 3 years ago
morgan please stop cutting sweety. your too beautiful to have those marks on your wrists. pain is a bad thing. i know ive been through so much of it lately. i tried to kill myself and cut my wrists... its so stupid. just try to stop please
weareNOTemo 3 years ago
if you can cut yourself,
then just kill yourself.
if all you want to do is cut,
then you're making the meaning of life stupid, even for other people.
so just kill yourself.
and no, i dont really want you to kill yourself.
you just need to realize,
NO THERE IS NO FUCKING REASON!
checkeredschmecker12 3 years ago
why are all of u attacking just me? there are plenty other people out there that cut and i am getting help for it. its like a drug, its addicting
morgan1228 3 years ago
THANKYOU.
cutting is so fucking ridiculous.
it's lame and pathetic.
it doesn't matter the reason.
they should get a different solution.
and it's seriously self pity.
anyways,
thankyou for posting this.
littlerazrblad3 3 years ago
It doesn't make sense to people unless theydo it themselves.
But, as a cutter, I do have to say that
A. I don't know why I started.
B. I wish i didn't, because now I'm addicted.
C. I like it. It's relieving in a way.
Freakshow1233 3 years ago
theres hellof different reasons people cut. one is that they do it to feel alive, because they think pain makes them feel alive for some stupid reason. another is that they wanna hurt themselves because they don't think their good enough, or something. another is that they just like the pain. i don't really get it. but, you have to prove to your friend that people love them, and that theres a reasons their alive. idk. good luck <3
williamlover23 3 years ago
i dont understand why people do that either. hopefully if he said he was going to do that before and didnt, he wont do it now.
good luck
KrystaandMandyshow 3 years ago
i have a friend exactly the same as you. hes all suicidal and cuts / burns etc himself. ive got to the point where i dont even try to help because when i do he just verbally abuses me and drags me down with him. makes me so annoyed as well. *GRRR* but yeah.... good vlog :P
TheLuuuurveCat 3 years ago
half an hour and he should be dead...
wont ever forget this...
HighSkyFly 3 years ago
i cant understand it, too...
2 years ago my best friend had a girlfriend whi cheated on him and he told her its over, but after that he started beeing depressive and segrated him fom all of his friends. i tried to help him but cant...
than ( a week later) i want to visite him, but nobody opened the door so i toke the replacement key and... found him passed out in his room and there was a lot of blood... i called the ambulance, opened the door and passed out too...
HighSkyFly 3 years ago
Lol It Pisses Me Off When People Cut For No Reason. If Like Your Mum DIED Or Something then I'd Still Disagree With It But You'd Kinda Understand. Being "worthless" Is A Retarded Excuse.
I Mean I'm Pretty Useless But I Still Have Fun With It. :]
IHeartNerdsXx 3 years ago
Well, let me help you out here...uhm...(shut up I'm thinking ass lol jk.) Most people do it for attention, they just do it to get attention..uhm..Most "Emo" Kids do it for emotional pain(you got that one right.) And...this is where Im lost..I don't know why MOST people do the shit anymore I really don't know.
pureownage77 3 years ago
I Agree With Your Descripton. People That Do This Say That It Relives The Pain. Personally It Looks Like They Are Just Hurting Themselves Even More!! Great Subjet =D x
laurenb2k8 3 years ago
in gym, we had this suicide prevention class and it was so stupid. it was like "warning signs" are blahblahblah. i was like wtf suicidal people arent going to follow the fucking rules.
PoqSolo 3 years ago