Dealing with Defiant Children

[hockeyplar]

0:49 - 0:57....

you make it sound like you are rewarding a dog, haha, this is very wrong.

[formers95]

TIME FOR DICIPRINNNNN U NON ASIAN KID!

[welcome159ify]

Well that was stupid! lol

[aarondawe]

What utter nonsense!!! Everybody with any sense at all should know that too much praise leaves the child believing that he is never wrong, it is always the other person. And these people are experts? Get a grip.

[joesee12]

throw them into boot camp.... problem solved

[mrssweetnsour1974]

shewww if i acted like that with any of my kids ..which i have 4 ..they would think im crazy or just plain retarded..or like making fun of them ..yea i dont think soo..not sure that would work ..maybe for some not mine lol

[kkg76]

crap. this is sugar coated control over children. eg "great job for packing away your toys". why should you give exaggerated praise for what is normal and expected behaviour. you need ot research the causes of defiancy before offering solutions.

lets stop bubble wrapping our children!!!!!!!

[clealuira]

Haha praise? I would love for one of these so called experts to have raised my child. Then tell me that praise works.

[HookahDude69]

what ever hapnd to the good ole boot? ay you little shit if you dont put your toys in the box imma come in dere and whoop yo ass!

[Xenofan20]

i don't think that's best result, they're not going to get praised like that in real life if they accomplish something so simple as cleaning theyr room

[Sonialachingona]

this method only works for kids that are defiant and aggressive behaviors with potentially becoming violent, not your regular/normal kids

[HookahDude69]

@Sonialachingona hay dumbass no one is normal everybody is defiant its human nature if someone asked u to eat your own poop by saying no does that make you defiant? your very hypocritical my friend and u have the nerve to says there not regular or normal like u can just lable kids thats Pathetic.

[Sonialachingona]

@HookahDude69 hey dumbdude, you should continue to eat your own poop then.

[fr3dster2424]

u have to give them $100.00 on top of that

[winstono75]

You put your toys in the toybox, that's so fucking great! I would stick to normal emotions.

[whoknowz13237]

This is way too much. =| I mean really. I tell kids "Good job" but i don't have a screaming fit. you know what's going to happen after that? if you don't tell them even ONCE what a good kid they are, they're gonna get depressed and go "you don't love me!" and be worse than before.

[Joeinps]

The Kazden method ? ? ? ? Listen a crack on the ass with a wooden spoon is more than enough ! Praising them , for putting their toys away like the just won the Olympics ? You have to be kidding ! What are they going to do when they go out in the world and get a real job ? Do you really think Johnny's boss is going to jump on his desk and high five him because he showed up for work on time ? His wife is going to high five him because he made her ORGASM ! WHAT WORLD DO YOU LIVE IN ??

[HookahDude69]

@Joeinps Yes i agree give them a nice whooping

[RobertBX63]

"Praising your kids is always a good thing." but some kids with all the praising parents do. They still are aggressive and Dealing with them; becomes Difficult! once they hit the age of 16 years old. We have try everything to praising our children, they just don't care about our feelings. So just as you may believe that parising is the way. IT DOESN'T WORK ON MANY KIDS 7 youth today1

[BeezAksinJeeves]

A ball bat used on the bottom of the feet, sneaking in and waking them up with it at 2 in the morning, does wonders and will not leave bruises.

[butterflyfrills]

this is crap

[somarvelis]

oh lordy.

[clemdane]

This is utter baloney.

[codejunki567]

1:08 failure....

[Joeysic66]

I deal with defiant children by beating the shit out of them.

[VipericVampire]

Beat them up, it always works!

[indiakhetri]

my god! way over the top...

[dj2530]

fail whale.

[twilightmaze]

praist mayb a good idea , but the demo seems too much . They might think u acting to tease them +_+ll

[snowfallzz]

at 13 my friends mom used to ask him not to toss his dirty clothes all over the floor near the washer. She'd ask him, beg him, plead with him all the time. Then when that didn't work she told his stepdad, he got right in his face nose touching cheek with a finger in his chest and said.."Don't do it again." And that ended that. :) this man is now my father in law. :O

[armyboy06]

thats awesome lol

[mojojojo542542]

yer u right this is a fail

[antonioaquila]

Fail lol

[odesti]

That's all well and good. There's nothing wrong with a little praise now and then, but you don't have go all "squeaky" and look and sound like a fuckin' retard when you're doing it. Futhermore, when I would get defiant as a child, a few good slaps across my butt worked wonders!

[angellica12345]

Haha i love being defiant

[greengrouch9]

this bitch is dumb she dont kno shit

its dosnt sound goofy sound like u have shit for brains dizzy cunt

[Devin6gw]

1:08 she got a BONER LOL!

[yankeegurl62]

I have tried ALL these things. I have had to learn to 'deesclate' my son, do soft holds on him...how do you disapline someone who dosen't care? I am a prisoner in my own home..if I had one, and I can't find ANY help. I take him to theripists and they no help. He's 12, and I'm tired. He has FASD,ODD,GEN. ANX disorder, ADHD, and mild Cerebral palsy...along with Bipolar and Schizophernia....NOTHING WORKS!!

[wenzelsopinion]

first: no fast food

second: no medication - most medications are proven to increase aggressions and/or depressions!

third: leave him be. At the age of 12 children usually split from their parents in many way, but at the age of 14-16 they start to come back. Just keep in mind to check if he is doing drugs or drinks alcohol etc.

[blivey]

Take him to someone who can pray over him and get him delivered.

[christschool]

Good grief. That's a lot. I hope you have a sense of humor because at times, that's the only thing that can help pull you through difficult periods.

[chromaxabc]

On his rampage again.

[shortysmagic]

there is officially no hope for humanity

nah just jokin but that is some seriously fucked up shit

[DRiPPz6800]

touch?

[wenzelsopinion]

until 10 to 12 - but then that should already have worked...

[DRiPPz6800]

my professor has taught me its never ok to touch children in any way

cuz it may scare the child depending on the childs mental illness or past history

[christschool]

Lots of children like touch and to go without it is really cruel. My son has autism, and despite the stereotypes, he likes touch and a warm gesture. If a child doesn't like touch, he'll let you know and then don't do it again. But your professor is wrong if this is a blanket policy he is teaching.

[DRiPPz6800]

well thats the thing you don't know how they will react after you touch them

so its better to be safe and play the no touch rule

but its an exception if its your own child

[maxamojaxamo]

if my parents would have praised me like that i would have thought that my parents were retarded or somthing

[wenzelsopinion]

not at the age of 5... ;)

[blivey]

Lol

[amigas87]

my son is also definat at school, but not at home

[Samoriah]

What a bitch.

[DarkBrother363]

Back in the day, a good backslap when needed always worked.

But you cant do that anymore - kids know about child protective services.

Kids got it to good in the USA.

But as the bible says ""He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is careful to discipline him"".

[themanamp]

Actually, a lot of who brought up with their parents hitting them go on to be violent and anti-social individuals, often to their own children.

[Gilch30]

I think educators would get some helpful hints from something like this video.

[Swcdefiant]

I praise my child most of the time when she behave/follow instructions etc. For some reason, she is defiant at school.

[Gilch30]

How old is the child? Maybe the child is looking for the same unanimous praise in school. Praise can be both good and bad for the child. A child needs to learn to do well without needing to be praised and rewarded

[Swcdefiant]

She is 5years old. She is unpredictable child. Never know what she is going to do next.

[zorakandbrac]

I have some of the most polite kids you'll ever see. Please, thank you, your welcome, I"m sorry, all a part of my kids vocab. they listen and they rarley get in trouble. you know how you do that? you quit acting like a pussy and you swat them when they start to get out of line. No you don't beat em. but a little tap on the ass says hey quit screwing around. I'm sure someone will say I'm squelching my kids personality or some shit. Nope they are just fine and they play and have fun like a kid.

[wayniac917]

the world needs more parents like you. good job on raising your kids the correct way. to many people think when you child is acting like a demon you should take the time to settle them down and talk to them like an adult. guess what, there NOT adults, there kids.

[tirpitz12]

thts exactly how my parents raised me and me bro

[FoxcAry]

This works for my kids and they love the praise and enthusiasm. They even praise me, each other and their friends this way (it is so cute). Also PLEASE and THANK YOU go along way with my kids.

[FoxcAry]

This video dosen't tell all the details of how to handle a defiant child. There is more to what to do when don't mind. This video just shows what to do when they do mind.

[drbaker2011]

LMAO!!!! This video is the exact reason why some parents are getting beat up by their 9 year old child. C'mon PSYCHOLOGISTS, you can't really believe this.

[sheilasaidd]

If someone did that to me, I would seriously tell them to get the hell out hahah, why are they treating kids like dogs?

Adults clearly have no idea what they're doing.

Take a seat.

[GrandAkuma]

omg, if my parents do this to me when i was kid i would laugh at they face!

[FranceGamble]

This actually does work. But you have to follow the complete instructions in the book. This is just showing how to praise the child after you have started the process already.

[Jennikatt]

defiant chilren don't clean up their toys when told. this would work with my 2 yr old, not my 6 yr old.

[garciajennifer223]

That's exactly what I was thinking. I don't have defiant children, but I have some defiant neices, and the rule at my house is "you either pick up these toys or you don't play with them anymore when you come over". I have also thrown away a couple of toys in the past, so they know I mean business. That's all it takes.

[annieearp]

Gosh, who would have thought it was so simple! I am really over these patronising experts that come up with facile answers to complex problems.

[archtartist8]

OH MY GOSH! lmao

[azazgirl777]

Uhhhhhh, ok. This video was like two seconds of advice for an immensely huge topic. I basically got nothing out of this. Whoever puts these tiny clips together needs to make it worth our while.

[TheyAteThemselves]

Children are not dogs.. freaks.

[rikiboum]

Completely stupid ! Deeply stupid ! Children need to see force, and they seek for it. Why ? Because they are weak and they wait for their parents to protect them. When children see that they can rely on their parent's force, they become violent. You can praise a kid as long as you wish, if you appear to him weaker than he is, if he can't trust you as an protecting adult, you're lost.

[wayniac917]

HAHAHA @ because they are weak. you should write a book called "Parenting with an Iron Fist"