Re: Wife Beating in Islam - The Rules

[ooJesusIsMuslimoo]

An Nisa. In the name of Allah, the Beneficent, the Merciful

And give unto the women (whom ye marry) free gift of their marriage portions; but if they of their own accord remit unto you a part thereof, then ye are welcome to absorb it (in your wealth). Give not unto the foolish (what is in) your (keeping of their) wealth, which Allah hath given you to maintain; but feed and clothe them from it, and speak kindly unto them. Prove orphans till they reach the marriageable age;

[Inspirantist10]

this guy's really good

[monthereen]

very great

[Mrfalconfan1762]

If I ask and she say's NO are you gonna beat her?

[AntiHypocrisy]

@Mrfalconfan1762

If you ask and she says NO? then who am I to beat her? LOL. Is she your wife or mine?

If a Muslim husband finds his wife cheating on him then he is prescribed the ways to resolve it, and no, it does not include torturing her. Islam encourages husbands to forgive the mistakes of their wives, and suggests softer resolutions. Woman has the right to marry the man of her choice but husband will be the family leader and protector, not a tyrant.

[AntiHypocrisy]

Your government has the responsibility to provide you safety and protection, but that also brings authority with it. You follow civic conduct and enjoy the benefits; but if you go violent then don't whine about getting jailed.

You could apply this concept to the relationships of "Parents to children", "Senior to junior", & "Husband to wife". Husband is responsible for expenses of wife and nurturing and education of kids, and husband has seniority in decision-making for the welfare of family.

[ormaryan2]

@Mrfalconfan1762 wow, i am a muslimah and i would rather be dead than live like a women who isn't a muslim. quit judging a whole religoin by what some people do who barely understand the religoin. many girls in my school that i talked with would kill themselves cuz life stinks and they don't have a religoin that tells them otherwise. i am thankful to have been blessed with a religoin that helps me through challenges in life. I would suggest you go learn about the religoin and quit askin ppl

[WeooBeans]

I like watching his lectures ^_^

[doubleas2380]

As a Christian, I must ask, why cant we all just be free to worship whom we want to worship? I wish for Muslims to get the same respect I hope to get. Hatred sucks!

[LibnanFirst]

Just amazing !

jazaka allah 5ayran

[dindanyem]

He's really good! =)

[igop1988]

Allahu akbar... this video is really good.

5stars...

[Beysek]

brother, do you have tittles for this vid in english?

[RionaOops108]

Alhamdulillah Mashallah! May Allah Reward Khalid Yassin, and who ever posted this inshallah!

[damdama2001]

ALLAHU AKBAR!

[MrElmastermind]

who is this guy?

[AntiHypocrisy]

Khalid Yasin

[ALGERIA2010FOOT]

Please, i'm not very well in english, can you write what he said at 2:02 to 2:06 minutes, i will translate it in frensh or arabic. thank you.

[MrsHamdulila]

THANK YOU! I am sick of people telling me what ISLAM is, when they are only speaking out of prejudice, I know it's difficuly to open your eyes and hearts I was once a CHRISTIAN and AL-HAMDULILAH I have come to know the TRUTH! By the way, I also have a college degree in Business and I got it after I became a MUSLIM! I AM NOT OPRESSED I AM FREE AND HAPPY AND HAVE PEACE IN MY LIFE, JazakALLAH (thank you ALLAH!) I only wish everyone sees Islam with open eyes and an open heart.

[Afghanprince08]

May Allah bless you

[kaswara7657]

so fair so objective..

[Dotov]

very ture

[ameerawilson72]

Asalamu Alaykum and Mash'Allah!! Awesome video. Awesome speaker. May Allah continue to bless you and your family!

[argonium79]

im german and my english isnt good but this guy in this english video excited me more than any other one so far.

[alfulani5]

Mashallah brother!

Jazakallah khairan for uploading, Barakallah!

[yasminsweet]

alhamduellah, thank u KHalid Yasin, u're very a strong man with strong, clear, true, direct, correct and confident speech, mashallah, may All Mighty bless, reward u , we all we'll pray for u and ur family, u're a great person!!!

[liabug]

as a female who is spiritually trying to find the right path- this has helped me understand islam more! from what the media makes out (that islam is really bad)- made me think this wasnt a good religion- but this has proved the media wrong and i am seriously considering converting. thankyou for the insight. God bless

[kamlasayeen]

Peace be Unto You,

For more information please visit, the deen show, and reading Islam. they answer so many questions in a great way. Plus if you have additional questions, you can email them.

[mindit08]

god bless u sister every single muslim is gona welcome u in the brotherhood and sisterhood of this religion.when u make up your decision after studying islam more and let us know if we can help you out in this thank you

[RionaOops108]

Mashallah If you have any questions about islam let anyone of us (muslims) know. I'd be glad to help you out and send you some pamphlets and a CD of this Brother if you want.

[FahadKhan1988]

If Islam goes against woman rights, then why are there more Womans accepting Islam than males?

[mandyxx224]

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[xenniex]

Thx for upload, great vid

[onthenarrowroad1]

I am a Christian who has read the Bible independently and I see the teachings of Islam being closer to "True Christanity" than what the christian churches are teaching. I can see why so many people are flocking to Islam and becoming Muslims.....the Christians aren't being faithful to the God portrayed in the Bible nor are they obeying most of the commandments.

[JustMe2222222]

Its rare to find fair person like you.

[Zamfaiz]

To you my friend, as a Muslim I take my hat off & nothing but RESPECT! The division has been created in such away so that we fight amongst each other while the Elite evil does get away with murder.

Quran: Come to common term between us and you.

[kaiwaig]

Said it perfectly. Are we deluding ourselves when we claim to have freedom when forces all around us seem to exploit our humanity.

[Raoulmalaysia]

ppl should understand islam well and not just take from none muslim ppl as the shaikh said ...if u wanna know wether the women are opressed or no ...go and ask the muslims women who know more abt islam and don go look for those like wafa sultan cos that kinda ppl are looking for money and names ...

[xplorer1994]

islam doesn't tell anyone to kill...or take over...the media's job is to brainwash common ppl into believing this crap...and most ppl; without any proof belive it...they are the mentally ill...so keep your nonsense to urself!

[Malazoov]

really great speech .... thanks for the upld

[Benriasa]

Salams to my Muslims big up to ur my brov/sis tupacb6 this video is mashAllah beautiful..ask me! lol onli joking haha loving this man mashAllah and all of his speeches thanks for the upload! everything he said it true!

Peace

[tupacb6]

oi oi! biggin up all d muslims out der !sfe

[fabienmalouin]

I liked this video, one of the only Islamic ones that even states a proper point.

[dna1987]

What a great explanation. Thanks for the video AntiHypocrisy :)

[willemdawillem]

AntiHypocrisy, although I agree with several other videos you have posted, I think this guy is a little too "angry" and unrational, if you know what I mean. This guy claims that the Western world isn't free for women to make their own choices, but it is. We have the freedom (in my country at least) to choose to be a prostitute or to use drugs. And statistics have shown we have one of the lowest rate of drug users and sexual crimes. Being able to choose IS freedom.

[AntiHypocrisy]

Sorry, Your Ignorance Again. Which country is at top in rape and murder crimes in the world? Answer: America. Your answers are here:

youtube dot com/watch?v=AErTnK398Sc

[AntiHypocrisy]

youtube dot com/watch?v=vyboXCIVJY0

youtube dot com/watch?v=LtW7n0750Ts

I think I am not the person to convince you. what you are supporting is, that is called Anarchy.

[AntiHypocrisy]

This is the last bit from me:

youtube dot com/watch?v=Hi6A8K6Ts5k

[ptolemi]

AtheistATLARGE makes a good point. The guy in the video keeps going on and on about that Muslims don't beat their wives. That is nice, but he said nothing about what the Quran says. Does the Quran say to beat or not to beat wives?

[AntiHypocrisy]

youtube dot com/watch?v=H7cYbCgRJgs

[absoluteZeero]

@ ptolemi ...well , i am not sure if you wants to believe the words of a muslim , so why dont you read it yourself , if you are curious

[AntiHypocrisy]

Ok, answer me one question in "Yes" or "NO"

Have you stopped robbing and pickpocketing the people?

1- Yes

2- No

Answer me.

[ptolemi]

He said abortion is murder and that makes the West less complicated. Abortion being murder is subjective.

[whiteymcqueen]

He asks that islam isnt judged by few black sheep then intimates that rape murder prostitution are the fault of all the west. Evil is done by people under many flags. Im a westerner & Im against murder, rape, prostitution, violence, oppression, hipocrisy, intolerance, bigotry, stealing, abuse...Most religions say they are against these too yet many have suffered the above in the name of a god. Chill out & lets all look after each other instead of fighting. Preach love. Think for yourself.

[AntiHypocrisy]

>>many have suffered the above in the name of a god.

called Jesus.

[LanysNevelesser]

This guy is the Jesse Duplantis of the Muslim world, isn't he? What's his name? I'd like to hear more.

[chiefchumley]

Most of us aren't as concerned about how muslim women are treated here. We have a great society of muslims here in the US. In arab countries it is a lot different. And why would a woman speak out against her husband, when he is allowed to beat her?

[AntiHypocrisy]

>>And why would a woman speak out against her husband, when he is allowed to beat her?

Who is beating them? They are free to get divorce if they have anything bad about their husband. If you have problem with asking married women then who is asking them to marry?

[chiefchumley]

You can see the same thing in any society. Men beating their wives, but the women justify it by saying they did something to make him do it. The difference is whether society tolerates it. You can deny it is happening, all you want, it doesn't change the truth.

[AntiHypocrisy]

I wonder where is your mind wandering. Islam does NOT allow to beat the wife for any reason. Only in ONE case when she is not modest then husband has to warn her first, then boycott sleeping with her or in extreme case give her a little hand. Yet he is free to divorce her instead of beating. And she is free to get divorce instead of staying an immodest wife.

[chiefchumley]

"Islam doesn't allow it, except for 1 reason". You just contradicted yourself within 2 sentences. Whether islam permits it or not, there are some societies that do, and they happen to be islamic.

[AntiHypocrisy]

Why dont you go and rebel your government when it applies the rule of law? Why dont you take over the government to say that you have equal rights to punish and implement law? your hatered for Islam will not bring you anywhere.

Any Muslim who crosses the limits set by Allah , is responsible and will be answerable to Allah.

[chiefchumley]

why are we discussing when and under what circumstances men can beat their wives? If the bible told me I can beat my wife, then I would still not do it. But christians have undergone a reformation... and some societies have moved past the seventh century.

[AntiHypocrisy]

>>If the bible told me I can beat my wife, then I would still not do it. But christians have undergone a reformation.

That means Bible teaches wrong? You people reformed christianity because you did not like the way of bible? That proves its not God you are following but your desires, and that is why bible is currupt.

[chiefchumley]

No i said "if" the bible teaches... i'm not aware of any place that it does. The bible teaches love your wife as christ loved the church. We underwent a transformation because the catholic church was corrupt, and used religion for power over people. Hence the inquisition and the crusades.

[ptolemi]

Same can be said for Quran.

[schnecki07]

@AntiHypocrisy the bible has been rewritten by a corrupt man anyway..so what do u expect ;-)

[AntiHypocrisy]

And the whole concept has been explained in my other videos. If you dont agree then dont waste my time and keep your beliefs to youself.

[chiefchumley]

It usually takes a little longer for someone to tell me, "agree with me, don't waste my time, and no one cares about your beliefs". It's a good thing that I'm not your wife, because I might not be able to defend myself.

[AntiHypocrisy]

You picture the Muslims as if all the Muslims in every home do nothing except torturing their wives. What piece of crap. Go visit some Muslim country and you will find what is real love called. Its not my claim but your experience will tell you. The meaning of "family" still exists in the Muslim countries. Muslim husbands dont love their wives for their body and big boobs like the west.

[chiefchumley]

That last comment was a joke!!! I can admit that there are groups in my society that twist our religion, like the KKK. they are still here, but they do little damage now, and are seen as a joke. You can't admit that there are muslim societies that are twisting islam. Women's rights are a big concern in some islamic countries. If reasonable muslims, like you, could recognize that, then we would have taken the first step to fixing it.

[LanysNevelesser]

That's not exactly representative of families in the West, AntiHypocrisy.

[AntiHypocrisy]

Anyway, Its talking about general suicide of the western civilization. It does not mean there does not exist even a single family. When we blame a country for state terrorism then it does not mean its every infant and women are also terorrist. So try to understand the general societal buildup.

This speaker is "Khaled Yasin". You can search his video by his name in youtube. I will send you his most critical videos though.

[AntiHypocrisy]

Ok here is another one for your interest:

youtube dot com/watch?v=z-oM5IBsUWE

[FYIamfree]

AntiHypocrisy can i please add this 2 my favourate list.

[AntiHypocrisy]

I send you an alternative link in your inbox. you can add those.

[FYIamfree]

thank u am trying 2 collect all of khalid yasin vids thanks bro

[LSky]

Don't agree with all of what this person says. He seems right about people beating their wives will not represent the Islam or the Muslim culture. But it's just lame that he tries to make that culture look better by pointing out black sheep of other cultures.

[AntiHypocrisy]

Difficult for you to comprehend the Islamic system. It takes some time and effort to learn. Nobody can spoonfeed you. Try to learn what Muslims are saying. If women are really that miserable then you better are ask Muslim women what they feel. What the hell are these western bumbs talking on the behalf of those women who are more than happy being Muslim under the supervision of their husbands.

[LSky]

Please read my message before you reply.

[traitor323]

assalam aleikum, jazak Allah ...haha owned bro. alhamdulillah.

salam

[everlasting7]

Pleased tell me what the slang owned means. peace

[traitor323]

it usually is a game slang which proves the superiority of one player over another but in this case we can say he shut up those hypocrites that criticize islam while they have worse in their home. salam. sry for the unclear english.

[SlaveoftheOwner]

khalid yaseen.. top guy mashaAllah