TD Jakes Music Video "Helping Women Understand Men"

[Bhronda]

Non verbal is misspelled.

[britsdude]

to be honest. . . i actually like the video and the music. it was the words in between that i didn't really care for. i work with youth all the time and i am going to show this to them to see if they get something from it. now if you did have some non secular hip hop instrumentals you could play to this it would have been stupid sweet. but still it is a nice vid. post some more! ! !

[christophert365]

This music destroys the whole message as stated before ...very disrespectful

[GatorEmpire]

Come on people get past the music some may like it some may not FREE COUNTRY...if you don't like it just click it off because more are coming and for those who do like it I will be bringing out more

[married2money31]

WWWWWWWOOOOOOOOOWWWWWW



[Mr48cheese]

What does rick ross song doing with this. Very disrespectful

[03omisora]

15. sex after marriage

16. UNCONDITIONAL LOVEEE! until u have this u will not have unconditional intimacy

this is amazingggggg

[03omisora]

13. u can get a powerful sign from him, if u complete him. a woman can make or break a man,if he sees u are the resource he will always gravitate to you as u are his help and everyone likes their help have u seen any1 who doesn't? nooo u love pil dat help u!

14. her diffusion of a good husband is based on how she grew up? her interpretation of a good wife is related to how she grew up? SAME WITH MEN! but God is giving u someone he calls a great husband not wt u call a great husband

[03omisora]

11. you can not allow ur spiritual positioning to destroy ur natural relationship with someone which is why the pastor is a father to his kids first and a pastor after

12.its not that his not talking, its that his talking another language called men. but men communicate JUST as MUCH as FEMALES do they just go about it DIFFERENTIALLY.

[03omisora]

9. men and women do not think alike, he can not see things the way u see things - men talk different the pastor was saying if he noes a man is struggling or something all he would have to do is give him one tap on his shoulder and automatically the man would understand what the pastor is saying, whereas females would just want to talk it out.

10. effective communication is keyyy!!

[03omisora]

so we have to be careful.'sometimes if u just listen u can hear is whisper'dnt confront as it shuts dem downnnn!!!! if u shut him down whrre is going to be built up

[03omisora]

8.communication is more then confrontation - 'you may win the battle but no one wins the war' not is possible to confront an issue but still not have communication. women are forever saying to their partner u need to communicate, saying to parents to communicate with this r children but we dnt tell dem how to communicate sp as a results couples tend to confront one anther rather than communicate. anmd confrontation with man can shut down all hopes of communication so we have to be careful.

[03omisora]

7. so when something is bad and his cursing, his angry and upset saying all kinds of stuff and his saying this around u and ur all like nahh dnt talk like that or something along dem lines then who are u sending him to talk to as he came to talk to u.

[03omisora]

5. their os life and death in the tongue- it is a powerful tool which can bring blessing and curses so watch for what you do? watch out for what you say?

6. Your husband, boyfriend etc does love you but its in the difficult moments is when u can lose him.

[03omisora]

3. double standards- so why is it a situation when its you and a demon wen its him

4.so all those waiting on the lord for a spiritual man u shut really have no set expectations of how their should be as woman really have no point of reference as to how a spiritual man should be as we all have sinned and fallen short of Gods glory, and he is created just the way God wanted him to be so dnt try and change him to fit ur (a womans) criteria of spirtiual.

[03omisora]

his leaving her for so many different reasons for reasons such as putting pressures on a man to stay the way he was when in reality no one can stay the way they were when they come to a cross road.

[03omisora]

2.telling a story of a woman who had a rebellious child and she asked her where is his father? she replied saying his gone and the 13 year old son looking at the pastor saying ' as soon as i get the car keys am gone too' - point of this is that he is saying is that the son loves his mum but would leave her. it is possible for a man to leave a woman he loves I REPEAT IT IS POSSIBLE FOR A MAN TO LEAVE THE WOMAN HE LOVES WETHER ITS HIS MUM, WIFE ETC

[03omisora]

i believe his saying many points i will list dem now

1. remember from 'wild at heart' when it talks about how men struggle wit their masculinity that is true and what helps them with this was if their were to have a vision so in a sense it makes things clearer for them.

[trunkazproduction]

what sermon is this?.....can u please answer that

[drshantella]

Can't get to the message for this background music and the interruptions...

[drshantella]

Can't get to the message for this background music and the interruptions...

[MrHolt100]

great message but you cant have a good gospel preaching with rap music instrumentals in the background might want to think about that next time you make a video makes ya look like a hypocrite

[christian38742]

Awesome teaching by Jakes as always! Could you explain the need for the background music? His teaching is effective without it...

[honeybee1226]

I'm sorry the background music is not nessessary

[936justme]

Unmute the video so we can hear!!!

[angel035641]

Thank you Bishop, you have really helped me to understand where I have been making all mistakes. You are truly a man of GOD and thank him every day for you.

[noc444]

wow!! the message is amazing but the music is really annoying and loud!!!

[holymoutain]

" it is possible for a man to leave a woman he loves. " This is straight freaking lie! If you are talking about Agape love, which is God's love (unconditional love, also the right kind of love a Christian should have toward each other, then a man will not leave his woman if he has the Agape love toward her.

[RamelK98b]

@holymoutain anything is possible

[holymoutain]

@RamelK98b u didn't get my point.



[RamelK98b]

@holymoutain how can you tell I didn't get your point? all I said was anything is possible. lol

[christian38742]

@holymoutain I understand the passion behind what you are saying. However, a man can allow himself to be so pressured and coerced by a lack of peace and understanding at home, that he "chooses" to take the path of "least resistance". That usually means "somewhere" else. You can love someone and simply not like them!

[mlmbuildswealth]

ya'll pay attention to the message...it's all about the message not the music or anything else...stop complaining!

[mlmbuildswealth]

ya'll don't get caught up with the music...listen to the message!! All about the message.

[HollywoodStarTV]

your comments in the middle of the video is annoying sometimes

[MamaGboyega]

When he's talking trash to a woman...who's he sending her to?Hmmmm

There's no excuse for adultery. As Christians should pray for the fruits of the spirit. Galatians 5:22

Marriage a big deal.

[NBTJR5]

Whats with the music?

[tammyvibes]

please repost without music...thank you

[123shellie]

Good message, hated the background music....

[yourplaceofrest]

This will bless you if you allow it in your spirit!

[KN726]

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[KN726]

Hes making it seem like its in the womans responsibility how a man behaves.therefore if he behaves wrong its all HER fault! But everybody should be counted responsible for his OWN actions!

Yes, woman can behave wrong like every human being, but HE can choose how to respond to that!! Neither a godly woman nor a godly man will take the wrong behaviour of another person as a LICENSE to behave wrong as well!!

[zest4livin]

8:25 true i'm dealing with cancer and my husband does nothing. I'm feeling resentment, don't want to , but I don't know how to not feel it. I've talked to him several times about it he remains silent and distant.

[davekubak]

Whats with d trashy background music.

[TheUgorich]

God has fully equipped his servant for this generation!!!!

[FRANKMASI]

Great sermon. Like always TD Jakes delivers the word and it sinks in to our minds.

Knowledge is knowing how to sweep, Wisdom is picking up the broom and do it.

[beautyforashes81]

Thanks for posting this. But what's the name of this sermon?

[ladyjewelsforever]

@beautyforashes81 "C Your Way Clear" its on youtube