Bisexuality is such a confusing thing really and can be interpreted and seen in many different ways. Friendships and personalities have nothing to do with what I'm attracted to, because I can admit I'm quite a shallow person. It's looks that attract me to someone first, boy or girl.
It's also really hard being a bisexual female in this day and age because apparently I'm 'confused' or I'm an 'attention whore.' I was born this way. I'm bisexual, but it's not all I am, just wish people could see.
I'm a bisexual and have never felt the need to make more out of good friendships. I also agree that there are different levels. you can be more attracted to one then the other. I, myself am 50/50.
I'm bisexual, and I don't consider romantic relationships to be “more than a friendship”; rather, I consider them a special type of friendship. This is just a perspective, a way of seeing it.
@orrkhari Well, women make out with each other quite a lot. Especially when they are younger. Whether it's for a laugh, attention, a little bit of experimentation or fun. Men tend to do it more discretely. The amount of "straight" men I know that have confessed to experimenting with a guy or wanting to, is astronomical. If you weren't bi-sexual, then you wouldn't put yourself in a position where you would be with the same sex. I don't believe in labelling it as "experimentation". in my opinion.
I told my mum I was gay the first time, because I did'nt want her to know I was bisexual. People don't understand bisexuality becuase it's about having both of two worlds, which might translate as being greedy, and everyone can relate to that. After 2 days of telling my mum that I was gay, I then told her I was bisexual, and she told me that's "Which one do you want? It's better to be gay"..so yeah, that's my experience..
@sungmoon1987 Or maybe being bisexual translates as an admission that we're not sure what we want, and openly admitting that we're open to both sides. Which, in relationship terms, is not good at all.
I'm really not sure whether to say "fuck you" or "thank you." That was insightful, honestly. Rather stereotypical in that you make sweeping generalizations about a group whose perspective you admittedly aren't familiar with- though at least it was a well-thought-out, and original. The whole thing about indistinguishable friendships... really spoke to me. Though I do feel it's more likely that I'm just a bit of a slut. Anyway. Guess I'll forgo fuck or thanks and just say you have pretty eyes.
Bisexual means just that liking sexual activitiy with men and women.
On the other hand there is always one gender that wins over the other at times and will always be on that person's mind. There are also people who struggle with it b/c they enjoy the relationship but a commitment with the same gender is not feasible, whether b/c of their up-bringing, society, or own inner beliefs.
I am amused at the level of anger that is coming from so many of the comments here, wow really ppl, its no wonder no one knows anything about the LGBT community, its because any time someone like this shares his or her honest thoughts on a subject in stead of politely disagreeing and educating them they get attacked! come on now we are all supposed to be there for one and other, so lets at least try huh?
"I think that a person who's bisexual doesn't know how to distinguish a friendship from something more than a friendship" - that's the most narrow minding thing I've ever heard and I've heard it a lot. You're gay. Do you not know how to distinguish a friendship with every single human male that you meet?
Being sexually attracted to someone and being platonically attracted to someone is not the same thing. Please tell me you understand that!
why is it that the bisexuals get all the hate and discrimination because the gays lie and say they're bi at some point? so because gay people do something, bi people get the crap for it. awesome. -_-
I'm bisexual and still haven't come out yet. I can understand how G/L people may get upset about this because some people can use bisexuality as a stepping stone to fully coming out (I've seen it happen). I didn't want to do this so I had a hard think about my orientation and confirmed that I am bisexual. I Love girls. I Love guys. All shapes and sizes Haha which can be a problem when I'm walking down the street! But I'm happy that I know now and found out for myself. I'm coming out next year :)
De Acuerdo, la sexualidad es algo que se disfruta, se goza y no se martiriza por estereotipos, si no por un amor puro y natural que existen en dos personas. Felices fiestas.
I don't agree with your generalizations about bisexuals. There is a such thing as a confident and self-assured bisexual. I could come out as gay if I wanted to, but I'm not going to lie to myself. It's actually harder to be bisexual than gay in some ways.
im bisexual but i love women too much to give em up. i prefer women. theyre just something about em that i love. i dont really experience that hardly with any man. more curious but cautious.
goshh you are really cute , why do you have to be gay?..you know how many girls would be willing to kill to get with you? haha..im not one of them cuz im taken, but still im probably speaking for the other 2084854094 girls that are like "DANG IT HES GAY!" lol
when "bi" guys stop pretending they are more straight than gay - they will be honest with themselves - they will stop lying to people, hurting people... they aren't confident enough to say they are gay - its a shame. Of all the "bi" guys I know - they all like men more and there is always something that stops them from coming out... family, religion, self loathing, culture, fear,etc... I wouldn't say this - but Ive seen it so many times...
@timothyj1966 wow you sound really close minded. not to seem like an instigator. i love women way more than i love men. always have since i was a baby. i'm hardly ever attracted to a man. i can be with a man if wanted to but i dont have the desire hardly ever but women drive me crazy. the way they move talk walk act some habits i just love women way more than i will ever love a man. when i check out a guy it mostly will be he has something i want to have on me. but not really a sexual interest.
Actually, you were very spot on in the latter part.
I'm bisexual, and it's true, sometimes I find it hard to draw the line between friends and love (not sexual) interests, and are usually more focused on finding a long term lover than a friend or a one night stand. Though I wouldn't go as far as saying all bisexuals are like that (a hasty generalization is a very risky, and ultimately wrong thing to do).
I've always assumed that it is true based on this: There are no natural values in nature, you will never find an exact 1 or an exact 4; it's always decimals. So to think that human sexuality is an either or is frankly very ignorant (Ignorant as in ignorance of facts). It seems pretty obvious that it's a gradient, or many different gradients. Just think about the number of different neural connections in our brains, there are no clear lines.
But wouldn't it be harder to come out as a bisexual than just coming out as gay? When you're gay, you're discriminated against by many people who are straight, but you're accepted by other gays because they understand. When you're bisexual, you're discriminated by many gays and straights.
In my opinion, being bisexual just means you are able to be attracted to a PERSON. It's not about straight male or straight female..I'm bisexual..I love men & women... I haven o issue with being a lesbian..I just know that I like both...Really, to me, there's not anything to be confused about...Sometimes, the gay community reminds me of religion..People seem to think there's only 1 way to be...
I'm Bi and don't really agree, but its cool to hear your honest opinion about it. I've had people try to-and these are their words, after a few arguments-'Trip me up' in a conversation. apparently they thought that if they 'steered' the conversation in the right direction, they could get me to tell them 'that your just actually gay, really its cool.' Just tell me that you don't believe that it exists to begin with. Your entitled to your opinion, and I to mine.
I'm bisexual and, no, I am not confused, I am not promiscuous, I am not in denial and I am not going through a fucking phase. To me bisexuality is being attracted to a person regardless of what type of genitalia they have. Sure, I have a 'type' so to speak, and there are certain characteristics that I look for in a person to find them attractive (ex. I am partial to tall people with long legs) I just sincerely don't care if the person I am checking out has breasts or not. Period.
OK, and here's what bisexuality actually IS. One who is sexually attracted to both men and women. Any details beyond that factor are individual to the person. You may be confusing someone's actual sexual pallet for wanting to "be extreme and take that friendship to the next level". You make bisexuals out to be a damaged breed right out of the box. You're officially just another gay man saying that bisexuals are "off" in some way. Oh and by the way, it's "va-gi-na". Who says "vergina". really.
Thanks for the video. The thing that stood out for me in this video wa sthat I know being a bisexual isn' easy and it's about the person. Not about the dick not about pussy. Just the person. However there is a big big chance that it might be a range of things.
• Abused [male] adolescents, particularly those victimized by males, were up to 7 times more likely to self-identify as gay or bisexual than peers who had not been abused. W.C. Holmes and G.B. Slap, "Sexual Abuse of Boys," JAMA, Dec. 2, 1998, p. 1859.
@zeusbadger are you bi? Coz I am and I love my best friends as brothers and sisters. You can love them to an extreme level without wanting to move to that sexual level. My closest friends are mainly straight males and have all accepted me since I told them. Nothing has changed we are still brothers.
@Couver87 thought this might be of interest to you also.
@bamcis17 ive never heard of that before single-sexual person..that really makes it more universal for straight and gay people. i myself consider myself bisexual.
I know many people who say they are bisexual because they find personality attractive. Most of them use bisexual instead of pansexual because that term isn't as widely known. This is how it is for me. Every person I've dated I did so because of their personality. I've dated men and women. This topic has always been very difficult for me because many homosexuals don't believe in bisexuals. I get hell from both sides. I'm not confused. And I don't believe I'm wrong.
I know many people who say they are bisexual because they find personality attractive. Most of them use bisexual instead of pansexual because that term isn't as widely known. This is how it is for me. Every person I've dated I did so because of their personality. I've dated men and women. This topic has always been very difficult for me because many homosexuals don't believe in bisexuals. I get hell from both sides. I'm not confused. And I don't believe I'm wrong.
Your friend; he sounds like a pansexual. It is someone who doesn't discriminate between sexes. They love and r attracted 2 a person regardless of sex. To me, that is a very beautiful way 2 b and I respect her for that. However, I do disagree (sorry, I do see ur point and I think u hav a clear rational way of looking at things) but I think bisexuals aren't necessarily a halfway point - they r out there. I think it must be possible to be attracted to both sexes - why not? I am myself to a degree!
@MichelleRitsuko Actually, I have the same issue and I'm not pansexual... I cannot, for example, be attracted to transsexuals because I need someone who accepts who they are without question... But I am still attracted to their bodies ( I can be pretty shallow sometimes), but not their genitals... So yeah, we're out there, It just means we can form a happy relationship with someone who is male or female, and sometimes we have preferences too... :)
@ldsguy21 :D It does seem that sometimes there's a thin line between ones sexuality. When it comes to people there's a whole spectrum of what you could call "grey area" and you can't always put a label on it. -That's what I'm finding more and more. Btw everyone has a shallow side! Thanks it was good to have feedback on my thoughts. Always is ;)
@derdagian1 Homsexuality is as old as heterosexuality (not a day younger). And FYI, there is a HELLUVA lot more scientific proof to support both homosexuality in animals AND that it is how you're born than there is to support the existence of God or gods or whatever you believe in.
once upon atime there were some men who believed that homosexuality was terribly wrong and that gay people would go to hell.although they themselves were not gay they couldnt stop thinking about it they got terribly worked up,watching endless videos and scouring the internet and sending all sorts of messages.some of these posts were explicit indeed some descibed various sexual acts in almost pornographic terms.why they thought about gay sex more than gay people did.
**At this point I have never done anything with anyone, but I'm not an idiot I know how I feel when I look at people, I am interested in both men and women. Maybe after I have my first time with either sex I will decide but for now I'm happy with who I am. For me it's purely sexual in nature. I was talking to a woman on FckH8.com and she identified as a Pansexual, a person who doesn't see sex but only the person. In a perfect world that's how everyone would be. Great video. :)
In my opinion Bisexuality is very real and very underestimated. I'm a 16 year-old girl and from when I was a little kid to my preteens I'd only ever had crushes on guys. As I grew further in years and the stages of puberty I started to notice how women looked and not just to compare to myself. I used to get upset over these feelings I couldn't control. Thankfully I had some family I felt comfortable enough with to tell. They told me they would support anything I wanted to do.
I have totally told other people that I was bi, when I'm actually gay. At the time, I wanted people to know I liked men, but at least make them think I liked women, too, so that they would be more likely to accept me. But then, I came to terms with myself. I told my best friend the truth, and he comforted me into fully accepting myself. Being gay is so much easier now. It's no big deal.
Humans are sexual creatures. Always have been. If you take away the morals and ethics, we would get pleasure from whatever and whoever. Look at the Romans & Greeks. There was sex with children, animals, men and women. It may sound disgusting, but again, if you take away what you were taught (such as to be normal you must be straight) we would all be bisexual and the age group would be unlimited.
I agree with you on this one. All the bisexual guys I have ever met or dated... always want another guy.... not another girl. They just cant deal with their gay feelings because of religion or culture. I have never met a bi guy who had a girlfriend but wants to be with another girl... its always another GUY lol... so pretty much they want open relationships. I wish the Gay community would just drop the whole LGBT thing. It doesn't really exist. They really don't like both- honestly!
Okay, well in my opinion, bisexuality is as simple as this: they have sexual feelings for males and females. It's really not much more difficult than that. They may have stereotypes just as homosexuals and heterosexuals do, but there's no set behaviour or whatever obviously. I'm not entirely sure why you think there is.
Gays are partial to Bi-sexuals because bi-sexuality shows that what gender you love is a choice. Gays know it is, but their whole argument if based on concealing this truth, to portray an innocent "i can't help that I'm born this way" image. This is why they are partial to Bi-sexuals. Honestly, most gays don't really like heterosexuals. Okay, fair enough, so they don't like living? it's totally your right to be morbid.
Not true- none of sexuality is a choice. Straight people have no choice in liking the opposite gender. Bisexual people have no choice in liking both. Gay people have no choice in liking the same.
@maximum411 So you're telling me that I didn't choose to be straight? I did. See the thing is, homosexuals claim sexuality is not a choice, but I as an heterosexual claim I chose to be a heterosexual, so how do we know who is telling the truth.We don't, there is not scientific evidence that proves sexuality is linked to genetics.However, psychology proves that anything pertaining to the mind can be influenced in different ways.I 100%guarentee you I could teach a newborn to be straight or gay.
I am quite sure you're lying. No other straight person I have ever talked to has claimed to have chosen his or her orientation. Either you are an extremely rare exception, or, as is much more likely, you are lying to make a point. Only you know the answer (unless you've convinced yourself of the lie, too). At what age, exactly, do you remember "choosing" to like girls? Were you attracted to men at first as well?
@maximum411 Thank you for proving my point. Thank you very much. It's what I've been saying all along. How do you know that I'm lying about my sexuality? You don't, you can only assume. How do I know you are lying aobut your sexuality? I don't, I can only assume off of the given information. How do we both know we aren't just lying to make a point"? We don't know, we can only assume off of given information. I'm saying psychilogically it is proven that the human mind can be drastically changed.
I've taken psychology classes; I know that the human mind can be changed. Do not take this to mean, however, that anything and everything about the brain can be consciously changed. In fact, most things can't. The current estimate is that about 60% of our personality is genetically determined. People's personalities, while they often change slightly over time and in rare cases change more significantly, generally remain constant.
The APA, which is the leading authority on psychological matters in the United States, asserts that gay conversion therapy does not work. May people who claimed to have been "cured" have come out years later and admitted that the therapy didn't change them.
But tell me, were you saying you remember choosing your sexuality because you really do, or were you lying to make a point? That's important for this argument, but I'll assume you're telling the truth whatever you say.
I know that as a straight person, it might be hard to believe that other people aren't straight. You might think they are doing it for attention, to be edgy, etc. Trust me, though, being gay is extremely real, and I doubt anyone would ever choose it if it were an option. It makes life so much more difficult. It makes it harder to get married, harder to have kids, and harder to just have a pleasant, easy life. Trust me, if it was flexible or changeable, people would change.
@maximum411 "I know as a gay person,it might be hard to believe that other people aren't gay. You might think they are doing it for attention, to be edgy, etc. Trust me,being a zoophile is extremely real, and I doubt anyone would ever choose it if it were an option. It makes life so much more difficual. It makes it harder to get married, harder to have kids, and harder to just have a pleasant easy life. Trust me, if it was flexible or changeable, people would change."So legalize bestiablity.
The difference is, bestiality hurts animals because an animal can't say no or give consent. Gay relationships do not hurt anybody. If two people want to be in love with each other, why on Earth do you care?
Besides, there is a biological basis for being attracted to men, so it is easy to see how a difference in genetics or hormones could trigger this instinct in males (or vice versa). There is no biological basis, however, for being attracted to different species.
@maximum411 bestiality doesn't hurt animals lol. As a matter of fact, a dog or a horse might actually be able to recieve anal penetration, easier than a human would. Gay relationships do hurt people. Anal sex can cause anal mucus membranes to split which releases fecal matter into the bloodstream. Gay marriages perpetuate the occurence of separating children from their parents. I care when two gays steal a heterosexual term lol and tell me that it's none of my business. rofl. That's why.
Bestiality doesn't hurt animals? So you're saying that if a man forcibly rapes a rabbit, the rabbit's going to be perfectly happy? I'm not sure I understand how your mind reaches these conclusions.
And gay marriage does not "perpetuate the occurence of separating children from their parents." Many gay couples adopt orphans, so in fact bring them into families when they otherwise would not have had them, and make wonderful parents.
And you're no different than the people who said that marriage should be between two people of the same race. The term doesn't belong to you, or anyone, and can't be "stolen." This is about legal rights, and your bigoted opinions are no reason to deprive homosexuals of the same rights that heterosexuals have. Being born homosexual is not a crime, and as such should not be punished.
@maximum411 And secondly, there is no biological basis for attraction to men. If so, then you're saying that lesbians must really have some wiring problems in their genes. Thirdly, there is no biological basis for bestiality (I've researched), because it has not been tested lol. But how can you test attraction when you don't know whether it's innate or a choice? There are too many things that influence attraction. That's how I KNOW that there are no biological basis for attraction to ANYTHING.
There is a biological basis for attraction to a certain sex, and science has shown it. And yes, gays and lesbians do have different brain wiring- that has also been proven (e.g. gay men have larger corpus callosums than straight men, and differences in the amygdala).
You should check out a famous study on fruit flies. Altering some genes in the male flies led them to mate only with other males, and ignore females. Interesting "lifestyle choice" there, huh?
@maximum411 i agree. faggotry is a form of brain damage caused by chemical retardation when the mother tries to abort the fetus. Natural chemicals (antibodies and antigens) surge into the fetus in a natural but failed attempt to kill/ abort. These chemcials retard the otherwise healthy child rendering them gay! there is a video on it here on YT called "gay education".
Do you honestly believe that? Where did you come up with that?
Homosexuality is not "mental retardation." How do you explain all the gay students with high SAT scores attending top universities? Leonardo da Vinci was probably gay- he was prosecuted once under an anti-sodomy law, never married, and wrote that heterosexual intercourse disgusted him.
@maximum411 faggots also have the same natural rights as anyone else. faggots also have equivalent civil rights and are free to marry ppl of the opposite sex just like everyone else. whats faggots arent allowed to do is donate blood because many faggots are tainted from the gay lifestyle.
@maximum411 Dude, stfu lol. Science has not shown it.If science did show it, gay marriage would be irrifutable.And that gay men theory is far from true.Did you know I can make a statistic say anything? Especially when I'm a liberal scientist who works for the liberal government, and gets paid big liberal dollars, to decieve the liberal public with biased liberal information that they will infact listen to, because I have a PHd that they magically think makes me know EVERYTHING. Fruit flies? ha
You would think it would be irrefutable, wouldn't you? But then, here's a perfect example of why it hasn't- because ignorance always wins out. I just gave you objective, scientific proof that homosexuality is not a choice, and you immediately dismiss it as "the liberal government" without further investigation. Apparently it's that easy to dismiss information that doesn't agree with you.
Google search "fruit flies homosexuality." There's even a Fox News article about it- there's your liberal media for you. The study was done by researchers at the University of Illinois. Many such studies have been done with animals- for example, scientists at the University of Florida found that male ibises (a type of bird) which were fed mercury were more likely to form male-male pairs. Penguins, sheep, chimpanzees, and ducks have all displayed homosexuality. It's biological
@maximum411 "Once upon a time there was a boy who disgreed with gay marriage.A man came to him and said that lions and other creatures practice homosexuality and that is was okay because they did it. So the boy studied Lions and their "okay" behavior.The boy began to eat his young, piss on other people, bite people, and shit in the open.The boy wondered why he couldn't run 40 mph though. The boy was soon hospitalized and told he wasn mentally ill.The boy said "why? Lions do it"."
@DannyBISFAJohnson Once upon a time there was a herosexual who was so insecure about his sexuality that he blamed gay marriage for all his failures. He tried to pass laws of hate and discrimination against anyone who loved differently than the heterosexual majority. But it turned out that he was a closeted homosexual dealing with internalized homophobia and wanted to make everyone as unhappy as he was. So he mocked the animal kingdom as inferior to humans to justify his ignorance.
Your ex that was bi is pansexual. It's different than bi. Also I would read up on Kinsey, he really helps to understand bisexuality and its varying levels
Bis should die. I would kill them all because they are disgusting animals that need to be put to sleep. have your cake and eat it you greedy bastards. I am gay but i hate bis so much it turns my belly. Hang the bi's. My new law but gays and straight free.
A lot of gay people hate bi's and we look down on you and we class you as 3rd class. straights marry one person and gay one person. You can't marry two people of the opp sex like man/man/women, women/women/man. Its disgusting.
''A lot of gay people hate bi's and we look down on you and we class you as 3rd class.''
So you think of yourself as a second class person, i take it? You are trash. Any homosexual person who is willing to love the opposite sex can make a bisexual, it is about being open-minded.
And...
Pll dont born gay, they get used to being gay, so as straights, and bisexuals.It is an habit You earn your sexual identity by the time, you dont born with it.
@g0thicthedark You are so wrong people are born gay and straight. Bisexaulity is being greedy they rae more hurtful people then gay/straight altogether. They are a sack of shit. My last 2 boyfriends said they was gay but they was bi. They make me mad and i am out to hurt and detroy them. They are evil people. I am through with you beecause i am right bitch.
@neil22100 Your reply does not prove what i said was wrong, So im still right.
Tell me; how one pure baby borns gay or straight?
And what you are talking about is just some pll who calls themselves ''bisexual'', but only seeks for sex and more pleasure. That same thing goes for gays and straights too, pll seek other pll for sex, it is not something that goes only for bi's.
Some of us are not that simple, im seeking true love, wether in a man or a woman, it doesnt matter at all.
@neil22100 Neither am I intended to stay quiet, nor can you slice me open.
Since you were unable to prove that I was wrong, I'll keep considering that i am still right. You know that I'm right about ''gaining'' sexual identity.
I dont have any need to ''pick a side". I am both gay and straight. AND first of all, I am a reasonable person --unlike you it seems. As I've said before, not all of us bisexuals are ''greedy''. It's about that person. Pll seek sex all the time, even u. Not just us.
@neil22100 hmm... i have a pair of words for you then, ill leave you be afterwards.
You are trash, a loser that only wants to belive that being gay was not his choice. You cant even explain yourself about your tought, just repeating the same thing over and over again.
@g0thicthedark I am so right. I know i was gay at 3 years old and also when i was in school i was going to ask this guy out. I was only 5-6. So yeah gay are born this way and straights. Bi's no no so confused .com
@neil22100 Prehaps you are gay bcuz you knew about ''sexuality'' at that age, no? There is a reason why the adult contend is +18 age, you know...
There are factors that can affect on person's sexual identity during adolescence, Family is mostly effective in this, then there is friends, and maybe some unfortunate events; such as sexual harrasment, or meeting with sexuality at that young age (~6,p0rns). If a child never knew about sex before, that means it has no sexual identity. Im Right whinney.
@MrTHEPROUD Infact i am happy being gay but i have been out with 3 guys and they were bisexual. I find it hurtful because i think would he treat a women kinder then me then if he does he is straight.
I stick with the "I'm sexual and that's enough for me". I'm not gay, bi or straight. I've been in love with the opposite sex but that doesn't make me straight. If I fall in love with a person of the opposite sex I'm not gay or bisexual. I'm just me and that fact is what makes me believe that there are no sexual orientations, only individual preferences. It took me a long time to realise this but when I did I stopped caring for real about which gender I and other people prefer. :)
When it comes up I tell people I'm bi, when really I more identify with pansexuality.
I'm a girl who is currently in a relationship of three years with a guy that I plan to marry and have children with, but I have found people of all walks of life attractive, whether they be gay, straight, man, woman, transgender.
I think I just don't have that section of my brain that needs to know what's between someone's legs before I can be attracted to them.
I agree with the question, Gay people do not want to be judged and want to be excepting and yet they don"t except Bi people. I believe that if everyone had sex at least one time with the same sex, there would be a lot more Bi people.
FEMALE HORMONES ARE BEING PUMPED INTO THE FOOD. *RESEARCH IT*. No offense to gays because is really not their fault. They are the victims. They are a part of the N.W.O agenda... this bisexuality i will never understand
So, far in my life - the bisexual guys i've slept with all said to me, 'They would NEVER date men or have a relationship with men" They said, 'Men are for hot sex - woman are for dating a relationships" So, far my experience of bisexual guys has been heart breaking! I'm NOT saying all bisexual men hold this view - but so far in my life the ones i've been invloved with - hold this view!
@TrillLibra93 your sexuality comes from physical attraction, not your emotional desires. most gay people will say they would rather be with a girl but they aren't attracted to them.
honestly dat was kind of hurtful wat u said, nt evry1 is same, i hv both male and female frnds and i make it a personal rule to nvr date frnds cz i would nvr do anythng to ruin my frndship, i know the difference btwn different kind of love, and i agree dat its nt da body parts tht u love its the person inside, i fall in love whn sum on leaves a mark on my heart and it feels like u cant breathe if u dont have that person with u, i dnt care if its a chick or a dude.
actually, that's exactly how I feel, I'm bisexual and yeah I get what you're saying about how we want to take friendships to the next level because we have such a connection with them and we feel like we could have something special with them, I've fallen for 4 of my best friends because of how close we are. not all bisexuals feel this...but some like me do, and yes we do tend to fall for the personality and not their looks but I think inner beauty makes someone more attractive =)
i do that whole thing where i have to bring sexuality into my close relationships, but i can never get close on that level with girls. im just not attracted to girls like whatsoever. so for people who can do this with both genders, then i think that means something more in terms of if theyre gay or bi. i think you were right with the first thing u said.
Yeah umm i agree with you for the first 2mins,but not at all about bisexuals don't know how to distinguish a friendship from something more than that and we all ways want to be extreme and want to take it to the next level, that doesn't make sense, thats like saying because your gay your attracted to every man you see or you want to be more than friends with everyone of your guy friends. I don't mean any disrespect but I found that offensive, and I'm a girl who likes girls and boys.
I told myself I was bi for a long time, but I'm gay. One of the reasons I convinced myself I was bi was that I am 95% attracted to men and 5% to women - just not enough to fall in love with girls.
So I'm gay, and I'll stick to that, but I don't think labels work for everyone. Bisexuality does exist, but it's just another range on the sliding scale of sexuality. Don't hate bisexuals if you're gay, silly. Just tell them to date girls so there are more guys for you! :)
I get this all the time. I'm a bisexual male, more attracted to men than women in general. And I disagree that bisexuals are attracted to the personality as opposed to the physicality. I am sexually attracted to both, I like sex with both. I may be attracted to someone's personality and not sexually. Sexuality is fluid, it can and does change over time. People should stop judging, especially gay people, who have a long history of being on the receiving end of discrimination. Love x
Now, I'm glad you're saying that it's what you THINK Bisexuality is and not just being all "THIS IS WHAT BISEXUALITY IS. DEAL WITH IT."
I know many Bisexual people. My older brother is Bisexual. He's had many Gay and Bisexual friends and only went out with two of them. At the moment, he is happily married and has been for the past 5 years.
Although almost all child molesters are male less than 3 percent of men are homosexual yet about a third of all child sex abuse cases involve homosexual men molesting boys -- and in one study, 86% of molesters were homosexual or bisexual," CNSNews.com October 03, 2006
@anotherbottleofbeer Molestation has nothing to do with sexual orientation it's about control. My step-dad molested both his first kids, a boy and a girl. He may have even done it to me (a girl) but my memory isn't clear on the subject. And even if your little study was right it wouldn't mean all homosexuals/bisexuals were molesters. This comment may have been even slightly worth reading if this video was about the sexuality of molestars but it's not.
Oh, you silly uneducated bigot. I love my brother, and I don't find anything wrong with him being Bisexual. It's a mystery to me why it bothers you so much, seeing as how you don't even know us. Oh well, bigots will be bigots. :)
I hope you have a delightfully horrible day. Toodles! <3
@KOSMOSandTELOS i would not love him. You should kill him and burns his heart to get the bisexual out of him. If i did find where he lives i would kill him but slow and i would put a bag over his head, tie him up and sit on his face and enjoy him dying very slow. You will lose him one day by me.
@KOSMOSandTELOS YEAH THAT IS RIGHT BISEXULAS R DEEPLY CONFUSED AND SHOULD BE PUT TO DEATH. THEN AGAIN DEATH IS TOO GOOD FOR THEM. I WILL BE KNOWN AS THE BISEXUAL SERIAL KILLER. NO JOKE.
I like your videos very much, you are very down to earth and speak from your heart, thanks!!!
averagegui 1 week ago
Bisexuality is such a confusing thing really and can be interpreted and seen in many different ways. Friendships and personalities have nothing to do with what I'm attracted to, because I can admit I'm quite a shallow person. It's looks that attract me to someone first, boy or girl.
It's also really hard being a bisexual female in this day and age because apparently I'm 'confused' or I'm an 'attention whore.' I was born this way. I'm bisexual, but it's not all I am, just wish people could see.
Jessiebabes321 2 weeks ago
I'm a bisexual and have never felt the need to make more out of good friendships. I also agree that there are different levels. you can be more attracted to one then the other. I, myself am 50/50.
bluefox4000 2 weeks ago
I tend to be submissive. What attracts me is giving someone pleasure despite gender.
warjikin 1 month ago
I'm bisexual, and I don't consider romantic relationships to be “more than a friendship”; rather, I consider them a special type of friendship. This is just a perspective, a way of seeing it.
xXvolhvXx 1 month ago
I think everyone is bisexual to be honest. Just some people are more to one side and others to another.
shadowskink 1 month ago 5
@shadowskink why do u think everybody is bisexual
orrkhari 2 weeks ago
@orrkhari Well, women make out with each other quite a lot. Especially when they are younger. Whether it's for a laugh, attention, a little bit of experimentation or fun. Men tend to do it more discretely. The amount of "straight" men I know that have confessed to experimenting with a guy or wanting to, is astronomical. If you weren't bi-sexual, then you wouldn't put yourself in a position where you would be with the same sex. I don't believe in labelling it as "experimentation". in my opinion.
shadowskink 2 weeks ago
@shadowskink what does discretely mean.... and so i guess men are more secretive about it?
orrkhari 2 weeks ago
@orrkhari I meant it in the context that they are more secretive yes :)
shadowskink 2 weeks ago
Bisexual doesn't always mean 50/50. In my case, I'm 60/40 guys to girls.
blackdragon61a 1 month ago 4
I told my mum I was gay the first time, because I did'nt want her to know I was bisexual. People don't understand bisexuality becuase it's about having both of two worlds, which might translate as being greedy, and everyone can relate to that. After 2 days of telling my mum that I was gay, I then told her I was bisexual, and she told me that's "Which one do you want? It's better to be gay"..so yeah, that's my experience..
sungmoon1987 1 month ago
@sungmoon1987 Or maybe being bisexual translates as an admission that we're not sure what we want, and openly admitting that we're open to both sides. Which, in relationship terms, is not good at all.
sungmoon1987 1 month ago
I'm really not sure whether to say "fuck you" or "thank you." That was insightful, honestly. Rather stereotypical in that you make sweeping generalizations about a group whose perspective you admittedly aren't familiar with- though at least it was a well-thought-out, and original. The whole thing about indistinguishable friendships... really spoke to me. Though I do feel it's more likely that I'm just a bit of a slut. Anyway. Guess I'll forgo fuck or thanks and just say you have pretty eyes.
alemanaheyhey 1 month ago 2
Bisexual means just that liking sexual activitiy with men and women.
On the other hand there is always one gender that wins over the other at times and will always be on that person's mind. There are also people who struggle with it b/c they enjoy the relationship but a commitment with the same gender is not feasible, whether b/c of their up-bringing, society, or own inner beliefs.
shin0bi88 1 month ago
I am amused at the level of anger that is coming from so many of the comments here, wow really ppl, its no wonder no one knows anything about the LGBT community, its because any time someone like this shares his or her honest thoughts on a subject in stead of politely disagreeing and educating them they get attacked! come on now we are all supposed to be there for one and other, so lets at least try huh?
darknessblinding 1 month ago
"I think that a person who's bisexual doesn't know how to distinguish a friendship from something more than a friendship" - that's the most narrow minding thing I've ever heard and I've heard it a lot. You're gay. Do you not know how to distinguish a friendship with every single human male that you meet?
Being sexually attracted to someone and being platonically attracted to someone is not the same thing. Please tell me you understand that!
kwraikarn 2 months ago 2
why is it that the bisexuals get all the hate and discrimination because the gays lie and say they're bi at some point? so because gay people do something, bi people get the crap for it. awesome. -_-
dear gay people, FUCKING STOP IT.
IHatePeople39122 2 months ago 2
I'm bisexual and still haven't come out yet. I can understand how G/L people may get upset about this because some people can use bisexuality as a stepping stone to fully coming out (I've seen it happen). I didn't want to do this so I had a hard think about my orientation and confirmed that I am bisexual. I Love girls. I Love guys. All shapes and sizes Haha which can be a problem when I'm walking down the street! But I'm happy that I know now and found out for myself. I'm coming out next year :)
xxcrazylukexx 2 months ago
nope, you are wrong i am not lieing i am biosexual it means you love guys and girls
m954439c 2 months ago
De Acuerdo, la sexualidad es algo que se disfruta, se goza y no se martiriza por estereotipos, si no por un amor puro y natural que existen en dos personas. Felices fiestas.
arnoldorobles 2 months ago
I don't agree with your generalizations about bisexuals. There is a such thing as a confident and self-assured bisexual. I could come out as gay if I wanted to, but I'm not going to lie to myself. It's actually harder to be bisexual than gay in some ways.
SpeedwayC 2 months ago
im bisexual but i love women too much to give em up. i prefer women. theyre just something about em that i love. i dont really experience that hardly with any man. more curious but cautious.
legalman07 2 months ago
goshh you are really cute , why do you have to be gay?..you know how many girls would be willing to kill to get with you? haha..im not one of them cuz im taken, but still im probably speaking for the other 2084854094 girls that are like "DANG IT HES GAY!" lol
mairaishot15 2 months ago
when "bi" guys stop pretending they are more straight than gay - they will be honest with themselves - they will stop lying to people, hurting people... they aren't confident enough to say they are gay - its a shame. Of all the "bi" guys I know - they all like men more and there is always something that stops them from coming out... family, religion, self loathing, culture, fear,etc... I wouldn't say this - but Ive seen it so many times...
timothyj1966 2 months ago
@timothyj1966 wow you sound really close minded. not to seem like an instigator. i love women way more than i love men. always have since i was a baby. i'm hardly ever attracted to a man. i can be with a man if wanted to but i dont have the desire hardly ever but women drive me crazy. the way they move talk walk act some habits i just love women way more than i will ever love a man. when i check out a guy it mostly will be he has something i want to have on me. but not really a sexual interest.
legalman07 2 months ago
Actually, you were very spot on in the latter part.
I'm bisexual, and it's true, sometimes I find it hard to draw the line between friends and love (not sexual) interests, and are usually more focused on finding a long term lover than a friend or a one night stand. Though I wouldn't go as far as saying all bisexuals are like that (a hasty generalization is a very risky, and ultimately wrong thing to do).
tecaltabiano 2 months ago 3
I've always assumed that it is true based on this: There are no natural values in nature, you will never find an exact 1 or an exact 4; it's always decimals. So to think that human sexuality is an either or is frankly very ignorant (Ignorant as in ignorance of facts). It seems pretty obvious that it's a gradient, or many different gradients. Just think about the number of different neural connections in our brains, there are no clear lines.
cl1mbat1ze 2 months ago
Bisexuality does not exist
748cowboy 2 months ago
@748cowboy Trolll...move on
movelea 2 months ago
But wouldn't it be harder to come out as a bisexual than just coming out as gay? When you're gay, you're discriminated against by many people who are straight, but you're accepted by other gays because they understand. When you're bisexual, you're discriminated by many gays and straights.
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In my opinion, being bisexual just means you are able to be attracted to a PERSON. It's not about straight male or straight female..I'm bisexual..I love men & women... I haven o issue with being a lesbian..I just know that I like both...Really, to me, there's not anything to be confused about...Sometimes, the gay community reminds me of religion..People seem to think there's only 1 way to be...
oxidowhatiwantxo 2 months ago 4
@oxidowhatiwantxo EXACTLY!
Aaliyon101 2 months ago
@oxidowhatiwantxo I'd like to vote this comment up over and over.
kwraikarn 2 months ago
I'm Bi and don't really agree, but its cool to hear your honest opinion about it. I've had people try to-and these are their words, after a few arguments-'Trip me up' in a conversation. apparently they thought that if they 'steered' the conversation in the right direction, they could get me to tell them 'that your just actually gay, really its cool.' Just tell me that you don't believe that it exists to begin with. Your entitled to your opinion, and I to mine.
Konekohanyou 3 months ago
I'm bisexual and, no, I am not confused, I am not promiscuous, I am not in denial and I am not going through a fucking phase. To me bisexuality is being attracted to a person regardless of what type of genitalia they have. Sure, I have a 'type' so to speak, and there are certain characteristics that I look for in a person to find them attractive (ex. I am partial to tall people with long legs) I just sincerely don't care if the person I am checking out has breasts or not. Period.
meram9002 3 months ago
Origins. We are all bi in a sense. Idk why we hate though. even some gays hate gays. Vise versa. Gay bi or str8, we all live togther
mexicancricket7 3 months ago
Everyone is gay and straight at the same time. Hate is developed outside of these o
mexicancricket7 3 months ago
I don't think I can take anything you say seriously after this train wreck.
joshuabilodeau3 3 months ago
OK, and here's what bisexuality actually IS. One who is sexually attracted to both men and women. Any details beyond that factor are individual to the person. You may be confusing someone's actual sexual pallet for wanting to "be extreme and take that friendship to the next level". You make bisexuals out to be a damaged breed right out of the box. You're officially just another gay man saying that bisexuals are "off" in some way. Oh and by the way, it's "va-gi-na". Who says "vergina". really.
joshuabilodeau3 3 months ago
I know what friendship means
I know what romantic relationship means
I know what sexual relationship means
I am indeed not confusing all these things And I am Bisexual.
Come on! is really not that hard!
We just like both genders, which is awesome,
doubles the chances to get laid on Saturday!
4t0m1o 3 months ago
Attraction to the person and their personality isn't bisexuality, it's pansexuality ;D
mariavc11 4 months ago
Thanks for the video. The thing that stood out for me in this video wa sthat I know being a bisexual isn' easy and it's about the person. Not about the dick not about pussy. Just the person. However there is a big big chance that it might be a range of things.
Maxxbond007 4 months ago
If you don`t know about something you`re asked about, why not simply say you can`t give an answer because you don`t know?
Wait, I think at the beginning you say you know a lot about bisexuality. Then, at the end, you say you don`t. So, which is it?
fexurbis123 4 months ago
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• Abused [male] adolescents, particularly those victimized by males, were up to 7 times more likely to self-identify as gay or bisexual than peers who had not been abused. W.C. Holmes and G.B. Slap, "Sexual Abuse of Boys," JAMA, Dec. 2, 1998, p. 1859.
unfortunatetrademark 4 months ago
"I think that a person who's bisexual doesn't know how to distinguish a friendship from something more than a friendship" - you
"The homosexual male is the result of a overbearing mother and an absent father" - freud
"Gay teachers will make your children gay" -religious right
Same bulls--t, different a-holes.
Don't resort to generalizations until you're met everyone within a minority
toastantoine 4 months ago 47
@zeusbadger are you bi? Coz I am and I love my best friends as brothers and sisters. You can love them to an extreme level without wanting to move to that sexual level. My closest friends are mainly straight males and have all accepted me since I told them. Nothing has changed we are still brothers.
@Couver87 thought this might be of interest to you also.
aaronfawcett9911 4 months ago
More bigotry from a single-sexual person. Thumbs down :(
bamcis17 4 months ago
@bamcis17 ive never heard of that before single-sexual person..that really makes it more universal for straight and gay people. i myself consider myself bisexual.
MsSMSgirl 4 months ago
i have to disagree i find both the penis and the vagina to be sexually attractive
Sitrucrellim12 5 months ago 2
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I find penis and vagina attractive! i have to disagree with you on this one
Sitrucrellim12 5 months ago
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I find penis and vagina attractive! i have to disagree with you on this one
Sitrucrellim12 5 months ago
I find penis and vagina attractive! i have to disagree with you on this one
Sitrucrellim12 5 months ago
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You are full of shit.
barricksman 5 months ago
At 2:45, agreed!
zeusbadger1 5 months ago
i think you are totally right:)
samistarish 5 months ago
I agree with this 100%
stevejumps91 5 months ago
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I know many people who say they are bisexual because they find personality attractive. Most of them use bisexual instead of pansexual because that term isn't as widely known. This is how it is for me. Every person I've dated I did so because of their personality. I've dated men and women. This topic has always been very difficult for me because many homosexuals don't believe in bisexuals. I get hell from both sides. I'm not confused. And I don't believe I'm wrong.
LiveAndLove4now 5 months ago
I know many people who say they are bisexual because they find personality attractive. Most of them use bisexual instead of pansexual because that term isn't as widely known. This is how it is for me. Every person I've dated I did so because of their personality. I've dated men and women. This topic has always been very difficult for me because many homosexuals don't believe in bisexuals. I get hell from both sides. I'm not confused. And I don't believe I'm wrong.
LiveAndLove4now 5 months ago
Your friend; he sounds like a pansexual. It is someone who doesn't discriminate between sexes. They love and r attracted 2 a person regardless of sex. To me, that is a very beautiful way 2 b and I respect her for that. However, I do disagree (sorry, I do see ur point and I think u hav a clear rational way of looking at things) but I think bisexuals aren't necessarily a halfway point - they r out there. I think it must be possible to be attracted to both sexes - why not? I am myself to a degree!
MichelleRitsuko 5 months ago 24
@MichelleRitsuko Actually, I have the same issue and I'm not pansexual... I cannot, for example, be attracted to transsexuals because I need someone who accepts who they are without question... But I am still attracted to their bodies ( I can be pretty shallow sometimes), but not their genitals... So yeah, we're out there, It just means we can form a happy relationship with someone who is male or female, and sometimes we have preferences too... :)
ldsguy21 1 month ago
@ldsguy21 :D It does seem that sometimes there's a thin line between ones sexuality. When it comes to people there's a whole spectrum of what you could call "grey area" and you can't always put a label on it. -That's what I'm finding more and more. Btw everyone has a shallow side! Thanks it was good to have feedback on my thoughts. Always is ;)
MichelleRitsuko 1 month ago
@MichelleRitsuko hahaha, I completely agree, you're very welcome :)
ldsguy21 1 month ago
@derdagian1 Homsexuality is as old as heterosexuality (not a day younger). And FYI, there is a HELLUVA lot more scientific proof to support both homosexuality in animals AND that it is how you're born than there is to support the existence of God or gods or whatever you believe in.
SWLinPHX 5 months ago
@SWLinPHX I have seen some primates eat feces at the zoo. That is the only homosexual behavior that I have seen in an animal.
Is that what you're talking about?
derdagian1 5 months ago
@derdagian1 Let's not get off the topic by discussing your home life & upbringing, okay?
SWLinPHX 5 months ago
Bisexuals are the luckiest people of all! : )P
SWLinPHX 5 months ago
I want to squeeze your sweet butt into a bisexual threesome sandwich. You can fuck my ass while I'm pounding some pussy.
UltimaPervert 5 months ago
hahah ur so pretty
happilesssmile 6 months ago
once upon atime there were some men who believed that homosexuality was terribly wrong and that gay people would go to hell.although they themselves were not gay they couldnt stop thinking about it they got terribly worked up,watching endless videos and scouring the internet and sending all sorts of messages.some of these posts were explicit indeed some descibed various sexual acts in almost pornographic terms.why they thought about gay sex more than gay people did.
forsythbill1 6 months ago
ben affleck?
no way, hugh grant!
harvinsky 6 months ago
dude you so look like Ben Affleck
illtakedarain 6 months ago
I'm bisexual. And i know i'm not confused or anything. I just enjoy being with guys and girls. It's just the personality that counts :P
ThatAshleyGirl69 6 months ago
you are awesome.!! thanks for making this video . i think these issues are very important and more people need to hear about them.
jenenjisgarden 6 months ago
**At this point I have never done anything with anyone, but I'm not an idiot I know how I feel when I look at people, I am interested in both men and women. Maybe after I have my first time with either sex I will decide but for now I'm happy with who I am. For me it's purely sexual in nature. I was talking to a woman on FckH8.com and she identified as a Pansexual, a person who doesn't see sex but only the person. In a perfect world that's how everyone would be. Great video. :)
Darkrose517 6 months ago
In my opinion Bisexuality is very real and very underestimated. I'm a 16 year-old girl and from when I was a little kid to my preteens I'd only ever had crushes on guys. As I grew further in years and the stages of puberty I started to notice how women looked and not just to compare to myself. I used to get upset over these feelings I couldn't control. Thankfully I had some family I felt comfortable enough with to tell. They told me they would support anything I wanted to do.
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neil22100 6 months ago
I have totally told other people that I was bi, when I'm actually gay. At the time, I wanted people to know I liked men, but at least make them think I liked women, too, so that they would be more likely to accept me. But then, I came to terms with myself. I told my best friend the truth, and he comforted me into fully accepting myself. Being gay is so much easier now. It's no big deal.
MisterTellius 6 months ago
I masturbate viciously to your beautiful face.
pandafuhrer 6 months ago
Humans are sexual creatures. Always have been. If you take away the morals and ethics, we would get pleasure from whatever and whoever. Look at the Romans & Greeks. There was sex with children, animals, men and women. It may sound disgusting, but again, if you take away what you were taught (such as to be normal you must be straight) we would all be bisexual and the age group would be unlimited.
roedhunt 6 months ago
I agree with you on this one. All the bisexual guys I have ever met or dated... always want another guy.... not another girl. They just cant deal with their gay feelings because of religion or culture. I have never met a bi guy who had a girlfriend but wants to be with another girl... its always another GUY lol... so pretty much they want open relationships. I wish the Gay community would just drop the whole LGBT thing. It doesn't really exist. They really don't like both- honestly!
timothyj1966 6 months ago
Okay, well in my opinion, bisexuality is as simple as this: they have sexual feelings for males and females. It's really not much more difficult than that. They may have stereotypes just as homosexuals and heterosexuals do, but there's no set behaviour or whatever obviously. I'm not entirely sure why you think there is.
Toadsanime 6 months ago
Gays are partial to Bi-sexuals because bi-sexuality shows that what gender you love is a choice. Gays know it is, but their whole argument if based on concealing this truth, to portray an innocent "i can't help that I'm born this way" image. This is why they are partial to Bi-sexuals. Honestly, most gays don't really like heterosexuals. Okay, fair enough, so they don't like living? it's totally your right to be morbid.
DannyBISFAJohnson 7 months ago
@DannyBISFAJohnson
Not true- none of sexuality is a choice. Straight people have no choice in liking the opposite gender. Bisexual people have no choice in liking both. Gay people have no choice in liking the same.
maximum411 6 months ago
@maximum411 So you're telling me that I didn't choose to be straight? I did. See the thing is, homosexuals claim sexuality is not a choice, but I as an heterosexual claim I chose to be a heterosexual, so how do we know who is telling the truth.We don't, there is not scientific evidence that proves sexuality is linked to genetics.However, psychology proves that anything pertaining to the mind can be influenced in different ways.I 100%guarentee you I could teach a newborn to be straight or gay.
DannyBISFAJohnson 6 months ago
@DannyBISFAJohnson
I am quite sure you're lying. No other straight person I have ever talked to has claimed to have chosen his or her orientation. Either you are an extremely rare exception, or, as is much more likely, you are lying to make a point. Only you know the answer (unless you've convinced yourself of the lie, too). At what age, exactly, do you remember "choosing" to like girls? Were you attracted to men at first as well?
maximum411 6 months ago
@maximum411 Thank you for proving my point. Thank you very much. It's what I've been saying all along. How do you know that I'm lying about my sexuality? You don't, you can only assume. How do I know you are lying aobut your sexuality? I don't, I can only assume off of the given information. How do we both know we aren't just lying to make a point"? We don't know, we can only assume off of given information. I'm saying psychilogically it is proven that the human mind can be drastically changed.
DannyBISFAJohnson 6 months ago
@DannyBISFAJohnson
I've taken psychology classes; I know that the human mind can be changed. Do not take this to mean, however, that anything and everything about the brain can be consciously changed. In fact, most things can't. The current estimate is that about 60% of our personality is genetically determined. People's personalities, while they often change slightly over time and in rare cases change more significantly, generally remain constant.
maximum411 6 months ago
@DannyBISFAJohnson
The APA, which is the leading authority on psychological matters in the United States, asserts that gay conversion therapy does not work. May people who claimed to have been "cured" have come out years later and admitted that the therapy didn't change them.
But tell me, were you saying you remember choosing your sexuality because you really do, or were you lying to make a point? That's important for this argument, but I'll assume you're telling the truth whatever you say.
maximum411 6 months ago
@DannyBISFAJohnson
I know that as a straight person, it might be hard to believe that other people aren't straight. You might think they are doing it for attention, to be edgy, etc. Trust me, though, being gay is extremely real, and I doubt anyone would ever choose it if it were an option. It makes life so much more difficult. It makes it harder to get married, harder to have kids, and harder to just have a pleasant, easy life. Trust me, if it was flexible or changeable, people would change.
maximum411 6 months ago
@maximum411 "I know as a gay person,it might be hard to believe that other people aren't gay. You might think they are doing it for attention, to be edgy, etc. Trust me,being a zoophile is extremely real, and I doubt anyone would ever choose it if it were an option. It makes life so much more difficual. It makes it harder to get married, harder to have kids, and harder to just have a pleasant easy life. Trust me, if it was flexible or changeable, people would change."So legalize bestiablity.
DannyBISFAJohnson 6 months ago
@DannyBISFAJohnson
The difference is, bestiality hurts animals because an animal can't say no or give consent. Gay relationships do not hurt anybody. If two people want to be in love with each other, why on Earth do you care?
Besides, there is a biological basis for being attracted to men, so it is easy to see how a difference in genetics or hormones could trigger this instinct in males (or vice versa). There is no biological basis, however, for being attracted to different species.
maximum411 6 months ago
@maximum411 bestiality doesn't hurt animals lol. As a matter of fact, a dog or a horse might actually be able to recieve anal penetration, easier than a human would. Gay relationships do hurt people. Anal sex can cause anal mucus membranes to split which releases fecal matter into the bloodstream. Gay marriages perpetuate the occurence of separating children from their parents. I care when two gays steal a heterosexual term lol and tell me that it's none of my business. rofl. That's why.
DannyBISFAJohnson 6 months ago
@DannyBISFAJohnson
Bestiality doesn't hurt animals? So you're saying that if a man forcibly rapes a rabbit, the rabbit's going to be perfectly happy? I'm not sure I understand how your mind reaches these conclusions.
And gay marriage does not "perpetuate the occurence of separating children from their parents." Many gay couples adopt orphans, so in fact bring them into families when they otherwise would not have had them, and make wonderful parents.
maximum411 6 months ago
@DannyBISFAJohnson
And you're no different than the people who said that marriage should be between two people of the same race. The term doesn't belong to you, or anyone, and can't be "stolen." This is about legal rights, and your bigoted opinions are no reason to deprive homosexuals of the same rights that heterosexuals have. Being born homosexual is not a crime, and as such should not be punished.
maximum411 6 months ago
@maximum411 And secondly, there is no biological basis for attraction to men. If so, then you're saying that lesbians must really have some wiring problems in their genes. Thirdly, there is no biological basis for bestiality (I've researched), because it has not been tested lol. But how can you test attraction when you don't know whether it's innate or a choice? There are too many things that influence attraction. That's how I KNOW that there are no biological basis for attraction to ANYTHING.
DannyBISFAJohnson 6 months ago
@DannyBISFAJohnson
There is a biological basis for attraction to a certain sex, and science has shown it. And yes, gays and lesbians do have different brain wiring- that has also been proven (e.g. gay men have larger corpus callosums than straight men, and differences in the amygdala).
You should check out a famous study on fruit flies. Altering some genes in the male flies led them to mate only with other males, and ignore females. Interesting "lifestyle choice" there, huh?
maximum411 6 months ago
@maximum411 i agree. faggotry is a form of brain damage caused by chemical retardation when the mother tries to abort the fetus. Natural chemicals (antibodies and antigens) surge into the fetus in a natural but failed attempt to kill/ abort. These chemcials retard the otherwise healthy child rendering them gay! there is a video on it here on YT called "gay education".
fruitycunt 6 months ago
@fruitycunt
Do you honestly believe that? Where did you come up with that?
Homosexuality is not "mental retardation." How do you explain all the gay students with high SAT scores attending top universities? Leonardo da Vinci was probably gay- he was prosecuted once under an anti-sodomy law, never married, and wrote that heterosexual intercourse disgusted him.
maximum411 6 months ago
@maximum411 faggots also have the same natural rights as anyone else. faggots also have equivalent civil rights and are free to marry ppl of the opposite sex just like everyone else. whats faggots arent allowed to do is donate blood because many faggots are tainted from the gay lifestyle.
fruitycunt 6 months ago
@maximum411 Dude, stfu lol. Science has not shown it.If science did show it, gay marriage would be irrifutable.And that gay men theory is far from true.Did you know I can make a statistic say anything? Especially when I'm a liberal scientist who works for the liberal government, and gets paid big liberal dollars, to decieve the liberal public with biased liberal information that they will infact listen to, because I have a PHd that they magically think makes me know EVERYTHING. Fruit flies? ha
DannyBISFAJohnson 6 months ago
@DannyBISFAJohnson
You would think it would be irrefutable, wouldn't you? But then, here's a perfect example of why it hasn't- because ignorance always wins out. I just gave you objective, scientific proof that homosexuality is not a choice, and you immediately dismiss it as "the liberal government" without further investigation. Apparently it's that easy to dismiss information that doesn't agree with you.
maximum411 6 months ago
@DannyBISFAJohnson
Google search "fruit flies homosexuality." There's even a Fox News article about it- there's your liberal media for you. The study was done by researchers at the University of Illinois. Many such studies have been done with animals- for example, scientists at the University of Florida found that male ibises (a type of bird) which were fed mercury were more likely to form male-male pairs. Penguins, sheep, chimpanzees, and ducks have all displayed homosexuality. It's biological
maximum411 6 months ago
@maximum411 "Once upon a time there was a boy who disgreed with gay marriage.A man came to him and said that lions and other creatures practice homosexuality and that is was okay because they did it. So the boy studied Lions and their "okay" behavior.The boy began to eat his young, piss on other people, bite people, and shit in the open.The boy wondered why he couldn't run 40 mph though. The boy was soon hospitalized and told he wasn mentally ill.The boy said "why? Lions do it"."
DannyBISFAJohnson 6 months ago
@DannyBISFAJohnson Once upon a time there was a herosexual who was so insecure about his sexuality that he blamed gay marriage for all his failures. He tried to pass laws of hate and discrimination against anyone who loved differently than the heterosexual majority. But it turned out that he was a closeted homosexual dealing with internalized homophobia and wanted to make everyone as unhappy as he was. So he mocked the animal kingdom as inferior to humans to justify his ignorance.
kalan174 6 months ago
Your ex that was bi is pansexual. It's different than bi. Also I would read up on Kinsey, he really helps to understand bisexuality and its varying levels
optimisticdude19 7 months ago
idk man. i think i am.. i find everyone attractive. it's weird. guys are hot, girls are hot..idk so fcking confused
berflaberab2 7 months ago
@berflaberab2 100% because bisexuals are deeply confused people and need ESP treatment. Be gay or straight and you will feel better.
neil22100 7 months ago
Fucking bisexual cunts.
neil22100 7 months ago
Bis should die. I would kill them all because they are disgusting animals that need to be put to sleep. have your cake and eat it you greedy bastards. I am gay but i hate bis so much it turns my belly. Hang the bi's. My new law but gays and straight free.
A lot of gay people hate bi's and we look down on you and we class you as 3rd class. straights marry one person and gay one person. You can't marry two people of the opp sex like man/man/women, women/women/man. Its disgusting.
neil22100 7 months ago
@neil22100
''A lot of gay people hate bi's and we look down on you and we class you as 3rd class.''
So you think of yourself as a second class person, i take it? You are trash. Any homosexual person who is willing to love the opposite sex can make a bisexual, it is about being open-minded.
And...
Pll dont born gay, they get used to being gay, so as straights, and bisexuals.It is an habit You earn your sexual identity by the time, you dont born with it.
If you think that i am wrong, prove it. :)
g0thicthedark 7 months ago
@g0thicthedark You are so wrong people are born gay and straight. Bisexaulity is being greedy they rae more hurtful people then gay/straight altogether. They are a sack of shit. My last 2 boyfriends said they was gay but they was bi. They make me mad and i am out to hurt and detroy them. They are evil people. I am through with you beecause i am right bitch.
neil22100 7 months ago
@neil22100 Your reply does not prove what i said was wrong, So im still right.
Tell me; how one pure baby borns gay or straight?
And what you are talking about is just some pll who calls themselves ''bisexual'', but only seeks for sex and more pleasure. That same thing goes for gays and straights too, pll seek other pll for sex, it is not something that goes only for bi's.
Some of us are not that simple, im seeking true love, wether in a man or a woman, it doesnt matter at all.
g0thicthedark 7 months ago
@g0thicthedark SHUT UP OR I WILL SLICE U OPEN. You will be straight or gay one day. HANG THE BI'S.
neil22100 7 months ago
@neil22100 Neither am I intended to stay quiet, nor can you slice me open.
Since you were unable to prove that I was wrong, I'll keep considering that i am still right. You know that I'm right about ''gaining'' sexual identity.
I dont have any need to ''pick a side". I am both gay and straight. AND first of all, I am a reasonable person --unlike you it seems. As I've said before, not all of us bisexuals are ''greedy''. It's about that person. Pll seek sex all the time, even u. Not just us.
g0thicthedark 7 months ago
@g0thicthedark you are wrong and i am right. People are born how they r except bi's.
neil22100 7 months ago
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g0thicthedark 7 months ago
@g0thicthedark your wrong. HANG THE BI'S.
neil22100 7 months ago
@neil22100 hmm... i have a pair of words for you then, ill leave you be afterwards.
You are trash, a loser that only wants to belive that being gay was not his choice. You cant even explain yourself about your tought, just repeating the same thing over and over again.
Belive what you will, i dont care any longer.
g0thicthedark 7 months ago
@g0thicthedark I am so right. I know i was gay at 3 years old and also when i was in school i was going to ask this guy out. I was only 5-6. So yeah gay are born this way and straights. Bi's no no so confused .com
neil22100 7 months ago
@neil22100 Prehaps you are gay bcuz you knew about ''sexuality'' at that age, no? There is a reason why the adult contend is +18 age, you know...
There are factors that can affect on person's sexual identity during adolescence, Family is mostly effective in this, then there is friends, and maybe some unfortunate events; such as sexual harrasment, or meeting with sexuality at that young age (~6,p0rns). If a child never knew about sex before, that means it has no sexual identity. Im Right whinney.
g0thicthedark 7 months ago
@neil22100 Anyway ill argue with you any further.
g0thicthedark 7 months ago
@g0thicthedark i'm right
neil22100 7 months ago
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@neil22100 Edit:
Talking is cheap, prove it, or dont talk.
g0thicthedark 7 months ago
Bisexual = confused.com.
neil22100 7 months ago
@neil22100 The ones not accepting bisexuality are the ones that are confused!
We are happy and accepting our sexuality, the last thing I would be is confused!!
MrTHEPROUD 7 months ago
@MrTHEPROUD Infact i am happy being gay but i have been out with 3 guys and they were bisexual. I find it hurtful because i think would he treat a women kinder then me then if he does he is straight.
neil22100 7 months ago
I am bisexual I have close friends of both gender who Ive had no problems keeping as friends, just because Im bisexual does not mean I want everyone
mzbluesky92 7 months ago
I stick with the "I'm sexual and that's enough for me". I'm not gay, bi or straight. I've been in love with the opposite sex but that doesn't make me straight. If I fall in love with a person of the opposite sex I'm not gay or bisexual. I'm just me and that fact is what makes me believe that there are no sexual orientations, only individual preferences. It took me a long time to realise this but when I did I stopped caring for real about which gender I and other people prefer. :)
lollopisemis 7 months ago
When it comes up I tell people I'm bi, when really I more identify with pansexuality.
I'm a girl who is currently in a relationship of three years with a guy that I plan to marry and have children with, but I have found people of all walks of life attractive, whether they be gay, straight, man, woman, transgender.
I think I just don't have that section of my brain that needs to know what's between someone's legs before I can be attracted to them.
SachaTearle 7 months ago
I think I find more bisexual people more attracted to the same sex rather then the opposite.... I know I am.
Skyelitpro 7 months ago
I agree with the question, Gay people do not want to be judged and want to be excepting and yet they don"t except Bi people. I believe that if everyone had sex at least one time with the same sex, there would be a lot more Bi people.
halliebell6 8 months ago 11
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FEMALE HORMONES ARE BEING PUMPED INTO THE FOOD. *RESEARCH IT*. No offense to gays because is really not their fault. They are the victims. They are a part of the N.W.O agenda... this bisexuality i will never understand
MRBLACKPEARL04 8 months ago
A persons looks captures attention but personality captures the heart. <3
khris49 8 months ago 8
i love you and your views(:
ohdangitsmakayla 8 months ago
So, far in my life - the bisexual guys i've slept with all said to me, 'They would NEVER date men or have a relationship with men" They said, 'Men are for hot sex - woman are for dating a relationships" So, far my experience of bisexual guys has been heart breaking! I'm NOT saying all bisexual men hold this view - but so far in my life the ones i've been invloved with - hold this view!
LadyAlexiasWorld 8 months ago
I'm a bi male. I'm more physically attracted to guys, but I'm more interested in pursuing a relationship with girls.
TrillLibra93 8 months ago
@TrillLibra93 - so the guys are good for sex and nothing else!? sounds fair?
LadyAlexiasWorld 8 months ago
@TrillLibra93 your sexuality comes from physical attraction, not your emotional desires. most gay people will say they would rather be with a girl but they aren't attracted to them.
JoshyWoshyVids 8 months ago
bisexual here!
honestly dat was kind of hurtful wat u said, nt evry1 is same, i hv both male and female frnds and i make it a personal rule to nvr date frnds cz i would nvr do anythng to ruin my frndship, i know the difference btwn different kind of love, and i agree dat its nt da body parts tht u love its the person inside, i fall in love whn sum on leaves a mark on my heart and it feels like u cant breathe if u dont have that person with u, i dnt care if its a chick or a dude.
CRAzY101FaIZa 8 months ago 2
@CRAzY101FaIZa I second that
JasonNaro 8 months ago
what you are talking about is called pansexuallity. google it.
helleswahn 8 months ago
@helleswahn thankyou
g0thicthedark 7 months ago
Any gay guys who are dating a bisexual guy and feel a bit jealous they can have both and you can only have one?
topconica 8 months ago
actually, that's exactly how I feel, I'm bisexual and yeah I get what you're saying about how we want to take friendships to the next level because we have such a connection with them and we feel like we could have something special with them, I've fallen for 4 of my best friends because of how close we are. not all bisexuals feel this...but some like me do, and yes we do tend to fall for the personality and not their looks but I think inner beauty makes someone more attractive =)
GBfanatic15 8 months ago
i do that whole thing where i have to bring sexuality into my close relationships, but i can never get close on that level with girls. im just not attracted to girls like whatsoever. so for people who can do this with both genders, then i think that means something more in terms of if theyre gay or bi. i think you were right with the first thing u said.
jafas115 8 months ago
Many gays are threatened by bisexuals! because we are less abnormal
karmalevel 8 months ago
Yeah umm i agree with you for the first 2mins,but not at all about bisexuals don't know how to distinguish a friendship from something more than that and we all ways want to be extreme and want to take it to the next level, that doesn't make sense, thats like saying because your gay your attracted to every man you see or you want to be more than friends with everyone of your guy friends. I don't mean any disrespect but I found that offensive, and I'm a girl who likes girls and boys.
MegaDanie88 8 months ago
I told myself I was bi for a long time, but I'm gay. One of the reasons I convinced myself I was bi was that I am 95% attracted to men and 5% to women - just not enough to fall in love with girls.
So I'm gay, and I'll stick to that, but I don't think labels work for everyone. Bisexuality does exist, but it's just another range on the sliding scale of sexuality. Don't hate bisexuals if you're gay, silly. Just tell them to date girls so there are more guys for you! :)
Tamugetsu 8 months ago
2:47 right!! that's me in a nutshell :(
ToyaLynk 8 months ago
I get this all the time. I'm a bisexual male, more attracted to men than women in general. And I disagree that bisexuals are attracted to the personality as opposed to the physicality. I am sexually attracted to both, I like sex with both. I may be attracted to someone's personality and not sexually. Sexuality is fluid, it can and does change over time. People should stop judging, especially gay people, who have a long history of being on the receiving end of discrimination. Love x
gutaitas 9 months ago in playlist Couver87
Now, I'm glad you're saying that it's what you THINK Bisexuality is and not just being all "THIS IS WHAT BISEXUALITY IS. DEAL WITH IT."
I know many Bisexual people. My older brother is Bisexual. He's had many Gay and Bisexual friends and only went out with two of them. At the moment, he is happily married and has been for the past 5 years.
Contrary to popular belief:
Bisexuality does not = Promiscuity .
Bisexuality does not = Overly-amorous.
KOSMOSandTELOS 9 months ago 27
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Although almost all child molesters are male less than 3 percent of men are homosexual yet about a third of all child sex abuse cases involve homosexual men molesting boys -- and in one study, 86% of molesters were homosexual or bisexual," CNSNews.com October 03, 2006
anotherbottleofbeer 7 months ago
@anotherbottleofbeer Molestation has nothing to do with sexual orientation it's about control. My step-dad molested both his first kids, a boy and a girl. He may have even done it to me (a girl) but my memory isn't clear on the subject. And even if your little study was right it wouldn't mean all homosexuals/bisexuals were molesters. This comment may have been even slightly worth reading if this video was about the sexuality of molestars but it's not.
Darkrose517 6 months ago
@KOSMOSandTELOS bisexual people are disgusting just like ur brother.
neil22100 7 months ago
@neil22100
Oh look, it's a stupid person who thinks their narrow-minded opinion matters.
Go play in traffic, silly.
KOSMOSandTELOS 7 months ago
@KOSMOSandTELOS I hate fucking bisexual. Look on all bisexual pages and my hate shows for them
neil22100 7 months ago
@KOSMOSandTELOS o is ur brother dead yet. He should be for being a filthy bisexual.
neil22100 7 months ago
@neil22100
Awww how cute. It's trying to upset me. I love when stupid people try to be insulting. It's so adorable.
KOSMOSandTELOS 7 months ago
@KOSMOSandTELOS No no i mean it and i am glade u r taking it so well. Considering u have a filthy brother. Kill him in his sleep u will feel better.
neil22100 7 months ago
@neil22100
Oh, you silly uneducated bigot. I love my brother, and I don't find anything wrong with him being Bisexual. It's a mystery to me why it bothers you so much, seeing as how you don't even know us. Oh well, bigots will be bigots. :)
I hope you have a delightfully horrible day. Toodles! <3
KOSMOSandTELOS 7 months ago
@KOSMOSandTELOS i would not love him. You should kill him and burns his heart to get the bisexual out of him. If i did find where he lives i would kill him but slow and i would put a bag over his head, tie him up and sit on his face and enjoy him dying very slow. You will lose him one day by me.
neil22100 7 months ago
@KOSMOSandTELOS YEAH THAT IS RIGHT BISEXULAS R DEEPLY CONFUSED AND SHOULD BE PUT TO DEATH. THEN AGAIN DEATH IS TOO GOOD FOR THEM. I WILL BE KNOWN AS THE BISEXUAL SERIAL KILLER. NO JOKE.
neil22100 7 months ago