I think things you shouldn't tell are things that might be a lot of what this lady said, however the amount of men you've been with...Speak up on it. Because unlike a lot of women, there are some women who actually hold themselves to a higher standard, who loved themselves enough to hold out or only sex for a man they were in a relationship with. Some mistakes you can take back, fix or smooth over but you cant change how many dicks you've sucked and fucked. Don't want to be judge, don't do it.
I believe everyone makes mistakes, including myself. However there is no excuse to whore around/degrade your body. Your body is a temple/sacred, & if you know who God is, your not oblivious to the fact that you take care of your vessel. If you have let all types of men roll up inside you, screwed married men, someone in a relationship, cut buddy, one night stands...Why does a good man have to SETTLE for YOU? Oh b/c you know better now? You knew better then. Temple turned shack.
lol this advice is foolishness. its not dishonesty, but its relevant information a man needs to know before hand. it doesn't characterize who you are now blah blah blah bullshit. a man needs to know what he's getting into and it's not fair to withhold this information. he needs to know and assess the risk on whether or not it's worth getting into all sorts of foolishness. plus, if he figures out any of this information later through other means, it could get awkward and fall apart.
I think you need to just watch HOW you say things rather than WHAT you say. If a guy really likes you and you aren't giving T.M.I then it shouldn't matter cuz he'll find out eventually.
Diva sounds like gold digger, not interested, you should really let your "divas" know that good men aren't looking for women that talk about money. 50% divorce rate in the country, 70% of women file it, and 95% of the time men loose custody of the children, loose half his assets, pay alimony, and pay child support. Men in the west are idiots to marry a western woman, and they must be extremely cautious with foreign women. Women just want your wallet, not your love, this is the modern woman.
I understand exactly what you mean. Somethings you have to tell - for instance, the example you gave of a bi-sexual woman - so that your potential companion can choose or refuse before they seal the deal. Some things you really don't have to tell: ever. And some things, I think, are perhaps matters of timing(if even that), because told at a certain time, they would cause a person to misperceive you from that moment on, even though that particular thing is no longer you.
lol Men make bad decisions everyday... They can dish it but not take it.. lol Treat the situation the same way they treat it... Most men are hoes by nature so naturally they can't hold anything over a woman... IJS
hahaha all these bitches on here saying i know this and i know that about love and relationships and at the end of the day who do they come home to..........NOBODY thats who hahahaha u dumbass cunts shut the fuck up!!!!!!!!
@Navila1 If you say so....as a Certified dating & relationship coach and matchmaker who has helped over a hundred people find love, I may just know a little bit about what I am talking about whether you agree with the advice or not:)
what i will try to take from this is to try not to tell everyone my business. i am a open person but i have made a fool of my self countless time and have been in a lot of problems becasue of my honesty. however i think that in this case if you feel you cant be honest about some things then you shouldnt be in a relationship with them.
UNETHICAL WISDOM AND UNGODLY.... where is her refferance and study. We all have experiances and have good and bad resolves dont allow others to cause you to live THIER life and being sorry because you folled unethical BS. Be honest if the questions are asked so men and women can decide. If you were chased by 200 peeps wanting to date you, there wasnt a standard set that was positive but you could have changed now there is a healing.etc etc etc Go with the word of God not a bunch of words.
Ladies- Seek ye first the kingdom of God, and the rest will fall into place.
Be a Godly woman, obedient to the Lord, growing in the Lord and preparing yourself for the mate HE has for you. And if He has called you to a life of singleness, then dedicate your life to Him. I know this video is meant to be a bit of humor and a dollop of folksy common sense, but fall into the trap of dating like the world.
@mellaLee21 Its adam and eve, adam and steve, eve and ellen.Not eve and her 9 inch vibrator/ cucumber masturbating alone till she dies at 80 with 20 cats smelling of piss 24 7.Waiters dont get jack you gotta go out and sample everything, try before you buy.
when females make these kind of videos they forget that they are speakin for ALL women including THEMSELF. soo you have a high number of sex partners too i see
If a women sleeps around period den she has no morals or respect for herself point blank. I had females tell me some pretty high numbers like 200 ppl type shit. Ten ppl is fair I guess but I rather not have a women who been around
Some people below just do not get it do they? There are some things you should keep to yourself at the beginning of a relationship. Talking about partners you've had, gross habits, and mistakes you've made in the past...those things can be deal breakers right off the bat, but when you've progressed in the relationship and your man KNOWS you're faithful and he ACCEPTS that you bite your toenails and UNDERSTANDS that you've made mistakes in the past... Then you can come out with that stuff.
So history doesn't matter hunh? What if your potential girl told u she had sex with 600 guys?!?! Not saying that you should lie, but your man doesn't need to know EVERYTHANG (my Katt Williams voice) in the very beginning. Some guys will act like things don't matter and when you tell them, they hold it against you. If we're not getting married, then you don't have to know my whole life history.
wtf whats done in the dark comes to light trust n honesty is the key im 17 n sayin that this weoman obviously feels the need to trick men into relationtips....dat ish aint gnna work so keep it real n u wnt cry when he finds out n leaves u for the same thing u lied about to get with him in the first place....imma boy btw
FIVE THINGS NOT TO TELL YOUR MAN..#1...I had to file for bankruptcy because of my ex. #2 My friends told me that they have to investigate who I see because of what I had gone through in the past. #3 I am broke because I am still paying for a loan my ex took out on my name and defaulted on. #4 I do not know how to save money...#5 I found out my ex cheated on me when he gave me an STD...
You told women they should NOT tell their man they've had a threesome, but you didn't say WHY. Instead, you went into things about high sex partners in college, being bisexual, etc. But you didn't elaborate SPECIFICALLY on the THREESOME. Might wanna do that.
WTF? Who bites their toenails? Are you just making up shit until you get to #1?
Oh & speaking of #1, it was pretty clear you'd say that a woman should NEVER discuss her number of previous sexual partners. But the truth is, a man who is secure in himself and loves you for WHO YOU ARE, won't CARE how high your number is. If he can't handle the fact that you've been with 50 people, and were HONEST about it, he isn't the guy for you (even tho that was #2, lol)
yeah she is right but cool if my woman told me she previously cheated and sounds real about it like she regretted having to cheat, then thats fine tell me, am cool, i once was told by a previous girlfriend she cheated on her ex , but the way she told me was soooo flippant and she seemed to still enjoyed the fact she had cheated, i ran fast , history of partners is ok no matter how bad, but its the attitude towards that history and weather that is truely history or bitterness
yeah she is right about telling your man you previously cheated especially if you tell him in a flippant manner with no reguard for how he is gonna think of you after, cool if my woman told me she previously cheated and sounds real about it like she regretted having to cheat, then thats fine tell me, am cool, i once was told by a previous girlfriend she cheated on her ex , but the way she told me was soooo flippant and she seemed to still enjoyed the fact she had cheated, i ran fast
If you are introducing yourself to a MAN then he will not produce a quick perception of you if you tell him your number...he will understand that you had and past and keep it moving.....and women if you lie about that and he finds out that you lied then that means the trust is now shaky....congratulations you've jus pushed him away without knowing it....this goes for both men and women....don't lie and if you don't feel comfortable about the discussion let the other person know...period
I don't date women that withhold info and blame outside people for their problems...That just shows that you are the same girl you have always been. That's why alcoholics always say that they are former alcoholics, because the more you face the truth about your past, the less likely it is to affect your future.
If Im in a relationship were hanging out at your place and you bite your nails....so means your comfortable enough to do it around me. If you brush your teeth daily were good. Sorry I dont think a "Diva" is the right kind of woman for me if shes hiding all that.
in my own opinion, we are suppose to be truth to ourselves n to others...if some1 loves u, they should love all ur your flaws...wat if u tell all those lies n it catches up with u? dnt expect them 2 believe anythin u hav 2 say cuz relationship is about trust n wen its not there, then ur probably just frens wit benefits lol....anyways, how can one put their toenails in their mouth n bite them? i dnt understand, can it reach the mouth? lol
yeah absolutely, don't tell men that you cheated or slept with 250 guys in the past year, wouldn't want him to think you're a slut. Oh well, every girl is a slut so it's a pretty good assumption to make regardless of what she says
A relationship built on lies and mistrust is only going to end badly. You both will eventually find out who the other person is. And it's hard to put it behind you once that happens.
How about just coming clean from the very start and observe how he takes all the information you've given him....if he is the type to drop you like a ball because of the things you did in your PAST..then perhaps that was a blessing in disguise...afterall...i'm sure they're some skeletons in his perfect-ass closet TOO. If a guy looks past and thinks he can manage your gorey details while still loving you like crazy then you're blessed. Dont play the secret game...it all comes back to haunt you.
Men dont like it when you withhold information like this, how would you feel if you were in their shoes and you found out the person you have been seeing for several months or years slept with the whole football team in highschool or college.
this girl has no idea what she's talking about. she basically wants girls to lie to men about almost everything. the most important thing a men likes in a girl is honesty. so she doesn't no shit about anything
@chells1991 I truely agree....Coming from a man. They can lie so easily from small to big and do it so much that they start to believe it themselves. But yea i agree, And she may be single too because of her views..im just sayn. Keeping a open relationship is key to keeping a relationship...the more you hide the more curiosity occurs...Dueces
@chells1991 I agree she is clueless, I don't do anything but honesty and I'm in a happily married relationship. if a man can't handle me just the way I am past and all then he needs to be gone.
"Men, I'll tell you this, they'll lie about your number."
Men STILL ask women about the number of partners? I thought that was some high school shit lol... I been married for 10 years so excuse me if I don't know what's goin on on the single tip lol...
But yea a guy past high school age askin women how many partners they had is CORNY AS HELL!! Asking a woman to get tested is MUCH better, because diseases matter, not partners!
I agree with the video. Women are second class in my opinion. Which is why we are held to higher standards. Lower class people are always held to higher standards. There is less tolerance for mistakes from people who are considered lower human beings. Hence the saying, "Boys will be boys", that dismisses young males from blame due to their sex.
Hiding the fact that you cheated in the past is a big no no, for men and women both.
You never lie about that, you never hide it.
Not only is it deceiving, but if your partner finds out about it at a later time, (Especially if they found out from someone else and not you.) your relationship will most likely end if your partner has any common sense.
Building a relationship on lies and secrets will always end badly, its inevitable.
Women are getting too much help about men from other women.
Its better to go to a man for help involving that then a woman because most of the time, they have no clue what they're talking about. They are like on another planet when it comes to men sometimes.
Reavealing the number of how many men a woman has slept with is very important, because if u thing he will react badily then that relationship needs alot of work. Women should not be afraid of that and let the men decide.
a key that can open many locks is a master key but a lock that can be opened by many different keys is worthless
Any man dealing with a woman who isn't up front about her dealings is bad for your health. This is clearly a sign that women don't understand men and a double negative for black men. We are territorial creatures if we dealing with secrets that could embarrass us around other men we want to avoid that. Women clearly think about themselves and no one else. If you are doing things that maybe considered deviant to your character you should avoid serious relationships until those negatives dissipate.
soo females are not as innocent as they seem. have they really slept with more men than they say? what would make a woman want to sleep around like this?
I think what she means is don't be like, "Hi my name is (yournamehere) and I've been in therapy because of my asshole ex boyfriend, and during that time I just had to find something to keep myself occupied outside of my sessions, so I bit my toenails and had threesomes with x amount of people. Oh and by the way, I cheated on my last ex so............."
Of course you need to be open and honest, but just don't advertise yourself all at once.
the only reason women need to cover shit up is b/c they are a skanks with a whorish past; also making videos while driving motor vehicle is total LUNACY and proves you are a danger to humanity. anyone who bites their toenails is not human, but animal. women need to keep their traps shut most of the time, and the world would have a lot more peace. the reason women have been dumped or 'dogged out' is b/c they think they are divas, therefore, act like bitches, and thus are AVOIDED by real men.
Young Lady you are as wise as you are attractive. It is refresing to hear wisdom from one so young. It is usually ( or should be) an elder womans advice to a younger woman. God bless you!
Great advice & you're beautiful....but are you actually in the bathroom doing this? It literally looks like there's a shower door right next to you, & the fact that you're sitting down leads me or anyone else to believe that you could be taking a "dump" on the commode while you're giving this great advice. Also, the echo sound kinda gives me & viewers out there that you're in the bathroom. I give this a 7 outta 10.
@keishamania My dear I am NOR taking a "dump" in the bathroom. I am sitting on a platform like tub but at the end of the day you complain about the scenery I choose when I took time out of MY day to give the world advice to help many people who need it. I suggest that we make more of an effort to look for the good than find something to complain about:)
I am so glad I found this video. You say what I have been saying to my friends. Our books must be so similar. Check it out, Well Behaved by Naneitra Parker.
I DON'T SHE EVER HEARD THE SAYING "THE TRUTH ALWAYS COME TO THE LIGHT" MY KIDS MOTHER TOLD ME SHE SLEPT WITH 11 GUY'S HER WHOLE LIFE THEN I FOUND OUT IT WAS 17 LIEING ABOUT THAT OR NOT TELLING MAKES IT SEEM LIKE YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO HIDE IN ITS A TURN OFF JUST THINKING ABOUT HOW MANY MEN BEEN UP IN HER IT'S NOTHIN NEW OR SPECIAL ABOUT IT I RATHER DATE A VIRGIN
Since when did deceiving and manipulation ever lead to anything worthwhile.What you just described is a guys worst nightmare.Ladies divulge all of your history in a jist,so we'll know what we're facing!
Bad advice here. Yeah, if you want to fool the crap out of a guy to keep him around longer than he otherwise may have, then follow this.
If not, be honest in all dealings. If he leaves, that's good for you, AND him. Why would you want to hold onto a guy by lying and trickery? If a guy doesn't want a promiscuous woman, why present yourself as something you're not?
If you have to lie, withhold info, and deceive to get a man, you may want to thoroughly examine how you're living your life.
Ladies if you with hold all the info this woman recommends, the man you are with will not know who the hell you are. As soon as the symptoms start to show (which they must, because the truth will always eventually come to light) , the man will think you are changing on him, and drop you like a hot potato. You are better off telling the truth. At least the guy who choses to be with you will be choosing you instead of a lie. Imagine if your man with held all that info and YOU found out the truth!!
@davidgoodlettmusic Frist of all Boo, biting your toe nails and how many people you have slept with in the past has NOTHING to do with who you are! Second, it shows bad judgment to disclose all of that information too soon to someone you recently met and who you are JUST DATING! Details about ones sexual past excluding having an STD should not be disclosed unless there is unwavering trust built between both parties and I would even suggest some sexual experiences are left unshared.
@davidgoodlettmusic As for the need for counseling and having cheated in the past again whether someone has need counseling or not (since we all have needed or need professional help at one time of another) has NOTHING to do with WHO someone is as a person. Some things are NON OF YOUR BUSINESS if we are just dating with no commitment. There are many married people who have been married for many years and are still learning things about their partner.
@lovein30days You said, "biting your toe nails and how many people you have slept with in the past has NOTHING to do with who you are". Huh??? Are you serious? These things have everything to do with who you are! The choices and decisions you make and/or fail to make manifested through words, ways and actions tells the world exactly who you are. In fact it defines who you are. Don't be silly. If you are not your thoughts, words, ways and actions, then who are you?
i believe if women would be modest like 2,000 years ago then there would be no flesh out causing lusting for another man's wife which equals sin, there would be no such thing as a man has to have one woman bcuz thatsunnatural according to the Bible and everywhere else in the world.i mean how would a man's lineage go on? thats all it was about back 2,000 years agofamily.this a plea from a 22 yr old dark skinned cuban woman whose been married dont set urself up to lie think about the future
@davidgoodlettmusic yeah older women are suppose to teach us younger women how to keep our homes to par with our husband's request, taking care of the seed(children), keep your legs closed because according to the bible our bodies uniting as one means and IS MARRIAGE, not this western bs where your registering(abandoning) your rights as free beings on the land. in a black persons natural habitat the black woman depends on the black man. today its totally opp. im telln all u women step up!
dont really agree with u on everything but you made on valid point...NEVER tell a man that your previous boyfriends just used u and left u!!! never! i have seen a friends of mine telling this to two guys she liked..and they ended up doing the same....they think "if she tolerated this from so many men...why cant i do the same"...
Keep your mouth shut, be a liar, sneaky, and manipulative and you will have a falsified relationship. Anybody that want real love this is not the best route. There is something wrong with this picture...
this video I am talking about for others not to be a liar, sneaky, and manipulative and you will have a falsified relationship. I seen people go by these guidelines it don't work in most cases. Dirty laundry comes sooner or later. Given ground in relationships to spill the beans is not good as you say later in some certain instances like threesomes then that is something they need to know right hand? They need a choice period with all 411. Continued~
@ShinIsTrue I think I make it clear what I recommend and why it is not wise for a man or woman to put it ALL on the table on the first few dates. This is the physiological development of a relationship. You give information as trust is developed with the other person and as they demonstrate their willingness to reveal information. So information is not needed to be revealed b/f a determination has even been made if the relationship will even progress to a commitment phase.
@lovein30days I concur with that. But if a man ask(most will early) there is no point to lie anyway especially if he becomes a factor and commitment hence forth. But again I say (MEN WILL ASK) so then what white lie? Then tell the truth later? Nah causes problems. Love in 30 days will not last over years if that solid foundation of truth, and honesty is built & rattled by a lie that is later exposed. I seen it happen too many times. (sings)♫She dropped a bomb on me baby♫
@ShinIsTrue This is my last response to you. If a man ask about personal information I or a woman is not comfortable with sharing..YET, then I recommend she NOT lie but tell him that once she gets to know him well enough, she will have no problem sharing that kind of information. It is none of your business until I know that we are moving forward. Would you want a woman drilling you about how much you pay in child support, how many woman you cheated on, have you ever been raped as a child ...
@ShinIsTrueon the first few dates? No, you dont know her like that. There is some information a man should not reveal too soon as well. It is a turn off and shows you do not use discernment or wise judgement.
@lovein30days women wonder why they shoot themselves in the foot, it is because in a (MOMENT) they give it all away at the wrong time or reveal it themselves. So all this does not apply unless of course they want to be a "diva" It may work for you and some others, but this is not the honest way to relationships. I know men and women are messed out out there but we human, if they can't handle the past they shouldn't be with them. A person should accept someone for who they were are and will be.
@mofotax Indeed... and they wonder why men don't trust them. We learned from women first. Mother knows best right? Or in this case women. If I'm wrong then I would have men and women agreeing with me on here in fact women inboxed me saying I'm right they learned being secretive and manipulative gets them nowhere. We have to have a choice both men and women to know what we are getting ourselves into. Which will not happen more than likely which in turn is why things are the way they are now.
is that true about there number really shiiiit then i been fuckin wit some fuckin sluts shiiit no wonder they werent worth a damn but really thats true if so thats really fuckin sad but i guess if all u have to do is open em it can happen but still down
OK I'M A REAL NIGGA I LIKE 4 WOMEN 2 BE UP FRONT STRAIT OFF BAT- TELL ME WHAT EVER - BECAUSE I GOT A WILD PAST 2- I HAVE FOUND OUT THAT WOMEN ARE SHOCKED IF YOU HAVE DONE THE THE SAME OR WORSER THAN THEM- I GUESS THEY WANT TO FEEL LIKE THEY TEACHING YOU SOMETHING- L0L- BUT WOMEN KEEP IT REAL - IF YOU WANT RESPECT FROM A MAN - IF YOU A (HOE) SAY YOU A "SLUT HOE" - THAN WE KNOW HOW 2 TREAT YOU- NO MAN WANTS TO SETTLE DOWN WITH SOMEONE HALF THE CITY DONE SLAYED & BE THE JOKE OF THE CITY- L0L = )
@2423hop I feel you brother!= imagine men coming up to you saying Oh you with her? I tapped that too! SMH God will reveal it anyway. Believe it or not.
This is 100% correct. Men claim they want to know but if you tell them the truth they cannot handle it. No matter how many times you say its in the past they get bothered by it. My mother gave me this advice and it was good advice. Its not so much about not telling the truth its all about a matter of when.
what a joke... teaching people to lie! what an wonderfull idea!! we should all do that!! survival of the fittest my ass!! let us all lie!! hey!! this is an interesting idea... marry a church going girl... only to come home and find her cheating on you... in a threesome.. and when you confront her.. you find out that she was an escort before you, and is in rehab for cocaine abuse... oh and is crazy too!! that would be great right???!!! as per say.
I think a woman should let the man know she was not a saint when she was younger if in fact she was not one no need for numbers -remmeber this a small world arm the people you love with the truth the streets talk keep it 100 a real man loves a woman that keep it real with him.
i loved the fact this womans now given girls the perfect excuse to cheat...oh i fucked ur best friend cause his dick was bigger than urs but i learned from it and that wont happen again ur father 2!!
As for guys...i banged ur mum and best friend together but i learned from my mistake it wont happen again, btw both of them are tighter than u!!
im guessing this chick doesnt realise the ''advice'' shes giving can be used against women 2.
1.i am pregnant with your friends baby.2.I busted the windows out your car.3.I stole all the money out your bank account.4.I have butt implants(or breast implants).5.I am using you just for your money or for sex.
she right that you shouldn't reveal all this past dirt early. of course you eventually reveal everything. but let it out slow. don't put everything on the plate right away.
i laughed during this video but you do make great points
giggles771984 9 hours ago
Her head totally distracted me at first.... Is this vid from 1987?
Cherry32able 1 day ago
who the fuck chews their toenails...wow I coulda came up with this advice smh I want my 5 min back
Jakayla92 1 day ago
great!!!
24pixiegirl 4 days ago
LOL! She was oddly specific about rule #5..........I bet she could suck a medicine ball through a garden hose though....
modernmarvel 4 days ago
I think things you shouldn't tell are things that might be a lot of what this lady said, however the amount of men you've been with...Speak up on it. Because unlike a lot of women, there are some women who actually hold themselves to a higher standard, who loved themselves enough to hold out or only sex for a man they were in a relationship with. Some mistakes you can take back, fix or smooth over but you cant change how many dicks you've sucked and fucked. Don't want to be judge, don't do it.
icekold99 5 days ago
I believe everyone makes mistakes, including myself. However there is no excuse to whore around/degrade your body. Your body is a temple/sacred, & if you know who God is, your not oblivious to the fact that you take care of your vessel. If you have let all types of men roll up inside you, screwed married men, someone in a relationship, cut buddy, one night stands...Why does a good man have to SETTLE for YOU? Oh b/c you know better now? You knew better then. Temple turned shack.
icekold99 5 days ago
lol this advice is foolishness. its not dishonesty, but its relevant information a man needs to know before hand. it doesn't characterize who you are now blah blah blah bullshit. a man needs to know what he's getting into and it's not fair to withhold this information. he needs to know and assess the risk on whether or not it's worth getting into all sorts of foolishness. plus, if he figures out any of this information later through other means, it could get awkward and fall apart.
KobeisGod32 1 week ago
I think you need to just watch HOW you say things rather than WHAT you say. If a guy really likes you and you aren't giving T.M.I then it shouldn't matter cuz he'll find out eventually.
heyCHUU 1 week ago
Yes ladies stop chewing your dogs LOL!....
007MegaPhoenix 1 week ago
Diva sounds like gold digger, not interested, you should really let your "divas" know that good men aren't looking for women that talk about money. 50% divorce rate in the country, 70% of women file it, and 95% of the time men loose custody of the children, loose half his assets, pay alimony, and pay child support. Men in the west are idiots to marry a western woman, and they must be extremely cautious with foreign women. Women just want your wallet, not your love, this is the modern woman.
11220joe 1 week ago
Ya toenails?..really? Lmmfao!
thins1andonly33 1 week ago
Holy mother of bias! These fucking stereotypes man
OfficialSaviourMusic 1 week ago
some of these things, can apply to men as well for example not letting them know how many times youve been screwed over.
100PercentTHCfilms 1 week ago
having a man is not that serious too much work just keep it real with yaself
goldeelocs252 1 week ago
I understand exactly what you mean. Somethings you have to tell - for instance, the example you gave of a bi-sexual woman - so that your potential companion can choose or refuse before they seal the deal. Some things you really don't have to tell: ever. And some things, I think, are perhaps matters of timing(if even that), because told at a certain time, they would cause a person to misperceive you from that moment on, even though that particular thing is no longer you.
rmsolympic1 1 week ago
Very nice video. You know what you're talking about and have the heart to give advice. I'm feeling you, Shay, and wish you all the best! Much love!
LyricalKnight1 1 week ago
lol Men make bad decisions everyday... They can dish it but not take it.. lol Treat the situation the same way they treat it... Most men are hoes by nature so naturally they can't hold anything over a woman... IJS
BlaqHQ 1 week ago
hahaha all these bitches on here saying i know this and i know that about love and relationships and at the end of the day who do they come home to..........NOBODY thats who hahahaha u dumbass cunts shut the fuck up!!!!!!!!
TheCrocBoss 2 weeks ago
Advice is good if you are looking for many short-term relationships. If you want a long term relationship, this advice will never work.
Navila1 2 weeks ago 4
@Navila1 If you say so....as a Certified dating & relationship coach and matchmaker who has helped over a hundred people find love, I may just know a little bit about what I am talking about whether you agree with the advice or not:)
With Love,
Shay Your Date Diva
lovein30days 2 weeks ago
okay some reasons u stated i dont think people actually really do.. come up with better reasons..
PwettyBoneeLovee 2 weeks ago
i love her voice and her advice is on point...
lovendvain427 3 weeks ago
omg phaedra from housewifes whats up girl??
misseya24 3 weeks ago
she right about your past relationship never tell a man u got dogged out
3rd2theworld 4 weeks ago
i also love you videos your so sexy and your a good black woman god bless!!!!
jamesluvhate 4 weeks ago
wow, u give amazing advice!!!!!! i love your lipgloss/lipstick btw! anyways, u r so inspriring and beautiful and i absolutley love ur videos!!!!
soccerserra 4 weeks ago
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james33636 1 month ago
i think shouldnt talk about the negative things that arent relevant to the relationship or things that you have put behind you
aylix89 1 month ago
what i will try to take from this is to try not to tell everyone my business. i am a open person but i have made a fool of my self countless time and have been in a lot of problems becasue of my honesty. however i think that in this case if you feel you cant be honest about some things then you shouldnt be in a relationship with them.
aylix89 1 month ago
UNETHICAL WISDOM AND UNGODLY.... where is her refferance and study. We all have experiances and have good and bad resolves dont allow others to cause you to live THIER life and being sorry because you folled unethical BS. Be honest if the questions are asked so men and women can decide. If you were chased by 200 peeps wanting to date you, there wasnt a standard set that was positive but you could have changed now there is a healing.etc etc etc Go with the word of God not a bunch of words.
Rmartin38 1 month ago
ahh a relationship built on dishonesty.... thats the way to go....
justblaze904 1 month ago 2
i use to love biting my toe nails -___- lmfao
dr3am207 1 month ago
Aight u can not ask her her sex number and catch somethin if u want to
littlezack312 1 month ago
Ladies- Seek ye first the kingdom of God, and the rest will fall into place.
Be a Godly woman, obedient to the Lord, growing in the Lord and preparing yourself for the mate HE has for you. And if He has called you to a life of singleness, then dedicate your life to Him. I know this video is meant to be a bit of humor and a dollop of folksy common sense, but fall into the trap of dating like the world.
mellaLee21 1 month ago 2
@mellaLee21 Its adam and eve, adam and steve, eve and ellen.Not eve and her 9 inch vibrator/ cucumber masturbating alone till she dies at 80 with 20 cats smelling of piss 24 7.Waiters dont get jack you gotta go out and sample everything, try before you buy.
Thelondonbadger 1 month ago
when females make these kind of videos they forget that they are speakin for ALL women including THEMSELF. soo you have a high number of sex partners too i see
iJayStarTv 1 month ago
So basicly: Hide everything that is shitty about you, so you can keep being shitty, and not have to lie?
Niiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiceee...
TheOriginalOwnage 1 month ago
how can u bite ur toe nail? i cant even reach my feet o.O
laliz2010 1 month ago 2
If a women sleeps around period den she has no morals or respect for herself point blank. I had females tell me some pretty high numbers like 200 ppl type shit. Ten ppl is fair I guess but I rather not have a women who been around
daddieblue 1 month ago
Who the fukk bites their toe nails?!
XoCrazyBeautiful 1 month ago
@XoCrazyBeautiful she do!
Mrlivn4Christ 1 month ago
Some people below just do not get it do they? There are some things you should keep to yourself at the beginning of a relationship. Talking about partners you've had, gross habits, and mistakes you've made in the past...those things can be deal breakers right off the bat, but when you've progressed in the relationship and your man KNOWS you're faithful and he ACCEPTS that you bite your toenails and UNDERSTANDS that you've made mistakes in the past... Then you can come out with that stuff.
Branjama 1 month ago
Your so funny! Some very good advice!
nicholelandis 2 months ago
So history doesn't matter hunh? What if your potential girl told u she had sex with 600 guys?!?! Not saying that you should lie, but your man doesn't need to know EVERYTHANG (my Katt Williams voice) in the very beginning. Some guys will act like things don't matter and when you tell them, they hold it against you. If we're not getting married, then you don't have to know my whole life history.
rudegyaloving 2 months ago
your to sexy
mccclarren 2 months ago
wtf whats done in the dark comes to light trust n honesty is the key im 17 n sayin that this weoman obviously feels the need to trick men into relationtips....dat ish aint gnna work so keep it real n u wnt cry when he finds out n leaves u for the same thing u lied about to get with him in the first place....imma boy btw
madara880 2 months ago
How can you be a date diva and your relationship didn't last? Women that listen to u r doomed from the get go to take relationship advice from you!!!
lockedupabroad1 2 months ago
Who the FK bites their toe nails... o.O I've never heard that before... =/
DrSwov 2 months ago
FIVE THINGS NOT TO TELL YOUR MAN..#1...I had to file for bankruptcy because of my ex. #2 My friends told me that they have to investigate who I see because of what I had gone through in the past. #3 I am broke because I am still paying for a loan my ex took out on my name and defaulted on. #4 I do not know how to save money...#5 I found out my ex cheated on me when he gave me an STD...
OSUNWURAOLA 2 months ago
You told women they should NOT tell their man they've had a threesome, but you didn't say WHY. Instead, you went into things about high sex partners in college, being bisexual, etc. But you didn't elaborate SPECIFICALLY on the THREESOME. Might wanna do that.
JayNJayShow 2 months ago
WTF? Who bites their toenails? Are you just making up shit until you get to #1?
Oh & speaking of #1, it was pretty clear you'd say that a woman should NEVER discuss her number of previous sexual partners. But the truth is, a man who is secure in himself and loves you for WHO YOU ARE, won't CARE how high your number is. If he can't handle the fact that you've been with 50 people, and were HONEST about it, he isn't the guy for you (even tho that was #2, lol)
JayNJayShow 2 months ago
yeah she is right but cool if my woman told me she previously cheated and sounds real about it like she regretted having to cheat, then thats fine tell me, am cool, i once was told by a previous girlfriend she cheated on her ex , but the way she told me was soooo flippant and she seemed to still enjoyed the fact she had cheated, i ran fast , history of partners is ok no matter how bad, but its the attitude towards that history and weather that is truely history or bitterness
oa3471 2 months ago
yeah she is right about telling your man you previously cheated especially if you tell him in a flippant manner with no reguard for how he is gonna think of you after, cool if my woman told me she previously cheated and sounds real about it like she regretted having to cheat, then thats fine tell me, am cool, i once was told by a previous girlfriend she cheated on her ex , but the way she told me was soooo flippant and she seemed to still enjoyed the fact she had cheated, i ran fast
oa3471 2 months ago
Are you married or in a relationship?
Single4ever4lovesake 2 months ago
See if this was a man advising men, the reception would be so different. Double standards much?
SoFuckingHungry 3 months ago
If you are introducing yourself to a MAN then he will not produce a quick perception of you if you tell him your number...he will understand that you had and past and keep it moving.....and women if you lie about that and he finds out that you lied then that means the trust is now shaky....congratulations you've jus pushed him away without knowing it....this goes for both men and women....don't lie and if you don't feel comfortable about the discussion let the other person know...period
kkgage 3 months ago
I don't date women that withhold info and blame outside people for their problems...That just shows that you are the same girl you have always been. That's why alcoholics always say that they are former alcoholics, because the more you face the truth about your past, the less likely it is to affect your future.
Diverse0725 3 months ago
Who da fk bites their toe nails???? WTF????? No more kissing for me!
dreone8 3 months ago
*biting lip* that's nasty as hell...hahah
nbell084 3 months ago
If Im in a relationship were hanging out at your place and you bite your nails....so means your comfortable enough to do it around me. If you brush your teeth daily were good. Sorry I dont think a "Diva" is the right kind of woman for me if shes hiding all that.
boiprof 4 months ago
Why you only talk to divas?
3089280288 4 months ago
this is why im neva eva eva eva eva gettin married!!!!
internationalcin 4 months ago
in my own opinion, we are suppose to be truth to ourselves n to others...if some1 loves u, they should love all ur your flaws...wat if u tell all those lies n it catches up with u? dnt expect them 2 believe anythin u hav 2 say cuz relationship is about trust n wen its not there, then ur probably just frens wit benefits lol....anyways, how can one put their toenails in their mouth n bite them? i dnt understand, can it reach the mouth? lol
eamaras 4 months ago
Should never know? Everything WILL eventually come out in the wash............
thundersteve1566 4 months ago
i think her overall message is discretion, not dishonesty.
mishn90 4 months ago 18
How about you don't cheat? Then you never have to lie about it. Problem solved
tampajohn 4 months ago
yeah absolutely, don't tell men that you cheated or slept with 250 guys in the past year, wouldn't want him to think you're a slut. Oh well, every girl is a slut so it's a pretty good assumption to make regardless of what she says
blackasian1234 4 months ago
A relationship built on lies and mistrust is only going to end badly. You both will eventually find out who the other person is. And it's hard to put it behind you once that happens.
rockafelladw 5 months ago
you're very pretty...
randombunniesrule1 5 months ago
...you know you weren't "live" right?
sumLsum 5 months ago
bite on toenails...ewwwwwwwwww....dont tell any1 that!!!
wellsrachael 5 months ago
lol you are soo funny I enjoyed this video and everything you mentioned is soo true
BRONXPEPE 5 months ago
Thanks for this.
filmtress 5 months ago
Lol, this is why you don't marry them!
billions18 5 months ago
Haha ur mad funny
43mickeymouse 5 months ago
How about just coming clean from the very start and observe how he takes all the information you've given him....if he is the type to drop you like a ball because of the things you did in your PAST..then perhaps that was a blessing in disguise...afterall...i'm sure they're some skeletons in his perfect-ass closet TOO. If a guy looks past and thinks he can manage your gorey details while still loving you like crazy then you're blessed. Dont play the secret game...it all comes back to haunt you.
Venusstar22 5 months ago
Men dont like it when you withhold information like this, how would you feel if you were in their shoes and you found out the person you have been seeing for several months or years slept with the whole football team in highschool or college.
rei9707 5 months ago
this girl has no idea what she's talking about. she basically wants girls to lie to men about almost everything. the most important thing a men likes in a girl is honesty. so she doesn't no shit about anything
chells1991 5 months ago
@chells1991 I truely agree....Coming from a man. They can lie so easily from small to big and do it so much that they start to believe it themselves. But yea i agree, And she may be single too because of her views..im just sayn. Keeping a open relationship is key to keeping a relationship...the more you hide the more curiosity occurs...Dueces
Kenuwine24 5 months ago
@chells1991 I agree she is clueless, I don't do anything but honesty and I'm in a happily married relationship. if a man can't handle me just the way I am past and all then he needs to be gone.
Chos3nOn3Again 2 months ago
@yoshi19831021 lol
chells1991 5 months ago
"Men, I'll tell you this, they'll lie about your number."
Men STILL ask women about the number of partners? I thought that was some high school shit lol... I been married for 10 years so excuse me if I don't know what's goin on on the single tip lol...
But yea a guy past high school age askin women how many partners they had is CORNY AS HELL!! Asking a woman to get tested is MUCH better, because diseases matter, not partners!
autismpete 5 months ago 5
@autismpete ur okay with marrying a hoe, Good for you:)
324582782 3 months ago
@324582782 Defines what a hoe is...
Would you rather:
A: Get with a chick who's been with 100 dudes, yet is totally drug- and disease-free, or
B: Get with a chick who's been with 3 guys, yet has HIV and herpes?!
Feel me?
autismpete 3 months ago
@autismpete neither:) and that was a bad example lol
324582782 3 months ago
I agree with the video. Women are second class in my opinion. Which is why we are held to higher standards. Lower class people are always held to higher standards. There is less tolerance for mistakes from people who are considered lower human beings. Hence the saying, "Boys will be boys", that dismisses young males from blame due to their sex.
inuejo 5 months ago in playlist Love in 30 Days
Hiding the fact that you cheated in the past is a big no no, for men and women both.
You never lie about that, you never hide it.
Not only is it deceiving, but if your partner finds out about it at a later time, (Especially if they found out from someone else and not you.) your relationship will most likely end if your partner has any common sense.
Building a relationship on lies and secrets will always end badly, its inevitable.
ManSpeakOut 5 months ago 21
@ManSpeakOut oh god how will i tell her i used prostitutes
DebuggerProgrammer 2 weeks ago
as a man i couldnt care less if a woman told me any of these things
SevenStringShredHead 5 months ago
@SevenStringShredHead Its because there is one issues at hand.
Women are getting too much help about men from other women.
Its better to go to a man for help involving that then a woman because most of the time, they have no clue what they're talking about. They are like on another planet when it comes to men sometimes.
No one knows men better then men themselves.
ManSpeakOut 5 months ago
She's right about it all. Much respect.
Heightofacloud 6 months ago
@Heightofacloud yeah sure . what bullshit is dat
chells1991 5 months ago
Diva Diva Diva Diva
Blondiiiieee1995 6 months ago
This has been flagged as spam show
Reavealing the number of how many men a woman has slept with is very important, because if u thing he will react badily then that relationship needs alot of work. Women should not be afraid of that and let the men decide.
a key that can open many locks is a master key but a lock that can be opened by many different keys is worthless
ebadavey 6 months ago
Any man dealing with a woman who isn't up front about her dealings is bad for your health. This is clearly a sign that women don't understand men and a double negative for black men. We are territorial creatures if we dealing with secrets that could embarrass us around other men we want to avoid that. Women clearly think about themselves and no one else. If you are doing things that maybe considered deviant to your character you should avoid serious relationships until those negatives dissipate.
vlpinkney 6 months ago
FELLAZ.
If your woman drops the "I'm a feminist" bomb on you, RUN FOR THE HILLS. FAST.
Proton1 6 months ago
soo females are not as innocent as they seem. have they really slept with more men than they say? what would make a woman want to sleep around like this?
iJayStarTv 6 months ago
I think what she means is don't be like, "Hi my name is (yournamehere) and I've been in therapy because of my asshole ex boyfriend, and during that time I just had to find something to keep myself occupied outside of my sessions, so I bit my toenails and had threesomes with x amount of people. Oh and by the way, I cheated on my last ex so............."
Of course you need to be open and honest, but just don't advertise yourself all at once.
ktluvaxx 6 months ago 2
the only reason women need to cover shit up is b/c they are a skanks with a whorish past; also making videos while driving motor vehicle is total LUNACY and proves you are a danger to humanity. anyone who bites their toenails is not human, but animal. women need to keep their traps shut most of the time, and the world would have a lot more peace. the reason women have been dumped or 'dogged out' is b/c they think they are divas, therefore, act like bitches, and thus are AVOIDED by real men.
Madkre8tor 6 months ago
Young Lady you are as wise as you are attractive. It is refresing to hear wisdom from one so young. It is usually ( or should be) an elder womans advice to a younger woman. God bless you!
pierrebrseven 6 months ago
i like nut cases. i have orgies in insane asylum.
kodi665 6 months ago
i love u
totomanosh 6 months ago
Love ya
sarahsalmay 7 months ago
@sarahsalmay Love you back!
lovein30days 7 months ago
@lovein30days *Brings camera*
CpsLock3 2 months ago
Ok u need to write a book! You are preaching!!!
Corpsmistress 7 months ago
@Corpsmistress I did write a book sweetie! Check it out:)
lovein30days 7 months ago
@lovein30days she lyin..I WROTE it for her..i have sisters...lmao
jocam32 3 months ago
Great advice & you're beautiful....but are you actually in the bathroom doing this? It literally looks like there's a shower door right next to you, & the fact that you're sitting down leads me or anyone else to believe that you could be taking a "dump" on the commode while you're giving this great advice. Also, the echo sound kinda gives me & viewers out there that you're in the bathroom. I give this a 7 outta 10.
keishamania 7 months ago
@keishamania My dear I am NOR taking a "dump" in the bathroom. I am sitting on a platform like tub but at the end of the day you complain about the scenery I choose when I took time out of MY day to give the world advice to help many people who need it. I suggest that we make more of an effort to look for the good than find something to complain about:)
With Love
Shay Your Date Diva
lovein30days 7 months ago 7
isn't this called entrapment
BigShotLDN 7 months ago
I am so glad I found this video. You say what I have been saying to my friends. Our books must be so similar. Check it out, Well Behaved by Naneitra Parker.
getlonghair 7 months ago
I am so glad I found this video. You say what I have been saying to my friends.
getlonghair 7 months ago
amen
getlonghair 7 months ago
Lol, biting your toe nails? I'd be sure to make a break for it whenever the path was clear. xD
Form and timing is often important in most things, these tips are definitely valid.
Ravenex2 7 months ago
I DON'T SHE EVER HEARD THE SAYING "THE TRUTH ALWAYS COME TO THE LIGHT" MY KIDS MOTHER TOLD ME SHE SLEPT WITH 11 GUY'S HER WHOLE LIFE THEN I FOUND OUT IT WAS 17 LIEING ABOUT THAT OR NOT TELLING MAKES IT SEEM LIKE YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO HIDE IN ITS A TURN OFF JUST THINKING ABOUT HOW MANY MEN BEEN UP IN HER IT'S NOTHIN NEW OR SPECIAL ABOUT IT I RATHER DATE A VIRGIN
SnoopyGeeFilms103 7 months ago
Since when did deceiving and manipulation ever lead to anything worthwhile.What you just described is a guys worst nightmare.Ladies divulge all of your history in a jist,so we'll know what we're facing!
lamarldr 7 months ago
do most women bite their toenails? .....HO000....LYIEEE.... SHIT.... THAT'S DISGUSTING!
whyeff21 7 months ago
Bad advice here. Yeah, if you want to fool the crap out of a guy to keep him around longer than he otherwise may have, then follow this.
If not, be honest in all dealings. If he leaves, that's good for you, AND him. Why would you want to hold onto a guy by lying and trickery? If a guy doesn't want a promiscuous woman, why present yourself as something you're not?
If you have to lie, withhold info, and deceive to get a man, you may want to thoroughly examine how you're living your life.
rayhend100 7 months ago
@rayhend100 Speak on it :)
ShinIsTrue 7 months ago
Ladies if you with hold all the info this woman recommends, the man you are with will not know who the hell you are. As soon as the symptoms start to show (which they must, because the truth will always eventually come to light) , the man will think you are changing on him, and drop you like a hot potato. You are better off telling the truth. At least the guy who choses to be with you will be choosing you instead of a lie. Imagine if your man with held all that info and YOU found out the truth!!
davidgoodlettmusic 8 months ago 25
@davidgoodlettmusic Frist of all Boo, biting your toe nails and how many people you have slept with in the past has NOTHING to do with who you are! Second, it shows bad judgment to disclose all of that information too soon to someone you recently met and who you are JUST DATING! Details about ones sexual past excluding having an STD should not be disclosed unless there is unwavering trust built between both parties and I would even suggest some sexual experiences are left unshared.
lovein30days 8 months ago
@davidgoodlettmusic As for the need for counseling and having cheated in the past again whether someone has need counseling or not (since we all have needed or need professional help at one time of another) has NOTHING to do with WHO someone is as a person. Some things are NON OF YOUR BUSINESS if we are just dating with no commitment. There are many married people who have been married for many years and are still learning things about their partner.
lovein30days 8 months ago
@davidgoodlettmusic Everything does not have to be shared in the first couple of weeks of meeting.
lovein30days 8 months ago
@lovein30days You said, "biting your toe nails and how many people you have slept with in the past has NOTHING to do with who you are". Huh??? Are you serious? These things have everything to do with who you are! The choices and decisions you make and/or fail to make manifested through words, ways and actions tells the world exactly who you are. In fact it defines who you are. Don't be silly. If you are not your thoughts, words, ways and actions, then who are you?
godflint 7 months ago
i believe if women would be modest like 2,000 years ago then there would be no flesh out causing lusting for another man's wife which equals sin, there would be no such thing as a man has to have one woman bcuz thatsunnatural according to the Bible and everywhere else in the world.i mean how would a man's lineage go on? thats all it was about back 2,000 years agofamily.this a plea from a 22 yr old dark skinned cuban woman whose been married dont set urself up to lie think about the future
mrzlsd88 7 months ago
@davidgoodlettmusic i AGREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
BE THYSELF, IF THE PAST IS THE PAST LEAVE IT THERE
BUT DO NOT HIDE STUFF LIKE SERIOUSLY
I UNDERSTAND WHERE SHES COMING FROM BUT WTF LOL
who the fuck cares... FRANKLY, BE YOURSELF REGARDLESS.
THAT'S WHY PEOPLE SHOULDNT BE IN A RELATIONSHIP IF IN FACT
YOU ARE NOT REALLY READY...smh.. my conclusion on this is please - just shut up
from a deeper prospective it does not HELP... EVENTUALLY SOONER OR LATER!!!!!!!!!!!!
licialicous 7 months ago
@davidgoodlettmusic yeah older women are suppose to teach us younger women how to keep our homes to par with our husband's request, taking care of the seed(children), keep your legs closed because according to the bible our bodies uniting as one means and IS MARRIAGE, not this western bs where your registering(abandoning) your rights as free beings on the land. in a black persons natural habitat the black woman depends on the black man. today its totally opp. im telln all u women step up!
mrzlsd88 7 months ago
dont really agree with u on everything but you made on valid point...NEVER tell a man that your previous boyfriends just used u and left u!!! never! i have seen a friends of mine telling this to two guys she liked..and they ended up doing the same....they think "if she tolerated this from so many men...why cant i do the same"...
garizable 8 months ago
Ok you can advertise anything for a guy he will support you no matter what your decision is if it's true love shortie wop.
bigconquer 8 months ago
Cheating is not a mistake
pagaallday79 8 months ago
Keep your mouth shut, be a liar, sneaky, and manipulative and you will have a falsified relationship. Anybody that want real love this is not the best route. There is something wrong with this picture...
ShinIsTrue 8 months ago 28
@ShinIsTrue I am not sure what video you are referring to or where in this video did you hear that but I do not recommend what you are suggesting.
lovein30days 8 months ago
this video I am talking about for others not to be a liar, sneaky, and manipulative and you will have a falsified relationship. I seen people go by these guidelines it don't work in most cases. Dirty laundry comes sooner or later. Given ground in relationships to spill the beans is not good as you say later in some certain instances like threesomes then that is something they need to know right hand? They need a choice period with all 411. Continued~
ShinIsTrue 8 months ago
@ShinIsTrue I think I make it clear what I recommend and why it is not wise for a man or woman to put it ALL on the table on the first few dates. This is the physiological development of a relationship. You give information as trust is developed with the other person and as they demonstrate their willingness to reveal information. So information is not needed to be revealed b/f a determination has even been made if the relationship will even progress to a commitment phase.
lovein30days 8 months ago
@lovein30days I concur with that. But if a man ask(most will early) there is no point to lie anyway especially if he becomes a factor and commitment hence forth. But again I say (MEN WILL ASK) so then what white lie? Then tell the truth later? Nah causes problems. Love in 30 days will not last over years if that solid foundation of truth, and honesty is built & rattled by a lie that is later exposed. I seen it happen too many times. (sings)♫She dropped a bomb on me baby♫
ShinIsTrue 8 months ago
@ShinIsTrue This is my last response to you. If a man ask about personal information I or a woman is not comfortable with sharing..YET, then I recommend she NOT lie but tell him that once she gets to know him well enough, she will have no problem sharing that kind of information. It is none of your business until I know that we are moving forward. Would you want a woman drilling you about how much you pay in child support, how many woman you cheated on, have you ever been raped as a child ...
lovein30days 8 months ago
@ShinIsTrueon the first few dates? No, you dont know her like that. There is some information a man should not reveal too soon as well. It is a turn off and shows you do not use discernment or wise judgement.
Good Luck and God Bless.
With Love
Shay Your Date Diva
lovein30days 8 months ago
@lovein30days I'm glad we clear on it :)
Shin~
ShinIsTrue 8 months ago
@lovein30days
You are completely right ! All people, male or female, should not divulge certain information too quickly.
Secondly - women especially should never tell a man how many men she has been with. That is information he should not even be asking for.
This is not about lying - this is about good common sense and good judgement.
NaomiChambers 8 months ago
@lovein30days women wonder why they shoot themselves in the foot, it is because in a (MOMENT) they give it all away at the wrong time or reveal it themselves. So all this does not apply unless of course they want to be a "diva" It may work for you and some others, but this is not the honest way to relationships. I know men and women are messed out out there but we human, if they can't handle the past they shouldn't be with them. A person should accept someone for who they were are and will be.
ShinIsTrue 8 months ago
@ShinIsTrue Welcome to women...
mofotax 4 months ago
@mofotax Indeed... and they wonder why men don't trust them. We learned from women first. Mother knows best right? Or in this case women. If I'm wrong then I would have men and women agreeing with me on here in fact women inboxed me saying I'm right they learned being secretive and manipulative gets them nowhere. We have to have a choice both men and women to know what we are getting ourselves into. Which will not happen more than likely which in turn is why things are the way they are now.
ShinIsTrue 4 months ago
@ShinIsTrue wouldn't*
ShinIsTrue 4 months ago
r u in the bathroom- on the thrown??
Chantalzulu 9 months ago
u know wat i think guys dont want to know how many guys a girl has been with nowadays, they dont wanna know! sad actually
patriciacarrasco 9 months ago
is that true about there number really shiiiit then i been fuckin wit some fuckin sluts shiiit no wonder they werent worth a damn but really thats true if so thats really fuckin sad but i guess if all u have to do is open em it can happen but still down
zenith2070 9 months ago
DON"T TELL HIM EX WAS BETTER IN BED!!
LaNeeCollard 9 months ago
OK I'M A REAL NIGGA I LIKE 4 WOMEN 2 BE UP FRONT STRAIT OFF BAT- TELL ME WHAT EVER - BECAUSE I GOT A WILD PAST 2- I HAVE FOUND OUT THAT WOMEN ARE SHOCKED IF YOU HAVE DONE THE THE SAME OR WORSER THAN THEM- I GUESS THEY WANT TO FEEL LIKE THEY TEACHING YOU SOMETHING- L0L- BUT WOMEN KEEP IT REAL - IF YOU WANT RESPECT FROM A MAN - IF YOU A (HOE) SAY YOU A "SLUT HOE" - THAN WE KNOW HOW 2 TREAT YOU- NO MAN WANTS TO SETTLE DOWN WITH SOMEONE HALF THE CITY DONE SLAYED & BE THE JOKE OF THE CITY- L0L = )
2423hop 9 months ago
@2423hop I feel you brother!= imagine men coming up to you saying Oh you with her? I tapped that too! SMH God will reveal it anyway. Believe it or not.
ShinIsTrue 9 months ago
AT 4:35 SHE SAID>> X3 ADD 20 TAKE IT 2 THE DEPTHS OF THE EARTH = A.I.D.S
2423hop 9 months ago
I listen to Bintentional here on YT. They have more concrete and sound advice.
jnqidowu1 9 months ago
This is 100% correct. Men claim they want to know but if you tell them the truth they cannot handle it. No matter how many times you say its in the past they get bothered by it. My mother gave me this advice and it was good advice. Its not so much about not telling the truth its all about a matter of when.
TheQueenIsWithin 9 months ago
This is 100% correct.
TheQueenIsWithin 9 months ago
what a joke... teaching people to lie! what an wonderfull idea!! we should all do that!! survival of the fittest my ass!! let us all lie!! hey!! this is an interesting idea... marry a church going girl... only to come home and find her cheating on you... in a threesome.. and when you confront her.. you find out that she was an escort before you, and is in rehab for cocaine abuse... oh and is crazy too!! that would be great right???!!! as per say.
armaanecks 10 months ago
I hear you on this one, there is a way to handle these brothers. Woo hoo glad I found you.
lyricalhealer 10 months ago
I THINK THAT WAS A BIG JUMP FROM THERAPY TO TOE NAILS... JUST KEEP IT REAL
franklynthree 10 months ago
I think a woman should let the man know she was not a saint when she was younger if in fact she was not one no need for numbers -remmeber this a small world arm the people you love with the truth the streets talk keep it 100 a real man loves a woman that keep it real with him.
LauderdaleFat 10 months ago
@lovein30days im sorry but u look so beautiful
ying6777 10 months ago
Men say they want to see/know the real you, but do they really? What if a woman's "real self" is not as pretty as her "presentation?
TheButtaJonez 10 months ago
Men always say they want to see/know the real you, but do you really?
TheButtaJonez 10 months ago
Thanks 4 all
rayray7269 10 months ago
times 3 add ten ... ajajajajajajajaj this is hilarious
murk4heart 10 months ago
I would love to bite YOUR toenails, maybe suck on a couple of your toes with a little whip cream. Yumm.
kpreston69 11 months ago
Church2Mosque
If u think this is crap why r u watching this anyway?
Sarialover1 11 months ago
number 6. you should shut the fuck up altogether.
lildude1717 11 months ago
Good thing I am muslim, I don't have to deal with this crap.
Church2Mosque 11 months ago
You. Are. A. Genius.
jessicaalicevayne 11 months ago
you know some of those things u shouldn't tell some of those things u need to tell for your relationship to be stable
thesingerangelina 11 months ago
who bites their toenails?
JamaicanCutie18 11 months ago
She better give me her correct number. You can't turn a hoe into a housewife.
ATENakaATON 11 months ago
i loved the fact this womans now given girls the perfect excuse to cheat...oh i fucked ur best friend cause his dick was bigger than urs but i learned from it and that wont happen again ur father 2!!
As for guys...i banged ur mum and best friend together but i learned from my mistake it wont happen again, btw both of them are tighter than u!!
im guessing this chick doesnt realise the ''advice'' shes giving can be used against women 2.
faithfulmonkey 11 months ago
lmfao! how would someone go about chewin on their toenails? ...
do you just ... try to,... yank yer leg up there and nibble away?
lmao funnaay stuff
brifcknanna 11 months ago
1.i am pregnant with your friends baby.2.I busted the windows out your car.3.I stole all the money out your bank account.4.I have butt implants(or breast implants).5.I am using you just for your money or for sex.
robertjosephgreen 1 year ago
she right that you shouldn't reveal all this past dirt early. of course you eventually reveal everything. but let it out slow. don't put everything on the plate right away.
caseyforever 1 year ago