i am acodependant man ,52, i have been in a relationship for 28yrs to a NPD person, i am leaving them ,this video has very safe for me, i realize i can not do anything for the others persons good,but i can improve me,i realized i just get pain from the other person and really dont understand why i want to stay,but i know i have to leave,this was a good tool for me,thankyou
I can not thank you enough! I am a 53 year old man who has been in a codependent relationship with another man 11 years younger, for 16 years. After watching and and following your video I had such a crying spell, and they I felt so much realief afterwards. It was the olverflowing of and overfilled container for a long time. It's a relief also to know that I can keep cleasing myself. Please, I have isolated from years. Please support me!
I can not thank you enough! I am a 53 year old man who has been in a codependent relationship with another man 11 years younger, for 16 years. After watching and and following your video I had such a crying spell, and they I felt so much realief afterwards. It was the olverflowing of and overfilled container for a long time. It's a relief also to know that I can keep cleasing myself.
Make your own "tape" or recording for 'creative visualization' from the techniques listed here. (I wrote down the steps, and then made a recording on my laptop. A digital recorder is good for this too.) Makes it easier to do the process. All healing is self-healing. Namaste
@the0verlay Guns in the hands of people new to them are dangerous and those people need to be supervised, carefully! Thankfully, this technique, although powerful, will only shoot co-dependency between the eyes, and is therefore completely safe for public use. Thank you for rasing the issue and allowing us to reassure.
@HowToLetGo No offence, but you are wrong. Even in a therapeutic environment, techniques such as this should only be attempted when the patient has sufficient ego strength to hold the feelings involved. Otherwise it actually does more harm than good. But, whatever.
@the0verlay Ego may not be what you clearly think it is. We recommend you download and read a fantastic free e-book that will help you develop another perspective on ego - 'Effortless Evolution: A New Paradigm for Personal Change' by Jamie Smart.
I hope you can respond to this concern: in my family, my sister was labeled "good" and I was labeled "bad"; naturally, I came to identify with these labels. When I imagine cutting the bond with my sister, I feel like I've cut myself off from the Good - I know this isn't true or real, but this is how it seems and feels to me.
@logotrix You cannot cut yourself off from the Good with this technique. You cannot cut yourself from your Goodness even if you tried or had wanted it. Any perception of being cut off from Goodness is an illusion. Your issue was that you came to identify Good with your sister. This technique is a part of what allows you to find the source of Good elsewhere (including deep inside), hence breaking the co-dependency and opening possibilities for you to see Good wherever you go.
@1642poltergeist -- You have no idea what co-dependency is, do you? These videos do allow people to take care of themselves. Read a book (or 2) by Melodie Beattie or watch a few more videos. You need an "attitude adjustment!"
very inspiring! like cutting the etheric chords to free myself and looking, listening to my "higher self"~ I like it!
heavenlyangelsrhere 3 days ago
wow.. all i have 2 say about this (:
44tjhall 3 months ago
i am acodependant man ,52, i have been in a relationship for 28yrs to a NPD person, i am leaving them ,this video has very safe for me, i realize i can not do anything for the others persons good,but i can improve me,i realized i just get pain from the other person and really dont understand why i want to stay,but i know i have to leave,this was a good tool for me,thankyou
59Disciple 4 months ago
I can not thank you enough! I am a 53 year old man who has been in a codependent relationship with another man 11 years younger, for 16 years. After watching and and following your video I had such a crying spell, and they I felt so much realief afterwards. It was the olverflowing of and overfilled container for a long time. It's a relief also to know that I can keep cleasing myself. Please, I have isolated from years. Please support me!
Thank you for empowerig me to do so such a thing!
Jordisayshi 4 months ago 2
I can not thank you enough! I am a 53 year old man who has been in a codependent relationship with another man 11 years younger, for 16 years. After watching and and following your video I had such a crying spell, and they I felt so much realief afterwards. It was the olverflowing of and overfilled container for a long time. It's a relief also to know that I can keep cleasing myself.
Thank you for empowerig me to do so such a thing!
Jordisayshi 4 months ago
Make your own "tape" or recording for 'creative visualization' from the techniques listed here. (I wrote down the steps, and then made a recording on my laptop. A digital recorder is good for this too.) Makes it easier to do the process. All healing is self-healing. Namaste
createwealthspokane 5 months ago
I think it's therapeutically irresponsible to place what can be a powerful technique just out there on the net with no supervision. Shame on you.
the0verlay 5 months ago
@the0verlay Guns in the hands of people new to them are dangerous and those people need to be supervised, carefully! Thankfully, this technique, although powerful, will only shoot co-dependency between the eyes, and is therefore completely safe for public use. Thank you for rasing the issue and allowing us to reassure.
HowToLetGo 5 months ago
@HowToLetGo No offence, but you are wrong. Even in a therapeutic environment, techniques such as this should only be attempted when the patient has sufficient ego strength to hold the feelings involved. Otherwise it actually does more harm than good. But, whatever.
the0verlay 5 months ago
@the0verlay Ego may not be what you clearly think it is. We recommend you download and read a fantastic free e-book that will help you develop another perspective on ego - 'Effortless Evolution: A New Paradigm for Personal Change' by Jamie Smart.
HowToLetGo 5 months ago
I hope you can respond to this concern: in my family, my sister was labeled "good" and I was labeled "bad"; naturally, I came to identify with these labels. When I imagine cutting the bond with my sister, I feel like I've cut myself off from the Good - I know this isn't true or real, but this is how it seems and feels to me.
logotrix 6 months ago
@logotrix You cannot cut yourself off from the Good with this technique. You cannot cut yourself from your Goodness even if you tried or had wanted it. Any perception of being cut off from Goodness is an illusion. Your issue was that you came to identify Good with your sister. This technique is a part of what allows you to find the source of Good elsewhere (including deep inside), hence breaking the co-dependency and opening possibilities for you to see Good wherever you go.
HowToLetGo 5 months ago 2
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1642poltergeist 8 months ago
@1642poltergeist -- You have no idea what co-dependency is, do you? These videos do allow people to take care of themselves. Read a book (or 2) by Melodie Beattie or watch a few more videos. You need an "attitude adjustment!"
createwealthspokane 5 months ago
Thank you, i think this helped a little bit
xoxlecherie 8 months ago
Amazing this really helped alot
M4A2Shermans 1 year ago
Wow Shoshana - what a wonderful dose of reality and love. Thank you both.
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longtallsallies 1 year ago