Who you are as a person? do u have a man do you love your people and culture? from the mother land do you even want to learn about the culture from out histroy of people of color?
im a booty call :/ i mean i do like having sex with him but i still want more and i like him so i have all this conflicting feelings. keep it somple or push on?
Yes those poor 10 who had no idea. Lol. A booty call works so well when each person is not expecting it to be more than what it is. Sometimes you just need sex. No taboos where all adults.
See! This is some real talk. People, especially young adults, need to learn to distinguish between the booty call and someone who actually likes you. And like you said, there's no shame in it--if it's your past, and now you know better. But when you can't tell the difference or don't want to, and you're getting older and wondering why you're still just seeing him/her at certain times, that's a problem.
I love how your videos are so diverse, you're not the standard DIY teacher, you keep it thorough at touch on many different topics we deal w/in life on a day to day! Much love chick!
Know your worth ladies and gentleman!! And what a lovely PSA. There are a lot of women in relationships with single men these days. And vice versa. Gotta know better to do better.
I was a booty call a few months back i caught feelings but then i had to step back to realize that me and him was sexing nothing more nothing less and the sex was sooo good but eventually it ended not sad cause i knew i was booty call and it is wat it is
Love your vids. Your honest and to the point. A BC is like a temp. employee. When the assignment is through, your services are no longer needed. One of the reasons I don't agree with BC. What is emotionless sex? It's like having an associate with friendship benefits. Someone is bound to get hurt.
LOL two times for Amanda! If anybody didn't know what a booty call before this they have been officially schooled. Rule #1: If you're going to have a BC or be a BC don't fall in love. I must admit I've made that mistake myself. Young and dumb I was.
Im loving these video Leathal!! I would have really appreciated this information arounf 5yrs ago, I think other people will benifit from this vid.
I generally thought for a long time that bootycalls were how men behaved with women. I was never told about the interaction between the sexes, so I accepted this behaviour (esp as all my friends seemed to be doing the same thing). Now I have some serious confident issues when dealing with men and I think contributes to me being a sabbotager :S
Girl, speak on it! That casual sex is not what’s up. Beside pregnancies, there are STDs and that sh*t ain’t no joke. For those who don’t think it could happen to you, check out the statistic of the number of black/Latina women with HIV.
I honestly don't think there is anything wrong with bootycall relationships. JUST AS LONG AS YOU CHOOSE A BC PARTNER THAT IS SAFE, HEALTHY, AND HAS NO TYPE OF QUALITY YOU WANT IN A PARTNER OTHER THAN THEM BEING GOOD AT WHAT THEY DO! There won't be any problems if you choose them that way. Trust me.
@ElleNuMi As long as YOU accept that. I think her video is more towards women who don't realize the guy doesn't care anything about you, he's just stickin, practicing off of you, using you, etc. Someone women don't realize this until it's too late. Most younger girls are booty-calls but they can't see it. At least you realize you are and have chosen that role consciously. Unfortunately, many unschooled girls end up pregnant or infected by their bootycalls. So, this video is very much on point.
@WhereYaBoss I agree fully! I saw her point to the video, and she explained everything clearly. I'm getting up in age, and since we've all been there, you learn not to tie your feelings with frivolous things such as a BC. and that was my point. In my early 20's I learned that sometimes sex is just sex.
Real talk! I had to wake up and smell the coffee a little while ago to realize that I was a booty call, because ole boy was always calling on the weekends, rarely during the week! I was a little smitten by him, and we tried to have an actual relationship and it didnt work at all...you can't force something that isn't there...lesson
learned. If you're a booty call...it is what it is...take it or leave it!
Lol so funny and true, I've been somebody's and somebody has been mine. It's an unfortunate situation but you live and you learn. Key thing is to not let your emotions get involved, that's when it gets messy.
Why am I laughing at this! Lol! Amanda! It's so true though! But people be falling hard, and they are booty calls! I was cracking up this entire video.
@LethalPleazure I thought I was happy being a "Booty Call" a few years ago.It lasted about eight months.I loved my booty call.I wanted more.....he didn't.It hurted bad for a while.We only went out to eat in my hood,but not his.I lived in a suburb of Detroit,he lived in Cleveland.He got mad when I ran into his mom when I was leaving his house one morning.I was suppose to be gone by the time mom came over. I had to go through it to realize "BC'S" aren't for me.REAL TALK LP.LOVE TO HEAR MORE
The messed up thing about the booty call is the booty call pregnancies. I no longer support those. I hate those relationships because all it leads to is aftermath babydaddy/mamadrama. And my thing is, if he wasn't showing up in your life, why do you expect him to show up in your child's life? It's not like he was trying to court you and do the right thing out the gate. So, why do you expect him to do right now? I think those situations are our downfall. Yet it's how most black kids get here : (
@LethalPleazure Girl, if a M-F calls me after all the restaurants closed I know damn well he's no good. But some of us really think we have a man because he consistently dials post-club. I wish a mofo would. I consider that an insult. Yep. If a man is calling you at 11 o'clock, 1 am, 2 and 3 in the morning he is calling you out your name. But I see people falling for it all the time. I had a dude call me at 3:45 am once and I walked right passed his ass like he was the wind when I saw him out.
LOL!
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Who you are as a person? do u have a man do you love your people and culture? from the mother land do you even want to learn about the culture from out histroy of people of color?
WiseNubianPolygny1 1 month ago
Ha! Booty calls, smashing, late night ASS!!!!!!!
sadejones001 1 month ago
Lmaoo' AMÉN !
YouGotTooBeKiddingMe 1 month ago
We just kickin it, we aint going steady. Have you heard that song? Lol. Love your videos!
MochaRoses 2 months ago
im a booty call :/ i mean i do like having sex with him but i still want more and i like him so i have all this conflicting feelings. keep it somple or push on?
Nkemmy 2 months ago
@Nkemmy hey babe...Well if you are happy doing that then def stick to it..but it ALL depends on you and what you can handle.
LethalPleazure 2 months ago
Good video.If a dude calls late at night talking about he wanna
"kick it" or "chill" then that basically means he want some butt.
NCDuke 3 months ago
Lol...hahaha...this is good!!!! We all been thr @ 1 point or another. But...not anymore!!!!
afrocaribbean1 3 months ago
Great video with wonderful points and tips! Keep them coming, girl!
PearlfectJourney 3 months ago 2
U shudda named this Booty Call 101 - hilarious - but informative! And the visual was on point!!!
maximuslyricus 3 months ago in playlist More videos from LethalPleazure
@maximuslyricus thanks ma! lol
LethalPleazure 3 months ago
Why do casual relationship have a negative connotation?
amyy164 3 months ago
@amyy164 Im not saying its negative or positive..Im just simply stating what it is...
LethalPleazure 3 months ago
So true even if the person call you the girl/boyfriend with all other signs you stated, still a booty call
KinkyStyles1980 3 months ago
every time you said booty call, i lol'd ..... great video !!!!
FusionofCultures 3 months ago 2
@FusionofCultures lol lol thanks boo!
LethalPleazure 3 months ago
one word: amen
eclecticsoul91 3 months ago
Yes those poor 10 who had no idea. Lol. A booty call works so well when each person is not expecting it to be more than what it is. Sometimes you just need sex. No taboos where all adults.
bajestar24 3 months ago
@bajestar24 lol wow!!!
LethalPleazure 3 months ago
10 people just realize their just a booty call
honeyBK 3 months ago
@honeyBK LOL!
WhereYaBoss 3 months ago
See! This is some real talk. People, especially young adults, need to learn to distinguish between the booty call and someone who actually likes you. And like you said, there's no shame in it--if it's your past, and now you know better. But when you can't tell the difference or don't want to, and you're getting older and wondering why you're still just seeing him/her at certain times, that's a problem.
keish1 3 months ago
You telling the truth girl :) Some people can't take the truth.
LadyKay78 3 months ago
I love how your videos are so diverse, you're not the standard DIY teacher, you keep it thorough at touch on many different topics we deal w/in life on a day to day! Much love chick!
mschocolatte06 3 months ago 4
@mschocolatte06 lol i like this ! lol...girl shit be real out here!
LethalPleazure 3 months ago
Know your worth ladies and gentleman!! And what a lovely PSA. There are a lot of women in relationships with single men these days. And vice versa. Gotta know better to do better.
curlyRAwk 3 months ago
girl" what are we doing? Are we together or what?" Guy "why we gotta label things?"= booty call
JRenneaC 3 months ago 2
I was a booty call a few months back i caught feelings but then i had to step back to realize that me and him was sexing nothing more nothing less and the sex was sooo good but eventually it ended not sad cause i knew i was booty call and it is wat it is
SASSyKEE09 3 months ago
younger girls need to hear this I swear! some real good info and straight to the point
supermanismylover 3 months ago
I love booty calls...nothing wrongs with them....i enjoy that pussy she love this dick...lets just keep it at 3g hat JARELS TRUTH
Munchmoney4 3 months ago
Love your vids. Your honest and to the point. A BC is like a temp. employee. When the assignment is through, your services are no longer needed. One of the reasons I don't agree with BC. What is emotionless sex? It's like having an associate with friendship benefits. Someone is bound to get hurt.
zheahra 3 months ago
pls keep these vids coming, i love it
w104tch 3 months ago
girl you are so damn right ,
soulyKc 3 months ago
LOL two times for Amanda! If anybody didn't know what a booty call before this they have been officially schooled. Rule #1: If you're going to have a BC or be a BC don't fall in love. I must admit I've made that mistake myself. Young and dumb I was.
aunaturalebelle 3 months ago
Im loving these video Leathal!! I would have really appreciated this information arounf 5yrs ago, I think other people will benifit from this vid.
I generally thought for a long time that bootycalls were how men behaved with women. I was never told about the interaction between the sexes, so I accepted this behaviour (esp as all my friends seemed to be doing the same thing). Now I have some serious confident issues when dealing with men and I think contributes to me being a sabbotager :S
QueenChezabelle 3 months ago
Girl, speak on it! That casual sex is not what’s up. Beside pregnancies, there are STDs and that sh*t ain’t no joke. For those who don’t think it could happen to you, check out the statistic of the number of black/Latina women with HIV.
rubykat11 3 months ago
I honestly don't think there is anything wrong with bootycall relationships. JUST AS LONG AS YOU CHOOSE A BC PARTNER THAT IS SAFE, HEALTHY, AND HAS NO TYPE OF QUALITY YOU WANT IN A PARTNER OTHER THAN THEM BEING GOOD AT WHAT THEY DO! There won't be any problems if you choose them that way. Trust me.
ElleNuMi 3 months ago
@ElleNuMi As long as YOU accept that. I think her video is more towards women who don't realize the guy doesn't care anything about you, he's just stickin, practicing off of you, using you, etc. Someone women don't realize this until it's too late. Most younger girls are booty-calls but they can't see it. At least you realize you are and have chosen that role consciously. Unfortunately, many unschooled girls end up pregnant or infected by their bootycalls. So, this video is very much on point.
WhereYaBoss 3 months ago
@WhereYaBoss I agree fully! I saw her point to the video, and she explained everything clearly. I'm getting up in age, and since we've all been there, you learn not to tie your feelings with frivolous things such as a BC. and that was my point. In my early 20's I learned that sometimes sex is just sex.
ElleNuMi 3 months ago
Real talk! I had to wake up and smell the coffee a little while ago to realize that I was a booty call, because ole boy was always calling on the weekends, rarely during the week! I was a little smitten by him, and we tried to have an actual relationship and it didnt work at all...you can't force something that isn't there...lesson
learned. If you're a booty call...it is what it is...take it or leave it!
Monaptural 3 months ago
@Monaptural I had that same realization Sis so I feel you.
mpenny226 3 months ago
I got a booty call! as long as we are both on the same page it's all good in the hood.
lfutrell82 3 months ago
So what does your shirt say missy? I love b-o-o-t-.....lol. I loved this Lethal!!!
LuBellaCoils 3 months ago
Lol so funny and true, I've been somebody's and somebody has been mine. It's an unfortunate situation but you live and you learn. Key thing is to not let your emotions get involved, that's when it gets messy.
naeeders 3 months ago
You are cracking me up with this! but its so true!
caramelnaps 3 months ago 3
Why am I laughing at this! Lol! Amanda! It's so true though! But people be falling hard, and they are booty calls! I was cracking up this entire video.
ClassicUrbanBeauty 3 months ago
@LethalPleazure I thought I was happy being a "Booty Call" a few years ago.It lasted about eight months.I loved my booty call.I wanted more.....he didn't.It hurted bad for a while.We only went out to eat in my hood,but not his.I lived in a suburb of Detroit,he lived in Cleveland.He got mad when I ran into his mom when I was leaving his house one morning.I was suppose to be gone by the time mom came over. I had to go through it to realize "BC'S" aren't for me.REAL TALK LP.LOVE TO HEAR MORE
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Afrikaisi731 3 months ago
The messed up thing about the booty call is the booty call pregnancies. I no longer support those. I hate those relationships because all it leads to is aftermath babydaddy/mamadrama. And my thing is, if he wasn't showing up in your life, why do you expect him to show up in your child's life? It's not like he was trying to court you and do the right thing out the gate. So, why do you expect him to do right now? I think those situations are our downfall. Yet it's how most black kids get here : (
WhereYaBoss 3 months ago 25
@WhereYaBoss I TOTALLY AGREE...that booty call is no fun in the long run. I just see so many bad situations as a result from having casual sex.
LethalPleazure 3 months ago 12
@LethalPleazure Girl, if a M-F calls me after all the restaurants closed I know damn well he's no good. But some of us really think we have a man because he consistently dials post-club. I wish a mofo would. I consider that an insult. Yep. If a man is calling you at 11 o'clock, 1 am, 2 and 3 in the morning he is calling you out your name. But I see people falling for it all the time. I had a dude call me at 3:45 am once and I walked right passed his ass like he was the wind when I saw him out.
WhereYaBoss 3 months ago 6
@WhereYaBoss Yes! Speak on it!!
MusicLova84 3 months ago
@WhereYaBoss You said a mouthful!!! I totally agree!!
kristenjdec 3 months ago
real shit.
skyeblanchard 3 months ago