This is a Song about Love & Devotion. & It's Beautiful & show's Soul-Mates. Where do some of ya get your Twisted Idea's??? Anyway's I want it played at my Funeral when I do Kick It. I want them to Know I Love Them, When my time come's. Hopefully when I'm 100 yr's old.
the song is part of the messener story the whole album tells a fiictional story,,.,.,not a personal story having to do with folds life.....although there are always influences of whatever is going on at that monent when a writer creates a song... but its not a direct relation.
aww, that wasn't nice...and not really even what I meant to say. this is a very personal song...as his almost always are...this was a very, very lazily executed video. even if Gretchen happened to be an unknown at the time, this song deserved more than a hired gun to play a "pinning girlfriend". weak concept. weak all around.
I love this song, but they cut off the very end of it where there's this really simple but cool bass melody that doesn't really resolves and I think is the perfect ending to this song, because the topic of the song isn't something that resolves, it's just something you have to move on from and get over.
@dropkickchesterator Me too. It reminds me of the nineties when everything was 'piano'ed, before the flugelhorn kicks in it sounds a little it like the intro from the television show "Wings." I loved this album when I was a teenager.
Awesome song, terrible video. When somebody posts a music video using "The Sims" that better captures the soul of the song, you know something's wrong. But like I say, the song is really, really good.
DO NOT READ!!!! This is so stupid... But i love my mom deeply... And i don't want to take any chances. Sorry. If you do not copy and paste this onto 10 videos your mom will die in 4 hours
Ben is very modest and he may not appreciate this but his music is actually very sophisticated... he's an amazing composer... oh i love the band as well... I like them to... thank you for posting!!!...
you are absolutely right, until you really know how hard it is to play the piano as good as him you'll see how hard it is to make a song and especially with GREAT music to go with. He has a true gift from God
I love the "aah's" during the bridge. The sound so beautiful. I got to see them on their tour in support of the "Reinhold Messner" album, and it was awesome. And they're such nice guys too. They had to be dog tired after the show, and they hung around and signed autographs until everyone was happy.
This is my favorite Ben Folds Five song, but this edit sucked. Also, I think traditional videos take away from the songs. I don't mind videos of live performances, but BFF "music videos" always feel fake and forced.
Landed on Songs for Silverman is a followup to this song, btw.
I really don't like his voice... Its just a personal opinion. The piano is brilliant but there is just something about his voice that hits me in the wrong place.
love the song hate the video.
sharonanne116 1 month ago
Ben Folds sometimes sounds like Kermit the Frog, which is to his benefit in a way.
HammerOvThor 5 months ago
This video was just added to a music playlist at JustPlay.fm
justplayfm 5 months ago
the last great ben folds song.
supersport22 8 months ago
That slight hissing in the background drives me nuts. Great to have the studio version uploaded, though!
GiantPetRat 9 months ago
beautiful piano and lyrics as usual from ben
sjt616 11 months ago
i like the piano.
winggoddess 1 year ago
look at ben folds trying to act
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Emile9817 1 year ago
Not a trumpet. Flugelhorn.
aaronbp 1 year ago
This is a Song about Love & Devotion. & It's Beautiful & show's Soul-Mates. Where do some of ya get your Twisted Idea's??? Anyway's I want it played at my Funeral when I do Kick It. I want them to Know I Love Them, When my time come's. Hopefully when I'm 100 yr's old.
BeaverBreath7 1 year ago
the song is part of the messener story the whole album tells a fiictional story,,.,.,not a personal story having to do with folds life.....although there are always influences of whatever is going on at that monent when a writer creates a song... but its not a direct relation.
emilshere 1 year ago
the trumpet part makes the song, for me.
shoeler3519 1 year ago
Never knew there was a video for this song. Beautifully sad, perfect Ben.
plasticine89 2 years ago
in the beginning is he talking about suicide?!
Chezmat1 2 years ago
nope
SpookieLoveCookie 2 years ago
@Chezmat1 No. He just realizes how fragile life is, but "he hopes he's wrong."
thaggas 2 years ago
gretchen mol? really??
keephurtingaza 2 years ago
aww, that wasn't nice...and not really even what I meant to say. this is a very personal song...as his almost always are...this was a very, very lazily executed video. even if Gretchen happened to be an unknown at the time, this song deserved more than a hired gun to play a "pinning girlfriend". weak concept. weak all around.
keephurtingaza 2 years ago
I love Ben Folds and this song but I played it to an ex once and she told me that he sounded like Kermit the Frog. Lol.
edin500 2 years ago 2
damn, why did you say that now i will always think that!
darkwingppk 2 years ago
OMG that made me lmao, thank you.
rectifier71 2 years ago
lol, i had never thought that before until i listened to this song just now and then i scrolled down and saw your comment and just laughed XD
165894 2 years ago
luv this. So much
JenYewen 2 years ago
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bigredyana 2 years ago
"..... Rheinhold Messner " was a great album - all of it. Sure helped me thru a difficult time of life
oink1969 2 years ago
I love this song, but they cut off the very end of it where there's this really simple but cool bass melody that doesn't really resolves and I think is the perfect ending to this song, because the topic of the song isn't something that resolves, it's just something you have to move on from and get over.
JRiddyCuz 2 years ago
i love the piano solo after the first chorus
dropkickchesterator 2 years ago 5
@dropkickchesterator Me too. It reminds me of the nineties when everything was 'piano'ed, before the flugelhorn kicks in it sounds a little it like the intro from the television show "Wings." I loved this album when I was a teenager.
Generlcapgun 6 days ago
I love the trumpet SOOOO MUCH in this song!!
perfect notes and chords. i need to see him live... even though the five is no longer together
menelaus117 2 years ago
areed man! i wan havesex with you!!!
exeforever 2 years ago
he's excellent live. still performs with accompaniment sometimes, but many songs are solo.
cornellmusician 2 years ago
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noeltheshemale 2 years ago
I personally think this was their best song, love the vocal harmonies and the chords Ben uses. The ending's just sublime
81MJT 2 years ago
Awesome song, terrible video. When somebody posts a music video using "The Sims" that better captures the soul of the song, you know something's wrong. But like I say, the song is really, really good.
davis21wylie 2 years ago
ben folds really digs deep when he writes his songs...gotta love him
RF720121389 2 years ago 2
...I love you, goodbye
jarfiendo 2 years ago
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DO NOT READ!!!! This is so stupid... But i love my mom deeply... And i don't want to take any chances. Sorry. If you do not copy and paste this onto 10 videos your mom will die in 4 hours
likeOMGitscolie 2 years ago
This makes me miss Robert and Darren so much.
superciliary 2 years ago 2
same here!!
pfmf03 2 years ago
i cant wait to see him on march 19th!
allforleyna80 2 years ago
i see him on the 18th =p
knoxIII 2 years ago
fantastic song.
can't wait to see him feb19th!
babyimaLBR 3 years ago
Wow, this is really good.
vysehrad 3 years ago
...this is one of my favourite b.f.-songs!!! Great, great, absolutely great!!!
99sonx 3 years ago
Great, great song.
spd13062 3 years ago
Ben is very modest and he may not appreciate this but his music is actually very sophisticated... he's an amazing composer... oh i love the band as well... I like them to... thank you for posting!!!...
mikebtko 3 years ago
Is that Gretchen Mol?
DecemberGuy 3 years ago
My FAVORITE Ben Folds song.
bleutuna 3 years ago
I smell a Ben Folds Five Reunion in the works...But I'm not exactly complaining about Ben Fold's solo projects...What buckwildly jiggy talent!!!
pearlmaiden 3 years ago
That would be cool, but I think Folds FAR surpassed the work he did with BFF in his solo career.
mrkemrk 3 years ago
Solo? have you been living under a rock? he is with a band again & the solo thing was short lived...
This mother fucker can rock his ass off & is so fucking talented
paulmoity 3 years ago
He plays with a band, but he still plays under his name only.
chris9898owns 3 years ago 2
ye like marilyn manson =D
roselovintherock 2 years ago
I fucking love Ben Folds! If I could meet one celebrity it would either be Ben Folds, Thom Yorke, or Conan Obrien.
crazyvideoplace 3 years ago
Hands down, best song on Reinhold Messner. So beautiful. :)
EriisaMuffin 3 years ago
He's really talented... Ben is so often under-rated because he makes it all seem so effortless... love, love, love Ben Folds!
mikebtko 3 years ago 2
you are absolutely right, until you really know how hard it is to play the piano as good as him you'll see how hard it is to make a song and especially with GREAT music to go with. He has a true gift from God
lindsaysuenicole 3 years ago
imaginary entities can't give true gifts
vysehrad 3 years ago 2
i remember this song when my wife and I were having problems..really helped...cause i can only be who i am and she can be herself
MsDeandrea 3 years ago
I thought I'd seen all of their videos.... thanks for posting!
slimpicturesDOTcom 3 years ago
It has been since the release of this as a single, that I have heard this song. Thanks!!!
Ranaldo20 3 years ago
It's Got a BeachBoys feel..But I agree with u. this is a monumental song.
funeguy2 4 years ago
This is one of his best, i think.
The 'Dont change, your plans' Section really shows off his classical training. They're very baroque sounding chord sequences!
jseldis 4 years ago 3
*Burt Bacharach
keatingpiers 4 years ago
Totally!!!
roskes 3 years ago
The trumpet (or is it flugelhorn?) in the instrumental bridge makes it sound more than slightly Burt Bacharch-esque..
keatingpiers 4 years ago
this song makes me cry :(
califaschick 4 years ago 16
i feel ya
MsDeandrea 3 years ago
@califaschick -yeah me too, but not as much as it used to, which hurts...I'm becoming numb;(
--------------------->tear falling sideways b/c head is tilted
Xclubkid22 1 year ago
@califaschick so do i...
paulmanson 1 year ago
I really love this song.
The chorus is great!!
xsunnysunshinex 4 years ago 3
Does anyone actually know who Reinhold Messner actually is?
samtheband 4 years ago
reinhold messner was a name that i think Darren and his college friends put on fake ids
DarkDoveDonnor 4 years ago 3
The real Reinhold Messner is a mountain climber. DarkDoveDonner is right about what the CD is referring to, though.
LankyKong12 4 years ago
Love this song
chrismoff17 4 years ago
awesome song period.
concertat9 4 years ago
I love this song!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
funeguy2 4 years ago
I love the "aah's" during the bridge. The sound so beautiful. I got to see them on their tour in support of the "Reinhold Messner" album, and it was awesome. And they're such nice guys too. They had to be dog tired after the show, and they hung around and signed autographs until everyone was happy.
NorthWriter 4 years ago
LOVE IT!! and if u don't ya can just firmer la bouche!!!
Tinaversal 4 years ago
This is my favorite Ben Folds Five song, but this edit sucked. Also, I think traditional videos take away from the songs. I don't mind videos of live performances, but BFF "music videos" always feel fake and forced.
Landed on Songs for Silverman is a followup to this song, btw.
almkUK 4 years ago 3
@almkUK its probably the recording company that wanted a video. Always lookin for more money. Actually my favorite BFF video is 'Kate'.
AndyMan2006P 1 year ago
@almkUK Such a good comment.
zinzeta 1 year ago
Favorite BF5 song.
jzsarcasmo 4 years ago
I really don't like his voice... Its just a personal opinion. The piano is brilliant but there is just something about his voice that hits me in the wrong place.
Toggletog 4 years ago
was it just me or was there a really sloppy edit of like a minute of that song? still awesome...
THISISNOTINUSE 5 years ago 3
love this song. love this guy.
inkybot 5 years ago
Wow, this song is so underrated....
Its a shame, wish he'd play it live.
Imagine how great it would have been to have it as a solo piano track on the Ben Folds Live cd...
Silver26J 5 years ago
Ditto, fantastic song! So happy to finally see the video!
rossboss1 5 years ago
awesome song. one of my all time favs!
vox237 5 years ago
THE LYRICS OF THIS MUSIC ARE AMAZING !!!!
BF5 RULEZZZZZZZZ
rodrigosilva2 5 years ago
thank you for posting this!!!
kellers1302 5 years ago
Hands down, best song from this album. Kudos to the uploader, you beat me to it!
dillo 5 years ago