We never found the body of ours. He was murdered in a massive fire by stupid fools, and they still haven't found a single physical remain.
So it doesn't even feel like he died most of the time. I have to force myself to believe it, b/c we never saw any proof other than knowing he went there that day and was suddenly gone the same morning.
Before then, I never thought having a body mattered.
@vickiormindyb I am so sorry to hear about your tragic loss. losing your son is bad enough, but not having and physical remains must have made the whole thing much worse. Your pain and grief must be terrible. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family.
I do understand the grief of losing a son. I to lost my son 4 and a half months ago, and I feel I have been lost in limbo since. Im so terribly sorry for what has happenned to you and your family losing your boy. I dont have the answers, I'm still trying to find them myself. Just know that someone out here cares.
@Txshizzle I am so sorry to hear of your loss. No one expects to out live their children, it just doesn't seem natural. I know just how raw you must feel right now. It has now been over a year and a half since we lost David. I have got better at dealing with the grief but the pain is still there. I have so many good memories of him as I am sure you do of your son. There is hardly an hour goes by when I don't think of him. You will smile and laugh again, but with a tinge of sadness.
I am so sorry about your Son. I know exactly what your going through. I lost my "Nana" 3 months ago and my life will never be the same. I know she send me messeges in her own way like the Rainbow that shined over her house the day she died. I will pray for your family. Wish you all the best!
@natesmom2244 I understand as well. When my granny died it seemed as if the sun went behind the clouds, it was a dark day. Somehow I knew she was gone at that very moment and indeed she died that day. Id rather receive a message such as a rainbow (like you said) rather than a dark & gloomy day.
I lost my son in 1996. I haven't been out of my room since. He was 24. His mother took her own life unable to bare the strain. BUT WITH ME there were other issues that played a part in my seclusion. I can tell you this and I know you likely hear it often but I can speak to this on a personal level...it gets better with TIME. Never ever does it go away but it does get better. In the meanwhile keep posting and sharing as u never know who u r giving hope to by sharing & I believe it's good for you.
I'm so sorry to hear of the grief you have suffered in your life. Thank you for your kind words, I know they come from someone who knows what it feels like. Paul
I've jst hamy grandad died & i cant help but cry all the time. its the 1st death ive experianced cos i am oly 13. i feel sorry 4 cos i cud definately not hav dun this video. i wud hav broke dow. well dun! Jade =)
Hi Jade. I am so sorry to hear you have lost your grandad. The pain will get less, it just takes time.There will always be a part of you that misses him, but in time you will think of all of the good things about him and the good times you had with him. It has been 7 months since we lost our son. It is still painful, and I miss him terribly. But the pain is less and I am able to think about him without crying. I know I will see him again someday, and I know you will see your grandad too. Paul
I stumbled upon your channel while searching for neurology related videos. And, I can not express how touched I have been by your emotional resilience. You have been through so many troubling experiences in such a brief period of time, yet are making it through. It makes me realize how trivial my own troubles are. Well, remember you are an inspiration to many and good luck with everything.
Again, I am so sorry for your loss. I have no words to express how deeply I feel. How brave you are to make this video. I've pretty much lost the 'knack' of crying, due to my illness, but I am crying now. My deepest sympathies go to you and your entire family.
Sorry for talking again, but ours happened in September too. September 11, 2001, while he was at work.
I was hoping that part about having to tell my 15-yr. old daughter about it would disappear.
Everyone SAID it would, but it never has. Then they said 'You just don't want it to.'
As if they know what I want or don't want to do.
Some people would be better off saying nothing than what they DO say.
vickiormindyb 1 year ago
We never found the body of ours. He was murdered in a massive fire by stupid fools, and they still haven't found a single physical remain.
So it doesn't even feel like he died most of the time. I have to force myself to believe it, b/c we never saw any proof other than knowing he went there that day and was suddenly gone the same morning.
Before then, I never thought having a body mattered.
vickiormindyb 1 year ago
@vickiormindyb I am so sorry to hear about your tragic loss. losing your son is bad enough, but not having and physical remains must have made the whole thing much worse. Your pain and grief must be terrible. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family.
kaazoom 1 year ago
I do understand the grief of losing a son. I to lost my son 4 and a half months ago, and I feel I have been lost in limbo since. Im so terribly sorry for what has happenned to you and your family losing your boy. I dont have the answers, I'm still trying to find them myself. Just know that someone out here cares.
Txshizzle 1 year ago
@Txshizzle I am so sorry to hear of your loss. No one expects to out live their children, it just doesn't seem natural. I know just how raw you must feel right now. It has now been over a year and a half since we lost David. I have got better at dealing with the grief but the pain is still there. I have so many good memories of him as I am sure you do of your son. There is hardly an hour goes by when I don't think of him. You will smile and laugh again, but with a tinge of sadness.
kaazoom 1 year ago
I am so sorry about your Son. I know exactly what your going through. I lost my "Nana" 3 months ago and my life will never be the same. I know she send me messeges in her own way like the Rainbow that shined over her house the day she died. I will pray for your family. Wish you all the best!
natesmom2244 2 years ago
@natesmom2244 I understand as well. When my granny died it seemed as if the sun went behind the clouds, it was a dark day. Somehow I knew she was gone at that very moment and indeed she died that day. Id rather receive a message such as a rainbow (like you said) rather than a dark & gloomy day.
look00ification 1 year ago
I lost my son in 1996. I haven't been out of my room since. He was 24. His mother took her own life unable to bare the strain. BUT WITH ME there were other issues that played a part in my seclusion. I can tell you this and I know you likely hear it often but I can speak to this on a personal level...it gets better with TIME. Never ever does it go away but it does get better. In the meanwhile keep posting and sharing as u never know who u r giving hope to by sharing & I believe it's good for you.
zenknown 2 years ago 2
I'm so sorry to hear of the grief you have suffered in your life. Thank you for your kind words, I know they come from someone who knows what it feels like. Paul
kaazoom 2 years ago
Thx =) Jadee
jade09gal 2 years ago
I've jst hamy grandad died & i cant help but cry all the time. its the 1st death ive experianced cos i am oly 13. i feel sorry 4 cos i cud definately not hav dun this video. i wud hav broke dow. well dun! Jade =)
jade09gal 2 years ago
Hi Jade. I am so sorry to hear you have lost your grandad. The pain will get less, it just takes time.There will always be a part of you that misses him, but in time you will think of all of the good things about him and the good times you had with him. It has been 7 months since we lost our son. It is still painful, and I miss him terribly. But the pain is less and I am able to think about him without crying. I know I will see him again someday, and I know you will see your grandad too. Paul
kaazoom 2 years ago
I stumbled upon your channel while searching for neurology related videos. And, I can not express how touched I have been by your emotional resilience. You have been through so many troubling experiences in such a brief period of time, yet are making it through. It makes me realize how trivial my own troubles are. Well, remember you are an inspiration to many and good luck with everything.
nrlsky 3 years ago
Again, I am so sorry for your loss. I have no words to express how deeply I feel. How brave you are to make this video. I've pretty much lost the 'knack' of crying, due to my illness, but I am crying now. My deepest sympathies go to you and your entire family.
Peace and Love
Carolina
2hotinaz 3 years ago 2