aye this shit go this is the cut an it slaps wit some beat man I heard this 2nite on 102.9 an dam my soul got happy an i anit neva been n this situation jus this kinda music man I miss hearin this kind an im only 30 an yes im wit this shit : )
Love this song! Bought it on 45 when it first came out, and still have it. One thing though.......40......45.......? try almost 50!!!!! (in less than 2 months from now)
this song did happen to me a young lady that i work in the same building with i found attractive but stayed away from because my girlfried work there too but we became friends and it happen woke and she was there in my bed beside me we did not have sex but soon after we did, it was not supose to happen
@JesusManson323 My bones be cracking and shit turning young girls off, and my gas is similar to an old buick fired up after sitting for 15 years. If I could go back to 21 just for a month; I would be happy. Pondering the thought of realistically knowing that I have about 30 to 40 good years left; if even that, bothers the shit out of me. LOL
Good song, good melody. As far as bad, a few of us did get caught up in the moment but most us looked at it as just... good... music. 80's love songs still can't be touched or even compared to todays songs, the odds were and are "very" different! We had so many positive love songs back then to offset the few negatives, not today. Most of all, for the ones who were in this situation, these songs still made you think of the wrong you were doing vs. today's music inspires no remorse at all. :)
I hated this adulterous song and still do! My dad was cheating on my mother when it was out and I just couldn't see what was desirable about it at all. Yuk!! I hate it with a passion!! Adulterers!
@lsn2jah Part of art is to capture the human experience good and bad. Music is art. Humans do bad things...like cheat. She did a song about that...and it is relevant evidenced by yours and other comments. Should artist only explore the good side of humans? Sounds boring.
I have been asking that same question for seventeen years???? And even if you don't know when you know its going to happen what in the hell is so hard with being up front after all i would think after all the years endured that would be the least a coward would or should do!!!!!!
i used to wake up in the mornings listening to KISS 102 f.m. before going to school myself. listening to oldie but goodies. damn where did the music...the REAL MUSIC go????
As a child I use to wake up every morning to this song before school. The lyrics in this song translate completely different to me know that I'm an adult and have lived a little. As a child all I heard was "it's morning" and that meant it was time to wake up. lol. I had no idea it was a song about an affair. Just goes to show how innocent the mind of a child really is.
This song is an original cut and still sounds good after all of these years. Though this song touches on a sensitive topic - adultery...it is a harsh reality for more people than we know. Affairs happen every day and unfortunately, there isn't much we can do about it except to stay true to ourselves and not give in to temptation if the opportunity arises.
do not listen to this sing after a breakup..you will cry yourself to sleep...this is a great song but if you are sad and are going thru a very bad breakup..you shouldnt listen to this song because her voice is beautiful and she will have you in tears after the first verse
i love song.but this type of shyt happens all the time. get use to it its life.an if aint heard of it nor been through it then i only have to tell u is to keep on living. you will soon know
I KNOW SOMEONE SLEEPING WIT A MARRIED MAN AND SHE IS SUFFERING EVERYDAY TRYING TO CONVINCE HERSELF THIS MAN IS GONNA LOVE HER FULLY... NOT GONE HAPPEN
young folks, it don't matter how you got here, just as long as you made it here. so many judgmental young folks. "cheating" is part of the human condition. you know, "real" life? some of y'all daddie's aint your daddy. no matter what "race" you are.
It's kinda weird because this song sounds so nice but the concept of the song is one that shouldn't be encouraged. Folks I wouldn't try this shit against somebody for real, because #1. It's wrong and #2. A lot of folks are killing nowadays, they don't want to talk about shit.... That's why I want him to be so single he's sangle...LOL....
@mezzo1741. he can tell u he is single all day long hell these days u really need proof because he say he is single dont mean its true. thats why i do my on research behind his bak cause trust me somebody knows something about his ass
@unique1978able I get what you're saying, LOL... I had one man tell me that he was separated from his wife.... What? You're here talking to me and she's at the house?! That's what you mean by separated? Needless to say I left his ass alone. It's bad to say but a lot of men say they're single and are married, engaged or have a girlfriend. But I still think that there are men left who are honest about being single.... but it's always good to be on the safe side & make sure he's absolutely single.
O.M.G.! How did I miss Ms. Murdock as I was growing up? Really, really glad to find her now! You're leaving me... I know you have to hurry home to meet your wife... I would never, never want to hurt her, She'd never understand.. You belong to me for just one night... as we slept the night away... O.M.G.! Amazing Woman!
I LOVE DIS SONG SO MUCH...bt i thought it was Kelly Price song but she redid it..but i love both version so so so so so so much.....dis is real music..damn i wish more songs like dis were more play on the radio and tv...i kno dere r songs like dis out dere bt dey dont get a lot of playing time or did are under wraps.....
i feel u MsBossLaydeh but i dnt hav to give anyone an excuse all they have to do is do it. I never got a call from someone just as they about to hit it and they call me like "not sure rioboy1 what i wanna do should i hit it right now or be faithful?" it happens...what i'm say'n is dont be lazy with your partner give then all the Love they want, need and desire then they will be too full to want anyone else. hope u unda dig the clarification. dont be lazy on ya partner be all you can be
As a kid I loved this song & as a Woman its still my Jam ...although this song speaks nothing of my life, just awesome,& what I grew up with ~Blessings~
NOTE TO SELF MAN OR WOMAN BE EVERYTHING YOU CAN BE 110% WHEN IT COMES TO SATISFYING YOUR PARTNER NO LIMIT, ALL GAS NO BRAKES AND THEY WILL BE TOO FULL FILLED TO EVEN NOTICE ANYONE ELSE. IF U EVER LEFT AN ALL YOU CAN EAT RESTURANT AND GO STRAIGHT TO A DRIVE THRU AND ORDER LIKE U HAVENT ATE YET!! TAKE CARE OF YOURS OR SOMEONE ELSE JUST MIGHT. AT THE SAME TIME IF YOUR HUNGRY IN A RELATIONSHIP WHO'S JOB IS IT TO FEED. JST SAY'N KEEP IT REAL. MUCH LUV SHIRLEY FOR THIS SONG AND THE MANY OOH LALA
@rioboy1 what you have given is nothing more than an excuse to justify bad behavior....110%...no limit?..cut it out, you have people that have a whole bunch of "great sex", just have a mindless idiot giving it or just cause you giving a buffet dont mean the customer is happy...your cheeseburger might be dry, or your bread quik to soggy and limp no matter what ..then what?...Its all about commitment, integrity and self respect..period!!
I love cheating songs,and this is one of the greatest cheating songs of all time.Shirley Murdock is a helluva vocalist,to a certain extent monogamy is unnatural.A man will always be attracted to other woman,and a woman will always attracted to other men.
Dayton, Ohio always holdin it down! Lakeside, Ohio Players, Roger Troutman and Zapp! Oh hell's yeah! Shirley shuts em down every time, gon girl, sang!
it is wht it is sometimes u cant help wht happens, not saying that cheating is cool but things happen n u deal with it just listen with ur heart n realize that u never know whts comin 4 u n wonder how!!!!!!!!!! u will handle it just food 4 thought just like this song!!!!!!!
@dxluva yeah, she probably would sang da hell out this piece, but have you heard Kelly Price's version ...OMD, the gospel done reared its beautiful head, Hhmmm!!
@nari305 one never knows...i learned that this life has way more control then what we THINK we do! I cheated but you couldnt pay me to believe that i ever would! no control over destiny good or bad...jus play the cards ur dealt thas all!
@nari305 Cheating or the word was invented by Europeans to keep people divided and conquered. We were all taught wrong by their social engineering and how we should grow up including male -female relations. All a lie . most cultures around the world ascribe to Polygamous harmonies rather than so called western "Marriage"
DONT READ THIS CAUSE IT REALY WORKS YOU WILL GET KISSED ON THE NEAREST FRIDAY BY THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE TOMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE HOWEVER IF YOU DONT POST THIS COMMENT TO OVER 3 VIDEOS OR YOU WILL DIE WITHIN 2 DAYS NOW YOU HAVE STARTED READING THIS DONT STOP THIS IS SO SCARY POST THIS TO OVER FIVE VIDEOS WITHIN 143 MINUTES WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSHES NAME WILL APPEAR ON THE SCREEN IN BIG LETTERS, THIS IS SO SCARY BUT IT WORKS
They didn't think about the price they had to pay (divorce notes, betrayed and angry spouse, children torn apart, maybe a possible beat down, lookin like fools years later to their friends and family, loss trust and so many other consequences for their selfish lust
GAVE MY ALL TO A WOMAN WHO TURN AROUND AND DID ME WRONG. I NEVER TOOK HIT ON HER I NEVER TOOK HER MONEY, I NEVER MADE HER LET HER FRIENDS GO JUST FOR I COULD HAVE HER FOR MYSELF. I SHOWED HER HOW TO TAKE CARE OF HERSELF I SHOWED HER HOW TO SHOP FOR THE RIGHT CLOSE FOR SHE CAN LOOK LIKE THE QUEEN THAT SHE IS BUT AND STILL ANITRA LET ME GO. I COOK FOR HER I MADE SURE THAT SHE MADE IT HOME FOR WORK WHEN NIGHT CAME, BUT YET AND STILL SHE LET ME GO. WHY IS THIS?
MY MOM GOT IN AN ACCDIENT WITH HER CAR AND NOW WE ASK PEOPLE TO TAKE US PLACES UNTIL IT GETS FIXED AND MY MOM HAS THIS GUY FREIND WHO HAS A CRUSH ON HER AND GETS MAD WHEN ME AND MY BROTHERS COME WITH HER TO THE STORE AND HE PLAYED THIS SONG FOR HER AND TOLD ME TO GET OUT OF HIS CAR WHILE SHE WAS IN THE STORE AND THEN I WALKED HOME ;(
@moshimoshi234 - listen to me sweetie (or partner), if you don't mind. I'm old, 46, and I want you to know it's difficult for your Mom. And, fellas aren't always sure what their doing is wrong. It feels right to them. But you see, you're extremely important. Take a deep breath and know God put you here to be good and sweet, whether you're a boy or girl. Let none of these things get you down. Perk up and live like you're going places, because you are. You're going to good places in life.
Be careful as you lay nowadays people-AIDS, STD's are at epidemic proportions. People today are so unassuming and casual about going to bed with anyone they think they love (which is really lust). Do you really know about the people he or she slept with before you? You know ever person he or she slept with you will have slept with them indirectly. Now listen to this lustful, adulterous woman, and she thinks this man loves her. She is a hoe, and he deserves for his wife to leave his lustful butt.
this is the first song that relevenced my love my first love she was married but u know the story same as all of them but this is a song like so many of a good era was intened to reach ur soul the beat beyound the heart like if u 2 remember ur love from this song
@ready4revelation - YES - but remember that the social issues in some communities leave "Hagar" in an impossible situation. However, in this song, both parties are "cheating" on their wives/husbands...what a mess! ;-)
Anyway...Shirley Murdock must have been one lonely Woman, all her songs were on this wise...
misplaced love for what,we all like to think love makes it right,but that were just a song by the soul children, sex isn't love,and the thing done to the other woman is the things our dad told us never to do to our lady, we love her (our wife), we lust them(our thang) and tell the boys of the night, Lord forgive me,she have feeling too
DONT READ THIS CAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE.TOMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE.HOWEVER IF YOU DONT POST THIS TO AT LEAST THREE VIDEOS THAN U WILL DIE WITHIN TWO DAYS.NOW YOU HAVE STARTED READING THIS SO DONT STOP. THIS IS SO SCARY PUT THIS ON AT LEAST FIVE VIDEOS IN 143 MINUTES WHEN YOU ARE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR LOVERS NAME WILL APEAR ON THE SCREEN IN BIG LETTERS THIS IS SCARY CAUSEITwork
In spite of relation this is talking about, it sure is a BAD ASS song, I love the emotion she puts into it. Not many modern singers can hold a candle to her heartfelt singing.
Unfortunately, keeping it real I have to remind you ladies that the poachers are these youngins from parents who lack morals. These new day poachers seek out to destroy families at whatever costs. Unfortunately, men are too weak to realize one mistake will cost them a lifetime of regrets. Families torn apart for what...a female who believes your lies & looks up to you because she don't know the REAL you yet. Child support and alimony for years...lifetime in my case.
Beautiful song.....but you reap what you sow, whether it's with that person or when you find someone new and they do it to you. Karma is real...all that said...be true and if you are not happy TELL YOUR PARTNER AND FIX IT OR WALK AWAY BEFORE YOU ARE A CHEAT.
i cant stand love! Just when u thought it was over and u can go back 2 being u again, some memory pops up and leave u crying and wishing 4 that 10th chance! I guess thats life and love
Kae - well said - my husband and I, when we first met, so enjoyed this song for its "emotionality", and the awesome way Shirley delivered it. We could feel it all though we hadn't been "there". That's what music does so well.
why do people have to click the dislike button? if not your cup of tea, just click off the page!!!!!!
no need to disrespect the somg
yungmizzel 7 hours ago
#GROWNFOLKSMUSIC
chargeboy 21 hours ago
real R&B
chargeboy 21 hours ago
how time goes by so fast sitting here listening to music that can't be touched teaching my niece what good music is
unique72263 2 days ago
52 here this year any way
lizthemomma 2 days ago in playlist Favorite videos
NO KIDDIN ILL BE 40 THIS MONTH WHERE DOES TIME GO!
teresa56667 4 days ago
This song is the shit
teresa56667 4 days ago
aye this shit go this is the cut an it slaps wit some beat man I heard this 2nite on 102.9 an dam my soul got happy an i anit neva been n this situation jus this kinda music man I miss hearin this kind an im only 30 an yes im wit this shit : )
anotherbaby3 5 days ago
Love this song! Bought it on 45 when it first came out, and still have it. One thing though.......40......45.......? try almost 50!!!!! (in less than 2 months from now)
funkiernyou 6 days ago 2
Love her voice!
SuperPOOKIE1970 1 week ago 3
This is the real vesion of this song.. timeless
robroe2006 1 week ago 3
one off the best love making songs
1210blk 2 weeks ago 5
I love Ms Murdock
J25882 2 weeks ago 4
OMG this is my daughters im gonna get my own
IchigoSailorVenus 3 weeks ago
OMG i feel the same way
IchigoSailorVenus 3 weeks ago
Definitely REAL MUSIC....what happened to it??
ClayDobber1 3 weeks ago
this is real music not no bullshit that's out now got to love the old school
ROCKSTAR3788 3 weeks ago
what a voice omg awsome song soul touching her and r kelly as we lay
4dizzi 3 weeks ago
Beautiful voice...I love this song....totally soul! I could listen to her all day!
ladyram67 3 weeks ago
This Is The Only Song That Really Can Make An Affair Exempt, Real Music <3
HersheyDiva305 3 weeks ago 2
me too where is the real stuff I love this women she is from where I am from and she never forgets her roots
LoudLadyHubb 4 weeks ago
this is far most the best song i ever herd in a while so old tho but thats ok
mrcurt54 1 month ago
this song did happen to me a young lady that i work in the same building with i found attractive but stayed away from because my girlfried work there too but we became friends and it happen woke and she was there in my bed beside me we did not have sex but soon after we did, it was not supose to happen
timothy5751 1 month ago
18 ppl partners slept the night away
dazjah00 1 month ago
If making love was a song, this would be it..........
e14212 1 month ago 3
How the FUCK did I become 40???? Yesterday I was 15.
JesusManson323 1 month ago 69
@JesusManson323 LMAO ... its still a blessing
dazjah00 1 month ago
@JesusManson323 Lol.
1nisha101 3 weeks ago
@JesusManson323 Fuck 40!!
MazyMagillicutty 3 weeks ago
@MazyMagillicutty I agree! I'm going back to 39. This shit is lame lol
JesusManson323 3 weeks ago
@JesusManson323 My bones be cracking and shit turning young girls off, and my gas is similar to an old buick fired up after sitting for 15 years. If I could go back to 21 just for a month; I would be happy. Pondering the thought of realistically knowing that I have about 30 to 40 good years left; if even that, bothers the shit out of me. LOL
MazyMagillicutty 3 weeks ago 2
@JesusManson323 lmao, yo you funny as shit!
marblehall1 3 weeks ago
@JesusManson323 you just now reachin your prime ..40 is when it all begin
L1oR1TZ 2 weeks ago 2
@JesusManson323 shit try fucking 45,,,,omg! where did the time go??????
carolmspinklary436 1 week ago 3
Real music here sweet to the ears!!!
69outbound 1 month ago 3
This is a really good song. Until you are the wife that got cheated on. Then when you listen to it again it's not as good as before.
MrsVCaslin 1 month ago 3
@MrsVCaslin so true
belinda123ist 1 month ago
LOVE IT
FMTB3682 1 month ago
bad move great tune
duhjuce 1 month ago
Good song, good melody. As far as bad, a few of us did get caught up in the moment but most us looked at it as just... good... music. 80's love songs still can't be touched or even compared to todays songs, the odds were and are "very" different! We had so many positive love songs back then to offset the few negatives, not today. Most of all, for the ones who were in this situation, these songs still made you think of the wrong you were doing vs. today's music inspires no remorse at all. :)
lifecomic 1 month ago 4
This song is a great classic piece of art. thank you shirley.
softwhispers40 1 month ago
this my momma song every time i hear this song i think back
QueFuN21 1 month ago
i loved this song since i was 7 years old. she is a great artist!!!!!!
liyahd13 1 month ago
@liyahd13 Same here, except I didnt really understnd it at the time. LOL
SisterArizona 1 month ago
Ilove this song.
TheDanamoore 1 month ago
I hated this adulterous song and still do! My dad was cheating on my mother when it was out and I just couldn't see what was desirable about it at all. Yuk!! I hate it with a passion!! Adulterers!
lsn2jah 1 month ago
@lsn2jah um... k
Alohamuta88 1 month ago
@lsn2jah If you hate it why did you take the time out to comment on it? F.Y.I. not all of listening to this song are adulterers.
Klickage 1 month ago in playlist Favorite videos
@lsn2jah Part of art is to capture the human experience good and bad. Music is art. Humans do bad things...like cheat. She did a song about that...and it is relevant evidenced by yours and other comments. Should artist only explore the good side of humans? Sounds boring.
conductthemc 1 month ago
I have been asking that same question for seventeen years???? And even if you don't know when you know its going to happen what in the hell is so hard with being up front after all i would think after all the years endured that would be the least a coward would or should do!!!!!!
MsKookie5 1 month ago
This song reminds me of all the cheating bastards I've dated....Or the fact Shirley Murdock wanted cock one last night...lol
misscandielove69 1 month ago in playlist Favorite videos
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i love this song
bribri12334 1 month ago
I love this song!
misscandielove69 1 month ago
brings me back to the days my husband was alive god i miss him so much!! rip my love....
bxthickmamii69 1 month ago
As we lay we forgot about 2morrow as we lay..
nayahify 1 month ago
i used to wake up in the mornings listening to KISS 102 f.m. before going to school myself. listening to oldie but goodies. damn where did the music...the REAL MUSIC go????
whitfield337 1 month ago 35
@whitfield337 I don't know but as soon as you figure it out let me know because I want to hear it instead of Lil wayne
Klickage 1 month ago in playlist Favorite videos
As a child I use to wake up every morning to this song before school. The lyrics in this song translate completely different to me know that I'm an adult and have lived a little. As a child all I heard was "it's morning" and that meant it was time to wake up. lol. I had no idea it was a song about an affair. Just goes to show how innocent the mind of a child really is.
rosieparez 1 month ago
i love this song
TheBigbloom 1 month ago
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I love this song.
roselyn724 1 month ago
This damn song make me nervous and i haven't done shit!
1voodoostick 1 month ago
Love It!! Makes me think back when I stayed in Wilson NC
babycollins100 1 month ago
This song is an original cut and still sounds good after all of these years. Though this song touches on a sensitive topic - adultery...it is a harsh reality for more people than we know. Affairs happen every day and unfortunately, there isn't much we can do about it except to stay true to ourselves and not give in to temptation if the opportunity arises.
TheogFoxxy1 1 month ago
i love this song it makes me think of my (daddy)=ex boyfriend n the things once went thru
daddyz1986 1 month ago
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this is the ultimate cheaters song
locqueen1981 1 month ago
this is the ultimate cheaters song
locqueen1981 1 month ago
Betrayal. Adultry. Theft. Murder. Selfishness. Lying. Destroy. I would never won't to hurt her. Sleeping with her husband did it. Too late.
TeaDennis 1 month ago
do not listen to this sing after a breakup..you will cry yourself to sleep...this is a great song but if you are sad and are going thru a very bad breakup..you shouldnt listen to this song because her voice is beautiful and she will have you in tears after the first verse
missathletic03 1 month ago 2
@missathletic03 ESPECIALLY if YOU were cheated on..... ooooh... pierces the soul.... WHOA...
rongz17 1 month ago
So beautifully song by the awesome Shirley Murdock.
fmh1965 2 months ago
LOVE THIS SONG SO SO SO MUCH
TheOneille 2 months ago
this is that work
MrHardtomz1 2 months ago
i love song.but this type of shyt happens all the time. get use to it its life.an if aint heard of it nor been through it then i only have to tell u is to keep on living. you will soon know
unique1978able 2 months ago
I KNOW SOMEONE SLEEPING WIT A MARRIED MAN AND SHE IS SUFFERING EVERYDAY TRYING TO CONVINCE HERSELF THIS MAN IS GONNA LOVE HER FULLY... NOT GONE HAPPEN
wlatoyia70 2 months ago 4
@wlatoyia70 you are so right, Ive seen it so many times.
doccandie 1 month ago
Kelly Price might've remade this....
618victoria 2 months ago
i can,t say nothing but love
MrWillyran 2 months ago
I love this song! Forget about what she singing about I just love how she sing it.
Velveteddybear 2 months ago
young folks, it don't matter how you got here, just as long as you made it here. so many judgmental young folks. "cheating" is part of the human condition. you know, "real" life? some of y'all daddie's aint your daddy. no matter what "race" you are.
gghelo 2 months ago
@mezzo1741 lol sangle i see what you sayin i dont want no 1 night stan LOL!!!
luvlynn07 2 months ago
It's kinda weird because this song sounds so nice but the concept of the song is one that shouldn't be encouraged. Folks I wouldn't try this shit against somebody for real, because #1. It's wrong and #2. A lot of folks are killing nowadays, they don't want to talk about shit.... That's why I want him to be so single he's sangle...LOL....
mezzo1741 2 months ago 3
@mezzo1741. he can tell u he is single all day long hell these days u really need proof because he say he is single dont mean its true. thats why i do my on research behind his bak cause trust me somebody knows something about his ass
unique1978able 2 months ago
@unique1978able I get what you're saying, LOL... I had one man tell me that he was separated from his wife.... What? You're here talking to me and she's at the house?! That's what you mean by separated? Needless to say I left his ass alone. It's bad to say but a lot of men say they're single and are married, engaged or have a girlfriend. But I still think that there are men left who are honest about being single.... but it's always good to be on the safe side & make sure he's absolutely single.
mezzo1741 2 months ago
@mezzo1741 Isn't that the truth. it has happened to me and it sucks. people need to be honest from the start.
roselyn724 1 month ago
O.M.G.! How did I miss Ms. Murdock as I was growing up? Really, really glad to find her now! You're leaving me... I know you have to hurry home to meet your wife... I would never, never want to hurt her, She'd never understand.. You belong to me for just one night... as we slept the night away... O.M.G.! Amazing Woman!
lynnegordon 2 months ago
I LOVE DIS SONG SO MUCH...bt i thought it was Kelly Price song but she redid it..but i love both version so so so so so so much.....dis is real music..damn i wish more songs like dis were more play on the radio and tv...i kno dere r songs like dis out dere bt dey dont get a lot of playing time or did are under wraps.....
madamq12 2 months ago
I heard this song last night on the music station on my T.V. GREAT Song...
chromatic2star 2 months ago
Im just tripping on How Traditional African this stuff truly is and how far we have come with it.
hemigod2 2 months ago
i remember when this song first played on the radio and a lot of married women called in and ask the dj not to play it anymore lol
My2much4u 2 months ago
1986 willingboro
slopmastergroovychil 2 months ago
this song is the jam
JrOthello 2 months ago
I Love Diz Sng...remindz me of Mii baby!!!!
shakilra191 2 months ago 2
brings back great memory
blakdeamon38 2 months ago
Do you remember when you could feel this way about your wife/husband? So beautiful then~~~~
koquinnable 2 months ago
i feel u MsBossLaydeh but i dnt hav to give anyone an excuse all they have to do is do it. I never got a call from someone just as they about to hit it and they call me like "not sure rioboy1 what i wanna do should i hit it right now or be faithful?" it happens...what i'm say'n is dont be lazy with your partner give then all the Love they want, need and desire then they will be too full to want anyone else. hope u unda dig the clarification. dont be lazy on ya partner be all you can be
rioboy1 2 months ago
As a kid I loved this song & as a Woman its still my Jam ...although this song speaks nothing of my life, just awesome,& what I grew up with ~Blessings~
roxxy0029 2 months ago
NOTE TO SELF MAN OR WOMAN BE EVERYTHING YOU CAN BE 110% WHEN IT COMES TO SATISFYING YOUR PARTNER NO LIMIT, ALL GAS NO BRAKES AND THEY WILL BE TOO FULL FILLED TO EVEN NOTICE ANYONE ELSE. IF U EVER LEFT AN ALL YOU CAN EAT RESTURANT AND GO STRAIGHT TO A DRIVE THRU AND ORDER LIKE U HAVENT ATE YET!! TAKE CARE OF YOURS OR SOMEONE ELSE JUST MIGHT. AT THE SAME TIME IF YOUR HUNGRY IN A RELATIONSHIP WHO'S JOB IS IT TO FEED. JST SAY'N KEEP IT REAL. MUCH LUV SHIRLEY FOR THIS SONG AND THE MANY OOH LALA
rioboy1 2 months ago 2
@rioboy1 what you have given is nothing more than an excuse to justify bad behavior....110%...no limit?..cut it out, you have people that have a whole bunch of "great sex", just have a mindless idiot giving it or just cause you giving a buffet dont mean the customer is happy...your cheeseburger might be dry, or your bread quik to soggy and limp no matter what ..then what?...Its all about commitment, integrity and self respect..period!!
MsBossLaydeh 2 months ago
damn
peretrenia 2 months ago 2
damn
peretrenia 2 months ago
I love cheating songs,and this is one of the greatest cheating songs of all time.Shirley Murdock is a helluva vocalist,to a certain extent monogamy is unnatural.A man will always be attracted to other woman,and a woman will always attracted to other men.
bigdaddy45able 2 months ago
She may be a One-Hit Wonder with this (#23 from March 1987) but goshamighty can this underrated artist ever belt it out!!!!
OneHitWonderGuy 2 months ago
Dayton, Ohio always holdin it down! Lakeside, Ohio Players, Roger Troutman and Zapp! Oh hell's yeah! Shirley shuts em down every time, gon girl, sang!
juslori 2 months ago
it is wht it is sometimes u cant help wht happens, not saying that cheating is cool but things happen n u deal with it just listen with ur heart n realize that u never know whts comin 4 u n wonder how!!!!!!!!!! u will handle it just food 4 thought just like this song!!!!!!!
pussywet36 2 months ago
nice song wrong message
brandini5000 2 months ago
i could see Countess Vaungh (Kim) from the Parkers hitting this song and keeping it's originality!!
dxluva 3 months ago 48
@dxluva She would slay this song to no end!
anjelheaven 2 months ago
@dxluva yeah, she probably would sang da hell out this piece, but have you heard Kelly Price's version ...OMD, the gospel done reared its beautiful head, Hhmmm!!
MsBrown191596 1 month ago
why get into a relationship knowing you're going to cheat ?!
nari305 3 months ago 32
@nari305 one never knows...i learned that this life has way more control then what we THINK we do! I cheated but you couldnt pay me to believe that i ever would! no control over destiny good or bad...jus play the cards ur dealt thas all!
undadoggontop 2 months ago 5
@undadoggontop True
nari305 2 months ago
@nari305 Cheating or the word was invented by Europeans to keep people divided and conquered. We were all taught wrong by their social engineering and how we should grow up including male -female relations. All a lie . most cultures around the world ascribe to Polygamous harmonies rather than so called western "Marriage"
Maxantium 2 months ago
@nari305 maybe when you get in a relationship you dont know your going to cheat until you see someone that makes your heart jump
brittney97228 1 month ago in playlist Liked videos
@brittney97228 I don't think that's your heart jumping, its probably just your crotch.lol
doccandie 1 month ago
@nari305 exactly
drlove1972 1 week ago
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Cruzknocker 3 months ago
get up in go home!!!!
brown156417 3 months ago
Ohh so this is what J.Lo and Fat Joe sampled to make Hold You Down.
myra4787 3 months ago
LMAO MY EX-HUSBAND WAS CHEATING WHEN THIS SONG CAME OUT. I STILL LOVE THIS SONG CAUSE THAT GIRL CAN SING.
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Im only 15 &'d I love this sonq ! Wen i was younqer i didn't understand it bt now I do &'d shes tlking about cheating smh.
DashiaLanaee 3 months ago 3
They didn't think about the price they had to pay (divorce notes, betrayed and angry spouse, children torn apart, maybe a possible beat down, lookin like fools years later to their friends and family, loss trust and so many other consequences for their selfish lust
queenray1 3 months ago
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Qua500048 3 months ago
luv this song..i sing along to it all day
tsampy79 3 months ago
GAVE MY ALL TO A WOMAN WHO TURN AROUND AND DID ME WRONG. I NEVER TOOK HIT ON HER I NEVER TOOK HER MONEY, I NEVER MADE HER LET HER FRIENDS GO JUST FOR I COULD HAVE HER FOR MYSELF. I SHOWED HER HOW TO TAKE CARE OF HERSELF I SHOWED HER HOW TO SHOP FOR THE RIGHT CLOSE FOR SHE CAN LOOK LIKE THE QUEEN THAT SHE IS BUT AND STILL ANITRA LET ME GO. I COOK FOR HER I MADE SURE THAT SHE MADE IT HOME FOR WORK WHEN NIGHT CAME, BUT YET AND STILL SHE LET ME GO. WHY IS THIS?
TheEu3773 3 months ago
@TheEu3773 Well, cause you sound like a bit of a wanker... sorry man...
arekkusu1234 3 months ago
@BoricuaTsqurl: AMEN...AMEN...AMEN and AMEN one more time. Now that most certainly is THE TRUTH!!!
DaOrigTruthSeeker 3 months ago
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MrHtown45 3 months ago
MY MOM GOT IN AN ACCDIENT WITH HER CAR AND NOW WE ASK PEOPLE TO TAKE US PLACES UNTIL IT GETS FIXED AND MY MOM HAS THIS GUY FREIND WHO HAS A CRUSH ON HER AND GETS MAD WHEN ME AND MY BROTHERS COME WITH HER TO THE STORE AND HE PLAYED THIS SONG FOR HER AND TOLD ME TO GET OUT OF HIS CAR WHILE SHE WAS IN THE STORE AND THEN I WALKED HOME ;(
moshimoshi234 3 months ago
@moshimoshi234 what a beautiful song to walk to.
holguineddie 3 months ago
@moshimoshi234 - listen to me sweetie (or partner), if you don't mind. I'm old, 46, and I want you to know it's difficult for your Mom. And, fellas aren't always sure what their doing is wrong. It feels right to them. But you see, you're extremely important. Take a deep breath and know God put you here to be good and sweet, whether you're a boy or girl. Let none of these things get you down. Perk up and live like you're going places, because you are. You're going to good places in life.
fearnsa 3 months ago
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fearnsa 3 months ago
i didnt know she told someone elses man what . TigerGrumman
TheRarewoman 3 months ago
love that song
TheRarewoman 3 months ago
this is ushers favorite song
Amea2sxc19 3 months ago
this is my shit cus it speake da truth cus if u love some one that been there for u then u shouldnt cheat
sayona814 3 months ago
Be careful as you lay nowadays people-AIDS, STD's are at epidemic proportions. People today are so unassuming and casual about going to bed with anyone they think they love (which is really lust). Do you really know about the people he or she slept with before you? You know ever person he or she slept with you will have slept with them indirectly. Now listen to this lustful, adulterous woman, and she thinks this man loves her. She is a hoe, and he deserves for his wife to leave his lustful butt.
truth1disciple 3 months ago
This kind of music just makes me feel good all over, gotta love dusties!!
babygurl7001 3 months ago
this is the first song that relevenced my love my first love she was married but u know the story same as all of them but this is a song like so many of a good era was intened to reach ur soul the beat beyound the heart like if u 2 remember ur love from this song
remixgeegee1984 3 months ago
Where's 5:58?
unknownfriend7 3 months ago
@ready4revelation - YES - but remember that the social issues in some communities leave "Hagar" in an impossible situation. However, in this song, both parties are "cheating" on their wives/husbands...what a mess! ;-)
Anyway...Shirley Murdock must have been one lonely Woman, all her songs were on this wise...
steadystevie 3 months ago
misplaced love for what,we all like to think love makes it right,but that were just a song by the soul children, sex isn't love,and the thing done to the other woman is the things our dad told us never to do to our lady, we love her (our wife), we lust them(our thang) and tell the boys of the night, Lord forgive me,she have feeling too
HESABLE21 3 months ago
this song would come on every morning after me and bryan would be on our way home after a night out.. smh
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inaj27 3 months ago in playlist inaj27's favorites
she's a killer,,shit
yungsandifer 3 months ago
This is the only song about whoredom I love, because she sings it so beautifully!
Mehrunissah93 3 months ago
So much emotion in her voice. I feel as though I'm part of her experience. So convincing. True talent. Thanks Shirley.
npepa 3 months ago
In spite of relation this is talking about, it sure is a BAD ASS song, I love the emotion she puts into it. Not many modern singers can hold a candle to her heartfelt singing.
david80905 3 months ago
@david80905 this aint nuthin but real sangin
SANDMANHANDS 3 months ago
Unfortunately, keeping it real I have to remind you ladies that the poachers are these youngins from parents who lack morals. These new day poachers seek out to destroy families at whatever costs. Unfortunately, men are too weak to realize one mistake will cost them a lifetime of regrets. Families torn apart for what...a female who believes your lies & looks up to you because she don't know the REAL you yet. Child support and alimony for years...lifetime in my case.
Thank you Jesus.
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luvnewshoes2 4 months ago
Shame this song sound so good, yet so informative!
AbdullahIbnBilal1 4 months ago
love her voice. she killed it on computer love.
SouthShallRiseGaming 4 months ago
I see Troop over on the right! awwww snap! See ya, Shirley!
MAYBRAY1 4 months ago
@MAYBRAY1 LOL ,you crazy as shit,,troop was the troof back in 89
yungsandifer 3 months ago
this is the theme song for all the cheating mugs smh....but i love it.... #karma'sabitch
lollipopkrazy 4 months ago
Beautiful song.....but you reap what you sow, whether it's with that person or when you find someone new and they do it to you. Karma is real...all that said...be true and if you are not happy TELL YOUR PARTNER AND FIX IT OR WALK AWAY BEFORE YOU ARE A CHEAT.
valiente16 4 months ago 20
@valiente16 You will learn that life is more complicated than that.
gent258 3 months ago
@gent258 how so exactly?
valiente16 3 months ago
@TigerGrumman ur a genius
cmtgforever 4 months ago
A REAL MAN CAN'T BE STOLEN. & AS FOR THIS SONG SHE MADE THIS SOUND LIKE ONE OF THE MOST BEAUTIFUL SINS I'VE EVER HEARD OF.
ifitsnotkia 4 months ago
im tellin u this is still my song
ilycharles11 4 months ago
i cant stand love! Just when u thought it was over and u can go back 2 being u again, some memory pops up and leave u crying and wishing 4 that 10th chance! I guess thats life and love
cdodamerciless 4 months ago
look love is a real thing
holycoity 4 months ago
play this for this x generation...maybe they would get some respect
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doe8220 4 months ago
Kae - well said - my husband and I, when we first met, so enjoyed this song for its "emotionality", and the awesome way Shirley delivered it. We could feel it all though we hadn't been "there". That's what music does so well.
doe8220 4 months ago
This reminds me of someone I'm not with anymore but I wish I was.
Str8SMF 4 months ago
Man I was raised on this!! Glad to hear it here, it brings back some young but good memories for me!!
MrLadell30 4 months ago
Powerful song.
MusicalEntertainer 4 months ago