When Your Family Insist You have Mental Illness - Part 1

[nintram]

No owl sounds this time? Double delight !

[210482fmj]

anybody who tries to ridicule soembody because of brain health is scum. thats no different than persecuting sombody who has cancer. SO the next time you see somebody or here them taking the piss out of sombody with brain health problems try and tell them how foolish they are. WOuld you laugh and take the piss out of somebody who had cancer. Governments seem to like to ridicul kids with brain health issues in particular teachers. they need all need a punch in the mouth big time

[MrButtlettuce]

Been bullied my whole life because of this label. I will never have a good relationship with my parents because this is thrown in my face just to win arguments. I don't do any drugs, nor drink. But these little moron's have coke and alcohol problems. Haven't been treated like a human after I was labeled, everything I say is made up, or just some figment of my imagination. Older brother got straight As and never been labeled. Has three DWIs Funny. Shouldnt it be the other way around?

[Dontcreeponme23]

I think this is the best video ever!

[mindnumber9]

an entire life, horrifically destroyed - by the Neglect, by the Negation, by the Negativity. NEGATIVE, NEGATIVE, NEGATIVE. extremely heavy, powerful, potent ENERGY FORCE. negate, deny, reject... project on subject become object. result: RAGE. HOSTILITY.

condemnation. HELL. created BY humans FOR humans, to spend their HATRED and DISGUST on each other, on the scapegoats.

NEG NEG NEG NEG NEG is the opposite of GEN GEN GEN GEN GEN (gentle, generous, generate, genius)

friday, april 8, 2011 8:05AM

[Tr3vBastard]

Dude, i'm going to start listening to this guy to fall asleep, his voice is soothing....

[platinumloco]

ya my parents are psycho too when it comes to their children

[MrSalinas420]

My mom says I'm evil and I try to hurt her and she says I don't love her or my brothers when their is family confrontation it's always my fault cause I'm so evil. This pisses me off cause I have never done anything but maybe argue here in there just like most families do. I tell her if any kid would have issues after the lies she has told me and my brother about our bio father being dead all the way till i was 12 when she wanted me & my brother to change our last name from casias to Meredith fo

[zvz2ezzvz]

i'v been told i have a learning disability, why? i didnt do my homework because i was to busy enjoying social life? fair, hell no..... and i have bad hangwriting cuz i dont give a fuck cz it dosent matter.. but still i deal with dum teachers who act like im not "normal" , but when you think of it? who put the word "normal" who labeled each person as normal and differnt? its called discreamnation if i spelled right.. its like adding a manul to people and if you abide, have fun in the asylum

[JacobsJaffa]

@zvz2ezzvz learn to reed and right u sad waster!

[joemoonblue]

if you are white you are bi polar if you have same syptoms and are black you are daignosed scitsophrenic

[Dusty1Noah2]

what happens when parents DON'T notice mental illness in their child? I inherited bipolar from my mother, but no one noticed.

[whiff1962]

Yes, the moral downfall-yes, psychiatry is a moral-legalistic enterprise in our culture-is in the attribution of disease of the "mind" as an explanation of many problems in living, and calling the "treatments" for those "illnesses" medical. However, the means at the disposal of liberal psychiatry; its presence as a paralegal arm of the state, are inconsistent with sound, ethical medical practice.

[whiff1962]

The parent-child relationship is one of subordinate-superior. This is the way that the relationship must be defined. However, such a power hierarchy can be well managed, much like a benevolent despotism, with "conditional" rights accorded the child as he grows and matures. However, if parents do a bad job of raising a child, then, the parents will have no reason to complain later, when the adult child turns out bad. However, the institution of family has been vitiated, and shrinks fill the void.

[MrSpieldose]

I have a different and interesting personality that at times is called manic... no depression and sometimes embarrassing but often positive and drugs have felt like torture and I never gave a fuck...

I look pop culture attractive and seen differently than the "night of the living dead" thorazine people and not taken seriously but it is not right that humans degrade themselves because of other people and their problems with them.

[nir8vana]

Freud and Jung were just pathetic losers.

[WhiteWayOrWrongWay]

Exterminate Pedophiles of ALL Colour, Race and Creed!! Screen/Sterilize their victims

[Chuichupachichi]

When Freud was confronted with the situation in which the daughters of prominent men had been abused, his decision of how to deal with it was critical. It would have a bearing upon the lives of the women whom had already been victims, as to whether or not they'd be rescued from their suffering. Also, it would greatly determine whether or not such abuses would continue to occur in the future, depending on whether it would remain unknown or be exposed as something that occurs

It was literally a

[Chuichupachichi]

situation filled with damsels in distress. To do the right thing would require courage from Freud. Doing the right thing would have appeared to him as being causative of his therapy endeavor failing & requiring him to go back to the drawing boards to start all over again

Although money would not provide the victims with the security they needed, at least somebody was insured his security from it

Perhaps, he may have even gotten enough of it to buy himself a new skirt

[RLore18]

Google "Howard Dully". He was a wild colt and his mother in law hated him, so she had him lobotomized. When he got home she gave him a twisted smile that let him know she was enjoying what she had done.

[tictoc544]

A beacon of light in a dangerous world.

Take Care John

[OllyKilo]

Before anyone who is eager to credit themselves with their own personal experiences, comes on here and starts talking about the crazy guy down the street who would be dead if it wasn't for their help... He's not talking about the crazy guy down the street. He's talking about normal people who, just because they are slightly different, are opressed by their own family because of cultural/religious or plain obnoxious reasons.

[virusmakers]

was up santa

[marlenefelsing]

I am rather confused because I hear you talking about everything that should not be done but I don't hear you giving advice about what people can do. Our son who is 29 is depressed, talks about suicide and never seems happy. We are always there to support him and not demand things of him. What would you suggest. It is painful to see your son hurting so much. If he is not mentally ill what do you say that is causing his present state of mind?

[sd41308]

@marlenefelsing Is he on antidepressants? seeing someone? need to know more

[danni23wow]

i was in 2 grade they put me on prozack cause i watned to kill myself go heaven with my cat omg i was kid then 15 i was committed i was on rimron when i got out i didnt take them then when i was 20 goin through break up /prgant i was commited i didnt take med cause of my son then when i had him i was digonose bi polor but watchin what u say i wonder if i am or not i always have reason to b mad not form happy ot mad for no reason

[sd41308]

@danni23wow

[MyMeltdown]

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Thanks.

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[RugbyHockeySoccer]

I think he is speaking about individuals with things such as depression, OCD, learning disorders, or who are basically mentally distressed, nothing severe as a complete seperate state of mind

[eggkunt]

Define psychosis. They don't like authority? They argue with others who they believe to be wrong? They don't agree with you? They annoy you? If they have "psychosis" then there's probably some law they're breaking in which case they should be reported to police. Otherwise the "psychosis" you're talking about is imagined.

[LizRobillard]

I really really love you for this Sir-and part 2 (please watch) please remember to watch this at ever opportunity as when it *sinks in* you get really good :)

[appostollo]

I don't know what to say about my parents. I need them! My situation is quite complex. My brother (8 years older than me) is blind. He has the eyes, but he can barely see any light, and unfortunately, due to a "complication in the maternity unit", some nurse ended up incapacitating part of his brain. He's invalid 90% and has autism. So, since ever, I was already used to hearing from my parents my brother shouldn't have born. Now that I'm sick as well my parents blame everything even their birth.

[northenSky73]

17th century playwrite Nathan Lee was incarcerated for 5 years in Bethlehem hospital London, a.k.a bedlam lunatic asylum. He reported that: "They called me mad, and I called them mad, and damn them they outvoted me."

[hsttraindriver]

Buy "Explaining colours to a blind man". This will

enlighten many about living with mental illness.

[Waysplusmeans4real]

Excellent work.

[phfrankh]

Yup! No doubt. 07:00

[Manicpanicanticant]

i'd deep fear just a few days ago

because was always wondering when the the mental health pro would get back to be, thinkin maybe she thinks it just me bein, ''shyy'''' so now that she aint called for to see me. im kinda' glad after watching these types of vids

[Justinfh2point0]

Both my parents thinks that I need professional help and yet they actually canceled my appointments out of shame. The sad truth is, it's my mom who needs professional help. My dad does to because he had a lot of tragedy in his life.

[SamuelAntoineMoser]

Please go to Yahoo and type in the phrase "Documented Proof Psychiatric Drugs Shorten Lifespan" to see a research report I wrote on these drugs. See the angelfire link for the lastest version. Very shocking revealing information.......

[semandoogon]

brilliant, very insightful,

[thefroobshoww]

My stoic and somber parents always thought I had a "disorder". My art, my theater involvement, they always said I was too expressive. I'm 36 and they still whisper about when I'll "grow up". I finally cut them off when they suggested that my children may also be insane because they are boys,but love drama club, singing, etc.

I have not spoken to them in a year and I don't plan to ever speak to them again. We are moving from Alabama to Chicago to escape the possibility of future contact.

[sleestack808]

that's really sad. :-(

[DorothyOverTheRainbo]

talk to my mom

[Justinfh2point0]

Mine to!

[martysoffice]

You touch my soul. You are a beautiful person.. doc. Thanks.

[azergorgle]

thank you

[thusvine]

Great video! Thankyou so much

[emotilus]

thak u. . .i have illness like that,i need some help

[alanna4858]

i could listen to him all day and night. He is soooo interesting.

[f417h]

THANK YOU

IM A 35

& eYe thought my inner desperations had control, (reg parental approval & support) but as I continue to educate my cell-ƒ moreso I realize my worst enemy is negitive judgment.

Thank you again for your beautiful calming understanding.

~f417h

[HalfmanhalfTwig]

what happens when you are wrongly labled with bipolar disorder and you cant go to see your doctor for urgent attention because of the lable that is attached to you?

[psychetruth]

You might find a different doctor; maybe a holistic one or clinical nutritionist if possible.

When you need a conventional doctor though, you really need one. So, if there is something physically wrong with your body, go to the doctor.

[blackberryjuice1]

even though people such as Michael Pollen are saying nutrition science is just as bad as psychiatry...

[Velox415]

@psychetruth I had this happened to me :( I'd lost my bf, and then my job not long after, and the doctor I had seen for insomnia and physical tiredness wrote me an RX for anti-depressants, having diagnosed me as major depressive and general anxiety disorder, possibly suicidal. He never even told me, I just happened to look over at his notes and see that. I was so angry! Its called GRIEF! People just need to work through it! I never went back to him again, but I'm afraid that label will haunt me

[Velox415]

E.g. that I can be locked up on suspicions of being suicidal, or having forced treatment if I decline treatment, or if I have a terminal disease being forced into painful processes to extend a painful life (I've remarked to close friends that I wont wither away on a death bed, I'll go out in mad style, like skydiving and not pulling the cord - lately I'm afraid that could be misconstrued as being suicidal).

[SunTzuLao]

@Velox415 LOL I went through the same thing, minus the going to the doctor. I was definitely suicidal though (I would never do it, but I wished I could,) and I'm better for my suffering today. It was so difficult, but I know, I am someone new, and better. It sucks how "professionals" treat people like a car that's broken, not like a person with a life and a spirit... I hope that label didn't haunt you, it shouldn't... we must grow through pain. Nobody's normal.

[joemoonblue]

@SunTzuLao thats so true thanks for sharing

[musicalidea]

@psychetruth I wish more like you were on accreditation boards and in charge of psychology and psychiatry departments. Given the iron-clad profit grip of PHARMA on the decisions of the legalized drug pushers, that might be a far-fetched dream, however, do you know of any prominent members of the APA or the psychiatric est. in America who challenge 1) fake diagnoses built on social control like ADHD and ODD, 2) the over-medication of those so diagnosed or 3) involuntary commitment or "treatment"?

[Hordified]

@psychetruth my dad is bipolar and completely denies it. It is so obvious, he has all the signs except violence or doing drugs. He is completely manic right now. And I cut him off which he can't except. He is always calling my home leaving degrading message and sending me odd mail. The mail isn't new to me because I knew he was bipolar for a while now. I've got to the point of hating him, we are forced to call the police.

[XXZtormentorZXX]

I was labeled an Aspie when I was born. Thought I was one most of my life until I found out that I did not apply to any of the symptoms. My parents only used it as an excuse to keep me in the dark and away from doing things that normal kids do. Its not on paper though thankfully because it was an unnofficial diagnosis at the time.

[nadineryland]

awe, I could cry.

[Wisdombychoice]

Always an ulterior motive for claiming someone has a mental illness...

[c16467]

All the Psych's really do is create names for "diseases" that their big pharma buddies can then make "cures" for. Since they became the "authorities" on the Human Spirit and mind our culture has gone on a century long slide into rising criminality, lowered achievement of our students and the drug culture we now suffer. Stay away from them!

[eydos]

They also aim politically to nivellate people, to make, mold them into a specific character type demanded by a consumerist society. Once you are "too something", once you do not think, behave, act and wish as the majority you are a threat, a politico-social threat; so they will try to chnage you, make you a zombie or just lock you out of society.

Its so sad that people so often use the label, "you`re mad" or the phrase "you need professional help" all these just reinforce the process above.

[Velox415]

@eydos This is sooo true. I like House's quote: "Skinny, socially-privileged white people get to draw this neat little circle. And everyone inside the circle is "normal". Anyone outside the circle needs to be beaten, broken and reset so that they can be brought into the circle. Failing that, they should be institutionalized. Or worse - Pitied."

[ComplexMissy]

@c16467 Well said!

[ryanreenter]

nice vid

[cloudmonkeys]

thank you

[SUVANNAWIK1]

BRAVO!

[Sublimey123]

Didn't jim morrison say parents are evil.

[UnificationNow]

thank you for speaking on this

[llod206]

I think when a family member tells you you have a mental health disorder/issue take it with a grain of salt. You really don't know what their motives are. You'd be surprised what people will do for money these days.