I think the only people who should be considered "energy vampires" are sociopaths or people who are really sick that steal, or harm others. If someone annoys you, I think it's very negative to perceive them as some kind of "monster" just because they are talking your head off on the elevator or they are a depressed person. Not to say I haven't had people use me and sap my energy and money when they were around me. But I don't think they are doomed as vampires. I've annoyed people too. It's life
I've known a few Energy Vampires lately. I want to be nice, but they never respect my boundaries and just pummel me to the ground...I just don't understand how some people can talk for 3 hours or more and still not be close to done talking! The complainers and negative thinkers are the worst, they take advantage of my attentiveness. It is no joke they can stop you from flying...Lately I really pay attention to how I feel after conversing with anyone new, if it is bad after every convo, I'm out.
@AMIABRUZZO once I indirectly say "No" to an energy vampire, she dislikes me b/c she cannot eat my energy for free. That's okay, I love and respect myself more to please ppl who live imbalance, guilt, & shame anyway.
@ehabtouch That is so true! I remember when I would just ignore the "vampire," and go on my merry way! It made here so mad to see me happy in spite of her...I eventually was able to get out of that toxic living situation, that is usually the best scenario.
I really really need advice on this topic. I was never ever a energy vampire and i was a very positive person, but I encountered a extremely dangerous vampire and I would be with this person almost everyday for hours..and over a few months i started to catch myself sometimes draining others energy, almost like I grabbed onto the vampires energy or attitude.
@duecepitbull /watch?v=fs84L7HIwZI For everyone with vampireproblem Cannot really say if it really works my problem is in working... But she really is accurate
@duecepitbull be aware of your intentions, on physical, psychological, & energetic levels, all levels. If you want to change why you do certain things, get clear with yourself & do it. It's setting boundaries, not only with others, but with yourself as well.
It's just a shame that Dr Orloff labels people with borderline personality disorder as emotional vampires. (Search "dealing with a splitter"). Some with this disorder have destructive behaviours that impact on others, and some do not, but when dealing with someone who has already decided you are an energy vampire without even knowing you, then i would say that person's prejudice is toxic and draining. Perhaps this means Dr Orloff is a vampire?
Just stay away from anyone that wants and take and never gives..Im direct with them and sometimes blunt if needed. My energy is my life and i will defend it. You should too.
so do you consider reiki to be a bad practice? i my self have done this for years
and didn't no what was going on until i started training and it all be came clear
humans are sick and do not take care of them selfs and they expect to have a high energy fields people like this shows how child like we as a hole have become everyone on earth is and energy worker hands down dogs cats trees all living things we be come exhausted with living due to the pace and we be come vulnerable due to stress
Do sensitive people tend to attract energy vampires? Because it seems like the majority of people I am around are these types of people and I am constantly having to deal with them.
Im not sure if either im one,or was drained by one lmao....So diffrent but feels the same o.o Ima drama queen and i talk on and on and when someone tells me to stop i got to someone else and now im afriad to try out for amaricas got talents,to sing... o:
There is another kind of energy vampire. It's the kind who sits around labeling everyone else as energy vampires to get attention and do noting to contain their own energy.
how bout the one that keeps you on a Sympathy and Neediness Leash...until she decides that her demons have given her sufficient power, so that she can exhibit--and I Do mean Exhibit--her Dom' side?
I feel that sometimes I can be a complaining emotional vampire. I know that I need to cut back on using others (like my boyfriend) as a sounding board. It's a hard habit to break!
My mother is a criticizer vampire. That woman will just not allow herself to be happy unless she brings up something about a person to bitch about. Even just the little things set her off into a nagging rant! Very exhausting to be around her sometimes...
yesq but then I feel bad with the drama queen that I didnt gave her the attention she wanted from me because she is my friend but at the same time I dont want to get all her bad energy and get to her same level of drama thats she wants me to be. i dont know, thats gets me frustrated
Today I broke up with an energy vampire. There is so much you can do but I had to protect my sanity or I maybe in jail wearing an orange suit. LMAO. I love the name "energy vampire" !! Truth. Thank you for sharing!
Almost everyone has played the vampire role. We all need to learn how to stop doing this to ourselves and other people because we need to love ourselves and each other.
my older sister is a narc...now that I am in my twenties and grown up it's kind of funny to talk to her, cause she hasn't developed mentally one bit...it's kind of pathetic...all her manipulative stuff I used to fall prey to as the clueless younger brother, now just bounces off...she thinks it works like a charm of course...leading narcissists on, is entertaining and disturbing at the same time...the fairy tales they come up with and they think you actually believe...crazy
@mongolenpup My roommate is a serious narcissist. I agree. It's truly disturbing!
He is a a drama queen who thinks that everything has to be about him and that everyone must wish to be him. It's pathetic to watch. He's also extremely incompetent when it comes to taking care of himself and feeling compassion.
That boy has a VERY hard road ahead for him. As does your sister, I'm sure. :( I feel bad for them.
It's sad because I am surrounded by so many complainers. I've discovered that self-confidence renders all psychological attacks harmless, however. If you are self-confident and know who you really are, you'll just drive them away. Toxic people are basically animals who sniff around to find a good scent, and never really evolved past childhood. Most people are like this.
THis lady simply is unintuitive and "trained" learn to be chaotic and redefine your values so you are happy. You'll never be happy thinking every one who doesn't look like they belong in a sundress is secretly an energy vampire. Get your own energy, and don't attempt to enforce your beliefs onto others or you will be trained to feel unwelcome everywhere
Judith... and what happens when one of the parents is the emotional vampire? I tried to explain my situatuation, but my parent thinks that I am imagining something! In my culture people complain too much, when I travel I feel so much free, and when I am back in my country... the energy is so different, it`s heavier, like I have loads over my sholders
I'm an energy vamp..I thrive in high energy live concerts, meeting people and I don't think I've slept more than 6 hrs since I was awakened on 12/18/10. Music is my feed, I can live without eating for days if my energy intake is high enough..more about me..Our Paranormal Universe coming soon.
BLAMER OR CRITICIZER I've got one of those and when I ask this person to just STOP talking about a subject I don't want to talk about (that's usually all about me and my interactions with another person) and this critic/teacher takes it upon herself to EDUCATE me every day. Whether I want it or not. AND, if I resist or get angry and yell because I just don't want to hear it anymore, this person says "You have issues... I'm TIRED of you VOMITING on me..." isn't everything after "stop" rape???
i activate my mind then close it again at will. if you know what i actually mean talk to me about it, its not psychic i dont know what it is or what if this thought process has a function meh.
Notice these people always have people to suck from? Seems to be the way of things. All we can do is make sure we're not doing it ourselves. Raise your vibration and they won't be able to feed off their usual diet of drama and BS. Tell them like it is. I always appreciate when someone tells me straight i'm being an arse.
@xLGDZxSERAPH Yes, but this video is about getting negative people out of your life, not listing all types of vampires. That's why she only described negavite psychic vampires.
well i personally know someone whos known to be the 'sob sister" and the "blamer and crit" i was doing research on how to get negative ppl out of ur life and found the energy vampire and watching this describes her 100% its got sooo bad that im constantly making mw tired and depressed to the end of the day and i get moody and upset faster than i would usually get ... so i believe it
we are all suckers and vampires at times. we all do it its natural. but some are doing it all the time., seems to be people who are not looking at their own stuff. which is why we are here in earth school.
Judith, thank you for this! You said, when we stay centered and calm the drama queen will go on to another victim. Is this true of other energy vampires as well. Why? Do they get some kind of energy or gratification from throwing you off base? They're literally feeding off your anxiety and discomfort at that point? Thank you in advance for any response.
Do you have links to the papers in reputable peer-reviewed journals that these claims have been published in?
I think this would be needed since these claims deviate from traditional sciences analysis and interpretation of data, as these claims have large gaps, with which no explanation is given on to EXACTLY how the conclusions have been made in an analytical and systematic manner.
what about the "I cant hear you and im pretending to listen but im too focussed on myself to care" type person... ?? there are many of them, thinking of what they are going to say next and not ever being present to what you're telling them..
they say 'yes' after your every sentence..but couldnt repeat what u said if they tried... many of them about.. !
question... how do we know we get enegry drained from us to people instead of having stress responses to other people and the emotion tires us. I really am dying to know the truth. Also, how do I know if I am draining energy from someone? Do I feel good around them if I am draining and bad when I am being leeched?
please tell more about the last type the blamer or criticizer and also the voices they put inside your head that belittle you.......i think i am confronted with this kind
What you're describing is an Emotional Vampire, not an Energy Vampire. Emotional Vampires do not 'need' the energy that they take in, they are typically narcissist who seek attention and as long as you give it to them, they keep doing it.
Try learning the differences between Emotional and Energy Vampires. Also ... Emotional & Empathic Vampires are also different. Do you research better.
some ppl laugh about abusing ppl what you dont realize is your the first person who they attack when they snap....now the vampier is dealing with a ted bunndy. trust me the most sadistic ppl die in the most sadistic way...if their lucky it will be quick.
the thing about vampires is they have no consideration for your feelings so you might as well not matter to them. so my solution is they dont matter to me, and i will tell them so. screw tiptoeing around these jerkoffs weak and confused emotions. i want to hammer a point into these moes.
thats not how it is, energy vampires are people who hurt others and then absorb their pain, at least thats how i do it, I'm new at this and my powers are coming in fast, but for me it's 1.break their heart 2.smile.laugh.enjoy their misery, absorb their pain to the point where they become numb and when they do you cuddle them and show them love until they reach the point you began at with the, in a good healthy relationship. Unless the persons strong willed thats much harder but possible.
@cathrineperez well you seem like an advanced case of vampirism. these people mentioned are the garden variety weasels. and yes beleive it or not there are people out there who you wouldnt get to first base with. i wont judge you, shit, were all a little confused from time to time. i am no better anyway. i am on the path of truth and knowledge, and there is power in that. more so than ive ever had with any human pets.
@RaKnyght333 ..i would have to disagree. We are all energy, as all things are. one of my best freinds is a "blamer". she rips into me, and make me feel powerless, and I feel drained afterwards. thanks to these videos, as well as other things i have learned how to maintain my friendship with her without being too rude, or saying goodbye..however, if she continues, I will have to let her go out of my life.
one of my best friends is an energy vampire and she is nothing like this. she feeds off emotions, she knows it to, when everyone is hyper she is calm and soaking it all up and then as soon as we are getting calm she starts to get hyper, ect. she also claims to know when a person is going to die. she is my best friend =D
I wonder if it's possible for some to help change the vibrations in that person in such a way that they no longer feed.
What if we are one of these people you speak of and are unintentionally changing the vibrations in such a way?
If these people are energy vampires whom are negative energy, constantly draining and pulling on you is their some with an ability to close the negativity flowing through them, changing them from being negative drainers or vampires as you call them into something more
So you are saying we all have this ability if we are negative?
so should we not have the ability to make them more positive and if you know this why not combine your positive intentions with numbers and maybe then that person becomes something more.
Just a thought..
Some call it prayer other call it magic or voodoo, I beleive the person whom is on tp can focus all the people's intentions by making them beleive your truths or lies, depending on.
A lot of people who complain about feeling drained by others show an amazing lack of personal boundaries. Don't give your energy away, and less people will seem like vampires to you.
Judi, I don't have a problem with cutting people off mid sentence if I think they're taking advantage of my time. I would take a day off work to listen to a person who really needs it. It's a balancing act, you need to discern the level of need each person has. Improving intuition and learning to read body language and facial expressions will help with that.
It would suck if someone learned the term "emotional vampire" and decided not to listen to a friend in need because all of a sudden, this friend in need has been labelled something awful. "Emotional vampires" are human beings in major need. There is no sense in demonizing them (literally) How is that helpful to them? Why not teach people how to deal with people in need who overwhelm you? I don't see how alianating them is helpful.
Another one is the person who feels compelled to try to classify, categorize, and quantify human beings and put them all into some kind of pre-defined category so they can feel safe knowing that there are no things about people that they do not understand.
Even though this pursuit is fundamentally flawed on many levels, these people insist that it is they that are the correct identifiers of human nature, and anyone who disagrees with them, obviously fits into one of their pre-defined categories
no i think they are just emotionally and or mentally screwed up. these people dont feed they just mock and find pleasure in it.. like going to disney land is fun but hey it doesnt mean ur happyness is being sucked out of someone else
Like those weird people at the bus stop who always talk to you and if you talk to them they think you're their best freind. Then you find yourself trying to avoid them but not do so in a way that's too obvious.
You're the one with the problem, not the friendly stranger. Tell them you don't want to talk. It's that easy. I'm sure they wont hit you over the head for it.
im a energy vampire, nothings wrong with us, it doenst hurt either, all i do is stare at someone and then i feed, they feel tierd after im done. it's very dangerous though i dont feed off of people that dont want it, people have diffrent side effects so i have to be carefull
My mother in law is a vampire. I mean no matter how many amzing things I do or how happy we are she will contact her boy and bring him down. I wish I could shield him but it's his mother, everytime he talks to her, you can feel fear enter the house, it's strange.
Ahh so true! I hate people who complain and never get things done. Their mind is not calm and will harbor negative energy which prevents them from engaging in real life solutions that will help them alleviate the problem.
why do you hate vampires? they only feed on willing participants and I don't mean the vampires this video is about I mean the kind that drinks blood but usually just harvests energy due to the health risks of drinking blood
some of these people may just have poor social skills. OR a a different social style. Or even a mild mental illness. It's OK to politly set boundrys, but really, does it help to label them blood sucking undead?
Also, people in some cultures like to stand closer together than others.
If you don't like somebody, that dosn't make them evil. It could be your issue. Mayby your just cold and unempathetic.
Oh I love the way you speak, I would like to see video from you judi on How to Think before you speak. Because you said "please get out of my face is what you feel on the inside" absolutely, I just sometimes forget to think and just blurt it out. Like "Dannng why are you so close to me" or something to that nature.
Regaurdless, great video. I am very grateful for your time and energy you put into making this video and posting it.
Look at those greedy gestures, the beauty is superficial (stolen from someone), they use it to get you along and then their uncaring greed steals you your positive intention, you kind of feel them having been contaminated while they continue "with your social support". Just spit at them, break the social relationship ever more badly until you are completely free and walk out of the room to the more positive world!
psychic vampires can be whiney people just looking for attention or have Narcissistic Personality Disorder. This isn't a real thing...it is a real diagnosis
nobody can drain your energy if you don't let them and definitely nobody can drain your energy from far away, they have to be close to you, or at least in the same room. Alot of people will freely give energy out, this is reiki or whatever, healing with energy. If your centered, and touching your source almost all the time like I'm sure many of us are, you can feel that tug when someone comes up to you and puts you down, or starts talking. all you have to do is look them right in the eye.
We all are vampires in some kind of way. We all suck energy away. But some do it more. Its a bit the same with psycho stuff. We can all kill, we can all be psychopates. But some are just more as others. Its normal to wish dead to someone sometimes. But its not when its all the time. Same with E-vampires, its normal to suck someones energy sometimes, its not when its all the time. And indeed, there are a lot of therapists that are vampires ^^ Dont forget a therapist is a failed psychopate XD
Indeed, look at psychologists and psychiaters, they re all so wrong about everything. And so many ppl listen to them and take the shit medications they put on paper LOL. XD
they arnt wrong about everything. Most people that go to them want to be part of a crowd or be "normal" i guess. They give the pills to them so they can tone down certain parts of themselves making it easier for them to live and get along with people. Taking the pills depends on if the person actually wants to change and it is normal to not want to take the pills because it will change who you are. Most people are happy with who they are and take the pills for other people
Yes, ofc you are right. But what if the crowd is wrong. You know, in the middle ages ppl pretended that the earth was flat. They took you for a heretic if you thought the earth was a ball. Same happens now. The crowd is wrong. Especially our western world. Im not saying that other countries got it better ofc, but in our lil world, it just retarded industrial. And therefor, I say they got it ALL wrong. And those that believe in our system got it also wrong :) And ofc, I can be also wrong ...
i dont believe in right or wrong. whats wrong to someone might be right to someone else so idc much for right or wrong there are opinions yes but all opinions will change with time especially how the "crowd" thinks nothing lasts forever.
God this is so true..I avoid them the second I sense it. If I am in the presence of one. I feel like I can do nothing to help heal a person like that. I am about giving positive energy and healing...
The energy vampire for me----they tell me who I am----the define me----I know you, you are too passive, you are too aggressive, you are weak, you are too pushy-------------they want to be Sherlock Holmes and define and conquer you----I really resent that and I avoid these people----I don't like people to play detective with me----in the first James Bond (new one); James is talking with a female on a aeroplane and they tell begin to define each other---I don't like this----
the insidious vampire can start by asking questions about you. you are happy to answer and open up. once you are opened up..then it becomomes about them. if u pull away , they start to ask about you.
A firend of mine, a radical christian is like this, he only wants to take people to Church, to know about them, to try to re-make their life according to what he understands and not according ot the Universal laws, he only caes about the Bible, about "converting" people to his belief, that its a very wrong statement, I just hope that he stops, I dont like the way he manipulates people, especially 14 year old kids who are barely learning to live.
her laughing sounds like she's out of breath
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I think the only people who should be considered "energy vampires" are sociopaths or people who are really sick that steal, or harm others. If someone annoys you, I think it's very negative to perceive them as some kind of "monster" just because they are talking your head off on the elevator or they are a depressed person. Not to say I haven't had people use me and sap my energy and money when they were around me. But I don't think they are doomed as vampires. I've annoyed people too. It's life
MagicAndManifesting 1 month ago
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MagicAndManifesting 1 month ago
I've known a few Energy Vampires lately. I want to be nice, but they never respect my boundaries and just pummel me to the ground...I just don't understand how some people can talk for 3 hours or more and still not be close to done talking! The complainers and negative thinkers are the worst, they take advantage of my attentiveness. It is no joke they can stop you from flying...Lately I really pay attention to how I feel after conversing with anyone new, if it is bad after every convo, I'm out.
AMIABRUZZO 1 month ago 2
@AMIABRUZZO once I indirectly say "No" to an energy vampire, she dislikes me b/c she cannot eat my energy for free. That's okay, I love and respect myself more to please ppl who live imbalance, guilt, & shame anyway.
ehabtouch 6 days ago
@ehabtouch That is so true! I remember when I would just ignore the "vampire," and go on my merry way! It made here so mad to see me happy in spite of her...I eventually was able to get out of that toxic living situation, that is usually the best scenario.
AMIABRUZZO 5 days ago
I really really need advice on this topic. I was never ever a energy vampire and i was a very positive person, but I encountered a extremely dangerous vampire and I would be with this person almost everyday for hours..and over a few months i started to catch myself sometimes draining others energy, almost like I grabbed onto the vampires energy or attitude.
duecepitbull 2 months ago
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MagicAndManifesting 1 month ago
@duecepitbull /watch?v=fs84L7HIwZI For everyone with vampireproblem Cannot really say if it really works my problem is in working... But she really is accurate
piloooogen 1 week ago
@duecepitbull be aware of your intentions, on physical, psychological, & energetic levels, all levels. If you want to change why you do certain things, get clear with yourself & do it. It's setting boundaries, not only with others, but with yourself as well.
ehabtouch 6 days ago
It's just a shame that Dr Orloff labels people with borderline personality disorder as emotional vampires. (Search "dealing with a splitter"). Some with this disorder have destructive behaviours that impact on others, and some do not, but when dealing with someone who has already decided you are an energy vampire without even knowing you, then i would say that person's prejudice is toxic and draining. Perhaps this means Dr Orloff is a vampire?
sarahscollage 2 months ago
Just stay away from anyone that wants and take and never gives..Im direct with them and sometimes blunt if needed. My energy is my life and i will defend it. You should too.
diezelish 3 months ago 3
so do you consider reiki to be a bad practice? i my self have done this for years
and didn't no what was going on until i started training and it all be came clear
humans are sick and do not take care of them selfs and they expect to have a high energy fields people like this shows how child like we as a hole have become everyone on earth is and energy worker hands down dogs cats trees all living things we be come exhausted with living due to the pace and we be come vulnerable due to stress
JOJOzero 4 months ago
so...all rich brats are vampires? o.O
NekoEspada 4 months ago
my sisters a vampire aaaaaa
ThePeopleneedhelp 4 months ago
ENERGY VAMPIRES COMING TO A THEATER NEAR YOU!
XxblackrainstudioxX 4 months ago
Yes go demonize all of your loved ones. -rolls eyes-
Neuromance27 4 months ago
Do sensitive people tend to attract energy vampires? Because it seems like the majority of people I am around are these types of people and I am constantly having to deal with them.
acidstars9 4 months ago
There are so many of the fuckers in WA that why Twilight takes place here.
GrimeSponge 4 months ago
47 disliked people r vampires
TheBattulga 5 months ago
Some of this doesn't ring true. She seems like a drama queen in some ways.
vcoonrod 5 months ago 2
shortest video in the world
narcovice 5 months ago
Im not sure if either im one,or was drained by one lmao....So diffrent but feels the same o.o Ima drama queen and i talk on and on and when someone tells me to stop i got to someone else and now im afriad to try out for amaricas got talents,to sing... o:
emi7cimpyay 5 months ago
Sounds more like munipulators
g31n3z3w5k1 5 months ago
My children are vampires
TheAngel2134 5 months ago
I used to always socialize with vampires and now at times i feel as if i became one from being so much around them without realizing it.
duecepitbull 6 months ago
Try having a relative who is a crack addict!
mingo09able 6 months ago 2
howe should i deal with the blemer ? THANk YOU
LindaW54 7 months ago
oh, i thought it was REAL energy vampires!
OMcomics 7 months ago
Everyone is a Energy vamp!
thinker900 7 months ago
There is another kind of energy vampire. It's the kind who sits around labeling everyone else as energy vampires to get attention and do noting to contain their own energy.
beautifulmind546 7 months ago
people who dislike this vid are mostly twilight fans that get lost somewhere in Utube.
lum2ina 7 months ago
how bout the one that keeps you on a Sympathy and Neediness Leash...until she decides that her demons have given her sufficient power, so that she can exhibit--and I Do mean Exhibit--her Dom' side?
RisingAboveMyself 7 months ago
okay all joking aside this is good stuff
magicx3434 7 months ago
back spawn of Satan!
magicx3434 7 months ago
i love to feed on others there energy fills me, i leave them emotional husks
dave00dance 8 months ago
I think my sis is one..SHE NEVER SHUTS UP OVER STUPID THINGS
9ktlyn 8 months ago
I feel that sometimes I can be a complaining emotional vampire. I know that I need to cut back on using others (like my boyfriend) as a sounding board. It's a hard habit to break!
My mother is a criticizer vampire. That woman will just not allow herself to be happy unless she brings up something about a person to bitch about. Even just the little things set her off into a nagging rant! Very exhausting to be around her sometimes...
Every one has something to improve upon!
GrowTheTruth 8 months ago
what do we do about energy orks?
vito670 9 months ago
yesq but then I feel bad with the drama queen that I didnt gave her the attention she wanted from me because she is my friend but at the same time I dont want to get all her bad energy and get to her same level of drama thats she wants me to be. i dont know, thats gets me frustrated
jburckhardt 9 months ago
Today I broke up with an energy vampire. There is so much you can do but I had to protect my sanity or I maybe in jail wearing an orange suit. LMAO. I love the name "energy vampire" !! Truth. Thank you for sharing!
Najenn 10 months ago
my grandmother is a energy vampire! to the point she killed my mother by sucking her dry..
Deansweetdevil 10 months ago
Almost everyone has played the vampire role. We all need to learn how to stop doing this to ourselves and other people because we need to love ourselves and each other.
ehabtouch 10 months ago 13
@ehabtouch .. this is the best answer i have ever heard of in this post so far.. very good and so true..<3
launicayoly2 8 months ago
@ehabtouch wait what?!?! It´s said people assume other by themselves...
piloooogen 1 week ago
sounds like my ex-girlfriend
MrSamuelAdams1776 11 months ago
my older sister is a narc...now that I am in my twenties and grown up it's kind of funny to talk to her, cause she hasn't developed mentally one bit...it's kind of pathetic...all her manipulative stuff I used to fall prey to as the clueless younger brother, now just bounces off...she thinks it works like a charm of course...leading narcissists on, is entertaining and disturbing at the same time...the fairy tales they come up with and they think you actually believe...crazy
mongolenpup 11 months ago
@mongolenpup My roommate is a serious narcissist. I agree. It's truly disturbing!
He is a a drama queen who thinks that everything has to be about him and that everyone must wish to be him. It's pathetic to watch. He's also extremely incompetent when it comes to taking care of himself and feeling compassion.
That boy has a VERY hard road ahead for him. As does your sister, I'm sure. :( I feel bad for them.
GrowTheTruth 8 months ago
It's sad because I am surrounded by so many complainers. I've discovered that self-confidence renders all psychological attacks harmless, however. If you are self-confident and know who you really are, you'll just drive them away. Toxic people are basically animals who sniff around to find a good scent, and never really evolved past childhood. Most people are like this.
FarmGiraffe 11 months ago 10
I am a loner because I feel drained all the time around people. I am very sensitive to my surroundings. I have sinced learn to protect myself!
sara31tx 11 months ago 2
@sara31tx Empath as well?
DryBONESreborn 11 months ago
@DryBONESreborn Yep
sara31tx 11 months ago
where truth about the "other" is not assessed, there is weakness in the healing available...
dainismichel 11 months ago
THis lady simply is unintuitive and "trained" learn to be chaotic and redefine your values so you are happy. You'll never be happy thinking every one who doesn't look like they belong in a sundress is secretly an energy vampire. Get your own energy, and don't attempt to enforce your beliefs onto others or you will be trained to feel unwelcome everywhere
Resdim 11 months ago
Judith... and what happens when one of the parents is the emotional vampire? I tried to explain my situatuation, but my parent thinks that I am imagining something! In my culture people complain too much, when I travel I feel so much free, and when I am back in my country... the energy is so different, it`s heavier, like I have loads over my sholders
LoverLighter 11 months ago
I can show you a real energy vamp i am one
crankoslap 1 year ago
Great vid, but the end was cut off! What is the answer to the last type?
emeraldstream 1 year ago
The medias are vamps
flowerbudz32 1 year ago
I'm an energy vamp..I thrive in high energy live concerts, meeting people and I don't think I've slept more than 6 hrs since I was awakened on 12/18/10. Music is my feed, I can live without eating for days if my energy intake is high enough..more about me..Our Paranormal Universe coming soon.
starrgazingmag 1 year ago
judith orloff md,,, you are an idiot.
HarveeBear 1 year ago
@HarveeBear uncalled for, inaccurate. If you find a more constructive way to offer feedback or enhancement it will probably be received better
emeraldstream 1 year ago
The entire human species is a Vampire Society, sucking the energy from all there is on the Planet and otherwise.
44prot 1 year ago
STEP THE FUCK BACK
done :)
FortyOzSwilla 1 year ago
BLAMER OR CRITICIZER I've got one of those and when I ask this person to just STOP talking about a subject I don't want to talk about (that's usually all about me and my interactions with another person) and this critic/teacher takes it upon herself to EDUCATE me every day. Whether I want it or not. AND, if I resist or get angry and yell because I just don't want to hear it anymore, this person says "You have issues... I'm TIRED of you VOMITING on me..." isn't everything after "stop" rape???
piwacket33 1 year ago
i activate my mind then close it again at will. if you know what i actually mean talk to me about it, its not psychic i dont know what it is or what if this thought process has a function meh.
hideHYDEimcoming 1 year ago
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considerfriend1 1 year ago
Thank you so much Judith! :-)
You're wonderful!
Your book "emotional Freedom" helps me A LOT!
in my difficult times..
Love,
Gil :-)
LoveBeing53 1 year ago
isn't she talking in the face of that other woman and dominating her energy?
hecatesmagickchild 1 year ago 2
Notice these people always have people to suck from? Seems to be the way of things. All we can do is make sure we're not doing it ourselves. Raise your vibration and they won't be able to feed off their usual diet of drama and BS. Tell them like it is. I always appreciate when someone tells me straight i'm being an arse.
TheVicarofZeitgeist 1 year ago
@xLGDZxSERAPH Yes, but this video is about getting negative people out of your life, not listing all types of vampires. That's why she only described negavite psychic vampires.
vailismyname 1 year ago
Why would you remove the embedding? Don't you WANT people to see this and learn etc?!?!?!?!!?!!
UmmacDan 1 year ago
@UmmacDan Embedding is back. Is was removed by mistake. Thanks
judithorloffmd 1 year ago
well i personally know someone whos known to be the 'sob sister" and the "blamer and crit" i was doing research on how to get negative ppl out of ur life and found the energy vampire and watching this describes her 100% its got sooo bad that im constantly making mw tired and depressed to the end of the day and i get moody and upset faster than i would usually get ... so i believe it
uvarebal 1 year ago
we are all suckers and vampires at times. we all do it its natural. but some are doing it all the time., seems to be people who are not looking at their own stuff. which is why we are here in earth school.
OhSleeperAwake 1 year ago
Aren't we all vampires, then?
ThePiperAndTheWolf 1 year ago
I think I might just be a vampire to myself!
PersianButtons 1 year ago
Judith, thank you for this! You said, when we stay centered and calm the drama queen will go on to another victim. Is this true of other energy vampires as well. Why? Do they get some kind of energy or gratification from throwing you off base? They're literally feeding off your anxiety and discomfort at that point? Thank you in advance for any response.
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Do you have links to the papers in reputable peer-reviewed journals that these claims have been published in?
I think this would be needed since these claims deviate from traditional sciences analysis and interpretation of data, as these claims have large gaps, with which no explanation is given on to EXACTLY how the conclusions have been made in an analytical and systematic manner.
MrBluelock 1 year ago
That helps... especially the last one mentioned. How do you silence the critics ?
geargail 1 year ago
what about the "I cant hear you and im pretending to listen but im too focussed on myself to care" type person... ?? there are many of them, thinking of what they are going to say next and not ever being present to what you're telling them..
they say 'yes' after your every sentence..but couldnt repeat what u said if they tried... many of them about.. !
SovereignBeing 1 year ago
question... how do we know we get enegry drained from us to people instead of having stress responses to other people and the emotion tires us. I really am dying to know the truth. Also, how do I know if I am draining energy from someone? Do I feel good around them if I am draining and bad when I am being leeched?
OMFGsoBOARD 1 year ago
OOOPS :/
mabell01 1 year ago
what to do with lived ones who are going thru terminal illness?
TheSasha1111 1 year ago
please tell more about the last type the blamer or criticizer and also the voices they put inside your head that belittle you.......i think i am confronted with this kind
bestozesto 1 year ago
Wow kids, your language is dirtier than a rubber toilet. Calm down.
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XDMWeaponCollector 1 year ago
@XDMWeaponCollector - maybe its anaemia... iron deficiency...?
SovereignBeing 1 year ago
Thats why they don't want you up because they cant claim to save you unless they drown you when they think no one knows.
diamondcalves 1 year ago
What you're describing is an Emotional Vampire, not an Energy Vampire. Emotional Vampires do not 'need' the energy that they take in, they are typically narcissist who seek attention and as long as you give it to them, they keep doing it.
Try learning the differences between Emotional and Energy Vampires. Also ... Emotional & Empathic Vampires are also different. Do you research better.
Lokhi 1 year ago
some ppl laugh about abusing ppl what you dont realize is your the first person who they attack when they snap....now the vampier is dealing with a ted bunndy. trust me the most sadistic ppl die in the most sadistic way...if their lucky it will be quick.
deadkip 1 year ago
the thing about vampires is they have no consideration for your feelings so you might as well not matter to them. so my solution is they dont matter to me, and i will tell them so. screw tiptoeing around these jerkoffs weak and confused emotions. i want to hammer a point into these moes.
yourmomsrottencorpse 1 year ago
thats not how it is, energy vampires are people who hurt others and then absorb their pain, at least thats how i do it, I'm new at this and my powers are coming in fast, but for me it's 1.break their heart 2.smile.laugh.enjoy their misery, absorb their pain to the point where they become numb and when they do you cuddle them and show them love until they reach the point you began at with the, in a good healthy relationship. Unless the persons strong willed thats much harder but possible.
cathrineperez 1 year ago
@cathrineperez well you seem like an advanced case of vampirism. these people mentioned are the garden variety weasels. and yes beleive it or not there are people out there who you wouldnt get to first base with. i wont judge you, shit, were all a little confused from time to time. i am no better anyway. i am on the path of truth and knowledge, and there is power in that. more so than ive ever had with any human pets.
yourmomsrottencorpse 1 year ago
there are so many energy vampires/narcissists out there!
kimmijo 1 year ago 2
Dam my husband is a vampire.
ypharr 1 year ago 26
@ypharr Mine too! sigh
ambervisions 8 months ago
WoW, I have just learned all of my friends are vampires!
Onepiecefan3 1 year ago 79
I'm sooo sorry for being an energy vampire, Jeremy!
DisturbedChick 1 year ago
@Onepiecefan3 LoL!
oliverjohnbeaver 1 year ago
@Onepiecefan3 hahahahahahahahaha
KateDANMIT 1 year ago
@Onepiecefan3 LMAO!
all my friends are vampires too!
kittypunkrocker 1 year ago
@Onepiecefan3 "...I didn't know they were vampires, turns out I'm a vampire myself, in devil-town."
Timbo227 4 months ago
the government beams voices into these vampires heads
pandadust1 2 years ago 3
@pandadust1 yes they do. and they use the tv mostly. allthough they are starting to gain interest in the internet.
yourmomsrottencorpse 1 year ago
its a little simplistic basically we can all be annoying sometimes
erykaadams 2 years ago
WOW!!! I use to be all these things. Jezzzz.... thank the universe for my therapist.
way2educated 2 years ago 2
@RaKnyght333 ..i would have to disagree. We are all energy, as all things are. one of my best freinds is a "blamer". she rips into me, and make me feel powerless, and I feel drained afterwards. thanks to these videos, as well as other things i have learned how to maintain my friendship with her without being too rude, or saying goodbye..however, if she continues, I will have to let her go out of my life.
MYtruthsetsmeFREE 2 years ago
@MytruthsetsmeFREE Well you are right somewhat but the type of energy vamps I am refering to dont act the way this video is describing
RaKnyght333 2 years ago
omg...I know a few blamers....this is true..they will try to make you feel powerless.
MYtruthsetsmeFREE 2 years ago
Only one way. Relax, dont let yourself get nervous and thats it...
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one of my best friends is an energy vampire and she is nothing like this. she feeds off emotions, she knows it to, when everyone is hyper she is calm and soaking it all up and then as soon as we are getting calm she starts to get hyper, ect. she also claims to know when a person is going to die. she is my best friend =D
lezlove6661 2 years ago
I wonder if it's possible for some to help change the vibrations in that person in such a way that they no longer feed.
What if we are one of these people you speak of and are unintentionally changing the vibrations in such a way?
If these people are energy vampires whom are negative energy, constantly draining and pulling on you is their some with an ability to close the negativity flowing through them, changing them from being negative drainers or vampires as you call them into something more
Covey69 2 years ago
So you are saying we all have this ability if we are negative?
so should we not have the ability to make them more positive and if you know this why not combine your positive intentions with numbers and maybe then that person becomes something more.
Just a thought..
Some call it prayer other call it magic or voodoo, I beleive the person whom is on tp can focus all the people's intentions by making them beleive your truths or lies, depending on.
Most are wasted on negative becasue it's easier.
Covey69 2 years ago
actually there are meds for this.
lezlove6661 2 years ago
yea, into positive. lol.
syntax128 2 years ago
A lot of people who complain about feeling drained by others show an amazing lack of personal boundaries. Don't give your energy away, and less people will seem like vampires to you.
Baaaphomette 2 years ago 3
i find that when i make people angry i feel joy...
Hillsillverr 2 years ago
oh shit i think im a energyvampire
SicSkatez 2 years ago
Im a decendent of these my family ar the Carter brother hood suspecte energy Vampire i believe tht i and my family ar energy Vampires.
dc1carter 2 years ago
Whats the best way to spot a narcissist ...
go to a DR.
stitchedplate4 2 years ago
Judi, I don't have a problem with cutting people off mid sentence if I think they're taking advantage of my time. I would take a day off work to listen to a person who really needs it. It's a balancing act, you need to discern the level of need each person has. Improving intuition and learning to read body language and facial expressions will help with that.
Winter077 2 years ago 2
It would suck if someone learned the term "emotional vampire" and decided not to listen to a friend in need because all of a sudden, this friend in need has been labelled something awful. "Emotional vampires" are human beings in major need. There is no sense in demonizing them (literally) How is that helpful to them? Why not teach people how to deal with people in need who overwhelm you? I don't see how alianating them is helpful.
Winter077 2 years ago
energy vampire*
Winter077 2 years ago
im the first and someone in my family is the last
JaqiTyler 2 years ago
wow, why are people laughing???
i know i have a SENSE OF HUMOR...
razorozx 2 years ago
Another one is the person who feels compelled to try to classify, categorize, and quantify human beings and put them all into some kind of pre-defined category so they can feel safe knowing that there are no things about people that they do not understand.
Even though this pursuit is fundamentally flawed on many levels, these people insist that it is they that are the correct identifiers of human nature, and anyone who disagrees with them, obviously fits into one of their pre-defined categories
2bornot2b1984 2 years ago
no i think they are just emotionally and or mentally screwed up. these people dont feed they just mock and find pleasure in it.. like going to disney land is fun but hey it doesnt mean ur happyness is being sucked out of someone else
JaqiTyler 2 years ago
Like those weird people at the bus stop who always talk to you and if you talk to them they think you're their best freind. Then you find yourself trying to avoid them but not do so in a way that's too obvious.
ScaryCannibalTrout1 2 years ago 2
no i think they are either crazy or from a small town
JaqiTyler 2 years ago
You're the one with the problem, not the friendly stranger. Tell them you don't want to talk. It's that easy. I'm sure they wont hit you over the head for it.
Winter077 2 years ago 2
im one if you want to learn anything from me then just add me
katiemmb 2 years ago
im a energy vampire, nothings wrong with us, it doenst hurt either, all i do is stare at someone and then i feed, they feel tierd after im done. it's very dangerous though i dont feed off of people that dont want it, people have diffrent side effects so i have to be carefull
katiemmb 2 years ago
at least some people are a little more accepting
emoOREO17 2 years ago
you smoke too much weed
matchesison 2 years ago
My mother in law is a vampire. I mean no matter how many amzing things I do or how happy we are she will contact her boy and bring him down. I wish I could shield him but it's his mother, everytime he talks to her, you can feel fear enter the house, it's strange.
titoferni29 2 years ago
My husbands mother WAS like that. Don't even think about marrying him unless he learns to stand up to her. Trust me on that one! ;-)
Winter077 2 years ago
This is pretty much a reiteration of Anton Lavey's portion of the Satanic bible dealing with psychic vampires. A good read.
sharkygunsel 2 years ago
Ahh so true! I hate people who complain and never get things done. Their mind is not calm and will harbor negative energy which prevents them from engaging in real life solutions that will help them alleviate the problem.
teo829 2 years ago
I hate vampires D:
whether they are a actually energy vampire or if its just a social outcome either way its tiering D:
Estilum 2 years ago
why do you hate vampires? they only feed on willing participants and I don't mean the vampires this video is about I mean the kind that drinks blood but usually just harvests energy due to the health risks of drinking blood
SUPERFORDBOY 2 years ago
@SUPERFORDBOY
oh I wasnt talking about blood vampires
I wasn't specifically talking about vampires but rather people who dump all their problems on other people.
you are left feeling drained
thats all ;]
Estilum 2 years ago 2
@Estilum ok lol thats good
SUPERFORDBOY 2 years ago
some of these people may just have poor social skills. OR a a different social style. Or even a mild mental illness. It's OK to politly set boundrys, but really, does it help to label them blood sucking undead?
Also, people in some cultures like to stand closer together than others.
If you don't like somebody, that dosn't make them evil. It could be your issue. Mayby your just cold and unempathetic.
milascave 2 years ago
Oh I love the way you speak, I would like to see video from you judi on How to Think before you speak. Because you said "please get out of my face is what you feel on the inside" absolutely, I just sometimes forget to think and just blurt it out. Like "Dannng why are you so close to me" or something to that nature.
Regaurdless, great video. I am very grateful for your time and energy you put into making this video and posting it.
Much Love From FL
JaxFloridaLocal 2 years ago
haha is this a joke?
i cant even tell XD
eileenelectric 2 years ago
stupid sheep
ianlutz 2 years ago
Do you ever vent or complain?
lisbeardsley75 2 years ago
Look at those greedy gestures, the beauty is superficial (stolen from someone), they use it to get you along and then their uncaring greed steals you your positive intention, you kind of feel them having been contaminated while they continue "with your social support". Just spit at them, break the social relationship ever more badly until you are completely free and walk out of the room to the more positive world!
khtervola 2 years ago
drain my energy i curse your soul with the reapers mark
onecentpennyas 2 years ago
I think my mom is combo of talker and criticizer.
dianddra999 2 years ago
psychic vampires can be whiney people just looking for attention or have Narcissistic Personality Disorder. This isn't a real thing...it is a real diagnosis
katinthemeadows 2 years ago
nobody can drain your energy if you don't let them and definitely nobody can drain your energy from far away, they have to be close to you, or at least in the same room. Alot of people will freely give energy out, this is reiki or whatever, healing with energy. If your centered, and touching your source almost all the time like I'm sure many of us are, you can feel that tug when someone comes up to you and puts you down, or starts talking. all you have to do is look them right in the eye.
blikbladae2 2 years ago
You can thru phone/internet. Also looking straight in the eyes doesnt work on everyone ....
GDZjeenik 2 years ago
By this definition, 95% of the population are sub-conscious "energy vampires", lmao.
staringintotheabyss 2 years ago
No 100% But some got a energy deficience somewhere and pump from other ppl to get it back ok.
GDZjeenik 2 years ago 6
This just seems like a social thing. Someoen tells you their problems, they feel better, you feel worse, is every therapist a psychic vampire? lol.
staringintotheabyss 2 years ago
We all are vampires in some kind of way. We all suck energy away. But some do it more. Its a bit the same with psycho stuff. We can all kill, we can all be psychopates. But some are just more as others. Its normal to wish dead to someone sometimes. But its not when its all the time. Same with E-vampires, its normal to suck someones energy sometimes, its not when its all the time. And indeed, there are a lot of therapists that are vampires ^^ Dont forget a therapist is a failed psychopate XD
GDZjeenik 2 years ago
Seems like too many attempts to define and make things cut and dry instead of looking at the big picture.
staringintotheabyss 2 years ago
Dont we allways look at explenations for everything? ^^
GDZjeenik 2 years ago
Often times we end up finding false answers.
staringintotheabyss 2 years ago
Indeed, look at psychologists and psychiaters, they re all so wrong about everything. And so many ppl listen to them and take the shit medications they put on paper LOL. XD
GDZjeenik 2 years ago
Psychology is just presumption that one persons behavior is going to match anothers for the same reason. And yes, big pharma is a big industry.
staringintotheabyss 2 years ago
Isnt everything a big industry at the end ... ^^
GDZjeenik 2 years ago
they arnt wrong about everything. Most people that go to them want to be part of a crowd or be "normal" i guess. They give the pills to them so they can tone down certain parts of themselves making it easier for them to live and get along with people. Taking the pills depends on if the person actually wants to change and it is normal to not want to take the pills because it will change who you are. Most people are happy with who they are and take the pills for other people
XxStainxX 2 years ago
Yes, ofc you are right. But what if the crowd is wrong. You know, in the middle ages ppl pretended that the earth was flat. They took you for a heretic if you thought the earth was a ball. Same happens now. The crowd is wrong. Especially our western world. Im not saying that other countries got it better ofc, but in our lil world, it just retarded industrial. And therefor, I say they got it ALL wrong. And those that believe in our system got it also wrong :) And ofc, I can be also wrong ...
GDZjeenik 2 years ago
i dont believe in right or wrong. whats wrong to someone might be right to someone else so idc much for right or wrong there are opinions yes but all opinions will change with time especially how the "crowd" thinks nothing lasts forever.
XxStainxX 2 years ago
Couldn't tell it with better words :)
GDZjeenik 2 years ago
There are lots of opinions that last forever, think racism and gender inequality.
Winter077 2 years ago
God this is so true..I avoid them the second I sense it. If I am in the presence of one. I feel like I can do nothing to help heal a person like that. I am about giving positive energy and healing...
pmcmusik 2 years ago
The energy vampire for me----they tell me who I am----the define me----I know you, you are too passive, you are too aggressive, you are weak, you are too pushy-------------they want to be Sherlock Holmes and define and conquer you----I really resent that and I avoid these people----I don't like people to play detective with me----in the first James Bond (new one); James is talking with a female on a aeroplane and they tell begin to define each other---I don't like this----
Emilydogcat 2 years ago 2
the insidious vampire can start by asking questions about you. you are happy to answer and open up. once you are opened up..then it becomomes about them. if u pull away , they start to ask about you.
ddtoots 2 years ago
A firend of mine, a radical christian is like this, he only wants to take people to Church, to know about them, to try to re-make their life according to what he understands and not according ot the Universal laws, he only caes about the Bible, about "converting" people to his belief, that its a very wrong statement, I just hope that he stops, I dont like the way he manipulates people, especially 14 year old kids who are barely learning to live.
ArsenalGear3000 2 years ago
and his you'