for me looking in the mirror and looking at my wotsits was enough to determin my sexuality and doing what i enjoy was enough career wise only other people can screw that up for you and bring doubt, fook em , but not literally , 1 in 10000 babys are born with both female and male wotsits the adrenaline,testosterone levels makes them men though also wont grow breasts is why they remove the female bit at birth although 1 in 10000 would be in doubt if they knew that heh
coming out to self, tons of doubt, deciding to transition, actually doing it, loads of doubt, happy after transition, no doubt yay, trying to figure out sexuality, doubt and confusion, to be continued...
awesome video, awesome advice. When I dated my 1st gf I knew right then I was 100% lesbian. but then the reaction I got from other people made me second guess myself. I kept questioning myself "maybe I'm not fully gay, maybe I'm bi. maybe there's a guy out there but I just haven't given them the chance" because this is what people were telling me.I experimented with guys and it was so horrible to me. I felt wrong..like I was lying and being dishonest to myself. but at least now I know what I am.
the thing I think really helps when you are in the closet is going really out of your scocial zone and telling people, a freind I accidently found out was gay still hasnt told anyone else, but we are going to our local pride together cause no-one else he knows will be there and he can be out and doubt free for a while, make a control group kind of thing for analysis
great video!! As a TS woman I am really interested in Kade's take on all this doubt chat. I must say, having a few fear issues myself at the mo, this week's topic came along at the perfect time!. An excellent tonic to my fear defined thinking of the last few days. Thanks so much to the whole bunch!
I really don't know how I came across this vid but from someone whose questioning "doubting" this is the single most important thing i've ever seen on youtube. Thanks much <3
Awesome video and so true every word. I doubted for a long time, but it was a good period of my life, because now I know who I am and I like being me.
Thanks Michelle! I always get in such a good mood when I watch the vids you 'bunch' put out. You're all an inspiration.
I believe that this is best video you've ever done. You're a very relatable person, and I have no doubt in my mind that you'll be an outstanding therapist.
The important thing here to remember, in my consideration, is that the «doubt moments» are not only an obstacle, but also a chance for you, to gain strength, which is important too.
Only thing required is to overcome those doubts.
Let's consider for a moment the subject of «Lesbian Kissing».
If I can change my attitude, and consider this as a scientific research topic, then the results of this research are helpful for men, who want to engage in the kissing of women.
this was a really awesome vid, michelle. thanks for your honesty and encouragement! im going through major doubts in a relationship right now and this really helped me reframe my mindset :)
It's funny that this showed up in my suggested videos, because it was just what I needed. Thank you.
Morphesque 1 month ago
i wish i could meet you. you're such a role model.
tamsh16 10 months ago
power through the doubt.. nice.
MissTotos 2 years ago
I hope you're bi, MIchelle.
TheRealCWC 2 years ago
thank you...this one really helped... thank you
evelynNY7 2 years ago
you are awesome :D
chefnathan666 2 years ago 6
i think i got it,
enjoy life
don't doubt something like a gun, not blowing your brains out, everything else, pretty much ok to doubt
enjoy a sun-set, drink a cup watching the sun-rise(mull it over, take action, if its the wrong action, fix it tomorrow,after a cup)
i went on and on, all i wanted to say was 'wow!' i heard your words, despite the distraction of your smile
hope the project was in some-way, fun
bphoru 2 years ago
How dare! I am not normal! I'm not I'm not I'm not! ;p
missdivinestalls 2 years ago 2
yey you watched it! :D
crazymariamlr 2 years ago
for me looking in the mirror and looking at my wotsits was enough to determin my sexuality and doing what i enjoy was enough career wise only other people can screw that up for you and bring doubt, fook em , but not literally , 1 in 10000 babys are born with both female and male wotsits the adrenaline,testosterone levels makes them men though also wont grow breasts is why they remove the female bit at birth although 1 in 10000 would be in doubt if they knew that heh
user34211 2 years ago 3
thank you so so so much i don't know what i wold do with out help from videos like this :)
kdsilver8888 2 years ago 3
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who the fuck is this ???
CROmoreno 2 years ago
You need a Minotaur. They love beavers.
Minotaurism 2 years ago
coming out to self, tons of doubt, deciding to transition, actually doing it, loads of doubt, happy after transition, no doubt yay, trying to figure out sexuality, doubt and confusion, to be continued...
nicanewnew 2 years ago 5
You have really nice hair.
mercuryovum 2 years ago 11
awesome video, awesome advice. When I dated my 1st gf I knew right then I was 100% lesbian. but then the reaction I got from other people made me second guess myself. I kept questioning myself "maybe I'm not fully gay, maybe I'm bi. maybe there's a guy out there but I just haven't given them the chance" because this is what people were telling me.I experimented with guys and it was so horrible to me. I felt wrong..like I was lying and being dishonest to myself. but at least now I know what I am.
BillieBaby143 2 years ago 4
Thanks mamma beaver =D
karma is on my side this week , because I'm a straigth beav with more doubts that I can handdle
This week's topic is taking a lot of weigth off me, I'm on my earlier 20s struggling with the feeling of beig bi or gay, I'm still trying to find out
Obviously in the darkness of a closet
sorry about my grammar xD english isn't my first language
xx
xKutePrincessx 2 years ago 3
everyone is normal! that's it!
woweq 2 years ago 2
I had doubt in my first relationship with a girl, but now, later in life, having had other girlfriends, I dont doubt anymore
Leylaashley 2 years ago
I would argue that moderate doubt is always a good thing. One should never blindly accept assumptions.
shadowenglish 2 years ago
the thing I think really helps when you are in the closet is going really out of your scocial zone and telling people, a freind I accidently found out was gay still hasnt told anyone else, but we are going to our local pride together cause no-one else he knows will be there and he can be out and doubt free for a while, make a control group kind of thing for analysis
TheAnnaShowUk 2 years ago
That was a great video! You made some really good points which i'd never even thought of before. Thank you! xxxx
xxxlelxxxmooxxx 2 years ago
great video!! As a TS woman I am really interested in Kade's take on all this doubt chat. I must say, having a few fear issues myself at the mo, this week's topic came along at the perfect time!. An excellent tonic to my fear defined thinking of the last few days. Thanks so much to the whole bunch!
ElectroCarrie 2 years ago 2
Yeah, doubt is a normal part of the decision making process.
Your closing kiss is starting to sound like Kicesie's!
Call if you ever have a straight "moment"!!
paul20072007 2 years ago
Doubt is good, not a problem to question yourself about your choices.
Silveracity 2 years ago
Also even though it's reassuring sometimes I don't think we have to label ourselves. I mean if we want to we can but we don't have to.
Amandinedinedine 2 years ago
I really don't know how I came across this vid but from someone whose questioning "doubting" this is the single most important thing i've ever seen on youtube. Thanks much <3
KidCerealJunkie 2 years ago 3
i think i heard a google talk im notice! ;)
hnguyen131 2 years ago
Awesome video and so true every word. I doubted for a long time, but it was a good period of my life, because now I know who I am and I like being me.
Thanks Michelle! I always get in such a good mood when I watch the vids you 'bunch' put out. You're all an inspiration.
BiAndTheCity 2 years ago
Can I just say, in a non-weird way, you look particulary stunning in this video
blacksnow42 2 years ago 2
this was an extremely good video mama beav!
thisiskate12 2 years ago
Doubt is a tasty treat and a self destruction. I doubt belief but rebuke my own.
Tiredofcrap 2 years ago
agree
crazymariamlr 2 years ago
When are we going to see a Mama Beaver apartment tour??
s8ntmark 2 years ago 2
that's a good slogan "GAY is OK!"
tonypiecuzpan 2 years ago
I believe that this is best video you've ever done. You're a very relatable person, and I have no doubt in my mind that you'll be an outstanding therapist.
drac16 2 years ago
<3 thanks so much.
revengexbiscuits 2 years ago
Thanks, M. A few times I felt like we were sitting down talking. What a gift you have!
skipperdoofus 2 years ago 2
preach it mama beav! :D
wh0eversheis 2 years ago
Gorgeous...
400232 2 years ago
honestly, this is right on the money.
ericakelly01 2 years ago
Great video-I liked how you explained doubt and the various situations that it appears in.
poeticmocha 2 years ago
Thanks Michelle, lots to think about.
GuruMN 2 years ago
lol i loved the ending, normal normal normal! =)
bornadisaster911 2 years ago
The important thing here to remember, in my consideration, is that the «doubt moments» are not only an obstacle, but also a chance for you, to gain strength, which is important too.
Only thing required is to overcome those doubts.
Let's consider for a moment the subject of «Lesbian Kissing».
If I can change my attitude, and consider this as a scientific research topic, then the results of this research are helpful for men, who want to engage in the kissing of women.
allymetoo 2 years ago
awesome video as usual =]
ur like seriously inspiring, all of u
xXinnocence31Xx 2 years ago 2
man i've never watched a beaver bunch vid at 3:00am on friday morning :) its still awsome though :) <3
xXALICCEEWASHERREXx 2 years ago
this was a really awesome vid, michelle. thanks for your honesty and encouragement! im going through major doubts in a relationship right now and this really helped me reframe my mindset :)
voulezvous88 2 years ago
You all are so great
zzzzaah 2 years ago
great advice :)
P.S. you are hot :)
kylagc 2 years ago 2
aww this is good! LOVE IT! still doubting myself but hey no need to figure it out now
wannabefob32 2 years ago 2
An other great video!
Hope your new big project gets you where you want to go :)
Good luck and I give you all my support.
Thanks again for the great advices :)
Yayyy I'M GAY!! loll! --» Best call ever!
Stephysworld 2 years ago
great advice! it really helped :)
origliassosarelove 2 years ago
Great Video!!!!!
rockette27 2 years ago
Great advice, Michelle! you always know exactly what to say ;)
SlickNicky27 2 years ago 2
thank you. i realized now doubts are a-okay :) thank goodness im gay :)
upsidedownfrontwards 2 years ago 9
Looking gorgeous as usual. Good luck with the project. :)
900angryangel 2 years ago 3
I doubted myself once. Thats gone now. But nope. Definitely gay. Very informative video sweet heart =) work hard now ;)
LegendaryReligion 2 years ago 5
I love you<3
whatzername922007 2 years ago 2
looking great michelle! whats the project you're working on ?
mimsss 2 years ago 2