How To Approach Women Without Fear In Public Places

[istiklalcaddesi]

Hi, nice video!!! Some people say they dont mind to get rejected if no one else saw it. Well the reason is every one of us have an ego and the bigger the ego less likely u will welcome and negative looks but the uglier guy next to u has guts to walk and offer a smile hello how r u? Or a dance u have been thinking for the last 15 mins... This happens all the time to me as well if not 99%... When im we are confident thanks to few drinks but know the line we ll be much better coz we dont mind who

[filosortasmooth]

See those 3 guns on the wall? That's why he doesn't fear criticism :P

[icedhd]

Turns out bungee jumping does have it's risks in Australia after all!

[oOLearnEverythingOo]

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KISS CLOSE SANIA IN THE FIELD

[pootsius]

This is good advice, I'm an insecure guy and have all kinds of trouble approaching people not just girls. I don't think I will streak tho but it would be nice not to be so insecure.

[ramir332]

I'm not more good looking as this guy yet, he shares the same feelings I have.. skin deep people.. skin deep. Wise words my friend.

[COMEGOGO1]

Thank you man, you are the best.

[AlexPeff]

once i heard him say his name at the end and realized we had the same name i thought "ah shit now i have to do this" :P

[siddharthmagazine]

I believe when you approach a girl, being confident is the best key :D

[RainfulPhenix]

The intro music just gets me high every time

[FreddieboyFilms]

thaks so much i find this so helpful i am locked you you guys and the venusian pick up artists, who show this in the field,

[ScottPBMusic]

I want to go bungie jumping now... Cheers mate!

[FunctionSys1]

Very nice .. i like it approach to women !

[0verob5cene]

looks like you have very good communication skills, keep it up

[LLOYD19851012]

I must be the uglyiest man in the world. I followed your advice and now I am ingaged with a baby on the way. Thank you so so much.

[itsonlytarasguys]

Your videos are all full of such warmth and helpfulness: you really want people to do well! It's great how your advice is the same, warm without just being analytical, fun without being mean. A large difference from the other coaches out there who believe beating the shit out of women will get them to like you.

[rich2rich]

thanks alot for the advice. I think fear is my problem and doing something like streaking (the idea behind it) really sounds helpful.

[ItSyAbOiIsSa]

Wow.. that was amazing bro, I might just go streaking haha jk

[elementskating1]

i need a wingman like u bro

[WJSED0000]

i shold need a friend like you!

[marcus123452]

this is easier said then done !

[hansdekabouter]

this is really an eyeopener thnx!

[Chancler]

If I could talk like this guy, talking to women in public would be super easy.

[pmic2011]

i need a friend like you

[idigcars]

I thought you were gonna be a tool, but you were really good. Thanks

[mrHannydude]

thanx mahn , u got me out o ma head

[sasap07]

I am gonna watch this video every time before i go out to approach. Carrying what other people think is the biggest obstacle for me, but really, why would you care what thinks of you someone whom you probably never see again in your life. The hell with that! Great video, thanx Alex

[johncenanum1reslure]

you have the best advice

[mobilewankfactory]

The problem is not fear of rejection, I am not scared to go up to anyone because of that, its because I know for a fact I won't have a clue what to say after Hello. And I will just stand and look at the floor in silence, nothing comes to mind, nothing is natural, I'm choking on my words, my mind is blank, sweat is dripping down my face. I know I look like a retard at that point. Its the knowing that you will have nothing to say after Hello, and ruining any chance you might of had.

[ToonsInACan]

@mobilewankfactory isn't silence a good thing anyway? like pulp fiction, if your comfortable with yourself and with the person your talking to then there is no rush to force out a conversation with them.

[diogotomediogo]

you mean fear is NOT rational 2:08-2:40

[MattPwnzYou88]

What if she's with her Parent(s)? Aha!

[cr8tivitee]

i think im like scared to go up to her and i dnt noe wat to say

[mrfatd]

alex is 100 times better htan mystery method

[alexandrepato123]

or you could just do a big line lol that will give you confidence

[LAHWF]

The universe won't allow you to not feel fear. You can't skip it. The same way you can't just learn to play the piano in a day, you can't just be fearless the first time you do it either. You have to earn it. Over time, with applied effort, and just focusing on the purpose, the first-hand knowledge you'll gain will be priceless to you. Experience is priceless. This is the beautiful design of the universe.

[Peteysweety]

Any suggestions on something that would get me out of my comfort zone. I'm pretty shy

[Arcane1Soldier]

I have this fear he is talking about, but mine is not about critisism, im sacred to approach a female with people around for the simple fact that if i get regected, i will feel embarrased cause people will see that. I dont care if were alone and the girl regects me, im like, ok, kool, bye. but if people are around, im like, shit, everyone saw that, i must look like a douche bag now and i will be the talk of the town, i cant show my face here again. LOL

[moj0llama]

So you fear the criticism of people calling you a douche bag.. You have exactly what the guy is talking about

[damiangt]

smoke the herb then approach her, no problem Mon!

[BMWg84]

That is a great story - real or not. It is great encouragement for anything trying to attempt something 'scary' or uncomfortable since what happened to you is theoretically 100x worse. lol Thanks for posting this vid!

[Ericbranson3]

i would streak but i'm too ashamed of my small penis

[liLDustyy]

hahhaaHa at least your honest =D

[nilovroman]

lol, get drunk as fuck and you won't care! also it ain't about the size but how you use it!

[sandercohen1]

dude I just want to say YOU ARE AWESOME!!!! great story about pushing your comfort zone haha

[MajorFilmMusic]

I should take a girl bunji jumping... if thats how you spell

[twool9]

meeting women is a numbers game. The more you talk the better your chances of scoring is..

having a foreign accent helps alot :-)

[sprez420]

how can i hit up gurls but everytime i want 2 go im thinking shes 2 fine for me how can i get that off my head cuz im really down on my self cuz im fat can anyone give me some tips

[guttentard]

i recomend a really good book called " double your dating"

[christheman97]

I reccomend losing weight no offense

[juanx1293]

i don,t feel the fear of criticism. i fear her in general. can't get the balls to ask her out. she lives right next door to me too! )-:

[brazzo976]

Great video. Thank you for your advices. Fear makes my life difficult. Shame, public places, critics.

[TheMovieMaker123]

haha, o yeah great video

[jordanzell1]

My fear comes from the fact that I'm short. How can I meet women?

[hagendf]

So is Neil Strauss.

[Alucard1228]

great advice. thanks for sharing it to us. keep up the good work. :)

[jbnrock20]

I wish I had a friend just like you!

[bittermoon1]

i admire what you did

[animalpassion777]

Im streaking tonight!

[Icywar]

true itts like the ocean ....ur hook couldnt catch the fish mabey later ur rod will cacth one

[tronuD2]

streaking in public in the winter is bad. your package will shrink and girls will think your small. haha

[tryss]

thank you for the advice it really changed my outlook!

[chi773guy]

Man the best way to meet a woman is to ask , "Would it be alright if I introduce myself too you?"

This works because it takes her off guard. This question in no way implies you are trying to get with her. Most times women will respond with a YES. If she does, Introduce yourself. Compliment her, then tell her how sweet it would be for her to accompany you somewhere. I've learned to engage women with an activity. Therefore men should always have a perfect date spot in mind.

[robb1031]

Here is 3 tips my brother gave me when I was a kid maybe 14 1. If a girl intimidates you, picture her taking a wet, smelly, runny shit (The Hershey Squirt Type) this will bring her down a few pegs. 2. Should you get the nads to talk to her end the conversation short in your next few meetings get her number and call a few days later. 3. To check to see how much she is into you, suggest she would look better with a different hair style and see if she changes it.

[tryss]

good tip, i think many of us see women as goddesses and high beings and are too intimated

[GU1TARstud]

hahaha

[ranger186418]

does any1 know how i can get this girl to go out with me ive already been rejected she said maybe then she said her parents wouldnt let her but i think she was just trying to be nice i think she doesnt like me because i dated her best friend lol!

[CocoCruise]

Forget about her. This world is full of girls. Learn THe Game and go after almost every girl you like. Don't waste time on just one girl. Losers do that. Avoid one-i-tis.

[CocoCruise]

Forget about her. Learn the Game and move onto much better babes. Never suffer from one-i-tis. Don't get bogged down by just one HB.

[quacker87]

well man, it depends, if you just want sex, try to get her with a funny relaxed attitude so she doesn't get in a self-induced idea of you wanting something serious with her, now, if you believe you are having feelings for her, be nice with her (and by nice I don't mean being a liar or a fake person) and let her "see your feelings about her" and remember, after all, all this pickup artists have worked in order to build the selfconfidence they need to do anything they want whenever they feel it"

[megajonas]

this video has opened my eyes how many girls have i let go that i could have talked to just because there was other people there....never again lol

[kurac12345]

u rule man!!!!!!!!!!

[cormsvibe]

Love your advice mate....very well said.

[coolshit28]

I walked around London once with a mask. Then got a lot of attention. Needless to say I sweating like a motherfucker under it. Mm might do that again now I think about it lol.

[burmuda234]

It's so easy girls when you got confidence I've dated about 45 girls over the last two years.

[kschucky]

dude i actually have a similar story .. OUr class of 2008 senior prank :D me and my bros stripped down and we covered our faces with some pantyhose than we ran true cafeteria full of people and we were completely naked ... 2 security guards chasing us and kids laughing their asses off heheheh that was probably the best thing i ve ever done but on the other side they kind of didn't lets us graduate and get our diplomas at the graduating day but it was totally worth it..

[mario835]

...do you struggle to keep girls once they see these?

i mean yeah they're good...

but do girls see them and laugh and stop talking to you? ahaha

[dobroidz]

Hey Alex u ever come to perth?

[theychosen1]

Thank You. You Just inspired me

[JesusChrist5000]

That is great advice you give. It seems as though all the good pick up artists are fundamentaily wise and sagely guys.

[snkaes251]

He looks like Spike from Buffy the Vampire Slayer, minus the bleached hair, lol.

[Maikeru722]

Is that music from Streets of Rage or something?

[davidjain918]

Want a girl-friend!

[gqplaya2000]

haha. fack that. no streaking for me. funny story though.

[RT038]

The streaking bit is so funny.but i know what approach Anxiety is like it sure is hard to over come but it will go away with practise .

[CIAOfilms]

i enjoyed your video...

however i disagree with one thing...

caring about other people's criticism is not a trait...its a learned behavior...

The system does not teach us to be assertive/perceptive/personal empowerment...

it teaches us to be obedient/fearful/self-consciou­s...(easier to manipulate a person)

traits are genetic...learned behavior is environmental...

but sometimes there is an overlap...

[KinkYBQY13]

he doesnt really mean this kind of criticism u mention i think. he means the fear of what other people think of u or if ur acts are normal.and hes right many people have this problem some times me too

[gqplaya2000]

Your right. However, he was just trying to get a point across. The main point is that fearing other's criticism is not good for you in life and in pick up.

love the video. My philosophy is just do it. nike.

gqplaya.

[ltkhokie1]

Alex Coulson Original G.

[esen123]

thanks Alex , have you seen "the ten"? thats a cool movie , you should check it out. pace

[worldofaddictcraft]

how do u tell how old someone is?

[dwademvpheat3]

use your judgment and just ask

[brrach]

lol