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  • shit. -_- ....

  • looking at richest/mighty people of the world: barely females there. the ones that are there are not using their bodies to earn power. girls keep thinking you can manipulate the males while we only fuck whoever we want and let the idiotic bobs take care of you and make you think you own us. in reality you dont and most choose the path of looking like a whore (that means styling permanent and wear "sexy" cloths) looks like instead of educating yourself to really create any kind of domination role

  • easyest way to pick up get all your $100 and change them into $5 notes fill your wallet up to the max and go hit a bar or club then all you got to do is flash a lil bit of cash make it look like you are a rich bastard it will get you layed at least.

  • I have been talking to this girl and she seemed interested and then all of a sudden she told me she is talking to someone else and she wanted to see how it worked out but that she didn't know what she wanted.

    You say move on but my options have been limited for awhile. I don't know when my life fell apart I used to be able to get women and over the last few years nothing. I just don't get it.

  • < nice guy my whole life and you know what I realized? Just do what the hell you want + no women = no drama and happiness...

  • You make this sound so much easier than it actually is...

  • I've been the sideline guy more than once. It sucks.

  • The thing is i love her

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  • BUT WAIT, THERES MORE!

    I really like your advice, however i dont think its the whole picture. I think youre absolutely right, (hard as it is to face it because I'm in a similar situation) but there can be more to it if youre a guy willing to up your self-dicipline.

    So- yes, move on, and exit her life as a "friend". Then, depending on how long youve known her, wait a few weeks or even a few months before re-entering her life with a clear and new sexually charged intent.

  • wow am i really getting advice on chicks by a chick?

  • The sky.

    Well, I have the perfect solution. Just call her 13 times a day, and always leave a message when she doesn't answer. Make sure you sound really sad. Then offer to buy her a big bouquet of flowers. It also helps if you pant like a dog. Try these tips, and see if she doesn't run to your house and knock on your door at 4am, begging you to let her in. When she does, tell her you're trying to sleep.

  • awesome... good job vanae

    

  • Be a side line guy, you want to be the guy she cheats with, not the guy she cheats on. Then your off to the next slut.

  • lol i was the sideline guy and i stole this chick from this dude after 3 months talking to her everyday and we were together for 6 months, we broke up 2 months ago but im just saying, maybe sometimes itll work if the chicks a whore and does the same thing to you. :)

  • lol....

    

  • Omg I'm the sideline guy.....sad times. Time to move on

  • Please do not play the music so loud. Can't concentrate on what you say! :)

  • i need help.. im a sideline guy but... i love the girl but idk how to just stop loving her, im only in 8th grade but i feel like i can spend the rest of my life with her.. help?

  • @Rapter560 Bro, move on. Don't pull the whole "I may only be in 8th grade, but this could be one of those rare times that work out in the end." That's a huge waste of time. Find another girl. If nothing works out and this girl is freed up in the future, say 2 or 3 years from now, go for it. But right now, move on and find a new girl.

  • Same advice in a different format.

    Stop being needy.

    You shouldn't be chasing after a woman, woman should be chasing after you!

    It sounds harsh, but it's true.

    She should want to be with you.

    Be the chased, not the chaser.

    Until then, your the needy guy she doesn't give a damn for, and while you wine and dine her, offer her sympathy, support and attention, your life falls apart.

    She won't notice, because she's only worried about herself, and some other life situation, or man. Learn to be alone.

  • fwb !!!!!!!!!!!

  • i hate girls hating good guys makes me depressed and anger

  • The cut copy music is nice....girls are confusing.

  • Good advice.

  • To summarize: girls are stupid.

  • U give me a raging hard-0n. When iz u gonna back up to this stiff junk?

  • Nice Guys Finish Last...BUT THEY DO FINISH!!!!

  • @romans52345 no they don't they finish FIRST, bad guys get locked up and fucked in the ass, DON'T BELIEVE THE HYPE, the media is a big ass LIAR.

  • @romans52345 ..with the chicks they didn't want to be with.

  • Well what about just being friend in a male female friendship

  • You got this all wrong, so every male "friend" she has is a side line guy? I don't think so, don't completely stop communicating with a girl "friend" just because she has a boyfriend, especially if she like to talk to you.

  • NEVER BE A CHICKS EMOTIONAL TAMPON! See Sam Kinisen for the definition...

  • now to go and tell my friend his "friendship" is actually sidelineship. wonderful..... *eyeroll*

  • sometimes the best way to get someone to notice you is to ignore them

  • U SUCK!

  • Is a sideline guy a friend just to be used for consoling or just a friend in general? Can I ask if you have any sideline guys?

  • This chick makes sense, honest and great video! Found personally that not giving too much of a f helps, pedal stools are for morons and once there the only way is down!

  • thank you soo much I was stuck in this particular situation i like a girl she has a bf and like you said im always there when shes sad and all that sooo i decided to MOVE THE *F* ON ;)

  • you are rock and roll girl. Seriously...So much more comfortable receiving your advice than most the blokes in my life bar a few very wise ones (who would happen to agree with most of what you say). You restore my faith all round. Cheers love.

  • i found these vids on the list of a bo burnham vid

  • Wht if she kinda likes u but Wht u said is happening besides the part where she doesn't wanna talk

  • i bet you are a very, very picky dater. slim/built guys only. just like all the other girls out there.

  • WHAT IF SHE SAID " I'M NOT LOOKIN FOR A BOYFRIEND RIGHT NOW"???? OR "I WANT TO ONLY DATE YOU BUT I WANT TO TAKE IT SLOW!

    ' PLEASE ANSWER !!!!!! I AM TOTALLY IN LOVE WITH THIS WOMAN AND DO NOT WANT TO LOSE HER !!!!!!! PLEASE RESPOND.

  • I've been the sideline guy for someone for years. Had the biggest crush on her 15 years ago, lost touch, but reconnected recently and became the sideline guy yet again. Realized I loved her and just said screw it, it's gotta happen or I'm going crazy. We're happily dating now. She'd been in love with me the whole time too, so go figure. Being the sideline guy doesn't mean there isn't potential there, but you gotta either finally go for it or forget it cause it's just gonna drain you till you do.

  • @djtron1x thats hella chill, patience is a verture. It paid off. The chemistry between eachother and the energy between eachother thats been going on for so long probably created a solid foundationn of emotion between you two......thats something most of couples in this world dont experience anymore. Your story about you two is like something in a romance novel, real talk. Good for you bro.

  • Well u see my situation is that she has a bf but at the same time she really fckin likes me we always flirt she holds my hand and we like to kiss ... However she cant decide between one of us and i feel lik i cant wait forever for her wat should i do?

  • damn dead on

  • If you are a sideline guy/girl just forget about it, because you might actually lead to destroy their relationship by taking their attention of their bf/gf. And yet again, if you actually could do that, just think that someday,someone else will get her/his attention off you and there you go, the wrong person again. I was almost a sideline guy trice but always kept distance off these girls in relationship,they ended breaking up 3 of them because ppl these days aren't serious in relationships.

  • Its not true you would get no where.... Just keep the contact number..at some point if one is lucky, she might break up with the boyfriend, or they fight...we can move on, but keeping alot of girls with boyfriends, they sometimes break, and thats when you jump in....LOL

  • I think males and females can be friends though. Just because you are a good friend to a girl doesn't mean you are a sideline guy. By the way, most girls are sideline girls. They wait around and flirt until we make a move but nothing is stopping them from taking the" bull by the horns." Also make sure you're giving the guy or girl a clear message that this is not going to work. Some people unknowingly send mixed messages to their guy or girlfriends and they believe it can still happen.

  • To Bergmax1691: He still wants to fuck you, and he will want to fuck you until the day he dies. Because he's a man, and men don't forget about the ones who got away. Ever. So you go ahead and tell yourself that you were "lucky enough that we were both patient to get through it and realize our roles as best friends and not lover" because it's all fucking bullshit. Who do you think he thinks about, when he jerks off? Yeah. Exactly...

  • @caligero3000 LOL that was hilarious. So true though man.

  • @caligero3000, lol, SO TRUE. As much as girls claim to have wisdom on other women and what to do and what not to do, one thing I Think most of us men have noticed in women (yes, we're allowed to make observations too, though they are stigmatized and spat back in our faces far more often). It never ceases to amaze me how many girls completely delude themselves into thinking that they can be attractive to a guy and really believe he doesn't think of them sexually.

  • And how many of you out there (both girls and boys) know women that blatantly manipulate the hell out of basically whoever they can stimulate sexually? And most of the ones I met act completely clueless when we point out that they are doing it. I find that hard to believe. Now, young, hot, teenage girls unintionally leading boys on, it happens alllll the time. But we all know that there are plenty of girls out there that once they learn they can use their bodies like that without..

  • And how many of you out there (both girls and boys) know women that blatantly manipulate the hell out of basically whoever they can stimulate sexually? And most of the ones I met act completely clueless when we point out that they are doing it. I find that hard to believe. Now, young, hot, teenage girls unintionally leading boys on, it happens alllll the time. But we all know that there are plenty of girls out there that once they learn they can use their bodies like that without..

  • You look like an asian Keri Hilson.

  • Well, then explain to me how sideline guys become "backdoor men" in committed relationships. A lot of my experience was taught in a "sex party" system where everyone's sleeping with everyone. Girls would get bored or look for something better than what they settled down with.

    And as we all know, a guy would NEVER say no to good sex, sideline or no.

  • I used to sideline my best friend all the time. Im lucky enough that we were both patient to get through it and realize our roles as best friends and not lover. :)

  • The really sad thing, even when you realize this when it's not happening, is that when it's happened, you know it; the problem is you justify it so much.

    aieee

  • Or how about this? This girl I'm totally into has just moved on from breaking up with her boyfriend, and in recent months I've intensely studied and practiced how to give women multiple raging orgasms and make her wanna fuck the shit outta me. Now I meet of your "sideline guy" staples. And now, I'm gonna take your advice, shine it up real nice, and stick it STRAIGHT UP YOU CANDY ASS!!!!! Cuz I'm gonna get with this girl, and she's gonna love it. If ya SMELLLLL What the ROCK IS COOKIN'

  • Damn you hit right on the head I'm the guy who is in love with this girl and she just broke up with her boyfriend...... before i watch this video, i was gonna go into attack mode to get her. But this video was an eye opener, it's time to be more unavailable so i can move on. THANKS

  • you look like a gorgeous pornstar... you are so hot and beautiful

  • for a month).. what should I do? I texted her like 3 days ago, she was indifferent and after 5 or 6 sms she stopped replying. When she told me we'd be boyfriend-girlfriend in 6 months I wasn't scared at all, I'm not in LOOOVE with her, but I really do like her and care for her, I'm single, she's single, I haven't met anybody, neither has she; BUT I'm starting to feel this kind of fear about actually dating her since she's been so indifferent, what should I do?

  • my friend, he's living by now in another city because of college, but the girl and I are here, we've seen each other in this kind of "dates" .. lots of hugging and hand-holding, and it's been real nice.. I know I have to tell everything to my friend, but when? how? He's in the city right know, he'll go away in 7 days and I won't get to see him until the next december. And this girl hasn't spoke to me since we last went out, 7 days ago (which was really great because we hadn't seen each other 2/3

  • Ok, here's my situation. My best friend (a guy) introduced me to this girl he really liked, 9 months ago, she told him she did NOT wanted anything to do with him as more than a friend, he accepted it but he hasn't moved one quite completely. The girl and I became really close friends like 6 months ago, she's been single since we met, so have I. 4 months ago she told me "If we don't find any one that want to be with us in 6 months we'll start dating" I said yes, I havent commented anything... 1/2

  • I was the sideline guy for a married woman lol, then I became the separation boyfriend then hubby decided that since the girl he cheat on his wife with didn't want him, he would take her back. After being quote "The nearly perfect man" I was dumped for "never dependable" husband. Guys if a girl is stupid enough to pick a jerk over you, she ain't worth your time. You'll get over her and you will meet someone who does value you.

  • thank god my female friend are ugly,they're my sideline girls hahahaha

  • I did this once a few years ago. Trust me guys. Move on is the best advice. For one your being played and two your not out in the field picking up girls that actually like you cuz you're wasting time with princess. The girl using you may not even be intentionally being evil. Its just human nature for alot of people to have someone you take for granted. After it happened to me i decided to look in the mirror. Ill never string a girl along again. I didnt like it when it happened to me.

  • ...wow i feel like a douche now :/ fuck... sideline guy? cant believe i was dumb enough to think she liked me..

  • THANK YOU VANAE ! ! ! i think i am almost done waiting for that girl i had waited for years........

  • ...fuck

  • Sometimes it´s difficult to tell if someone is a sidelane guy.

  • trust being a sideline is half as bad being a side line chick

    men play with your emotion and use you like cheap disposable sex toy

  • @aylix89 pfffft... now, you know how we feel. the only difference is that you reserve the option to say "no" to anyone who approaches you. men approach women and as a result, women have all of the power at first. in the end, things even out but that's why you should give that proverbial "niceguy" a chance instead of these pricks

  • I'm the sideline guy but i also managed to get her in bed few times...

  • @weskoki vanae!? really!!?

  • pfff i feel so used!

  • This is all the same wording, style, etc. as pickup artists.

  • when I was @ Highschool there was this Girl

    I liked her like crazy untill graduation I never had the nerf to tell her how I felt

    afterwards I never saw her again !but thats just like foolish inmature highschool bahavior

  • @Sungkawa r u still in high school?

  • @fakesteezepolice University student actually !

    I meant 10years ago when i was still @ High-school

    what i mant to say feeling sideline is just childish and immature one who is at that age always encounters it's normal

  • dude stop having your music too loud. i like this tune but too loud at the beginning, but you're cute...

  • Do what you need to do for people you care about.

  • THANK YOU VANAE!!!!

  • Lol, oh wow... I even made a song called "Sidelines" ><;;

  • there are no "sideline" guys, just women whom enjoy having more then one guy at the same time in their life because they get bored easily, in fact they can't do it otherwise, they always need more then one, a friend, boyfriend and the backdoor guy.

    but in the end they all are waiting on a "sideline".

    thats why after you make em tools you endup a tool, a sex toy with great automutilation skills, more or less.

  • hey, what if you're friends with this person and you're in love with her and you let her know. But perhaps she potentially likes someone else and she just tells you to wait and get to know her better? Is that good or bad?

  • @nathantoronto77 bad that bitch is gone look for another slut.

  • theres a solution to all this LOWER UR FKEN STANDARDS stop goin for the fken hot ass girl and find out she doesnt like you and linger around like some homeless dog. all it means is she doesnt find you attractive and that = you dont have a chance.

  • @khOii SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!! we don't always go after the hottest girl you fucking cock sucking bitch.

  • agree with her 100%, get out of the zone that is the sideline guy zone trust me, if a girl wants a D and M with you tell her your busy, be supportive but dont comfort her and make yourself available so readily, for eg she might start telling you about a guy shes having problems with and what she should do about it, you should say something like this " your a mature girl im sure you can work it out", it says to her your not interested in her guy problems so she shouldnt take you for granted.

  • I don't think there is a girl that deserves me so I'm just going to wait until I'm old and have nothing to lose then I'll rape a hot bitch. Seriously I'm a fucking Nice guy this is just years and years of always being there for all different types of girls and never getting anyting in return.

  • @captaingangsta24 why do you feel that you deserve to get anything in return? You should help someone only if you want to not help them and expect something...

  • @Lazymewe Why shouldn't I is the better question? actually don't answer that your just a piece of shit. So you think I should be nice to every bitch and not get anything in return. Sorry but that just doesn't work for me maybe doing a favor for someone isn't bad, but when your constantly nice and do things for these dumb bitches you would expect something but no because girls are heartless bitches. Yet somehow you try and blame me for being nice you must be a girl with that evil twisted logic.

  • @captaingangsta29 I'm a guy and you may not be as nice as you think you are. Ever thought of that? Again, why be nice if you expect something. It's better to be straight forward and honest than faking to be nice.

  • @Lazymewe hit the nail on the head dude. As guy myself, I've always said nice guys aren't really all that nice, because they do this nice behavior for approval. They do it to supplicate, expecting something to turn in their favor. Its immensely dishonest in my book and goes completely against the idea of self respect you are SUPPOSED to be taught as a youngster.

  • @RNRDOLL that's bullshit. i'm a nice guy to everyone until someone pisses me off or abuses my niceness. don't lump everyone into one category

  • ok i have a question... what if the girl with the boyfriend gave you her number, and whenever you text you hit it off really well... thats my situation and i dont wanna jepordize anything... what should i do?

  • Sideline guy has to pay for the COW without getting the MILK.

  • @juneride epic

  • "this girl that i (reallyreally/like//wannafck/i­nfatuatd/etc) like, and, SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND"

    ..... uh...

    Get a FUCKING HINT jackass ---> SHE IS TAKEN <--- or as good as taken.

    NEXT!??! (the least respect you can show to her and her environment) kthx.

  • u r da 1st 1 whom I'm subs..ing. like ur voice n u talk vividly.

  • sideline guy?

    obviously she is a bitch, she just wants what seems good at the time for her.

    tell her to fuck off, call her a stupid bitch.

    shes an arrogant bitch, is infact actually stupid and boring, the only thing that you like about her is the fact that she 'acts cool' by not reciprocating the attention you give her.

    SHE IS BEING RUDE, AND INSULTING YOU.

    if people didnt pay her attention, she would end up begging or stealing, probably from her dad.

  • @daenumen hehehe LMAO

  • @ILUVJEZUZ94 true though, she doesnt know what shes talking about. beyond playing on mens minds with fantasies of pingpong balls, she doesnt cover anything that would be a basis for any sort of relationship except a teenage pregnancy alcoholism and abuse.

    see it was the webpage equivalent of these sorts of videos that rendered the internet 'useless' for genuine information.

    interestingly, abortion (by hard massage of the womb, aka 'the drunken fist of south stella') was originally chinese.

  • you make me happy only for today though

  • I remember when I was a sideline guy, it sucks beyond belief. I am happy I just stopped talking to her in a couple of months because it hurts like hell talking to someone you like but will never get with.

  • @trousien been there as well, life's a bitch xD

    although I managed to get over it rather quickly

  • @trousien that sucks. did you at least fuck her?

  • @trousien i had to stop too..

  • @trousien yep it does really hurts

  • I like your videos, great advices, you guys should listen to her, she is a girl... by the way i really to ask some complex questions i´ve got... maybe u can help me out

  • Love your eyes!

  • I have a friend like that but she sets me up with her friends. She is super cool and one of the guys . . . cept she is sleeping with one of my friends.

  • wow your really pretty how about rebound relationships, she says she really likes me but is it true

  • Tom Leykis will change your life- look it up

  • bring back the old intro ,tits better

  • Look guys the bottom line is if the bitch ain't gone give you no head, pussy, or kiss move the hell on or be a damn fool.

  • oh for fucks sake im the sideline guy, i just realised.....bah still hurts.

  • women go for the extroverted guys because they can't stand insecurity. its also why they get burned so much because the extroverted guys are usually banging your sister too.

  • In America, I was a sideline guy.

    However, in Russia, it was a different story.

  • @ApollosInsight

    In Soviet Russia, guy sidelines you!

  • @ApollosInsight were you a sideline girl?

  • good looks clear shit up

  • I don't want to be a side line guy....so can I fuck you in your mouth?

  • how you are always full of knowledge?? do you talk to the man in the sky...

  • is she still banging on? get a job you demented bint

  • Vanae, you are fucking hot!!! lmao

  • all these advice videos give the same advice.. "get over her." thats obviously not the answer people are looking for....

  • Love you, Vanae!

  • thank you for confirming my beleif and being honest and open.

  • i almost became a "sideline" guy once.....so i jus deleted that chick from my life.......i didnt wanna turn into a lil bitch lmao

  • nevermind it's at the end and i'm retarded.

  • what's the song at the beginning? shit was tight.

  • I don't get this women always bitch about their boyfriends and how they want them to be more nice or sensitive and yet this is what turns them off...wtf!

  • this is because u are more sensitive to comments from people u love tresure adoe respect. so a comment thats kinda rude that comes from ur mouth is sensitive but if it comes from him its insensitive and gets overanalyzed. simply put shes really doesnt listen to or care about what the scrub says she just uses their ear to vent.

  • good advice...i dont care anymore if i hurt a womans feelings..treat a girl like shit...hell yeah!

  • Good Advice Vanea

  • wow..i will say...good tip. Hard lesson i learned a few years ago. And the best one too!!

  • And she was a sideline girl I guess.

    Choose the right girl at the right time.

    Be the best person you can get anyway. then all women will want you.

  • fuck you, bitch.

  • lol thats right

  • you know what vanae? i really hate the way you think about relationships,,,it's just pathetic i'm not even trying to diss you but there are palces in the usa where the girl to guy ratio is waaaay unbalanced and there is no "GTFO and go to the next one...thats the way it is here. you know it would be nice if it were that easy but 50:1 just doesnt work to well haha so up here there is no other way but the sideline guy...

  • Move to another city...

  • am the same as (thisguybrian) so am i a sideline guy ??

  • am i a sideline guy? i like this girl who has a boyfriend and she likes me too.

  • no, you're just this guy Brian12.

  • fuck im the king of the sideline guy!!! man it hurts fucking hell

  • @Laney23 Don't be...tell a joke. Ask a girl, so what are you and your b/f doing this week. Is she replies what b/f and why? Say, well I just wanna know who you've been fkin u dirty skank. If a girl asks 4 ur name, say lucifer my friends call me lou. If you ever wonder what the devils like ur gunna get to me,( then say ) or if u prefer my bedroom? works like a charm. If she is talkin about an ex or sumthin, say," What about my goldfish? Oh, I thought we were talkin bout shit that doesn't matter.

  • @Laney23 Never be the sideline guy, don't do things if you know you'll regret, like being always there for a guy but not asking her out even thought you really want to.

  • @Laney23 i feel bad for you dude i hate it when people play the well i'm dating him but i'm gonna cry on your shoulder and txt you all the time and maike it seem like i really like you but i just want to be friends shit

  • @Laney23 at least u have ur own empire...