Dating + Sex = Heartbreak - Shay Your Date Diva

[MsNovember1976]

Dont get caught up you can like a men, but if you want to have sex "HOLD HIS ACTIONS ACCOUNTALE TO YOUR STANDARDS." If he is not calling dont, call him. If he is not making plans to want to be with you, dont make plans to be with him, If he is not TREATING YOU like you KNOW you should be treated, X him fast!! I am telling you this works. The transparency in men with are in their ACTIONS. Dont get mad when you see this behavior, go get the one who actions me your STANDARDS.

[yummieyummie123]

how do you tell a guy you don't want to have sex with him? I know it sounds like a dumb question but there is so much pressure to have sex. I was talking to this guy who would pressure me like crazy! :C

[delli2011]

i'm a man... i really don't like sex with a hot woman right away, 2 in the past month... cause i've been doing it lately and its soo empty... its much better to get to know each other, take it slow. I'd rather have a light kiss and much laughter which is a bigger turn on than sex...

[metriceh]

I agree with this video. I so hate when people tell me I am a player/ho because I go on dates. A date is what I use to tell if I want to go further with you. As long as I say that I'm dating and you should too what is wrong?

[alysiacollins1]

hey shay! i just met this guy yesterday at a local club. he presenedt himself really well. so i exchanged numbers with him. now he keeps calling and texting me saying that he wants to see me. i mean i dont mine meeting up with him but he is coming on too strong. what should i do about him coming on to strong?

[MsCuutie]

i saw a video, of interracial dating. I have this friend of mine that wanted to date a man from another country but she cant cause her father and mother wont let her.She ve talked to them, but they refuse and at same time they ve selected already a man for her in her homecountry to marry and she lives way far from him.They will make her marry this guy without her approval or knowing him well. Can you pls make a video of advice to what women in situation like this should do?

[MsCuutie]

Hi shay ,i just wanna say i love your book.Ive read it and it just is amazing how many things that i learned from reading this book. I totally agree with you on this video and the others. Some of it ive experienced my self, to be able to tell that what your saying is actuall true facts.

[XXXcapegirlXXX00]

Shay my boyfriend is cheating on me but I really really like him what should I do?

[lovein30days]

@XXXcapegirlXXX00 Sweetie, staying with him will only make you miserable. Leave! He doesn't deserve you so go get better!

[olga159]

dump him! it happened to me as well and I loved him so much. But I'm dating a new man who is 100 times much better! give yourself an opportunity.

[Nibbler800]

trouble with this is that some of the men 'on hold' are simultaneously seeking and having sex with any woman he can get until the curfew is off! I was approached once by one man who openly admitted he had a girlfriend he was 'dating' and he needed to 'get his freak on' so to speak in the interim (!!) Needless to say, I wasn't one of the obliging relief workers for him...but it did make me think of the poor woman he was fooling. Very disturbing.

[kim66660000]

love ur videos, plus love that u said about the haters. hopefully one day they will see and understand the truth of what you are trying to help me and other with. thanks.

[xxxtremelyhotchic]

I agree 1st or 2nd date tells you if you really like the person or not.

[shaniklmosley]

hey Shay I just wanted to to say keep doing what you are doin. I've watched quite a few of your vids. and the only way i could see a person not benefiting from them is if A: their ignorant immature and/ or inexperienced B: their in denial C: their ashamed, D: it's hard to except the truth. What i love about you is that you offer no apology for telling it like it is and require no validation . That's whats up. It's like your sitting in my living room with me over hot tea. I love you girl!!

[freek373]

hey sweetie, U got the cutest lil ole forehead

[dealmaker007]

The issue I have with this is that there is a real disconnect between the advice you are giving and what people are actually doing out here when they hear "you should date 3 men" come out of your mouth. Statistically, if a woman is dating 3 men, somebody is getting past the friends' zone and the other 2 guys aren't being informed of their true standing either, that's BS. So you can be coy and incognito and PC all you want to on the issue, eventually the truth comes out about this kind of thing.

[lavinder11]

I think she gives sound advice, and if the woman doesn't feel the need to be validated by sex it works out.

[dealmaker007]

lol I was about to say...100 dates...I was finna call you Wilma Chamberlain

[twalk2008]

I like your videos. something about you that seems so genuine...

[nolanj23]

LOL Damn if you have to clarify to grown women to not FCK all the guys they casually date, there's a lot of trifling, nasty AND RETARDED females out there. lol

100 MEN IS A LOT!!

[lovein30days]

Actually I am clarifying the definition of "dating" to the ignorant men who assume that because a woman goes on 100 dates she must be having sex with these men:/

SYDD

[fee20luv]

shay . i really need u to help me break up . with my boyfriend, he a good guy. but not the guy i need. can't wait tell u bring the vid out .on how to breakup with your currnet boyfriend

[lovein30days]

I am sorry sweetie. I am working on the video and should have it up by Sunday. Just hold on and be strong:)

It is nothing worse than to break up with a nice guy.

Kisses on Your Cheek:)

Shay Your Date Diva

[whitelighterangel78]

I love that idea of dating as a resume or job application...I also call it a way to sell yourself for the prospective partner. :)

[KenyaDabaddest]

OMG I'm so jealous of your weather, its so cold and gloomy here in Wisconsin. I like to say I loveeeee you'r video, you have so many valid points and they do come in handy...lol I would like to read your book. Where do I find it and whats the title? Thanks again for the great video's!!!!

[cfG21]

heh you should see florida. Today was like the first day when it got cold/

[sk8vixen]

Thank youuuuu! U r 2 awesome! Please come back with a video speaking on dragging out a relationship with someone whom you are not compatible with. I just ending a relationship in which we were'nt compatible and I'm interested with what you have to say.

[sav7909]

Common sense should tell those people leaving nasty messages what the definition of dating is...Don't worry about ignorant people like that girl. Keep up the good advice!

[ristobenjie]

Good advice. I still say there is a clear difference between dating versus being chosen and the ins and outs of that. Also, women can "know" most men sooner and greater than the reverse, it's all in what you all choose NOT to ignore.

[kat24101]

why is it all sunny there? where do you live? it's still really gross outside here.

[blacktigerwu]

most women do that anyway ,date 6 to 8 even more at a time.

[MsDivaOneLuv812]

You are doing a GREAT thing. Thank you. I want the book (at a discount). How do I do this?

[cfG21]

First! W00t!