I can only imagine the pain and the damage your mother had inflicted from listening to you. You seem to have a very broken spirit and the life force is weak. My mother is a sociopath as well, but not as bad as your mother. I am lucky compared to you. I have a chance to leave her, forever. Wish me luck.
@Worldgirl1984 Then she also goes all Münchausen syndrome by proxy (MSbP) on me when "the tables are turned" and says o myy chillld is sickkk ,..she needs medicationn ,...I don't know what to dooo..etc. Well then she's talking about herelf being sick,..cause I said I will act like her ,to her, as her mirror-punishment,.....and sheee can't handle it! haha....but still tries to drive me nutsss and more worse by the day :(...now I try not to talk to her and stayy away..but she's stalks everyone!
Hell has no fury like a woman scorned! When Women are evil there is nothing much that can compare. I have also experienced life having an abusive Mother & it's a dreadfully damaging experience. Especially Mother to Son relationships! E.g. look how Ed Gein turned out! However when we get older we do have a choice. I can only suggest you turn your back on these Women & start living for once before she destroys you completely. Mother or no Mother!
You have done a really amazing thing here. Thank you for sharing. My mother is a psychopath too. You are a good person, honest and thoughtful. You deserve so much more. These women are a travesty.
@reesescupbrandy1 It's not all bad. When you pretty much raise yourself you have the luxury of choosing what sort of adult you will be. This no way makes up for the loss of guidance but it is a small consolation. Thank you for your reply.
Sorry buddy. I understand your pain. Dude, you seem so sad...I'm sorry...I'm very sorry. I love you man, I know that sounds crazy seeing as how I never have met you; but I understand as I have dealt with with a similar reality with my own mother. God bless you buddy...
Just point out her behaviors that cause upset to yourself and whenever she tries to start something, just say/shout "No! I will not engage with you when you are like this! This is a boundary between us! I am an adult, I can choose behaviors to tolerate and what not ! If you choose to reject me on account of this, then I will leave and I reject you as a mother! But if you do not, understand that I cannot live with you like this, so either quit it or I must leave for my own sanity I must!"
@osheaad You don't get it. She doesn't care. He could say that and never see her again and she wouldn't care. He is better off never seeing or talking to her again.
You will never be well unless you unplug from your mother and give her nothing. For those who harm do not payback good. Attention and speech is supply. Don't speak or acknowledge. Don't listen to anything they say your answer must always be NO. Remove their web from your life. The sociopath is a disease burn and cut them out. They are not a human being. Soon enough they will find another sucker just mind that it isn't you.
There are social workers and courts that can help you. You need to speak to a professional in your area. You need to talk to your local Churches and the pastor there of your situation. There are aprox. 300 mil people in the U.S.A. You must rise up with every trick in your bag, you have them if you've gone rounds with a sociopath. Your approach here is all wrong and suspect because the 3 things the define the disorder is: Lack of Empathy, Lack of natural fear, and Looking for Sympathy of others.
Autisticblog I have known sociopaths. You must change your perception. The wy they see the world isn't how it works. The best treatment is unplugging moving away from this horrible influence. They don't want you to leave because you provide the supply. You must unplug from your mother and the jerk landlord or she will be the death of you. You can move get a new landlord and be distant. Distance creates respect. Therapy brings about independence. Must break free from smother CUT chord FOREVER!!
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Fuck you, you old homopouf. You are a god damned sociopath. Get some hair. YOU HAVE antisocial personality disorder. You smell like shit. You are a god damned loser. You're bald. You're old. My mommy took away my toy. Fuck you. Grow up, you god damned loser. You suck shit. Someone should lunge a knife into you and fix your fucked up face, you latent child molester. You are fucking ugly! That's not your mom's fault. She should have aborted you when she had the chance. FUCK YOU FAGGOT!
@QualityAndrogyny When you call him faggot you know that you are projecting right? You objectified him instead of looking at his mental condition. Stop thinking with your dick, pervert.
After Katrina, I was in New Orleans, and ran into a sociopath. I was intwined..kidnapped basically. Eventually I met his mother. She was a sociopath also. She had a houseful of brainswashed elderly people stealing their disability money. I called 911, but she got her minions to turn the tide on me. I have PTSD. Also, I have a sociopathic landlord. Sounds like you do/did also. Sociopaths admire power, and grovel over it, and my theory is that's what attracts a person to being a landlord.
@MYV382N your insensitive comment is a clear indication to all you tubers that you're the looser but on top of that you're extremely weak. Whilst you cowardly hide behind your PC shouting your uneducated mouth off this guy proves how strong he is by finding the courage to come on here in person to share his experience, which in turn helps support other victims of sociopaths. Get a life or should that be conscience!!!
the only person extremely weak here is this guy, your comment is "clear indication" of your support of weak pathetic fags- they don't need your sympathy darling, they need a nice kick up the arse.
i like how you're telling me about yourself, it's real interesting- especially the part where you tell me you care about me, yeah that part was cool. 'LOL'
@MYV382N as your a sociopath i would expect you to interpret what i say as you do & boost that big ego of yours by deluding yourself into believing that i care about you 'LOL'. Im fascinated with sociopaths & enjoy playing with them, just like i am with you. From a 20 word comment that you wrote i worked out that you were a sociopath so clearly you're telling me far more about you than you will ever learn about me, isnt that cool 'LOL'
u b trollin' right? just so you know, you're spilling way more than you think, which really doesn't surprise me because you don't seem to think much at all. if i knew you.. ;) ..haha, i don't think your imagination stretches that far. you generalise way too much and so, i'm forced to generalise on your intelligence. byebye now 'pathy's getting bored :C
@MYV382N me a troll haha, your so predictable 'LOL'. It appears all sociopaths educate themselves from the same manual. I dont generalize, my fascination with sociopaths has put me in hands on situations were i had to learn how to think like one in order to survive. Like you im a risk taker. You will only ever know what i willingly share, whether that be indirectly or directly. You getting bored already, see thats were we differ 'LOL'. Its been a pleasure BYE BYE X
"I don't know what else to do" That sounds familar! I was in a relationship with a sociopath for 4 years, and had 2 children with him before I left him (taking the children with me). Then 2 months later he got his diagnosis confirming that he was a sociopath. He used that EXACT phrase repeatedly; "I don't know what else to do." And he would be sobbing when he said it... Thankyou for sharing your situation.
I relate entirely with all you have and still are going through.
I think though that you have overlooked an important fact, you are now AWARE of what you are dealing with, something she is lacking, and knowledge is power.
none of it is personal which i know means little, now you have to take time away from her, permanently if need be, to heal, you come across as very articulate and brave.a tent on a farm will be better than living with her.you are free now
Thanks for pouring out your heart. All I can say is try to make a friend that you can share your problems with. Maybe help you find an apartment where no landlord will even see you or bother you. Seek help from others, that is my only advice and stay away from your mom.
I can only imagine the pain and the damage your mother had inflicted from listening to you. You seem to have a very broken spirit and the life force is weak. My mother is a sociopath as well, but not as bad as your mother. I am lucky compared to you. I have a chance to leave her, forever. Wish me luck.
ytfmichaelxu 2 months ago
Sorry Dude !
cocobrown41 4 months ago
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I went And am still going through kinda the same thing,.. ANd I just fire back
as in: O so you want to be a sociopath heyy ,. watch me back-fire it at you
10 times as muchhh,..how do yah liKe me nOw biatch! ...and then sheee
acts like the victem actually convincing herself that she never did
anyyyyything and wondering out loud whyy I at act the way I act.
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@Worldgirl1984 Then she also goes all Münchausen syndrome by proxy (MSbP) on me when "the tables are turned" and says o myy chillld is sickkk ,..she needs medicationn ,...I don't know what to dooo..etc. Well then she's talking about herelf being sick,..cause I said I will act like her ,to her, as her mirror-punishment,.....and sheee can't handle it! haha....but still tries to drive me nutsss and more worse by the day :(...now I try not to talk to her and stayy away..but she's stalks everyone!
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Hell has no fury like a woman scorned! When Women are evil there is nothing much that can compare. I have also experienced life having an abusive Mother & it's a dreadfully damaging experience. Especially Mother to Son relationships! E.g. look how Ed Gein turned out! However when we get older we do have a choice. I can only suggest you turn your back on these Women & start living for once before she destroys you completely. Mother or no Mother!
Weston1968 5 months ago
You have done a really amazing thing here. Thank you for sharing. My mother is a psychopath too. You are a good person, honest and thoughtful. You deserve so much more. These women are a travesty.
MsExtinctionist 7 months ago
@MsExtinctionist
Damn! How does it feel when she raised you? I can never imagine.
reesescupbrandy1 2 months ago
@reesescupbrandy1 It's not all bad. When you pretty much raise yourself you have the luxury of choosing what sort of adult you will be. This no way makes up for the loss of guidance but it is a small consolation. Thank you for your reply.
MsExtinctionist 2 months ago
Sorry buddy. I understand your pain. Dude, you seem so sad...I'm sorry...I'm very sorry. I love you man, I know that sounds crazy seeing as how I never have met you; but I understand as I have dealt with with a similar reality with my own mother. God bless you buddy...
ConvergenceMinistry 7 months ago
Just point out her behaviors that cause upset to yourself and whenever she tries to start something, just say/shout "No! I will not engage with you when you are like this! This is a boundary between us! I am an adult, I can choose behaviors to tolerate and what not ! If you choose to reject me on account of this, then I will leave and I reject you as a mother! But if you do not, understand that I cannot live with you like this, so either quit it or I must leave for my own sanity I must!"
osheaad 8 months ago
@osheaad You don't get it. She doesn't care. He could say that and never see her again and she wouldn't care. He is better off never seeing or talking to her again.
TheMightykaz 6 days ago
sociopaths think that they are God... well I cant wait to see what happens when they die.
NikeshalovesCasey 9 months ago
I'm so sorry! I hope that you have a life of abundance from now on!!! God bless you! You are a strong man for having endured such pain!
NikeshalovesCasey 9 months ago 3
You will never be well unless you unplug from your mother and give her nothing. For those who harm do not payback good. Attention and speech is supply. Don't speak or acknowledge. Don't listen to anything they say your answer must always be NO. Remove their web from your life. The sociopath is a disease burn and cut them out. They are not a human being. Soon enough they will find another sucker just mind that it isn't you.
abby495 9 months ago
There are social workers and courts that can help you. You need to speak to a professional in your area. You need to talk to your local Churches and the pastor there of your situation. There are aprox. 300 mil people in the U.S.A. You must rise up with every trick in your bag, you have them if you've gone rounds with a sociopath. Your approach here is all wrong and suspect because the 3 things the define the disorder is: Lack of Empathy, Lack of natural fear, and Looking for Sympathy of others.
anamasteos 9 months ago
Autisticblog I have known sociopaths. You must change your perception. The wy they see the world isn't how it works. The best treatment is unplugging moving away from this horrible influence. They don't want you to leave because you provide the supply. You must unplug from your mother and the jerk landlord or she will be the death of you. You can move get a new landlord and be distant. Distance creates respect. Therapy brings about independence. Must break free from smother CUT chord FOREVER!!
abby495 10 months ago
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Fuck you, you old homopouf. You are a god damned sociopath. Get some hair. YOU HAVE antisocial personality disorder. You smell like shit. You are a god damned loser. You're bald. You're old. My mommy took away my toy. Fuck you. Grow up, you god damned loser. You suck shit. Someone should lunge a knife into you and fix your fucked up face, you latent child molester. You are fucking ugly! That's not your mom's fault. She should have aborted you when she had the chance. FUCK YOU FAGGOT!
QualityAndrogyny 10 months ago
@QualityAndrogyny Don't ever talk to another human being in this way, ever again! So cruel.
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abby495 10 months ago
@QualityAndrogyny When you call him faggot you know that you are projecting right? You objectified him instead of looking at his mental condition. Stop thinking with your dick, pervert.
abby495 10 months ago
@QualityAndrogyny hair? smell? murder? ..... silent until spoken too
effingya 8 months ago
You poor man. God bless you.
toddmorrow1 11 months ago
After Katrina, I was in New Orleans, and ran into a sociopath. I was intwined..kidnapped basically. Eventually I met his mother. She was a sociopath also. She had a houseful of brainswashed elderly people stealing their disability money. I called 911, but she got her minions to turn the tide on me. I have PTSD. Also, I have a sociopathic landlord. Sounds like you do/did also. Sociopaths admire power, and grovel over it, and my theory is that's what attracts a person to being a landlord.
persiamotorman 11 months ago
I feel your pain... I have a borderliner mother. She gives and takes it back.
TheSmiaf 1 year ago
i am everything you just described. well im a sociopath i guess.
creekrocker 1 year ago
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ffs so your mother doesn't care about you- so fucking what? care about yourself you fucking loser. jesus what a fag.
MYV382N 1 year ago
@MYV382N your insensitive comment is a clear indication to all you tubers that you're the looser but on top of that you're extremely weak. Whilst you cowardly hide behind your PC shouting your uneducated mouth off this guy proves how strong he is by finding the courage to come on here in person to share his experience, which in turn helps support other victims of sociopaths. Get a life or should that be conscience!!!
ifthecapfits1 1 year ago
@ifthecapfits1
the only person extremely weak here is this guy, your comment is "clear indication" of your support of weak pathetic fags- they don't need your sympathy darling, they need a nice kick up the arse.
MYV382N 1 year ago
@MYV382N only a SOCIOPATH would see him as you do. I'd say you need therapy but theres no cure darling.
ifthecapfits1 1 year ago
@ifthecapfits1
lol i like how you put sociopath in caps as if i genuinely give a shit.
MYV382N 1 year ago
@MYV382N i only give a shit about people who are worthy of me caring. Do i give a shit about you, CERTAINLY NOT LOL
ifthecapfits1 1 year ago
@ifthecapfits1
i like how you're telling me about yourself, it's real interesting- especially the part where you tell me you care about me, yeah that part was cool. 'LOL'
MYV382N 1 year ago
@MYV382N as your a sociopath i would expect you to interpret what i say as you do & boost that big ego of yours by deluding yourself into believing that i care about you 'LOL'. Im fascinated with sociopaths & enjoy playing with them, just like i am with you. From a 20 word comment that you wrote i worked out that you were a sociopath so clearly you're telling me far more about you than you will ever learn about me, isnt that cool 'LOL'
ifthecapfits1 1 year ago
@ifthecapfits1
u b trollin' right? just so you know, you're spilling way more than you think, which really doesn't surprise me because you don't seem to think much at all. if i knew you.. ;) ..haha, i don't think your imagination stretches that far. you generalise way too much and so, i'm forced to generalise on your intelligence. byebye now 'pathy's getting bored :C
MYV382N 1 year ago
@MYV382N me a troll haha, your so predictable 'LOL'. It appears all sociopaths educate themselves from the same manual. I dont generalize, my fascination with sociopaths has put me in hands on situations were i had to learn how to think like one in order to survive. Like you im a risk taker. You will only ever know what i willingly share, whether that be indirectly or directly. You getting bored already, see thats were we differ 'LOL'. Its been a pleasure BYE BYE X
ifthecapfits1 1 year ago
"I don't know what else to do" That sounds familar! I was in a relationship with a sociopath for 4 years, and had 2 children with him before I left him (taking the children with me). Then 2 months later he got his diagnosis confirming that he was a sociopath. He used that EXACT phrase repeatedly; "I don't know what else to do." And he would be sobbing when he said it... Thankyou for sharing your situation.
TheMrsAmanda 1 year ago
sounds like we were separated at birth... she is female however and will get a sympathy diagnosis of borderline... which is no different at all.
HerrSpieldose 1 year ago
@HerrSpieldose
aha yeah, if you're female, you're BPD. it's actually different, just, people can't accept that some women just aren't "nurturing".
MYV382N 1 year ago
@MYV382N you talk out your arse hole lol
ifthecapfits1 1 year ago
hello my friend from over the pond.
I relate entirely with all you have and still are going through.
I think though that you have overlooked an important fact, you are now AWARE of what you are dealing with, something she is lacking, and knowledge is power.
none of it is personal which i know means little, now you have to take time away from her, permanently if need be, to heal, you come across as very articulate and brave.a tent on a farm will be better than living with her.you are free now
wayovamyed 1 year ago
Thanks for pouring out your heart. All I can say is try to make a friend that you can share your problems with. Maybe help you find an apartment where no landlord will even see you or bother you. Seek help from others, that is my only advice and stay away from your mom.
manderbos 1 year ago