Hmmmm no wonder why some ships don't sail right, bad captain makes for a bad team, If the captain doesn't come with a different tactic then i think it's about time to jump ship!!
I like the metaphore of a ship, but I think the Imam made a mistake to presume that the man is the captain. I think many times women make better captains in any field, so it should not be presented as a fact that the man is the captain.......so I was a bit dissappointed by this 'old fashoined' remark!
Do you realize how the lecture focuses on pleasing the wife more over the husband? That is because if the husband is happy only one person is happy, but if the wife is happy the entire household is happy
asalamu aleikum...did you listen to the whole video? Obviously not;otherwise, you would have heard the story behind what he said in the beginning. Your comment is a clear example of how lots of non-Muslims (and Muslims, too) react. They hear a piece and jump to conclusions without taking time to listen and learn. Allah swt knows, indeed. Please be a good example and be thorough in your responses. This means stop and listen completely, then use the right info to clarify the truth. Watch the video
Marriage is about u and your spouse. It is not something parents do u you.
In Islam forced marriage is not allowed though in Muslim societies it has happened. The man has to ask woman's father for permission to get married. But the girl's father cannot deny without a valid reason. The girl's father in principle dont have that right. Because Islam do not allow discrimination. If the father do not give permission Shariah allows Qadi (judge from court of justice ) to establish the marriage.
"And among His Signs is this, that He created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them, and He has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for a people who reflect" (from Chapter Al Rum in Quran)
Westernizing morrocons is as bad as arabizing them so keep your true islamic culture and behaviour, Modernization is different then westernization. All westernization brings into countries is porn,drugs,corruption,poverty, it's more useless than arabization. It encourages the kids to adapt things from what ever they see in magazines and media and pretty much creates no goals in life for kids or adults, especially for our women who marry european/amerikan foreigners.
great great lecture about love between woman and man
MrYassinMek 9 months ago
asalamoalaikum.
is there any way a person from pakistan can directly contact the shaykh? any phone number, an email id, anything?
ramlaqureshi 10 months ago
one of the best lectures I've heard :)
alimah92 10 months ago
True words coming from good man.
I believe this man.
(( اقرءوا القرآن فإنه يأتي يوم القيامة شفيعاً لأصحابه )) [ رواه مسلم
Rourba 1 year ago
Hmmmm no wonder why some ships don't sail right, bad captain makes for a bad team, If the captain doesn't come with a different tactic then i think it's about time to jump ship!!
Shabzana 1 year ago
mashallah JZK...it's very nice hadith..
iluvisalam 1 year ago
Masha Allah I love shaykh Riad for the sake of Allah :D Cant wait to attend the his almaghrib class-"valley of the seeker" soon insha allah !!!
muslimah798 1 year ago
maschALLAH thats so awesome
Jizyaa 1 year ago
Mashaalah and Jazak Allah Kheir for this wonderful lecture
hassanfauzia 1 year ago
@hassanfauzia
ukhti ,please write spellings properly .
Masha' Allah .
Be careful since we are praising Allah .
KhilafahTimesAhead 1 year ago
Excellent video - we need more of these video to all our brothers and sisters in Islam....And the West think we are backwards - I DO NOT THINK SO!!!
AmrLoverable 1 year ago
Masahallah jazakallahu khayr! awesome lecture!
muslimah798 2 years ago
Masha'Allah, amazing lecture.Loved it.
Jazakh'Alah khair for uploading masha'Allah.
Asalamu 'alaikum.
TheMuslimahSouljette 2 years ago
Mash'Allah. May Allah azza wa'jal, grant Shaykh Riad jannatul-firdous. This man provides amazing lectures, a satisfying theme, and a comforting tone.
Asalamu'Alaykum.
youcrazypersonyou 2 years ago 2
reminds me a little of a heart serene :)
m00chu 2 years ago
I like the metaphore of a ship, but I think the Imam made a mistake to presume that the man is the captain. I think many times women make better captains in any field, so it should not be presented as a fact that the man is the captain.......so I was a bit dissappointed by this 'old fashoined' remark!
ainsoeda 2 years ago
Commander in Chief is a higher rank than captain of the ship. Listen carefully.
AdmrlCrow 2 years ago 6
"put a pause on this"
not listening to the imam!
:P
bashir26 2 years ago
25:39 -- You know there's some husbands who call their wives, "Yo!" :D :D :D
abdelbaasit1 2 years ago 5
This sheikh showed some BEAUTIFUL Patience ma sha Allah - tabarak Allahu Ajma3een
mindmineral 2 years ago 4
Everyone don't Listen to the allegations and lies about Islam
don't even Listen to me
* do ur own research
** READ THE QURAN (the holly book of islam) by yourself
*** Prayed to ur creator for the truth
check out those vedio on youtube:
1- jamal badawi
2- ahmed deedat
(Scientific debates and lectures) ; It's not just emotion Know yourself and what ru doing here
(sorry for bad english)
READTHEQURAN2no 2 years ago 19
subhannallah
this sheikh is so funny
and i learnt so much fro, his talk world of jinn... make prayer on time, on time! he says.. now i run to pray when i here the azan.
may allah give him so much blessings and answer his duas. ameen.
fridaydayday 2 years ago 7
Assalam-0-Alaikum
sir really nice lecture..inshAllah this will be a great help .. yes we have to be balanced .. we have to be somewhere in the middle ..
and yes both people need to 'Show' their interest and care ..
and surprise her..lolz sure yes
and pamper her..lolz..YO!!
and Yes RESPECT is the key..
and yes things don't just end like..'You are Divorced..lolz..we are muslims'
and contnuous deeds..being consistent
really nice..hmm
Thank you for sharing..JazakAllah
StarScreamXero 2 years ago 5
Mashallah...Jazakallahu khayr!
muslimah798 2 years ago 3
Do you realize how the lecture focuses on pleasing the wife more over the husband? That is because if the husband is happy only one person is happy, but if the wife is happy the entire household is happy
badboymo86 2 years ago 37
@badboymo86
true words maschALLAH
Jizyaa 1 year ago
cll ur wife vinigar?? LOOOOL
BluesRBack 3 years ago 4
bahxar al hub..the ocean of love" =)
"the on that i love thru msn..lolololoolo"
am sorry this lecture is hillarious =>
fi aminallah
inshallah08 3 years ago 6
he told the same story in heart serene, in canada.
apocalypse1810 3 years ago
yeah i remember that story too
MayaFemmeFatale 3 years ago 2
i thik da he can divorce 5 wives at one, 1st he has 4 wives then marry the 5th the 1st w`ll divorsed ,then div all at 1ce
Allah knows
AllThingSPerish 3 years ago
asalamu aleikum...did you listen to the whole video? Obviously not;otherwise, you would have heard the story behind what he said in the beginning. Your comment is a clear example of how lots of non-Muslims (and Muslims, too) react. They hear a piece and jump to conclusions without taking time to listen and learn. Allah swt knows, indeed. Please be a good example and be thorough in your responses. This means stop and listen completely, then use the right info to clarify the truth. Watch the video
SheiRaga 3 years ago 5
i love this video..its really nice and funny..
michaelnikki 3 years ago 4
i have watcht this vidoe 4 times :D :D BEST VIDOE EVER
lawza3 3 years ago 4
MashaAllah, awesome lecture. Please pass it on to all the married couples you know that will inshaAllah benefit from this lecture.
imruthless 3 years ago 4
JazakAllahu Khair for posting. Beautiful reminder for all couples. Was this lecture held in Abu Huraira centre, Toronto?
purgirl 3 years ago 5
MashaAllah . I loved this. He was quite funny. a man divorced five wives in one minute. How? LOL.
Jihan8987 3 years ago 4
Marriage is about u and your spouse. It is not something parents do u you.
In Islam forced marriage is not allowed though in Muslim societies it has happened. The man has to ask woman's father for permission to get married. But the girl's father cannot deny without a valid reason. The girl's father in principle dont have that right. Because Islam do not allow discrimination. If the father do not give permission Shariah allows Qadi (judge from court of justice ) to establish the marriage.
orangeberry80 3 years ago
"And among His Signs is this, that He created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them, and He has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for a people who reflect" (from Chapter Al Rum in Quran)
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orangeberry80 3 years ago 3
2:13 so is shiekh saying that meeting someone off net is haram?
vvvTTTvvv00 3 years ago
He's talking about people marrying online without their parents knowing.
khalifahklothing 3 years ago 3
so if i go online to some moslum matrimonial website is that considered okay?
vvvTTTvvv00 3 years ago
Don't know, ask a shaykh.
khalifahklothing 3 years ago 3
@vvvTTTvvv00 No bro he is talking about when people talk online without consent of their parents you know "talking" on msn
CINTERPOL 1 year ago
Westernizing morrocons is as bad as arabizing them so keep your true islamic culture and behaviour, Modernization is different then westernization. All westernization brings into countries is porn,drugs,corruption,poverty, it's more useless than arabization. It encourages the kids to adapt things from what ever they see in magazines and media and pretty much creates no goals in life for kids or adults, especially for our women who marry european/amerikan foreigners.
vvvTTTvvv00 3 years ago
aww...mashallah..his talk is v gud..he has a different approach..v sweet..does he have any other talks on here?
n4h1da 3 years ago
haha, this brother is quite funny
mindurownbiz 3 years ago
She smile is so important...I love my husband's smile, It warms my heart. He loves mine also, and the smiles of our children.
TinaSoFresh 3 years ago 3
that is sooo beautiful sister, may Allah increase your love for eachother...
mizzmuslimah 3 years ago
Jazakullah khair, ameen.
TinaSoFresh 3 years ago
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D7KNYH 3 years ago 5
Inshaallah, Ameen
TinaSoFresh 3 years ago 4
nice lecture! another dose of lecture around 8:00 ...LOL
mounir1426 3 years ago 2
Jazak'Allahu Khair!
StabbingEcstasy 3 years ago 4
best video ever!!!!!
lawza3 3 years ago 4
Very nice lecture. Jazakallah Khair for uploading
Juwayriyyah20 3 years ago 4
Jezekom Allah khayran!
newmann83 3 years ago 4
SalaamAlaikum, MASHALLAH, JAZAKALLAH KHAIR.
spiritlite 3 years ago 3