because black women are dumb self-hating whores who want pink white man's penises just like in porn that's why! good black men need to date good black women not "hot" or "bad" black or mixed bitch because all these dirty fake whores wants money and ugly pale small dick crackers! MAN UP AND WAKE UP MY NIGGAS BECAUSE WE NEED MORE REAL DARK SKIN BLACK SONS OBAMA IS NOT BLACK. BLACK POWER!
I totally agree. While I'll be the first to appaud educated bw, too often, I also encounter black women who use their college degrees as 'intellectual' braggin rights and nothing more.
When confronted, these same women get so caught up in their fake ass-intellectual snobbery that they don't even put forth effort to wrap they minds around simple logic.
Come to think of it, I'm sure their college degrees would be put to better use by wiping my hairy black ass.
well I AM A BLACK WOMAN...with A STRONG BLACK MAN...stop the excuses ppl...wake up..we are fighting each other while the "white man" laughs at all of our dumbfounded actions..you don't think for one second that somewhere all of the comments that we make against each other are being used as tools to break us farther apart....watch television..I mean really watch it and see what's really being done. Hell look at our so-called candidates..they think all of us are on welfare..HELL WAKE UP!!
black ppl come together and stop fighting! what would our great leaders like malcolm x and martin luther king say? better yet what do you want to teach your son's and daugthers? stop blaming the black woman and stop blaming the black man, stop blaming other races, or comparing to other races and just come together!
Nice aint real. Thats the problem. ITs not about people that are violent. Whats being done is that a person is not responding in a real way if they are always nice. Women have Biological traits , they have to be turned on. Nice does not do it.
Women don't understand mens code system. Real nice guys are guys that have been throw the ropes. Women don't understand this, they think its weak. Who's going to tell them..
@te4888 Well then we will just have use " Sweeping them of their feet and keep'n laughing for 5 straight minutes" That should fix it.. That will melt them down a bit. That will give them a chance to see what will be crawling on them in the future..
its actually a survival instinct for females because the nice guys in my experience turn out to be more crazy and psychotic then there "bad" counterparts. It is the intial hiding of the true self that draws the flag. The perosn who comes off tough and bad is actually a pussy because they are trying to hide their true selves. The nice guy is trying to hide his true self becuase maybe at an earlier age he realized ho much of a monster he was.
@lmkejame22 Wow. Interesting take on the matter. I've certainly dated a couple of "nice" monsters myself. Stalkers tend to come off as "nice guys", in my experience.
Part III of III. So instead of finding a man who can and does do the right thing for himself on his own, and supporting that man, these women instead choose men who either don't see their own potential, or who are incompetent or indifferent to realize their own potential, or men who don't see and correct their own defects. Why is this? We are taught that males are SUPPOSED to come unpolished. And SOME women love to (or feel obligated to) polish stuff. But these men are typically deeply flawed.
@TeachTheWorldToThink those 32 inch rims the dope boyz have seem are very polished. I do not think they are broke they are the opposite of broke. I have a song called dope dealers girl.That talks about certain things I saw.I am not saying all women are like that because they are not. I think if they like you they like you broke or not.But I feel they will walk all over a nice guy because they see it as weak In a time of war kindness is a sign of weakness.
I was laid up with a women who was talking about her problems with her children father I told her I don't want to hear that shit because he did not have to lay up and listen to that shit.She respected me for that.But she did not know it hurt me so much to say that because I wanted to make her feel better.I could not show her the way I felt for real.My sister told me I have to learn to be an asshole but do not get carried away with it
@ThePerfectBlack100 Again, it is all in what you look for. I can't relate to "32 inch rims" or "dope boyz", nor can any of the black women with whom I associate myself. When I think of the dating world, "dope boyz" never come to mind. That's not my world. If that's your world, it's because you chose it. And polished rims don't make a polished man. I think "broke" and "nice guy" have become uncertain terms. I think in general, men and women understand something totally different from those terms.
Part II. So while many men these days don't see anything but the brutish, so-called bad boy getting play from nurturing types, the truth is you only see what you want to see, or what you pay attention to. MOST women never even go for THAT type. It's most often the broke men who have some kind of skill, talent or academic gift that women see and they want to help build the man in the career arena on that potential. What these women don't understand is that GOOD men want to and will self-develop.
I'm just going to tell you the truth about it. Because you don't understand. When Black women are very young, we feel an urge to cultivate unripened potential that we see in young men. If there is something about him that is "rough-edged", we want to smooth it out. If there is something half-cocked, we want to help straighten it up. Doesn't mean the imperfection has to be brutishness. It can be ANYTHING amendable. If he seems perfect, younger women see no development/nurturing potential.
Black women..if this isnt enough to show you that black men are the enemy -i dont know what is.
black men are just plain evil. Fuck em in the worst way! leave these white washed negroids ALONE!
Or else, they will kill you ladies. They do it everyday. and if any of you have some sense- you will stay away from these devils in black. they are the tools of the racist white man. the racist white man has passed it on to black men. If youtube hasnt shown you that-dont know what will
@impatientwithdesire You've been watching way too much YouTube. I'm not saying that there aren't black men who have inherited the value system and belief system of racist males/females, not saying there aren't black men who are the enemy. There are plenty who fit the bill. But it is unfair to the good black men to lump them in with the bad. Black men, like black women, are not a homogeneous group. You've got good, even pristine ones, and you've got rotten ones as well. That's with any group.
@TeachTheWorldToThink im notlumping all black men..i have dated great black men and are friends with many black men who i would die for.
But PLEASE dont think that is the majority of black men
Becuase...no offense, if even a substantial amount of black men were better-we would have better communities.
Not saying all or most black women are victims either..even though im not african american (though still black) i have studied the african american culture..i see how the two sexes relate but..
@impatientwithdesire We'd have better communities if we worked together rather than against one another. I can't say what the "majority" of black men are like, but whatever black men are like (by virtue of being black), black women are the other side of that coin, because "blackness" is blackness, regardless of gender. But again, the pigeonholing of black men or black women (even just saying the MAJORITY are this way or that) is very flawed and unreliable. Most PEOPLE I know are a piece of work.
but black women have been left alone to fend for themselves..and thats where differences between the two sexes should not overcome what needs to bedone.
And you say i watch too much you tube.
Thats a problem in itself.
Do you know how many people watch youngblack men bash black women on here, daily?
People of all ages, races, genders, beliefs etc.
THATS A HUGE PROBLEM
That makes all blacks look stupid
And it influences the younger generation of stupid generalizations of themselves.
@impatientwithdesire It only makes ALL BLACKS look stupid to people who are already looking for ALL BLACKS to look stupid. I believe most of us (black people) are nothing like the stereotypes or the hatefulness. So why would WE be looking stupid? Just because of our skin and hair similarities??? I agree YT can be harmful for young minds at times. But now that we know there is a problem (black women ditched, young people exposed to harmful, slanted media, etc.), what solution would you propose?
@TeachTheWorldToThinkwhat are black men doing to change black PEOPLES image.
I see men of all races taking care of theirs..what are black men doing?
Yall ask for "working together"
Well i see black women (despite your opinions on our attitudes) waiting, crying and dying for black men to marry them-so much that they wont even pay attention to interested nonblack men.
And black women taking care of black children and the community ALONE.
Seems like bw are left to do a lot..where do bm come in?
@impatientwithdesire #1 I'm a black woman myself. #2 Once again, you are lumping all black men together by asking "What are black men doing?" If I had one wish, I think I would wish for everybody to be black. That way, no one could say "black men this", "black women that" anymore. People would be forced to look at what is really going on. LOW CLASS men aren't caring for their women, children & communities, not BLACK men. Deadbeats are LOW CLASS men of all colors and cultures. (to be continued)
@TeachTheWorldToThink Why are black women always defending men who almost never defend them?
Ladies-you complain about being single and lonely--but you open the field for it!
If you dont EXPECT men to respect you, protect you, love you, provide for you, care for you, dote on you etc...then they WILL continue to treat you like they treat you now.
I dont know why OTHER RACES OF WOMEN UNDERSTAND THIS!
@impatientwithdesire I don't defend hateful, bitter, disrespectful, indecent, lowest-common-denominator black men. Later for them. I defend black male royalty--my son, my step-father, etc. Maybe you should feed your mind a little more with the faces and words of real black men, like Mahadi Baruti, Mwalimu K. Bomani Baruti, Dr. Ben Jochannon, Ashra Kwesi, Sara Suten Seti, Umar A. Johnson, Ra Un Nefer Amen, Haki Madhubuti, Clarence James, Sr., Sizzla, Macka B, Ayi Kwei Armah, Amon Rashidi, etc.
@impatientwithdesire You are too focused on the dregs at the bottom of the barrel, instead of focusing on the black diamonds. Those of-no-account negroes you are trying to make seem like representatives of the entire "race" are NOT in fact representative of black culture. They only represent an inferior SUBculture. You insult yourself by suggesting that they are a part of your own (black) culture. They are not. They are waste material. Again, later (better yet, never) for them. Forget them.
Meanwhile bm can be horribly abusive, namecalling you, putting you down and YALL STILL want them.
A man cant call a group of women gold diggers for doing the same exact thing other women are doing unless this group of women keeps accepting those titles.
And STOP saying it isnt all black men. Thats a given! Hello?
Do you need 100% of black children to be fatherless?
You mean 72% isnt enough?
Do you need billions of bm in jail-the millions now arent enough?
@impatientwithdesire SOME (the dregs only) can be horribly abusive, name-calling, etc. No, we DON'T want THEM. At least I don't. Only man I ever loved, I cut him out of my life after he used abusive language against me. Immediately. Never looked back. Personally, I reject the term/construct "gold digger". No such thing. You can weigh a short stack of paper (and call it gold) against a priceless human being.
72% seems like a lot when you LUMP EVERYBODY TOGETHER. And your numbers are inaccurate.
@impatientwithdesire You're trying to blame deadbeatism on the fact that someone's skin happens to be black. I don't accept the false idea of "race". It's a lie. Being black doesn't make a person abandon their children. Social conditioning and social conditions do that. There aren't "millions" of BM incarcerated. There are two million total PEOPLE in prison in the U.S., including women. MANY are innocent. Are you ignoring the facts and being selective about reality? You can hate.......
@impatientwithdesire ...you can hate BM all you want, but at least be honest about the situation. No need to exaggerate the facts. And if wanting a good black man is "settling", as you put it, simply because he is black, then that means any man who wants YOU is settling, because according to you, YOU are black. It cracks me up how some of you try and make it seem like there are two types of black--a male black and a female black, with only one of them being negative. If you are f'd up for.....
@impatientwithdesire ...if being BLACK makes MEN f'd up, then we've got to be f'd up across the board, not just stopping at one gender. Otherwise, it makes no sense. A person would have to be either stupid or dishonest with themselves to believe that some particular biological trait makes a person either f'd up or ideal, especially if ONLY based on some other biological trait (Bm good, Bw bad; Ww good, Wm bad; Bw good, Bm bad; Wm good, Ww bad; etc.). Blanket statements can't be selective.
@impatientwithdesire I've worked in the system (commonwealth child support agency). Deadbeatism does not have a color. Furthermore, I know white women who have children with white male low-lifes. Don't put this ALL on black people. We have enough negativity pinned on us. Yes, most black women are dedicated to black men and to their children. Yes, black people have to beat the odds and do better. Kicking AA men who are already down won't bring them up or inspire them to raise themselves up. (more
@impatientwithdesire 3 of 4. You can´t change the low class black men who don´t want to improve conditions among black people. But you can distance yourself from them. Or if all you are doing is studying groups, it behooves you to include those men who are taking care of business. There are lots of black men who are quality, decent, dedicated men who respect and honor black women and black children. Maybe not 10s of millions, but they are out there. They deserve acknowledgement and recognition.
@impatientwithdesire 4 of 4. Stop telling yourself that all AA men are scum. It´s not true. If you keep believing it IS true, that will be all you see and all you come across. There ARE beautiful black American men. I just met a new one two days ago. He had no reason to try and impress me, because he is happily married. I´m adding him to the mental list of the likes of Randall Robinson, Denzel Washington, and other black men I know personally who are on the job & happily married to black women!
Oh you mean those eight black men that dont go to jail, take care of their kids, get an education, dont do drugs or pistol whip and actually dont need a white woman on their arm to feel like their slavemasters?!
Wow...i met those guys-but half of them were gay.
Not sure how those eight would have been enough for all the black women out there though
What I do regret here, is this Mr. Bobby Hermmitt is obviously speaking common sense from life's experience which is the definition of wisdom...and I regret that this video clip, (which is tremendously educational,) is painfully short. It's straight-up, cold-hard talk. No political correctness or bullshit...it's just too short and there's not enough of this kind of stuff here on YouTube. This man is speaking like a father to his son...and some of us need to LISTEN TO THIS! Who else will?
This is BS! Women don't want thugs. I've never liked a thug. I've gotten nice guys & I'm glad. My father was a good guy. Most of the ones who don't want a nice guy didn't grow up with her father. Often times these men get thrown out by her mother. She hears how bad, mean or nasty her father was and fantasize how she unlike her mother could have handled him and tolerated him. So she imagines herself with a bad guy. So she's tests her tolerance by dating one. It falls apart. Her mother was right.
@TheAmbassador11 I don't watch television (nor many hollywood movies), so please educate me. Who are all these caricatures that are being glamorized and held up to be real men? What do you mean by "real men"?
@TeachTheWorldToThink I get that you don't watch much TV but many people do. The videos that show the "gangsta" rappers with the exotic cars and beautiful women. A women looking for a man who can provide financial security may look in that direction. Many brothers have never had proper role models. TV glamorizes thug culture, American Gangster, Menace to Society has men and teens propering and with a "hyper macho" nature. Women like protection of course. cont
@TheAmbassador11 Those videos are targeted to boys, not women. Of all the people I know personally who are crazy over gangsta rappers are mostly children and immature men, not women. All day long, I see boys and man-boys walking around blasting the nonsense through mp3 players. 24/7. I hardly see girls and women THAT tuned in. Be honest. How many WOMEN are looking to rap videos for their examples of providers? Those shows are geared to boys and man-boys, not women.
@TeachTheWorldToThink So they feel that if a man is acting like "O Dog", he can protect her. These men are being held as "real men". It is rare ( if anytime at all) that you see a "strong silent" type brother who can handle "his" on TV. These images from TV, movies and other media outlets are powerful. If a black woman has not seen alternative type brothers, what do you think she will chose from? She sees the same images in the movies and TV that exists in her environment. Con't
@TheAmbassador11 Sounds like the problem is the absence of "alternative" type brothers in some women's environment, not TV alone. But why do YOU continue to consume those images? And what are you doing about those images (and absence of alternatives), other than complaining about them? That's no attack on you, but just asking, because I see no point in bemoaning women's exposure to nonsense if nothing will be done to change things.
@TeachTheWorldToThink It's all about "conditioning". The problems exist for black men. Lack of role models. Let me take this to a spiritual level; the devil has been allowed to define black manhood, much to the detriment of the our people. There are bm that love the Lord and can/will protect family. Good spiritual men but we don't hear about them. We do, however, hear about Tim Tebow. There are black atheletes that have the same convictions but we hear about the ones that get into trouble.
@TheAmbassador11 I think the problem really is pigeonholing. I frequently see and hear black men talking down about "thugs" etc. and using the term very loosely, to say the least. The most on-point thing you've shared is that both men and women have a duality. Rougher men aren't all bad, and softer men aren't all good. Men who profess to love the "Lord" aren't all good (many are horrible) and those who aren't Christian definitely aren't all bad. GOOD men come from various walks of life.
YOU ATTRACT WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT MOST OFTHE TIME "EARL NIGHTINGALE" A PIONEER ON PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT. YOUR VIDEO IS RIGHT. MOST OF THESE WOMEN ATTRACT THE WRONG MEN BECAUSE THEY FEED THEIR MIND WITH THE WRONG VALUES. TODAYS SHOWS ON CABLE TV>>ALL THE HOUSE WIVE SHOWS ARE EVEN MAKING IT WORSE ON THE MINDS OF WOMEN. WHEN THE MIND IS SICK IT WILL ATTRACT DYSFUNCTIONAL SITUATIONS. THAT WHY MOST MARRIAGES DONT LAST IN THE WESTERN NATIONS. LOVE, SACRIFICE AND PATIENCE IS LACKING TODAY.
Your story about the pschyopath and his female fan-following sum's it up perfectly. I could NEVER make any logical sense out of the vast majority of women's choices concerning a mate. The men who are actually making something of themselves in life are considered boring while the "men" who are on a one-way path straight to an early death and hell to pay for it have women all over them. This demonstrates that American women have extremely deeply rooted mental and emotional problems.It's epidemic.
@ruapraia You can't apply logic to any of it because the math will never add up. Emotionalism and logic will never make any sense to each other; and where-as men can be logical, women seem to be attracted to men who are emotional...and violently so.They seem to identify with that ridicilous thought process while any form of actual common sense is totally alien to them.If women used any measure of common sense at all, perhaps 90% of these out of control black as well as white men would be alone.
@MrSchultzstaffel I blame the mothers of those girls, because the mothers instill this fairytale about how a man should be. Not to mention the corporate mainstream media propagates an image that glorifies the thug, the scumbag, and greasebag. Parents need to pull their kids away from the TV and teach them about morals and values.
@Grizzly907LA For some reason we don't want to show the consequences of "thug-life' in this country.Black men who go to jail and get involved in homosexual activity and when they get out they take that AIDS virus right back to the very community they victimized only to give it to black women.Where do drugs and drug dealing lead you to?Prison.These facts are never demonstrated by the media.How attractive would these thug-ass losers be in the eyes of these insane women in light of those realities?
@MrSchultzstaffel Its ultimately up to the individual of who they want to be and who they want to be with at the end of the day and we are all responsible for our choice, and have to suffer the consequences. A lot of white women go for the bad boy rock and roller. Its an epidemic in this country.
@Grizzly907LA But choices do have consequences,and that sword cuts both ways...which these women have to understand.You can't blow your youth away chase'in after worthless thugs, drug addicts, violent gang-bangers and dreamer-party-boys only to turn around years later and wonder why you can't get a good man. These women didn't want a good man...they wanted to party. So they went after a man that fit that ambition. But good men who have worked all their life don't want a second-hand, party-whore.
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Black Men. You cannot defend these scandalous, inferior, disrespectful, white-washed, gold-digging & traitous black roaches in America. They give out their numbers. Which that means: fake numbers, doesnt answer tha phone or plain boring as Hell 2 talk 2. Then had tha nerve 2 wonder why men doesnt respect em. Fuck em U.S. Black Roaches to Hell!
i had a lousy mother. i was following up under that bitch. so that is why i attracted asshole men. but i do like nice guys. i've had boyfriends who were nice.
I picked a "nice guy" and after being together for 9 years, he left me with a son to raise and later on married a woman who already had kids, who according to his cousin won't work.
@Empha84 I know he's not a nice guy. That's why I put it in quotation marks.I was into that "black woman 'yo luv 'gon change him and bring the black man on up" nonsense. You're right though. I did pick him. Oh well, he's not end all to be all. Life goes on. My mate's out there somewhere.
@itsmissvsworld God will put the right person in your life just be patient. Sadly a lot of young girls not all want a ruff neck and not a humble dude. Even if that guy seems square he is probably better than an abusive man who beckons you to do all his bidding.
Women who overlook good blk men and deal with these niggas, "thugs", etc has a PROBLEM!!! Alot of these black women just need to stop buying bling, drinking, partying, tattoos, wigs and weaves and popping out babies. Get a bit of education to learn how to speak, use birth control and get damned jobs.
No offense, man, but there are plent of black dudes who act the same. Too many of them are having kids by different women and not helping to support them. Too many of them are involved in selling drugs, gambling, sleeping around and disrespecting the elderly. Then they wonder why people don't respect them. Black men are just as guilty and need to face up to their responsibity and stop putting the blame on the black woman for their failures.
blackmen im a female and I MUST SAY I AGREE WITH YOU totally. TAKE YO SORRY PUNK WEAK SELF IGNORANT NO BACKBONE SOFT SKIN CRY BABY ASS ON OVER TO THE OTHERSIDE WHERE THE WEAK IS. MOVE BITCH NIGGAZ GET OUT THE WAAAY AND LET A REAL MAN STEP IN AND HANDLE THE STRONG RIPE ORIGIONAL BLACK FRUIT. IF YOU KNEW HOW TO SEW REAL SHIT THAT A BW CAN FEEL, THEN DUMDUM YOU REAP THE HARVEST YOU WANT HER TO GIVE. U SO LAME. OR LIKE TRINA SAID NIGAZ AINT NOTHIN BUT HOS AND BITCHES. (listen to the song) LMAO!
I just wanted to say that Bobby Hemmitt is not with that gender war shit.99% of the time he has nothing but good things to say about the Black Woman.Just look up more of him on YouTube.
And 1 more thing, everybody is gon get somebody that somebody else is through with.
Just don't hang around for attitude from any crazy black females! Otherwise, a brother could end up in a straight jacket. Most of them just want thugs, anyway, so why bother, anyway?
I was unaware that "good" translates into "chauvinistic psychopath," but whatever you say... Yes, absolutely, I need an abusive, insecure caveman to come & keep all the awesome guys away from me! Have a good one, Tiny. Or do you prefer Itty? Dude, it's just so obvious.
daddy issues brother issues thats gona be daddys son issues thats gona be daddys and blackmen that wanna be daddy to the women.say what you want its a blackman and black woman issue.not all but most.
i want to appologize to the women in brazil it was to let the brothers know that black women is stressed out everywhere behind BM lack and exuses. when it come dwn to BM with any race of women they want 1 or 2 things, thats a DOORMAT with no mouth or a SUGAR MAMA with a pacifier and bottle.the kitchen and the bedroom was LIMITED enough. come on now we deeper than that. we got a mind and a soul to use too.keep it real yall know i aint lying.
AND TO ADD LOOKING AT BLACK CULTURE IN BRAZILLE THEM WOMEN LOOK LOOSE WEAK AND SHOT THE HELL OUT AND DISRESPECTED. SO POINT STILL REMAIN BLACK MEN STAND UP AND TAKE A STAND AND BE REAL WITH YOURSELF. GOING TO JAIL GIVEING UP ON YOUR LIFE ISNT OUR FAULT ITS YOUR DADDY'S. CHAIN REACTION THATS ALL IM SAYING. GET IT TOGETHER.
response to the leave these black women alone. my point exactly that black men need to become more spiritual knowledeable and wise and be there for their black women that is their mother woman and daughters. also to respond to the brazilian and whites seeing this, we as black women are angry that our brothers invest in gold digging white women and their family tree because white women stroke their ego making BM weak ass punks like their men. brothers stop running from us into an illusion.
Preserving the black race in the U. S. is the main purpose for BM and BW to be together. In 50 years this country will be one color. Listen, It is best that most black women leave nice guys alone, Because they will do something stupid and this good man will turn into a thug and abuse will follow. Next he will be locked up , lose his good job, Stay away from these women good black men. Don't think about p___y! That will come. Take a trip to Panama or Brazil-leave these women ALONE!
we are angry with blackmen because you lost yourself. we as black women had yall back from the beginning of time and you let white boy break your spirit and expect us to continue to except your ingnorant indirect anger towards us. KINGS ! please get out the mind set of a little boy and raise yourself up you dont have to be nice just be right from your heart and love us and your kids. no more adam and eve excuses. thats white boy B.S. raise your wisdom my brothers. peace
i will comment hopefully for all women. our black men lost their way with us. im sure there are good men out there but where you at? men say we dont want nice guys its true we want warriors protectors providers and lover. and most of all true kings with strenghth truth and a damn backbone where its important to the survival of family integrety and respect. blackmen complain like women and wont let a woman be good to them. they wont let us express our gifts outside the bedroom. to be cont..
Response to you vanityrose - First of all, I am not clear as to whether you are a man or a woman. Your name throws me off. Second, if you are having trouble meeting women, you can thank your brothers for that. Also, the women I know have all blamed themselves, I think a little too much, for the men that they've ended up with. The problem is most black women end up with Mr. Wrong when he's black, which is why I think its great that bw are dating men of other races now more than b4.
What's so bad about it is there 's not many black women to choose from in the first place. There are more dateable black men then black women go figure.
@blackberrysix Let's stay civil about this,but statistics don't tell the whole story. Notice I said dateable black women. There's probably billions of dollars worth of gold on the moon. I can find any woman at least 5 decent black men a week, but you wont find 5 decent black women a year in reality. If you know please tell me where they are.
No it's not plenty blk men that will want a black women. Have u ever visited any1 in jail. Look at all the blkmen who now want a blkman. Here in America the blk man is few baby.
So true. I am who u r spking of. In the hood where I'm from ain't to many nice guys. But once we figure it 3 kids 20 yrs later u got so much regret it's silly. I will never marry again and I will only fk wit a conscious man as friends or a mate. I can't grow with who I'm wit right now he mentally dead. queenofqueenz71@gmail.
You holla u can't grow w/ who ur w/ but evidently ur still w/ his ass! Sad! Women draw doggish men to them,like Bobby said, because they r ratchet-ass thinkers anyway of sex,money and all kinds of low energy shit!
this fool and his mother don't know anything about women or way they the way they are and it sounds like his mother was mistreated and learn to love it.it like this people will be as good or bad by the way you treat them and i mean all people and black women have been mistreated by black men for so long that now you don't like the way they are,but it your own making.blame her,blame the white man,clean up your own act boys and grow up into Men.
Thank you for your response. However, I don't think it is the fault of black women. Many of us were not taught how to find a marriageable, decent black men ( which is what you said) because many of us had mothers that did the samething and by the time 'we get it,' we are very often much older.
@Monikblessed how many times do you have to put your hand over the fire before you figure out that it burns...i'm not saying all black women but i've been dealing with this my whole life....i've been told that i have my head on right and nice looking but i'm just not "their type".....then they get shitting on by a few bad boys and then they scream "all black men are dogs"....they'll gladly burn in hell before they admit that they picked poorly and put themselves in that bad situation
I think you have a point but you are missing some important facts. The first being can unresolved childhood abuse/issues be the reason for some of our decisions as black men and women? Also, is it possible that there are just not enough decent black men to go around and black men know this and therefore play 'musical chairs' with black women? Is not it interesting that when black women date other races that they end up married?
@Monikblessed The problem(in his opinion) is exactly as he stated in the video.When females are young, they tend to go for the fuck ups.The problem with young girls in America, they need to be reeducated.They have it backwards.They want to fuck up their prime years chasing the shitty dumb dudes & then turn it around after they hit 27/28/30, after collecting all that baggage, to find a good man.They should use those peak years(16-25 IMO) to find a mate, not think it's fun to play musical chairs
@DirtyFaceCapon3 How is this concept that you presented about young women any different from the majority of men who spend their mid-teens through early twenties sleeping around with all types of females, and then at age 25 want to settle down with a virtuous woman? By the way, I'm not advocating either of these scenarios, I'm just trying to understand how they are different.
@SetApartBeauty Men and Women have different natures.Men don't get hit with a social stigma when it comes to sleeping around.It's an accomplishment for a man to have that many women under his belt.You're looked at as cool & you even become more attractive to other women because they figure you must know what you're doing.And yes, a woman who wants a man for what he has can be looked at as a gold digger,but in this society,the majority of women are gold diggers.Why not take the hot ones if U can?
@DirtyFaceCapon3 We didn't make it that way, this is what the world gave us.Thatc being said, we're not exactly a moralistic, high standard society as it is.Sometimes we get idealistic thinking about how it could & should be, but the reality of the situation is a whole lot uglier.
As i said, it's not an accomplishment for a woman to sleep with a bunch of men.A womans test in life is to not be promiscuous.I think men naturally respect 7 place a high value on a women like that
@DirtyFaceCapon3 Not only that, it's dangerous for a woman to sleep around.They get pregnant and have to recline for 9 months.The brunt of the consequences hits them the hardest.You know when a man ejaculates inside yo, apart of his cells stay inside of you forever?Women with multiple baby daddies are being pulled in 2 or 3 different directions at once.It can drive some of them mad.Not to mention the psychological/physical effects of having a abortion.It's a dangerous game for females
@DirtyFaceCapon3 what about the men?,don't you have something to say about them?,do a man need to fuck every woman he can get his hands on?,is it ok for him to do the same but not for her??,are men better then the woman? and is it not a dangerous game for males??,oh yea! and as for going mad am such you did not mean to leave out what this have done to the old black men.
@blackberrysix It's not good for anybody.I'm just saying it's more dangerous for women.They're not built for that kind of lifestyle.It's dangerous for men from a financial/std standpoint.I don't think men are better than women.The average man doesn't have the luxury of knowing that he can get laid any time he feels like it.He's going to take what he can get.Women, on the other hand, have that luxury.A girl could be working at Denny's and still have Jay z & Bill gates fighting over her.
@blackberrysix The double standard will always exist because of this fact..men have to have "tools" to attract a woman..on any level..they also have to charm and seduce. To do this to multiple females simultaneously is difficult. That's why the ones who can get props. Women don't need to do shit but look sexy and be friendly..hell they can just ask most brothers for some dick and they'll get it. Technically they could fuck a different guy every day if they chose..I'll continue
@sonnysugacane yes they can! the women can get all the dicks they want.and that is because men are weak and have no control of them self and most black men will fuck any thing that moves.don't care about nothing but cooling off his balls and the black woman know that about you.so she say to her self ( I can Fuck You when am Ready and untill then Fuck You).
@blackberrysix See how you missed the point..We're talking about getting MARRIED not just a booty call. Of course yall are getting dick..that's why yall have all those kids and expect the established guys to pay for YOUR mistakes! HOES brag about how many DICKS they can get..WOMEN brag about their husband and children and lifestyle. Now guys know which one YOU are! You obviously are one of these dumb ass females..get a PIMP stupid HOE!
@blackberrysix Men on the other hand..can't do that. They have to spend time, money, game, all types of shit to get even one night stands. Women don't have the cards stacked against them in this way..If they only say "yes" to certain men and "no" to most..it lets a brother know that he has someone of VALUE. She could've said "yes" instead. Plus, I haven't met a woman yet who wants to turn out a virgin man..they prefer experience. Practice makes perfect! Lol
every BM learns the hard way about BW, & it is sad but, i now have 5 rules that only apply to BW. (1) don't look, (2) don't talk, (3) don't touch (4) if she makes the first move, i must be careful & (5) if she is not a lover & she want to go out on a date i always leave my money at home. now logicaly this should work against me but, there is nothing logical about BW & i'm not sure why this strategy works.
ALL I CAN SAY TO THE KINGS OF THE EARTH, PLEASE DON'T GIVE UP ON US. I KNOW THAT WE HAVE MANY ISSUES, AND THERE ARE SISTERS LIKE MYSELF WHO ARE TRYING TO EDUCATED AND ADVOCATE BLACK LOVE TO WHOEVER WILL LISTEN. I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOU KINGS, AND I UNDERSTAND THE SPIRIT THAT IS OPERATING BEHIND MANY OF YOU, AND I AM PRAYING FOR YOU. I CAN'T CHANGE THE WORLD BUT I CAN SPEAK LIFE TO THE SPIRIT OF EVERY KING I ENCOUNTER. PLEASE, DON'T GIVE UP ON US! WE NEED YOU! ONE LUV! ~QUEEN T~
@QueenTMakila. thank you for your comment it is very encourageing but, although it may be too late for me i hope you can reach out to many other BM who put BW first but, came out last.
@rikshaw223 That made me smile because I don't believe it has to be too late for you. It has to be an issue for you that has weighed heavenly on your heart and I hear you. I still say don't give up on us. I can't speak for all of us because I understand where you are coming from; I just say that there are some of us out there who want nothing more than to love a black man. The issue is that many don't love us. One Luv! Queen T~
Black women should date outside their race. All the so called "good black men" are chasing white women, so I think sisters should do the same. Leave these negros alone, they will only bring you babies and problems. They want to screw you but they don't want to marry you. RISE up black woman, get yourself a good white or latino man that will appreciate you;)
@REIDDEBSTER Did you listen to the video or did you just come in her to push your agenda?It seems as if you saw a black men in the video, clicked on it without hearing what he had to say, and spewed the same propaganda you've probably left on a thousand other videos
@REIDDEBSTER Wow! Sorry to break this to you but white and latino men are watching all this unfold between BM & BW. Trust, they'll accept the piece of a** they see coming their way as any race of men would. But many BW are trying to run from themselves. The problem is WHO you are, not who you're WITH. Not trying to hate on yawl, but I doubt it'll change even with guys of another race. The women I know that did try IR dating usually said they had sex and got sent back home. YEP by the white guy.
brothas if you can conduct yourself in a manner that is respectful to the creator, then whatso ever women that makes you happy is yours for the choosing, taking in consideration that choice can be a global one instead of around the corner, in the hood, or down the street. The African American Male is desired worldwide my brothas, believe it! Yeah i understand the propaganda, but save your money on these materialistic women and travel and see for yourself. You'll never go back to weave again.
forgot the main one...RESPECT. Sistas I have to tell the truth... you pick the ones that will disrespect you. You pick the ones that hurt you. You pass over the ones that treat you good. Use abuse them like they are a sucker, because you repeat what was done to you, and make THEM the sucker. I understand it, but your selection of mate started this cycle and the correction of this will be the only thing that stops it.
First my brothas women all over the world seek comfort, safety and protection. Yet what is different is the quality and standards they are used to. American sistas require a lot. What they offer is ?? Good sex, when? Peace, love & Harmony, when? how to treat their man that they say they care about ?What were the values practiced at the crib? You learn that from people you grow up with, family and friends and such. Many african americans recently, provide bad examples of these relationships.
As stupid as it may sound it's probably because of the adventure.
Most women seem to be turn on by the fast life, money etc. Videos/Media has a lot to do with it because whenever you turn to BET that's the type of men that women seem to be flocking.
And to closed-mind black women you might be considered as a sell out but to me you aren't because maybe you just feel that it's time for something new.
This is the problem, that all these men label all black women as one way or another. You can't label every young black woman as one thing or another. None of you know every black woman. I do like nice me unfortunately I have never met a black man who was really nice. Even if he pretended nice there is always something wrong (unacceptable ) about them. Black men need to really look at themselves. Are you really nice? And even if you're nice if you're broke and don't want to work than no way!!
@ellisonwrigh60srage Let me guess, you're (yet) another black loser who can't get a date and want to blame black women. Maybe you should look n the mirror. Oh, I;m sorry its probably broken.
We (black women) have to be independent. We just adapted to live without being catered to. I'm 43yrs old and every black woman I've ever known growing up was strong. These young girls today ( to me ) are very weak. I like the way you talk. lol!!!
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because black women are dumb self-hating whores who want pink white man's penises just like in porn that's why! good black men need to date good black women not "hot" or "bad" black or mixed bitch because all these dirty fake whores wants money and ugly pale small dick crackers! MAN UP AND WAKE UP MY NIGGAS BECAUSE WE NEED MORE REAL DARK SKIN BLACK SONS OBAMA IS NOT BLACK. BLACK POWER!
blckla999 13 hours ago
Brother NyOil has a song/music video just about this same topic....
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akakai 1 week ago
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@Neofcon
I totally agree. While I'll be the first to appaud educated bw, too often, I also encounter black women who use their college degrees as 'intellectual' braggin rights and nothing more.
When confronted, these same women get so caught up in their fake ass-intellectual snobbery that they don't even put forth effort to wrap they minds around simple logic.
Come to think of it, I'm sure their college degrees would be put to better use by wiping my hairy black ass.
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imobeus1 1 month ago in playlist Issues
There are plenty of non-black men available.
bandis522 1 month ago
@bandis522 Yeah... but most of them go after white women.
Ruckislx 1 month ago 2
well I AM A BLACK WOMAN...with A STRONG BLACK MAN...stop the excuses ppl...wake up..we are fighting each other while the "white man" laughs at all of our dumbfounded actions..you don't think for one second that somewhere all of the comments that we make against each other are being used as tools to break us farther apart....watch television..I mean really watch it and see what's really being done. Hell look at our so-called candidates..they think all of us are on welfare..HELL WAKE UP!!
Iamnotmyself31 1 month ago
black ppl come together and stop fighting! what would our great leaders like malcolm x and martin luther king say? better yet what do you want to teach your son's and daugthers? stop blaming the black woman and stop blaming the black man, stop blaming other races, or comparing to other races and just come together!
SEEKIN4BENEFIT 1 month ago
Nice aint real. Thats the problem. ITs not about people that are violent. Whats being done is that a person is not responding in a real way if they are always nice. Women have Biological traits , they have to be turned on. Nice does not do it.
Women don't understand mens code system. Real nice guys are guys that have been throw the ropes. Women don't understand this, they think its weak. Who's going to tell them..
TheOmnicell 1 month ago
@TheOmnicell well i don't want a man who's too real. that'll run me off.
te4888 1 month ago
@te4888 Well then we will just have use " Sweeping them of their feet and keep'n laughing for 5 straight minutes" That should fix it.. That will melt them down a bit. That will give them a chance to see what will be crawling on them in the future..
TheOmnicell 1 month ago
BLACK WOMEN JUST DON'T GET IT.
shawnkwill 1 month ago
is nice supposed to be synonomous with FOOL when it comes to a man? im wondering.
dragonpat666 1 month ago
Does anybody know how I can reach Bobby?
QueenTMakila 1 month ago
its actually a survival instinct for females because the nice guys in my experience turn out to be more crazy and psychotic then there "bad" counterparts. It is the intial hiding of the true self that draws the flag. The perosn who comes off tough and bad is actually a pussy because they are trying to hide their true selves. The nice guy is trying to hide his true self becuase maybe at an earlier age he realized ho much of a monster he was.
lmkejame22 1 month ago
@lmkejame22 Wow. Interesting take on the matter. I've certainly dated a couple of "nice" monsters myself. Stalkers tend to come off as "nice guys", in my experience.
TeachTheWorldToThink 1 month ago
Part III of III. So instead of finding a man who can and does do the right thing for himself on his own, and supporting that man, these women instead choose men who either don't see their own potential, or who are incompetent or indifferent to realize their own potential, or men who don't see and correct their own defects. Why is this? We are taught that males are SUPPOSED to come unpolished. And SOME women love to (or feel obligated to) polish stuff. But these men are typically deeply flawed.
TeachTheWorldToThink 1 month ago
@TeachTheWorldToThink those 32 inch rims the dope boyz have seem are very polished. I do not think they are broke they are the opposite of broke. I have a song called dope dealers girl.That talks about certain things I saw.I am not saying all women are like that because they are not. I think if they like you they like you broke or not.But I feel they will walk all over a nice guy because they see it as weak In a time of war kindness is a sign of weakness.
ThePerfectBlack100 1 month ago
I was laid up with a women who was talking about her problems with her children father I told her I don't want to hear that shit because he did not have to lay up and listen to that shit.She respected me for that.But she did not know it hurt me so much to say that because I wanted to make her feel better.I could not show her the way I felt for real.My sister told me I have to learn to be an asshole but do not get carried away with it
ThePerfectBlack100 1 month ago
@ThePerfectBlack100 Again, it is all in what you look for. I can't relate to "32 inch rims" or "dope boyz", nor can any of the black women with whom I associate myself. When I think of the dating world, "dope boyz" never come to mind. That's not my world. If that's your world, it's because you chose it. And polished rims don't make a polished man. I think "broke" and "nice guy" have become uncertain terms. I think in general, men and women understand something totally different from those terms.
TeachTheWorldToThink 1 month ago
@TeachTheWorldToThink Well I am speaking from a perspective of a man coming from a community with a high crime rate
ThePerfectBlack100 1 month ago
Part II. So while many men these days don't see anything but the brutish, so-called bad boy getting play from nurturing types, the truth is you only see what you want to see, or what you pay attention to. MOST women never even go for THAT type. It's most often the broke men who have some kind of skill, talent or academic gift that women see and they want to help build the man in the career arena on that potential. What these women don't understand is that GOOD men want to and will self-develop.
TeachTheWorldToThink 1 month ago
I'm just going to tell you the truth about it. Because you don't understand. When Black women are very young, we feel an urge to cultivate unripened potential that we see in young men. If there is something about him that is "rough-edged", we want to smooth it out. If there is something half-cocked, we want to help straighten it up. Doesn't mean the imperfection has to be brutishness. It can be ANYTHING amendable. If he seems perfect, younger women see no development/nurturing potential.
TeachTheWorldToThink 1 month ago
Black women..if this isnt enough to show you that black men are the enemy -i dont know what is.
black men are just plain evil. Fuck em in the worst way! leave these white washed negroids ALONE!
Or else, they will kill you ladies. They do it everyday. and if any of you have some sense- you will stay away from these devils in black. they are the tools of the racist white man. the racist white man has passed it on to black men. If youtube hasnt shown you that-dont know what will
impatientwithdesire 1 month ago
@impatientwithdesire You've been watching way too much YouTube. I'm not saying that there aren't black men who have inherited the value system and belief system of racist males/females, not saying there aren't black men who are the enemy. There are plenty who fit the bill. But it is unfair to the good black men to lump them in with the bad. Black men, like black women, are not a homogeneous group. You've got good, even pristine ones, and you've got rotten ones as well. That's with any group.
TeachTheWorldToThink 1 month ago
@TeachTheWorldToThink im notlumping all black men..i have dated great black men and are friends with many black men who i would die for.
But PLEASE dont think that is the majority of black men
Becuase...no offense, if even a substantial amount of black men were better-we would have better communities.
Not saying all or most black women are victims either..even though im not african american (though still black) i have studied the african american culture..i see how the two sexes relate but..
impatientwithdesire 1 month ago
@impatientwithdesire We'd have better communities if we worked together rather than against one another. I can't say what the "majority" of black men are like, but whatever black men are like (by virtue of being black), black women are the other side of that coin, because "blackness" is blackness, regardless of gender. But again, the pigeonholing of black men or black women (even just saying the MAJORITY are this way or that) is very flawed and unreliable. Most PEOPLE I know are a piece of work.
TeachTheWorldToThink 1 month ago
but black women have been left alone to fend for themselves..and thats where differences between the two sexes should not overcome what needs to bedone.
And you say i watch too much you tube.
Thats a problem in itself.
Do you know how many people watch youngblack men bash black women on here, daily?
People of all ages, races, genders, beliefs etc.
THATS A HUGE PROBLEM
That makes all blacks look stupid
And it influences the younger generation of stupid generalizations of themselves.
impatientwithdesire 1 month ago
@impatientwithdesire It only makes ALL BLACKS look stupid to people who are already looking for ALL BLACKS to look stupid. I believe most of us (black people) are nothing like the stereotypes or the hatefulness. So why would WE be looking stupid? Just because of our skin and hair similarities??? I agree YT can be harmful for young minds at times. But now that we know there is a problem (black women ditched, young people exposed to harmful, slanted media, etc.), what solution would you propose?
TeachTheWorldToThink 1 month ago
@TeachTheWorldToThinkwhat are black men doing to change black PEOPLES image.
I see men of all races taking care of theirs..what are black men doing?
Yall ask for "working together"
Well i see black women (despite your opinions on our attitudes) waiting, crying and dying for black men to marry them-so much that they wont even pay attention to interested nonblack men.
And black women taking care of black children and the community ALONE.
Seems like bw are left to do a lot..where do bm come in?
impatientwithdesire 1 month ago
@impatientwithdesire #1 I'm a black woman myself. #2 Once again, you are lumping all black men together by asking "What are black men doing?" If I had one wish, I think I would wish for everybody to be black. That way, no one could say "black men this", "black women that" anymore. People would be forced to look at what is really going on. LOW CLASS men aren't caring for their women, children & communities, not BLACK men. Deadbeats are LOW CLASS men of all colors and cultures. (to be continued)
TeachTheWorldToThink 1 month ago
@TeachTheWorldToThink Why are black women always defending men who almost never defend them?
Ladies-you complain about being single and lonely--but you open the field for it!
If you dont EXPECT men to respect you, protect you, love you, provide for you, care for you, dote on you etc...then they WILL continue to treat you like they treat you now.
I dont know why OTHER RACES OF WOMEN UNDERSTAND THIS!
And they GET what they want.
Meanwhile....
impatientwithdesire 1 month ago
@impatientwithdesire I don't defend hateful, bitter, disrespectful, indecent, lowest-common-denominator black men. Later for them. I defend black male royalty--my son, my step-father, etc. Maybe you should feed your mind a little more with the faces and words of real black men, like Mahadi Baruti, Mwalimu K. Bomani Baruti, Dr. Ben Jochannon, Ashra Kwesi, Sara Suten Seti, Umar A. Johnson, Ra Un Nefer Amen, Haki Madhubuti, Clarence James, Sr., Sizzla, Macka B, Ayi Kwei Armah, Amon Rashidi, etc.
TeachTheWorldToThink 1 month ago
@impatientwithdesire You are too focused on the dregs at the bottom of the barrel, instead of focusing on the black diamonds. Those of-no-account negroes you are trying to make seem like representatives of the entire "race" are NOT in fact representative of black culture. They only represent an inferior SUBculture. You insult yourself by suggesting that they are a part of your own (black) culture. They are not. They are waste material. Again, later (better yet, never) for them. Forget them.
TeachTheWorldToThink 1 month ago
Meanwhile bm can be horribly abusive, namecalling you, putting you down and YALL STILL want them.
A man cant call a group of women gold diggers for doing the same exact thing other women are doing unless this group of women keeps accepting those titles.
And STOP saying it isnt all black men. Thats a given! Hello?
Do you need 100% of black children to be fatherless?
You mean 72% isnt enough?
Do you need billions of bm in jail-the millions now arent enough?
Why do so many bw love settling?
impatientwithdesire 1 month ago
@impatientwithdesire SOME (the dregs only) can be horribly abusive, name-calling, etc. No, we DON'T want THEM. At least I don't. Only man I ever loved, I cut him out of my life after he used abusive language against me. Immediately. Never looked back. Personally, I reject the term/construct "gold digger". No such thing. You can weigh a short stack of paper (and call it gold) against a priceless human being.
72% seems like a lot when you LUMP EVERYBODY TOGETHER. And your numbers are inaccurate.
TeachTheWorldToThink 1 month ago
@impatientwithdesire You're trying to blame deadbeatism on the fact that someone's skin happens to be black. I don't accept the false idea of "race". It's a lie. Being black doesn't make a person abandon their children. Social conditioning and social conditions do that. There aren't "millions" of BM incarcerated. There are two million total PEOPLE in prison in the U.S., including women. MANY are innocent. Are you ignoring the facts and being selective about reality? You can hate.......
TeachTheWorldToThink 1 month ago
@impatientwithdesire ...you can hate BM all you want, but at least be honest about the situation. No need to exaggerate the facts. And if wanting a good black man is "settling", as you put it, simply because he is black, then that means any man who wants YOU is settling, because according to you, YOU are black. It cracks me up how some of you try and make it seem like there are two types of black--a male black and a female black, with only one of them being negative. If you are f'd up for.....
TeachTheWorldToThink 1 month ago
@impatientwithdesire ...if being BLACK makes MEN f'd up, then we've got to be f'd up across the board, not just stopping at one gender. Otherwise, it makes no sense. A person would have to be either stupid or dishonest with themselves to believe that some particular biological trait makes a person either f'd up or ideal, especially if ONLY based on some other biological trait (Bm good, Bw bad; Ww good, Wm bad; Bw good, Bm bad; Wm good, Ww bad; etc.). Blanket statements can't be selective.
TeachTheWorldToThink 1 month ago
@TeachTheWorldToThink lmao...Smh..while you defend black men-look at their BLANKET comments about you and other blackwomen.
Black women need to WAKE UP.
impatientwithdesire 1 month ago
@impatientwithdesire I've worked in the system (commonwealth child support agency). Deadbeatism does not have a color. Furthermore, I know white women who have children with white male low-lifes. Don't put this ALL on black people. We have enough negativity pinned on us. Yes, most black women are dedicated to black men and to their children. Yes, black people have to beat the odds and do better. Kicking AA men who are already down won't bring them up or inspire them to raise themselves up. (more
TeachTheWorldToThink 1 month ago
@impatientwithdesire 3 of 4. You can´t change the low class black men who don´t want to improve conditions among black people. But you can distance yourself from them. Or if all you are doing is studying groups, it behooves you to include those men who are taking care of business. There are lots of black men who are quality, decent, dedicated men who respect and honor black women and black children. Maybe not 10s of millions, but they are out there. They deserve acknowledgement and recognition.
TeachTheWorldToThink 1 month ago
@impatientwithdesire 4 of 4. Stop telling yourself that all AA men are scum. It´s not true. If you keep believing it IS true, that will be all you see and all you come across. There ARE beautiful black American men. I just met a new one two days ago. He had no reason to try and impress me, because he is happily married. I´m adding him to the mental list of the likes of Randall Robinson, Denzel Washington, and other black men I know personally who are on the job & happily married to black women!
TeachTheWorldToThink 1 month ago
There are GOOD black men? Where?
Oh you mean those eight black men that dont go to jail, take care of their kids, get an education, dont do drugs or pistol whip and actually dont need a white woman on their arm to feel like their slavemasters?!
Wow...i met those guys-but half of them were gay.
Not sure how those eight would have been enough for all the black women out there though
Sarcasm
impatientwithdesire 1 month ago
There is a duality to all men and women.
TheAmbassador11 1 month ago
Rejection actually is rooted in the spiritual realm. It's not as physical or otherwise as it seems. Who are you, REALLY? You attract who you are.
TheAmbassador11 1 month ago
lemme say it again!!! This brotha preachin the WORD! HALLELUYA! HOWEVER THE HELL YOU SPELL IT!!!
billions18 1 month ago
This Brotha is Preaching to the Choir!
billions18 1 month ago
What I do regret here, is this Mr. Bobby Hermmitt is obviously speaking common sense from life's experience which is the definition of wisdom...and I regret that this video clip, (which is tremendously educational,) is painfully short. It's straight-up, cold-hard talk. No political correctness or bullshit...it's just too short and there's not enough of this kind of stuff here on YouTube. This man is speaking like a father to his son...and some of us need to LISTEN TO THIS! Who else will?
MrSchultzstaffel 2 months ago
This is BS! Women don't want thugs. I've never liked a thug. I've gotten nice guys & I'm glad. My father was a good guy. Most of the ones who don't want a nice guy didn't grow up with her father. Often times these men get thrown out by her mother. She hears how bad, mean or nasty her father was and fantasize how she unlike her mother could have handled him and tolerated him. So she imagines herself with a bad guy. So she's tests her tolerance by dating one. It falls apart. Her mother was right.
filmtress 2 months ago
I agree. Nice guys, black and others, often cannot get chicks much less get laid. Why deal with all these sisters who just want thugs?
sandinyourshoes 2 months ago
As a black man--I CAN SAY-- TOO LATE!!!!
theright1allthetime 2 months ago 2
So-called gangsters, thugs types are being glamorized and held up to be real men. They are paritculariy being "marketed" toward black women.
TheAmbassador11 2 months ago 5
@TheAmbassador11 I don't watch television (nor many hollywood movies), so please educate me. Who are all these caricatures that are being glamorized and held up to be real men? What do you mean by "real men"?
TeachTheWorldToThink 1 month ago
@TeachTheWorldToThink I get that you don't watch much TV but many people do. The videos that show the "gangsta" rappers with the exotic cars and beautiful women. A women looking for a man who can provide financial security may look in that direction. Many brothers have never had proper role models. TV glamorizes thug culture, American Gangster, Menace to Society has men and teens propering and with a "hyper macho" nature. Women like protection of course. cont
TheAmbassador11 1 month ago
@TheAmbassador11 Those videos are targeted to boys, not women. Of all the people I know personally who are crazy over gangsta rappers are mostly children and immature men, not women. All day long, I see boys and man-boys walking around blasting the nonsense through mp3 players. 24/7. I hardly see girls and women THAT tuned in. Be honest. How many WOMEN are looking to rap videos for their examples of providers? Those shows are geared to boys and man-boys, not women.
TeachTheWorldToThink 1 month ago
@TeachTheWorldToThink So they feel that if a man is acting like "O Dog", he can protect her. These men are being held as "real men". It is rare ( if anytime at all) that you see a "strong silent" type brother who can handle "his" on TV. These images from TV, movies and other media outlets are powerful. If a black woman has not seen alternative type brothers, what do you think she will chose from? She sees the same images in the movies and TV that exists in her environment. Con't
TheAmbassador11 1 month ago
@TheAmbassador11 Sounds like the problem is the absence of "alternative" type brothers in some women's environment, not TV alone. But why do YOU continue to consume those images? And what are you doing about those images (and absence of alternatives), other than complaining about them? That's no attack on you, but just asking, because I see no point in bemoaning women's exposure to nonsense if nothing will be done to change things.
TeachTheWorldToThink 1 month ago
@TeachTheWorldToThink It's all about "conditioning". The problems exist for black men. Lack of role models. Let me take this to a spiritual level; the devil has been allowed to define black manhood, much to the detriment of the our people. There are bm that love the Lord and can/will protect family. Good spiritual men but we don't hear about them. We do, however, hear about Tim Tebow. There are black atheletes that have the same convictions but we hear about the ones that get into trouble.
TheAmbassador11 1 month ago
@TheAmbassador11 I think the problem really is pigeonholing. I frequently see and hear black men talking down about "thugs" etc. and using the term very loosely, to say the least. The most on-point thing you've shared is that both men and women have a duality. Rougher men aren't all bad, and softer men aren't all good. Men who profess to love the "Lord" aren't all good (many are horrible) and those who aren't Christian definitely aren't all bad. GOOD men come from various walks of life.
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TheAmbassador11 1 month ago
YOU ATTRACT WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT MOST OFTHE TIME "EARL NIGHTINGALE" A PIONEER ON PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT. YOUR VIDEO IS RIGHT. MOST OF THESE WOMEN ATTRACT THE WRONG MEN BECAUSE THEY FEED THEIR MIND WITH THE WRONG VALUES. TODAYS SHOWS ON CABLE TV>>ALL THE HOUSE WIVE SHOWS ARE EVEN MAKING IT WORSE ON THE MINDS OF WOMEN. WHEN THE MIND IS SICK IT WILL ATTRACT DYSFUNCTIONAL SITUATIONS. THAT WHY MOST MARRIAGES DONT LAST IN THE WESTERN NATIONS. LOVE, SACRIFICE AND PATIENCE IS LACKING TODAY.
emmanuel43 2 months ago
Your story about the pschyopath and his female fan-following sum's it up perfectly. I could NEVER make any logical sense out of the vast majority of women's choices concerning a mate. The men who are actually making something of themselves in life are considered boring while the "men" who are on a one-way path straight to an early death and hell to pay for it have women all over them. This demonstrates that American women have extremely deeply rooted mental and emotional problems.It's epidemic.
MrSchultzstaffel 2 months ago 8
@MrSchultzstaffel Sadly what you wrote is all too true.
ruapraia 2 months ago
@ruapraia You can't apply logic to any of it because the math will never add up. Emotionalism and logic will never make any sense to each other; and where-as men can be logical, women seem to be attracted to men who are emotional...and violently so.They seem to identify with that ridicilous thought process while any form of actual common sense is totally alien to them.If women used any measure of common sense at all, perhaps 90% of these out of control black as well as white men would be alone.
MrSchultzstaffel 2 months ago
@MrSchultzstaffel I blame the mothers of those girls, because the mothers instill this fairytale about how a man should be. Not to mention the corporate mainstream media propagates an image that glorifies the thug, the scumbag, and greasebag. Parents need to pull their kids away from the TV and teach them about morals and values.
Grizzly907LA 1 month ago
@Grizzly907LA For some reason we don't want to show the consequences of "thug-life' in this country.Black men who go to jail and get involved in homosexual activity and when they get out they take that AIDS virus right back to the very community they victimized only to give it to black women.Where do drugs and drug dealing lead you to?Prison.These facts are never demonstrated by the media.How attractive would these thug-ass losers be in the eyes of these insane women in light of those realities?
MrSchultzstaffel 1 month ago
@MrSchultzstaffel Its ultimately up to the individual of who they want to be and who they want to be with at the end of the day and we are all responsible for our choice, and have to suffer the consequences. A lot of white women go for the bad boy rock and roller. Its an epidemic in this country.
Grizzly907LA 1 month ago
@Grizzly907LA But choices do have consequences,and that sword cuts both ways...which these women have to understand.You can't blow your youth away chase'in after worthless thugs, drug addicts, violent gang-bangers and dreamer-party-boys only to turn around years later and wonder why you can't get a good man. These women didn't want a good man...they wanted to party. So they went after a man that fit that ambition. But good men who have worked all their life don't want a second-hand, party-whore.
MrSchultzstaffel 1 month ago
DUDE YOU SOUND LET YOU JUST ATE 100 WINGS WITH YOUR OBESE ASS LOL
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geminieast11 3 months ago
Black Men. You cannot defend these scandalous, inferior, disrespectful, white-washed, gold-digging & traitous black roaches in America. They give out their numbers. Which that means: fake numbers, doesnt answer tha phone or plain boring as Hell 2 talk 2. Then had tha nerve 2 wonder why men doesnt respect em. Fuck em U.S. Black Roaches to Hell!
UltraDOG17 3 months ago
Do a search on Youtube for the video "I HaTe bLaCk WoMaN!"
PapiQueRico 3 months ago
black men are only good for giving hiv.. thats all they give to the black community
MIAMIWADE631 3 months ago
i had a lousy mother. i was following up under that bitch. so that is why i attracted asshole men. but i do like nice guys. i've had boyfriends who were nice.
ke467 3 months ago
I picked a "nice guy" and after being together for 9 years, he left me with a son to raise and later on married a woman who already had kids, who according to his cousin won't work.
So much for "nice" guys.
itsmissvsworld 3 months ago
@itsmissvsworld Naw you picked a sorry man not a nice guy. Probably a good actor for 9 years.
Empha84 3 months ago
@Empha84 I know he's not a nice guy. That's why I put it in quotation marks.I was into that "black woman 'yo luv 'gon change him and bring the black man on up" nonsense. You're right though. I did pick him. Oh well, he's not end all to be all. Life goes on. My mate's out there somewhere.
itsmissvsworld 3 months ago
@itsmissvsworld God will put the right person in your life just be patient. Sadly a lot of young girls not all want a ruff neck and not a humble dude. Even if that guy seems square he is probably better than an abusive man who beckons you to do all his bidding.
Empha84 3 months ago
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Women who overlook good blk men and deal with these niggas, "thugs", etc has a PROBLEM!!! Alot of these black women just need to stop buying bling, drinking, partying, tattoos, wigs and weaves and popping out babies. Get a bit of education to learn how to speak, use birth control and get damned jobs.
kkdb22 3 months ago
No offense, man, but there are plent of black dudes who act the same. Too many of them are having kids by different women and not helping to support them. Too many of them are involved in selling drugs, gambling, sleeping around and disrespecting the elderly. Then they wonder why people don't respect them. Black men are just as guilty and need to face up to their responsibity and stop putting the blame on the black woman for their failures.
mrql123 3 months ago 2
blackmen im a female and I MUST SAY I AGREE WITH YOU totally. TAKE YO SORRY PUNK WEAK SELF IGNORANT NO BACKBONE SOFT SKIN CRY BABY ASS ON OVER TO THE OTHERSIDE WHERE THE WEAK IS. MOVE BITCH NIGGAZ GET OUT THE WAAAY AND LET A REAL MAN STEP IN AND HANDLE THE STRONG RIPE ORIGIONAL BLACK FRUIT. IF YOU KNEW HOW TO SEW REAL SHIT THAT A BW CAN FEEL, THEN DUMDUM YOU REAP THE HARVEST YOU WANT HER TO GIVE. U SO LAME. OR LIKE TRINA SAID NIGAZ AINT NOTHIN BUT HOS AND BITCHES. (listen to the song) LMAO!
cherysenixon 3 months ago
I just wanted to say that Bobby Hemmitt is not with that gender war shit.99% of the time he has nothing but good things to say about the Black Woman.Just look up more of him on YouTube.
And 1 more thing, everybody is gon get somebody that somebody else is through with.
looknwatch150 3 months ago
Just don't hang around for attitude from any crazy black females! Otherwise, a brother could end up in a straight jacket. Most of them just want thugs, anyway, so why bother, anyway?
sandinyourshoes 3 months ago
this video is fake.. there's never been good black men..haha
MIAMIWADE631 4 months ago
@pOetiQrOsesPublish You said it! lol
DKBuzzsaw 4 months ago
Hillary Clinton is going to bitch slap you so hard! Even Richard Simmons is offended & he's barely a woman! ;D
DKBuzzsaw 4 months ago
I was unaware that "good" translates into "chauvinistic psychopath," but whatever you say... Yes, absolutely, I need an abusive, insecure caveman to come & keep all the awesome guys away from me! Have a good one, Tiny. Or do you prefer Itty? Dude, it's just so obvious.
DKBuzzsaw 4 months ago
daddy issues brother issues thats gona be daddys son issues thats gona be daddys and blackmen that wanna be daddy to the women.say what you want its a blackman and black woman issue.not all but most.
cherysenixon 4 months ago
i want to appologize to the women in brazil it was to let the brothers know that black women is stressed out everywhere behind BM lack and exuses. when it come dwn to BM with any race of women they want 1 or 2 things, thats a DOORMAT with no mouth or a SUGAR MAMA with a pacifier and bottle.the kitchen and the bedroom was LIMITED enough. come on now we deeper than that. we got a mind and a soul to use too.keep it real yall know i aint lying.
cherysenixon 4 months ago 2
AND TO ADD LOOKING AT BLACK CULTURE IN BRAZILLE THEM WOMEN LOOK LOOSE WEAK AND SHOT THE HELL OUT AND DISRESPECTED. SO POINT STILL REMAIN BLACK MEN STAND UP AND TAKE A STAND AND BE REAL WITH YOURSELF. GOING TO JAIL GIVEING UP ON YOUR LIFE ISNT OUR FAULT ITS YOUR DADDY'S. CHAIN REACTION THATS ALL IM SAYING. GET IT TOGETHER.
cherysenixon 4 months ago
@cherysenixon You got daddy issues.
whitebitchnigga 4 months ago
response to the leave these black women alone. my point exactly that black men need to become more spiritual knowledeable and wise and be there for their black women that is their mother woman and daughters. also to respond to the brazilian and whites seeing this, we as black women are angry that our brothers invest in gold digging white women and their family tree because white women stroke their ego making BM weak ass punks like their men. brothers stop running from us into an illusion.
cherysenixon 4 months ago 2
Preserving the black race in the U. S. is the main purpose for BM and BW to be together. In 50 years this country will be one color. Listen, It is best that most black women leave nice guys alone, Because they will do something stupid and this good man will turn into a thug and abuse will follow. Next he will be locked up , lose his good job, Stay away from these women good black men. Don't think about p___y! That will come. Take a trip to Panama or Brazil-leave these women ALONE!
sogenfri522 4 months ago 2
we are angry with blackmen because you lost yourself. we as black women had yall back from the beginning of time and you let white boy break your spirit and expect us to continue to except your ingnorant indirect anger towards us. KINGS ! please get out the mind set of a little boy and raise yourself up you dont have to be nice just be right from your heart and love us and your kids. no more adam and eve excuses. thats white boy B.S. raise your wisdom my brothers. peace
cherysenixon 4 months ago 2
i will comment hopefully for all women. our black men lost their way with us. im sure there are good men out there but where you at? men say we dont want nice guys its true we want warriors protectors providers and lover. and most of all true kings with strenghth truth and a damn backbone where its important to the survival of family integrety and respect. blackmen complain like women and wont let a woman be good to them. they wont let us express our gifts outside the bedroom. to be cont..
cherysenixon 4 months ago
@cherysenixon This is fire! Book recommendation: Complementarity by Mwalimu Baruti
TeachTheWorldToThink 1 month ago
Response to you vanityrose - First of all, I am not clear as to whether you are a man or a woman. Your name throws me off. Second, if you are having trouble meeting women, you can thank your brothers for that. Also, the women I know have all blamed themselves, I think a little too much, for the men that they've ended up with. The problem is most black women end up with Mr. Wrong when he's black, which is why I think its great that bw are dating men of other races now more than b4.
Monikblessed 4 months ago
@OnPointBlackWoman maybe so but a nice guy is better then the guy that gives you a black eye
vanityrose12 4 months ago
What's so bad about it is there 's not many black women to choose from in the first place. There are more dateable black men then black women go figure.
sirstrong1st 4 months ago
@sirstrong1st where in the Hell you got that Shit from??,there are three black women for every black man.what world you are living in ??.
blackberrysix 4 months ago
@blackberrysix Let's stay civil about this,but statistics don't tell the whole story. Notice I said dateable black women. There's probably billions of dollars worth of gold on the moon. I can find any woman at least 5 decent black men a week, but you wont find 5 decent black women a year in reality. If you know please tell me where they are.
sirstrong1st 4 months ago
@sirstrong1st What is your definition of a dateable black man?
SetApartBeauty 4 months ago
No it's not plenty blk men that will want a black women. Have u ever visited any1 in jail. Look at all the blkmen who now want a blkman. Here in America the blk man is few baby.
blkgirlblues5150 4 months ago
So true. I am who u r spking of. In the hood where I'm from ain't to many nice guys. But once we figure it 3 kids 20 yrs later u got so much regret it's silly. I will never marry again and I will only fk wit a conscious man as friends or a mate. I can't grow with who I'm wit right now he mentally dead. queenofqueenz71@gmail.
blkgirlblues5150 4 months ago
@blkgirlblues5150
You holla u can't grow w/ who ur w/ but evidently ur still w/ his ass! Sad! Women draw doggish men to them,like Bobby said, because they r ratchet-ass thinkers anyway of sex,money and all kinds of low energy shit!
FkU2Den 4 months ago
There's plenty of good black men!!! As well as men period.
TheStraw2000 4 months ago 17
@TheStraw2000 In fact most Black Men and most men period are good. Oath of Man Dot Com.
AoirthoirMasculinist 2 months ago
this fool and his mother don't know anything about women or way they the way they are and it sounds like his mother was mistreated and learn to love it.it like this people will be as good or bad by the way you treat them and i mean all people and black women have been mistreated by black men for so long that now you don't like the way they are,but it your own making.blame her,blame the white man,clean up your own act boys and grow up into Men.
blackberrysix 4 months ago
Thank you for your response. However, I don't think it is the fault of black women. Many of us were not taught how to find a marriageable, decent black men ( which is what you said) because many of us had mothers that did the samething and by the time 'we get it,' we are very often much older.
Monikblessed 4 months ago
@Monikblessed how many times do you have to put your hand over the fire before you figure out that it burns...i'm not saying all black women but i've been dealing with this my whole life....i've been told that i have my head on right and nice looking but i'm just not "their type".....then they get shitting on by a few bad boys and then they scream "all black men are dogs"....they'll gladly burn in hell before they admit that they picked poorly and put themselves in that bad situation
vanityrose12 4 months ago
I think you have a point but you are missing some important facts. The first being can unresolved childhood abuse/issues be the reason for some of our decisions as black men and women? Also, is it possible that there are just not enough decent black men to go around and black men know this and therefore play 'musical chairs' with black women? Is not it interesting that when black women date other races that they end up married?
Monikblessed 5 months ago
@Monikblessed The problem(in his opinion) is exactly as he stated in the video.When females are young, they tend to go for the fuck ups.The problem with young girls in America, they need to be reeducated.They have it backwards.They want to fuck up their prime years chasing the shitty dumb dudes & then turn it around after they hit 27/28/30, after collecting all that baggage, to find a good man.They should use those peak years(16-25 IMO) to find a mate, not think it's fun to play musical chairs
DirtyFaceCapon3 5 months ago
@DirtyFaceCapon3 How is this concept that you presented about young women any different from the majority of men who spend their mid-teens through early twenties sleeping around with all types of females, and then at age 25 want to settle down with a virtuous woman? By the way, I'm not advocating either of these scenarios, I'm just trying to understand how they are different.
SetApartBeauty 4 months ago
@SetApartBeauty Men and Women have different natures.Men don't get hit with a social stigma when it comes to sleeping around.It's an accomplishment for a man to have that many women under his belt.You're looked at as cool & you even become more attractive to other women because they figure you must know what you're doing.And yes, a woman who wants a man for what he has can be looked at as a gold digger,but in this society,the majority of women are gold diggers.Why not take the hot ones if U can?
DirtyFaceCapon3 4 months ago
@DirtyFaceCapon3 We didn't make it that way, this is what the world gave us.Thatc being said, we're not exactly a moralistic, high standard society as it is.Sometimes we get idealistic thinking about how it could & should be, but the reality of the situation is a whole lot uglier.
As i said, it's not an accomplishment for a woman to sleep with a bunch of men.A womans test in life is to not be promiscuous.I think men naturally respect 7 place a high value on a women like that
DirtyFaceCapon3 4 months ago
@DirtyFaceCapon3 Not only that, it's dangerous for a woman to sleep around.They get pregnant and have to recline for 9 months.The brunt of the consequences hits them the hardest.You know when a man ejaculates inside yo, apart of his cells stay inside of you forever?Women with multiple baby daddies are being pulled in 2 or 3 different directions at once.It can drive some of them mad.Not to mention the psychological/physical effects of having a abortion.It's a dangerous game for females
DirtyFaceCapon3 4 months ago
@DirtyFaceCapon3 what about the men?,don't you have something to say about them?,do a man need to fuck every woman he can get his hands on?,is it ok for him to do the same but not for her??,are men better then the woman? and is it not a dangerous game for males??,oh yea! and as for going mad am such you did not mean to leave out what this have done to the old black men.
blackberrysix 4 months ago
@blackberrysix It's not good for anybody.I'm just saying it's more dangerous for women.They're not built for that kind of lifestyle.It's dangerous for men from a financial/std standpoint.I don't think men are better than women.The average man doesn't have the luxury of knowing that he can get laid any time he feels like it.He's going to take what he can get.Women, on the other hand, have that luxury.A girl could be working at Denny's and still have Jay z & Bill gates fighting over her.
DirtyFaceCapon3 4 months ago
@blackberrysix The double standard will always exist because of this fact..men have to have "tools" to attract a woman..on any level..they also have to charm and seduce. To do this to multiple females simultaneously is difficult. That's why the ones who can get props. Women don't need to do shit but look sexy and be friendly..hell they can just ask most brothers for some dick and they'll get it. Technically they could fuck a different guy every day if they chose..I'll continue
sonnysugacane 4 months ago 2
@sonnysugacane yes they can! the women can get all the dicks they want.and that is because men are weak and have no control of them self and most black men will fuck any thing that moves.don't care about nothing but cooling off his balls and the black woman know that about you.so she say to her self ( I can Fuck You when am Ready and untill then Fuck You).
blackberrysix 4 months ago
@blackberrysix See how you missed the point..We're talking about getting MARRIED not just a booty call. Of course yall are getting dick..that's why yall have all those kids and expect the established guys to pay for YOUR mistakes! HOES brag about how many DICKS they can get..WOMEN brag about their husband and children and lifestyle. Now guys know which one YOU are! You obviously are one of these dumb ass females..get a PIMP stupid HOE!
sonnysugacane 4 months ago
@blackberrysix Men on the other hand..can't do that. They have to spend time, money, game, all types of shit to get even one night stands. Women don't have the cards stacked against them in this way..If they only say "yes" to certain men and "no" to most..it lets a brother know that he has someone of VALUE. She could've said "yes" instead. Plus, I haven't met a woman yet who wants to turn out a virgin man..they prefer experience. Practice makes perfect! Lol
sonnysugacane 4 months ago
@DirtyFaceCapon3 Your right on mark, so true.
sirstrong1st 4 months ago
every BM learns the hard way about BW, & it is sad but, i now have 5 rules that only apply to BW. (1) don't look, (2) don't talk, (3) don't touch (4) if she makes the first move, i must be careful & (5) if she is not a lover & she want to go out on a date i always leave my money at home. now logicaly this should work against me but, there is nothing logical about BW & i'm not sure why this strategy works.
rikshaw223 5 months ago
ALL I CAN SAY TO THE KINGS OF THE EARTH, PLEASE DON'T GIVE UP ON US. I KNOW THAT WE HAVE MANY ISSUES, AND THERE ARE SISTERS LIKE MYSELF WHO ARE TRYING TO EDUCATED AND ADVOCATE BLACK LOVE TO WHOEVER WILL LISTEN. I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOU KINGS, AND I UNDERSTAND THE SPIRIT THAT IS OPERATING BEHIND MANY OF YOU, AND I AM PRAYING FOR YOU. I CAN'T CHANGE THE WORLD BUT I CAN SPEAK LIFE TO THE SPIRIT OF EVERY KING I ENCOUNTER. PLEASE, DON'T GIVE UP ON US! WE NEED YOU! ONE LUV! ~QUEEN T~
QueenTMakila 5 months ago
@QueenTMakila. thank you for your comment it is very encourageing but, although it may be too late for me i hope you can reach out to many other BM who put BW first but, came out last.
rikshaw223 5 months ago
@rikshaw223 That made me smile because I don't believe it has to be too late for you. It has to be an issue for you that has weighed heavenly on your heart and I hear you. I still say don't give up on us. I can't speak for all of us because I understand where you are coming from; I just say that there are some of us out there who want nothing more than to love a black man. The issue is that many don't love us. One Luv! Queen T~
TonyaReedPublication 4 months ago
Black women should date outside their race. All the so called "good black men" are chasing white women, so I think sisters should do the same. Leave these negros alone, they will only bring you babies and problems. They want to screw you but they don't want to marry you. RISE up black woman, get yourself a good white or latino man that will appreciate you;)
REIDDEBSTER 5 months ago
@REIDDEBSTER Did you listen to the video or did you just come in her to push your agenda?It seems as if you saw a black men in the video, clicked on it without hearing what he had to say, and spewed the same propaganda you've probably left on a thousand other videos
DirtyFaceCapon3 5 months ago
@REIDDEBSTER Your generalization of Brothas are off da chain.Wow!
visionkingdom 5 months ago
@REIDDEBSTER Wow! Sorry to break this to you but white and latino men are watching all this unfold between BM & BW. Trust, they'll accept the piece of a** they see coming their way as any race of men would. But many BW are trying to run from themselves. The problem is WHO you are, not who you're WITH. Not trying to hate on yawl, but I doubt it'll change even with guys of another race. The women I know that did try IR dating usually said they had sex and got sent back home. YEP by the white guy.
middleofmars 4 months ago
I'm convinced by reading these comments there are some fucked up people in this world.
newbalance404 5 months ago 2
@newbalance404 For real.
interpolluter29 4 months ago
Man FUK asian women.. theres only a small percent of em that actually look good, but the majority of em are racist and ugly...
Stann850 5 months ago
brothas if you can conduct yourself in a manner that is respectful to the creator, then whatso ever women that makes you happy is yours for the choosing, taking in consideration that choice can be a global one instead of around the corner, in the hood, or down the street. The African American Male is desired worldwide my brothas, believe it! Yeah i understand the propaganda, but save your money on these materialistic women and travel and see for yourself. You'll never go back to weave again.
imhotep527 6 months ago 2
@imhotep527 I intend too.
blackbolt75 5 months ago
forgot the main one...RESPECT. Sistas I have to tell the truth... you pick the ones that will disrespect you. You pick the ones that hurt you. You pass over the ones that treat you good. Use abuse them like they are a sucker, because you repeat what was done to you, and make THEM the sucker. I understand it, but your selection of mate started this cycle and the correction of this will be the only thing that stops it.
imhotep527 6 months ago
First my brothas women all over the world seek comfort, safety and protection. Yet what is different is the quality and standards they are used to. American sistas require a lot. What they offer is ?? Good sex, when? Peace, love & Harmony, when? how to treat their man that they say they care about ?What were the values practiced at the crib? You learn that from people you grow up with, family and friends and such. Many african americans recently, provide bad examples of these relationships.
imhotep527 6 months ago
@imhotep527 LOVE your comments...........it not a race issue though, it's a social one... PEACE
velveteyes79 5 months ago
@AirForceGirl05, what is a married (to a white guy) woman doing on all of these videos commenting to Black men?
TheBlackGlenBeck 6 months ago 4
@2Baiforev, the truth is being EXPOSED! You can't stop the movement!
TheBlackGlenBeck 6 months ago
@ManInhumanity, ur small dick is showing.
TheBlackGlenBeck 6 months ago 2
I luv Black women more than any of them would ever know.But! as a man I will never ever take a charge for something I didnt say or do.
visionkingdom 6 months ago
As stupid as it may sound it's probably because of the adventure.
Most women seem to be turn on by the fast life, money etc. Videos/Media has a lot to do with it because whenever you turn to BET that's the type of men that women seem to be flocking.
And to closed-mind black women you might be considered as a sell out but to me you aren't because maybe you just feel that it's time for something new.
hotwhire 6 months ago
Black girls are VERY selfish these days, and Asian women are catching up. This needs to stop if they want a supportive man.
hotwhire 6 months ago
Black Women are SELFISH.
mrtundra45 6 months ago
Black girls suck. Get an asian or white girl.
HBKFuckingOwns 6 months ago
lol so sad yet so true
classycalimami 6 months ago
The biggest psycho path on campus and know problem finding a woman. WOW! the cycle continues.
DIJV79 6 months ago 12
This is the problem, that all these men label all black women as one way or another. You can't label every young black woman as one thing or another. None of you know every black woman. I do like nice me unfortunately I have never met a black man who was really nice. Even if he pretended nice there is always something wrong (unacceptable ) about them. Black men need to really look at themselves. Are you really nice? And even if you're nice if you're broke and don't want to work than no way!!
2Baiforev 7 months ago 2
Im facebooking this shyt !!!
TheBlackGlenBeck 7 months ago
Wtf? If I wanted a BW I would have to be a thug ??? bullshyt..Id rather stay in school!
TheBlackGlenBeck 7 months ago
@OnPointBlackWoman YOU BLACK WOMEN NEED TO START LIKING "NICE" GUYS OR WE WILL GO OUT OF BUSINESS AS A RACE WITHIN THE NEXT 100 YEARS OR SO.
jabron2009 7 months ago
Black Women Dropped the Ball(Attitude,Weave and Disrespect) , on youtube!! THis is what a real black woman is!!!
ellisonwrigh60srage 7 months ago in playlist Bobby Hemmitt Info
@ellisonwrigh60srage Let me guess, you're (yet) another black loser who can't get a date and want to blame black women. Maybe you should look n the mirror. Oh, I;m sorry its probably broken.
2Baiforev 7 months ago
@2Baiforev You're a cancer to the community so please kill yourself or simply not have children!!
ellisonwrigh60srage 7 months ago
We (black women) have to be independent. We just adapted to live without being catered to. I'm 43yrs old and every black woman I've ever known growing up was strong. These young girls today ( to me ) are very weak. I like the way you talk. lol!!!
cupid4040 7 months ago
I JUST WASTED 6 MINS AND 24 SECS OF MY LIFE THAT I WILL NEVER GET BACK.
BIGWHEELONEADEM 8 months ago
@BIGWHEELONEADEM why?
86Deant 7 months ago