Be Heard: Girls and Cattiness

[TheMarkShadow]

She's Vietnamese !!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Venusstar22]

It's true....for some reason women are taught to be 'catty' or 'bitchy' towards one another...you dont see this foolishness happening with men (hardly ever...almost non-existant). If a woman catches her boyfriend cheating with another woman, they go after the woman most of the time. Its silly cause it takes 2 to tango & not one. A person can't cheat on you by themselves, it's a choice that they TOO made. But for some reason the go after the woman first instead of confronting the guy. It's weird.

[SHiKiFanGirl4eva]

i try so fucking hard to avoid those types of people, but they are everywhere. It helps to know that you wont be like them, that you'll be the one looking at them thinking "Why are they like this? treting people the way they do?" instead of acting like them.

[23faithstar]

omg i feel exactly the same way she does!

[Duhkilla187]

i suscribed to this channel just because of her

[Duhkilla187]

she's so freaking beautiful!!

[Loupster420]

i use to go to Main st boys and girls club in the city of Carson when i was 15....

they had this thing called teen nights every fridays

anyways we got to go to the freedom writers movie premiere in los angeles

and i remember Will I am was there and all the cast members

and i saw Jaclyn Ngan there!!! FOO I FELL IN LOVEEE!!! she so beautiful!!!!!!

((SHE SIGNED MY FREEDOM WRITERS BOOK!!))

I LOVE YOU JACLYN NAGAN!!!

GET AT ME BBY IM IN COMPTON ;)

[Selesify]

That's why I do not hang out with girls.

[TehBryananater]

@Selesify ikr

[TehBryananater]

These types of girls in a teenage age are whores...They also act like jerks...When I was in elementary school there was this girl with a older bro that told her older bro to beat me up because i had a girl friend...Like WTF is wrong with this girl???

[98topaz93]

Damn thats my life, and all i want to do is break free.

[Gaara069]

she looks so amazing

[selphiexfairy]

i wish girls would learn to help and support each other instead of tearing each other down. what makes girls act like that during high school age anyway? It makes me insane trying to figure it out... it's so sad. ):

[mp3hot]

@finalassault

thanks for your reply ,, 3 years later :p

[KGboy87]

her hair style is cool in the movie ...

[astrobr19]

im inlove of this girl

[conartist128]

yay im the first to comment in over a year!!!!!!

[tbizarnes01]

except yourself for your looks once you like yourself you can learn to love other. if they are not feeling your growth then that crowd of girls will be left behind dont waste your wisdom on slow people that arent open minded

[Muzik4daSoul]

lol-soo true....ppl grow up in the outside but not in the inside

[BLZNDECHEEBA]

ahah ive seen that girl @ my school!!(fairfax high)

[Trulyamayziing]

Wow.

[roses09]

wow that was so true, we need to break that stero type

[shirinie54321]

I see. I understand what you are saying. The transition from elementary to high school changes people in a lot of ways, girls more than boys, in my opinion. One year, they're your friends, a summer later they're talking crud about you.

But you know what? The world was made like this. There are those who are pure snooty and evil and us people will just have to live with that.

And, it's a good way to express yourself through writing... that way you don't explode somewhere you wouldn't wanna.

[parishitler666]

girls .... too catty .... too true

[LilMimi187]

true that!!

[deedeedee1986]

nicely put!

[turgidity111]

about half way through that "fist in my face" idea was lookin' pretty good...

[optiplexe]

You're totaly right

[zixuziizi]

heh...yep dont trust anyone, ever! Then u dont have to worry about getting the knife in ur back the next day..

[mp3hot]

Who sings the song @ d background of this video?

[deedeedee1986]

common- "a dream"

[finalassault]

@mp3hot a dream - common and will i am

[rhysISpro]

so what's your problem? are you depressed? oh, so you write about it. or is that just what the movie you're in is about? wait a second, is this an advertisement? am i suppose to feel good having seen this? damn this trickery!

[artrogish]

dis the best comnent to a vid on Utube i have seen.

[rhysISpro]

thanks artrogish, if you want to post comments like mine, all you have to do is become extremely cynical! ha

[DickJohnson3434]

Are you beheard or is beheard the group to which you are a member? I ask this because I got a weird message asking to join the group "beheard" when I am yet to make any videos.

[watchmedie85]

Actually in America we have the right to disagree or berate anything we want! What is moral though is to let people be. Obviously accela47 is dealing with some sort of suffering in his life. I just hope he gets over that suffering and understands that as long as it doesnt hurt him then he should not be concerned with it.

[dirtyliar]

If the Desiderata or the bible or the Koran or whatever helps someone you dont have to agree with it but you have no right to insult ppl for what they believe or what helps them through their day. You have no right. Dont take everything at face value, there is always more underneath or inside.

[legendarysim]

High school drama is too much for me. Jesus Christ, I almost got my ass kicked for 'allegedly' grabbing a girls tit. The guy that wanted to kick my ass knows I'm gay and still thinks I did it. I tell you...drama >.<

[halftrak]

PEOPLE SUCK! Nuff said...

[Vash3001]

Women need a hierarchy of power like men have.

[siglapshop]

Believe in yourself when you cannot believe in the people around you... Go to Yahoo / Google and type "Desiderata" - these words have kept me sane in my years of living and provide the foundation of being me... Cheers!

[minhtrietle]

vietnamese yo!

[kalzaz]

Different countries have different worlds, different worlds have different people, different people have different lives, different lives have different problems. If you can't put yourself in their shoes to understand their pain, then don't comment about their pain as if you are in their shoes.

[pierson55]

AMEN !

[szmurlo]

Thats awesome..couldn't said it better myself

[Radouane23]

well,I'm supporting this video and especially the ither ones too.If they want to express their feeling,sine.Don't type some shittty comment about them.

Be heard dudes and dudettes,be heard

[NeoAvalon]

Love this documentary. The song they use, by the way, is I Have a Dream by Common. Great song too!

[NeoAvalon]

Love the vids too! The music is from Common - I Have A Dream. Great song too!!!!

[LinnOuthit]

I hated high-school cause of the bullshit, so I dropped out, but no matter where you go people stay the same. The reality is a good-looking girl like you won't have all that much trouble picking your friends, but YOU gotta pick them.

[Choderific]

Get some perspective for crying out loud. I wish Denis Leary would just bust into these scenes and start slapping people around.

[Applecri]

Instead of complaining about these bitches, we have to change how we perceive people too. We're all superficial in our own ways, and have many things that lead us to be mean. We should be ashamed of ourselves for being mean to people. Some good advice:

Only treat others how you'd like to be treated.

[flippedforyou]

oh, i love that advice! too bad it is only advice and not action

[JesterSavant]

Treat others as you would like to be treated? Oooh, but I like to be treated baaaaadd!! Whip me momma, I've been a naughty boy!!

LOL, just kidding.

[steelmilkjug]

you know what would be really great, if youtube would install and idiot filter. That way all you ignorant people who can't spell or properly form an opinion would be relegated to simply stewing in your inanity. great vid!!

[BackUpBackUp33]

lol thats very funny steel, none-the-less, the video clip is soo good, because it is tru and everyone knows it is.

[JesterSavant]

LOL, I agree with you steelmilkjug but what about people who don't use punctuation properly as well ?

L.ol

[damillionmalania]

Never mind mean girls. And I swear, it´s just like Jadenwings said, if we don´t let them get close to us they are in no position of harming us.

[galaxycat3]

it is true - in school it was mostly the girls who were mean - but why is itthat girls are so awful? One minute they are your friend and the next you are a victim of a vicious rumour... at least with boys they voice their anger.. but girls are more malicious and i do not know why

[Mipit]

Whats the first sex that comes to mind when you say bully? Male. Whats the first sex to come to mind when you say Popularity Contest? Female. Male tends to duke it out while females tend to be like a Ninja and strike suddenly.

[schroeder666]

True. I would also add that men aren't generally pitted against each other on a social/personal level -- they're taught to show their best and accept however that goes. Women, on the other hand, are taught to compete with other women for...men. The men are just supposed to display their status. It's rare you see a woman competing publicly. Friends tell me they're afraid of being embarrassed, even if they're perfectly suited to the task.

[ihatebrookers]

i doubt that she made the video :$, (L)

[warkaut]

its ok

[apeppink]

competitiveness

[apeppink]

Can't imagine why people behave like that. Competiveness I guess. I remember it from high school many years ago.

People should compete in moral, honorable ways.

[flippedforyou]

compete and honorable don't go hand in hand, due to human nature... think locke vs. hobbs..etc

[apeppink]

I don't think that need be true at all, though too often it is. E.g. think of competition in sports or business. Extreme and honorable competition can and should exist there and often does (reasonable competition makes people strong and sharp). But,also, unfortunately, often it doesn't.

[ooalpha2oo]

MORON!!!! DELETED

[OMM06]

This young lady knows what she's talking about....

[holisticguy]

i admit - i don't understand the difference btwn hiphop and rap. are they the same? i agree w/ the person who said find some older more mature friends

[SSJSampson]

What is up with these vids and the hip hop background. Seriously the youth in america is being brainwashed.

[rolfie1969]

Gangs of girls get pretty violent as well. !

[Lraodsye]

your pretty cool...

[cocainetheband]

i didnt need to see this video to know that girls are lame but thanks i suppose...

[buttcraka]

lol gay, your like omg she called me a bitch, oh noes, get over it bitch

[burnslondon]

just because she's an actor doesn't imply she's b.s. the whole thing, actor's are some of the most insecure people out their, why do you think they want so much attention and wanting everyone to like them.

[dipwadincorperated]

hmmm,how can you be sure this is fake?iif your not from USA or another country that has lots of gangs i could understand that you'd think that, but if you did live in America you'd know that there's gang wars and gangs everywhere.

[burnslondon]

read more carfully, thats what I was saying that we can't just assume it's fake cuz she's an actor.

[ForbiddonLove]

you mean actress :P

[burnslondon]

No I meant actor, the word is noun used to classify somebody who pretends to be somebody else as to impress or deceive whether that somebody is male or female.

[PunkRockerSkaterGrl]

Sooo true, soo real, GREAT CLIP!

[SmalleyBigs]

keep these dope clips coming.

[princesslava15]

Then stop trying to fit in with those pathetic poser girls... 'tisn't that hard.

[somuchsoul]

It's true.

[clcbauer]

are you shitting me? you bitch about my comment...but have no problem with the pig who says sideways vagina??

[asshatphartphace]

nah well i didn't understand it so i took no notice of their stupidty.

but now that you pointed it out i may just have a bitch to them too =]

[clcbauer]

Wow why is this Asian chick switching back and forth by talking like she is black...then talking like she is Puertorican?

[asshatphartphace]

shutup.

don't criticise the way someone speaks.

black, puerto rican, asian.

shutup dumbass.

[dancingstorm]

And what the hell does that matter?

Shouldn't the message be important?

[nowdid]

She talks ghetto not black or PR.Lots of Asians in New Jersey talk like that.

[wildgift2]

I think she's from Long Beach. Asians there talk like that because they learned English from Black and Chicano people.

[Jadenwings]

Great video--I'm 20 years older than you are, and unfortunately, it doesn't change much. However, it's how WE perceive. If WE don't let it get to us, the words lose their power. Take it from one that's been there quite a few times!

[dj243]

What is the name of the backgroun song, please tell me...

Thanks. And I love the videos, I subscribed the first I saw.

[roswell600]

dunno the name of the song but its by Fort Minor

[adashjay]

What song?! It sounds good. I heard of FM a month or two before they went famous. But I never heard of this song.. unless it's on the album, the one with Common... if that's the only one they made with him, I haven't heard the album in a while then, if I can't remember it hahaha. What's the name of the song??

[crotteck]

its not by FM.. it sounds like Black Thought of the Roots.. but it isnt FM.. im 99 percent sure

[adashjay]

That's what I'm saying... That sounds WAY too HIP-HOP for FM. hahaha Black Thought > FM. MUCH GREATER.

[jhwang23]

yo it's not fort minor or black thought, definitely something by Common.

[gemcityjeff]

Wow you're a beautiful girl. Don't worry bout those back biting girls, they're just imature. Find yourself some older more mature friends. Never run with negative people. They'll bring you down with them everytime.

[Korberos]

Shes an actor, idiot.

[gemcityjeff]

Then wouldn't that make her an actress? Idiot!

[linds4y]

Except "actor" can refer to a man or a woman.

...Idiot? :D

[gemcityjeff]

Actress, actor or whatever, the advice given was still good. Maybe it will help some other young person who is searching for quality friends. I don't understand why someone who doesn't even know me would call me an idiot. I may be an idiot but at least I'm not a rude and disrespectful one.

[Korberos]

As long as you understand that you're an idiot, that's alright.

[gemcityjeff]

How can I understand if I'm such an idiot, you idiot?

[Korberos]

lol good comeback.

[tazzell]

Yep teenage girls are mean.