God bless all of the parents of autistic children that don't think they're diseased. You have been blessed by God. With your positive attitude of your children, you are making another step into making this world a better place for autistic children. Bless you all.
Goosebumps, tears in my eyes. Thank you! I wouldn't change a single thing about my little boy, we love him just the way he is. Yesterday, we recieved a 'aaaw, I'm sorry for you that he's like that'-reaction, that makes me so sad! I've been blessed to have him, I'm happy that special little man is my son. Thank you for putting the word out, and being such a sweet mommy! That just warms my heart!
@OoLieneoO We got those often when he was little, the POOR you how can you do it? And yes, we do it with love. And he is now 9 years old and is so independent and doing most things on his own. We had a few rough years and many frustrations but I stood up to the medical experts because I am the Mommy expert. There is so much hope for our kids, society needs to figure that out! Good luck to you :)
@mimi2boys I love it, 'Mommy expert' :) ! I call myself 'Momzilla', when I know something 's right for him and I need to convince the rest of the world ;) It's so encouraging, knowing that your son is doing so well! There IS so much hope for them, they are special in so many ways, their love is so sincere. It's sad that the world doesn't always see what we see when we look at him, but we know best: he's wonderful :) Thank you so much for the encouraging words! Best wishes from Belgium
A great video. Yes, there is no cure for Autism. But I feel that there must be a way to "recover" from it. I have to be the voice for my daughter who can't speak so much. I'm sure if she could say it, she would thank us for everything we doing for her. Her personality is a great one. She just shines as bright as the sun. But her spinning, rocking, headbanging to the point where she's bruising her forehead, & tantruming for a reason she can't tell us is NOT her personality. I have to speak 4 her.
@1loca64 I don't think you can "recover" from autism but there are ways to help our kids deal with living in our world. I hope you do find the way for her to help with her overstimulation in order for her to be able to deal with "our" world.
@mimi2boys There are ways to "recover" from this. We will not give up on her. We didn't give up when the dr.s told us that she had a heart defect & wouldn't make it. We are sure not to give up on her now. She's a true fighter.
You know, some people actually do grow out of it. I know I did for the most part. Unfortunatly though i'm 16 and still spin. I'm going to get some professional help when i'm older and can live on my own though. I know it's not going to just go away. When I do this so much pent up emotion/energy or whatever is released and I feel an empty okness again. Maybe this has to do with brain chemistry? idk it's really frustrating/embarrasing so i've never talk about it with my family or anything. :-/
@TheSnowyice You have grown out of certain ways of acting but you are still yourself, you can control some things. And do not feel ashamed. We all do things to deal with our anxiety. I turn my hair, tap my feet, cross my arms... It's just a way to deal, it seems that some people with autism just have some ways that are a bit harder to accept socially. My son will cough or have a nervous laugh. And I am certain you will be able to live on your own, potential is endless !
@mimi2boys No, what I meant was I can't live on my own at the moment because i'm still a teenager and therefore dependent. My parents couldn't afford proffesional help, so that I can deal with this crazy little habit of mine. Haha I laugh when i'm nervous (generally when at school) too! It can be a little embarrasing at times and I can't control it, but then again it's really funny. xD Actually I think a lot of autistic people do that. I don't get strange looks for it though. :-)
I iz not a parent, I am an aspergers teen, and I am SUCCESSFUL and have a group of friends that accept me 4 who I am. Sure there are those idiots who try to shun u, but in the end they don't matter. :D
successful aspies also have ACCEPTING PARENTS who don't care if they're "not normal." Keep that in mind, u parents out there! :)
To cure an autistic is to take away their positive personality. That would be the same as forcing a blind man to give up the unique way that he sees the world just because those around him want him to see even though the choice is not theirs to make.
To cure an autistic is to take away their positive personality. That would be the same as forcing a blind man to give up the unique way that he sees the world just because those around him want him to see even though the choice is not theirs to make.
This is awesome. I have Asperger's Syndrome, and I like seeing videos like this. It's not a "disease" that needs to be cured or anything like that. And, it's great that people like you can see that. It's not scary, it's not something to cry over...and your video shows that nicely. You must be a great parent!
This is a wonderful video. I am glad that there are people who agree with me on the fact that autism does not need to be cured(treatment is just fine, but not cured). I have Asperger's Syndrome and I am proud to be on have an ASD. I have a playlist about autism and was wondering if you would mind me putting this on there?
I have a son with higher-functioning autism, based on his verbal ability, and high intellect, what I wish for him is to be able to take that intellect, and apply it to everyday functional use. Being able to care for his own body, the everyday self help skills.
You don't mention your son's age. My son is now 7. He can take a shower on his own and wash properly. He knows to brush his teeth morning and nite and to not forget his medicine and vitamins. It took a while for him to learn these things, but he did it. Other things will take longer, like learning some social etiquette but he can do it I'm sure! They learn differently, but they do learn to adapt to a certain point. Good luck to you and your son!
If any doctor tried to "cure" me he'd be the one in need of medical attention after I break his neck. Whatever the hell this thing I've got is I like it. Sets me apart from the average man but I couldn't care less because I derive joy out of things that the average man doesn't seem capable of. Autistics have many advantages over neurotypicals and vice versa autisms a mental condition not a mental disorder.
I have to agree with you on many points. But from the perspective of a parent, considering a child that is deeply autistic let's say, that parent wants the best for his child and in a neurotypical point of view the best it to bring the child to a "normal"state, so to cure it. It not to hurt the child, at least not most of the time, it is truly in a best interests idea.
And I agree also that autistics have an advantage in many ways, thinking outside the box is GOOD!
Ah yeah thats a different thing. They put moderately and severe autistic people in the same boat as high functioning autistic people but they're very different things because people with HFA can talk and do everything required to function in society. People with moderate and severe autism actually do have things hard because of their autism unlike people with HFA/Aspergers.
I recommend trying omega fish oil supplements. That stuff seems to make me less autistic.
I am a mom who is trying to "cure" her son's autism, but I just wanted to tell you that you have a beautiful family :) I hope everything works out as it should :)
I can only respect what you wish for your child. My son is highly functionning, doing better and better with each passing month. His future is bright with hope. Had this not been the case, maybe I would be the one searching for a cure. I can only make my opinion based on what I'm living. Good luck to you and you son!
Writing is a strongly preferred form of communication for me. I would much rather write than talk. Wonderful, wonderful video. I think there are many good things about autism.
Well done great video, and yes as I believe Temple Grandin once said if we had never had the autism gene we'd still all be sitting around the cave fire having a chat. And boy along with the heart ache they give us joy, the sweaty hugs after a tantrum seem worth so much more than the indescrimanate hugs of other kids. Muy bueno mi amigo
Beautiful arrangement of photos, my son Philip wants to know where you live? We live in Northern Ontario. He is also autistic and has a lot of happy moments with our share of difficulties.
Just Beautiful! The song asks, "What kind of world do you want?" My answer is .... a world where Autism is accepted and people living on the spectrum are supported and understood. From an Australian Mum who is extremely proud of her 3 sons (2 diagnosed with Asperger's).
Great great video!!! It's so nice to see people spreading awareness in a positive way. I'm always bothered when people react to my children having autism with a tone of despair. The only difficult part us that it sometimes feels like us against the world when people are so short on patience and understanding. Otherwise, as you noted, everyone has their challenges. Autism is ours, and we will meet the challenges that come with it.
I thought I already left a nessage to say this is going in to the posautive youtube group... well sorry if two messages appear, great little video thank you!
this is lovely, and going into the posautive youtube group and its kids and sense subgroups - many thanks! lots of other positive videos in those groups, enjoy!
Your children are beautiful. I LOVE this video!!! Thank you for showing that how wonderful life with autism is. I appreciate you r p.o.v. & attitude, it's mine exactly.
I am a spec. Ed teacher and i just wanted to tell you that it's nice to see a positive light shined on our miracle children.... i truely believe a person's life is not fulfilled until they meet a child with a disability of some sort and see the innocense and beauty they possess.......
I have actually seen your video...I've seen A LOT of positive things on youtube and wanted to contribute to GOOD awareness. Yes we have battles, but who doesn't, right? Thanks!
Thank you for showing that autism isn't all doom and gloom. It's sad that so many parents spend so much time trying to change their children into what they think they should be.
God bless all of the parents of autistic children that don't think they're diseased. You have been blessed by God. With your positive attitude of your children, you are making another step into making this world a better place for autistic children. Bless you all.
BaltoLoneWoolf 3 weeks ago
Goosebumps, tears in my eyes. Thank you! I wouldn't change a single thing about my little boy, we love him just the way he is. Yesterday, we recieved a 'aaaw, I'm sorry for you that he's like that'-reaction, that makes me so sad! I've been blessed to have him, I'm happy that special little man is my son. Thank you for putting the word out, and being such a sweet mommy! That just warms my heart!
OoLieneoO 3 months ago
@OoLieneoO We got those often when he was little, the POOR you how can you do it? And yes, we do it with love. And he is now 9 years old and is so independent and doing most things on his own. We had a few rough years and many frustrations but I stood up to the medical experts because I am the Mommy expert. There is so much hope for our kids, society needs to figure that out! Good luck to you :)
mimi2boys 3 months ago
@mimi2boys I love it, 'Mommy expert' :) ! I call myself 'Momzilla', when I know something 's right for him and I need to convince the rest of the world ;) It's so encouraging, knowing that your son is doing so well! There IS so much hope for them, they are special in so many ways, their love is so sincere. It's sad that the world doesn't always see what we see when we look at him, but we know best: he's wonderful :) Thank you so much for the encouraging words! Best wishes from Belgium
OoLieneoO 3 months ago
A great video. Yes, there is no cure for Autism. But I feel that there must be a way to "recover" from it. I have to be the voice for my daughter who can't speak so much. I'm sure if she could say it, she would thank us for everything we doing for her. Her personality is a great one. She just shines as bright as the sun. But her spinning, rocking, headbanging to the point where she's bruising her forehead, & tantruming for a reason she can't tell us is NOT her personality. I have to speak 4 her.
1loca64 1 year ago
@1loca64 I don't think you can "recover" from autism but there are ways to help our kids deal with living in our world. I hope you do find the way for her to help with her overstimulation in order for her to be able to deal with "our" world.
All the best to you and your family!
mimi2boys 1 year ago
@mimi2boys There are ways to "recover" from this. We will not give up on her. We didn't give up when the dr.s told us that she had a heart defect & wouldn't make it. We are sure not to give up on her now. She's a true fighter.
1loca64 1 year ago
You know, some people actually do grow out of it. I know I did for the most part. Unfortunatly though i'm 16 and still spin. I'm going to get some professional help when i'm older and can live on my own though. I know it's not going to just go away. When I do this so much pent up emotion/energy or whatever is released and I feel an empty okness again. Maybe this has to do with brain chemistry? idk it's really frustrating/embarrasing so i've never talk about it with my family or anything. :-/
TheSnowyice 10 months ago
@TheSnowyice You have grown out of certain ways of acting but you are still yourself, you can control some things. And do not feel ashamed. We all do things to deal with our anxiety. I turn my hair, tap my feet, cross my arms... It's just a way to deal, it seems that some people with autism just have some ways that are a bit harder to accept socially. My son will cough or have a nervous laugh. And I am certain you will be able to live on your own, potential is endless !
mimi2boys 10 months ago
@mimi2boys No, what I meant was I can't live on my own at the moment because i'm still a teenager and therefore dependent. My parents couldn't afford proffesional help, so that I can deal with this crazy little habit of mine. Haha I laugh when i'm nervous (generally when at school) too! It can be a little embarrasing at times and I can't control it, but then again it's really funny. xD Actually I think a lot of autistic people do that. I don't get strange looks for it though. :-)
TheSnowyice 10 months ago
THIS VID IS DA EPICNESS!!!!!
We don't need a cure 4 autism.
What we NEED is a cure for normalicy. XD
I iz not a parent, I am an aspergers teen, and I am SUCCESSFUL and have a group of friends that accept me 4 who I am. Sure there are those idiots who try to shun u, but in the end they don't matter. :D
successful aspies also have ACCEPTING PARENTS who don't care if they're "not normal." Keep that in mind, u parents out there! :)
AUTISTIC AND PROUD!!!!! :D :D :D :D
PokefanLoojopop 1 year ago 2
To cure an autistic is to take away their positive personality. That would be the same as forcing a blind man to give up the unique way that he sees the world just because those around him want him to see even though the choice is not theirs to make.
aspie101 1 year ago
To cure an autistic is to take away their positive personality. That would be the same as forcing a blind man to give up the unique way that he sees the world just because those around him want him to see even though the choice is not theirs to make.
aspie101 1 year ago 2
Thank you.
MrCurtis01 2 years ago
LOVEd IT. Focus on the strengthens!!!
oycmad 2 years ago
This is awesome. I have Asperger's Syndrome, and I like seeing videos like this. It's not a "disease" that needs to be cured or anything like that. And, it's great that people like you can see that. It's not scary, it's not something to cry over...and your video shows that nicely. You must be a great parent!
^^
MysticDragonX 2 years ago
Sorry for the delay in approuval, I had missed your comment...
I a regular parent, I love my kids! It's been over 2 years that I made this video and He's doing GREAT and so is our family!
Thanks for the comment!
mimi2boys 2 years ago
This is a wonderful video. I hope you don't mind me adding it to my playlist. I love learning about autism. Good luck with the road ahead.
futurepsychiatrist 2 years ago
This is a wonderful video. I am glad that there are people who agree with me on the fact that autism does not need to be cured(treatment is just fine, but not cured). I have Asperger's Syndrome and I am proud to be on have an ASD. I have a playlist about autism and was wondering if you would mind me putting this on there?
futurepsychiatrist 2 years ago 4
I have a son with higher-functioning autism, based on his verbal ability, and high intellect, what I wish for him is to be able to take that intellect, and apply it to everyday functional use. Being able to care for his own body, the everyday self help skills.
NKKPPAS 2 years ago
You don't mention your son's age. My son is now 7. He can take a shower on his own and wash properly. He knows to brush his teeth morning and nite and to not forget his medicine and vitamins. It took a while for him to learn these things, but he did it. Other things will take longer, like learning some social etiquette but he can do it I'm sure! They learn differently, but they do learn to adapt to a certain point. Good luck to you and your son!
mimi2boys 2 years ago
My son just turned 7, at the start of July. He's come along way, and I sure don't want to take any credit away from him.
NKKPPAS 2 years ago
If any doctor tried to "cure" me he'd be the one in need of medical attention after I break his neck. Whatever the hell this thing I've got is I like it. Sets me apart from the average man but I couldn't care less because I derive joy out of things that the average man doesn't seem capable of. Autistics have many advantages over neurotypicals and vice versa autisms a mental condition not a mental disorder.
CrackBadger52 2 years ago
I have to agree with you on many points. But from the perspective of a parent, considering a child that is deeply autistic let's say, that parent wants the best for his child and in a neurotypical point of view the best it to bring the child to a "normal"state, so to cure it. It not to hurt the child, at least not most of the time, it is truly in a best interests idea.
And I agree also that autistics have an advantage in many ways, thinking outside the box is GOOD!
mimi2boys 2 years ago
Ah yeah thats a different thing. They put moderately and severe autistic people in the same boat as high functioning autistic people but they're very different things because people with HFA can talk and do everything required to function in society. People with moderate and severe autism actually do have things hard because of their autism unlike people with HFA/Aspergers.
I recommend trying omega fish oil supplements. That stuff seems to make me less autistic.
CrackBadger52 2 years ago
I like it.
MahdiyaSmiley 2 years ago
i have 3 kids with autism im blessed to have i wouldnt change them they amazing
nickthefox72 2 years ago
I am a mom who is trying to "cure" her son's autism, but I just wanted to tell you that you have a beautiful family :) I hope everything works out as it should :)
smithcd77 2 years ago
I can only respect what you wish for your child. My son is highly functionning, doing better and better with each passing month. His future is bright with hope. Had this not been the case, maybe I would be the one searching for a cure. I can only make my opinion based on what I'm living. Good luck to you and you son!
mimi2boys 2 years ago
Writing is a strongly preferred form of communication for me. I would much rather write than talk. Wonderful, wonderful video. I think there are many good things about autism.
AutisticWhoLives4God 3 years ago
Well done great video, and yes as I believe Temple Grandin once said if we had never had the autism gene we'd still all be sitting around the cave fire having a chat. And boy along with the heart ache they give us joy, the sweaty hugs after a tantrum seem worth so much more than the indescrimanate hugs of other kids. Muy bueno mi amigo
tigerbees 3 years ago
Family and Acceptance...Exactly! Thanks for sharing this video. I loved it!
Dallasyourock 3 years ago
great video!
lonestar818 3 years ago
i could read before i coud talk too
wiicow 3 years ago
Beautiful arrangement of photos, my son Philip wants to know where you live? We live in Northern Ontario. He is also autistic and has a lot of happy moments with our share of difficulties.
Lovely pictures.
sonoecho 3 years ago
We are in Québec, right next to Ottawa.
mimi2boys 3 years ago
Just Beautiful! The song asks, "What kind of world do you want?" My answer is .... a world where Autism is accepted and people living on the spectrum are supported and understood. From an Australian Mum who is extremely proud of her 3 sons (2 diagnosed with Asperger's).
smelena73 3 years ago
LOOOL 0:29:
Hah! Evil Kitty! I was sent here to defeat you!
BumsenDK 4 years ago
I wanna come play at your house! Looks like a fun place to be.
wiscsuzski 4 years ago
I actually have a daycare hihihi!
mimi2boys 4 years ago
Great great video!!! It's so nice to see people spreading awareness in a positive way. I'm always bothered when people react to my children having autism with a tone of despair. The only difficult part us that it sometimes feels like us against the world when people are so short on patience and understanding. Otherwise, as you noted, everyone has their challenges. Autism is ours, and we will meet the challenges that come with it.
momtoreezles 4 years ago
Great video. The song goes well with it. You and your family look really happy. =D
dmha8376 4 years ago
I thought I already left a nessage to say this is going in to the posautive youtube group... well sorry if two messages appear, great little video thank you!
dinahkcm 4 years ago
this is lovely, and going into the posautive youtube group and its kids and sense subgroups - many thanks! lots of other positive videos in those groups, enjoy!
dinahkcm 4 years ago
super beau mimi !!1 j'espereque je vais en voire d'autre ...
magiebelle xxx
Miniiimel 4 years ago
love it. especially the painting picture. :-)
beautiful family.
on1hand 4 years ago
My autistic brother also wore my mom's shoes...(1:02) haha... LOL... reminds me of my own brother...
niceverdict 4 years ago
Beautiful video. Thank you for sharing your son with us.
Kristine233 4 years ago
Beautiful kids! I love the song too.
Troys Amazing Universe
tntdns 4 years ago
Your children are beautiful. I LOVE this video!!! Thank you for showing that how wonderful life with autism is. I appreciate you r p.o.v. & attitude, it's mine exactly.
7lama8 4 years ago
I am a spec. Ed teacher and i just wanted to tell you that it's nice to see a positive light shined on our miracle children.... i truely believe a person's life is not fulfilled until they meet a child with a disability of some sort and see the innocense and beauty they possess.......
These kids are my heart and life :-)
IsaBelliza 4 years ago
what a great positive video!! I have favorited it!
momto2miracles 4 years ago
I have actually seen your video...I've seen A LOT of positive things on youtube and wanted to contribute to GOOD awareness. Yes we have battles, but who doesn't, right? Thanks!
mimi2boys 4 years ago
Thank you for showing that autism isn't all doom and gloom. It's sad that so many parents spend so much time trying to change their children into what they think they should be.
cherryPOP1773 4 years ago
I think that changing my son (contrary to helping him becoming independant) would equate killing his essence...And I LOVE that essence of him!
mimi2boys 4 years ago