Being a seventeen year old girl, I do feel the pressure to look a certain way. Its weird that its just women who like the slim look. If only the world made sense, and I could fit into my skinny jeans LOL
Not if you are morbidly obese or anorexic.... they do not "deserve" to feel attractive. I think the morbidly obese should be forced to lose weight in a controlled environment, detained for abusing a person and putting a life in danger -- themselves!
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i love skinny girls. the girl of my dream is slender and so beautiful. skinny girls are so sexy, clean, healthy and mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm wooooow! fat girls turn me off. fat is disgusting on girls to me! skinny in girls is so hot and so clean they don't seen to be pigging out. how many of you guys find skinny girls so hot. i would like some nice comments.
this is bullshit >.> i have a bit of extra baggage n im feeling my bf hates me because of it .. guys like twigs its just a sad fact , so girls stop fucking eating
@SatanBabyDollx ACTUALLY studies have shown that about 80% of American men preffer curvy veluptuous women, 15% preffer average size, and a mere 5% preffer stick thin. Just because you have delt with some of the men in that 5%, doesn't mean all men are like that. don't generalize a whole group based on your experiences with a few. You just have to find a guy who loves your body
If you eat right and work out, then you're body is were it wants to be. Skinny or curvy or fat. It must be attractive because that is what it wants and that it beautiful. Skinny girls are sexy to me. But My boyfriend like girl with a shape more like mine, which is somewhere between skinny and chubby.
@5665brightlight between skinny and cubby...thats a prety big range? between skinny and slim, slim and average, average to chubby would be more accurate
"the opinion of a couple men how they feel a woman should look"
To be perfectly honest, I really don't see why men should dictate the way women 'should look'. Why do you assume all women diet because they believe it's what men want?
@Bumblybee256 Men don't dictate how women "should look", they only have an opinion as to what they find attractive. Being angry about men not liking the way you look is like if I served you a bowl of rotten fish for lunch, and then got mad because you refused to eat it. I could say, "But that's a delicacy in many parts of the world!", or "What right do you have to decide how food should taste?!" Men like what they like, if you don't care about appealing to that, then look however you want.
@RincewindsHat66 I know they don't dictate it for me, I was objecting to the insinuation and the widespread broadcasting that 'men like curves' as if naturally skinny women are supposed to change themselves.
@Bumblybee256 My point was that there is no such broadcasting occurring. Some men DO like very thin women, some men like very large women, but most men fall somewhere in between. The point is, we do not attempt to influence the amount of women who belong in each category in any way. Fashion (and, by inference, fashion models) seem to have the biggest influence on how women perceive they "should" look, and 99% of men have absolutely nothing to do with women's fashion, nor even understand it.
@RincewindsHat66 It seems to me that actually, there is and I have to call fibs on the 'we do not attempt to influence part'.
I think you'll find there are quite a few heads of fashion houses who are men. Also, regardless of where the pressure originates it is perpetuated by mmore than just those people. I'm pretty sure magazines like nuts and zoo have given men some idea of how they think women 'should look'- and I think they're run by men who have chosen women who look a particular way.
@Bumblybee256 Well, to say that the "man on the street" influences how the CEOs of Versace or DKNY operate is like saying the average opposition voter has a large influence on what the President of the United States decides. And, yes, magazines like Maxim and Zoo certainly feature women who have a particular look, but you confuse cause and effect. Those women are in the magazines because most men enjoy looking at pictures of them instead of other body types, not because of an editor's agenda.
@RincewindsHat66 Magazines like that go by what's 'in fashion' just as fashion does and I think it's be a bit naive to say theyt don't have an effect on men expectations.
@Bumblybee256 Look at Marilyn Monroe, Rita Hayworth, Louise Brooks and the rest of the "pin-up girls" from the first half of this century. Go back further, to 19th century works like "The Finding of Moses", and the popularity of corsets. Then further back to works like "Venus of Urbino (c.1538)" and "Birth of Venus (c.1486). Then further to "Venus de Milo(1st century BC)" and "Aprhodite of Cnidus(4th century BC)". Then to ancient Egyptian frescoes. None of them would like out of place in Maxim.
its a shame really that woman are always thinking about diets cus they think there fat and men like me are always down the gym cus i think women want muscles , i think looking sexy only matters if you want a one night stand or somin
most men are hypocrites. they'll say they don't like skinny women, yet they'll still slag off a fat one when they see her, or admire a gorgeous, rake-thin model when they see her because she’s a gorgeous face or pair of legs.
women should just be what they want to be (whether that's thin, fat or as i prefer, just healthy; a nice mix of the two) and not give a fuck about what men or anyone else thinks in general.
@xopenheartx False dihcotomy, slagging off fat women does not contradict disliking skinny women. They are not the only two options, like you said, you prefer a nice mix of the two, so do most guys.
Don't want a fat chick. It projects the image of low self-worth. Much as if someone didn't choose to bathe or brush their teeth. I mean, it is something 99% of fat people have control over, and yet want the world to change instead of them simply puting down the fork and maybe exercising. It doesn't men that fat chicks are not intelligent, funny, sweet, thoughtful, or good moms. It means I don't want to fuck them. Fat chicks should rejoice over this, because I'm one ugly son of a bitch.
@purplenurps of course it doesn't! It just means that you shouldn't starve yourself and get obsessed with your weight. I'm naturally slim and all this video is telling me is that it's okay to be any shape and size, as long as you take good care of yourself. You shouldn't be so skinny that it's dangerous, nor should you be so fat that it's dangerous, that's all^^ But then again, that's kinda logical, isn't it?
what load of crap women don't want to look thin for men they want to look thin for other women they are the ones who judge them the harshest not men men are only intrested in 3 things and that is tits and flaps .
if our sense of beauty is 'distorted' then how do you explain the asian girls with the clear skin. and yes there are some IN ASIA not the ones that eat this western shit
I noticed that the majority of ethnic men love thicker women while middle/upper class white men do not. I think the reason is mainly psychology. Ethnic men are taught that they need to have at LEAST one child so their instinct is to look for women that are more curvacious who, in turn, can produce multiple children. The other group of men, are prone to look for what gives them power. The more petite/frail the women is the more powerful the man appears to be and the more control he has
@yelnikcmssur Yes. I am being racist in the sense that I used ethnicity to support my idea. However, I never degraded one specific race. It has nothing to do with superiority/inferiority of a certain ethnicity. It has ALL to do with culture and the way many people are brought up. Some people are expected to have big families while others are expected to be socially/economically dominant. Men tend to find attraction in women who best portray what they look for in life.
I've been skinny and I've been fat. Men liked me fat because they thought they could walk all over me. Now that I'm skinny they act like they want me to walk all over them. It's F'd up because we should be equal, side by side, no matter what the size.
@AfroPunkprincess Because they are interested in what it claims to reveal. Because they are willing to listen to what is being said. But that doesn't justify it being said in an offensive way.
Glorifying women's - ALL women's - beauty is very welcome. But doing so by deprecating some of them in order to prove your point is not only poor form; it is also poor rhetoric.
@BinnySkitch but people in our culture only seem to see beauty in only one shape that not everyone can achieve...which isn't fair at all...and hurts...
@AfroPunkprincess Great! So we agree that it's unfair and it hurts to be put down just because you were born into a shape that you can't - and SHOULDN'T - change. And more putting down "other" ones in order to "balance it out" won't help it. It's not about big *OR* petite women being beautiful (which is the point videos like this are making), but *AND*. It's perfectly possible to glorify wonderous curves without insulting those of us not blessed with them. :)
It's quite a stretch to claim someone saying "why d'y'all like these all skinny-ass women lookin' like some goddamned Somalians all malnoutritioned n shit like that" is not being offensive. Calling naturally slim women anorexic means referring to them as mentally ill (eating disorders = psychological diseases). Being called mentally ill because I was born into a small frame is pretty darn offensive if you ask me.
And, yes, we know "men luuuv curves", thankyouverymuch, but not all women are lucky enough to be curvy. If it is not socially acceptable to call someone "fat", how come skinny-bashing is so encouraged? It won't save any of those poor ill girls with eating disorders, but there's many skinny women out there who are tired of hearing that skinny = ugly. If it's about accepting ALL body types as beautiful, stop offedning naturally slim women! That's just fucking... weightist.
what men want?? who gives a shit :) j/k im teasing..ive seen too many WHITE men that like 100 lb women w/ blonde hair w/ huge fake boobs w/ no opinion.men say one thing and do another...we know men like the pam anderson's...SOME men r so shallow that they rather have the barbie doll then the real women even if it means giving up personality..
Yes..... BUT.... some people are still retarded enough to do so. I can tell a girl over and over that she's attractive the way she is but she'll still feel obliged to attempt to look like the stereotypical hot chick. The irony is, there's nothing attractive with someone trying to look like someone else.
just think, men...if this is what you want in a female...brains looks mummy potential earning etc. ....men have to be the same to find a woman they want. women want to be loved so they can love you. i appreciate the ending to this clip....it should be an ad on tv. true beauty and love is not a scam. and if you want it, you can find it...be patient. the world is about women and men:)
i dont want that much in a girl, alls i want is a good ass, good tits, smart as fuck, makes alot of money, hot ass face, doesnt shit or fart or at least not around me, no gut, good tan, nice hair, awsome eyes, perfect toes and fingers, little hair on her body (prefferably none), good at sex, isnt a slut, god like legs, not to tall and not to short, funny as hell, allows 3 somes, listens to my every command, pays for dinner.
@superiormic you say you dont want much from a girl, but everything you just said is a 'perfect' girl. Theirs always ganna be a girl with a gut,or nappy hair,or white skin,or no ass. Everyone has a flaw, NO GIRL is this perfect
"Every girl deserves to feel beautiful the way she is" - good point, but that massively offensive man Sgt. Baker doesn't exactly help. Abusing skinny girls shouldn't be necessary to communicate that you love chubby girls. Just talk of what you love, shut up about what you don't like.
Luckily, my impression is that "there's a man for any girl - some guys can't get their women fat enough, it turns them on, others really love the flat-chested style..." Yes, it's so! Everyone is sexy to someone.
i have been out of the dating game since my husband died; i wonder nowadays--what do men really want? clue me in: please; and i am not skinny......nor am i hugely fat; i just wanna know...i guess my dating skills need tuning up....
MsSquarePants, it's the principle of the video. Take for example, i'm 14, i'm not fat, but i'm slightly over average. I've got a bigger bra size than quite alot of girls, and a bigger bum as well. Some people call me fat, and it gets me down sometimes. This is a feel good video for girls in a similar situation to me.
Well who cares what the guys think? What about those girls that are ''too skinny'' or ''too big''? Don't you think their figure and weight affects them too? I'm only 14, and that's way too young to worry about appearances, unless u have peer pressure, but I always think my hips are too big, my chest is too small and everything else sucks. Sure I'm tall, but that makes me taller then the guys, and I just seem like a giant. Trust me, the girls hate it more then u guys :/
Am I the only one a little put off by the "I'd like a woman who looks like a good baby-maker" quote? I mean, thanks for the sentiment, but I don't want guys looking at me like, "Yeah, I bet she's thick enough to push ten of my babies through her!"
Who give a fuck what these two think anyway? Sometimes woman are naturally thin - not because they are annorexic or diet too much but because they are naturally built that way - imagine if those two men were talking about fat women that way - everyone would go mad - it seems you can slag off skinny people as much as you want and praise obese people. Obesity is a bigger problem in this country
its kinda true though i admit it im a little overweight and sometimes i like to define myself as curvy to justify this...i dont really care if im not skinny but would like to be healthy..btw the second guys talks very aggresively about skinny women theres nothing wrong with being skinny!
the real question should be "do men want a bitch to fuck or a soul to love?" if you just want a bitch to fuck then yeah describe looks, but if you want love you better start looking deeper than skin.
Honestly, I don't think there's anything more sexist than a man having a go at skinny girls. People think it's shallow for a man to tell a woman she's too fat, so why is it okay for a man to tell a woman she's too skinny. Fair enough if they're weight is causing health problems, but a guy's got no right to look down on a skinny woman and say she's shallow and superficial. Men are constantly telling women what they should look like, girl's should just ignore it. They can't please every one.
naturally skinny women should not get offended by seeing things like this... this is not a crack @ them at all! Ofcourse they look good because that's their natural shape (lucky them)! Things like this are only put out to create awareness and they are criticising the ideal that women/people are presented with! Not everyone is 'naturally skinny', infact the stats show that most aren't but yet that is the ONLY body type we see as desirable and attractive! this is to make people think!!!
@laninder I am 5'6 and 110 pounds, I cannot get bigger. My body is not designed that way just like a person who is 160 lbs is designed that way. I am not saying I don't eat healthy, workout, and get exercise but everybody and every body needs to be appreciated.
Mmm those seem especially selected to broadcast the message that men like curvy women.. Well newflash girls: curvy = breasts and butt. The cheese ain't gonna make it.
The trouble now is that girls understand curvy as downright overweight/obese..
The problem with dating women with a little meat on their bones is this: they have little self control and in 5 years they will be borderline obese. In 10 years they will be twice as large.
Having a little baby fat is fine. But most likely in the future that fat will turn into pounds of blubber.
Skinny women are better because they are more likely to stay fit and at least they wont end up looking like a whale
I admit man's idea of the perfect woman is superficail but that doesn't take away from the fact that they are the idea of the perfect woman. When alan davis talks about skinny he means, boney skinny. He doesn't mean that he prefers women with big lovely love handles. I will be the first to admit that i would be more attracted to the ' false' woman than the real one. The part where you said men realy want and then you showed a picture of a chubby ugly woman is bullshit. If a man wants that - gay
Hot damn sometimes I ask myself why women's and men's demands are so damn superficial. Men need to have muscles, butts, good income? Women need to have big chest, butt etc. Only appearance, like a big butt or bigger titties could have a nice good conversation with you. And like much money can buy a personality. A real realistic women or man would as for intelligence, kindness and have looks that fit yours. No superficial relationship is gonna last.
I don't like big women at all. If they're big @ 25 they'll be bigger @ 35 and so on. Sex is limited in its positions. A nice average woman is fine, even on the thin side is O.K. I don't want a girl who weighs more than me.
@oisinparis this commet actually really got my attenchon. see really girls are pressured by everyone to look " thin and tone" we are bulleyed and tortured by it at times. its hard to see how beautyful we really are when the world only acepts a certin kind of woman as beautyful. anyways my point is that its hard to be happy with yourself when it feels like no one els is.
@cdevilx With ALL my last GFs they always gave me variations of "Do you think I'm fat/my ass looks big in these trousers."
You say that the world only accepts women as a certain kind of woman??
I call complete nonsense. Nobody is perfect. I'm not by any means perfect, I'm 5'2" and a non muscular guy, even though the perception of a good catch is a muscular guy with a good job.
i really liked this video. it's good to know the mans perspective from there own lips. but i have been looking through all the comments and i realized how different people have a different opinions on what is attractive. it's the same way for girls. my sister likes tall skinny men. i personally don't care how tall they are and would rather them be not anerexic skinny or unhealthily fat.
Its very easy, there is no ideal woman looks wise. Personality does have an ideal woman.
For instance I may prefer a big breasted blonde first, but then a week later I might prefer a big breasted brunette, then a big breasted redhead a week later. ... Then I might have a liking to a walking pair of breasts without hair. But still, ... bwwaaoooobzz..
I don't know any guys that like size 0 girls, which I'm assuming is what you really mean by skinny... size 10-14 (bottoms) i think is the perfect size to be, you look healthy and in proportion.
I'm 5.9ft, I'm spanish/english, 10 top 12 bottom... people say size 12+ is considered fat, but people often say I'm a good size to be... I'm curvy and yet still "skinny"
honestly, can't be arsed to read all the comments so sorry if anyone else has mentioned this, but wouldn't this be better if they'd just kept to the comedy and not had any of the music/random ranting bloke going on about skinny girls??
Men are obviously different in their opinions. The guy talking about his dislike of skinny women, Nicole Kidman and so on sounds like a complete idiot. Richie and Kidman doesn't need his ill opinion about their body type! Many girls who are skinny simply looks like that and are beautiful in their own way. Keira Knightly for example has been blamed for being anorexic when she clearly has always been skinny! People need to stop being so disrespectful to bodytypes!
Keira Knightly has always been skinny but what was added to her to make her seem attractive? A spotlight. A pedestal. Hype. There is no better makeover than the apparent attention of others. When she was a teenager in Bend it like Beckham were there thousands of men lusting after her because she was thin? No. She was young, smart, pretty and feisty, that was what was attractive. The thinness and lack of any hint of breasts made her less attractive. She was attractive DESPITE being awfully thin.
I agree with you. I by no means meant that "it isn't her fault", Keira is very beautiful as she is. I relize my comment can be missunderstood like that.
Seriously, women as well as men will always look different and all can't please you. So why all the bloody eating disorders, plastic surgery and obsessive exersize? If a person want to change, they should do it for themselfs and not for what they think all men or women want..
Another example of men judging women whether they a deemed to skinny or too fat. Either way its judging women by their looks. Seriously, men think they are god's gift, just shut the fuck up women don't want your opinions!
I think the moral here is be what you want to be, not what you think other people would like you to be. No matter who you are or where you live, be yourself and enjoy life. That's what matters.
Being a seventeen year old girl, I do feel the pressure to look a certain way. Its weird that its just women who like the slim look. If only the world made sense, and I could fit into my skinny jeans LOL
MissPezzalicious 3 weeks ago
Seems someone's got huge big ass fat elephant of a wife
dblitroot 2 months ago
Not if you are morbidly obese or anorexic.... they do not "deserve" to feel attractive. I think the morbidly obese should be forced to lose weight in a controlled environment, detained for abusing a person and putting a life in danger -- themselves!
palindor1 3 months ago
This is so not true.
wantonladyful 3 months ago
oh helllllll yeah.
ironmannichi 3 months ago
:D <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 Thank you!!!!! :D
DejaNichols 4 months ago
I hate this 'mommy potential' 'baby maker' rubbish. It's the 21st century... women are more than that, for goodness sake.
malevich92 6 months ago 3
aw, how could this video get so many dislikes? Great message and I love Alan Davies:)
MuscleMemory100 6 months ago
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i love skinny girls. the girl of my dream is slender and so beautiful. skinny girls are so sexy, clean, healthy and mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm wooooow! fat girls turn me off. fat is disgusting on girls to me! skinny in girls is so hot and so clean they don't seen to be pigging out. how many of you guys find skinny girls so hot. i would like some nice comments.
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alifsalleh 7 months ago
i agree with the black guy...
CantikRatuBali 7 months ago
" meat on they bone" ???
EmeraldStag92 8 months ago
What's the name of the backing tune?:L
onemilkshake2straws 8 months ago
This is retarded.
jerryhello100 8 months ago
@birdlove123 well not yet i will be in 3weeks so ner *sticks fingers up* .. who the fuck are you anyway , creepy stalker
SatanBabyDollx 9 months ago
this is bullshit >.> i have a bit of extra baggage n im feeling my bf hates me because of it .. guys like twigs its just a sad fact , so girls stop fucking eating
SatanBabyDollx 9 months ago
@SatanBabyDollx ACTUALLY studies have shown that about 80% of American men preffer curvy veluptuous women, 15% preffer average size, and a mere 5% preffer stick thin. Just because you have delt with some of the men in that 5%, doesn't mean all men are like that. don't generalize a whole group based on your experiences with a few. You just have to find a guy who loves your body
17emocupcake 4 months ago
@17emocupcake sry emo but your sources may be incorrect. i just learned in my psych class such statistics and these are not right.
ThePrincessDianah 2 weeks ago
If you eat right and work out, then you're body is were it wants to be. Skinny or curvy or fat. It must be attractive because that is what it wants and that it beautiful. Skinny girls are sexy to me. But My boyfriend like girl with a shape more like mine, which is somewhere between skinny and chubby.
If you are healthy, that's beautiful.
5665brightlight 10 months ago
@5665brightlight between skinny and cubby...thats a prety big range? between skinny and slim, slim and average, average to chubby would be more accurate
bladze 9 months ago
music shat me up the wall, this sucked.
KrazaK87 11 months ago
i clicked this because i thought it was an alan davies vid !!!!!
thebeatles240 1 year ago 81
i think the music is cool. what song is it btw?
watsup47able 1 year ago
stupid music... hope you could remove it
DUGOMSMART 1 year ago
"the opinion of a couple men how they feel a woman should look"
To be perfectly honest, I really don't see why men should dictate the way women 'should look'. Why do you assume all women diet because they believe it's what men want?
Bumblybee256 1 year ago
@Bumblybee256 Men don't dictate how women "should look", they only have an opinion as to what they find attractive. Being angry about men not liking the way you look is like if I served you a bowl of rotten fish for lunch, and then got mad because you refused to eat it. I could say, "But that's a delicacy in many parts of the world!", or "What right do you have to decide how food should taste?!" Men like what they like, if you don't care about appealing to that, then look however you want.
RincewindsHat66 1 year ago
@RincewindsHat66 I know they don't dictate it for me, I was objecting to the insinuation and the widespread broadcasting that 'men like curves' as if naturally skinny women are supposed to change themselves.
Bumblybee256 1 year ago
@Bumblybee256 My point was that there is no such broadcasting occurring. Some men DO like very thin women, some men like very large women, but most men fall somewhere in between. The point is, we do not attempt to influence the amount of women who belong in each category in any way. Fashion (and, by inference, fashion models) seem to have the biggest influence on how women perceive they "should" look, and 99% of men have absolutely nothing to do with women's fashion, nor even understand it.
RincewindsHat66 1 year ago
@RincewindsHat66 It seems to me that actually, there is and I have to call fibs on the 'we do not attempt to influence part'.
I think you'll find there are quite a few heads of fashion houses who are men. Also, regardless of where the pressure originates it is perpetuated by mmore than just those people. I'm pretty sure magazines like nuts and zoo have given men some idea of how they think women 'should look'- and I think they're run by men who have chosen women who look a particular way.
Bumblybee256 1 year ago
@Bumblybee256 Well, to say that the "man on the street" influences how the CEOs of Versace or DKNY operate is like saying the average opposition voter has a large influence on what the President of the United States decides. And, yes, magazines like Maxim and Zoo certainly feature women who have a particular look, but you confuse cause and effect. Those women are in the magazines because most men enjoy looking at pictures of them instead of other body types, not because of an editor's agenda.
RincewindsHat66 1 year ago
@RincewindsHat66 Magazines like that go by what's 'in fashion' just as fashion does and I think it's be a bit naive to say theyt don't have an effect on men expectations.
Bumblybee256 1 year ago 2
@Bumblybee256 Look at Marilyn Monroe, Rita Hayworth, Louise Brooks and the rest of the "pin-up girls" from the first half of this century. Go back further, to 19th century works like "The Finding of Moses", and the popularity of corsets. Then further back to works like "Venus of Urbino (c.1538)" and "Birth of Venus (c.1486). Then further to "Venus de Milo(1st century BC)" and "Aprhodite of Cnidus(4th century BC)". Then to ancient Egyptian frescoes. None of them would like out of place in Maxim.
RincewindsHat66 1 year ago 3
@RincewindsHat66 You are kind of proving my point- the loud message of 'men like curves'.
Bumblybee256 1 year ago
" I want someone who looks like a good baby-maker". ? Right. Lovely. Nice to be wanted for your personality and all.....
Bumblybee256 1 year ago
its a shame really that woman are always thinking about diets cus they think there fat and men like me are always down the gym cus i think women want muscles , i think looking sexy only matters if you want a one night stand or somin
ant851114 1 year ago
at 2:03, I had to look back at it because I thought it said "Eating potential"
I'm like, "Oh god! Men want to eat us!!!"
C3P0meetsData 1 year ago
most men are hypocrites. they'll say they don't like skinny women, yet they'll still slag off a fat one when they see her, or admire a gorgeous, rake-thin model when they see her because she’s a gorgeous face or pair of legs.
women should just be what they want to be (whether that's thin, fat or as i prefer, just healthy; a nice mix of the two) and not give a fuck about what men or anyone else thinks in general.
xopenheartx 1 year ago 3
@xopenheartx False dihcotomy, slagging off fat women does not contradict disliking skinny women. They are not the only two options, like you said, you prefer a nice mix of the two, so do most guys.
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hansikaization 1 year ago
Alan Davis is the fucking man
badman4511 1 year ago
No doubt a woman made this
purplenurps 1 year ago
Don't want a fat chick. It projects the image of low self-worth. Much as if someone didn't choose to bathe or brush their teeth. I mean, it is something 99% of fat people have control over, and yet want the world to change instead of them simply puting down the fork and maybe exercising. It doesn't men that fat chicks are not intelligent, funny, sweet, thoughtful, or good moms. It means I don't want to fuck them. Fat chicks should rejoice over this, because I'm one ugly son of a bitch.
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Applebaum 1 year ago
i'll take a big girl over a skinny girl anyday
jawbreakerzzz1 1 year ago 2
So this video is saying skinny women should feel bad about being skinny?
purplenurps 1 year ago
@purplenurps of course it doesn't! It just means that you shouldn't starve yourself and get obsessed with your weight. I'm naturally slim and all this video is telling me is that it's okay to be any shape and size, as long as you take good care of yourself. You shouldn't be so skinny that it's dangerous, nor should you be so fat that it's dangerous, that's all^^ But then again, that's kinda logical, isn't it?
b4k4chan 1 year ago
@b4k4chan But all the you hear people ripping on skinny women, but no one ever rips on fat girls like they do with skinny girls
purplenurps 1 year ago
@purplenurps well the anorexic ones of course! but if your naturally skinny than obviously not... its not your fault .
ligii55 1 year ago
@ligii55 So if someone has anorexia it's okay to ridicule them?
purplenurps 1 year ago
@purplenurps lol they CHOSE to be annorexic.. i was too a couple of years ago.
noone said to ridicule skinny ppl.. your not getting the point -__-
ligii55 1 year ago
@ligii55 So if you seen an obese woman you'd laugh and call her names to her face?
purplenurps 1 year ago
@purplenurps wow just shut up.
ligii55 1 year ago
@ligii55 You started it you fool
purplenurps 1 year ago
what load of crap women don't want to look thin for men they want to look thin for other women they are the ones who judge them the harshest not men men are only intrested in 3 things and that is tits and flaps .
blobby1972 1 year ago
Whats the song in the background?
Guuling 1 year ago
if our sense of beauty is 'distorted' then how do you explain the asian girls with the clear skin. and yes there are some IN ASIA not the ones that eat this western shit
TENNSUMITSUMA 1 year ago
A new survey has concluded that men nowadays like plumper women in bed because they tend to experiment more and are more sexually open and active.
alaswoeisme 1 year ago 3
I noticed that the majority of ethnic men love thicker women while middle/upper class white men do not. I think the reason is mainly psychology. Ethnic men are taught that they need to have at LEAST one child so their instinct is to look for women that are more curvacious who, in turn, can produce multiple children. The other group of men, are prone to look for what gives them power. The more petite/frail the women is the more powerful the man appears to be and the more control he has
shanellc182 1 year ago 3
@shanellc182 well said
beeutewfull 1 year ago
@shanellc182 utter epic bullshit you are speaking
and pretty racist, too
yelnikcmssur 1 year ago
@yelnikcmssur Yes. I am being racist in the sense that I used ethnicity to support my idea. However, I never degraded one specific race. It has nothing to do with superiority/inferiority of a certain ethnicity. It has ALL to do with culture and the way many people are brought up. Some people are expected to have big families while others are expected to be socially/economically dominant. Men tend to find attraction in women who best portray what they look for in life.
shanellc182 1 year ago
@shanellc182 You used YOUR OBSERVATION of ethnicity to "support" your ideas, no facts, stats, or figures.
That is called stereotyping and when done to ethnicities, it comes across as pretty racist.
yelnikcmssur 1 year ago
maybe its because guys dont wna be squashed in bed...just sayin
P0PmyB0DY 1 year ago
I HATE FAT BITCHES. they always smell like piss and doughnuts
ILOVEHASSELHOFF 1 year ago
i like me some big boned ladies if you know what i mean =D
ZOBBIDOBBI 1 year ago
Some people don't seem to see the difference between fat and normal, nor do some people see the difference between slim and anorexic.
Everybody has tastes but they all differ, just stop being dicks about it and like whatever women you like.
Akadra 1 year ago
I've been skinny and I've been fat. Men liked me fat because they thought they could walk all over me. Now that I'm skinny they act like they want me to walk all over them. It's F'd up because we should be equal, side by side, no matter what the size.
Lambieschmoo 1 year ago
@Lambieschmoo PS Alan Davies' wife is very thin
Lambieschmoo 1 year ago
I love this, thanks to the men who made it!
My favorite part was the rant about nicole richies g string hangin off her ass LMAO
mompm 1 year ago
if thin people get offended by this video, they WHY ARE THEY WATCHING IT?!?!?!?
O.O
AfroPunkprincess 1 year ago
@AfroPunkprincess Because they are interested in what it claims to reveal. Because they are willing to listen to what is being said. But that doesn't justify it being said in an offensive way.
Glorifying women's - ALL women's - beauty is very welcome. But doing so by deprecating some of them in order to prove your point is not only poor form; it is also poor rhetoric.
BinnySkitch 1 year ago
@BinnySkitch but people in our culture only seem to see beauty in only one shape that not everyone can achieve...which isn't fair at all...and hurts...
AfroPunkprincess 1 year ago
@AfroPunkprincess Great! So we agree that it's unfair and it hurts to be put down just because you were born into a shape that you can't - and SHOULDN'T - change. And more putting down "other" ones in order to "balance it out" won't help it. It's not about big *OR* petite women being beautiful (which is the point videos like this are making), but *AND*. It's perfectly possible to glorify wonderous curves without insulting those of us not blessed with them. :)
BinnySkitch 1 year ago
@BinnySkitch if only it was so easy.
Y^Y
AfroPunkprincess 1 year ago
It's quite a stretch to claim someone saying "why d'y'all like these all skinny-ass women lookin' like some goddamned Somalians all malnoutritioned n shit like that" is not being offensive. Calling naturally slim women anorexic means referring to them as mentally ill (eating disorders = psychological diseases). Being called mentally ill because I was born into a small frame is pretty darn offensive if you ask me.
BinnySkitch 1 year ago
And, yes, we know "men luuuv curves", thankyouverymuch, but not all women are lucky enough to be curvy. If it is not socially acceptable to call someone "fat", how come skinny-bashing is so encouraged? It won't save any of those poor ill girls with eating disorders, but there's many skinny women out there who are tired of hearing that skinny = ugly. If it's about accepting ALL body types as beautiful, stop offedning naturally slim women! That's just fucking... weightist.
BinnySkitch 1 year ago
@BinnySkitch it's weightist when you're own boyfriend calls you fat when you weigh 109 pounds and tells you to put down the fork...
AfroPunkprincess 1 year ago
This was fantastic!! I think this should be shown (just the pg parts) to every teenage girl on the planet. Can you say holy FAKE!!
chig4178 1 year ago 11
haha i loved how that guy was soo angry about nicole kidman and ritchie
justmeandmydogs 1 year ago 5
what men want?? who gives a shit :) j/k im teasing..ive seen too many WHITE men that like 100 lb women w/ blonde hair w/ huge fake boobs w/ no opinion.men say one thing and do another...we know men like the pam anderson's...SOME men r so shallow that they rather have the barbie doll then the real women even if it means giving up personality..
39chelle 1 year ago
Nice!
LufflesMrMercury 1 year ago
I think sexual selection is also racially determined, i like thin women with medium to big boobs
serioushamster 1 year ago
If this was a video about how men didn't want big girls it'd be called rude.
It's a subjective opinion.
gavbag1234 1 year ago 3
Yes..... BUT.... some people are still retarded enough to do so. I can tell a girl over and over that she's attractive the way she is but she'll still feel obliged to attempt to look like the stereotypical hot chick. The irony is, there's nothing attractive with someone trying to look like someone else.
Deadlycolli 1 year ago
Whats the point in this video? It's common fucking knowledge that all kinds of woman are attractive!
Deadlycolli 1 year ago 2
I think the point is don't buy these shitty products they're sellin!
LeSadW66 1 year ago
just think, men...if this is what you want in a female...brains looks mummy potential earning etc. ....men have to be the same to find a woman they want. women want to be loved so they can love you. i appreciate the ending to this clip....it should be an ad on tv. true beauty and love is not a scam. and if you want it, you can find it...be patient. the world is about women and men:)
missscientific81 1 year ago
i bet the author of this video is overweight
juniosonga333 1 year ago
husexi girl looking for a sexi guy Or girl hihi
AnusreeAnuradha1 1 year ago
i dont want that much in a girl, alls i want is a good ass, good tits, smart as fuck, makes alot of money, hot ass face, doesnt shit or fart or at least not around me, no gut, good tan, nice hair, awsome eyes, perfect toes and fingers, little hair on her body (prefferably none), good at sex, isnt a slut, god like legs, not to tall and not to short, funny as hell, allows 3 somes, listens to my every command, pays for dinner.
superiormic 1 year ago
@superiormic you say you dont want much from a girl, but everything you just said is a 'perfect' girl. Theirs always ganna be a girl with a gut,or nappy hair,or white skin,or no ass. Everyone has a flaw, NO GIRL is this perfect
gabberzlovesScreamox 1 year ago
"Every girl deserves to feel beautiful the way she is" - good point, but that massively offensive man Sgt. Baker doesn't exactly help. Abusing skinny girls shouldn't be necessary to communicate that you love chubby girls. Just talk of what you love, shut up about what you don't like.
Luckily, my impression is that "there's a man for any girl - some guys can't get their women fat enough, it turns them on, others really love the flat-chested style..." Yes, it's so! Everyone is sexy to someone.
ZolotayaKoshka 1 year ago
well
melollylolly 2 years ago
i have been out of the dating game since my husband died; i wonder nowadays--what do men really want? clue me in: please; and i am not skinny......nor am i hugely fat; i just wanna know...i guess my dating skills need tuning up....
melollylolly 2 years ago
curves... real men anyway
SpEeDoUt88 2 years ago
whats the music called and whos is it by
shadyreefer69 2 years ago
MsSquarePants, it's the principle of the video. Take for example, i'm 14, i'm not fat, but i'm slightly over average. I've got a bigger bra size than quite alot of girls, and a bigger bum as well. Some people call me fat, and it gets me down sometimes. This is a feel good video for girls in a similar situation to me.
purpleGeorgia 2 years ago 4
What a nice way to make naturally skinny girls feel ugly. Good work.
MsSquarePants 2 years ago
@MsSquarePants
i guess, but im naturally underweight and i still find it comforting to know that its ok to be any weight!
TheChangingcolours 1 year ago
@TheChangingcolours
I just think, that this video states that it is not okay to be underweight.
MsSquarePants 1 year ago
Well who cares what the guys think? What about those girls that are ''too skinny'' or ''too big''? Don't you think their figure and weight affects them too? I'm only 14, and that's way too young to worry about appearances, unless u have peer pressure, but I always think my hips are too big, my chest is too small and everything else sucks. Sure I'm tall, but that makes me taller then the guys, and I just seem like a giant. Trust me, the girls hate it more then u guys :/
HollieTash 2 years ago
LMAO that black guy was reading my mind, he's freakin hilarious.
PreparationH 2 years ago 3
hey im skinny... i look good.. theres a difference between being anorexic.... i like the ending tho... its true... guys just want a girl nextdoor...
1215martha 2 years ago
Superb!
GoingGaGa5678 2 years ago
Am I the only one a little put off by the "I'd like a woman who looks like a good baby-maker" quote? I mean, thanks for the sentiment, but I don't want guys looking at me like, "Yeah, I bet she's thick enough to push ten of my babies through her!"
Bardlettt 2 years ago 5
R E S P E C T
All I'm askin' is for a little respect.
I looked for a woman with a big heart and eventually, I found her. :-)
proudguy 2 years ago 3
haha black guy is awsome!
xantoniax2006 2 years ago
lol the black guy is funny
zilbra1 2 years ago 4
how interesting
Babiigurl554 2 years ago
Has this guy got roid rage or something...he's angry??
LabRat6619 2 years ago
the music is too distracting
msquestionmark 2 years ago 20
Who give a fuck what these two think anyway? Sometimes woman are naturally thin - not because they are annorexic or diet too much but because they are naturally built that way - imagine if those two men were talking about fat women that way - everyone would go mad - it seems you can slag off skinny people as much as you want and praise obese people. Obesity is a bigger problem in this country
LGreener25 2 years ago 6
its kinda true though i admit it im a little overweight and sometimes i like to define myself as curvy to justify this...i dont really care if im not skinny but would like to be healthy..btw the second guys talks very aggresively about skinny women theres nothing wrong with being skinny!
momasharif 2 years ago 3
its more the fact that he uses the term skinny for anorectics
AdoniBezek 2 years ago
the real question should be "do men want a bitch to fuck or a soul to love?" if you just want a bitch to fuck then yeah describe looks, but if you want love you better start looking deeper than skin.
TheRealReasonForDP 2 years ago 4
i am so happy i am thin because that means "i won't have to go out with any of these men."
mybelladream 2 years ago
Honestly, I don't think there's anything more sexist than a man having a go at skinny girls. People think it's shallow for a man to tell a woman she's too fat, so why is it okay for a man to tell a woman she's too skinny. Fair enough if they're weight is causing health problems, but a guy's got no right to look down on a skinny woman and say she's shallow and superficial. Men are constantly telling women what they should look like, girl's should just ignore it. They can't please every one.
SarahHolman 2 years ago 4
naturally skinny women should not get offended by seeing things like this... this is not a crack @ them at all! Ofcourse they look good because that's their natural shape (lucky them)! Things like this are only put out to create awareness and they are criticising the ideal that women/people are presented with! Not everyone is 'naturally skinny', infact the stats show that most aren't but yet that is the ONLY body type we see as desirable and attractive! this is to make people think!!!
:-D
laninder 2 years ago 71
@laninder I am 5'6 and 110 pounds, I cannot get bigger. My body is not designed that way just like a person who is 160 lbs is designed that way. I am not saying I don't eat healthy, workout, and get exercise but everybody and every body needs to be appreciated.
wizfriz 11 months ago
Mmm those seem especially selected to broadcast the message that men like curvy women.. Well newflash girls: curvy = breasts and butt. The cheese ain't gonna make it.
The trouble now is that girls understand curvy as downright overweight/obese..
pinkshrimp 2 years ago 2
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The problem with dating women with a little meat on their bones is this: they have little self control and in 5 years they will be borderline obese. In 10 years they will be twice as large.
Having a little baby fat is fine. But most likely in the future that fat will turn into pounds of blubber.
Skinny women are better because they are more likely to stay fit and at least they wont end up looking like a whale
bj07bran7 2 years ago
When is the last time this man took a lady out to eat a big meal in a really nice restaurant?
- probably never
ammusi 2 years ago
I admit man's idea of the perfect woman is superficail but that doesn't take away from the fact that they are the idea of the perfect woman. When alan davis talks about skinny he means, boney skinny. He doesn't mean that he prefers women with big lovely love handles. I will be the first to admit that i would be more attracted to the ' false' woman than the real one. The part where you said men realy want and then you showed a picture of a chubby ugly woman is bullshit. If a man wants that - gay
chickenfillets74 2 years ago
Hot damn sometimes I ask myself why women's and men's demands are so damn superficial. Men need to have muscles, butts, good income? Women need to have big chest, butt etc. Only appearance, like a big butt or bigger titties could have a nice good conversation with you. And like much money can buy a personality. A real realistic women or man would as for intelligence, kindness and have looks that fit yours. No superficial relationship is gonna last.
royalsteven 2 years ago 5
I don't like big women at all. If they're big @ 25 they'll be bigger @ 35 and so on. Sex is limited in its positions. A nice average woman is fine, even on the thin side is O.K. I don't want a girl who weighs more than me.
upinflamezzz 2 years ago
Yup, why can women not accept that they are beautiful to a man's eyes?
And cut that shit out "Does this make me look fat"? Bullshit
I wouldn't be with you if I didn't think you're drop dead gorgeous
oisinparis 2 years ago 47
@oisinparis this commet actually really got my attenchon. see really girls are pressured by everyone to look " thin and tone" we are bulleyed and tortured by it at times. its hard to see how beautyful we really are when the world only acepts a certin kind of woman as beautyful. anyways my point is that its hard to be happy with yourself when it feels like no one els is.
cdevilx 1 year ago
@cdevilx With ALL my last GFs they always gave me variations of "Do you think I'm fat/my ass looks big in these trousers."
You say that the world only accepts women as a certain kind of woman??
I call complete nonsense. Nobody is perfect. I'm not by any means perfect, I'm 5'2" and a non muscular guy, even though the perception of a good catch is a muscular guy with a good job.
oisinparis 1 year ago
i like some meat on my boones lol
he likes big black momas basically, ones who's arses are so round, u could rest your pint on her whilst she's standing..
wardyboy26 2 years ago
that black guy is sooooooooo funny
iflyhighalldaylong 2 years ago
when they elongated her neck, i almost died...
ififellinlove77 2 years ago
5 stars favourited, the FUCKING TRUTH.
IWasSavingThatBacon 2 years ago
hey, what is the background music? xx
stae7 2 years ago
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Beth4BRMC 2 years ago
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so men want white women then?
Applebaum 2 years ago
your a smart person lol just saying I saw this video and I was like wow someone understands,
MacyMia 2 years ago
good stuff very insightful
CouplesLite 2 years ago
i really liked this video. it's good to know the mans perspective from there own lips. but i have been looking through all the comments and i realized how different people have a different opinions on what is attractive. it's the same way for girls. my sister likes tall skinny men. i personally don't care how tall they are and would rather them be not anerexic skinny or unhealthily fat.
MegtheMusical 2 years ago
Its very easy, there is no ideal woman looks wise. Personality does have an ideal woman.
For instance I may prefer a big breasted blonde first, but then a week later I might prefer a big breasted brunette, then a big breasted redhead a week later. ... Then I might have a liking to a walking pair of breasts without hair. But still, ... bwwaaoooobzz..
Thecriticofdooooom 2 years ago
what is the name of the background music? thanks
lilyhui1989 2 years ago 2
I don't know any guys that like size 0 girls, which I'm assuming is what you really mean by skinny... size 10-14 (bottoms) i think is the perfect size to be, you look healthy and in proportion.
I'm 5.9ft, I'm spanish/english, 10 top 12 bottom... people say size 12+ is considered fat, but people often say I'm a good size to be... I'm curvy and yet still "skinny"
I've forgotten my point
kelzybub306 2 years ago 2
honestly, can't be arsed to read all the comments so sorry if anyone else has mentioned this, but wouldn't this be better if they'd just kept to the comedy and not had any of the music/random ranting bloke going on about skinny girls??
gottagetaway77 2 years ago 5
Turn off the bloody music.
JDLupus 2 years ago 6
I KNOW RIGHT!!!
xXazuraXx 2 years ago
Okay, so I agree with the whole 'starving yourself to be thin' bullshit is pathetic.
But what about the girls that are just NATURALLY thin? : / I'm naturally skinny; does that mean I'm unattractive and are starving myself? No.
RayAssefi 2 years ago 7
I agree, and I'm the same.
xXazuraXx 2 years ago
Nice one.
cindyshealed 2 years ago
Men are obviously different in their opinions. The guy talking about his dislike of skinny women, Nicole Kidman and so on sounds like a complete idiot. Richie and Kidman doesn't need his ill opinion about their body type! Many girls who are skinny simply looks like that and are beautiful in their own way. Keira Knightly for example has been blamed for being anorexic when she clearly has always been skinny! People need to stop being so disrespectful to bodytypes!
aslightnod 2 years ago 3
Keira Knightly has always been skinny but what was added to her to make her seem attractive? A spotlight. A pedestal. Hype. There is no better makeover than the apparent attention of others. When she was a teenager in Bend it like Beckham were there thousands of men lusting after her because she was thin? No. She was young, smart, pretty and feisty, that was what was attractive. The thinness and lack of any hint of breasts made her less attractive. She was attractive DESPITE being awfully thin.
MartinJWillett 2 years ago
I agree with you. I by no means meant that "it isn't her fault", Keira is very beautiful as she is. I relize my comment can be missunderstood like that.
Seriously, women as well as men will always look different and all can't please you. So why all the bloody eating disorders, plastic surgery and obsessive exersize? If a person want to change, they should do it for themselfs and not for what they think all men or women want..
aslightnod 2 years ago 2
Another example of men judging women whether they a deemed to skinny or too fat. Either way its judging women by their looks. Seriously, men think they are god's gift, just shut the fuck up women don't want your opinions!
Biff1234569 2 years ago 3
Thank you.
xXazuraXx 2 years ago
thanks for the dose of reality. quite well done. i'm a little bit larger than average and my guy and i are quite happy.
hobnailrose 3 years ago
This comment has received too many negative votes show
No man likes meat on their woman..
xXxSweet696 3 years ago
Prefer meat in than meat on personally!
LeighHobnob 3 years ago
I think the moral here is be what you want to be, not what you think other people would like you to be. No matter who you are or where you live, be yourself and enjoy life. That's what matters.
AceDemon939 3 years ago
god dont hav a stress
hes jokin cus he noes men dont actualy like realy skinny womn!!!
alan davis <3 (Y)
BeckyBoo2U2 3 years ago 2
I only found one mistake... I want to see kelly clarkson in porn.
206Nish 3 years ago
true that!
uanimale 3 years ago
this made me fall in love with alan davies
JJbelle66 3 years ago
isn't he just lovely? have you watched all of the QI videos with stephen fry and alan davies. highly recommended!
hobnailrose 3 years ago 3
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schwaldf 3 years ago
Meat is for the men, and bones are for the dog, m`man.
padaalsa 3 years ago 4
freakin amazing analogy!!
LUCKEGRL16 3 years ago
Absolutely brilliant!!! Bravo!!
malibu620 3 years ago
I love you, Alan Davies.
oleannanabokov 3 years ago