Re: baby mama

[marstheimp]

I learned at a ripe young age, no fucking period because the out come is permenate weather it be kids or disease, fucking out of wed lock has no good consequence, weather you believe it or not. Dead beats weather male or female come from the act of having sex... thats the problem and everyone is guilty no excuses. And yes i had mine the way i thought i shoulda through marriage but thats not guaranteed either she died so still left with no mom does that make her a dead beat. only when your ready

[LUV2TALKDEB]

@marstheimp she cant be a dead beat if she had passed on.

[TheCasu305]

Honestly, no kids for me, ever. My children are my guitars and keyboards. At least I can be at ease knowing i don;t ever want kids for the 'father' reason. My father was nowhere in my life until he randomly waited until I graduated college to come. My mother gets mad when i put him off as the outcast. Nice video ;-)

[LUV2TALKDEB]

@TheCasu305 sorry u didnt have ur dad. but kids really a joy if u change ur mind in the future:)

[dweakley1]

You are RIGHT!...But, like you said IT'S SOOOO HARD when HE IS DROPPING THE BALL!!!

[dbanner56]

Great Advice

[LUV2TALKDEB]

@dbanner56 thanks

[bwpnasty]

preach girl preach!!!

[LUV2TALKDEB]

@bwpnasty thanks

[324Rashad]

I agree 200%.... I have been there before.You are putting the right message out .We as women shouldn't focus so much on the dead beats . Our children need positive energy not negative.

[LUV2TALKDEB]

@324Rashad thanks I agree

[thicksista69]

well said...i totally agree!!!!!!!!!

[LUV2TALKDEB]

@thicksista69 thanks

[anson16]

agree 

[dondiamond08]

I feel the same way... i learned that its not good to bad mouth the dad to the child when the child gets older they will see for themselves. i learned this in my parenting classes. i never met my own father but i dont have any hard feelings for him... i smile and collect his child support every month no problem.

[LUV2TALKDEB]

@dondiamond08 good for u. im sure its his loss

[1lilwayne2weezy]

ok thn...

[auntimomi777]

I understand and hear what you're saying,

but I wish black and white people would

stop with the saying "babymama/daddy

drama and the whole nasty sounding description. there is a relationship that

never ends with the birth of a child and I

feel it's being demeaned and ghettotized.

Men and women should have more respect for themselves and their children and not use that saying. Keep the faith.

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[LUV2TALKDEB]

I FEEL U

[claudilicius7]

hey Mom no need to justify ur life to no bitch

[LUV2TALKDEB]

i know..thanks

[famousfuture]

........Okay I understand if you use protection & it didnt work. But if you go in knowing that person is not up to par then it is your fault. The signs were always there. Trust me I have had my share of assholes. But I don't want to be called anyone's babymama. Or my child to hear me say babydaddy. It sounds negative & degrating. It sounds like we can't stand one another to the point that we can't even say one another name.

[LUV2TALKDEB]

I FEEL U

[MzPeachesnCream]

um was that you in that baby mama vid? the one that was standing to the side??? and one more thing are u naked in the response vid? lmao

[LUV2TALKDEB]

im not really sure which baby mama vid u are talking about. but i dont remember being in any other vids on this topic. and i dont remember if i was naked. sometimes i am. sometimes i have on a skirt pulled up over my boobs. just depends on how i feel.

[1HandsomeJohnny]

I feel in this generation black people are lost. Its not fair that there's so many baby daddies/mommas in this country and i'm bailing their asses with my taxes

[LUV2TALKDEB]

with all due respect, i have no problem with people opinions, but this is not a black thing. white women have issues with dead beats also. so lets not make this a black woman black man thing.

[shaquittaboo]

i agree black men do need to men up and i agree with child support my babydaddys a asshole.

[LUV2TALKDEB]

thats too bad, thanks for the comment

[liddleqnzbabi22]

Why are you in the bathroom doing a video & naked? Weird.

[LUV2TALKDEB]

the bathroom has the best lights. the vids come out dark in other parts of the house. and its right there in my room. im not always naked sometimes i have on a halter type but who knows.

[stogler]

Are you naked?

[LUV2TALKDEB]

YES

[plumprandy]

BULL FUCKEN SHIT. All they wanna do is fuck and run,low life motherfuckers. Shoot the motherfuckers. Then they make more "Baby Mamas" with other woman and repeat their fucken GHETTO lowlife actions. WAKE UP.They just use you and run. They walk around with their stupid GHETTO proudness saying-"That there be my other Baby Mama".They need to pick up their fucken pants.

[LUV2TALKDEB]

UMMM OK

[kievia04]

LMAO!

[LUV2TALKDEB]

so very true.

[SSBBWEXPRESSIONS]

Thanks so much for your support I really can use all thats given. Although our lives are similar, having more children isnt a option of mines(Ive learned the first time)my daughter is plenty and a handful. Blessings and Love. -alota

[LUV2TALKDEB]

you are welcome. and i wish you and her all the best.