# 156 - *Whisper* Learn to Love Yourself

[chazwhinham]

Thank you so much this video made me realise a lot about myself and the way I live and I'm not ashamed to say I cried. Such kind words, thank you :)

[Vermontensium]

Thank you so much for this video

[lv2xlr8NOW]

Thank you for this video. There is more to you than ASMR and just a soothing voice. You have a gift that is amazing because it is truth and heart felt. You are a breath of fresh air to humanity. I am blown away! You make me want to be a better person. Thanks for the motivation. I wish I could be around you or someone as beautiful as you are inside. I guess that is a good goal to start with. Thanks again for your great videos and have a wonderful and full life

[GiraffeOmelette]

I Love falling asleep to your videos - I always feel awesome when I wake up when I do.:)

[rilakumab]

Whisperingcrystal, your video is really helping me. My boyfriend has just broken up with me. I have been beating up myself since then. Now I start to realize that it is not about me not loving him enough, it is about me not loving myself. I am going to choose a happier life and love myself.

[blazerjd108]

i love your voice

[lukaqota]

Watch this video with the snow button.

[cataubawoman]

Can you come live in my iPod?

[carducho]

this may sound silly, but this video touched my heart and gave me a lot to think about. Thanks, Crystal. Thanks a lot.

[MtMarshi]

@lamontsanford33830 she could be acne riddenand 500 lbs for all I care shes an amazing wonderful person, dont be so shallow

[orbajo]

This is one topic I think more people need to be educated on. You can't make someone else happy in ANY kind of relationship, if you aren't happy with yourself and love yourself first. Great choice of message, and great delivery as always.

[xTheCRiMiNaLx]

Yay

[unclewesley95]

you are absolutly beautiful. that voice of you have. i love listening to you.

[unclewesley95]

im your biggest fan. i love your voice.

[ThabassWhispers]

I like the imagery you use in your videos. I'm pretty new to your channel, so I will ask: Are they your own drawings?

[gregp5867]

Brilliant, as always.

[yowee1234]

Such a good topic! .... And just in time for me! Your videos not only relax me, but they make me feel happier. Thank-you for your wisdom. :)

[MtMarshi]

@whispercrystal Really?! Well now i have a gorgeous face to put to the beautiful voice! ;)

[KramLlessur]

I only love myself part-time lol.  Trying to make it a full time though, and this is pretty helpful!

[WhisperCrystal]

@MrTravisk Thank you very  much, I'm pleased to hear you enjoyed it :)

[Kainlarsen]

I have a feeling that you look somewhat similar to the girl in the picture.^_^

[SoundOfAViolin]

@megaankylosaurus

I think it's more of a accept who you are thing. But loving yourself doesn't mean stop improving.

[Kenzi0425able]

I've been so depressed about my weight. I just want it gone. I gained too much and I hate being overweight. I've had nervous breakdowns, I've cried, and I have tried SO HARD not to give in and starve myself.

[MegaAnkylosaurus]

If you are alive when you love yourself, I'm dead. I'm a horrible person. I have reason to fight your philosophies. I feel that when you see the worst in yourself and hate yourself you are the most alive. If you love yourself you are unaware of your faults which makes you erogant and selfrighteous. When there is something wrong with you it is ALL your fault. This is what I believe.

[gregp5867]

Crystal > Tylenol PM

[Zephyrica]

I heart you

[gambit2479]

ive learned to restrain my pain and nostalgie bye using my anger to warm myself up, one day when i have a girlfreind/soulmate, i can finally be happy!

I am 17 years old, and iv'e never had a girlfreind because of my weight...

but now that ive started excercising and facing my fears, i will soon rise above this and comeout victorious! The beast that is my fear will die a bloody death!

[Da40cal]

Why smoke weed when u got WhisperCrystal?

[MegaAnkylosaurus]

@Da40cal Ever tried both?

[Da40cal]

@MegaAnkylosaurus Yep, i overdosed. ( :

[avocadoisdelicious]

haha as soon as i saw the picture i thought of Lux off League of Legends

[Uberleet123123]

@avocadoisdelicious Lux? dosent really look like her.

[Uberleet123123]

@avocadoisdelicious nevermind, i take that back haha

[Medusa7700Siren]

Hello I've listened to your videos before but this is the first time I've commented I always love the pictures you use :) Last night I was watching a vid on youtube that I thought would be funny, but it unnerved me pretty bad and I couldn't get calm Then I watched your video and it calmed me down ^_^ I almost dozed off on the couch lol ;D Thank you so much! ^_^

[HalloFusilli]

A man who as a physical being is always turned toward the outside, thinking that his happiness lies outside him, finally turns inward and discovers that the source is within him. -Soren Kierkegaard

[broncobilly05]

you have the sweetest most calming voice i have ever heard, thank you for helping night owls like me finally get some sleep. :)

[rkfan100]

I've imagined that you look similar to the picture of the girl in the video.

[CountrySweetheart7]

oh my gosh this was so amazing! please keep making videos like this! i love them

[LordAlucardsbride]

Sent this to a friend of mine today! She really loved it! ^_^

[BobbaBobzy]

The picture made me feel uglier than ever :(

[MtMarshi]

That pic is almost exactly how i imagine you to look Crystal, Except with red hair instead of blonde! :)

[WhisperCrystal]

@MtMarshi Aww, funny enough right now I have platinum blonde hair like in the picture and even the length is right! ;)

[tizzly]

@WhisperCrystal nom nom! More long hair on girls please! Especially ones with such a beautiful voice!

[lamontsanford33830]

@MtMarshi Haha, she's probably 5'5" 267 lbs.

[GhostOrchid]

Of all the whisperers I listen to, you're the one that always make me feel...great. Like someone reached out through the screen and gave me a big hug and told me I was awesome. I hope you get as much happiness out of this as we do!

[WhisperCrystal]

@GhostOrchid Thank you so much for your kind words and best wishes :) *hugs*

[Lalabeachbetty]

Could you please sing All the Pretty Little Horses? I'd really appreciate it! :D

[1morewhisper]

I really loved this :)

[tinyman51]

thank you

[HellYeah285]

Just.... Thank you. You must to be one of the sweetest person on youtube!

[thekeyboarddude]

you do not need to LOVE yourself. BUT if you want to make some progress, you will need at LEAST to accept and like yourself. always remember, people: almost EVERYONE in your life you'll meet is replaceable and disposable. but not you. not your body, not yourself. be egoistic in life. youve been given this one chance...use it. also: there is no ugliness. beauty is skindeep. if you do not accept your inner beauty, you wont see the outer for SURE. whoever mocks you, does not deserve you.

[nissenkarina]

Thank you so much for making videos, I think you are the best whisper on youtube. I sooooo love your whisper it is so relaxing.

[WhisperCrystal]

@nissenkarina Aww, thank you so much hun.... Always a pleasure to hear from you! :) xxx

[leopardface1]

Pure bliss.

[GxAxW]

Silver hair and purple eyes. Daenerys Stormborn.

[RAGIG]

love it, all of your videos are amazing

[jrhAlpha3]

Thank you.

[CandysAllMediaReview]

I sure needed this, so thanks girl!!!

[Gakusei1973]

Thank you for making this! I do have low self-esteem and this video is very helpful for me. I even shared this video on my Facebook page so that my other Facebook friends with low self-esteem can also benefit from this. Thank you so much! :)

[WhisperCrystal]

@Gakusei1973 Thank you my dear, I really hope others benefit from it too. You all deserve to be happy <3

[RebirthWoWGuild]

Very relaxing whisper and adorable choice of picture crystal.

[RebirthWoWGuild]

Adorable picture lol

[ElPalomaloUno]

@WhisperCrystal You are so amazing! You are a very kind, sweet and caring person! I know for sure that I am not the only one who appreciates what you do for us! Thank you so much! :)

[WhisperCrystal]

@ElPalomaloUno It's my pleasure, thank you for enjoying my videos! :)

[lotusfae]

I love that picture! Where do you find all these lovely fantasy/dreamlike pictures?

[WhisperCrystal]

@lotusfae I include the links in the description box.... Thank you for enjoying them! :) x

[WhisperDeeply]

I'd ask you to marry me....if you weren't already married of course.....

[PrettyFreakinWise]

@WhisperDeeply Get in line. Lol.

[pwnedforlife]

I wish I could hug your personality : D

[okj2luvscanarys]

@pwnedforlife Psh, if I ever got that close I'd hug her whole self. Cryst, you should make this a carrer! :D

[okj2luvscanarys]

@okj2luvscanarys carreer, excuse me :)

[bullo247]

@okj2luvscanarys career*



[okj2luvscanarys]

@bullo247 *Slams head on desk*

[WhisperCrystal]

@okj2luvscanarys Aww so cute *hugs* :) xxx

[maurocartaxo]

@pwnedforlife

Can you hug an angel...?

[pwnedforlife]

@maurocartaxo only if she would let you :P

[WhisperCrystal]

@pwnedforlife *hugs* :)

[jokunimijotaeiole]

Brilliant video Crystal !!

Thank You..again (:

[jhayes177]

I have struggled with this alot, especially recently with going through divorce, thank you so much for this vid, I really can't thank you enough for what you do :)

[jefferyshimkus]

what a great theme. You're such a good person to do this for people who need help.

[GothicTrioOfEdwards]

Thank you WhisperCrystal, your videos are always amazing. You're such a sweet person ^^

[WhisperCrystal]

@GothicTrioOfEdwards Thank you hun, you are a sweet person to support all of us <3

[GayWhisperGuy]

This was a beautiful video and one that is much needed in our community right now. Always a pleasure listening to you dear heart, please dont ever change!

[WhisperCrystal]

@GayWhisperGuy Thank you, the feeling is mutual my lovely <3

[dajman15]

I definitely have low self-esteem and it certainly causes me to worry when trying new things. I start at a new college on Monday and instead of looking forward to learning about things that interest me and meeting new friends, I keep thinking about what people will think of me and what could go wrong, despite going to an induction day that went down really well and where I met some really cool people who I had much in common with.

Anyway, thanks for this <3

[WhisperCrystal]

@dajman15 I hope your week is going well, and you are enjoying your new college. You are a kind person, and your comments always make me smile. I'm sure you will continue to meet lots of nice people and have great fun. You deserve to be happy! :)

[manderson610]

This is one of my biggest issues--loving myself, feeling worthy of love, etc. Thank you for doing this!

[jamkabi]

First comment Yay!