On a more serious note, I think you both could benefit from some actually BJJ training. It would give more structure to your grappling sessions and teach you some self defense.
@allentate Thanks for the honest feedback. We have been looking for a skilled teacher to work with us, we are both committed to finding one this year! I agree, we could both benefit from having more training. I rather like vale tudo training over BJJ training, however.
@johnpriley It's fairly unlikely to find vale tudo in the U.S. The most closely related training would be an MMA school where they did have a focus on grappling.
I would check the lineage of any such school to make sure they are teaching true grappling based in some wrestling, judo, BJJ, sambo or other legitimate form of grappling.
While I respect your right to combine your training and sexuality, I trust you understand that that would have to remain at home.
@allentate I would never violate another's boundaries by expressing my sexuality in a traditional training environment. However, I disagree that my training and my sexuality must remain at home. I know first hand the kind of psychological and spiritual damage I have done to myself by denying myself dignified, respectful, loving, and warm expression for the aggression that comes from my nuts. My goal is create an environment where they do not have to be separate. I am not alone in this.
can either of you stand on each others abs and have u lift the guy up using only the ab muscles ? i have a buddy who has a guy stand on his gut and he lifts them up and down using only his rock hard abs ture storng abs
@mysonisbadazz Thanks for the good suggestions man. Ideally, I would love to find a skilled BJJ practitioner to coach both of us during these sessions. I'll look into that idea further now that you've reminded me of it. The DVDs are a good investment.
On a more serious note, I think you both could benefit from some actually BJJ training. It would give more structure to your grappling sessions and teach you some self defense.
allentate 1 month ago
@allentate Thanks for the honest feedback. We have been looking for a skilled teacher to work with us, we are both committed to finding one this year! I agree, we could both benefit from having more training. I rather like vale tudo training over BJJ training, however.
johnpriley 1 month ago
@johnpriley It's fairly unlikely to find vale tudo in the U.S. The most closely related training would be an MMA school where they did have a focus on grappling.
I would check the lineage of any such school to make sure they are teaching true grappling based in some wrestling, judo, BJJ, sambo or other legitimate form of grappling.
While I respect your right to combine your training and sexuality, I trust you understand that that would have to remain at home.
allentate 1 month ago
@allentate I would never violate another's boundaries by expressing my sexuality in a traditional training environment. However, I disagree that my training and my sexuality must remain at home. I know first hand the kind of psychological and spiritual damage I have done to myself by denying myself dignified, respectful, loving, and warm expression for the aggression that comes from my nuts. My goal is create an environment where they do not have to be separate. I am not alone in this.
johnpriley 1 month ago
@johnpriley I guess all that I meant was the first part, which you acknowledged. "At home" was simply the expression I used.
allentate 4 weeks ago
Needs more baby oil.
allentate 1 month ago
about bloody time lol great effort Dave
steadyed 6 months ago
can either of you stand on each others abs and have u lift the guy up using only the ab muscles ? i have a buddy who has a guy stand on his gut and he lifts them up and down using only his rock hard abs ture storng abs
leeinvegas 6 months ago
amazing video, JP! Thanks
soflasub 6 months ago
you two need to do more PRO STYLE.
cub35guy 6 months ago
@cub35guy Not with Dave! We connect in the submission space. Just how it is with us.
johnpriley 6 months ago
@johnpriley it's all good man. still like your effort.
cub35guy 6 months ago
Why don't you guys take some classes at a local BJJ school? Or, invest in some BJJ instructunal dvd's?
mysonisbadazz 6 months ago
@mysonisbadazz Thanks for the good suggestions man. Ideally, I would love to find a skilled BJJ practitioner to coach both of us during these sessions. I'll look into that idea further now that you've reminded me of it. The DVDs are a good investment.
johnpriley 6 months ago
Good male bonding...this is what all males need from time-to-time
and the world would be a much happier place..
adultzfun 6 months ago
@adultzfun Complete Agreement.
johnpriley 6 months ago