bullshit. this shit is old. most of real dark/brown skin black men (not mixed ones) are with black women even if they are ugly or fat as shit smh! if some black men date/marry outside its only because black women want pink white man's penises just like in porn that's why! MOST OF BLACK WOMEN HAVE SEX WITH ALOT OF MEN FROM OTHER RACES THAT ARE DISEASED! MOST BLACK WOMEN THINK THAT THEY ARE BETTER THAN BLACK MEN, SO THEY SEEK NON-BLACK PARTNERS AND THIS THE RESULT!
STFU and go back to your Black Panther Meeting you racist asshole,. Get with the times and deal with the fact that beautiful looking black women date us white men. lol
There is a lot o fsingles black africans in europe looking for good black females. Let us build bridges!! You can take contact @ leonlevis123@yahoo.fr. Am a french speaking african but am exited about this opportunity. :-)
a beautiful bw like yourself who wants a good bm can get one (two or three). bw who have a hard time finding quality bm, usually got some issues or don't really want a bm to begin with. or they want drama or a thug or whatever dysfunctional bs they like to surround themselves with. i''m a 1st gen aa with caribbean parents so i try to avoid the ghetto nonsense and self-hate / self-destructive behavior. there are 1.6 billion bp in the world. so aaw need to cut the lame excuses.
In reality, a lot of these BW don't want a good man. The good men are often overlooked by BW. They rather put him in the friend zone. Also a lot of BW buy into the bullshit the media tell them. The woman on tv show look bad. There's got to be something wrong with her. There got to be more to her than what she has told.
The true core of the problem is todays ultra-feminist black grandmothers who rebelled and went from being strong black women who were the rock of their families to being loud and extremely proud strong totally independent gangsta b****es who have extremely warped concepts of strength and masculinity.
As is very concisely explained in the book called "The Black Girl Curse" no one had ever heard of strong totally independent black women before the advent of mass govt assistance in the mid 70s.
This subject is sad however, there are so many outside factors that keep black women and men from getting together. Not all of us but A LOT of us are caught up materialistic side of things, instead of finding someone who has potential and drive. We are too lazy and refuse to put in work. We are looking for someone with everything in place instead of building something with someone. Don't get me wrong certain things you need to have besides a dream but, you know what I'm trying to get at.
I'm a good white man, just throwing that out there.
Building a bridge and getting over it = "Drop some of your needs!" - That's George Carlin...he was white, but let's stop pretending this is a race issue when it's really just a people issue.
Black women stay discriminating while a black man will go out to the mall and to corporate conventions, political events, talk to women in college. Its crazy
A number of black women unfortunately feel entitled to the man of their choosing, but aren't willing to improve themselves or reassess their value and lowering unreasonable standards in order to connect with someone they can feel satisfied with.
@SoFlyCee, that is very true. People need to realize rules go both ways. Some women feel they don't want to talk to man who doesn't match up to their standards. Because they feel that is settling. But what they don't realize when they find a man they are interested in, and the man isn't interested in them, it could be because HE doesn't want to settle either. I know most women don't like to think those terms. But men have their standards too. The concept of settling goes both ways.
Sorry, but statistics nation wide seem to suggest that you are wrong.
Black couple marriages are shockingly down in the past decade. While divorce rates over the past 10 years have decreased for every other couple pairings, it's the same for black couples in the US. While BM/WW divorce rates over the past ten years is twice as high as W/W divorce rates, WM/BW divorce rate is 43% LOWER than W/W divorce rates and WAY less than the BM/WW divorce rate. The common "bad stat" denominator is black men.
Sorry, but statistics nation wide seem to suggest that you are wrong.
Black couple marriages are shockingly down in the past decade. While divorce rates over the past 10 years have decreased for every other couple pairings, it's the same for black couples in the US. While BM/WW divorce rates over the past ten years is twice as high as W/W divorce rates, WM/BW divorce rate is 43% LOWER than W/W divorce rates and WAY less than the BM/WW divorce rate. The common "bad stat" denominator is black men.
@MsKSera I will never speak out against and negatively Black Women nor would it be proper Male behavior and of course as a Black woman you have a right to address this but your video is appreciated.
(correction) In my opinion in this Freudian society, the majority of black women in the US and UK who are over 25 and single are like a corrupted hard drive, they just don't run right and they're severely deluded. The reason i say this is because the majority seem to equate perspective partners based on the parameters of white society. It's not all your fault, you were setup and you took the bait. The media image of a black woman right now is "Precious."
In my opinion in this current Freudian society the majority of black women in the US and UK who are over 25 and single are like a corrupted hard drive, they just don't run right, and they're severely deluded. The reason i say this is because the majority seem to equate perspective black partners based on the parameters of white society. It's not all your fault though, you were setup and you took the bait. The image of a black woman right now is "Precious," that is how the media you projected.
Yeah, sistas (& bros) need to change the song...cuz gettin the same or worse results really ain't the biz! It starts with what we say...power of the word/tongue...speak what you want to see.
The sister on Russian news was my ex-girlfriend whom at the time I wanted to marry but she was on some bs. I even met her parents and played a role model for her son.
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Ya know, MsKsera, you are absolutely right! Everybody is responsible for their own happiness. You have people in good relationships who are unhappy. People with money are unhappy. People with nice jobs and homes are unhappy. People who may have peace can be unhappy. Some beautiful people are unhappy, depression. It all boils down to a decision you make to be happy. I think happines could be translated as contentment which is also satisfaction. U've got a lot going on for yourself, lovely! Peace♥
Love the video miss, your beautiful and have a mind to match..the only thing I disliked was when you said men are tuning ro homosexuality..I highly doubt not having a woman will be reasoning to turn gay...
@Terrealimthetruth Preciate ya. Yeah we're on the same page with that because I don't believe a man not having a woman would turn him gay lol The point I was making when I referenced homosexual men is that they'll build a bridge, do what they want to do and go after what they want, same goes for heterosexual men....men in general imo.
The majority of my black female friends tend to pour themselves into school, work, their artistic projects, anything really, but are not that interested in finding partners. I often want to ask them why, but I may have my answer here. Thanks for the insight. :)
I'm 29, Spanish-Italian, raised in London. Own my own business and speak 4 languages, I dated 3 black women because I think dark / tanned skin can be sexy. Now happily dating a Chinese girl. Nuff said. Great video though.
I see it like this. Black women were too busy chasing thugs in their early days. Then when they reach 30 they want to flip the script and now it's time to find a good black man. Only thing is, many of us didn't sit around and wait. There were other women that choose us when the black women didn't.
I don't understand this topic. The people who complain the most about not having a good man/woman are always part of the problem. It's like the 2 groups are made for each other. I don't have this problem.
Its all the media ,The super wealthy control everything ....the wars we go to ,the media to brainwash people ....democrats or republician ...it dont matter ...Thats just to confuse people .Its not a race thing ,Its people that have passed money from generation to generation and they want to control everything .Read revelation 17 in the bible ...The catholic church is the number one evil in the world in revelation 6 he is the governor in the world ....a velvet and scarlet beast ...
Speak for yourself. As far as the "built a bridge" portion of the video, have you seen some of the videos on youtube about black women. They may have built a bridge but it crumbled and fell down.
who cares what race someone is, that shouldnt matter. find a white guy, or spanish girl, or indian guy, or aian girl, or whatever. it 2011, we shouldnt still be that closed minded
black woman,may not understand what time it is a decent black guy has a lot of options,especially if hes observant, for instance my religon doesnt have a problem with adultry or polygamy, most black woman in the US dont agree with that so Im single, which is not a problem with me..As I would only date or marry a woman who didnt have a problem with my lifestyle choices, but most black woman have different pre conceived ideas of relationships, based on TV so it is what its is..
They are single because they don't wait until marriage they give it up the first night I know due to college that why I as a black man don't date black won't because majority of the Africa Americain women are to fast.The race that I get along with best are Nigerian Women, Indain Women Russain Women and Asian Women.
the problem with black women is that they got too much attitude, like they're fucking celebrities or something, men don't want a chick with this "independant" attitude ...
I don't know about other Black woman but you are certainly appear to be a good catch.
I myself am tired of hearing the pity party that SOME black women, emerse themselves in. It's the I'm a victim card. It's empowerment via victimization. I know many black women who are intelligent, goal oriented, and go after what they want. It is demeaning for women of color to be used by the media crying about not being wanted.
Let me tell you why black women are single, because they arent open minded. There is no such thing as mr.right, there is a such thing as mr.right for you. Ive been married to and indian man for 6 years, mind you i was with a black man that left me for some bitch before that. Date outside your race, and be more open minded i guarantee you will find love. Who cares if he listens to country? lol does he love you? if the answer is yes then go for it.
@byrd813 I don't think thats the answer. You dont have to single out a whole group of people just because you come across one bad person and automatically assume that everyone else is like that because you haven't met every individual.
Whats a good black man? You do know that black men often had a hard time growing up, no father around to instil a sense of manhood and right of passage in his development. Black men these days perhaps aspire to these gangster thugs and idiots who go around dressed like 6 year olds in their jackets, baggys and chains. All these accumulating factors would lead any guy astray in their lives.
its real simple we're all sinners and until we admit it we will live unsuccessful lives bound by our lies. we need to not be afraid and put off the mask and expose who we really are because if we dont this conversation about black men and black women will continue on and on because its dealing with surface issues. lets talk about the root problem then we will get somewhere, deal with sin, then we wont have this problem.
i disagree with this video only because you say men could have went on television and did the same thing these weomen do and i honeestly dont believe the media gives a damn about blak men's opinion. theyre whole agenda is to continue to try and destroy black unity so i seriously doubt barb walters or any of these other shows are out there scouting for black men and their opinions and being sent back to the drawing board because black men dont have anything to say. about anything not just this
There is a complex answer to your complex question. There is a wound in subconcious mind of the people of culture in the west and Africa. Many terrible things have happened to theses people of color an unhealing wound that shows throught their chilren generation after generation. there is no equality there is only selfish gain. You have to be able to look at the cause of the problem to heal the wound or prevent a new one to appear. Once you understand that the western way of thought.
Here's wat i propose..........airlift all the thugs(rappers included) and the typical ratchet nigger bitches that love em all drop em all on the tiniest island in the pacific with no food....statiscally we'll be doin the world a huge favor by lowering the amount of trash on the streets...
THIS WOMEN KEPT IT REAL... ALL THESE LYING DUMB ASS BLACK BITCHES TALKING ABOUT AIN"T NO GOOD BLACK MAN OUT HERE SHIDDDD.. GET RID OFF THAT GOTTDAYUM ATTITUDE LIKE THE WHITE WOMEN HAVE DONE AND YOU BE QUITE ALL RIGHT. I JUST SO HAPPEN TO KNOW 5 BLACK MAN WITH COLLEGE DEGREES but NOPE BITCH YOU WANT A THUGG,,, SO FUCK YALL.
@theright1allthetime you must be a troll because its the way you wrote you're message. It looks like the message a white troll would leave to try and portray blacks on the internet.
Those Black Women that are complaining about being single, should wake up and stop chasing BLK men that don't want them..... step outside your comfort zone and date other races, and be done with it.
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Sorry you feel that way. The title speaks for itself. But I'll be sure to check off 'Other' on my census form and have a glass of kool aid in honor of your comment.
@fender1000100 You're the one that's not Black. Your comment clearly marks you as a Nigger. Black people come in ALL shades and colors. The Black gene is the most dominant gene on Earth. Black people are educated and intelligent and practice the principles of unity. Niggers are ignorant, divisive and ghetto; just like you.
KSera, no offense Ma, but you don't have problems finding a man. You are preferred because of your beauty and skin-tone. The average black woman doesn't have your "advantages" so, I can only take your words for so much. You do make good points about brothers building bridges, but how come y'all aren't trying to build bridges to us. Because it is too difficult to fight and get your men out of jail. So take the easy route, find a white guy, if you can, which I doubt. Not you, of course.
@MsKSera Yes, I agree. They can find one, but is it who they want? I say this while acknowledging my own bias. Most black women don't meet the black man's ideal vision of beauty because we all have the European standard in our heads. We all have preferences. It all has to be right for me or my heart won't be in it. Looks, brains, & heart. I have a hard time telling anyone to settle for less than what they want. Maybe I'm just greedy...
I don't think you wanting a woman who is attractive, with a great heart and mind constitutes greedy. We're all out here looking for what we prefer, it's just hard, especially if our outlook is limited. I believe there's somebody out here for everybody...you just might have to go through some shit to get to em, that's all!
@MsKSera A perfect point. I even see its validity as a good man looking for a good woman. Women may outnumber us, seemingly making the act of finding a woman easy; however, the woman that is right for you not to be confused with lookng for perfection) significantly narrows the feild and reduces the number of available women. Finding theone thats right for you is a true blessing, and she must be cherished as such.
@darrick1972 Maybe if you didn't date no-good black men you wouldn't have to worry about your man going to jail. But oh wait, you probably rejected those men in favor of Thugnificient.
you black women aint shit talking lots of shit, all around me i see the rich black men with degrees getting married with BLONDE BLUE EYED WOMEN why? cuz you black women choose thugs above a black man dressed.............preppy.........you wont even give the black men with GIGANTIC DEGREES any time of day because he got no tattooooooos no bling no GANG AFFILIATION ETC...you yapp bout how you cant find a man cuz you are just a bitch face the fact all you want is a ego stroke you dont need no man
I don't think its a matter of building a bridge and getting over it... Its basic math when you got almost a million black men incarcerated then of course you're going to have a shortage of black men in the dating pool. So really the only way to "get over it" is to date outside your race or date the same sex. If neither of those options are appealing to u then I think u do have a legitimate complaint b/c no other race is stuck with those options...
man to love you and then you won't be concerned about his color. And good, strong, professional, trustworthy black men who want black women, plz don't get discouraged. I see you, keep doing your thang!
I'm not saying take your focus away from dating black men, I'm just saying keep your options open. That Puerta Rican papi may be feeling you and you dissin him cuz you waiting on Tyrone. We been through way too much bull and if love comes in a different color don't be afraid to jump on it. Everybody know we want our babies to have "good hair," LOL. I'm just playing, but seriously we make lemonade out of lemons on a daily basis. So look for
I'm reading these comments and I'm like wtf? I agree with this video. She didn't say anything negative about black women at all. As a single black women I feel like there are available black men, not all of them are in jail, gay or dead, not as many as we would prefer ,but there are. Plus this issue makes us look victims. We are the strongest women on the planet and we crying over this? We don't want to date other races but get mad at black women that do, wtf?
@killerra Exactly Killera. I notice that this k sera person did not respond to your comment because thats why 98% of Black Women are single. Supposedly we were to soft or nerdy so they went for the Thugs, or the DRAKE looking dudes, The Athlete, or the Hustlers. Average normal black man does not have a chance unless he looks like Drake or plays NBA-NFL. Oh, if you play baseball you WILL GET NO PLAY IN THE HOOD OR BLACK WOMEN. LOL This woman is really justifying her hidden agenda. U can tell
@thugminican , ,, Neither does the average "plain jane" sister... In my circle of friends in college, we were passed over by black men for the big-ass red skinned girls with weave. They didn't want us brown skinned females with pressed hair. Sad.
@Creditgirl2020 You make the grave mistake of assuming that someone in college is going to be mature. You get in college by doing papers, getting As, doing a little extra-curricular stuff and somehow managing to get those grants, loans and scholarships. None of those things require maturity of any sort. Only discipline and determination is required and even those things can elude us in those years.
It is likely that they are just as confused as the ones they chase despite appearances.
@killerra amen to that brother. That's wherre it ALL starts for the "42% of black women that are single above the age of 30" it starts in highschool and college. then when they come to their senses it's too late. that guy that they looked over is happily married with kids and would'nt want her anyway
@killerra Black women are insane period!!! They still would not want you to this day. They are all interested in Thugs or rappers. The only reason they were mad at Tiger Woods for marring a white chick is cause Tiger was PAID! They want any reason to complain.
I agree with alot that you are saying. Complaining so much makes us look desperate and pathetic on international news, but alot of what is said is somewhat true. The bottom line is that people emulate what they see on TV. All races. It just so happens that black women are shown in music videos idolizing men who treat them like dogs. Young people always imitate older people and grow up thinking this is the way it should be. All races do have problems with men, but it is more pronounced with us.
what you mention in your video is so true!...media always seems to prey on us minorities but the strange thing about it is that majority of 'us' tend to believe it!!...the problems that plague us are found in all 'races' - never be fooled
The thing I disagree with, in this video, is that WE didn't create any of this. This is another attack on black people, slandering our people. We are the first to believe propaganda, according to Marcus Garvey. White supremacy is our biggest enemy and white supremacy started this lie to disparage and put down black men.
@ddsharper Mmmm I don't know if it's that deep. I see Black women wanting Black men and feeling that Black men do not want them based on their lived experiences. So instead of creating solutions to the problems they feel they're experiencing some women felt it necessary to launch a global campaign about issues that could have been easily dealt with privately and individually. But that wasn't the case. Has nothing to do with the white man and everything to do with displaced blame, imo.
@MsKSera I accept your opinion, but I hold on to mine. This goes back to the civil rights movement and the feminist movement that has affected all races. It was brewed up by the think tanks, funded by the government and included in the eugenics attack against black women and men. It's the divide and conquer of MK-Ultra, Feminist movements and cointel pro. I have lived long enough to have watched it happen, in my lifetime and studied enough to understand its source. In the end, victims get blamed
@MsKSera People make decisions based on subliminal reasons as well as conscious reasons. It could be argued that white supremacy is the reason why u like to wear your hair the way you do. White supremacy is the biggest enemy- its the reason why Many black people perpetuate Colourism & never wear their own naturally afro textured hair
Millions of images of the western 'ideal' of beauty are pumped into our systems
De-colonize our minds-The slander of BM and BW is caused by white supremacy.
@Kazuyya2011 shut up y'all always mess with black people when we can care less about y'all. Y'all are the reason why we are the most hated race in the world. Taken our history and white washed it. You have no right on a black video.
@Applebaum Take responsibility for your life is the only way that an individual can truly free themselves. Constantly, look over your shoulder trying to control something you can't is insanity. Case in point: White Supremacy; who cares if they want to ensure the white race. It sounds like to me you are trying to do the same thing with the Black Supremacy. STOP BLAMING WHITE PEOPLE FOR YOUR OWN INCOMPETENCE! If you don't like something about your life change it.
I took the other route. I decided to be a good, and honest....to wait for that one black woman who would solidify my life. Im still waiting and searching. Im 31 with no kids, go to college, no kids and work out. But you know what? Im not down. A down ass nigga. So I get nothing. I had a few relationships, but was cheated on, or didnt make enough money. All I want is an educated clean and yes no kids, black woman who will work with me to build a life together. Ya know pay bill together.
@williammackjr , Good philosophy to have, but what you're asking for is quite simple and it goes both ways. I think over the years blacks have made things much more difficult than it has to be.
Hey Msksera, i think black women are beautiful. It's a shame some dont' appreciate it. to top it off, i ain't even black in blood, but a black brother of another kind. Sure there's good and bad in every ethnic background, and i understand some are out for money etc. You can't put it down to black women being the problem, it's 50/50. Would love to hear from someone like yourself in the video. Peace.
I know plenty of black women, and the bottom line is this....mean-spirited women, hoochies, and women with potty mouths aren't married...sweet, simple, fun, trustworthy women are married...period.
@flizzleFlopper That may very well be true...except there are plenty of married "hoochies" and plenty of single "sweet" women. Plus there are plenty of sweet women who get the ring but their husbands cheat on them with the hoochies and/or other sweet women. It's unfortunate but that's life, we hear about it all the time. Everybody's end goal isn't marriage and marriage isn't beneficial for all married couples.
@MsKSera There are more single black women than any other race simply because men are not ATTRACTED to us!!! We are too dark,we have nappy short hair, dry skin, and big noses! And although some of us have high self esteem about ourselves, we are not now nor will we ever be considered pretty. That is why when black men become successful they marry bi-racial, hispanic, or white women!!! It have nothing to do with our bad attitudes!
@keasiacutie Wrong!!! Black women are beautiful but have a hive mindset called the sisterhood. They don't think for themselves. BW advertise for WW by wearing weaves, colored contacts, blond hair etc. All that is unique about you you despise and that makes you a miserable person to be with. BM will not tolerate fighting the world and fighting his woman at home. BW need to take better care of themselves also. Too many of you are fat as hell and that's not attractive. One last point ..............
@keasiacutie "There are more single black women than any other race simply because men are not ATTRACTED to us!!! We are too dark,we have nappy short hair, dry skin, and big noses! And although some of us have high self esteem about ourselves, we are not now nor will we ever be considered pretty. That is why when black men become successful they marry bi-racial, hispanic, or white women!!! It have nothing to do with our bad attitudes!"
i feel ya sister its the same here in the uk ,they are mostly bad boy gangster wannabe ignorant idiots THO i have met a few at my church that arent racist criminals that think life owes them something!! so they are out there..
When alot of these sistas{not of the sistas} find a good black brotha,they start play games,trying to punk him with all that attitude and trying to show her friends that she run the relationship.If the sistas have kids,she him to help with them because the frat boy or little boy who fucked her and left with them babies didn't care in the frist place but they will still carry love for that punk.He can't say nothing to them and she compares him to that thug of a man that's fucked up.
MY SISTERS AND BROTHERS JUST GET TOGETHER . IF YOU CANT SEE YOUR BEING BRAIN WASHED BY TV . THEN I FEEL SORRY FOR YOU . IF THEY CAN GET IN YOUR MIND ! THEN YOU ALREADY LOST . TO BE FREE IS TO BE FREE IN YOUR MIND . I AM TRULY FREE BECAUSE I DONT GIVE ADAM ABOUT WHAT THEY SAY ABOUT ME ARE MY PEOPLE . WERE GOOD ! NO RACE IS PERFECT . BUT EVERY ONE IS FOCUSED ON US . NOW WERE LOOKING AT ARE SELFS . THINKING ARE WE REALY MESSED UP LIKE THEY SAY WE ARE . NO ! WE ARE JUST FINE FREE YOUR MIND ! 1# LOV
@MsKSera - Your in denial, you may not have a problem but many of your sisters do! All I can say to blk women is this - stop having children of men who do not want to marry you! And to blk men if you don't want the women stop using her for sex and filling her life up with another illegitament child. Blk men do not build bridges into other races they abandon their own children for another race or woman - the whole world knows it.
When it comes down to it, this is really just another girl get you a white man video, minus the attacks on B.M. Which is fine.
But I think every black man watching this should not be confused to think that this has anything to do with us or caring about us at all, or our views. It does not.
Her main point that I get from this is that going on T.V. an
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gv105468 1 day ago
bullshit. this shit is old. most of real dark/brown skin black men (not mixed ones) are with black women even if they are ugly or fat as shit smh! if some black men date/marry outside its only because black women want pink white man's penises just like in porn that's why! MOST OF BLACK WOMEN HAVE SEX WITH ALOT OF MEN FROM OTHER RACES THAT ARE DISEASED! MOST BLACK WOMEN THINK THAT THEY ARE BETTER THAN BLACK MEN, SO THEY SEEK NON-BLACK PARTNERS AND THIS THE RESULT!
blckla999 3 days ago
the black woman is a goddess but she is a sell out if she date white men
blkmun86 4 days ago
the black woman that date a white man is a sell out bitch from hell
blkmun86 5 days ago
@blkmun86 LOL tell em why you mad son!
MsKSera 5 days ago
@blkmun86
STFU and go back to your Black Panther Meeting you racist asshole,. Get with the times and deal with the fact that beautiful looking black women date us white men. lol
onewarrior5 3 days ago
you're smart baby!!! nice video.Keep it up.
idwurd 6 days ago
very informative.. i like everything you had to say.. wish we knew one another personally.. :o)
JP4683 1 week ago
There is a lot o fsingles black africans in europe looking for good black females. Let us build bridges!! You can take contact @ leonlevis123@yahoo.fr. Am a french speaking african but am exited about this opportunity. :-)
leonlevis123 1 week ago
WOW! One of the most reasonable, thoughtful monologues on this topic by a black woman. I am impressed.
iiidol 1 week ago
a beautiful bw like yourself who wants a good bm can get one (two or three). bw who have a hard time finding quality bm, usually got some issues or don't really want a bm to begin with. or they want drama or a thug or whatever dysfunctional bs they like to surround themselves with. i''m a 1st gen aa with caribbean parents so i try to avoid the ghetto nonsense and self-hate / self-destructive behavior. there are 1.6 billion bp in the world. so aaw need to cut the lame excuses.
Chas0x01 2 weeks ago
In reality, a lot of these BW don't want a good man. The good men are often overlooked by BW. They rather put him in the friend zone. Also a lot of BW buy into the bullshit the media tell them. The woman on tv show look bad. There's got to be something wrong with her. There got to be more to her than what she has told.
e84fresh 2 weeks ago
I have a solution for you. Instead of looking for a good Black man you should spend your time looking for a Good Man!
wanaraz 2 weeks ago
The true core of the problem is todays ultra-feminist black grandmothers who rebelled and went from being strong black women who were the rock of their families to being loud and extremely proud strong totally independent gangsta b****es who have extremely warped concepts of strength and masculinity.
As is very concisely explained in the book called "The Black Girl Curse" no one had ever heard of strong totally independent black women before the advent of mass govt assistance in the mid 70s.
pc0p1mp 2 weeks ago
This subject is sad however, there are so many outside factors that keep black women and men from getting together. Not all of us but A LOT of us are caught up materialistic side of things, instead of finding someone who has potential and drive. We are too lazy and refuse to put in work. We are looking for someone with everything in place instead of building something with someone. Don't get me wrong certain things you need to have besides a dream but, you know what I'm trying to get at.
musbraf357 2 weeks ago in playlist More videos from MsKSera
your not black
DOCB2020 4 weeks ago
I'm a good white man, just throwing that out there.
Building a bridge and getting over it = "Drop some of your needs!" - That's George Carlin...he was white, but let's stop pretending this is a race issue when it's really just a people issue.
deathofsmokey 1 month ago
Black women stay discriminating while a black man will go out to the mall and to corporate conventions, political events, talk to women in college. Its crazy
RiftRaft123 1 month ago
A number of black women unfortunately feel entitled to the man of their choosing, but aren't willing to improve themselves or reassess their value and lowering unreasonable standards in order to connect with someone they can feel satisfied with.
SoFlyCee 1 month ago
@SoFlyCee, that is very true. People need to realize rules go both ways. Some women feel they don't want to talk to man who doesn't match up to their standards. Because they feel that is settling. But what they don't realize when they find a man they are interested in, and the man isn't interested in them, it could be because HE doesn't want to settle either. I know most women don't like to think those terms. But men have their standards too. The concept of settling goes both ways.
zk92000 5 days ago
Well done! This is refreshing to see.
SoFlyCee 1 month ago
Fuck a image look out side your door Blackwomen come in all shapes and sizes not fat
nonblack women are fat and in differnt sizes to..wake the hell up Black people and come to unity!!!
sophinal 1 month ago
Sorry, but statistics nation wide seem to suggest that you are wrong.
Black couple marriages are shockingly down in the past decade. While divorce rates over the past 10 years have decreased for every other couple pairings, it's the same for black couples in the US. While BM/WW divorce rates over the past ten years is twice as high as W/W divorce rates, WM/BW divorce rate is 43% LOWER than W/W divorce rates and WAY less than the BM/WW divorce rate. The common "bad stat" denominator is black men.
LucisFerre1 1 month ago
Sorry, but statistics nation wide seem to suggest that you are wrong.
Black couple marriages are shockingly down in the past decade. While divorce rates over the past 10 years have decreased for every other couple pairings, it's the same for black couples in the US. While BM/WW divorce rates over the past ten years is twice as high as W/W divorce rates, WM/BW divorce rate is 43% LOWER than W/W divorce rates and WAY less than the BM/WW divorce rate. The common "bad stat" denominator is black men.
LucisFerre1 1 month ago
@MsKSera I will never speak out against and negatively Black Women nor would it be proper Male behavior and of course as a Black woman you have a right to address this but your video is appreciated.
BonusCivis 1 month ago
(correction) In my opinion in this Freudian society, the majority of black women in the US and UK who are over 25 and single are like a corrupted hard drive, they just don't run right and they're severely deluded. The reason i say this is because the majority seem to equate perspective partners based on the parameters of white society. It's not all your fault, you were setup and you took the bait. The media image of a black woman right now is "Precious."
cortezforever 1 month ago
In my opinion in this current Freudian society the majority of black women in the US and UK who are over 25 and single are like a corrupted hard drive, they just don't run right, and they're severely deluded. The reason i say this is because the majority seem to equate perspective black partners based on the parameters of white society. It's not all your fault though, you were setup and you took the bait. The image of a black woman right now is "Precious," that is how the media you projected.
cortezforever 1 month ago
Yeah, sistas (& bros) need to change the song...cuz gettin the same or worse results really ain't the biz! It starts with what we say...power of the word/tongue...speak what you want to see.
amazingbayce 2 months ago
u aight but i bet u still a freek in the sheets
whatsyourbeef88 2 months ago 2
The sister on Russian news was my ex-girlfriend whom at the time I wanted to marry but she was on some bs. I even met her parents and played a role model for her son.
MrSoulnblack 2 months ago
@MrSoulnblack
what BS was the sister on, Bro?
malarki5 2 months ago
@MrSoulnblack
Soul
Is that................????
This internet thing is a mess. Spy vs Spy BS.
I am so sorry that you've gotten involved in the BS.
Brother, do me a favor and "pull out".
EV
Evens1 2 months ago
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commander13140 2 months ago
What a lovely lady.
Vernonu9 2 months ago
Ya know, MsKsera, you are absolutely right! Everybody is responsible for their own happiness. You have people in good relationships who are unhappy. People with money are unhappy. People with nice jobs and homes are unhappy. People who may have peace can be unhappy. Some beautiful people are unhappy, depression. It all boils down to a decision you make to be happy. I think happines could be translated as contentment which is also satisfaction. U've got a lot going on for yourself, lovely! Peace♥
woodie62 2 months ago
@MsKsera ;) keep striving, women like you give me hope. much love and respect in my heart for you.
Terrealimthetruth 2 months ago
Love the video miss, your beautiful and have a mind to match..the only thing I disliked was when you said men are tuning ro homosexuality..I highly doubt not having a woman will be reasoning to turn gay...
Terrealimthetruth 2 months ago
@Terrealimthetruth Preciate ya. Yeah we're on the same page with that because I don't believe a man not having a woman would turn him gay lol The point I was making when I referenced homosexual men is that they'll build a bridge, do what they want to do and go after what they want, same goes for heterosexual men....men in general imo.
MsKSera 2 months ago
The majority of my black female friends tend to pour themselves into school, work, their artistic projects, anything really, but are not that interested in finding partners. I often want to ask them why, but I may have my answer here. Thanks for the insight. :)
fenriswolf6699 2 months ago 3
I'm 29, Spanish-Italian, raised in London. Own my own business and speak 4 languages, I dated 3 black women because I think dark / tanned skin can be sexy. Now happily dating a Chinese girl. Nuff said. Great video though.
michael616joaquin 3 months ago
Great Video
AdonteMacon 3 months ago
You look like my ex gf. She was beautiful just like you. Good words. Everyone is responsible for their own happiness. Cheers.
imhotepismyrealname 3 months ago in playlist More videos from MsKSera
sexy woman...
authorNYSE 3 months ago
I see it like this. Black women were too busy chasing thugs in their early days. Then when they reach 30 they want to flip the script and now it's time to find a good black man. Only thing is, many of us didn't sit around and wait. There were other women that choose us when the black women didn't.
southboy99 3 months ago
Ain't that the fuckin truth. Finally a woman who understands. I would marry you today.
BigTex3rd 3 months ago
good video
redstar7311 3 months ago
You look mixed
BarriosGroupie 3 months ago
I don't understand this topic. The people who complain the most about not having a good man/woman are always part of the problem. It's like the 2 groups are made for each other. I don't have this problem.
MrShenzhenGuy 3 months ago
Its all the media ,The super wealthy control everything ....the wars we go to ,the media to brainwash people ....democrats or republician ...it dont matter ...Thats just to confuse people .Its not a race thing ,Its people that have passed money from generation to generation and they want to control everything .Read revelation 17 in the bible ...The catholic church is the number one evil in the world in revelation 6 he is the governor in the world ....a velvet and scarlet beast ...
zupamalz82 3 months ago
YOUR FINE AND SEXY but that only means you want too much... LOL #JUSSAYING
onofomi 3 months ago
my kinda girl "she don't have attitude problems"
newera2011100 3 months ago
Speak for yourself. As far as the "built a bridge" portion of the video, have you seen some of the videos on youtube about black women. They may have built a bridge but it crumbled and fell down.
disdainface 3 months ago
This is a powerful message!!!
princeofthepen 3 months ago
who cares what race someone is, that shouldnt matter. find a white guy, or spanish girl, or indian guy, or aian girl, or whatever. it 2011, we shouldnt still be that closed minded
ThaMadDog56 3 months ago
black woman,may not understand what time it is a decent black guy has a lot of options,especially if hes observant, for instance my religon doesnt have a problem with adultry or polygamy, most black woman in the US dont agree with that so Im single, which is not a problem with me..As I would only date or marry a woman who didnt have a problem with my lifestyle choices, but most black woman have different pre conceived ideas of relationships, based on TV so it is what its is..
ADULTEDUCATION4U 4 months ago in playlist More videos from MsKSera
having 3 jobs is why your single miss your very pretty but how you gonna have a real relationship seeing him maybe once a month
rendubot 4 months ago
so sexy...
buckda54 4 months ago
hmm...damn she's fine..she wouldnt be single if i was around xD..and if she can cook..shoot, ill marry her =]
Mystrym 4 months ago
It just goes to show how much 'other' races are interested in us Black people.
-Love
CaptainOmar 4 months ago
Well spoken. You must be referring to other black women.
Im sure that you have found that good black man,
ervgotti3 4 months ago
They are single because they don't wait until marriage they give it up the first night I know due to college that why I as a black man don't date black won't because majority of the Africa Americain women are to fast.The race that I get along with best are Nigerian Women, Indain Women Russain Women and Asian Women.
Tommy455ify 4 months ago
the problem with black women is that they got too much attitude, like they're fucking celebrities or something, men don't want a chick with this "independant" attitude ...
whiteraider 4 months ago
She''s sexy
YoungHorusMedia 4 months ago
REAL S**T SISTAR!!!
NOBLE3267819 4 months ago
I don't know about other Black woman but you are certainly appear to be a good catch.
I myself am tired of hearing the pity party that SOME black women, emerse themselves in. It's the I'm a victim card. It's empowerment via victimization. I know many black women who are intelligent, goal oriented, and go after what they want. It is demeaning for women of color to be used by the media crying about not being wanted.
Good video.
YourDailyNow 4 months ago
@newjerzish God loves you
alexandervanwyk 4 months ago
Excellent video
whitebitchnigga 4 months ago
Let me tell you why black women are single, because they arent open minded. There is no such thing as mr.right, there is a such thing as mr.right for you. Ive been married to and indian man for 6 years, mind you i was with a black man that left me for some bitch before that. Date outside your race, and be more open minded i guarantee you will find love. Who cares if he listens to country? lol does he love you? if the answer is yes then go for it.
byrd813 4 months ago
@byrd813 I don't think thats the answer. You dont have to single out a whole group of people just because you come across one bad person and automatically assume that everyone else is like that because you haven't met every individual.
alreadycrowning 4 months ago
Whats a good black man? You do know that black men often had a hard time growing up, no father around to instil a sense of manhood and right of passage in his development. Black men these days perhaps aspire to these gangster thugs and idiots who go around dressed like 6 year olds in their jackets, baggys and chains. All these accumulating factors would lead any guy astray in their lives.
stellarshore 4 months ago
Black peeple! Why yoowan' doodat?!
Shojahan 4 months ago
@newjerzish I'm not looking right now and especially not on the look out for thugs, but thanks for your comment.
MsKSera 4 months ago 5
@MsKSera You ever thought of going for an intelligent man in the truth?
TribeOfGadIsraelite 4 months ago
@MsKSera Of course you're not looking, dudes come up to you, you don't go up to dudes. You don't HAVE to look. Lol.
Yezzur011 2 months ago
its real simple we're all sinners and until we admit it we will live unsuccessful lives bound by our lies. we need to not be afraid and put off the mask and expose who we really are because if we dont this conversation about black men and black women will continue on and on because its dealing with surface issues. lets talk about the root problem then we will get somewhere, deal with sin, then we wont have this problem.
mattsutt323 4 months ago
i disagree with this video only because you say men could have went on television and did the same thing these weomen do and i honeestly dont believe the media gives a damn about blak men's opinion. theyre whole agenda is to continue to try and destroy black unity so i seriously doubt barb walters or any of these other shows are out there scouting for black men and their opinions and being sent back to the drawing board because black men dont have anything to say. about anything not just this
earthgoddess0 4 months ago
There is a complex answer to your complex question. There is a wound in subconcious mind of the people of culture in the west and Africa. Many terrible things have happened to theses people of color an unhealing wound that shows throught their chilren generation after generation. there is no equality there is only selfish gain. You have to be able to look at the cause of the problem to heal the wound or prevent a new one to appear. Once you understand that the western way of thought.
Hotwatty 4 months ago
Here's wat i propose..........airlift all the thugs(rappers included) and the typical ratchet nigger bitches that love em all drop em all on the tiniest island in the pacific with no food....statiscally we'll be doin the world a huge favor by lowering the amount of trash on the streets...
noslim9 4 months ago
THIS WOMEN KEPT IT REAL... ALL THESE LYING DUMB ASS BLACK BITCHES TALKING ABOUT AIN"T NO GOOD BLACK MAN OUT HERE SHIDDDD.. GET RID OFF THAT GOTTDAYUM ATTITUDE LIKE THE WHITE WOMEN HAVE DONE AND YOU BE QUITE ALL RIGHT. I JUST SO HAPPEN TO KNOW 5 BLACK MAN WITH COLLEGE DEGREES but NOPE BITCH YOU WANT A THUGG,,, SO FUCK YALL.
theright1allthetime 4 months ago
@theright1allthetime you must be a troll because its the way you wrote you're message. It looks like the message a white troll would leave to try and portray blacks on the internet.
90rashad 2 months ago
Those Black Women that are complaining about being single, should wake up and stop chasing BLK men that don't want them..... step outside your comfort zone and date other races, and be done with it.
Creditgirl2020 4 months ago
i love your approach and attitude to the topic...cool calm and collective.
easy8325 4 months ago
I hate when people downgrade lightskinned women like that.They are black..even when they are mixed.Thats why i love my lightskinned women so much!
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VegeanceOnJessica 4 months ago
good vid
brollicon 4 months ago
OH snap... Im in the "black" part of youtube again.
DataSe7en 5 months ago
@DataSe7en well then move on
90rashad 2 months ago
GOOD VIDEO ITS RARE TO HEAR A BLACK WOMAN THAT SELF REFLECTS A BIT.
whitebitchnigga 5 months ago
First of all lady YOU ARE NOT BLACK. You are more diluted than kool aid.
fender1000100 5 months ago
@fender1000100
Sorry you feel that way. The title speaks for itself. But I'll be sure to check off 'Other' on my census form and have a glass of kool aid in honor of your comment.
MsKSera 5 months ago 25
@MsKSera
Great vid
MrShenzhenGuy 3 months ago
@MsKSera i love your sarcasm. And the quote about being diluted is some bs i have to hear as well. Good video!
corcovadoquelindo 3 months ago
@fender1000100 definitly she is incredible pretty , black or white doesnt matter
shivator 5 months ago
@fender1000100 funny comment
redstar7311 3 months ago
@fender1000100 You're the one that's not Black. Your comment clearly marks you as a Nigger. Black people come in ALL shades and colors. The Black gene is the most dominant gene on Earth. Black people are educated and intelligent and practice the principles of unity. Niggers are ignorant, divisive and ghetto; just like you.
IzrailGhazi 3 months ago
@fender1000100 go your white ass somewhere else
90rashad 2 months ago
Imma build a bridge to MsKSera
irandleIV 5 months ago
@irandleIV LOL yep.
GreasemonkeyCGI 5 months ago
KSera, no offense Ma, but you don't have problems finding a man. You are preferred because of your beauty and skin-tone. The average black woman doesn't have your "advantages" so, I can only take your words for so much. You do make good points about brothers building bridges, but how come y'all aren't trying to build bridges to us. Because it is too difficult to fight and get your men out of jail. So take the easy route, find a white guy, if you can, which I doubt. Not you, of course.
darrick1972 5 months ago
Any woman can find a man, regardless of looks, it's finding the right one....that's what it's about ;-)
MsKSera 5 months ago 2
@MsKSera Yes, I agree. They can find one, but is it who they want? I say this while acknowledging my own bias. Most black women don't meet the black man's ideal vision of beauty because we all have the European standard in our heads. We all have preferences. It all has to be right for me or my heart won't be in it. Looks, brains, & heart. I have a hard time telling anyone to settle for less than what they want. Maybe I'm just greedy...
darrick1972 5 months ago
@darrick1972
I don't think you wanting a woman who is attractive, with a great heart and mind constitutes greedy. We're all out here looking for what we prefer, it's just hard, especially if our outlook is limited. I believe there's somebody out here for everybody...you just might have to go through some shit to get to em, that's all!
MsKSera 5 months ago
@MsKSera So, if you're ever in NorCal.....lol BTW...I'm a lot smarter than your date back in April.
darrick1972 5 months ago
@MsKSera A perfect point. I even see its validity as a good man looking for a good woman. Women may outnumber us, seemingly making the act of finding a woman easy; however, the woman that is right for you not to be confused with lookng for perfection) significantly narrows the feild and reduces the number of available women. Finding theone thats right for you is a true blessing, and she must be cherished as such.
rmsolympic1 4 months ago
@darrick1972 That's not true! There are plenty of attractive women who are single and vice versa.
anikadiamond007 5 months ago
@darrick1972 Maybe if you didn't date no-good black men you wouldn't have to worry about your man going to jail. But oh wait, you probably rejected those men in favor of Thugnificient.
MagniusKun 4 months ago
Real talk...
...other than that, the complaining broads can cry me river.
Khemistry101 5 months ago
soon as that russian woman came on i said, "i don't wanna hear it."
aSonnetToScience 6 months ago
I thought black women were to successful and happy for black men? lol
PunjabiSikhRajput1 6 months ago
Why does color matter? Im a great white guy who is looking for a good woman..People are just way to judgemental.
SportsLiveInTheAtl 6 months ago
you black women aint shit talking lots of shit, all around me i see the rich black men with degrees getting married with BLONDE BLUE EYED WOMEN why? cuz you black women choose thugs above a black man dressed.............preppy.........you wont even give the black men with GIGANTIC DEGREES any time of day because he got no tattooooooos no bling no GANG AFFILIATION ETC...you yapp bout how you cant find a man cuz you are just a bitch face the fact all you want is a ego stroke you dont need no man
ankhenaten2 6 months ago
black women are beautiful
ipreachchrist16 6 months ago
there are so many good black men at there.
blackimpressions 7 months ago
I don't think its a matter of building a bridge and getting over it... Its basic math when you got almost a million black men incarcerated then of course you're going to have a shortage of black men in the dating pool. So really the only way to "get over it" is to date outside your race or date the same sex. If neither of those options are appealing to u then I think u do have a legitimate complaint b/c no other race is stuck with those options...
AdrielVary 7 months ago
damn u single?...open your window cuz i'm flyin over there right now
21iunie 7 months ago
Why do so many black women have babies by these sorry ass no good unemployed low life bombs? Please comment.
Twoodssax1234567 7 months ago
@Twoodssax1234567 they need to start loving themselves then they wouldn't bother with these type of me (take it from someone who knows)
m0renachula704 7 months ago
man to love you and then you won't be concerned about his color. And good, strong, professional, trustworthy black men who want black women, plz don't get discouraged. I see you, keep doing your thang!
mrsjdadams 7 months ago
I'm not saying take your focus away from dating black men, I'm just saying keep your options open. That Puerta Rican papi may be feeling you and you dissin him cuz you waiting on Tyrone. We been through way too much bull and if love comes in a different color don't be afraid to jump on it. Everybody know we want our babies to have "good hair," LOL. I'm just playing, but seriously we make lemonade out of lemons on a daily basis. So look for
mrsjdadams 7 months ago
I'm reading these comments and I'm like wtf? I agree with this video. She didn't say anything negative about black women at all. As a single black women I feel like there are available black men, not all of them are in jail, gay or dead, not as many as we would prefer ,but there are. Plus this issue makes us look victims. We are the strongest women on the planet and we crying over this? We don't want to date other races but get mad at black women that do, wtf?
mrsjdadams 7 months ago
y do i keep gettin recommended to these videos
BADBREED44 7 months ago
The good black man was the one you dissed in high school or college, because he was being "too nice".
killerra 7 months ago 25
@killerra Exactly Killera. I notice that this k sera person did not respond to your comment because thats why 98% of Black Women are single. Supposedly we were to soft or nerdy so they went for the Thugs, or the DRAKE looking dudes, The Athlete, or the Hustlers. Average normal black man does not have a chance unless he looks like Drake or plays NBA-NFL. Oh, if you play baseball you WILL GET NO PLAY IN THE HOOD OR BLACK WOMEN. LOL This woman is really justifying her hidden agenda. U can tell
thugminican 5 months ago
@thugminican , ,, Neither does the average "plain jane" sister... In my circle of friends in college, we were passed over by black men for the big-ass red skinned girls with weave. They didn't want us brown skinned females with pressed hair. Sad.
Creditgirl2020 4 months ago
@Creditgirl2020 You make the grave mistake of assuming that someone in college is going to be mature. You get in college by doing papers, getting As, doing a little extra-curricular stuff and somehow managing to get those grants, loans and scholarships. None of those things require maturity of any sort. Only discipline and determination is required and even those things can elude us in those years.
It is likely that they are just as confused as the ones they chase despite appearances.
GreasemonkeyCGI 4 months ago
@killerra amen to that brother. That's wherre it ALL starts for the "42% of black women that are single above the age of 30" it starts in highschool and college. then when they come to their senses it's too late. that guy that they looked over is happily married with kids and would'nt want her anyway
teddyd14 5 months ago
@killerra Hey! That sounds just like me :) I'm an asshole now though. lmao
JamesL1585 4 months ago
@killerra Black women are insane period!!! They still would not want you to this day. They are all interested in Thugs or rappers. The only reason they were mad at Tiger Woods for marring a white chick is cause Tiger was PAID! They want any reason to complain.
seinfeildsucks 4 months ago
I agree with alot that you are saying. Complaining so much makes us look desperate and pathetic on international news, but alot of what is said is somewhat true. The bottom line is that people emulate what they see on TV. All races. It just so happens that black women are shown in music videos idolizing men who treat them like dogs. Young people always imitate older people and grow up thinking this is the way it should be. All races do have problems with men, but it is more pronounced with us.
angelchild829 7 months ago
what you mention in your video is so true!...media always seems to prey on us minorities but the strange thing about it is that majority of 'us' tend to believe it!!...the problems that plague us are found in all 'races' - never be fooled
123valid 7 months ago
The thing I disagree with, in this video, is that WE didn't create any of this. This is another attack on black people, slandering our people. We are the first to believe propaganda, according to Marcus Garvey. White supremacy is our biggest enemy and white supremacy started this lie to disparage and put down black men.
ddsharper 8 months ago 2
@ddsharper Mmmm I don't know if it's that deep. I see Black women wanting Black men and feeling that Black men do not want them based on their lived experiences. So instead of creating solutions to the problems they feel they're experiencing some women felt it necessary to launch a global campaign about issues that could have been easily dealt with privately and individually. But that wasn't the case. Has nothing to do with the white man and everything to do with displaced blame, imo.
MsKSera 7 months ago
@MsKSera I accept your opinion, but I hold on to mine. This goes back to the civil rights movement and the feminist movement that has affected all races. It was brewed up by the think tanks, funded by the government and included in the eugenics attack against black women and men. It's the divide and conquer of MK-Ultra, Feminist movements and cointel pro. I have lived long enough to have watched it happen, in my lifetime and studied enough to understand its source. In the end, victims get blamed
ddsharper 7 months ago
@MsKSera People make decisions based on subliminal reasons as well as conscious reasons. It could be argued that white supremacy is the reason why u like to wear your hair the way you do. White supremacy is the biggest enemy- its the reason why Many black people perpetuate Colourism & never wear their own naturally afro textured hair
Millions of images of the western 'ideal' of beauty are pumped into our systems
De-colonize our minds-The slander of BM and BW is caused by white supremacy.
Applebaum 6 months ago
White supremacy = Racism
Racism = fear, White fear of being genetically anihilated
Whites only make up 15% of the globe.
Black people possess the most Melanin (thing makes u dark) &so have the most power to genetically wipe out everybody else.
The main aim of white supremacy is to get rid of the 'threat' to their survival.
So they portray themselves as magnificent
& BW= manless, fat, ugly, attitude/BM=criminal, bad dads, etc
anything negative to stop us frm wanting to reproduce ourselves
Applebaum 6 months ago
@Applebaum You make no sense whatsoever!!
Kazuyya2011 6 months ago
@Kazuyya2011 shut up y'all always mess with black people when we can care less about y'all. Y'all are the reason why we are the most hated race in the world. Taken our history and white washed it. You have no right on a black video.
90rashad 2 months ago
@Applebaum Take responsibility for your life is the only way that an individual can truly free themselves. Constantly, look over your shoulder trying to control something you can't is insanity. Case in point: White Supremacy; who cares if they want to ensure the white race. It sounds like to me you are trying to do the same thing with the Black Supremacy. STOP BLAMING WHITE PEOPLE FOR YOUR OWN INCOMPETENCE! If you don't like something about your life change it.
Kazuyya2011 6 months ago
@ddsharper Your biggest enemy is you
MrAnorexicBob 6 months ago
@ddsharper DO U TRULLY THINKS SO? THAT ACTUALLY CROSS M MIND AT A POINT BUT. SOME BLACK WOMEN TRULLY HAS ISSUES TO WORK ON. AND ITS NOTICEABLE
birdjesus21 6 months ago
I took the other route. I decided to be a good, and honest....to wait for that one black woman who would solidify my life. Im still waiting and searching. Im 31 with no kids, go to college, no kids and work out. But you know what? Im not down. A down ass nigga. So I get nothing. I had a few relationships, but was cheated on, or didnt make enough money. All I want is an educated clean and yes no kids, black woman who will work with me to build a life together. Ya know pay bill together.
williammackjr 8 months ago
@williammackjr , Good philosophy to have, but what you're asking for is quite simple and it goes both ways. I think over the years blacks have made things much more difficult than it has to be.
Creditgirl2020 4 months ago
Hey Msksera, i think black women are beautiful. It's a shame some dont' appreciate it. to top it off, i ain't even black in blood, but a black brother of another kind. Sure there's good and bad in every ethnic background, and i understand some are out for money etc. You can't put it down to black women being the problem, it's 50/50. Would love to hear from someone like yourself in the video. Peace.
leedo12 8 months ago
HOT...
GanjaOnDeck 8 months ago
I know plenty of black women, and the bottom line is this....mean-spirited women, hoochies, and women with potty mouths aren't married...sweet, simple, fun, trustworthy women are married...period.
hoochies = bad
sweet = good
flizzleFlopper 8 months ago 5
@flizzleFlopper That may very well be true...except there are plenty of married "hoochies" and plenty of single "sweet" women. Plus there are plenty of sweet women who get the ring but their husbands cheat on them with the hoochies and/or other sweet women. It's unfortunate but that's life, we hear about it all the time. Everybody's end goal isn't marriage and marriage isn't beneficial for all married couples.
MsKSera 8 months ago 14
@MsKSera There are more single black women than any other race simply because men are not ATTRACTED to us!!! We are too dark,we have nappy short hair, dry skin, and big noses! And although some of us have high self esteem about ourselves, we are not now nor will we ever be considered pretty. That is why when black men become successful they marry bi-racial, hispanic, or white women!!! It have nothing to do with our bad attitudes!
keasiacutie 4 months ago
@keasiacutie Wrong!!! Black women are beautiful but have a hive mindset called the sisterhood. They don't think for themselves. BW advertise for WW by wearing weaves, colored contacts, blond hair etc. All that is unique about you you despise and that makes you a miserable person to be with. BM will not tolerate fighting the world and fighting his woman at home. BW need to take better care of themselves also. Too many of you are fat as hell and that's not attractive. One last point ..............
producer4real 3 months ago
@keasiacutie "There are more single black women than any other race simply because men are not ATTRACTED to us!!! We are too dark,we have nappy short hair, dry skin, and big noses! And although some of us have high self esteem about ourselves, we are not now nor will we ever be considered pretty. That is why when black men become successful they marry bi-racial, hispanic, or white women!!! It have nothing to do with our bad attitudes!"
That is the biggest load of GARBAGE!! All LIES.
MyOttoLink 3 months ago
@MyOttoLink when u say men are not attracted to "us" just say me sweetie. white guys hit on me and approach me at the same rate black men do.
CapricousCapricorn1 2 months ago
@flizzleFlopper amen
tbursee 8 months ago
life is hard but seems like we black folks have it harder ! if our ancestors could survive slavery an racism we can find love somehow
marcus3df 8 months ago 2
date online?
buraburayoshi 8 months ago
i feel ya sister its the same here in the uk ,they are mostly bad boy gangster wannabe ignorant idiots THO i have met a few at my church that arent racist criminals that think life owes them something!! so they are out there..
truthhunter46 8 months ago
i agree with this video 100%
ultramagchen 9 months ago
did she say she had 3 jobs? wow ill marry her even if she is black! lol
ncbookz 9 months ago
Sis Queen YOU BETTA PREACH!!!
kjeneen 9 months ago
When alot of these sistas{not of the sistas} find a good black brotha,they start play games,trying to punk him with all that attitude and trying to show her friends that she run the relationship.If the sistas have kids,she him to help with them because the frat boy or little boy who fucked her and left with them babies didn't care in the frist place but they will still carry love for that punk.He can't say nothing to them and she compares him to that thug of a man that's fucked up.
mightyblack1 9 months ago
thank you
djobsession 9 months ago
Love is love. She is right but saying everyone is responsible for their own happiness. Find what makes you happy. Life is what you make.
Jmurdock85 9 months ago
I am a Handsome Black millionaire an I would love to meet you. I can send you a pic if you want:)
FutureStarFitness 9 months ago
KERA ! GREAT VIDEO!
STRAlGHTSClENCE 9 months ago
MsKera 1,000,000.00% Thumbs UP!
STRAlGHTSClENCE 9 months ago
MY SISTERS AND BROTHERS JUST GET TOGETHER . IF YOU CANT SEE YOUR BEING BRAIN WASHED BY TV . THEN I FEEL SORRY FOR YOU . IF THEY CAN GET IN YOUR MIND ! THEN YOU ALREADY LOST . TO BE FREE IS TO BE FREE IN YOUR MIND . I AM TRULY FREE BECAUSE I DONT GIVE ADAM ABOUT WHAT THEY SAY ABOUT ME ARE MY PEOPLE . WERE GOOD ! NO RACE IS PERFECT . BUT EVERY ONE IS FOCUSED ON US . NOW WERE LOOKING AT ARE SELFS . THINKING ARE WE REALY MESSED UP LIKE THEY SAY WE ARE . NO ! WE ARE JUST FINE FREE YOUR MIND ! 1# LOV
thinkalott33 10 months ago
@MsKSera - Your in denial, you may not have a problem but many of your sisters do! All I can say to blk women is this - stop having children of men who do not want to marry you! And to blk men if you don't want the women stop using her for sex and filling her life up with another illegitament child. Blk men do not build bridges into other races they abandon their own children for another race or woman - the whole world knows it.
lovethecaribbean1 10 months ago
@lovethecaribbean1
You are insane and a hater of Black men, get over it !
TheronOfRhodeIsland 9 months ago
When it comes down to it, this is really just another girl get you a white man video, minus the attacks on B.M. Which is fine.
But I think every black man watching this should not be confused to think that this has anything to do with us or caring about us at all, or our views. It does not.
Her main point that I get from this is that going on T.V. an