dude....so loving ur channel..i, too am my own therapist:) so, ur question... y you do it...pay fo e's shit...suggested answer- because in america we are kinda trained to be overly nice...that saying no is being mean/argumentative...which in return developes into an extemely nasty and self deminishing habbit...next time u decide too waste ur time...dont waste it choose to utilize dat time as" practice me time" tell dem vamps hell to da mofo no!!!!! u get empowered and they get a dose of real
I found a great si****te """"" s.u.g.a.r.c.u.p.i.d@ c**0* *m"""""" it's the biggest su***g.ar dat**.ing si:;te for beautiful wo/man and r..ich man! why not check it out to find your sug..gar dadd.y or bab.y?
I'm sure you realize this NOW but... after the first time he fumbled through his wallet and had you pay for his meal the date should have been over, because money wasn't going to magically fly into his wallet by the time y'all got to Coldstone's, the bar, or wherever else y'all went. If it was empty at the start, it was going to stay empty. You're right on the money with everything else you said though.
You seem like a very nice and generous person. but this guy you went out with sounds like a user and a loser. remember we teach people how to treat us.
Him inviting you on a date and could not pay for the first treat was your first damn clue, baby. People give clues, but we are in denial. Don't let anybody take advantage of you, love.
I have the same philosophy as you. if someone offers to buy you dinner or something, you get something that matches the price of what they got or less, not more!!! this dude was triflin! u shoulda stopped at the ice cream!...but ya shoulda coulda woulda's will get u no where in life. Good thing you learned your lesson and are helping others now
Well shouldnt u have learned if u been with him the whole time tht if he didnt have money the first time he wouldnt the third either?! Like i dnt really get tht
i love ur honesty...i bin in this situation before where men tell u things buildn u up to only break ur london bridge dwn...but lik u said thank god for the intelligence i have to get out of the situation big up to u chal!!
Pizza, Ice cream, beer and drugs?? man your lookin at your future with this guy in some trailor park somewhere and eventually on the jerry springer show! my only question is what was he reading in the book store? are you sure he could read? lol
I know that Im sooooooooo late but this is real!!!!!!!! Basically my whole life Ive been catering to a slewwwwwww of ungrateful people. It got worse soon as I involved myself in relationships whether it be m/f. I dont think there was one DAMN time that any of those mfz did anything equivalent to what I have done...REALLY? BACKSPACE AND DELETE THAT SHIT HOE!!!!! OBIVIOUSLY IF U DONT HAVE IT U DONT NEED IT. AND AS FAR S IM CONCERNED ITS 2011 AND U WILL GET A HELL TO THE NAW!!!!!!! <3 u Qaadir!!
well, as someone in llove, myself, i can tell you straight up, that when you find that right person, it will naturally be reciprocated. im one of the brokest ppl i kno, but u bet that i still find a way to recriprocate for the person that im with and they do the same. i can tell u that from one human being to the other.
You have described me so incredibly well at some parts. I also felt like I was ready for love, and to be the perfect girlfriend. I waited for that INCREDIBLY special person, and all they did was hurt me endlessly--he is sorry, but the wounds are there nonetheless. I wanted love so badly that I was willing to get hurt just to hope it would come back. But then he screwed up again and I had it. Your videos inspire me to love myself again. Thank you so much. Really<33
I started watching your vids at first because you're so funny, but the more I watch the more true respect I have for you from what we know of you as a person in general. You seriously ROCK and inspiring in many different ways. Also unique
After lunch he woulda been SOL. He probably wouldnt have got the lunch.... no actually he wouldnt have. how u gonna invite someone to lunch and not have money? wtf were u planning to do, watch me eat? lol that was planned like shit
This video is sooooooooooo true i understand where u coming from Love ur videos Love the person u r ur very unique keep doing what your doing..............
This is such a great video. I was in a similar situation last year and I wish I had seen your video then. I'm a female, but everything you said completely applies to both males and females, gay, straight or bi!
I really love your messages. I want to add you on my facebook. I really enjoy your spirit. I hope you do find somebody that will make you happy. If you have a facebook, please send me a message so that I can add you as a friend. I really want to get to know you as a person. All I can say is that you make me laugh! I love people that make me laugh. You are so real. Please write me a message. Thanks :)
the gay communty is ashit hole in the 80 it was nice homeless ice heads and by the time you get 42 you will be sick of the of the stupid shit the gay communty are not your friends they will rob you blind if you let them
omdz i don't even really comment on peoples videos but really you are so smart and insightful its unreal keep doing what your doing and i hope you find the man of your dreams you really deserve it sweety x
omdz i don't even really comment on peoples videos but really you are so smart and insightful its unreal keep doing what your doing and i hope you find the man of your dreams you really deserve it sweety x
i think this video can relate to everyone in life. situations like these dont just happen with strangers but with "friends" too, im sick and tried of friends wanting to hang out with you just so they could get a free meal, and after they are done their meal they just want to go home. its real annoying.
Im just tryna figure out why that nigga keep going threw his wallet all them times if u aint have money the first time why would u have money the second or 3rd time
I woulda said Good Got Damn Day!! and he really took advantage of you, You shoulda said hell Nah Nigga! He was a Jerk Off in my opinion. Cold Stone aint cheap and i woulda been like hold dat Order and i wouldnt of paid for no beer.
I am sorry but u deserved wat u got coz the first instance that u see someone start looking in their purse or wallet for money after they invited u out that is ur cue to know that they are a deadbeat. He stood u up on those previous occassions he could test the waters with u to see how far he can abuse ur trust and generosity. Dont let anyone play u 4 a fool coz u are 2 blessed in so many ways for that nonsense. U will be a great partner and 4get it!
feel proud that you are so smart- many people get stuck with users and manipulators for years! keep waiting for the right person and they will come when the time is right.
Qaadir, Dude, you got played, ok. Don't feel bad. He played you for a fool. Unfortunately it happens. Just chalk it up to one of life's lessons and move one. And..uh...THE PACKAGE STORE! After drinking all that BEER???!!! Is he an alcoholic?
You are a beautiful person, and to reiterate what you have expressed "know your own worth". You are precious in God's sight, and He loves you more than anyone could ever love you on this earth. I'm talking REAL LOVE! The kind where He has only YOUR best interest at heart. He loved you enough to die for you (John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him shall not perish, but have everlasting life). He knows your worth!
A wise man once said, 'If you lend someone £20 and you never see that person again, it was £20 well spent'. This guy you were out with sounds like a user! Lesson well learnt! You'll look back on that day and smile, because no one will ever take advantage of you again. XXX
When he said "I deserve better", I thought about my ex cuz thats exactly what I told him because he treated me like i wuz goin be a fool and put up with his bs and selfish ways. He had the nerve to call me self-centered when he wuz da one not doin anythang 4me. Im glad I got rid of that lame.
Ive met people like that, they seem to want to test your boundaries of how much BS you can take. I guess they like using people like that. The guy I was involved with was on drugs as well. I love this video a lot tho! dont worry your time will come and your sweetness will pay off, dont think everyone is the same, you didnt do anything wrong. Just takes a while to really understand a person thats all. its way over my head how shamelessly rude some people are like that... glad you got out of it!
Those are the rules for ordering that my mother taught me! U r right! and soooo cool! The ONLY time I violated that order was when someone took me out for my birthday - and yeah they knew it was birthday.
You are spectacular!!! I love it. You gave me good food for thought and you made me laugh!! LOL. I learned about you because SPNation brought your name up as someone he enjoys on YouTube. Of course I subscribed also. Bravisimo, love.
Yes!!!!!!!!! You payin then you pick something decent do not go crzy I hate that too! That is type rude...he was moochinnnnnnnnnnnnnnn! Damn that's effed up!
i love that you take the time to think about mistakes, on your scooter.
sometimes we realize we didn't act right (towards ourselves) but we tell ourselves "that was shitty, i'll think about it later" and then we never take the time to do so, and we keep making the same mistakes.
Damn, Damn, Damn I can't believe this shit; but everybody plays the fool at one time or another. You got your lesson....I know you knew better from jump. But trust YOU AIN"T GOT TO PROVE YOUR WORTH TO NO DAMN BODY.
omg, Qaadir... Lol .. I cant believe u paid for all that.. You really have guts, because I wouldnt have told anyone this.. But yeah thats why I only date people who are on my level.. Like if u dont have car dont even think about approaching me.
Love the vid! I recently experienced a similar situation and I had to clock the tea on that dude. I came out of it with more a new perspective and greater appreciation for myself. Much love!
Quadir why?? WHY! I'm trying to understand how you let it get that far after the ice cream and beer?? omg Dude, when it came to the point of asking for 2 dollars I would have definitley just walked away!
I have no doubt that you will find a partner that will complement you to the fullest because you have your head together. When you have self respect and you aren't willing to settle for someone just so you won't be alone it may take a long time before the right one comes along. Remember the saying "don't waste your pearls on pigs"? Keep true to yourself and I look forward to seeing your wedding pics on Youtube or your website. Much Love!
You gotta learn not to be so nice. I would have freaked out at the icecream shop if the guy had ordered something 8x more expensive than my own order.
I had exactly the same situation right now....except mine has been going on for over a year now....and we arent even together...but my pockets are empty...every damn time!!
you are a real role model and one day you will make someone very happy. Just to let you know, because of you, I am starting to love myself for me and not for what people want me to be. So, thank you very much from the bottom of my heart.
Qaadiirm, in ur next video can u quickly mention what clock the t means cause i dont really kno i jus started watching u ...but i luv ur videos ur my fav comdeian
lol... I def feel u Qaadir. Mofo's are crazy! U can't give someone an inch b/c they try to take a mile. He probably thought you were a paymaster. He needs to find someone desperate enough to fall for it.
i fell in lv very young and he left me for his 2nd cousin wich hu is oboese and a week b4 cristmas by text kilt me but been learning so much shit ppl say im fussy...fuck that i deserve better i aint fussy look at me i deserve sum1 dats gona b on my level ur ryt no tee no shayyy!!!
I give you what you give me.That really make the brow rise up.but it makes them think.Because if they did'nt kick out,the they know they don't grt shit back. HTP
RIGHT ! you shldnt of paid for it ! BUT YOU WERE BEING NICE & BLIND SIDED .. SO At least u caught it examine it and addressed it to self so u wont repeat it ... We all have ... ! I appreciate your openess !
yo, im one of ur new subscribers and i just want to let u kno i luv ur show yo..when i haveing a bad day at work i just go to youtube and find of of ur clips and i kno imma either start laughing or agreeing with u.. Seriously yo, you really gets me thro my day. i think my fav so far is when u step in human shit, the office depot warrenty and of course the mcodonlds resume!
you are awesome...i know exactly what you mean and i went thru the same thing and i want you to know that you will find someone you deserve...it will happen :) you are young and it will be all worth the wait! msg me if you want to rant more... i totally get what you're going thru.
One of the things that I think is that when people get married they dont take their vows serious enough, like it is a symbol and a promise and people just "say" their vows to get married but forget them after
it is so true about not lowering your standards and finding someone that is perfect for you. Honestly I think one of the reasons why their is so much divorce is because people sometimes settle for people that are not perfect for them because they dont want to be alone. I guess it just takes time.
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dont u mean "the straw that broke the camel's back"...its also a bit easier on the tounge..;-)
dogon80 1 week ago
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dogon80 1 week ago
OMG! WORD!
Dante121892 2 weeks ago
Great advice! Funny as he'll too! Take care of yourself.. :)
wrmmachne820311 2 weeks ago
" We are having a Crazy Sexy Cool situation! You know like TLC! " lmao XD
monkeypawn 1 month ago
''been there, done that, bought a t-shirt'' PRICELESS. I'm sorry but I will use this phrase, I sure will!
nykstukaigeriakava 1 month ago 2
WERK THAT HAIRCUT, LOVE IT
reppindat876 1 month ago
Your words helped me. Thanks for making my life better <3
lethalvows27 1 month ago
Whatever the case might be...IDK, I would have got my pizza to go...paid for his and left his ass there. smh....
itscotnbitchez 1 month ago
Dude was a loser!
jellybeen 2 months ago
OMG! I just love me some you!! You are so funny. And you speak truth! I'm in Atlanta too. We need to be friends. :-)
HairAndMoreIsh 2 months ago
I freaking adore you and can listen to you for hours, thanks for being you and sharing so much. big hug from Paris, France Angelo xoxo
RockStarNYC 2 months ago
sound like that guy was teaching u a lesson
beauttty07 2 months ago
I need someone like you in my life right now, someone with positive vibes :-)
LeopardHeartz 3 months ago
EPI-TOME . lmfao .
sheszahustla 3 months ago 2
I so agree with this. Been there done that on a bigger scale. You have to experience it to know.
couldbemessy 3 months ago
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can you say HUSTLER?
skiptillman 4 months ago
he was looking for a free ride, he already had an agenda, i assume he was an old fool. to bad for him he missed a gem
Tld007 4 months ago
this is my fav video of your...this is truth....good job babe you will have what is right and good for you...
Tld007 4 months ago
dude....so loving ur channel..i, too am my own therapist:) so, ur question... y you do it...pay fo e's shit...suggested answer- because in america we are kinda trained to be overly nice...that saying no is being mean/argumentative...which in return developes into an extemely nasty and self deminishing habbit...next time u decide too waste ur time...dont waste it choose to utilize dat time as" practice me time" tell dem vamps hell to da mofo no!!!!! u get empowered and they get a dose of real
chelleaby 4 months ago
Excellent video!!!!
jamielynnmc 5 months ago
You are freakin' awesome!
fromama2011 5 months ago
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The problm is that sometimes it takes to long for us to realize that.I believe at least one time everyone go trhu that.
TheNegralinda 5 months ago
wow i really needed this right now
treemonster123 5 months ago
epi-tome?
It's pronounced "e-pit-oh-me"
elrynx2 6 months ago 15
@elrynx2 lmaoo i noticed it tooooooooo
iiPodGurL18 2 months ago
@elrynx2 actually, both pronunciations are valid :/
racketdot 6 days ago
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I found a great si****te """"" s.u.g.a.r.c.u.p.i.d@ c**0* *m"""""" it's the biggest su***g.ar dat**.ing si:;te for beautiful wo/man and r..ich man! why not check it out to find your sug..gar dadd.y or bab.y?
jenny33419 7 months ago
That boy got you....smh he is a mess!
nise2121 7 months ago
I'm sure you realize this NOW but... after the first time he fumbled through his wallet and had you pay for his meal the date should have been over, because money wasn't going to magically fly into his wallet by the time y'all got to Coldstone's, the bar, or wherever else y'all went. If it was empty at the start, it was going to stay empty. You're right on the money with everything else you said though.
JoshuaBrounan1 7 months ago 3
Im sure you got a lot of boyfriend offers after this video.
canweallgetalong 7 months ago
i need you and your videos . when im feeling down . you lift my spirits.
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dymondusic 7 months ago
hella sexii with your hair cut
stoney2582 7 months ago
Girl!!! great video...something similar happened to me,...but i let it happened once..after that i knew better
jnson2010 7 months ago
i agree, if someone offers to pay do not go crazy
TheMorgz14 8 months ago
You're awesome ! thank you
briskii1020yea 8 months ago
Damn Right!
RiCoThEStaR 8 months ago
girl nicely said u def hit the nail on the head know ur worth :) loves it
MsMissmocha 9 months ago
I really like you dude..your so deep!
Chutney20 9 months ago
I love this video this situation has happpened to me!
sofreshhticated 9 months ago
i love your hair! .... great video
Shuqi78 9 months ago
sorry im not feeling ur hair
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never cheting site and only one in trully benaughtyman.info
melanimadavi 10 months ago
Boy, In the UK i would have eating, burp and fart while looking at his starving broke ass nigga in the face, But you too nice....
RasNandoSXM 10 months ago
He worked you, Qaadir! lol
MySugarWallz 10 months ago
You seem like a very nice and generous person. but this guy you went out with sounds like a user and a loser. remember we teach people how to treat us.
lilsexy1982 10 months ago
I wouldve gave up when you got to the bar. If I didnt drink I wouldnt buy drinks for other people ?
MrCrayEgg 10 months ago
Such good advice!
BarbieOnStiltz 10 months ago
Him inviting you on a date and could not pay for the first treat was your first damn clue, baby. People give clues, but we are in denial. Don't let anybody take advantage of you, love.
ksj1975 10 months ago
I have the same philosophy as you. if someone offers to buy you dinner or something, you get something that matches the price of what they got or less, not more!!! this dude was triflin! u shoulda stopped at the ice cream!...but ya shoulda coulda woulda's will get u no where in life. Good thing you learned your lesson and are helping others now
angelatomate324 11 months ago
Well shouldnt u have learned if u been with him the whole time tht if he didnt have money the first time he wouldnt the third either?! Like i dnt really get tht
TheMisses468 11 months ago
fucking fagget
keirwiggins 11 months ago
@keirwiggins im with you on that one
seansta1234 11 months ago
@keirwiggins u mad lmfao grow up..... lol hahahaha
TheHipHopDancer88 11 months ago
@keirwiggins how u gon click on his shit n say that... lol. grow up. so uncalled for.
dori30833 11 months ago
@dori30833 shut up!
keirwiggins 10 months ago
damn scruby ass bummy bamby bitch ass niggas. i hate users. frm past experience; i no wat it is. i love u chris tucker #2!!!
miadupreegarcia 1 year ago
i love ur honesty...i bin in this situation before where men tell u things buildn u up to only break ur london bridge dwn...but lik u said thank god for the intelligence i have to get out of the situation big up to u chal!!
3mpress88 1 year ago
Pizza, Ice cream, beer and drugs?? man your lookin at your future with this guy in some trailor park somewhere and eventually on the jerry springer show! my only question is what was he reading in the book store? are you sure he could read? lol
thefrankiex 1 year ago 2
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH FAGGGGG
TealBeadle 1 year ago
after he would have stud me up the first time, that would be it for him!lol, im not gonna make myself a damn fool the 3rd time, r u serious?!
1uhot4 1 year ago
I know that Im sooooooooo late but this is real!!!!!!!! Basically my whole life Ive been catering to a slewwwwwww of ungrateful people. It got worse soon as I involved myself in relationships whether it be m/f. I dont think there was one DAMN time that any of those mfz did anything equivalent to what I have done...REALLY? BACKSPACE AND DELETE THAT SHIT HOE!!!!! OBIVIOUSLY IF U DONT HAVE IT U DONT NEED IT. AND AS FAR S IM CONCERNED ITS 2011 AND U WILL GET A HELL TO THE NAW!!!!!!! <3 u Qaadir!!
mz4renziks 1 year ago
You look so much better with THE short hair.....huggs!
bebochulo7 1 year ago
well, as someone in llove, myself, i can tell you straight up, that when you find that right person, it will naturally be reciprocated. im one of the brokest ppl i kno, but u bet that i still find a way to recriprocate for the person that im with and they do the same. i can tell u that from one human being to the other.
Puppies140 1 year ago
this vid is so inspirational and it helped me alot thank you so so much keep the good work up!!!
Fakemonpeter 1 year ago
epitome is pronounced eh-pit-oh- mee
but I used to think it was pronounced ep-it-ohm too... lol
xKineticSparks 1 year ago
lol sweetheart then why did u go to the bar w/ him knowin that u had to pay for it? lol ur crazy :)
rochiebaybie868 1 year ago
yr soo true <3 ya
JMDR2010 1 year ago
you aint never lied
bernaeemah 1 year ago
You have described me so incredibly well at some parts. I also felt like I was ready for love, and to be the perfect girlfriend. I waited for that INCREDIBLY special person, and all they did was hurt me endlessly--he is sorry, but the wounds are there nonetheless. I wanted love so badly that I was willing to get hurt just to hope it would come back. But then he screwed up again and I had it. Your videos inspire me to love myself again. Thank you so much. Really<33
gabrieladeception 1 year ago
Did no one notice how he pronounced "epitome"????
No tea, no shade cuz i luv u Q... but that was hilariousss
RoxMinaj 1 year ago
I started watching your vids at first because you're so funny, but the more I watch the more true respect I have for you from what we know of you as a person in general. You seriously ROCK and inspiring in many different ways. Also unique
You rock, I love you. Thanks
vera1887 1 year ago
After lunch he woulda been SOL. He probably wouldnt have got the lunch.... no actually he wouldnt have. how u gonna invite someone to lunch and not have money? wtf were u planning to do, watch me eat? lol that was planned like shit
mistabigg007 1 year ago
LMAO!!!!!!!! Took you to the cleaners.... #classic
Sbobz21 1 year ago
What Artist was he talking about at the end?
EDUB0902 1 year ago
IM NEW TO YOUTUBE AND SOMEONE RECOMMENDED I FOLLOW YOU AND THIS IS MY FIRST VIDEO OF YOU AND I JUST LOVED IT CANT WAIT TO SEE THEM ALL (^_^)
Jamece123 1 year ago
This video is sooooooooooo true i understand where u coming from Love ur videos Love the person u r ur very unique keep doing what your doing..............
Desnkei08 1 year ago
This is such a great video. I was in a similar situation last year and I wish I had seen your video then. I'm a female, but everything you said completely applies to both males and females, gay, straight or bi!
<3
urbanr0cker 1 year ago
ilove you,ihave been looking for your page formonths ifound you accidentally and i am happy that i ffound you again your funny and honest i love it!
amanda2ndblock 1 year ago
I really love your messages. I want to add you on my facebook. I really enjoy your spirit. I hope you do find somebody that will make you happy. If you have a facebook, please send me a message so that I can add you as a friend. I really want to get to know you as a person. All I can say is that you make me laugh! I love people that make me laugh. You are so real. Please write me a message. Thanks :)
finechico20 1 year ago
the gay communty is ashit hole in the 80 it was nice homeless ice heads and by the time you get 42 you will be sick of the of the stupid shit the gay communty are not your friends they will rob you blind if you let them
marcus8902 1 year ago
We all have played the fool. You live and you learn.
omarrperry 1 year ago
Omg Qaadir im so pissed dude did that to you! You need to do a Kat Stacks and give out that name and number so we know who this fool is!!
mrsmariarosella 1 year ago
This story reminds me of my ex I can't stand users! Good thing u cut him loose early
ayabell404 1 year ago
thats a shame BUT a lesson learned.
bamabeauty131 1 year ago
omdz i don't even really comment on peoples videos but really you are so smart and insightful its unreal keep doing what your doing and i hope you find the man of your dreams you really deserve it sweety x
UkFanx 1 year ago
omdz i don't even really comment on peoples videos but really you are so smart and insightful its unreal keep doing what your doing and i hope you find the man of your dreams you really deserve it sweety x
UkFanx 1 year ago
Qaadir why would u do that? This is how people will walk all over u. Take it from me cause I had 2 learn the hard way.
MissBrooklyn87 1 year ago
what did you see at coldstone's?????????????
ZebraZoom007 1 year ago
i think this video can relate to everyone in life. situations like these dont just happen with strangers but with "friends" too, im sick and tried of friends wanting to hang out with you just so they could get a free meal, and after they are done their meal they just want to go home. its real annoying.
maplestorywater 1 year ago
RAVEN SYMONE
SincerelyDebonairre 1 year ago
Im just tryna figure out why that nigga keep going threw his wallet all them times if u aint have money the first time why would u have money the second or 3rd time
cashmania1 1 year ago
@cashmania1 magic happens xD though i guess he wasn't trying hard enough lol
SkipFour 1 year ago
girl kaboom...and explode lmao!!!!!!!! great advice!
onyxanya 1 year ago
peace and love jesus christ.
rachel4779 1 year ago
I love Barbara! Which album is it?
SunniD81 1 year ago
I woulda said Good Got Damn Day!! and he really took advantage of you, You shoulda said hell Nah Nigga! He was a Jerk Off in my opinion. Cold Stone aint cheap and i woulda been like hold dat Order and i wouldnt of paid for no beer.
Karamugga 1 year ago
you cant uplift these lames let them stay bummy !!!!
Leta589 1 year ago
sorry i meant and dont 4get it!lol
LADYROCKSTAR2112 1 year ago
I am sorry but u deserved wat u got coz the first instance that u see someone start looking in their purse or wallet for money after they invited u out that is ur cue to know that they are a deadbeat. He stood u up on those previous occassions he could test the waters with u to see how far he can abuse ur trust and generosity. Dont let anyone play u 4 a fool coz u are 2 blessed in so many ways for that nonsense. U will be a great partner and 4get it!
LADYROCKSTAR2112 1 year ago
Know Your Worth!!!!! YES <3
juanmora19910209 1 year ago
feel proud that you are so smart- many people get stuck with users and manipulators for years! keep waiting for the right person and they will come when the time is right.
glitter800 1 year ago
Qaadir, Dude, you got played, ok. Don't feel bad. He played you for a fool. Unfortunately it happens. Just chalk it up to one of life's lessons and move one. And..uh...THE PACKAGE STORE! After drinking all that BEER???!!! Is he an alcoholic?
borninchicago52 1 year ago
You are a beautiful person, and to reiterate what you have expressed "know your own worth". You are precious in God's sight, and He loves you more than anyone could ever love you on this earth. I'm talking REAL LOVE! The kind where He has only YOUR best interest at heart. He loved you enough to die for you (John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him shall not perish, but have everlasting life). He knows your worth!
azureblue100 1 year ago
A wise man once said, 'If you lend someone £20 and you never see that person again, it was £20 well spent'. This guy you were out with sounds like a user! Lesson well learnt! You'll look back on that day and smile, because no one will ever take advantage of you again. XXX
RichardPears 1 year ago
My first thoughts were homo.
Then I realized how right you were(:
Thank you, and sorry for misjudging you.
rawrjoeynashomg 1 year ago
When he said "I deserve better", I thought about my ex cuz thats exactly what I told him because he treated me like i wuz goin be a fool and put up with his bs and selfish ways. He had the nerve to call me self-centered when he wuz da one not doin anythang 4me. Im glad I got rid of that lame.
CCUCHYCK13 1 year ago
Ive met people like that, they seem to want to test your boundaries of how much BS you can take. I guess they like using people like that. The guy I was involved with was on drugs as well. I love this video a lot tho! dont worry your time will come and your sweetness will pay off, dont think everyone is the same, you didnt do anything wrong. Just takes a while to really understand a person thats all. its way over my head how shamelessly rude some people are like that... glad you got out of it!
Alvette 1 year ago
decko saberi se !
fibrosus 1 year ago
Those are the rules for ordering that my mother taught me! U r right! and soooo cool! The ONLY time I violated that order was when someone took me out for my birthday - and yeah they knew it was birthday.
63Jeannee 1 year ago
This makes me sad. You were not wrong, Qaadir. Damn, I hate a parasite.
22marland 1 year ago
"Red wine on ice?" Who drinks red wine on ice? MESS.
ssforeverss 1 year ago
Love your youtube page but know that epitome (8:36) is not pronounced that way its pronounced "a-pit-ta-me"
Bahia82 1 year ago
You are spectacular!!! I love it. You gave me good food for thought and you made me laugh!! LOL. I learned about you because SPNation brought your name up as someone he enjoys on YouTube. Of course I subscribed also. Bravisimo, love.
Almondie7 1 year ago
Wow. You are so wise for a 20 year old! Watching this vid was like a slap in the face for me, a good one though :)
xXallergicXx 1 year ago
I swear this is the dumbest thing I ever seen! What is this?!?!?!! This isn't the Dr. Phil show.
Edmac12 1 year ago
Yes!!!!!!!!! You payin then you pick something decent do not go crzy I hate that too! That is type rude...he was moochinnnnnnnnnnnnnnn! Damn that's effed up!
johncgirl 1 year ago
I know this post is old, but what the Tea on Coldstone, lol. I eat their all the time! I wanna know the dirt
Bahia82 1 year ago
@Bahia82 watch his vid "the 3 managers" :)
lovewillkillusall 1 year ago
i love that you take the time to think about mistakes, on your scooter.
sometimes we realize we didn't act right (towards ourselves) but we tell ourselves "that was shitty, i'll think about it later" and then we never take the time to do so, and we keep making the same mistakes.
<3
cigiss 1 year ago
Damn, Damn, Damn I can't believe this shit; but everybody plays the fool at one time or another. You got your lesson....I know you knew better from jump. But trust YOU AIN"T GOT TO PROVE YOUR WORTH TO NO DAMN BODY.
CherieButler 1 year ago
After the pizza it would have been wise to call it off.
Actually after he stood you up twice you should not accepted his offer.
He was probably getting someone else to pay for his habits.
nichirenx 1 year ago
You are on point.
I never leave home without some kind of asset.
If someone was nice enough to treat me to meals i would order the cheapest thing that I liked.
nichirenx 1 year ago
I'm laughing my ass off! LOL!
LouWeEv7 1 year ago
illegal drugs lol WTF hes a jackass
WweThemes120 1 year ago
lol tell it!! i love you
AshleyJSings 1 year ago
at least you learned something and it won't happen again. You are a young dude. Live and learn.
diana1nicole 1 year ago
omg, Qaadir... Lol .. I cant believe u paid for all that.. You really have guts, because I wouldnt have told anyone this.. But yeah thats why I only date people who are on my level.. Like if u dont have car dont even think about approaching me.
Armaniwazhere 1 year ago
icant belieeeve you actually gave that guy the money! duuude, you liked him? but hey, lesson learned...but damn. he must have been fine.
admouskee 1 year ago
yea that guy was deranged. trifling in fact
admouskee 1 year ago
this is such a long video... you should have just walked away when he fumbled with his wallet at the bar...
xgamezgrl 1 year ago
Love the vid! I recently experienced a similar situation and I had to clock the tea on that dude. I came out of it with more a new perspective and greater appreciation for myself. Much love!
sakinwale 1 year ago
Quadir why?? WHY! I'm trying to understand how you let it get that far after the ice cream and beer?? omg Dude, when it came to the point of asking for 2 dollars I would have definitley just walked away!
Writerchic1 2 years ago 6
I love the way you use your words
CherryRedd86 2 years ago
I have no doubt that you will find a partner that will complement you to the fullest because you have your head together. When you have self respect and you aren't willing to settle for someone just so you won't be alone it may take a long time before the right one comes along. Remember the saying "don't waste your pearls on pigs"? Keep true to yourself and I look forward to seeing your wedding pics on Youtube or your website. Much Love!
reclaimingself 2 years ago
Thank You for this video and the wonderful message at the end..Every second was worth watching!
jessy7785 2 years ago
You gotta learn not to be so nice. I would have freaked out at the icecream shop if the guy had ordered something 8x more expensive than my own order.
luiza2166 2 years ago
I hate when People take advantage of people paying for them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
BLink2fu 2 years ago
I had exactly the same situation right now....except mine has been going on for over a year now....and we arent even together...but my pockets are empty...every damn time!!
You have just knocked HUGE sense into my head.
Making my cut off phone call tonight.
ladyslick121 2 years ago 39
omg i can't believe that happened to you
can't believe you put up with so much
you definitely deserve better.
good luck in everything
LKerra1 2 years ago
you are a real role model and one day you will make someone very happy. Just to let you know, because of you, I am starting to love myself for me and not for what people want me to be. So, thank you very much from the bottom of my heart.
spiderdj82 2 years ago 60
@spiderdj82 thats beautiful :)
Puppies140 1 year ago
That's real talk!
1brightchick 2 years ago
one question . did he even say thank youu ? -.-
iNfAMOUSzlEAhBABy 2 years ago
This is so inspirational! I love you!
boondocks23 2 years ago
Qaadiirm, in ur next video can u quickly mention what clock the t means cause i dont really kno i jus started watching u ...but i luv ur videos ur my fav comdeian
beautifulplaya 2 years ago 2
@beautifulplaya i think it basically means to set the record straight about something, or exposing it for what it is "clockin the tea/situation"
babyxhil 2 years ago
lol fukn puff
but fukn funny vid bro
BigR000 2 years ago
wow u talk reallllllllllllllly fast....
win2477 2 years ago
great video. incredible advice.
sarahbinney 2 years ago
you're a boy of course you have rough hands...that's just the way it is>>
And how did you jump from talking about self help problems to bubble bath lmao.
Your ADHD is so fuuunny!
Much love law!!
lawrencecasher 2 years ago
lol... I def feel u Qaadir. Mofo's are crazy! U can't give someone an inch b/c they try to take a mile. He probably thought you were a paymaster. He needs to find someone desperate enough to fall for it.
msebonymd81 2 years ago
you will meet someone nice!
DEKIKK 2 years ago
i fell in lv very young and he left me for his 2nd cousin wich hu is oboese and a week b4 cristmas by text kilt me but been learning so much shit ppl say im fussy...fuck that i deserve better i aint fussy look at me i deserve sum1 dats gona b on my level ur ryt no tee no shayyy!!!
jodiexxl 2 years ago
u never feel to make me happy or laugh. mayb oneday u and shawn dawson can get together and do a vid..
u should hav ur own show and way more viewers
Sco2b 2 years ago
Ain't no "S" on that! lmao
ladyraven30 2 years ago
Bravo Qaadir. I think any guy would be lucky to have you. :)
rachelbd 2 years ago 5
I sorry I meant to correct grt to get,remover the. peace
zuzuxwater 2 years ago
I give you what you give me.That really make the brow rise up.but it makes them think.Because if they did'nt kick out,the they know they don't grt shit back. HTP
zuzuxwater 2 years ago
I WLDNT HAVE bought dat mane shit. but gurl u live and learn
ashnburt11 2 years ago
Qaadir you will find what you deserve because you have a good head on your shoulders, values, and a good heart!! God bless!!
zulinate 2 years ago
RIGHT ! you shldnt of paid for it ! BUT YOU WERE BEING NICE & BLIND SIDED .. SO At least u caught it examine it and addressed it to self so u wont repeat it ... We all have ... ! I appreciate your openess !
SAHDARY 2 years ago
yo, im one of ur new subscribers and i just want to let u kno i luv ur show yo..when i haveing a bad day at work i just go to youtube and find of of ur clips and i kno imma either start laughing or agreeing with u.. Seriously yo, you really gets me thro my day. i think my fav so far is when u step in human shit, the office depot warrenty and of course the mcodonlds resume!
mandingo584 2 years ago 5
I feel the same way too!!!
nylevefabian 2 years ago
You shouldn't have bought that a-hole anything !
designedfor 2 years ago
youre way to nice. you paid for everything. if i had gotten to the part of the beer at the bar, i would've stopped right there. HALTED
Debsturrs 2 years ago 3
you are awesome...i know exactly what you mean and i went thru the same thing and i want you to know that you will find someone you deserve...it will happen :) you are young and it will be all worth the wait! msg me if you want to rant more... i totally get what you're going thru.
fuzzieslipper 2 years ago
OMG u r so right! know ur worth indeed...i wish more people knew this!
misslynda82 2 years ago
wow i feel u all the way i think im n the same sitch-0 right n0w..but i really liike hiim,so i dnt n0e what 2 do0o.
DEBREE09 2 years ago
One of the things that I think is that when people get married they dont take their vows serious enough, like it is a symbol and a promise and people just "say" their vows to get married but forget them after
firedmotion 2 years ago
it is so true about not lowering your standards and finding someone that is perfect for you. Honestly I think one of the reasons why their is so much divorce is because people sometimes settle for people that are not perfect for them because they dont want to be alone. I guess it just takes time.
firedmotion 2 years ago 4
I love your personality....yea you can't let people walk over you..that other guy seems like a jerk, glad it was a learning experience
okonkwoobiageli 2 years ago