This video is so backwards. Consent is what makes sex sexy. Whoever thinks negotiation is an awkward formality could really benefit from some skill-building education. It's just sad that this video has so many high ratings...there must be a lot of really sexually clueless people watching this. This video expresses the kind of thinking rape comes out of.
@CieloMorado Sex isn't sex without consent. Negotation isn't sexy, the best sex in mindless and no agreements should be made, just whatever feels right
@Pilafboy I agree: sex isn't sex without consent. However, I disagree with your view on negotiation. Negotiation can be very sexy - if it's not, try another way of doing it. I agree that no contracts should be made, but as far as just agreeing - you have to agree on stuff, otherwise it's not consent. Negotiation helps us find what feels right - so it's essential. Not sure what you mean by mindless - I think mindfulness/presence and flow/relaxation and passion are essential. Thnx for the reply :)
@CieloMorado Nice to see a reply respecting someone's opinion for once firstly. Maybe negotiation can be very sexy, then again I'm only 18, what do I know. I just don't find the idea of any form of organisation involving sex, I think passion and organisation are mutually exclusive and passion is more important to me. Just an opinion of mine, and I don't think mindlessness was the best way to describe it, more of allowing instinct to take over rational thought.
@Pilafboy I absolutely agree: sex needs to be open to the dynamic change and creativity of passion. Communication comes in many forms, verbal and nonverbal, and I believe using communication effectively can enhance the fluidity of meshing two or more passions into a harmonious whole. I think passion and communication, 'instinct' and rational thinking can go very well together, and even enhance each other greatly. Thnx again for sharing your perspective. :)
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elchoaro800 2 years ago 2
This video is so backwards. Consent is what makes sex sexy. Whoever thinks negotiation is an awkward formality could really benefit from some skill-building education. It's just sad that this video has so many high ratings...there must be a lot of really sexually clueless people watching this. This video expresses the kind of thinking rape comes out of.
CieloMorado 2 years ago
@CieloMorado Sex isn't sex without consent. Negotation isn't sexy, the best sex in mindless and no agreements should be made, just whatever feels right
Pilafboy 1 year ago
@Pilafboy I agree: sex isn't sex without consent. However, I disagree with your view on negotiation. Negotiation can be very sexy - if it's not, try another way of doing it. I agree that no contracts should be made, but as far as just agreeing - you have to agree on stuff, otherwise it's not consent. Negotiation helps us find what feels right - so it's essential. Not sure what you mean by mindless - I think mindfulness/presence and flow/relaxation and passion are essential. Thnx for the reply :)
CieloMorado 1 year ago
@CieloMorado Nice to see a reply respecting someone's opinion for once firstly. Maybe negotiation can be very sexy, then again I'm only 18, what do I know. I just don't find the idea of any form of organisation involving sex, I think passion and organisation are mutually exclusive and passion is more important to me. Just an opinion of mine, and I don't think mindlessness was the best way to describe it, more of allowing instinct to take over rational thought.
Pilafboy 1 year ago
@Pilafboy I absolutely agree: sex needs to be open to the dynamic change and creativity of passion. Communication comes in many forms, verbal and nonverbal, and I believe using communication effectively can enhance the fluidity of meshing two or more passions into a harmonious whole. I think passion and communication, 'instinct' and rational thinking can go very well together, and even enhance each other greatly. Thnx again for sharing your perspective. :)
CieloMorado 1 year ago
VERY FUNNY!!
Huewilly 3 years ago
Very unique video :)
hughezthagodfather 3 years ago