Im a good friend :D i like my friend's ex and i asked her first if she would have any problems with my feelings. i asked on exactly 4 different occasions and she said she didnt care...i keep on asking her though
This is what happened to me.... I was dating this dick and we went out for like two or three months... I broke up with him. Then two weeks later he asks out my BEST FRIEND and she said yes.... At first I go up to her and I say "So..... Why? I'd just like to know... Why him?" She said she thought I didn't like him anymore, and I really didn't. But you shouldn't do something like that. I told her how bad it was and she broke up with him. We're still best friends. But I feel your pain Greg. <3
my best frined is dating my ex, who was my first bf. i broke up with him in december and told him, meaningfully, that i still wanted to be friends. two days later, he went and asked HIS ex out to make me jealous. he wanted a nasty breakup, so idecided i wouldnt talk to him. he then went around tellin g everyone that i was a whore. i told my bff that he was, she said she wwouldnt even talk to him anymore. a couple weeks later, she decided that she liked him, & now theyr dating. any advice?
@BurntCookieRockstar Its none of your business who she wants to date. But he was a dick to you after the breakup so tell her not to bring him aroun dif you guys are going to hang out. That's it. If that means you have to see her less then so be it. She made the decision.
ive only dated one of my friends "ex"s lol cept the difference was he was my boyfriend in high school and they did that goofy elementary school "dating" thing, she was actually the person who told me that i should just stop being a pussy and date him. lmao he was a douche- he broke up with me for my cousin after a little over a year...
If you broke up with someone I'd say 8 months to a year, it's time to get over it. Not like your friend started liking your ex just to piss you off, I think that both ends are being inconsiderate to each other. They are an ex for a reason, and maybe your friend is a better match for them. I understand the bro code, but sometimes with these matters compromisation is the best way to go. It depends on which side you look at it, and there is no right and wrong, it's a gray area.
Couldn't you also say that it's inconsiderate for a friend to not let you date their ex just because they are their ex. I mean come on, I used to think this way too until I was on the other side of the spectrum. I was friends with my friend's ex for years before I met my friend, and we always were with other people and it never had a chance to turn into anything more and when there was a chance it did. If one of my friend's wanted to date my ex, I really wouldn't care as long as they were happy.
A good friend and I always kind of had a secret thing for each other, but we're both strong belivers in "The Bro Code" so even though we both wanted to be together, he saw me as off limits, because of his best friend, and I supported that, because I'd do it for a friend too. Things don't always work out the way they should, ladies and gentlemen.
I dated a guy (who I ended up giving my virginity to) for a year and a half. My friend, we'll call her Ashley, CALLED me last night to tell me she's now dating him. Him and I broke up about 6 months ago but kind of had a secret fling going on for the last two months, which "Ashley" knew about. She was always someone I went to for advice when him and I fought and when we broke up. That, to me, is fucking despicable. Friends' ex's are OFF LIMITS! That's just how it is.
I think it's a no go zone period. Some people may say "o yea, it's cool, you can date my ex" but they don't mean it, they are just trying to be cool or strong, act as if they don't care. You kinda put them on the spot by asking, you don't have to go there, there are so many people out there. It's not like your inlove with your mates ex...how could you be unless you were already scewing them unoffically behind your mates back
I know I am in the wrong, but i like my ex's best friend...and I have no idea what to do...My ex broke up with me...so he shouldn't really have a say in what I do anymore. More so because he life me for one of my "friends"....but I have no idea...
Ok, This is so true. I liked this guy for a really long time and then we went out. Let's call him Bob. So bob and I broke up like who knows when and that SAME day, Bob asked out my best friend and she said yes and THEN told me the knews. I said that he was trying to get my jealous bc I dumped Bob but she got offended. They broke uo but then I found out they were dating again! Secretly for 4 months now and she was lieing to me about dating him. Is she a good freind or no?
For me, I started liking my bestfriend's ex and wanted to go out with him. But I did the smart thing and talk to her for hours to makes sure she was ok with me being with that guy. She was actually incourging me to date him cuz she knew how much i liked him :) however, that relationship only lasted 2 months. And I found out that he had cheated on me... O well... I don't need him now and everything is perfectly fine and he's my best friend now :)
right now im in a situation where i have to see me ex with my best friend together everyday.......it hurts ,,,because i still love her....i dont know wat to do anymore.......
i had an experience with this. one of my best friends start dating this girl and basically disappeared for a year. after their relationship ended i met his ex completely on my own. now of course he started being " a part of my life again". so out of reapect i did ask him if it was okay to date her. he said it was up to me. i went on to date her only to find out " up to me" was a test......this began several years of slander and slanted gossip. so? what do you think
I've acted on this. She was interested in a friend of mine, and it wasn't a mutual thing. I offered her advice for getting closer with him, and it didn't work. So, she decides to go "out" with me. And then he rages his shit over it. And there was never a relationship, so I thought it was fine.
It's an honest mistake, so just confirm it no matter what the case.
So, like, what if your best friend breaks up with them? And you talk to them about it, not that you like them, but if they still like them, and they say no? Because I did that with my friend, and I didn't like her ex at the time, but about two months later he asked me out and I said yes... But, I liked him before they started dating, and she dated him anyways...
I kissed the best friend of my ex on his own birthday party… yep, I'm an ass ^^ My ex didn't know about it until his best friend told him that he was sorry about kissing me. Apparently my ex didn't care much about that but I felt really guilty because I still had some feelings for him. So who's the ass now? Me for kissing his best friend or my ex for not caring? ^^
<3 thank you haah my friend did this exact thing to me and she texted me"are you mad?" it's like YES! she never even asked me but she KNEW i was still in love with him...
What if you and your best friend's ex are meant to be? Just because your best friend is upset about it, you are being forced not to be able to fulfill your destiny? That isn't fair. At all.
So I'm going to say this because although you're not posting I think you are reading these comments.
I have to re-position these relationships in the way that I think you are interested in.
If I want to date the ex of my best friend, and that ex dumped my best friend, then I would have a heart to heart talk with him, and would do so as many times as he wished.
If my best friend dumped his ex, and he was upset, I would say, hey: YOU DIDN'T WANT HER!
What do you do when you REALLY like this guy and he's your friends ex, but she broke up with him to go out with another guy and then, while she's dating this other guy, she says she still loves her ex? I just told her that I liked him alot and to remember that she's the one who ended it with him, but I'm not sure if I made the right choice. Help?
@BooBeat7 Will it damage your friendship? Talk it over with your friend. If they're really uncomfortable with the situation, ask yourself it it's worth hurting a friendship over a boy. If not, move on.
Well I think my worst experience in this area was when my kid bro dated my boyfriend's ex and slept with her on the first night and got her pregnant. So we thought. He wanted to marry her to 'do the right thing'. Luckily, in true maury fashion, he was NOT the father of the baby! And he dumped her immediately. That girl went on to have babies with four different men... Glad we're not related! Ha!
That is a really sticky situation... because it's like your friend, hate to say it, is getting your sloppy seconds, and it just isn't right. I would find a new friend if I were him because I can see that friendship failing asap...
...we're fairly good friends and i'm ok with them being together...at least NOW i am anyway, took me awhile but i over it. now remember he never asked me about it, likely out of fear of what i would have said. so here's my question: seeing that he's starting to screw up exactly where i screwed up, should i for his sake intervene and try to steer him straight, or watch him crash and burn?
it would be awesome if you responded to this but if you don't want to then i understand I still respect you.
One of my friends, not my best friend but i guess a regular friend (that makes no sense), he started dating my ex a month after we broke up, knowing what happened. thing is the day before they officially announced it he went around to everyone in our circle of friends and asked them their opinions on the matter. that is everyone but me, the ONE person he should've actually talked to. strange part about it: during their relationship so far, he's making ALL the same mistakes that i made...
I'm Dating My Best Friends Ex And They Only Dated For About 3 Weeks And She Broke Up With Him When He Was Visiting Her In The Hospital. He Asked Me Out I Asked My Friend If She Was Okay With It And I Think She Was Okay With It About 2 Months Later She Tells Me She Loves Him Again and Shes Pretty Much Crying About Him All The Time so I Try To Set Them Up And It Doesn't Work Out And The Next Day My Friend Is Over Him And I'm Like WTF?!?! Shes Always On And Off I Hate It. But Shes Still My Friend.
DOUBLE CURTAINS, ALL THE WAYYY, WHAT DOES IT MEEAANN? Guys, relax, yes the curtains change colours -.- I would understand if the curtains were spitting out kittens but colours changing isn't that crazy XD
To be honest, I'm dating my best friends ex. And I never asked her either. But knowing what happened between them and knowing how she felt prior to dating him, I can honestly say she didn't want him. Besides the fact shes a lesbian now.
I have no authority over who my friends/exes date because they are not my property; therefore, if my friend and my ex want to date each other, yes, I can express my feelings to them, but in the end they decide what's right for them.
bro's before ho's thats for girls too, i had this bitchy friend that kept stealing my boyfriends after we broke up with those guys, smacked her across the head and walked away :]
(continuing) is limiting a person from loving another. Which I think is wrong. It wouldn't matter anyway, the title ex, usually means they probably aren't dating-partner material anymore.
It may definitely be uncomfortable. But see, if you have broken up with them or they broke up with you. It may hurt to see them with someone else, especially your best friend. But that doesn't mean just cause they're your best friend, give you the right to say "No you can't date him/her cause you're my best friend" it's their choice. As much as it hurts, I know how it is I've had to deal with it, it's really not your business. Saying no you can't just cause of your own friendship is limiting a
I bet she's trying to make him jelouse. He should just be like "whatever" and see what happens. If not then he should talk to his friend. Say like "Hey bro. Why are you dating _______? I know were not dating but it makes me feel weird. Just don't do anything in front of me aight?" I'm not a dude but maybe that was too girlish xPPP rofl but love you vids love you&shiloh&da baby :D
it wouldn't bother me unless the relationship ended recently then I might have an issue with it. Also, I agree that the friend should definitely talk to me beforehand simply out of consideration.
my brother dated this gurl for 2 yrs. then broke up with her and hes best frann drake goes and dates her and i was good franns with her so i got my bro and my soon to be sister back together good story bye i love you onision/greg!!!:)
My ex boyfriend just went out with my best friend, and niether of them have talked about it with me. I've just pretending it doesn't bother me, and letting them do whatever. I told my best friend that no matter what I'd never do that and go out with her ex like she did me. Not even if I asked her would I. It's really been tearing at me
Good advice Onision! I'm in a situation quite like this and your advice has made me consider my decision a lot heavier after I heard you opinions about this. Thank you for helping me! :D <3
My bestfriend has taken the guy I like before but she says it different for me to like the guy she likes because she loves him, even though I liked him first AND she has a boyfriend
I asked a guy I dumped if I could date his best friend. He said yes and later started fighting with his friend about it and said I tried to break them up even though he approved! I dumped the 1st guy for hitting on my best friend... he later played strip poker with her so I don't know why he was mad. She and I just stopped talking for 3 mos over it (she never knew I was mad that she fell in love with my guy and wouldn't stop calling him while we were dating). I dumped the guy for encouraging her
Haha. My ex dated my sister, while I still had feelings for him, and we were being "best friends". I can say honestly, there went that friendship and any trust I had in either of them. Some things in The Bro Code are meant to be honored, such as bros before hoes.
My friends have dated my exes and Ive dated a couple of my friends exes, and its really not a big deal. You're exes for a reason and if they can make it work better than I could with them, then so be it. Why should I care what they do, Im not with them anymore. Its kinda dramatic to freak out over your friend dating your ex. Sure, they should talk to you about it first, but its really not as big a deal as people make it out to be.
wait i dont get it.... what if you broke up with a guy/girl and then ur friend starting dating the person u broke up with does that make a difference? cuz honestly i dont think you should care if ur friend is dating ur ex cuz well he/she is ur ex you should get over your ex and just start over ya know? but i guess that if you still have feelings for your ex then you should atleast talk to ur friend about it or something but still... idk
My "friend" started flirting with my ex when she new I still had feelings for him. We had dated for a year and a half. She didn't tell me she liked him at all, then when he asked her out. She said yes. And didn't tell me. I found it out though facebook before she told me. I'm still fucking pissed at her. You don't do that. Ever.
This is so true! True friends are so hard to find, it's got to the point where I would rather have no friends and know that I cannot be hurt than lots of "best friends" and not fully trust them.
i just unfriended a good mate on facebook and that cause he is dating my mates ex. i had a huge go at him for it, every one supported him and said its cool. i say fuck you all. talked to my mate about it later and found out he was flirting with her while my mate was still dating her. fuck people are ass holes some times
agreed! guys, if they are really your friend you'd be surprised at how much they want to help you and make you happy. My best friend asked me if she could date my ex, of course at first I wasn't happy about it... But I wanted her to be happy so I told her I was okay with it and even helped her set up their first date! IF you and your friends really have a good relationship, just ask and you may be surprised from the answer!
Greg please resins to this. In the past my ex cheated on me with my best friend during the summer this past year. Everyone knew about it but me. She lied until the end. I left her 3 months ago, I am currently happy. I still talk and converse with my friend. But I don't trust him nor do I respect him, so do you think this is a good turns of events for me? Please reply. Thanks ( p.s. I've known him for years and I love him as if he were my brother)
To me it all depends on how serious this other guy is about the girl. I mean...if they both feel that they are falling in love, why would he try to stop them from dating just because hes dwelling over this girl who doesn't even want him anymore? Of course I think he should have talked to his friend first...but there's no reason to ask. She has feelings and she's not an object. Now of they were just hooking up...now thats just not cool.
*sigh* it's difficult. i def wouldnt try to get know my best friend's ex really well and risk developing feelings for them. My friend asked me if she could date my ex and while it was decent of her to ask i felt like an asshole saying no even though i wanted to. what made me angry was that i dragged a yes out of myself and she dated him for like a week after saying she really liked him. so try not to let yourself get that close to your friend's ex and if your on the other end, bare through it mn
My best friend and I are lucky we have different taste in dating partners, but if we do like the same guy an ex we always have to ask to the other one if it's okay the few times it happened it's all good. We refuse to let anyone get between our friendship!
Wow thanks for this man. I haven't thought about dating my friends ex before, but I always wondered what I would do if I went into a situation like this one. I couldn't think of a way to go about get my friend's ex if I ever happened to be in that particular situation, and you have brought me the answer
One of my friends dated my ex boyfriend...I was so happy for them both! Obviously he was my ex because we DIDN'T work out...and those two worked out so much better, so I was happy for them both =) I think if you let that relationship end, why does it matter? Sure it'd be cool to ask first, and it really does depend on how their relationship was, but I don't see why it's such a big deal, personally.
-feel like if I date anyone she'll just convince them to date her instead, and i'll get hurt again, so I turned down the guy I really like because of it.
This has happened to me twice with the same friend, but we talked before a little...she asked if it was okay and I said sure if it makes you happy... it killed me and i think she knee that....she apologized after they broke up and said shed never do it again because our friendship meant more to her then a boyfriend. A few months later she did the same thing. I couldnt confront her and tell her how much it hurt me because i just couldnt bare hurting her. Shes still one of my bestfriends, i just
My best friends was my sholder to cry on when my ex n i broke up. That summer her n i chilled everyday and the first day of school she told me she had a new bf. I found out from a diff friends that she was with my ex and i felt like she back stabbed me. We are now no longer friends and she n my ex dated for 2yrs and were on and off the whole time and by the end of our senior yr of hs they broke up again and im n i became friends with him so the jokes on her lol
i'm dating my ex's friend. they don't care but they don't talk anymore. not BEST friends. but friends. no idea?? my ex cheated on me?? so does that count? no idea.
I remember when I went away for a month on vacation. I had no means of communication with my boyfriend for that whole month, and when I came back home, I found out that, while I was gone, he had started dating this girl I'd been friends with for months. It was kind of upsetting.
I stopped being friends with a guy cause he started hitting on my girlfriend as soon as he heard we were going through problems. Its been months since then I am still with the same girl and the guy is no longer in either of our lives. Friendship doesn't go far with man whores.
The same situation happened with me recently. My mate came up to me and asked about how I'd feel if they got together and that if I was okay with it etc. I'm currently in a relationship and am very happy with who I am with so to be quite honest I had no problem with it at all, so I told him to go for it and said that I was happy he asked me about it before-hand like you said :)
Glad to see you're well, Greg. Looking forward to the next video.
What if your friend cheated on his ex? infront of her? thats what happened with me and my friend he cheated on his ex and then i asked her out because we had talked about i was trying to help her and well i had fallen for her and well is that bad? i mean he cheated that doesnt give him the right to be mad at me about sumone he neglected
yeah i dated a guy for 4 years and my then best friend took him from me.... i mean theyre still together 3 yrs later.... but still .... and e was my first, everything.... it sucks
I agree but I think when a friend does that it's not like they don't value the friendship they probably just get carried away which is why talking about it first is so important
my BEST friend liked my ex, and she liked him. so i told them both to f**k off because i knew she was going for it, considering she was dumping me at that moment. and whadda ya know, they got together.
I agree with the talk to your friend on how he feels about you liking his ex but if he's not okay with it oh well. You can't control your feelings and neither can the ex. But thats just my opinion (:
Im a good friend :D i like my friend's ex and i asked her first if she would have any problems with my feelings. i asked on exactly 4 different occasions and she said she didnt care...i keep on asking her though
jenniferfeliciano66 2 days ago
MY FUCKING DICK OF A PAL ASKED MY EX OUT WHO I LOVED
cuddlyamal 4 days ago
This is what happened to me.... I was dating this dick and we went out for like two or three months... I broke up with him. Then two weeks later he asks out my BEST FRIEND and she said yes.... At first I go up to her and I say "So..... Why? I'd just like to know... Why him?" She said she thought I didn't like him anymore, and I really didn't. But you shouldn't do something like that. I told her how bad it was and she broke up with him. We're still best friends. But I feel your pain Greg. <3
EmFan4Life326 6 days ago
Oh so true!
Glambert67 1 week ago
Happening to me right now. Friendship should be stronger than any boy. She should have asked me. She is just so selfish.
xoLivBoo 1 week ago in playlist Dating
love is stronger than friendship. but if u want to just have sex with the girl, then ask u friend if u can have her
TreyWilliamsTV 2 weeks ago
been there many times...
ma5rs 3 weeks ago
Comment removed
2much2love1 3 weeks ago
my best frined is dating my ex, who was my first bf. i broke up with him in december and told him, meaningfully, that i still wanted to be friends. two days later, he went and asked HIS ex out to make me jealous. he wanted a nasty breakup, so idecided i wouldnt talk to him. he then went around tellin g everyone that i was a whore. i told my bff that he was, she said she wwouldnt even talk to him anymore. a couple weeks later, she decided that she liked him, & now theyr dating. any advice?
BurntCookieRockstar 3 weeks ago
@BurntCookieRockstar Its none of your business who she wants to date. But he was a dick to you after the breakup so tell her not to bring him aroun dif you guys are going to hang out. That's it. If that means you have to see her less then so be it. She made the decision.
StrawberryOrgasms 1 week ago
I never ever will date my friend's ex. There's a lot of other dicks out there besides him. haha
vietbaby1191 3 weeks ago in playlist More videos from OnisionSpeaks
It also goes the same way with girls. Your best friend shouldn't date your ex, no matter how hot or cool or funny he is!
BlackTshirtFan 1 month ago in playlist More videos from OnisionSpeaks
ive only dated one of my friends "ex"s lol cept the difference was he was my boyfriend in high school and they did that goofy elementary school "dating" thing, she was actually the person who told me that i should just stop being a pussy and date him. lmao he was a douche- he broke up with me for my cousin after a little over a year...
missXmarie0990 1 month ago
Screw the bro and girl code. Figure out if they're over it, move from there. It's not kool to deny possible love and a stable relationship.
melswirls 1 month ago
If you broke up with someone I'd say 8 months to a year, it's time to get over it. Not like your friend started liking your ex just to piss you off, I think that both ends are being inconsiderate to each other. They are an ex for a reason, and maybe your friend is a better match for them. I understand the bro code, but sometimes with these matters compromisation is the best way to go. It depends on which side you look at it, and there is no right and wrong, it's a gray area.
blackraven1820 1 month ago
Couldn't you also say that it's inconsiderate for a friend to not let you date their ex just because they are their ex. I mean come on, I used to think this way too until I was on the other side of the spectrum. I was friends with my friend's ex for years before I met my friend, and we always were with other people and it never had a chance to turn into anything more and when there was a chance it did. If one of my friend's wanted to date my ex, I really wouldn't care as long as they were happy.
blackraven1820 1 month ago
@BriannaBergin Your 12.
TheHateTattoo 1 month ago
A good friend and I always kind of had a secret thing for each other, but we're both strong belivers in "The Bro Code" so even though we both wanted to be together, he saw me as off limits, because of his best friend, and I supported that, because I'd do it for a friend too. Things don't always work out the way they should, ladies and gentlemen.
MissReflex16 1 month ago
Just ask. I wouldn't give a shit if my bff wanted to date my ex. He's a really great guy and they might be good togerher.
007ofcuteness 1 month ago
I dated a guy (who I ended up giving my virginity to) for a year and a half. My friend, we'll call her Ashley, CALLED me last night to tell me she's now dating him. Him and I broke up about 6 months ago but kind of had a secret fling going on for the last two months, which "Ashley" knew about. She was always someone I went to for advice when him and I fought and when we broke up. That, to me, is fucking despicable. Friends' ex's are OFF LIMITS! That's just how it is.
ktluvaxx 2 months ago
What if you have a friend who has dated almost everyone in, let's say, your high school. Does that mean everyone is off limits?
ohsuchinnocence 2 months ago
I think it's a no go zone period. Some people may say "o yea, it's cool, you can date my ex" but they don't mean it, they are just trying to be cool or strong, act as if they don't care. You kinda put them on the spot by asking, you don't have to go there, there are so many people out there. It's not like your inlove with your mates ex...how could you be unless you were already scewing them unoffically behind your mates back
gezkah 2 months ago
I know I am in the wrong, but i like my ex's best friend...and I have no idea what to do...My ex broke up with me...so he shouldn't really have a say in what I do anymore. More so because he life me for one of my "friends"....but I have no idea...
Epicmusic75 2 months ago
Ok, This is so true. I liked this guy for a really long time and then we went out. Let's call him Bob. So bob and I broke up like who knows when and that SAME day, Bob asked out my best friend and she said yes and THEN told me the knews. I said that he was trying to get my jealous bc I dumped Bob but she got offended. They broke uo but then I found out they were dating again! Secretly for 4 months now and she was lieing to me about dating him. Is she a good freind or no?
shoshanagaga18 2 months ago in playlist More videos from OnisionSpeaks
For me, I started liking my bestfriend's ex and wanted to go out with him. But I did the smart thing and talk to her for hours to makes sure she was ok with me being with that guy. She was actually incourging me to date him cuz she knew how much i liked him :) however, that relationship only lasted 2 months. And I found out that he had cheated on me... O well... I don't need him now and everything is perfectly fine and he's my best friend now :)
The2TwilightFans 2 months ago
What if youre dating your ex bestfriend/ex gf's ex bf?
KuhannibellDyi 2 months ago
right now im in a situation where i have to see me ex with my best friend together everyday.......it hurts ,,,because i still love her....i dont know wat to do anymore.......
leonleon1993 2 months ago
I wish everyone was like Greg.
xNickieMonroex 2 months ago
wouldnt*
GuitarCrazy87 2 months ago
i also believe that if you follow the bros before hoes idea, then you would ditch all your friends for a girl in the first place.
GuitarCrazy87 2 months ago
i had an experience with this. one of my best friends start dating this girl and basically disappeared for a year. after their relationship ended i met his ex completely on my own. now of course he started being " a part of my life again". so out of reapect i did ask him if it was okay to date her. he said it was up to me. i went on to date her only to find out " up to me" was a test......this began several years of slander and slanted gossip. so? what do you think
GuitarCrazy87 2 months ago
The whole guy code/girl code is lame. Who's more important to you? The friend, or their ex?
pnkrk1039 3 months ago
I've acted on this. She was interested in a friend of mine, and it wasn't a mutual thing. I offered her advice for getting closer with him, and it didn't work. So, she decides to go "out" with me. And then he rages his shit over it. And there was never a relationship, so I thought it was fine.
It's an honest mistake, so just confirm it no matter what the case.
HTFAmvs 3 months ago in playlist More videos from OnisionSpeaks
"No Sex with your Bro's Ex" ... Barney Stinson
Istabear21 3 months ago
This has been flagged as spam show
So, like, what if your best friend breaks up with them? And you talk to them about it, not that you like them, but if they still like them, and they say no? Because I did that with my friend, and I didn't like her ex at the time, but about two months later he asked me out and I said yes... But, I liked him before they started dating, and she dated him anyways...
Eminater5 3 months ago
This has been flagged as spam show
Id fuck your ugly girlfriend just to piss you off
erock66 3 months ago
@imWhispie Haha, mind telling me why? ^^
Oh and I have to mention that he was the one who ran off with another girl first to bang her. So… yeah… :)
nasamaru148 3 months ago
I kissed the best friend of my ex on his own birthday party… yep, I'm an ass ^^ My ex didn't know about it until his best friend told him that he was sorry about kissing me. Apparently my ex didn't care much about that but I felt really guilty because I still had some feelings for him. So who's the ass now? Me for kissing his best friend or my ex for not caring? ^^
nasamaru148 3 months ago
Pritty colurs.
iiispazzz 3 months ago
<3 thank you haah my friend did this exact thing to me and she texted me"are you mad?" it's like YES! she never even asked me but she KNEW i was still in love with him...
SonAmyFanGurl 3 months ago
What if you and your best friend's ex are meant to be? Just because your best friend is upset about it, you are being forced not to be able to fulfill your destiny? That isn't fair. At all.
JestressWonder 3 months ago
So I'm going to say this because although you're not posting I think you are reading these comments.
I have to re-position these relationships in the way that I think you are interested in.
If I want to date the ex of my best friend, and that ex dumped my best friend, then I would have a heart to heart talk with him, and would do so as many times as he wished.
If my best friend dumped his ex, and he was upset, I would say, hey: YOU DIDN'T WANT HER!
End of story.
threeofwands 3 months ago
I straight up totally agree with this video
fballplayer44 3 months ago
@ArtianLulz omg wow how could i not think of that?? lol i feel stupid now
emotoadly 3 months ago
What do you do when you REALLY like this guy and he's your friends ex, but she broke up with him to go out with another guy and then, while she's dating this other guy, she says she still loves her ex? I just told her that I liked him alot and to remember that she's the one who ended it with him, but I'm not sure if I made the right choice. Help?
BooBeat7 3 months ago
@BooBeat7 Will it damage your friendship? Talk it over with your friend. If they're really uncomfortable with the situation, ask yourself it it's worth hurting a friendship over a boy. If not, move on.
iarekaty 3 months ago
thats exactly wat happened to me and now we're not speaking
jdwuvsu 3 months ago
Agree 100%
3moskye16 3 months ago
Alot of my friends have dated my exs.... Without mentioning them, Saying they like them, Or anything.
I thought it was straight up bull shit.
KaraInReverse 3 months ago
Well I think my worst experience in this area was when my kid bro dated my boyfriend's ex and slept with her on the first night and got her pregnant. So we thought. He wanted to marry her to 'do the right thing'. Luckily, in true maury fashion, he was NOT the father of the baby! And he dumped her immediately. That girl went on to have babies with four different men... Glad we're not related! Ha!
realitytc 3 months ago
That is a really sticky situation... because it's like your friend, hate to say it, is getting your sloppy seconds, and it just isn't right. I would find a new friend if I were him because I can see that friendship failing asap...
futurepriestess2010 3 months ago
...we're fairly good friends and i'm ok with them being together...at least NOW i am anyway, took me awhile but i over it. now remember he never asked me about it, likely out of fear of what i would have said. so here's my question: seeing that he's starting to screw up exactly where i screwed up, should i for his sake intervene and try to steer him straight, or watch him crash and burn?
it would be awesome if you responded to this but if you don't want to then i understand I still respect you.
Ultimasorano 3 months ago
One of my friends, not my best friend but i guess a regular friend (that makes no sense), he started dating my ex a month after we broke up, knowing what happened. thing is the day before they officially announced it he went around to everyone in our circle of friends and asked them their opinions on the matter. that is everyone but me, the ONE person he should've actually talked to. strange part about it: during their relationship so far, he's making ALL the same mistakes that i made...
Ultimasorano 3 months ago
Hah, my bestfriend is dating not my ex. But the guy ive liked for 7 years...sad part, I didnt find out from them!
Midlight1 3 months ago
I'm Dating My Best Friends Ex And They Only Dated For About 3 Weeks And She Broke Up With Him When He Was Visiting Her In The Hospital. He Asked Me Out I Asked My Friend If She Was Okay With It And I Think She Was Okay With It About 2 Months Later She Tells Me She Loves Him Again and Shes Pretty Much Crying About Him All The Time so I Try To Set Them Up And It Doesn't Work Out And The Next Day My Friend Is Over Him And I'm Like WTF?!?! Shes Always On And Off I Hate It. But Shes Still My Friend.
LadyAnteElena 3 months ago
Comment removed
LadyAnteElena 3 months ago
Comment removed
LadyAnteElena 3 months ago
thats wierd and we dont give a shit
SUAVE287 3 months ago
@SUAVE287 then why are you even watching these vids...?
xXxWiNtErxXxafi 3 months ago
@xXxWiNtErxXxafi what the hell are you talkin about
SUAVE287 3 months ago
DOUBLE CURTAINS, ALL THE WAYYY, WHAT DOES IT MEEAANN? Guys, relax, yes the curtains change colours -.- I would understand if the curtains were spitting out kittens but colours changing isn't that crazy XD
Kaissie3 3 months ago
To be honest, I'm dating my best friends ex. And I never asked her either. But knowing what happened between them and knowing how she felt prior to dating him, I can honestly say she didn't want him. Besides the fact shes a lesbian now.
YourFavoriteCancer 3 months ago
the colors O_O they change...wat does this mean!!!!
kiramae16f 3 months ago
Once i reach acquaintance when i meet someone, i would feel REALLY guilty if i go out with there ex. Lol
Denya2k 3 months ago
WHY ARE THE CURTAINS CHANGING COLORS?:o
zobearable 3 months ago
Exactly.
jun15girl 3 months ago
I have no authority over who my friends/exes date because they are not my property; therefore, if my friend and my ex want to date each other, yes, I can express my feelings to them, but in the end they decide what's right for them.
tunafan1 3 months ago
This has been flagged as spam show
My ex is going out with one of my close friends, she actually asked my ex to ask me if it was okay, and I was completely fine with it :)
It is better than not asking at all though. =/
ChrissyH193 3 months ago
Comment removed
ChrissyH193 3 months ago
bro's before ho's thats for girls too, i had this bitchy friend that kept stealing my boyfriends after we broke up with those guys, smacked her across the head and walked away :]
sladunkaAa 3 months ago
i totally agree with you :)
Jowhke11 3 months ago
All I could think about was 'bros before hoes'
How stupid are you if you need a slogan to remind you of that? hahaxxx
xoFiroza 3 months ago
I think that anyone that wouldn't want to see two people they care about happy is a child and needs to grow up.
sacredgeometry 3 months ago
what if i was stupid and i let the ex play games with my head so i ended up with her without telling my friend, damn im stupid
imanaidenfan 3 months ago
(continuing) is limiting a person from loving another. Which I think is wrong. It wouldn't matter anyway, the title ex, usually means they probably aren't dating-partner material anymore.
Kiriome1 3 months ago
It may definitely be uncomfortable. But see, if you have broken up with them or they broke up with you. It may hurt to see them with someone else, especially your best friend. But that doesn't mean just cause they're your best friend, give you the right to say "No you can't date him/her cause you're my best friend" it's their choice. As much as it hurts, I know how it is I've had to deal with it, it's really not your business. Saying no you can't just cause of your own friendship is limiting a
Kiriome1 3 months ago
i'd start dating the girls best friend
hesrightbehindeyou 3 months ago in playlist More videos from OnisionSpeaks
I dunno...he really has no authority over his friends life.
BuffyBelmont 3 months ago
I totally agree with you!!!
KayzeChan 3 months ago
I bet she's trying to make him jelouse. He should just be like "whatever" and see what happens. If not then he should talk to his friend. Say like "Hey bro. Why are you dating _______? I know were not dating but it makes me feel weird. Just don't do anything in front of me aight?" I'm not a dude but maybe that was too girlish xPPP rofl but love you vids love you&shiloh&da baby :D
jeannetterox945 3 months ago
it wouldn't bother me unless the relationship ended recently then I might have an issue with it. Also, I agree that the friend should definitely talk to me beforehand simply out of consideration.
EmoIssues 3 months ago
ex's arent my property, im not fucking them or anything else that comes with it. not my right to say
problynevergonnause 3 months ago
my brother dated this gurl for 2 yrs. then broke up with her and hes best frann drake goes and dates her and i was good franns with her so i got my bro and my soon to be sister back together good story bye i love you onision/greg!!!:)
shanesbitch101 3 months ago
my friend was dating this one guy and her friend convinced her to break up with him then went out with him
Brittanius95 3 months ago
once again i agree with u and u really make me think about things and im very open to ur views on things i really enjoy watching your videos
NathanNegativity 3 months ago
Comment removed
Tayl0rama 3 months ago
In the beginning I was like, "Stop f**king with the camera, Greg!!" XD
ComaQueen17 3 months ago
I know this is REALLY random, but you have the most amazing eyes ever -3 especially in this. They just look so pretty :3 I'm jealous -.-
SquegyTheRainboSquid 3 months ago
agreed :D
sr2scbl 3 months ago
Rejoice for OnisionSpeaks videos going back to Normality !! |:D
MeAndMyKettle 3 months ago
I think, you're beautiful <3
MarinahFish 3 months ago
OMG I AGREE 1000000000000%!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ToxicVampirePrincess 3 months ago
My ex boyfriend just went out with my best friend, and niether of them have talked about it with me. I've just pretending it doesn't bother me, and letting them do whatever. I told my best friend that no matter what I'd never do that and go out with her ex like she did me. Not even if I asked her would I. It's really been tearing at me
llsycokittyll 3 months ago
greg i gotta tell u this.....I HATE U IN TURTLENECKS!!! comon show some skin :)
bloodycaution14 3 months ago
Good advice Onision! I'm in a situation quite like this and your advice has made me consider my decision a lot heavier after I heard you opinions about this. Thank you for helping me! :D <3
giluvsrdadprple99 3 months ago
i agree 100% with you. and it's the same thing i tell my friends when this situation rolls around
lukeduke1595 3 months ago in playlist More videos from OnisionSpeaks
i have a friend and i talked to her cuz i liked her ex and shes amazing cuz she actually set us up lmao
paintedawesome 3 months ago
My bestfriend has taken the guy I like before but she says it different for me to like the guy she likes because she loves him, even though I liked him first AND she has a boyfriend
MhmItsTata 3 months ago
I see that it dosent matter lol its up to the girl and up to you lol
alford1993 3 months ago
I asked a guy I dumped if I could date his best friend. He said yes and later started fighting with his friend about it and said I tried to break them up even though he approved! I dumped the 1st guy for hitting on my best friend... he later played strip poker with her so I don't know why he was mad. She and I just stopped talking for 3 mos over it (she never knew I was mad that she fell in love with my guy and wouldn't stop calling him while we were dating). I dumped the guy for encouraging her
wolfcat87 3 months ago
you dont need a hair cut !! you look amazing
and your totally right....same opinion here <3
sama2500 3 months ago
Fuck yeah. I despise the fact that any human being can risk hurting their "best friend"s so deeply.. It's ridiculous
Vee167 3 months ago
Haha. My ex dated my sister, while I still had feelings for him, and we were being "best friends". I can say honestly, there went that friendship and any trust I had in either of them. Some things in The Bro Code are meant to be honored, such as bros before hoes.
NaturalDisasters101 3 months ago
My friends have dated my exes and Ive dated a couple of my friends exes, and its really not a big deal. You're exes for a reason and if they can make it work better than I could with them, then so be it. Why should I care what they do, Im not with them anymore. Its kinda dramatic to freak out over your friend dating your ex. Sure, they should talk to you about it first, but its really not as big a deal as people make it out to be.
xAutumnLiebex 3 months ago
you need a hair cut. :L
OlinaRexySexiPants 3 months ago
you are a faggot
lilfrankyd 3 months ago
wait i dont get it.... what if you broke up with a guy/girl and then ur friend starting dating the person u broke up with does that make a difference? cuz honestly i dont think you should care if ur friend is dating ur ex cuz well he/she is ur ex you should get over your ex and just start over ya know? but i guess that if you still have feelings for your ex then you should atleast talk to ur friend about it or something but still... idk
gmz106 3 months ago
somebody i no is pregnant with her best friends ex.... HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT THIS??
themarshrox21 3 months ago
Bros before hoes
AshBerry99 3 months ago
This has been flagged as spam show
I say stop being so butt hurt. Vagina is vagina
Baller527 3 months ago
I like carrots
ChubbyDragonZ 3 months ago
@ChubbyDragonZ So do I.
krystinajo 3 months ago
i agree.
gaararocksON 3 months ago
My "friend" started flirting with my ex when she new I still had feelings for him. We had dated for a year and a half. She didn't tell me she liked him at all, then when he asked her out. She said yes. And didn't tell me. I found it out though facebook before she told me. I'm still fucking pissed at her. You don't do that. Ever.
This is 110% true Onision....
kankurodarling 3 months ago
My best friend stole my girlfriend from me .. I haven't talked to him since then.
CaughtInTheActTV 3 months ago
I completely agree. I wish more people had the decency to be able to talk things through like this.
MelissaLynn0 3 months ago
This is so true! True friends are so hard to find, it's got to the point where I would rather have no friends and know that I cannot be hurt than lots of "best friends" and not fully trust them.
I love you Onision <3
raginyourboggin 3 months ago
Good video, whats your view on dating your ex's friends?
Angel8795 3 months ago
Onision I love you<3
Mrsmoopiethe3rd 3 months ago
The Brocode! <3
albanmaster 3 months ago
I'm dating my best friends ex...But! I talked to her about it, for like hours:') <3
Sshleeeeeeee 3 months ago in playlist More videos from OnisionSpeaks
me and my friends have a strict code that any ex anything is WAY off limits it just makes it REALLY awkward for everyone otherwise
frozenrose1412 3 months ago
You Know What Dude...I FUCKN LOVED U AFTER THAT VIDEO!!!
boudyelkeebeer 3 months ago
I don't do it. I think it is fucked up in general. There are other people out there.
HangyakuNoRuruushu 3 months ago
i just unfriended a good mate on facebook and that cause he is dating my mates ex. i had a huge go at him for it, every one supported him and said its cool. i say fuck you all. talked to my mate about it later and found out he was flirting with her while my mate was still dating her. fuck people are ass holes some times
coreyevans4 3 months ago
@coreyevans4 I know what you mean. What's the world coming to? Gotta pick your friends carefully.
niknik2203 3 months ago
I totally relate to this.
AmeliaRoseParker1998 3 months ago
agreed! guys, if they are really your friend you'd be surprised at how much they want to help you and make you happy. My best friend asked me if she could date my ex, of course at first I wasn't happy about it... But I wanted her to be happy so I told her I was okay with it and even helped her set up their first date! IF you and your friends really have a good relationship, just ask and you may be surprised from the answer!
Tatoogodess 3 months ago
that's not opinion! that's fact! bros before hos! (i couldn't help myself)
but seriously, don't date a friend's ex. that's always filed under "dick move."
ChelseaIRL 3 months ago
Greg please resins to this. In the past my ex cheated on me with my best friend during the summer this past year. Everyone knew about it but me. She lied until the end. I left her 3 months ago, I am currently happy. I still talk and converse with my friend. But I don't trust him nor do I respect him, so do you think this is a good turns of events for me? Please reply. Thanks ( p.s. I've known him for years and I love him as if he were my brother)
gwilliam96 3 months ago
@gwilliam96 For Me...I Think You Shouldnt...
boudyelkeebeer 3 months ago
If shes his ex, why does he care about whoevers with him, they brokeup right? he made the decision to let her go
animefreek619 3 months ago
To me it all depends on how serious this other guy is about the girl. I mean...if they both feel that they are falling in love, why would he try to stop them from dating just because hes dwelling over this girl who doesn't even want him anymore? Of course I think he should have talked to his friend first...but there's no reason to ask. She has feelings and she's not an object. Now of they were just hooking up...now thats just not cool.
XxwhoaitsmoexX 3 months ago
Since rating has been disabled I agree with Onision.
OffTheHeezay21 3 months ago
*sigh* it's difficult. i def wouldnt try to get know my best friend's ex really well and risk developing feelings for them. My friend asked me if she could date my ex and while it was decent of her to ask i felt like an asshole saying no even though i wanted to. what made me angry was that i dragged a yes out of myself and she dated him for like a week after saying she really liked him. so try not to let yourself get that close to your friend's ex and if your on the other end, bare through it mn
beckyc892 3 months ago
My best friend and I are lucky we have different taste in dating partners, but if we do like the same guy an ex we always have to ask to the other one if it's okay the few times it happened it's all good. We refuse to let anyone get between our friendship!
frogirl1993 3 months ago
Wow thanks for this man. I haven't thought about dating my friends ex before, but I always wondered what I would do if I went into a situation like this one. I couldn't think of a way to go about get my friend's ex if I ever happened to be in that particular situation, and you have brought me the answer
UbiKim 3 months ago
One of my friends dated my ex boyfriend...I was so happy for them both! Obviously he was my ex because we DIDN'T work out...and those two worked out so much better, so I was happy for them both =) I think if you let that relationship end, why does it matter? Sure it'd be cool to ask first, and it really does depend on how their relationship was, but I don't see why it's such a big deal, personally.
wolfforce58205 3 months ago
-feel like if I date anyone she'll just convince them to date her instead, and i'll get hurt again, so I turned down the guy I really like because of it.
maddyalyse 3 months ago
This has happened to me twice with the same friend, but we talked before a little...she asked if it was okay and I said sure if it makes you happy... it killed me and i think she knee that....she apologized after they broke up and said shed never do it again because our friendship meant more to her then a boyfriend. A few months later she did the same thing. I couldnt confront her and tell her how much it hurt me because i just couldnt bare hurting her. Shes still one of my bestfriends, i just
maddyalyse 3 months ago
I don't even flirt with anyone my friends might just like.
I wouldn't feel right if I did.
SoStonedMan 3 months ago
so true...
emilyjaneeeee 3 months ago
My best friends was my sholder to cry on when my ex n i broke up. That summer her n i chilled everyday and the first day of school she told me she had a new bf. I found out from a diff friends that she was with my ex and i felt like she back stabbed me. We are now no longer friends and she n my ex dated for 2yrs and were on and off the whole time and by the end of our senior yr of hs they broke up again and im n i became friends with him so the jokes on her lol
MusicLover1185 3 months ago
I have a totally different opinion on this topic...
wawa03238 3 months ago
i'm dating my ex's friend. they don't care but they don't talk anymore. not BEST friends. but friends. no idea?? my ex cheated on me?? so does that count? no idea.
mblabezza 3 months ago
I remember when I went away for a month on vacation. I had no means of communication with my boyfriend for that whole month, and when I came back home, I found out that, while I was gone, he had started dating this girl I'd been friends with for months. It was kind of upsetting.
TheLynnuh 3 months ago
Thumbs up for making sense onision
donnojay08 3 months ago
I stopped being friends with a guy cause he started hitting on my girlfriend as soon as he heard we were going through problems. Its been months since then I am still with the same girl and the guy is no longer in either of our lives. Friendship doesn't go far with man whores.
MrCo0lio 3 months ago
Finally someone sees my side of the story, this has happened to me twice!! Thanks for a great vid Greg!! :D
DevanMariahHarris 3 months ago
The same situation happened with me recently. My mate came up to me and asked about how I'd feel if they got together and that if I was okay with it etc. I'm currently in a relationship and am very happy with who I am with so to be quite honest I had no problem with it at all, so I told him to go for it and said that I was happy he asked me about it before-hand like you said :)
Glad to see you're well, Greg. Looking forward to the next video.
Much love bro, <3
246REA 3 months ago
@246REA the fact that your friend asked you first shows that he's a true friend. considerate people are hard to find these days
MissAussieGurl1996 3 months ago
your a good friend
STUCKUNDERATRAlN420 3 months ago
This has been flagged as spam show
what about if its your SISTER dating your ex?
KORNrGODS 3 months ago
Comment removed
KORNrGODS 3 months ago
What if your friend cheated on his ex? infront of her? thats what happened with me and my friend he cheated on his ex and then i asked her out because we had talked about i was trying to help her and well i had fallen for her and well is that bad? i mean he cheated that doesnt give him the right to be mad at me about sumone he neglected
Lvl60Slayer 3 months ago
i think it's fucked up.
and that it should never be done.
ive had it happen to me and i cut said person out of my life
it's a backstabbing... action and not cool.
truewriter 3 months ago
i really like this floaty-head thing. its awesome.
OMGitsElle22 3 months ago
Ohkay, so Courtney Jermey and I have all dated eachother like
I dated Jermey
Courtney dated Jermey
and then I dated Courtney.
It was awkward after that.
girlovescuppycake 3 months ago
God, You're gorgeous!
girlovescuppycake 3 months ago
you look like Sweeney Todd . . . like, A LOT in this video
redKELLYMHRCH 3 months ago
yeah i dated a guy for 4 years and my then best friend took him from me.... i mean theyre still together 3 yrs later.... but still .... and e was my first, everything.... it sucks
woahitsjaejaexo 3 months ago
I agree but I think when a friend does that it's not like they don't value the friendship they probably just get carried away which is why talking about it first is so important
Lizlieisawesome 3 months ago
my BEST friend liked my ex, and she liked him. so i told them both to f**k off because i knew she was going for it, considering she was dumping me at that moment. and whadda ya know, they got together.
spiritix1337 3 months ago
this happened to me i don't talk to the friend anymore lol
meandsophie123 3 months ago
I agree with the talk to your friend on how he feels about you liking his ex but if he's not okay with it oh well. You can't control your feelings and neither can the ex. But thats just my opinion (:
XxItsAngelxX 3 months ago
@XxItsAngelxX pft. wow.
alyssab4u 3 months ago
i wish i could have saw this last year, i lost a really good friend because of stupid mistakes </3 i agree with everything you say greg. ^ ^
McRgDaFi2 3 months ago
well, they're your ex for a reason
as long as they mention it before actually going out i'd be fine
MsAwesomeify 3 months ago
I agree except for the no go for the long extent dating
spycozelot 3 months ago
@coda623
I agree with you.
nia1717 3 months ago
You are probably the wisest person I have ever known of.
TheFatalBlackout 3 months ago