Thanks for the reply. From what you had previously said about the partying she and her boyfriend did I thought she had already decided that you didn't matter much and that she would live her life as she pleased. I thought she might be using you to get the living quarters she wanted by sticking you with some of the debt. From what you said I concluded (rightly or wrongly) that she had already turned on you and yes, I know you can't predict the future but you can learn from the past.
I don't understand how, with all the past troubles you have had with your sister, you could enter into a financial relationship with her which locks you into such an intolerable situation. You have lived with her and her ex so you must have known how the situation would play out. What would happen if you didn't pay for your "legal responsibility"? Have you explored that?
@Azbill001 no. i can't predict the future, so i didn't know it would be how it was the last year. things are slowly getting better between us..at least for a while now it has been. i didn't think she'd turn on me the ways she did...even though she's my sister and i should 'know' her, that hasn't really been the case. you think you know someone..but you never really do. i could never not pay for things i'm legally responsible for. i'd get sued or something.
How about you just grow the fuck up and ignore all the bullshit and get on with your life. If your sister wants to party so be it. How about you adapt and try to connect with her and party with her maybe you'll like it?? Anyways I find it hard to listen or even watch your videos as you sound like you are about to try cry throughout the entire duration and you don't seem to have any alone time with yourself or your friends.
@xo0x so...if you don't like me...why DO you watch my videos? i could care less. you aren't a part of my life and you don't really matter to me. don't waste my time or yours with your asshole comments either. how about that?
please leave me a message here on youtube for my contact details if you would like to become friends and just keep looking ahead you have a brighter day on the horizon.
even though we don't know eachother please know you can always have a friend and someone to talk too in me. How would you like a poem to cheer you up? leave me a message on youtube and let's become friends ok?...I am here if you ever need a friend.
*big Hugs* I wonder if you could get out of the legal stuff (lease/mortgage, etc) by getting a drs. statement or a statement from your mom..?? I don't know. I'm sorry you're in a bad place. Your sister is so disrespectful.
Good to hear from you again - thanks for sharing/updating.
Maybe would help to "talk" with someone, or the like, when you're having problems sleeping and all those thoughts in your head? PM me if/whenever you'd like - and/or for more contact details (like IM or whatever).
@MichaelPaoli thanks...i do have ppl to talk to..and even talking doesn't make anything better when things are going on..so..just have to do what i can do.
Sorry to hear that you are still having trouble living with your sister and feel so trapped in your current surroundings. Not a good situation for your continued recovery. Would be nice if you could find friends of your own who understand your situation and problems.
Awe, you're looking so pretty in this video. :) Despite not sleeping or not feeling well, which I hope you do feel better. I really don't get along with my sister either. We are night and day. I realized you can't change how your sister is, you just have to accept that this is her and the way she is and if she should change for the better, just make sure you're there to support her.
@kitkatxo i cannot support someone who has hurt me so bad in the past and blamed me for certain things....or who continues to hurt me, disrespect me, and allow others to do the same. she has never quite been that supportive of me..in fact, has made it clear on several occasions that i irritate her, am strange/weird, and she is jealous of me (without using those words), and many more things. i do not respect her because i do not get any respect..so i cannot support someone like that.
@justagurl23 Ohhhh I thought you two were renting an apartment, not buying a house. Yikes, that does make it pretty difficult. Try not to let it get you down. Maybe at least put a lock on your bedroom door.
Isnt there anyway you can move out on your own. Sounds like all the utilities are in your name, so just give them months notice to cancel. aagghh I dont know how you can stand your living situation. I really feel for you....good luck.
You have only one solution.
You must leave the country and teach English as a second language.
It's time to leave.
Shalom.
MonacoBlast 11 months ago
@MonacoBlast lol love it....but nope lol
justagurl23 11 months ago
Thanks for the reply. From what you had previously said about the partying she and her boyfriend did I thought she had already decided that you didn't matter much and that she would live her life as she pleased. I thought she might be using you to get the living quarters she wanted by sticking you with some of the debt. From what you said I concluded (rightly or wrongly) that she had already turned on you and yes, I know you can't predict the future but you can learn from the past.
Azbill001 11 months ago
I don't understand how, with all the past troubles you have had with your sister, you could enter into a financial relationship with her which locks you into such an intolerable situation. You have lived with her and her ex so you must have known how the situation would play out. What would happen if you didn't pay for your "legal responsibility"? Have you explored that?
Azbill001 11 months ago
@Azbill001 no. i can't predict the future, so i didn't know it would be how it was the last year. things are slowly getting better between us..at least for a while now it has been. i didn't think she'd turn on me the ways she did...even though she's my sister and i should 'know' her, that hasn't really been the case. you think you know someone..but you never really do. i could never not pay for things i'm legally responsible for. i'd get sued or something.
justagurl23 11 months ago
How about you just grow the fuck up and ignore all the bullshit and get on with your life. If your sister wants to party so be it. How about you adapt and try to connect with her and party with her maybe you'll like it?? Anyways I find it hard to listen or even watch your videos as you sound like you are about to try cry throughout the entire duration and you don't seem to have any alone time with yourself or your friends.
xo0x 11 months ago
@xo0x so...if you don't like me...why DO you watch my videos? i could care less. you aren't a part of my life and you don't really matter to me. don't waste my time or yours with your asshole comments either. how about that?
justagurl23 11 months ago
Has anyone ever told you that you look like Karen Carpenter?
DrHasslein 11 months ago
@DrHasslein and i thought i was done being told that lol
justagurl23 11 months ago
Too bad you can't sue someone for emotional abuse.
MonacoBlast 11 months ago
@MonacoBlast maybe an employer lol
justagurl23 11 months ago
please leave me a message here on youtube for my contact details if you would like to become friends and just keep looking ahead you have a brighter day on the horizon.
primerobot 1 year ago
even though we don't know eachother please know you can always have a friend and someone to talk too in me. How would you like a poem to cheer you up? leave me a message on youtube and let's become friends ok?...I am here if you ever need a friend.
primerobot 1 year ago
*big Hugs* I wonder if you could get out of the legal stuff (lease/mortgage, etc) by getting a drs. statement or a statement from your mom..?? I don't know. I'm sorry you're in a bad place. Your sister is so disrespectful.
jlt1984 1 year ago
Good to hear from you again - thanks for sharing/updating.
Maybe would help to "talk" with someone, or the like, when you're having problems sleeping and all those thoughts in your head? PM me if/whenever you'd like - and/or for more contact details (like IM or whatever).
MichaelPaoli 1 year ago
@MichaelPaoli thanks...i do have ppl to talk to..and even talking doesn't make anything better when things are going on..so..just have to do what i can do.
justagurl23 1 year ago
Sorry to hear that you are still having trouble living with your sister and feel so trapped in your current surroundings. Not a good situation for your continued recovery. Would be nice if you could find friends of your own who understand your situation and problems.
azbill00 1 year ago
Buy a shotgun?? >_>
WideGauge 1 year ago
Awe, you're looking so pretty in this video. :) Despite not sleeping or not feeling well, which I hope you do feel better. I really don't get along with my sister either. We are night and day. I realized you can't change how your sister is, you just have to accept that this is her and the way she is and if she should change for the better, just make sure you're there to support her.
kitkatxo 1 year ago
@kitkatxo i cannot support someone who has hurt me so bad in the past and blamed me for certain things....or who continues to hurt me, disrespect me, and allow others to do the same. she has never quite been that supportive of me..in fact, has made it clear on several occasions that i irritate her, am strange/weird, and she is jealous of me (without using those words), and many more things. i do not respect her because i do not get any respect..so i cannot support someone like that.
justagurl23 1 year ago
@kitkatxo
They own half the house each, her sister treating it as her private party-and-drugs palace just isn't fair
Alerik73 1 year ago
I realized how much your sister and mine are alike..It's quite scary..I hope you feel better soon. <3
CielCaresNot 1 year ago
@CielCaresNot i've been meaning to write you back, sorry about that. PM me and let me know how you are doing k?
justagurl23 1 year ago
@justagurl23 Ohhhh I thought you two were renting an apartment, not buying a house. Yikes, that does make it pretty difficult. Try not to let it get you down. Maybe at least put a lock on your bedroom door.
PaintStormRanch 1 year ago
Glad you made a video =)
You can always message me.
GodlessManitoban 1 year ago
@GodlessManitoban um....you hardly ever are online, that i know.
justagurl23 1 year ago
@justagurl23
I am here now ;-)
GodlessManitoban 1 year ago
3:00 in the morning 8@. I don't blame you for getting upset. I am sorry things aren't going well for you.
77tubuck 1 year ago
@77tubuck sometimes it's 6, 7, 8 a.m. too.
justagurl23 1 year ago
Isnt there anyway you can move out on your own. Sounds like all the utilities are in your name, so just give them months notice to cancel. aagghh I dont know how you can stand your living situation. I really feel for you....good luck.
PaintStormRanch 1 year ago
sorry to hear you have troubles... i hope you can develop a strategy on handling your sister and her friends... you don't need the grief...
take good care and peaCe2U
IChoseTheRedPill 1 year ago
have you every thought of getting up one day and just leaving all you have behind
starvewars 1 year ago
@starvewars many times, but i wouldn't be here to begin with if i had somewhere to go BEFORE here.
justagurl23 1 year ago