Domestic Violence Facts

[wthjrtx1]

Dont worry fellas. Our country is going down faster than a priest pecker in the popes office.Their rhetoric is one of the causes.Karma is a bitch!

When we do get there, Myself and others who have been railroaded by these femi bitches will put them to work jackhammering concrete, Riding trash trucks and packing bull balls for a bologna company...Stay strong and tough. God have mercy on you wacked out. Weak. Emotionally ill devil women.Uggghhhh.Thats how we get them. Just wait and see Haha....

[RubasJLeone]

(continuation)

"Controling what he does, who he sees, talks, etc..."...No way...Checked!

"Calling the victim names"...they can have a HUGE mouth...Checked!

"Smashing things"...maybe they feel sexy doing it...Checked!

"Playing mind games"...WOOOWW...Don't EVEN make me start on this one!! LOOOL

Has you can see, women do that...do that A LOT! The only difference is that for some fucked up reason when women do that it's considered "strong, smart, independent and healthy female behavior"...

[RubasJLeone]

The funny thing here is that 80% of the signs listed in this video are very common behaviors in women...

"Threatening to leave him"...Checked!

"Taking his money"...Oh, i never heard of that (sarcasm)...Checked!

"Acting like the master of the castle"...even kids can notice that...Checked!

"Using children to relay messages"...I will pretend i don't know...Checked!

"Saying he caused it"...oh really??!...Checked!

(continue)...

[prac2]

feminist bullshit

[taffwob]

Domestic abuse is not a gender specific problem it is a human problem. This video only shows that men are the perpetrators. Speaking from long experience, that is just not the case. There is a sinister agenda behind this kind of propaganda.

[ConservativeTimes]

@taffwob Agreed. Studies have shown, most recently by the CDC, that women far more often iniitiate domestic violence. The vast majority is either female on male violence or 2 way violence. Less than 5% is male on female. Don't forget that from early boyhood men are taught not to be violent with women, however women as a rule are not programmed this way. We need more education starting with young women reminding them that its not OK to hit your boyfriend/husband when they get frustrated.

[BoadieMcLeod]

@ConservativeTimes Less than five percent is male on female violence? What? I can't believe that people are spreading these ridiculous and outlandish lies. It's more like exactly the reverse. Look up the video "Women are More Violent Than Men?" She will show you the statistics the prove that prove that be way off the mark. But I get the feeling that truth is not what you're interested in. Instead, you're only interested in spreading lies in order to maintain male dominance.

[RubasJLeone]

@BoadieMcLeod Well...as long as you are confortable with your femininity you don't have to worry about "male dominance", because honestly men have better things to do other than dominating the world, "world dominance" is more of an "utopic female dream" than a "male evil plan"  =)

[hillmcgraw1]

who sings this song

[redskull256]

this video sucks

[GTCism]

Here we go again, domestic violence, the onesided version, the sexist blind feminist pig version. When is this one sided version going to stop, when are men going to be heard as victim as well, when are women going to own up to being the abuser as well? Where does this sexist pig stuff stop?

[CaliGmanUknow]

Sexist bullshit. Women also abuse their spouses and their children. This video makes me sick! 

[catsrul1234]

great vid ....very informative.....can i ask what song this is?

[ThefirstDrInsane2U]

look how this starts out "Destroying or giving away HER property.Ive been in domestic violence classes i would hate to be in one givin by the one who made this video.Domestic violence is 50 50.thats the odds reported or other wise.The good news is it can stop.Get help MALE OR FEMALE.but good luck the cops never believed me even when i was brused an bloodied.thanks spokane pd

[Tribble81]

Even Erin Pizzey stated that the woman that came to her refuges to 'escape' domestic violence were more violent than the men they claimed to be running away from. Male domestic violence is reactive in nature, to lower the rate against women, tell women to lower their rate against men, Domestic violence is NOT a gender issue, it is a RELATIONSHIP issue.

[carmendecor]

Thank You so much for this video a good wake up call for many.......

[flyinshallot]

Humanity is on a collision course with Truth.Cruelty isn't the soul-ution.....

[booklover33y]

The CIVILIZED SOCIETY has developed the system that is full of problems. To learn more, please read the book: Living Life as Nature Designed by Dr. Herman Ammer.

[cyberzonie]

To all you guys out there. Women are evil mental manipulators. Once they get their babies you'll become a checkbook and you'll never see your children again! BEWARE!

[cyberzonie]

Women and their feminist "rights" have permanently broken American culture.

The result? Increased suicide/homelessness rates by males, increased crime by women and minors, and the immasculation of the American male.

[ChupacabraYetiElmo]

The divorce industry is the second largest industry for government related jobs. All of those social workers and psyche people employed with that gauranteed salary and benefit package. I'm sure they like the idea of Male bashing, it's keeps their security thriving. Biden and Obama are busy making more of these jobs, and I'm sure they will push the continued bashing of the male and prop up tinkerbelle as Goddess, it buys many many votes.

[BoadieMcLeod]

@ChupacabraYetiElmo How is raising awareness about domestic violence "male bashing"? 

[RubasJLeone]

@BoadieMcLeod as soon as is an onesided point of view...it's male bashing yes....

[ChupacabraYetiElmo]

Now let's get to the real truth.

After this constant abuse by the femifascist and her endless choices, after countless hours of this hypocrisy. What happens?

In many cases the male loses his cool because SHE drove him crazy by using all of these female tactics described throughout this wheel of hypocrisy, and then one day he cracks and resorts to the male tactic of abuse, THE PHYSICAL.

[ChupacabraYetiElmo]

She uses those violations of his constitutional rights like a hammer to beat him down and rule over him.

[ChupacabraYetiElmo]

Making her drop charges? Oh you mean those unconstitutional violations of the males civil rights? Those are just the femifascist unconstitutional violations of a males civil rights.

[ChupacabraYetiElmo]

2:38 Using Coercion and Threats

Of course only the evil pirate male does these things, tinkerbelle would never threaten anybody, yet many males do know about the femifascist family court system and their wives know they know, so they are threatened with facing it.

Threatening to leave, yes, this is just a male thing, go figure? Threatening to commit suicide, hmmmm after all this constant abuse from her it's probably not a threat.

[ChupacabraYetiElmo]

2:15 Using economic abuse.

This is the funny one. Woman work and in many cases make more then the male does. Making her ask for money is the funny one. Remember 2:07, Making all the big decisions? This line is here so she makes all the decisions, her money is her money and your money is her money, you no longer have any money. After she uses this feminist campaign on you in divorce, believe me, you will have no money.

[ChupacabraYetiElmo]

Hiding behind God? More feminism, even the christian ones quickly pull out bible scripture, just certain parts and throw away all the other parts because they think you are to dumb and have never read the other parts. So they even abuse you with the bible now.

[ChupacabraYetiElmo]

2:07 Acting like the maser of the castle?

As apposed to what? Acting like the servant to Goddess of the castle?

Next is the feminist hypocrisy part. Isn't a mans home his castle? 2:09 being the one to define men's and womens roles. Did the male define these roles? Since it was already established that a mans home is his castle who really is it that is now trying to define mens and womens roles? My guess it would be feminist tinkerbelle.

[ChupacabraYetiElmo]

1:55 Using Male Privilege

Treating her like a servant.

This again is nothing more then the feminists endless right to choose and have it all, no matter how much expense in both time and no matter how many ways it steps on the males boundaries. The results of her choices are now your problem and you are supposed to fill in all of those gaps that her choices have now left you with. The servant word is her abusing you by making you feel guilty about those huge gaps she cannot fill.

[ChupacabraYetiElmo]

1:40 Using children

This has to be the biggest hypocrisy of them all.

Who do the courts almost always give custody to? Who plays a bunch of mind games and then puts her children into it immediately? Who threatens to take the children away? She does, because she knows she can. Look at that word, visitation, you, the male can only VISIT her property the children.

Who uses children more, Tinkerbelle does, that's who.

[ChupacabraYetiElmo]

Minimizing, denying and blaming

No matter who does the abuse it's always, always, always, the males fault. That's why this particular segment is in the wheel. It is the trump card so she can pull it out when you try to justify your own behavior. It's the the old con game three card monte. You are automatically guilty and you have no defense because if you try to defend out comes this trump card.

Totalitarianism. Guilty, no trial tinkerbelle is God.

[ChupacabraYetiElmo]

1:20

Using isolation

Well, it's obvious at this point that males are never victims. Controlling! All of these instances are overwhelmingly female tactics in most relationships, these are designed to give the female unlimited choices in relationships and make the male a walking sperm donor and a wallet.

Gosh tinkerbelle, you are just so perfect you never do any of these things ever. Yeah right.

The next part I really like

Minimizing, denying and blaming

^^^

[ChupacabraYetiElmo]

1:08 Making the victim feel guilty. At this point we may as well assume the victim is female, it has already been established that it is by repetition. More tinkerbelle? Uh huh, the male is constantly made to feel guilty over finances, not providing enough, not being the perfect mommy dad in fact if he's not superman he's just not a man. On to the next part.

[ChupacabraYetiElmo]

1:00 Again, same bias, calling the victim names then next line the victim is she. Mind games are overwhelmingly female tactics in all relationships, it is her mechanism because she lacks physical power to dominate the male in most situations. Humiliating her, more bias. How much penis crap is the male subjected to daily? Viagra, etc, etc, etc. Again, out comes the tinkerbelle syndrome.

[ChupacabraYetiElmo]

Part 2 Using emotional abuse

Putting the victim down. At least it says the victim and not a gender but the next line says the victim is herself. How biased can you get? Apparently the female never says anything to make the male feel bad about himself, yeah right, all females are tinkerbelle and the male is automatically a scurvy dog pirate.

Femifascism pushed on society by the social working leeches who cannot make it in the private sector. People drawing big salaries on the government payroll

[ChupacabraYetiElmo]

0:45 Abusing pets. I'm not even sure why this one is in here. Apparently it is to gain support for painting the male as the evil mad man who mutilates innocent animals. Yes, that's right, all men are Jeffrey Dahmers evil twin. How about this. The kids want a pet, the evil matriarch of the home let's them bring it home with out consulting the dad, the dad gets stuck taking care of all of the shit work with the animal and then he is accused of abusing the animal when he doesn't show it love. Truth

[ChupacabraYetiElmo]

So let's tear apart this femifascist campaign of lies.

The power and control wheel.

0:35

Using intimidation, looks, gestures, actions>If you really stopped and studied it you would find that these are female tactics.

0:38 Smashing things, again a female tactic, throw a dish, throw a newspaper, a very common female tactic.

0:44 Destroying her property? Isn't it marital property? How many males have had their possesions thrown and wrecked all over the front of the yard for him to pick up?

[EFC100t]

It is so sad that so many woman feel they can abuse men without being arrested and then use the law to futher abuse men, this must stop

[Goliath1377]

Damn HZQI.....You need to just shut the hell up. Leave the girl alone. It's hard enough to post something traumatic without someone like you picking them apart. You need to move on man.

[Hzqi]

The fact alone that the video characterizes abuse as "something men do" victims as "something women are" is disgusting. It completely disrepsects the truth of the matter. How about the men that actually are abusedenjoy seeing their by their spouses? Do you think they enjoy seeing their gender characterised as abuser, while their abuser is presumed the victim? This video is crap.

[Hzqi]

***How about the men that actually are abused by their spouses?

[MichelleBrown101]

SO FUCK OFF HZQI! and dont fuckin act like you know me you fuckin motherfucker

[Hzqi]

Whoa! Someone hit the bewilder switch in their brain. You're not carrying an axe are you? Never said I know you, I know a story that doesn't add up.Perhaps you'd like to explain how someone attacked your mother with an axe, and did not succeed in killing them. If, you know, that was their intent, and if you're not just making up a bullshit anecdote to paint a negative image. Is there any truth in your story? Maybe you'd like to revise it, because NO detective would buy it the way you've put it.

[Hzqi]

I'm not even suggesting that your father isn't a fuckwad that beats on your mother. But the story doesn't add up. If he's as strong and overpowering by comparison as you say, and the intent is in fact, to kill, then you swing again. Then again. "She hit the wooden bit"? What, and broke her arm, rendering her even more defenceless at which time the killers intent made them bury the axehead again? Try looking up the story about the army officer who was stabbed by his wife. That's how reality looks

[MichelleBrown101]

My dad has an online lover on the internet, my mum was telling her friend something on the net, and then my dad told her to get off the computer, it's her computer he can't tell her what to do, she said no and he was drunk and he went to smash the computer with the axe she pushed him and if you have known that when your 100% pissed out of your brain on alcohol then you cant aim right, my mum was able to overpower him and I called the police, actually the police dont buy it they think it's more

[MichelleBrown101]

** Continued ** then what it really is my dad pushed my mum into a wall and she got a fractured verterbrae and she said she slipped and fell the police wanted to see the laundry basked for god knows what they kept questioning her they asked me what happened and I lied to protect my father, because I still love him. I don't give a rats ass if you dont think my recount is true, I dont have to explain myself to you, i'm just a god damn 14 year old who shouldnt have to witness her parents fighting..

[MichelleBrown101]

Long Story Short: He came in with an axe aimed for the computer my mum pushed him out the room, he saw her as his target and swung but missed she got him outside, i can remember it as if it was yesterday they were standing next to the trampoline and she was begging him to not do this, he was drunk so he didnt have much strength my dad is 59 years old. She pushed the axe out his hands then they were on the ground when the police came, my dad was taken away that night, my mum taken to hospital

[MichelleBrown101]

and I was taken to a friends house, I hated that night it was the 27th of July, 2007. I can still remember it, and I will until the day I die. It's not something you want to remember especially if you were only god damn 12 years old!! So just leave me alone, thanks..

[Hzqi]

The scenario you describe isn't first degree killer intent. It also makes a hell of a difference to define someone as drunk. There's also varying degrees of drunk. Some people with ill-will, have it because they're drunk, and may be drunk enough to be incapable of threat. Your revised story is more plausible. And your initial reference to your revised story, is not very compatible with it. That's why I suggest revision. not presume they're lying. Maybe they are, OR haven't expressed well.

[RubasJLeone]

@MichelleBrown101 I feel sorry...you really shouldn't witness that kind of behavior, but probably both of them have fault...but anyway, that's a sad story, specially for a 12 years old kid...

[MichelleBrown101]

Man, my dad does all of the things mentioned into the video, and to johneycage, Finacial abuse is when my dad won't let my mum use or buy anything and he can. He tells my mum when she is allowed to use HER computer and everything. He has tried killing her with an axe, cro-bar and a knife.

i just want my loving family back..

[Hzqi]

No, he hasn't.

A man doesn't "try" to kill with an axe. If he meant to kill her and used an axe, she'd be dead. Your story rings like bullshit, try again.

And this video is fluffy bullshit with a one sided demographic. Women AND men are victims of domestic abuse.

[MichelleBrown101]

Oi! dont fuckin act like you know what you're talking bout, my mum fought back thanks they were outside and he swung the axe but she hit the wooden bit with her arm, and I called the police, fuck if you don't believe me and if you lived with me just look my dad's name up and see his domestic violence record, and yeahh my mum does abuse my dad to they both have equal amount in the fight, but he's the one who's stonger and is capable of causing harm

[Roland3337]

This is feminist propaganda. Domestic violence is far more complex than the "Duluth model." Indeed, the military counselors abandoned this treatment model a while ago, since it didn't seem to fit very few of the cases that they were seeing on the European bases.

[tyoyea]

It is true men are somehwhat abusers torwrds woemne and they should stop and trust me homey anit no one hating on you.

[proudguy]

Sexist propaganda! Women also perpetrate domestic violence against men and children.

If you cared about all victims of domestic violence, you would re-write this stuff in gender-neutral terms. If you just hate men, then you will leave it as it is.

Feminists should just stop hating. Everyone counts. Everyone matters whether male or female. Feminists will never accept that.

[xXxbeisel76xXx]

You know what? I will make one just so you assholes will shut up. You are missing the point, this video is meant to help poeple like my Mother, my brother, and myself know when we need to stop making up excuses for my father. Yeah my mom can be a bitch too, but the fact of the matter is they are both hurting us. Give me 5 days and I'll post one, just shut the hell up, and look into your heart for the power to realize not everything is about YOU being pissed. might be delay on post. I live in RU.

[Hzqi]

@proudguy

I like the part where it considers "making her feel crazy" a form of abuse.

I wonder what they call it when a man is driven to suicide...

It also makes me wonder what I'm allowed to do or say if... If she IS fucking crazy. Hmmm.

[BoadieMcLeod]

@proudguy The vast majority of victims are female and the vast majority of perpetrators are male. Yes, there are exceptions, but don't pretend that this isn't a gender issue. If it weren't for feminists, then nobody would be talking about domestic abuse at all. During the 70's, feminists who established battered women's shelters were accused of "hating men" and "trying to destroy the family." But all they wanted was for women and children to be safe. Anti-feminists are the ones who hate women.

[proudguy]

@BoadieMcLeod

False. The most famous study (Strauss et al 1980) said a woman is assaulted by her spouse every 16 seconds, but also said that men are victims every 19 seconds. Statistics Canada reports in 2000 that 1 in 8 men have been victims of criminal domestic violence in the past 5 years and that number is 1 in 7 for women. Police, shelters and justice system are hostile to male victims, so very few men file charges. Feminists choose to ignore unbiased studies, but rely on police records.

[proudguy]

@BoadieMcLeod

If feminists take credit for domestic violence shelters, they should also accept the blame for the discriminatory & exclusionary nature of these shelters. If feminists take credit for raising awareness about female victims of DV, then they should be ready to accept the blame for misleading the public regarding the extent and severity of DV against husbands and boyfriends. Belittling, ridiculing, minimizing and burying the suffering of male victims is not a harmless act.

[RubasJLeone]

@BoadieMcLeod I'm an Anti-Feminist and i don't hate women...i just hate Feminists in general! so do you really believe that 95% of the victims are women...you are soooo naive...think again, open your eyes, observe, you will be surprised at how much violent women can be...and of course, try to look for other information and researchs, don't stick just to the information that feminists shove down your throat...

[St37One]

more than 50% of violent conflicts are initiated by the female partner in heterosexual couples. I agree that violence is wrong, but please stop spreading this misleading and misandric propaganda. It is a lie that the looser of a fight is the victim. It is a lie that the victim of violence is the woman. Reality is that NOTHING can stop the female aggressor from playing the victim. Live by the sword, die by the sword. It's not "abuse" its violent conflict and both parties are responsible.

[johneycage]

Making her ask for money? taking her money? So if you make her ask for his money its abuse? Is it abuse if he has to ask for her money? Putting her on an allowance is abuse? "Hey hun, moneys tight, only spend 50$ this week" ABUSER Making her feel guilty about the children? "Hey hun, I'm sorry I had to put you on an allowance but you spent all our money on meth and now the kids cant eat" ABUSER You know what? if you apply this "wheel" to the feminists and change "her" to "men" it still works

[mommaswatchinU]

Thankyou for sharing, I left that along time ago only to get into it again. I have an order of protection, this time.

[donlightbody]

your "protection" order does nothing but put you in more danger. I've done much study on this and the truth is if a person is really dangerous enough to hurt you, a piece of paper is irrelevant. If someone is willing to spend his life in prison for killing you, do you think he gives a rat's ass about a restraining order? MOST people who are killed my their estranged partners had restraining orders in place. All they do is violate peoples' civil rights and anger them by "controlling" them.

[mommaswatchinU]

thankyou for replying, but its really ok

[donlightbody]

if it's really ok then remove the restraining order and restore his condtitutional rights. people really piss me off this controlling abuse of the "law"

[mommaswatchinU]

NO, I meant Im ok, he is doing his own recovery now, I dont abuse the law , Im not trying to control him, it was my last resort.I was in that relationship for 12 years , the last 2 years was the worst, then i finally needed to do something about it.

[jimmyjugs]

i committed domestic violence in 2006 and i attended the cdvp course for 6 months and it worked for me and i will never commit another offence for as long as i live ive changed cos i wanted too there was 24 people at the start only 8 finished says it all we can all change if we want too im sorry for what ive done and remorseful dv is so wrong dont fall down that hole in the road

[AmethystPanther]

Okay, I've seen hudreds of things about DV and only one, mayhaps two have shown that stats for abuse against men. Why is it they always seem to ignore male victems? It's really misleading.

[phoenixorion0204]

The difference is in motive.

[jbgood3]

Look at this from the BBC:-

"The Glasgow Caledonian students were among 6,500 women surveyed from 36 universities for an international study into attitudes on domestic violence.

Of the 200 women, 60% said it was acceptable for women to hit their husbands while 35% admitted assaulting their partner.

A total of 8% admitted injuring them - the highest rate in the study.

The injured men suffered bruises, cuts or broken bones."

[jbgood3]

This is a typically misandric video that assumes female victim and male perpetrator. The UK home office Research Study 191 Domestic Violence was first released in 1999 [1] 4.2% of women and 4.2% of men said they had been physically assaulted by a current or former partner in the last year. 4.9% of men and 5.9% of women had experienced physical assault and/or frightening threats.

[jbgood3]

DV is bad but like most others this video concentrates on female victims and ignores the fact that women are as violent if not more so then men towards their partners and children. All victims deserve to have their side shown.

Google mediaradar for the stats/reports