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  • Get a hobby and spend your own money lol

  • Number ten is the best one of dem all!

  • Women do NOT WANT men who are together, to them that is BORING. Women live in a perpetual state of boredom and confusion and they'll do anything..ANYTHING to NOT be bored. Women PICKED fucked up men on PURPOSE PRECISELY so that they CAN try and change him because women LOVE MAKE OVERS and so they're always trying to MAKE OVER their man. You hear it ALL THE TIME from women who get the shit beat out of them, crippled, disfigured or the like "I thought he would change"..WHY?? did you THINK that!!

  • @TomLeykis1 I totally agree with you 100% most women indeed DO NO WANT MEN who have it together like myself. Thanks be unto God, I've learned to be content with the riches that God has given me. So by all means let those women continue to judge you and think that they are better than you because all It does is reveal their true superficial nature..

  • If a woman has to "convince" a man that she's the one for him, then the relationship is doomed from the start! #10 is for a man whose looking for a reminder of what it was like or may have been like to have the benevolent mother; infatuated with the Virgin Mary image of a woman. As soon as she shows that she's assertive or direct about something in the relationship and doesn't "play nice" most men bitch up, ready for a new girl, but women get stuck with the label. Men are emotional wimps!

  • @atpeacequeen You don't sound as "atpeace" as your user name suggests.

  • @atpeacequeen

    Either you are single or your man is a complete pussy.

  • I agree with part 1 & part 2 - 1 through 10 ... yep yep... i just think there should be a few stamps for men on their forehead.. that says "CHEATER, LOSER, LIAR, MARRIED, STALKER, CONTROLLING, WOMEN BEATER" at the door.. know aw mean???... crazy thing is they TOO put on the best show... that way women can move the hell on... :/ ---- ummmmm...

  • @cocopuss718 I fully agree. We all have to play close attention and look for signs when we meet someone, but the stamp on the forehead would save us all a lot of trouble. LOL!

  • @JunebugObama thx alot but i hav aged to learn that men r men,even if u give him plenty of sex and he is to cheat he wil do so,on the other hand u sound like its only men who shd not mis out on sex but they too hav times wen they dont even want it and that drives us to cheat too.then u say we shdnt tel a man wat to do?? u sound like they r angels n always right,wen he uses all family finances to buy phones and nice cars i shd not advise him coz i wil be bossy,they too act out

  • Your explanation for number 10 was hilarious. I once heard "Whatever you did to get him is what you have to do to keep him" and that has stuck with me ever since. The acting never works, people just need to be real from the beginning. I'm glad to say that I have never put on a show. Btw, I agree with both part one and part two, all of it is true.

  • @MichelleW510 I think the reason why a lot of women don't act real from the beginning is because their afraid that men wont like them. If your a bitch in the beginning no man is going to ask you out and you going to be single.. but if you act all flirty they will! so when women be real and act like themselves.. the man just dismiss them as stuck up and boring...but if they take the time and get to know this women they'll find out this women is actually head strong and a freak in the bed

  • I definitely appreciate you, my brother!! Thank you for sharing,peace.

  • THIS IS TOO FUNNY!!! I THINK YOU MEN LUMP ALL WOMEN TOGETHER. MEN ARE ACTUALLY MORE INSECURE THAN WOMEN WHEN THEY ACT IN THIS MANNER. AND ARE WAY MORE DANGEROUS.....NOT SEXY!!! AT ALL!

  • LMAO!!!

  • Pure Truth! Real Talk!

  • YESSSSSSSSS  YESSSSSSSSSSSS YESSSSSSSSSSS!

  • Hilarious!! !! I agree with all of what you said and much goes for men too. However...... why is it that THESE women you describe are the ones in relationships??? The ones that have thier feces collated, independent strong women, without drama don't seem to interest men! I can't tell you how many menare "in love" and stay with women that treat them like shit! I see a lot of men that actually are drawn to the drama... maybe you need another list for us normal girls! :)

  • @juliebmack Crazy girls are great in bed...that's why they're in relationships. LOL! But the point is, they won't be in the relationship for long. Eventually it falls apart and the men learn their lesson and go looking for the "normal girls."

  • @JunebugObama Yep, except normal girls can be crazy in bed too, but you would never guess! :) Thanks for the laughs!

  • on point!!! smh...... difficult times

  • it's funny because this SAME list goes towards men as well !

  • 9 and 10 on point

  • thats why this guy i know cheated on his wife ..he told me he did it because she was different being a "actress" .

  • junebug man u always keep it 100 bro!!!!! this is some real talk.....nice vid

  • Very enlightening information. One thing I have to disagree with is your use of the word sacrifice when it comes to giving sex more frequently. Granted I've not ever had a problem giving sex to my man, and have even been told by my older sister there's something wrong with me because I like it so much. If a woman views giving her man sex as a sacrifice, she may begin to harbor resentment toward him. Sex is an expression of affection and there is nothing wrong with it. Give it up and enjoy!

  • @TheRealVenna yea but some ppl r insecure and dont feel comfortable doing it with their partner ..its not cuz they dont want to or cant enjoy it cuz it hurts ..not all women can enjoy it

  • No gay Junebug, no gay at all cause I'm the straightest Cat you'll ever meet. But you hit every man's "G-Spot" on this one Homes. Ladies?!? Pay attention. # 7, #9 and #10 ended my LAST relationship!!! More than anything I got tired of #7 and #9, her constantly complaining about what she didn't like and also not wanting to fuck as often as I wanted to. Want to know what she told me? We couldn't take a shower together until we got married even though we had had sex. Exactly why I exited!!

  • I agreed with a everything that you said (as a female) except for one issue mentioned in part one. You said that the woman should dress a little more modestly after she gets into a relationship. Then in part two, you mentioned that the woman shouldn't be trying to change the man once he makes that commitment to her. So isn't that a contradiction; the man wasn't complaining when the woman dressed how she did prior to the relationship, so why try and change her after the fact? 

  • Shaquita Manson?! LMAO XD

  • your vids are the best and make since you should have a twitter lol @YungFreshAnFly

  • we clearly cant do SHIT in relationships ladies. Space my ass y is he screwing me if he dont like/love me. Fuckin USERS

  • you pretty much covered everything

  • what about men who act like your description in #6. My man is like that.  Its driving me crazy

  • what about men who wants to change a girl.

  • @morisadatu2hotmail Nobody should be trying to change anybody. Even if it's a gorilla.

  • Keep on preachin'!!!!

  • Hi Junebug,what does it mean when you say chicken head.or what does the slang for it refer to mean ?. I'm a guy. I just think it's so funny.does it mean like stupid or meddler or bimbo.lol or like brainlessly all over the place stupidly nosey lol? Y,T, MrToe .....

  • The last part (10) is VERY true ! It happend to me and I don't understand why...I think is because of the boredom. She got very comfortable with me now, I'm not a "challenge" anymore :(

  • Speak the truth Brotherman! Real talk there, because I can relate to everything as a man out there has gone through.

  • i like your video. You don't sound tainted (like some other men talking about similar issues on youtube).

    10/10

    :)

  • @queenlaurel Thank you....but I'm sure I've got some tainted videos somewhere in my archive. LMAO! Just kidding.

  • this dude man. real talk. you just brought up my day thank u very fucking much dude =D i agree about the first one! women wtf, dont be worrying abt us men. we dont worry abt u so dont worry abt us. wtf. i swear im sorry if ima go really mad over here but seriously, tired of women who try to think they r the boss. like in part 1. need to get yer head straight , stop thinking yer the boss, stop going just for money. dont start that baby crap. stop flirting. and stop with the emotions crap

  • @Church96 Thanks...I'm glad I added something positive to your day. I could have easily added about 5 more things to this top ten list, but I think these are the things most of us have run into the most.

  • great video. "some" women do #10 or begin to withdraw though when a guy starts acting different or disregarding the woman (ignoring, etc), but some guys only see the woman's actions, not realizing that it's actually a reaction to how they're treating the woman.

  • oo think its number 8....off to a bad start already!

  • I think number 9 applies....I will work on it! np!

  • You couldn't have said it better. i been dealing with the same issues for 8yrs. Im 26 now w/2 children from the same woman. We separated for 6 months earlier this yr. 6 months later we decided to get back together after having a good conversation. She said she was going to change her ways(ex. nagging,insecurity,selfish attitudes,etc.) She did, she even did above and beyond, for about 2 weeks.....that was until I lost my job and moved back in. She totally flipped the script, WORSE THAN B4!!!

  • @cady9584 Sorry to hear that, my friend. I've discovered that when we go through a difficult time (like losing a job) some women are not very supportive. They love the good times when the money is flowing but can't keep a positive attitude during some of the down times.

  • Now that's the truth Junebug Obama because the women that I used to go with always putting on a show making me think that they're the nicest & sweetest women by cooking me dinner & they're a wolf in sheep's clothing

  • Number 10 is completely correct.

  • @longshelton Yep,because it happened to me many times

  • Bitch Stamp!....Great!

  • Bitch Stamp!....Great!

  • hahahaahaha shaketa mansion 

  • ok junebug, I totally disagree with number 7. It's not that woman initially accepted men how they were in the beginning and now they changed their minds. It's that Men give a false impression when they first meet the woman. They give a very good one. It's all part of a man's "game". Woman then believe that's how they really are. When time passes though, a man's true side comes out. Woman realize that this wasn't the man that they fell in love with so they try to get him back to being the old man

  • That is some good info.....all of it is true...so horribly true

  • I really love what you are saying. You are not trying to bring women down or anything like that. You're just saying the truth. Much Love! (From a black UK woman) :)

  • Junebug you are very intelligent, inspiring, and honest black man also I just wanted to say that I'm very happy that you made these videos. Your videos had helped me in whole lot of ways because as an young black brother at the age of 22. I can now differentiate what type of females that I want to date or be in an relationship with. So, JunebugObama brother keep on doing this videos because there are interesting.

  • @YoungHeem215 Thank you brother. I am glad that I have been able to help you in your pursuit of women. Trust me....I am barely getting started. There is much more to come.

  • Junebug- U r the man hommie!!!!!!! In my opinion the probability is that 1 and only 1 woman out of 5 will be with u no matter what the situation is and it is hell of a work to find dat kind of woman!!!!!!!!!! The day man finds this kind of woman this means he landed his feet on the moon.

    And nobody gives a damn about the women who wants to steal ur money or use 4 sex!! Keep up the good work brotha peace out

  • I to went out with a bitch who at first was the best girlfriend ever. Then 6 months down the line just flipped and changed into her real self. I bounced out of that relationship A.S.A.P

  • I am a 30 year old woman and I totally agree with what Junebug has to say. I think what he says is right on for both men and women. If a man or woman does any of these 10 things, then their relationships are going to be unfulfilling at best or just plain fail under the strain.

  • @39benito Thank you...you are a wise woman. LOL!

  • Thank you lol. I think some women rush into relationships because they're afraid of being alone. That's not the way to be though because anytime you rush into something prematurely, you're only setting yourself up for failure.

  • Son you hit this right in target with every point this is UprightMan1973 I am on my fiances account right now because she was on the computer before me and honestly I want her to listen to this.

  • @mizcece34 Thanks, bro! After she hears it, send me an email to let me know her response. peace.

  • Preach lol

  • I really believe you cant change a man who is set in his ways,lol..........

  • Junebug, nice video and you mean well. But, your not being so honest, you're being too positive here and that is just not how it is. Men cheat because of boredom. When men or women (anyone) is in pursuit of someone, it is exciting and a challenge and there is the ultimate reward at the end, which is getting to sleep with this person. But in a LTR, you sleep with that person everyday pretty much whenever you want to. There is no chase or challenge or excitement. It becomes like a chore.

  • Shaquita Manson, Lol.

  • how do u know when ur a whole person= not a cripple to one another? wat make u whole enough to date n wat make u a cripple?

  • @yeah000k my comment is for junebugobama help please!

  • @JunebugObama, you are on point with this topic because I've been an bad situation like this and keep this-coming brother because use young brother need insight about relationships for this new era

  • so what if you do all of the things you're supposed to and don't do the things you aren't... ? then what drives them away?

  • @kwilli122 It could be: 1) He's not that into you, 2) He wants to be with other women or multiple women, 3) He doesn't want a serious or long term relationship (with YOU) 4) He found another woman who he feels is a better choice, 5) He never intended to be with you forever anyway....he just wanted to get some sex and move on to other women, but he couldn't tell you that he ONLY wanted sex because you might say, "No". There are plenty of possible reasons that have nothing to do with you.

  • Woman like to know where a man's head is at so that she knows up front how to treat him. If a man tells you up front that he is dating other woman, you know automatically not to take him seriously. Men don't like to "not be taken seriously" but they are quick to "not take take someone seriously". Everything you are saying in this video applies unisexually. Everything.

  • You hit some KEY shit, 5 stars brother

  • @MedjayCommander Thanks for the feedback. Feel free to check out some of my other vids. Peace.

  • @JunebugObama You're welcome and Thank you brother, I will.

    Peace

  • Men will get bored, if woman dont have anything esle to offer, other than sex.. If woman involve themselves in sports or activities that men are doing..

    the'll be more appreciated.. Men will think of the woman as a freind, more than just a sex partner..

    So basiclly "YOU woman" have to jump through hoops to! if you know what I mean..

  • wow you are so right about everything. & i am struggling with trust issues. I am aware of it, and I know I need to stop, but its hard. I have been doing a lot better with it, and this video really helped.

  • Hey woman TURN OFF THE FUCKING TV AND THE RADIO AND STOP LISTENING TO STEVE HARVEY AND REST OF THEM FUCKING FOOLS ESPECIALLY OPRAH

  • I did that I worshipped my ex, he accepted it, he would also not talk about the relationship or I would be bawling suicidel. So he moved on, didn't even show care when we broke it off. I could't believe what was on the inside..  and I am glad it's over.

  • he sucks

  • wow...one of the reasons for men cheating he gave was not having sex enough? i guess the bible was right in saying that when u get married ur body is 4 ur husband and ur husband's body is 4 u to prevent cheating...God always knows everything right?

  • "the real her was a bitch" LOL

  • lol these videos are great!!

  • Another good man-repellant is not being able to "shut-the-hell-up".  LOL!

  • @Khemistry101 lmao and im a women saying this

  • if men wanted more than sex we wouldnt act like this

  • Part 1 was that deal!! But Part 2 really hit home, Ive been a realtionship 4 2 years and she needs to tighten up on the number of times we get down.. 4real! 3 and 4 weeks with out it... isnt good at all!! Talking bout i take to long... Help me out JUNEBUG

  • You should watch my video about men (Have Your Cake and Eat it Too) cheating. watch?v=_bBOhf2aHuc

    Leave Comments Please. Thanks ; )

  • "Oop thats a bitch, better keep to steppin." Man this guy nailed it, and with hilarious fashion. Keep it up this stuff is hilarious and true

  • Your last name is seriously Obama? What are the odds? lol

  • I will be responding to this one ;)

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  • thank you you are so right, women will show their representative in the beginning then they change down the line, i truely hate that.

  • Good series! On point.

  • ONE STROKE AND DONE SHE GON LEAVE

  • Great advice, and very well said.

  • You know what's sad: You give great advice, like MANY before you and MANY after you (just like MANY GREAT relationship books, etc.) that will fall on deaf ears. I wish it were that easy to sway a woman into a happier relationship. Hell, I wish more women paid attention their personal health, their family relationships, etc. and all it took was a good speech like yours. Do they just ignore it and act like they'll live forever to change things later on in life?

  • Single women tend to be more independent and focused than their married counterparts. Instead of discussing issues with their husbands, they sometimes rely on the advice from their girlfriends.

    Quite frankly, I become frustrated with whiny, indecisive women. Deal with or leave. Stop complaining about your man!

    Thank God for caller ID.

  • @usaalumni forreal

  • Definitely some good advice for women, and fun to listen to...I think the area that women really mess up is that they get super insecure about their men and that ends up taking over their relationships. A woman needs to be secure and happy being single and have a strong sense of self-worth in order to even THINK about being in a relationship. Otherwise she's just wasting everyone's time.

  • "you need to let me know up front, i am a bitch." that made my day! rofl

  • LOL!  I just want to know up front so I can have the option to leave.

  • yeah its good stuff i just thought it was funny the way you said it :)

  • Keep preaching brother!

  • u know what ? some of this stuff is right and i will think about it, but really, u make it sounds like its all mistakes made of women which makes the men leave.

  • This is some funny shit! They be needing a stamp that says, "Bitch" on they heads!!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!

  • Mannnn u r so damn right!!! but then is not easy to deal with man AT ALL..If man was more loyal and sex was not the first thing they are looking for we would get along a lot better and wouldnt have all this issues between man and woman...it seems like its getting worst...

  • hahahahaha im laughing thanks for the adivce lol i dothis all the time

  • You are so funny!!! i love junebug obama!!!!

  • WOW u tal too much lol

    really i need to sit and listen to this again

    Thanks for the advice

  • Some men want sex too much. Basically, you have to force yourself to have sex with him.

  • girl iagree 100%

  • This guy is telling the truth.

  • Oh wow. How can I be the dumbest person alive? That title belongs to you. You get to keep it. As for your threats, I got those. Don't worry about it. Nice erase on your page, but I got it saved. Twerp.

  • I can't hold a candle to your ignorance, and stupidity, that is for sure. BTW, have fun chasing your tail. These two are my last replies to you. Have fun talking to yourself. No one gives a shit what you are are talking about. LOL. But you.

  • Aww, scared are we? Do you think CSI is gonna come knock my door down? if you had half a brain, you could easily find the same information about anyone, it's not secret knowledge, and it's not violation of your rights to privacy, as I do not know your sensitive info. But since you have issued me numerous threats, I found it a necessary protocol. Oh and you've been blocked for quite a while now, tardboy. Get a grip.

  • Oh dear, so you're mad because I talk to people online and I actually made friends with people? My what a concept, actually befriending people by being kind to them and not being a sexist asshole. Maybe you and your friend here should try it sometime.

  • What a sad hypocrite. You're on this louses nutsack here, and look at all the "friends" and subs from fellow women haters he has, possibly you too! Yep, but carry on, Oh Delusional One.

  • LOL, little troll, little troll. Where have ye been? Up this douchebags arse and back again.

    Since I see you get off on talking to me, even though you hate me so much, I guess indulging you may give your little bitter heart some happiness. Oh my, why don't you run along and talk to you many YT friends and subscribers...oh wait a minute, you don't have any...probably much like your situation in real life.

    You're right. Calling all these women self hating was mean...but you certainly are.

  • OMG, you are so goddamned pathetic. I just saw your page. LOL. You enjoy talking to yourself it seems. Don't tell me...you are likely a 32 year old hydrocephalic adult that can't get a woman because you look like the elephant man, so you make fun of women on YT and latch onto woman hater videos as a safe outlet to your angst of not being able to have a relationship of your own? Something tells me this may not be far from the truth. And my, what a fan club you have over there...LOL NOT. Loser.

  • You really give yourself too much credit, where it is obviously not due. I have a life...you know, work, friends, kids, home. I don't spend 100% of my free time on YT responding to morons in my spare time. These women agreeing with this douchebag are not rational, they are self-hating beings who think devaluing themselves is tantamount to being a woman.

    Oh, and my father(rip) has been dead for 5 years, can you leave him out of your juvenile little tirades?

  • No dear. I have two cats, not sixteen. And I have a husband. So, I guess your little sterotype and delusion has been blown out of the water, you hateful little troll. What has every woman on planet Earth done to you? What? Mommy didn't love you? Time to get over it dear. I am sure severeal non-self esteem having "women" will fuel this nonsense, so there is hope for you to find the doormat you seek (not a woman). If disagreeing with the likes of you makes me an idiot in your shitty book, cool.

  • Bravo! Surprisingly, I agree with your list....

  • LOL. Ironic such and one as yourself should call another a waste. What you imply shouts loud and clear, just like all of your little "messiah" heres videos. Point blant, if ONE person in a relationship is burdened with being responsible for the happiness and contentment of the other, with no reciprocity, then what the heck is that? That is craziness and a doomed one WAY relationship. I guess next we will be slowly indoctrinated into the art of "womanly submission".

  • Whatever. I'm not a feminist you judgemental twit, I am a human being. Ironic you believe man are entitled to respect and human rights that woman somehow...aren't. Hmmm.

  • Those couple of feet at 5:43... are they two guys? None of them look feminine enough.

  • I dont agree with #9 You dont have to have sex all the time cuz Once they damage the goods they will look for a tighter P****.

  • I'm a woman and I agree with #10 because i'm tired of women getting too comfortable with their spouses. They should have the same spark & respect for their husband as they did when they were dating. But the part about putting on a mask on the first date is hard for women because you do want to make a good first impression, i think its natural. Its something we gotta work on=) I'm waiting, i don't chase men:)

  • Shequita johnson lol!

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  • A quickie is like being treated like a hole in the mattress. Also many of this list can be flipped around as far as the men acting like this.

  • Indeed so.

  • So now do one about the 10 things men do to drive women away--I wanna see what you think. And whatever that is...I think your male population could stand to hear it. :)

  • In case you haven't noticed, this is from a MAN'S perspective. I you want to hear one from a female perspective, do it yourself!!!!

  • Even if I'm white 40ish female, I agree pretty much of what u said. That's the problem, unfortunately. For most women, you don't realize how men feel...until you're in your middle age!!

  • GerryBtube, yes, these types of discussions are universal...LOL!

  • Hey you left out women having to many or all male friends.I thought for sure that would be #10

  • DON'T DATE,WAIT!!!!!

    A cart without a horse is useless

    Don't get your own cart and try to drag it along

    Psalm 127 Unless the Lord buildeth the house..........

  • 6 - is a gradual relationship destroyer and possessive women can become abusive. so can possessive men!

    7 - I hate those type who try 2 alter u! veto them immediately! Those women are just control freaks!

    8 - Abusive, red flag, usually financial screw-overs if theyre pushing u into marriage soo earyly. Im into committment but u have to decide if u like each other when u go the 1st date.

    9 - ironic really as women are more sexual than men. check out marc rudov website.

    10 i've suffered this 1

  • Both parts of this are SO true! I know a few females who act EXACTLY like Junebug said in part one (that's why most of my friends are men, and I don't tell my ff's all my bizz)!

    Part two, well, the "bait and switch" thing happens with guys too!

  • Very informative and funny! Shaqheeda Mansion, ahahah!

  • 0:44 lol too funny! am I supposed to be a fool!

  • I saw something quite disturbing yesterday on YouTube. I was watching a very attractive older woman give some awesome advice to women about men and telling them the truth about themselves. But on one of her vids she insisted on her female followers to masturbate with her. Her female heterosexual followers are being transitioned to become bisexuals/lesbians. We gotta love our women right. If we don't they'll be turned out with the quickness.

  • I think as men we should be careful who our women listen to for advice because a lot of women get took by wolves in sheeps clothing. Because there's alot of heterosexual women looking for advice from their girls or older women and then the next thing you know she's is turned out. Claiming she's lesbian or bisexual.

  • eehhh, Junebug, this is hopeless. You're discussing basic human relational behavior that was mastered by many women in 50s and 60s before they hit 17. They had mothers who taught them and they didn't see it as a weakness. Now western society is predicated on giving females what they want because their emotional buying habits drive capitalism. Even the courts bow down. These are basic commonsense points, but women would rather whine. They don't want advice, they want affirmation and compliance.

  • The only way you avoid giving women undeserved and unwarranted affirmation and compliance is to STAND UP TO THEM!

    Don't kowtow to a woman who's looking for excuses and deferential treatment. The courts DO bow down. Why should you?

    Yours In Truth,

    --The Final Justice

  • I do that and they can't handle it. Your best option is to NOT make babies, move on to a non-black female or get a passport and find a foreign female altogether. There are some good women out here but they can be easily be tainted by female friends and family. This society is warped. The males in positions of authority have handed over their nuts. Not saying men should be tyrants, but they shouldn't be spineless punks who only strive to appease female whims. This is the case for the past 40 yrs.

  • Here's the deal, Dawg.

    --If a woman can't handle you being a straightforward, outspoken, conscious man... WHO CARES? Find another woman who can.

    --Discounting African women as an "option" in choice of mates, especially if you're African is NOT THE ANSWER! Again, find one who is better than the last.

    --Deliberately pursuing foreign women is DEFINITELY NOT THE ANSWER, as there are U.S. AND international laws that allow foreign women to do MORE DAMAGE to U.S. men than American women!

    -FJ

  • Calm down man,

    Why are you giving me a ranting lecture when we're saying the same thing? Does "getting a passport" to find a foreign chick mean avoiding African women? NO. I didn't state that, did I? Read carefully. Aren't African women are FOREIGN from the US? Of course. My comment pertained to the CULTURAL STANDARDS of the US. But you go right ahead and keep chasing these dizzy broads looking to bitter GF's and momma for advice.

  • You missed the point, my good man.

    You have every right to be pissed off, but I'm not ranting to yoiu at all. My point is that OUR role as men must be one of strength -- not self victimization, as is often the case with women.

    Some women feel the need to give up on the entire gender of men, which is NOT the answer. We as men, cannot afford to act the same as they do, but we should DEFINITELY be more selective and choosy, of course.

    Yours In Truth,

    --The Final Justice

  • Didn't miss the point, I'm not pissed and I never said ANYTHING about acting like women by "giving them up". You keep reaching for irrelevant notions that I never implied. Fact is, you can't spend your life trying to "Jedi mindtrick" or Macho Man force stupid ass women into making good choices in men. It's not self-victimization to recognize this. It's self-preservation. All women learn once they hit 44-51 anyway. It's too much work and it's not genuine unless she CHOOSES that route. Get it?

  • damn straight! the laws actually allow foreign women to use men as a passport, the russian women are a finesse example of that!

  • To sum up this whole talk, ALL women, in general but esp. black women, desire to rule the relationship with an iron fist.

    After she distracts the man by seducing him with her looks or sex, she manipulates her way into the role of leading the relationship. If and when the man combats her leadership, she uses her tool kit of goodies to make him submit. No space here to explain the goodies.

    She (esp contemporary blk women) refuses to relinquish any control to a man (esp. a blk man).

  • OOKKAAYY!!! smiles.

  • Shequita Manson!!!! that killed me

  • LMAO!!!!! omg that was hilarious "I was at the grocery store" "YEEEEEEEEEEAH RIGHT!!!" lol That was great lol

  • Thanks JBO ...so true. It about time women get a clue of the shit they pull......They spend all thsi time looking for a decent good guy....and in the end she chases him away. They just don't get it sometimes!! Great vid.

  • damn im never gettin married. fuk this shyt. imma enroll at M.I.T. and build a wife

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  • chaquita Menson! ah! Ah!

    Good video. Thank you.

  • Damn you are 100% correct.