Strawberry Letter #33: "He Left Me Pregnant and Alone"

[VirtuousInHeels]

Girrlllllll, you should be like a lawyer or a judge or something!! lol PREACH.

[pcbrs]

wow i wish i had found this video sooner. i was just like her with some differences. anyways thanks for this video =]

[BettaDenaYella]

@monipoo12 idc about stones bein thrown at me. what i said is how i felt, and i always mean what i say. idgaf who feels what way about it.

[2jigglydoodoo]

"im sorry about that.. little one wanted a donut." hahahahha

[Unekwu89]

you the crazy part...10 or 15 years from now when the boy grows up and tries to reach out the the dad, how much you wanna bet this guy will be saying "Your mother kept you from me. I wanted a relationship all along" :/ please

[ichik333]

calling HER a hoe???? it takes two to tango. He's guilty by association. May God help him change his ways, and I hope the girl can move on with her life.

[bunushnukums]

there are so many women who are victims to this situation, really heart breaking. keep up the good advice you are really making a difference. Blessings

[rocksdalocks]

@BronzeGoddess01 Please please please do a loc tutorial for this style!! It's so cute!!

[sking3225]

New subscriber here!! Love your advise. Totally what I would have said also. Your makeup is sooo cute!! You have a talent for makeup!

[babiicake38]

@BronzeGoddess01, you went in on this one. :D great advice!

[blessbeloved]

Excellent advice... you're right.. why would any woman want to be with a man who can't even love what came from him... I've wondered that for years...

[BettaDenaYella]

i totally agree with you on saying "shame on him" but i dont agree with "shame on the other girl" because we have NO idea who she is. what the girl that requested a strawberry letter from you is whats shameful but she is the one that is off the hook and everyone feels sorry for her because she "knows and understands" that she was wrong for sleeping with him so soon? shes dealing with the consequences of her actions. i only feel sorry for her because shes going through a great hurt.

[BronzeGoddess01]

@BettaDenaYella The letter says he and the other girl are going around telling the school she's a hoe. Though, I dont think she is, that's still the mother of his child. She disrespects her because he does. And anyone who condones her man not taking care of his children is triflin' to me. Regardless of how they feel about the mother, the child is innocent. Whether you believe in God or Karma that's bad energy the new girl is giving off.

[monipoo12]

@BettaDenaYella you shouldn't throw stones because i'm sure they will e thrown right back at you!

[MsAntwainette09]

You should write a book to women and young girls

[Milakaiya]

BronzeGoddess u should ask the poeple you recieve these letters from to do an update and share them with us

[TheDlwade81]

AWWW THAT'S A TOUGH SPOT..and you gave her some excellent advice..definitely a gift that you have

[mahnikhala]

loc tutorial pleasee :)

[rockus9112]

A few things just to comment on your vid. 1) If people get mad about the child support thing then they should really abstan from sex. If you do not want to be in the system then do not do the things that can get you there. 2) I love your way of putting Gods forgiveness. "He is nothing like the rest of us. He will forgive you and erase it from his mind." God is good all the time. 3) You give bomb advice and you end with later Diva's, what about the brothers that watch. And there are some. Love Ya

[spankiefresh21]

Why do these people wait until after they make these horrible choices to ask for advice? Like Oprah says," Doubt Means Don't"!! Don't Do It!!!

Continue to use your platform to speak to these young ladies who are really putting their lives on the line. This young lady will be blessed if the only thing she got from this guy is a baby. Maybe she will be the reason some other young lady pauses before making the same mistake. No judgement here... just saying.

[Sallyakerti]

Bless you sis! as always thank you 4 the wonderful advice.

God is love,i hope she finds the support she needs.

Much love.

[kwietgyrl]

Good Advice

[Invictaism]

this is sooo true. God love you more than you could ever know. His thoughts about you are plenty than you could think of. Well said BG :)

Psalm 91 <3

[angeewells]

very good advice. file for that support. God is so awesome repent and He will heal your broken heart. But you have to let Him.

[Ribring]

Great advice and great makeup!

[loveedigveggies1004]

This is so sad this letter is my mother. This is what happened to her except my father and her dated for 6 years.. Mother struggled to take care of me but she did it ,,,, she was humiliated and called a whore , a dummy all kinds of names , but she endured and it's all good. My birthday was yesterday, and I am so blessed I learned so much from her. and I know I had the best mother in the world.OH one thing my mother said to me , she said she had to forgive herself and move forward, she did.

[nerocentric]

Great advice, as always.

[barbiedefined]

yes please seek child support

[ItHiNkIdEsErVeIt]

Please be sure that he is the father for sure (just incase) before you go for child support b/c I believe a test will be made. Maybe you should try changing schools b/c the ppl at your current school needs to grow up. Keep your head up high and walk with god. Be blessed sista

[LILUHO2004]

i feel so sad this is very much how things are now its more babies out here without both parents willing to take care of them.. ladies please be careful u cant just keep sleeping around. my grandma told me u shouldnt be sleeping with no one u dnt want to have a child with, now that dnt mean that u trying to have a baby its just means things happen so be careful cuz once u preggo and u have that baby this guy u cant stand no more is always gng to be around...

[lullabykissies]

aaw this one is sad :(

[SimplYounique]

Great advice as usual!

Loving the makeup diva... Tutorial please.

[SweetHostility]

i swear u speak da damn truth and nothing but the truth!!!!

[new211]

THANK YOU. Child support office!

[SheritaBolasingh]

When I see youve made a new vid, girl I can't click on it fast enough lolol excellent vid as usual!!!

[RootsRunDeeep]

what kind of technique did you use for those curls- are they pinned? the result of the spongy roller set or braid out?

u GOT to do a make up tutorial

[RootsRunDeeep]

**Go through the child support proceedings**

[Mzjune7]

Great makeup and your hair looks nice!

[mz5044lyfe]

first off dat eye look is off the chain ,i love everything u saidand 2 the writer of this letter stay n school,do what u do and let dat nigga fall bk out ya life,get ya child support and take care of u and ur baby.

[evette76002]

Great advice!! I love your hair and makeup!!

[SugarNSassyCurls]

That forgiving oneself part is so important. It is incredibly hard to move forward until you do that. Your advice was absolutely spot on.

[MosaicMaiden]

Totally right BG every word!. She should not allow this man to break her spirit, do not give him that, it is hers!

You hair, make up, and nails are fabulous!

[RoyalEleven2]

Preach it BG!!

[dashergirl13]

Well said. AND...your look is beautiful! I'm toying with eye make-up because of your tutorials!

[sokewt]

some of these letters seriously break my heart.

[BronzeGoddess01]

@sokewt You and me both.

[blackeee1]

@sokewt me also

[righteousras]

I absolutely love the passion and conviction with which you speak!!!! May God continue to use you, mighty woman!!!

[terri318]

Cute makeup, was the look inspired by jackie-o? She did similar colors.. Great advice!!

[BronzeGoddess01]

@terri318 Exactly! You're good. She used all Makeup Forever stuff and you already know I didn't. This is a knock off, BG style. :0)

[terri318]

@BronzeGoddess01 I can't wait to see it!! You did a great job with the look!! B Blessed!!

[jainae1]

i WAS SURFING ONE NIGHT AND CAME ACROSS YOUR VIDEOS. I THINK YOU ARE A VERY POSITIVE PERSON. I ALSO THINK YOU GIVE WONDERFUL ADVICE. YOUR LOCS ARE NICE AND MAKEUP IS SOO BEAUTIFUL GOD BLESS U. I WELL CONTINUE TO WATCH..

[srystr77]

Loving the eyes.

[kurls315]

Preach girl... I absolutely agree with your advice!

[MsChell84]

I agree w/ u!! Advice for the Lady:God will never turn his back on you and if God has brung you through every situation before What makes you believe that he won't bring you through this? He Will! Honey learn how to love and forgive yourself. We All make mistakes and fall short of the glory of God! Don't beat yourself up about the choices that you've made because you can't go back and undo them, just move forward, take care of your child and go to the CS Office 1st thing Monday Morning!

[Jdiva1978]

Your hair and makeup are flawless! Love your advice. Still waiting on some pregnancy videos.

[Mrzmuse1408]

I LOVE YOU...

[theappleofGodseyes]

I completely agree with you BG !!!

to the lady, remember God loves you more than you would ever know. You can never ever cause him to stop loving you.

Repent and go back to your first love. << Remember the prodigal son?

God cannot wait to have you back in his arms so go back home to him.

[BronzeGoddess01]

@theappleofGodseyes Well said little sis.

[cymonebreathe]

excellent advice. i agree. forgive yourself, sis and blessed. And just like Madea said, "People with power don't do all that arguing. If he won't do right [by that baby], lock his ass up!" lol

BronzeGoddess, hair tutorial on this lovely do PUHLEASE!

[lovewillkillusall]

It really was a sad one, you can hear the heartbreak. You do so good breaking it down for the person. You show such strengh as if its YOU :) and you talk with such passion! I appreciate it alot! And BTW your e/s is beautiful here :)

[tdoesto]

Amazing eyeshadow BronzeGoddess! :)

[freesoup09]

Excellent advice as always!!! Praying for the writer....time and God's love will heal the pain!! God Bless...