Tell Him The Truth [pt.1] [ADTV Summer]

[ladynaz808]

i love it i love it!

[conspiracylife13]

I LOOOOOVE the "Hold It Bitch" moment!!

[DRAKE611]

YALL ARE TOOOO FUNNYYYYY

[lilbabii09]

honestly shit derrick to be honest i can see where he is commin from... alot of dudes really be tryin to use people and shyt.... omg derrick is jus like me shit kick it have fun laugh watch sum movies kick it u kno the whole shabang...im mad derrick said that man had good sex cuz his chin was all da way in his neck lmfao

[facesion]

okay do i know Kirk Franklin's the storm is over now came in at the end but what was the main gospel song Derrick was shouting to?

[mandingo782]

I really thought u were gunning for the older white man

[Hornesmith]

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OMG you guys are soooooooooooooooo silly LOL i weak lol, what dead me was was that "shouting" part lol. Imma try that shyt if i ever need to get over a dude. Oh and Ryan that lady holding the minutes part was funny as hell lol i think this my favorite ADTV clip so far lol

[ShayVtheModel]

This video made me a subber.......you two are toooo funny and derrick is a HUUUNNNNYYYYYYYYY BUUUNNNN hahahahaha!!! But when yall had the shouting session at the end...i just feel out of my chair LOVES IT!!!!!!!! Keep being honest in a most hilarious way!!!!

[TiggatNC2010]

Yo I Like yal!!!

[TiggatNC2010]

YO I FUCKS WITH YAL!!!

[cutesdominican]

U guys are soo funny omg..I love it

[aijuswanasing06]

Y'all gonna get me fired lol. Alright for jamming the ol skool Kirk

[prettyladya87]

i did that i met sum1 literally the same week that i broke up with sum1 who i'd been wit ova a yr. that hurt me cheated the whole 9. we talked hug out n i really started feeling dude n i knew he was feeling me so i started pulling way. when he asked i tried 2 front like things were all good but eventually i told him n im so glad i did because this relationship that i was going 2 give up became the man 2 luv n cherish me n is now my fiancee. so i agree tell the truth u neva kno wat will happen!

[brianpollard2510]

Amen...speak it!

[Ricodn]

Ryan is so crazy but REAL!!!!

[GayBlkWorld]

You 2 are so fierce..............

[attcenter]

Age aint nothing but a number I was very mature at a young age

[sirkenlee]

Maturity is great however with age comes wisdome. Keep on keepin on GrownSoul...

[sirkenlee]

I often wonder can people handle the truth, honestly I met a guy and told him up front I wasn't interested in a relationship. He continues coming on so strong that I'm beginning to pull away and not see him any longer.

[youngsirgt]

i know thats right!

[nathancleo]

So, D you're looking for somework with intelligence, stability, and honest? Does not have to be perfect physically? Let's talk. Your search is over.... promise.

[vi867]

that stare at 6:52! oh my goodness! evil eye indeed.

[ValentinoBlack]

LOL, When did Ryan get highlights and Derrick is eating that burger...

[billybadass80]

love the holy ghost dance at the end-just became a subscriber.

[billybadass80]

loved the holy ghost dancing at the end-very entertaining but relatable.

[esloc60]

love you guys hot boys ya

[sgpoet47]

It is not AGE it is MATURITY !!! Please understand that a guy can be close to Derrick's age and still act the same way the young kat did..

I also do agree.. Sometimes you have to hurt someone else to save yourself! ryan u gota make D tell us the truth Kudos

[egotrippin69]

omg im in the exact same situation the only diffrence is that the guy i liked wasn't in the closet...why do dudes always find it neccesary to withold how they are really feeling !?!?! so frustrating !!!

[ballababy05]

iLIKE ya hair

[MrDetails1987]

I cant deal... ::Blank Stare:: You guys are too much, but i listened and Im taking the moral of the story to heart, but wait, it is summer time, let me wait a while.. LMAO

[vdjdtx]

OMG....I was lmfao at this video... I love yall. Now Derrick, you are a very good looking guy and i dont kno why you would want to date anyone closer to 18 than your own age. You could have your pick of anyone one you wanted. Its too bad you dont live in Dallas or I'd be right there. So, you might want to start looking at a more mature crowd. Not saying 18-24 or 26 is not mature but you'd have a better chance of finding someone more suitable to your tastes if you raised the bar a lil. Deuces!

[bk2nj]

Ryan you are so right about the feelings. My grandmother use to say "Sometimes you have to hurt somebody else's feelings in order to say your own."

Derrick I think you are right about the age difference. As much as we don't like to admit it age does make a difference.

[Shed360]

May you all continue to grow and grow. We're entertained and we learn about different ways to approach love, life, and living. Keep doin' ya thang!

[youngsirgt]

y'all got me so hooked on this song!!!!!(tell him the truth)

[Gregorymas10]

The song at the beginning is Keri Hilson- "Tell Him The Truth"

[dkdpeterson]

lol! Ryan is so crazy. I love you guys.

[1Altruist]

This video was just too funny. Yes, I agree with Ryan that its about your up bringing and not your age because I ran into older men who couldn't commit or won't tell me how he really feels because he was scare of catching feelings. And yes, Ryan I agree once again catching feelings should be a good thing. Derrick you did the right thing, let it go and shout it out LOL. No use of wasting time on some one who isn't willing to give you his.

[freaky4Aboy]

who are yall's dentists? Ryan u have a beautiful smile.

[Delisa50]

Is that a church song...you said go stand in the corner bitch...LOL LOL LOL LOL

[pops453]

Please Call Rosie!!! LMAO these girls are getting out of hand. Ryan you are a nut, but you certainly have a lot of good points.

[DigitalDezinesCEO]

Weren't sexually compatible? Shouldn't relationships in general be negotiable? Hmmm...

[dnellie89]

Yes im loving you girls!! tell him the truth hunny!!

i have to steal a quote outta this video..."QUEST FOR LOVE."

[aquinne]

AAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAA, This was tooo funni! I love ya'lll ! lmao

[blknblue77]

LMAO @ "Go stand in the corner bitch"....ya'll are too much

[Sanginknight11]

Ok...nevermind, I saw that it was Keri...sorry...but I love your vids Derrick & Ryan!! You guys have been speakin' on some real ish!

[Sanginknight11]

who sings the intro song? Sounded like D. Woods a little bit...

[haalord]

Dear Derrick,

this vid is pure gold!

...'cause ur so sincere, honest and goodwilling!

of course, i could not forget appreciating Ryan's presence and open, real heart contribution!

Love,

: )

[geye18]

Derrick/Ryan -

you guys are hilarious and I luv it!!! all the way from chicago!! Keep during your thing. Derrick, "It's ova now" (lol) move on to the next page, not chapter. fyi-Derrick you are really cute!

luv ya guys!

[brianbk25]

"dont be afraid to tell the truth"...she said...wat a joke.... :) face .... inside hancock joke...

[jayetw]

LOL! yes ryan. that at&t commercial is everything. the mom's stare wasn't as menacing as a black mom's, but she tries it..

[twan86695]

LOL..OH my Lawdy Lawd!...Im on the flo..laughing my tail off!...OMFG..(Oh my freaking God)...2 funny!....Hillarious...you guys are so real..and i love it!...and was that BBQ's on 23rd Street?..got to be..C and E line...great video!

[ciel222]

I give you guys a big applaude the fact that you are able to discuss gay stuffs very loud like that in public, I wish more gay people could be like that ,not be afraid to have conversations about gay stuffs in public. I like BBQ Dallas in Chelsea, the foods are not bad there . Nice conversation guys , keep it up, you are doing a great job.

[FiraaMusic]

I don't know if you listen to Musiq Soulchild, but his song "stoplayin" is almost the perfect sentiment for that situation.

[takoboi]

"Is that Richard Gere?! wait a minute Naw that ain't Rchard Gere, chile, that's come old white man I ain't never seen before." LMAO!!!

[polobear1975]

That ending was fantastic... Hats really are deceiving. I had no Idea that Derrick had that big ol' toddler head. He's rather cute for a skinny boy tho, if you like that type...a little bitter, but that's to be expected when you deal w/ the kids. Keep posting fellas. Entertaining!

[dlbbco]

That's why I wear hats...I hate my big head at times. But not all. Big head boys are in. All my heads are BIG. lol

[polobear1975]

LOL, trust, baby, it's hot. I'm a fan of big head men. Everyone has their weird thing that turns them on and I'm into the big boys and big heads (both kinds) come w/ the territory..Hat or not hat I'm really enjoying the product you all put out and I'm going to watch the whole archives...Keep it up & stay shouting in that corner! (...and tell dude w/ the hair that my man and I LOVE that AT&T commercial too!)

[urstruly83]

LMAO we need RYAN to do that ending i know he would have me on the FLOOR. Dereks body is IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[urstruly83]

Yea it is how u were brought up

[BRESLINE]

go stand in the corner bitch..stand in the corner....... lmfao

[IAmMyPerfection]

You guys are the best!!!

[hotworkagain]

love it

[tigger500]

two, three weeks? damn, why you in such a hurry, Derrick. The kids really need to slow down.

[dlbbco]

When you like someone...You like them. There's no TIME FRAME when your feelings come into play...it just happens.

[tigger500]

that's true, but that doesn't mean that other people move at the same speed or that that's particularly healthy or rational. this whole situation seems like something that is important and real, but ultimately not something that cant' be worked out. one might never find the right guy if after 3 weeks you don't hear what you "think" you should be hearing.

[T76]

great advice...always go for looks and someone who has a six pack, that will lead to a successful long-term relationship.

[sfcalvinaz]

That was real & entertaining & heartfelt. I dig these kind of vids!

~Calvin~

[jlcxr6]

nice, especially the ending...lol...woah, i almost lost what little religion I had over here! LMAO

[babysingstheblues]

Derrick ... no disrespect, but you shouldn't be dating. Period. Too much drama for anyone trying to get their sh*t together.(Ya'll going to hell for the ending. Too funny.)

[lilaj4u]

I live for the Praise Break @ the End..give him the Glory!

[twokool]

I Loved this video.. you were on point & Derrick you better go ahead in the corner..lol

[remoney]

Y'all crazy. I got to get into this channel more often.

[dalinqwent]

Mind telling me why my comments to your TELL THE TRUTH video were deleted? I was not disrespectful towards you or anyone in my statements. Even if you happen to not agree....is there not room for differing points of view?

Please don't tell me you not one of those who only allow comments and feedback that align with yours or kiss up to you. I hope that's not the case. It would totally change my perspective of you.

THANX

[dlbbco]

Ur comment wasn't deleted...we have more than one page worth of comments.

[etoile121186]

very helpful

[LegendaryE22]

Ryan when i grow up I wanna have hair just like yours...lol

[youngsirgt]

Derrick God sent Ryan your way for a reason...that is a good friend(charish it cause they are few and far between!!!)

[nygndanyc]

i love these new videos... cuz they are real ... everyday dudes.... and Im starting to love ryan... slow but surely

[Bmystyle]

omg i dont know why but ryan reminds me of don cheadle not in a bad way though

[warr10r08]

Man...yall would end the video as the song comes on! Kirk Franklin did it on that song!!

[JSpearman4]

That look is what my mother does to us when we (her children) step out of line. She gives us the "Hold it Bi***" look. lol

[CDsCakes]

Ummmm, I dont know what to say. Derrick, we already talked about it. Yeah, Karma is something huh. Still luv ya babe. Keep up the good work. Ryan, you are too much, LOVE the stare of death!

[dlbbco]

Of course...you will say Karma...but in this case it wasn't karma silly...(or was it) LOL

[CDsCakes]

I 'think' it was. I caught feelings for you and then you did the same thing to me ol' boy did to you. WOW, I really have to evaluate what happened, but there's no need. We homies, nothing but LUV for ya!

[ddm39203]

yall is crazy!!! And wise too... We're all learning about this love thing. Dont worry dude. its coming..

[teddymike]

love you D

[mitchellcbridge]

his hair is so fucking dope!!!!

[Ariel215]

Damn i heard the message and all but i never noticed KId SIS Sexy ass eyes. Damn! You could stare into that camera for 2 whole minute and ill give u full eye contact Boo. holla

[whymustwe712]

Its all about being upfront. Friendships and relationships are all about honesty. It isn't easy for everyone though, some people have a difficult time being honest with themselves let alone someone else. But its important to take it i guess... be judys first, there could be more to the story then fear of commitment. We tend to dive into 'serious' a little too quickly.

"Cute as hell is someone you'd spend yo last paycheck on!" Hello!!! And those Hold it Bitch moments were hilarious!!

[csupernature]

The truth is and will always be. Ryan on point, your cut from a different cloth. Shake it for the LORD!

[1andonlyDEl]

LOL I know thats right, yall better catch the spirit!

[68turner]

i love you so much right now!

[LovvaBoi]

the holdit moments were too much. i died.

[gotago09]

Let him it use ya! LOL

[IconListening]

Excellent video.

[dalinqwent]

Any guy who does not have these things going on for themselves and gets with you....if jealousy don't come into play....the feeling of never feeling good enough to be with you will. To go somewhere with you and have peoplespeak and flirt with you and act like they not there will wear on them. Sounds like this might be the case with the dude you were with. He probably felt that he didnt want to go any further because as your celebrity rises, you'd eventually dump him for "something better".

[dalinqwent]

Consider this preparation for might be your situation for a while man. I say that because the person who gets with you is going to have to be someone who is secure in themselves and have their own thing going own apart from whatever you are doing. FACE IT...your "celebrity" is on the rise. You are well-known in many black gay circles in NYC...you've broadened your popularity through YOUTUBE....and now film. You are handsome and have a boisterous personality and you re very sociable.

[Ceddi4Life]

Omg yall two are crazy anyways i really understand where yall was coming 4rm i been sitiuaton where i told the dude im catching feelings and he just all of sudden disapper on me but hey thats the way the cookie crumbles

4rm Ceddi4Life (^_^)

[Jazzmen63]

so much i want to say... I can even write it all out!

[24kgoldd]

AMAZING! ...I LOVE IT!

That made my day!

I love you guys!

[WhatsTheTTV]

Ryan u are hilarious! I must admit Im a Leo and I have a problem not telling some1 the truth when somebody is liking me and Im not liking them like that. I've gotten better but not better enough yet. Work in progress. Good subject. Gonna feature this one on the site.

Go Stand in the corner!!! lmao

[AEONfarr]

amazing vid

[pjynr]

i really hope people take to heart what u just said ... Its such a cliche but its so true just be honest and up front with people ... there are still a lot of children out there playing games and it can make a person jaded ... It's just ashamed and frustrating to see someone like yourself or Ryan struggling when there are people that would treat you guys right ... guess the search continues ... GOOD LUCK ... much love from Da Big D

[geminimalcolm]

I agree with both Derrick and Ryan. Ryan's point about upbringing is valid but is only backed by Derrick's point about age. Men today maybe more mature but their still young and don't have the experience to guide them when they "catch feelings" for someone. Therefore, they don't know how/what to do with the feelings. It may be, and this goes back to what Ryan stated about upbringing, he was never taught how to express to others his feelings.

[wickedro22]

I've been there I caught feelings for my frat who wanted to start something real but i wasnt ready I was truthful but and had my x on the fence This guy seemed to have some underlined issues with you I will say that I miss my frat ,he is single again and called me recently he offered to fly me to see him Im so tempted yet my x and I are no longer X's Oh' new to this shit and your freind is damn funny-DEAD ASS SERIOUS to damn funny SOME OLD WHITE MAN-STOP Knowing someone up bringing vital

[TELLTHETRUTHnj]

Consider dude maybe did not feel worth being next to you..you said he was cute but not cute as hell sometimes in the Gay community we have a caste system. Most men act stupid when they catch feelings lets tell the truth you all have done it

[tennislover08]

Yeah relationships are funny like that....it's so weird that people run when they have finally found someone that they really are feeling...And Ryan the hair is SICK!!!!! WERKKK

[jarrell25]

I love watching the videos. Niggas are crazy stay single man lol

[rvgcye07]

lol@ Shake it for tha Lawd...Ryan is tto funny!!

much luv,

jo-nathan

[Backatwon]

Part of effective communications is begging with the TRUTH....great vid guys .....and you always make it funny and thought-provoking .........bring more .....stay blessed

[DARYND]

I love these new videos. It's always better when you guys do these things naturally rather than sit down and try to make it formal. Much more entertaining and accessible. Good job!

[LiLJai01]

Y'all are siiiillllllyyyy!! But I agree with Derrick when you say that it may be because Sizzle is coming up. Because I have a few friends that NEVER date in the summer. They wanna be whores and then when the winter comes they wanna be laid up with somebody. And these 'men' are 27 and 28 years old. So age is of no importance. It's all about the person and the upbringing like Ryan was saying. I moved to Brooklyn from FL and i find that most of the men here do NOT want longevity. Sad.

[goofyrukiaboy]

omg it looked like ryan was about to catch a case

[chicrealness]

i recieved so much from this video much luv to you both

[tinythaze]

My Man derrick dude let me tell you one thing. I am 22 and i have dated a 30 yr old and it was the opposite.Yes we dated for two yrs and it was great but the space got to us. Had to let go but we still love each other and thinking bout tryin it again. But if i was in the NY i would find you and show you how true southern love feels like. no drama no bullshit. A MAN of his word. And love this show...

[KayonnaLonyae]

I Love "Tell Him The Truth" By Keri Hilson

She Is The Shit!!!!

And Damn That Patty Big As Hell!!

LOL!!!

[CTblkcutie]

Well somebody Praise Him?! (LOL)Yall are silly.... Yes I also believe its best that you're honest up front and move on from there...

[conspiracylife13]

WOW....first to comment!!...but.....this is a powerful message guys.... i love your videos.