The manager, nor Peter should have been discussing issues that weren't work related. Especially with regards to relationships and homosexuality. The manager should be reprimanded as well.
@Zdub212 But people do discuss their personal lives at work. And he had no problem discussing weddings and honeymoons until he realized hers was to a woman. That's a double standard. He has a right to believe what he believes, but he broke company policy by saying what he said to her. Their discussing their lives did not break company policy. Therefore, I do not agree with you in the least.
Even though I have nothing against gay people I believe that this person should not have been fired. I for one don't like shit, what if my coworker was talking all day about how he was eating shit from the toilet? Again I do not compare gay people to shit, I just brought up what I don't like.
@KainSlash But you did compare a person discussing their wedding with...eating shit. One is not inappropriate conversation. The other blatantly is.
Again--he had no trouble with the topic of weddings and honeymoons. Just that hers was with a woman. He crossed a line with his comments to her. A person may not like black people. As awful as that is to dislike someone for their skin color, that's their right. But it is not their right to TELL a person such in the workplace. He broke policy.
@JerbyVids It is my right to express what ever I want. If I thought that black people were inferior to white people, there should be no problem in saying that in public, that would be my opinion. Actions and opinions/conversations are different things, I have a right to say that I will rob a bank, as long as I don't rub it it's ok. Also a woman could talk about her lesbian life to a person that didn't like it, it means that a person has the right to tell her things that she doesn't like too.
@JerbyVids Company policy should be a friendly attitude. In this case, anything that a person feels to be an uncomfortable subject should not be discussed. He should have had the right to go to the boss and say that she was picking on him by talking about her gay marriage that he doesn't like and that he asked her not to talkt about. It's the same as somebody at work doing rape jokes around a rape victim all day.
The video he is making fun of makes a valid point. Why should one group of people be free of harrassement and not the other. ATTENTION ALL LGBT PERSONS : not everyone is going to be okay or feel comfortable with you bringing up your relationship and or lifestyle. He was trying to politely ask her to be sensitive about his beliefs. Why is it that we are the only ones that are supposed to be sensitive about other peoples beliefs. He wasn't trying to preach to her.
@justtoexercise You favorited Katy Perry's "Firework" and then have the audacity to share your homophobia with me? I think you should take another look at what that song is about--what Katy Perry is saying in that song.
The man I'm making fun of had no problem with the discussion when he thought she married a man. So, the conversation was in no way inappropriate. And he didn't tell her to stop talking about it until the shitty moment when he did.
@JerbyVids Maybe he was trying to figure out how to approach the people he worked with about it. Katie's Perry's Firework could be looked at from a religious point of view because of the verse you gotta ignite the light as in reference to This little Light of Mine or the Christian song Carry your candle. Her song is not specifically targeting a specific group it is directored towards anyone who feel's oppressed. The color's mentioned in her song are in reference to the color's of fireworks.
@justtoexercise Well, watch Perry's video. And, I don't have any problem with your talking about a church picnic or praying silently in the break room or having a Bible on your desk. You seem to think it's all black or white. It's not. I bet if he had mentioned a church picnic to her, she would have thought nothing of it. But her SIMPLY mentioning her wife picking her up was SHOVING it down his throat? Get real. Get. Real.
@JerbyVids No I didn't say Silently I said we won't say our prayers silently, saying them silently would be censoring ourselves. You get real, the whole thing started when she mentioned that her and her fiance were getting married. Then she kept talking about their plans, she wasn't just talking about her picking her up. Listen carefully to the video you probably didn't listen to all of it or listened to it with a biased.
@justtoexercise Clearly, I listened to all of his video, seeing how I parodied the entire video. He crossed a line. If the roles had been reversed and she had said something offensive about his religious beliefs, I would be supporting her getting fired.
Let's do note that you are exerting yourself onto my video. I didn't come into your channel and start telling you that you are wrong etc. And, I see that you have been doing that on other videos, so please don't fancy yourself a victim.
@JerbyVids I don't fancy myself a victim I'm merely standing up for him because if we don't stand together people like you will just take over and our future generations wont have the same opportunities that I have. The only way in which he crossed a line is that he dared to try and ask her to respect his beliefs. He had been hearing about it all day. How'd you like it if you had to avoid a co-worker that's alway's talking about something you don't like. cnt.
For example I have to put up with this woman at work who strongly believes in Ghost and religiously watches these ghost show's, she also costantly talks about these romance novels she reads. I don't mind her talking about the romance novels but often time it leads her to talking about things that I think she should keep to herself. Look at this on another level, some groups of people expect people to be politically correct at Christmas Time and think it's offensive to say Merry Christmas cnt.
For some Christmas is part of their faith so it's also a part of their life. Basically what I'm trying to say is why are christians expected to censor their faith but that woman shouldn't be expected to censor her life. In a way her life is associated to something that is political and often subject to very intense political debate in Massachusetts. The first Job I had I was told that it would be best to avoid subjects that could lead to intense debate and or offend someone. cnt.
Her life is offensive to some so is it to much to ask for her to be a bit sensitive about her life because of the history of what her life is associated with in Massachusetts? Further more often I hear people say "I'm Gay, get over it!" Well how are we supposed to get over it if you talk about it all the time? Your response will probably be to take a brainwashing course that you like to call "Diversity training".
Anyway this is my last post, thank you for being somewhat polite my appologies if I got a little rude. I never really intended to comment on any vid's on this account, I forgot what account I was logged into this account is just for exercising to the video's I have favorited. I move my chair out of the way and dance to them because I don't have the privilage of owning the game and game console.
@justtoexercise I really feel badly for you that you think you are such a victim. That it's "us vs. them", "all or nothing". That you've placed me on the side that would somehow eradicate your being a Christian and living your life.
And, no. People shouldn't have to edit their lives and thoughts as long as they aren't crossing a line. If I don't like something a person is into, I don't make a case out of it. I treat them professionally, too. The guy in that video (and you) want a pity party.
@JerbyVids okay this is my very last comment. I don't want a pity party I just want people to understand that we deserve right's too. So you'd ,no matter how annoying, a co-worker was in talking about something they like but you don't you'd never say anything? I find that hard to believe. Hypothetically what if beastiality was legal and your coworker kept talking about their relationship with their horse. Because it's legal you wouldn't want to say something?
@justtoexercise If someone is into something legal that I don't like, it wouldn't be my business. It's not something I'm going to get all worked up about. To each his own.
Live your life. And let others live theirs. You keep acting like Mass has become a fascist state. It has not. You are welcome to live your life the way you please. Your church can preach what it pleases and perform the kinds of marriages it pleases.
@JerbyVids I am not claiming to be a victim!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You just don't understand. People like you say "I'm gay Deal with it?" Well people are Christians "Deal with it" When you tell people to deal with it, you are pretty much brushing off their feelings and concerns. But whatever I can tell your never going to get a clue, people like you can't put yourselves in other peoples shoes because you've been victimizing yourselves for too long.
@justtoexercise Yes. I'm gay get over it. It means it's MY life. You worry about YOUR life & how you want to live. The difference between you & I is that I accept your right to live your life.
Like the guy in the original vid: if he didn't want to have personal chats with her, that would be fine. He crossed the line putting her down. & like I said, if she had put him down, I would be supporting her firing. You don't discriminate on the job.
@JerbyVids He was trying to tell her to keep her personal business to herself, if you don't understand that, then obviously you didn't watch the video carefully enough. How if he's not supposed to say anything can he not have personal chat's with her. What he's supposed to avoid her all day? He still probably would have been fired if he merely said "Miss. I'm sorry but I don't like talking about personal things in the office" That would have led to more questions,cnt.
@justtoexercise No. He would not have been fired for saying, "I'm sorry but I don't like talking about personal things in the office". Rewatch the video. He admits he said more.
@justtoexercise You handle it like a professional adult. I would never be in his or your position because I don't let difference get me all worked up like that. People have to actually cross a professional line for me to need to say something.
@JerbyVids No I handled it like a scared Christian who doesn't want to be ridiculed. I should have stayed after class and asked him that question because he teaches against biased and in the segment biased was used. There was no need for them to cover that particular braodcast on that video and he should have skipped over that part. obviously it does get you worked up because of the comment you just made that I'm looking for.
@justtoexercise I'm having a debate where I am passionate in what I am saying. Not the same thing as a professional environment.
Scared Christian? Seriously? Christians are the majority in this country. No one was going to beat you up or take your rights away and you think you should be scared?
Well, I'll give you that you are in a minority--People against full equality for gays. That's an ever growing minority. But it's nothing to be afraid of.
@JerbyVids News on campus travels quickly, I do not like to be judge by other's, or made fun of. I've done better than I have in other places making friends I don't wish to ruin that. Nothing to be afraid of? Hmmm being teased, being labeled a biggot, having no one talk to you because you've been labeled something horrible. I don't like to be seen as anything bad by people that know me.
He was trying to be straightforward with her. Which is more hurtfull to you, knowing that someone is avoiding you because you are gay, or knowing the truth about how that person feel's. At least he had the dignity to say it to her face instead of constantly changing the subject or being non responsive whenever she say's something to him about her life. What was he supposed to do act like he didn't hear her and walk out of the room, then she definately would know how he felt.
@justtoexercise He did ignore it all. But then felt the need to say what he said--all because she kept referring to her fiance who was picking her up.
I mean GET REAL--it's not like she was discussing her having lesbian sex. There was no p*ssy eating talk.
@JerbyVids Yes but then she retaliated back with words, she didn't even give him a chance to explain. Was he fired automatically after she reported him, or did she give him a chance to appologize and explain what he meant?
@JerbyVids but was this his first offense? First offense's usually aren't fired unless they are new and weather or not they are put on contract depends on the job performance of their first year of employment. If this was his first offense he was fired because the company is afraid of lawsuit.
@justtoexercise No. If they had violated a proper firing procedure, they would have been liable for a lawsuit. What was the outcome of his story? There are news articles about it. Go read them.
Then again he could lie but that is also a sin, remember the whole ten commandments thing, but apparently to you telling a little white lie is better then being straightforward. I seriously want to know what he should have done. Should he have said "I'm christian could you not talk about that stuff around me?" that in a way is still putting her down. So basically he's supposed to bite his tongue because it's her life? CNt.
@justtoexercise He should be able to be a professional adult. Ignore it or avoid personal conversation. It's not difficult to behave professionally. People do it all over the country/world. Everyday.
@JerbyVids But doesn't it hurt you if people try to avoid you if your gay? What if eventually she get's the idea that he's willing to talk to Fred about his wife and kid's but not willing to talk about her wife with her? Then she sees him as a fake person.
@justtoexercise If people don't like me because I'm gay, then I don't want a personal relationship with them. But I will treat them professionally on the job (and I damn well expect the same). Most people keep a dislike or hatred to themselves. That's what professional adults do.
tell you a little story. Today in a class I had to watch a movie on the radio industry. In it was a segment about Talk of a Nation. Of all the news broadcast they choose to film it's host it somehow just happened to be about Gay Marriage. They briefly let us hear part of one opinion from both sides of the argument how ever the commentator that was positive towards same sex marriage got cut off later than the comment that was more negative on the issue. cnt.
This distracted me from a full five minutes of the show, I had to pause and write down how i felt to help me calm down. Actually what i wrote was a question and I should have asked it. I mean imagine your watching a video that is relevent to the subject of the course and in the middle of it is this breif spot in which something supportive of a hot button topic that you disagree with is said. It was completely irrelevant to the subject of the class and it distracted me from my studies.
@justtoexercise Are you really THAT sensitive? What if murder came up? Or slavery? Or stealing? Things that ACTUALLY hurt people. Things worth getting all upset about. And, I'm sorry, but college is a place for big ideas and big discussions.
You need to be tougher than all that, and I know plenty of Christians (both anti-gay and gay) who are.
@JerbyVids Any other topic would have been more appropriate. If the teacher didn't have a history of making statements in his lectures about Gay rights when it's irrelevant to the topic I wouldn't have minded so much. True College is a place for Big ideas and bid discussion so why was a professor in Illinois fired breifly because he expressed his agreeance with the catholic church on homosexuality in a letter to his class on Catholicism?
@JerbyVids Any other topic would have been more appropriate. If the teacher didn't have a history of making statements in his lectures about Gay rights when it's irrelevant to the topic I wouldn't have minded so much. True College is a place for Big ideas and big discussion but only in speech and government classes. There is no need for hot button topics to be brought up in every class especially when they are not relivent to the topic.
Now correct me if I'm wrong when marriage in MA was first passed it was within congress, they didn't get to vote, then they lost the repeal of the bill. Some feel that it was forced upon their state. It is a real hot button issue for some people in MA. I know it's her life but she had to have known the history of this in her state and she had to have known how some people feel. It was probably distracting to him and he wouldn't have said anything if it wasn't distracting.
@justtoexercise No. She doesn't owe anyone anything. All her life, she's had to edit herself. All her life she didn't have the right to marry the person she loved. She STILL doesn't have full equal rights.
Should black people have been "understanding" instead of living their lives freely after slavery, after the Civil Rights Act?
And, no, civil rights issues should not be voted on by the people. But, in fact, the legislature represents the people. And the courts have the duty to protect ppl.
@JerbyVids See this is the comment that I think show's that you do let some things get to you. I'm pretty sure in MA they have the same rights as everyone else. Civil rights is a whole different ball park than Gay rights, do not pester me with comparrisons to civil rights. Skin color is way way different than sexual attraction. Sure the courts have a duty to protect the people but how are they protecting people when they pass law's that allow people to be discriminatory of another group.
@justtoexercise I never said I don't get worked up about this issue. I said I don't in professional situations.
And, PLEASE educate yourself about what civil rights are. Women fought for civil rights. People of color did, and we call that the Civil Rights movement. Your freedom to practice your religion is a civil right. And, yes, gays are fighting for their civil rights, which we do not (yet) have fully.
@justtoexercise And not one single law regarding my equality as a gay person has or will take away your rights or allow anyone to be discriminatory of another group.
I repeat---you have lost no rights because I have gained some. You will continue to hold onto your rights as I gain mine fully.
Equal rights for me is not even "gay rights". It's protection based on sexual orientation. It protects you as well.
@JerbyVids No it doesn't, Hate crimes legislation has been known to censor religious objection in some locations in which it has been enforced. advocates of polictical correctness with expect people to use words such as "Spouse" and "Husband and wife" instead of words like "Life Partner" and "Significan't other". We'll be expected to censor our lives while homosexuals can say whatever they want in the work place.
@justtoexercise Political correctness isn't enforced by law. Don't be silly.
Equality for all Americans doesn't censor your life. But guess what? People felt the same way when black and whites were allowed to marry each other. Boo hoo then. Boo hoo now.
@JerbyVids You don't understand the religious point of view in this matter so why bother responding to your comment on this. True political correctness is not enforced by law but it is backed by a large majority of society. Oh right not being able to tell a person how talking about their same sex partner bugs me is profesionalism not censorship! n the legal sense, Harrassment is behaviour which is found threatening or disturbing. cnt.
@JerbyVids well thank you but not everyone's syntements will be the same as your's. After all someone once trying to get Los Angelas to change it names, Other people have tried to sue other towns for being named after states.In April 2008 protestor shut down a speaker who was invited by the republican club at smith college to speak about his book that makes the claim that homosexuality was a hoax. I'm just wondering do you support his right to free speech?
@justtoexercise I think it's silly to change the names of cities with religious names. I think the speaker had a right to speak. The protestors have a right to protest in the proper way.
Because I believe the Constitution is more important than my always being right or having it perfectly my way.
@JerbyVids I believe in the constitution too and I don't think that I alway's should be right or always have my way. I just don't see Homosexuals and Christians being able to be equal in the workplace if one is expected to keep his opinions to himself while the other is allowed to talk about their life whenever they want. Call it criticism if you want but there is no way for a person to avoid critisim all their life. cnt.
@justtoexercise Do you think your discussing someone you are dating or engaged to in casual conversation is cause for concern or trepidation? Because I don't think it is for me either. If co-workers & I are discussing personal things, & I am discussing something regarding my husband, I just say, "My husband & I went to the movies." And if saying, "My husband & I went to the movies" upsets you or comes off as "my opinion" or "forcing my lifestyle down your throat", then I feel VERY sad for you.
If we are expected to try to be understanding of other peoples beliefs and lifestyles why shouldn't she be expected to be understanding that there might be people who don't care to hear about her and her fiance? I believe in if you expect something of someone that they should be able to expect the same thing from you. This was a manager of a different store, who knew very little about this guy, why be so open to someone you don't really know? Could this have been a set up?
@justtoexercise Because as his termination letter stated, Her referring to her fiance was her stating a fact. It wasn't her saying anything regarding the topic of gay marriage or engaging in a debate with him about gay marriage. Or judging anyone's beliefs. It was talking about her life in the most casual and benign of ways.
HE stated his opinion about homosexuality and that crossed the HR line.
AGAIN: If SHE had said Christianity was bad stuff, I would be supporting her firing.
@JerbyVids But most of the talk was about her getting married. Even though it was a fact same sex Marriage is a hot button issue in MA. I can tolerate gay people talking about some things but there are some things that make me feel a bit intimidated, such as jokes or political talk. I know I could say something but then people around me would judge me. who know's he may have felt the same way. Nobody know's how he would have felt had she been talking about them going to the movies instead.
@justtoexercise My hope is that one day you will read what you just said & realize not only how ridiculous it is, but how demoralizing it is that you think a person shouldn't be allowed to discuss all the same things as you in conversation. She wasn't having a debate about gay marriage. She was discussing her LIFE.
I don't care that it's a hot button issue. I'm not going to edit my life just to appease your outrageous sensitivities.
@JerbyVlog I missed this post, actually I think that to be fair both straight as well as homosexuals should keep their personal lives private in the same manner that people expect me to keep my faith private. Many people look at my faith as something that I take to church with me and can just leave at the door. At work I am cautious about who I say what too, if I am not certain that someone is religious I avoid bringing the topic up. cnt.
That is what I feel people expect from me, to use fair judgement and not to bring up something that might offend someone. It is for those reasons I avoid hot button political topics at work. While I agree that what the man said may have come off as something that he hadn't intended and was a bit rude. I also understand that this was a manager that was only there for instruction on one of their computer programs. She barely knew this person so why bring up her personal LIFE? cnt.
I feel that one should be very vague about themselves in the work place until they become better aquainted with their co=workers no matter weather or not they are straight, homosexual , or part girraffe.
@justtoexercise Also, I think if she HAD engaged him in a debate on the subject of gay marriage, he would be entitled to state his view. But this is why it wouldn't be a good idea to have that kind of debate at work.
If they had had this exchange as described in his video in a private setting, he wouldn't have been fired.
@JerbyVids First of all did he say she was a manager at another location. If this is so he may or may not have worked with her before. He doesn't exactly say how much or how little he know's this person. If this is so perhasp she should have used a little bit more caution when deciding how much of her personal life to convey. I think he merely asked her how her day was and she added a little bit more information than "I'm good". cnt.
@justtoexercise It must be nice going through life not having to edit things like "I'm getting married!" "My fiance and I are going out to dinner tonight." or "Our honeymoon will be in Hawaii" without having to worry about offending someone.
Maybe that's why you can't grasp how astonishingly revolting it is that you would demand it of someone else.
BTW--I got married this past July. My husband and I honeymooned at Disney World. My husband and I are very happily MARRIED.
@JerbyVlog Really as compaired to trying to share your faith with someone and they up and blame you for all the past transgressions of people that did dispicable things way before you were born, as if you were a reincarnation from a priest back in the inquisition. According to the reports she barely knew the guy. I wouldn't share anything that personal with someone I didn't know very well because who know's what kind of a person they are. cnt.
For all she knew he could have been a serial killer that had a thing for engaged lesbians. It's not like he worked with her everyday that would be different. I would never share any personal information with someone I barely knew and I'm straight. I'm glad your happily married and I know you just did that to see how I would react. Just because you happy does that mean that everyone else should pretend to share that happiness with you? I'm sorry I just don't believe in being fake!
also he said he was out of earshot. He may have chosen not to take it to a private setting out of fear of false accusations being brought up against him if he offended her. When I started my first job the way I understood the whole rule about not bringing up things that people might find offensive was not even saying anything related to a topic that might be offensive to others.
@justtoexercise Furthermore, you really should stop making this a Christians vs. Gays thing. There are religious left Christians who do not agree with the anti-gay interpretations/translations of the Bible. The are gay Christians. There are religious left Jews and gay Jews.
The world is not as black and white as you seem to believe.
my appologies I thought I fixed my grammer mixstakes. I meant to say some people have tried to sue towns and cities named after saints. What's your take on that, also what do you think about protestors preventing people from speaking such as what happend at smith college in april of 2008?
If some defense team can prove that someones head bowed and hands folded in silence can be seen as threatening to someone, and a judge takes the bait, prayer will then become harrasment. however if someone found the constant mention of a same sex partner to be threatening or disturbing they'd be wrong.
@justtoexercise If you can't handle being around people who are different than you, then I suggest moving to a very remote part of the world where you will never be inconvenienced.
@justtoexercise I live in NYC where people of all walks of life and faith get along and work together professionally. I work with Christians and Jews, people of all ethnicities, straight people and gay. None of those differences matters. We all discuss our lives freely when having personal conversations, and it's no big deal.
That's the America I believe in. And I think it's more than the case than not. If you are one of those people who has to constantly rail against everything, good luck.
@JerbyVids That's NY and not everyone has the same level of tolerance. In Massachusetts it has become a very big issue not because Christian's like to constantly rail against everything but because of inicidences that have occurred. Some are featured on Mass resistance but because of their lack of professionalism when it comes to Journalism and their plan of action to make up a story when they don't have one no one takes them seriously. Maybe those you work with in NY are afraid to say anything.
@justtoexercise There's intolerance everywhere. But you just nailed it on the head. TOLERANCE. Professionalism towards others. Treating strangers with respect unless given a real reason not to. My simply being gay is NOT a real reason not to.
It's not about being afraid to say something. It's knowing that in professional situations it's not appropriate to make a sexist or racist or homophobic or transphobic comment. It's not ok to trash someone for their religion or anything personal.
@JerbyVids Tolerance to you is acceptance but to us tolerance is being respectfull to other's but you don't have to accept what they do. To him she was trashing his religion, she was flaunting it all over that she has the right to get married. To me it's the same thing as a teacher getting fired for saying something against homosexuality being considered a good thing but it's a travestiy if a teacher get's fired for saying something that promotes homosexuality. cnt.
@justtoexercise Some people are offended that black people get to eat in the same restaurants as white people. Some people are offended be interracial marriage. Some people are offended by women having equal rights as men. Some people are offended by a cross necklace or yamaka.
@JerbyVidsI don't care if people are offended by those thing ither. Okay how are his rights respected if he's expected not to say anything about her talking about her fiance?
@justtoexercise She has every right to refer to her fiance if personal conversations are ok. Clearly it was ok to have a personal conversation. Period. There are people against interracial marriage who would offended to find out the fiance in question was of a different race. That's THEIR problem.
You arent going to win this argument with me. But winning against me doesn't matter. You have a choice--function in a world that will not allow discrimination of gays or don't and good luck w/ that.
@JerbyVids I don't care if I win I'm just having a polite conversation with you, if you want me to leave you alone I understand. Maybe this guy was wrong but if some of the other things are true, such as she was from a different location and they had never met before, then perhasp she could have made some different choices. I understand though I like to brag but sometimes I refrain from bragging to someone about something because while it's a big deal to me it's not to them. cnt.
I watched the video one kiss between two men doesn't make a music video about Gay liberation, The songs about expressing yourself, not letting things get you down.
@justtoexercise No, but Katy Perry clearly doesn't condone homophobia. Just a thought. As for your praying. Pray however you like. My point is that I don't care. I think most people don't care. I'm not the least bit offended by Christianity. I sometimes go to church--shock surprise. Our wedding had Bible verses--shock surprise. There IS a religious left.
Yes, she talked about getting married, too. A topic he had no problem with at first. Then, he didn't say ANYTHING to her.
@justtoexercise Everyone has every right to discuss their life. Normal, casual conversation. They weren't having a political debate. She wasn't telling him he was wrong or trying to convince him of anything. He did just that to her and did indeed deserve being fired.
So, ATTENTION ALL HOMOPHOBIC ASSHOLES (esp those who love Katy Perry and Ke$ha): We're not editing our lives to please you. Discussing our lives (the same way you do) is not forcing anything on you. Grow the fuck up.
@JerbyVids Not they way I look at it, the way he tell's it I think she had an incling that he might be uncomfortable with it the way he assumed she was marrying a man and the way she corrected him. If your not up to editing your lives to please us then don't expect us to edit our lives to please you, dont' expect us not to talk about the latest church picnic and don't expect us to pray silently in the break room. don't expect us not to have our bible out on our desk.
Also don't expect us not to say "Praise Jesus" when a Co-worker mentions that his mother is cured of cancer. Don't expect us to hold back the urge to say "I'm sorry that things aren't going well for you, would you like me to keep you in my prayers?" Oh and please above all else do not think that we are pushing our beliefs on you, it's just that we don't wish to edit our lives to please you the same as you don't want to edit your lives to please us. God loves you and God bless you!
You should have started talking about how great it was that God took care of Soddom and Gomorrah with the same excitement she spoke about her marriage. Just don't confront her.
he's allowed to have his own opinion. you dont have to understand something to respect it. he respects that fact that she's gay and he tried to change the subject. he respects her. just doesnt understand it,
I believe that homosexualility is a bad thing. It is wrong and she will burn in the fire and lakes of hell. Maybe it is best to keep your sexuality quiet. As far as I am concerned that is Sexual Harassment. Hopefully the democraps will get FIRED soon.
I believe that abject idiocy is a bad thing. It is wrong and Carribbeandreams2004 will burn in the fire and lakes of hell. Maybe it is best for CB2004 to keep such stupidity quiet. As far as I am concerned that is harassment of intellectuals. Hopefully such dummycrats like CB2004 will get FIRED soon.
I heard this same video, almost word for word, in this video:
/watch?v=BWxOKOcf3zQ
Makes me think this is staged...
If I told a black man that I thought he was a sinner because he was black (in the workplace), wouldn't the same thing happen to me? Being homosexual is not a choice, telling homosexuals they are evil is.
People - this is called satire. The gentleman making these vids is himself a homosexual. Try to recognize comedy for what it is. LOL! This guy is AWESOME!
The guy DOES have some points though. I mean if a gay person says "Hey I don't want some straight person hitting on me" a straight person should be able to say "Hey I don't want some gay person hitting on me". Granted it was taken too far. Also he SHOULD have the freedom to express his religion, just as the homosexual would have the freedom to tell him to shut up. Both points are equally valid. I believe in equality for the religious and the homosexuals. No special treatment for either of them
LMAO! I love your videos there so hilarious! People really need to wake up and realize that many jobs have zero tolerence for discrimination.Thinking before acting is a common sense that doesn't seem to apply to everyone.
I believe religious people need to realize their actions is an act of persecution. The religious laws they take up for themselves is between them and god, nobody else.
@tonykeywest07, fag sex is BETTER than straight sex. Ask any bisexual. That's why the ancient Greeks had fag sex for PLEASURE, and heterosexual was ONLY for making babies...
@JerbyVids - sounds like a rational idea. It is really sad to see humans act worse than rabid rats in a cage with such attitude. Oh, well. Maybe these people are here to help us to insure we remember that we are pretty good folks, after all.
going through some of the comments it seems obvious that some of the posters do not realize that this video is a LAMPOON of the guy that got fired and that this is not him. this video is making fun of him. great job! loved the part about the musical!
Butt sex and sticking a tongue in a vagina are both perversions.I never done any of these sick perversions.The butt is to expel waste,the vagina is to deliver a baby,the tongue helps you talk and eat,and the penis is for reproduction.
Tabby, you Do know that there are straight people who do oral & anal sex to their partners, right? It's possible with ALL gender combos. Not just a "gay thing." Now, you can go back to flaunting in your ignorance & 'morality.'
Maybe not,but i thank God for the voters,not even california liberals want their queers to marry.Just think rosie odonnel and ellen will never marry their partners.i get so giddy when I think of that.
I doubt it,the federal government not even obama is for rewriting marriage from its christian roots.Allowing a person to marry to justify a perversion is a sick.I mean why not let adults marry underage children.Why not make polyagamy legal?
Children can not consent. Polygamy is its own issue and should be debated on its own merits or lack of. Personally, I don't care if people want to have multiple spouses as long as it's all consensual. It's none of my business.
Your beliefs do not match history. And they certainly do not match the future. Full equality is coming whether 2 years from now or 20.
Yes, and I dont want to hear anyone telling me about their love life with their significant other,back in the day when I was a punk kid,I was telling my frinds about my sexual conquests,as punk kids do,but as I grew older its no ones business.
That's right she was taking away your religious freedom! That's terrible! Where did those
dirty, filthy, stinking homosexuals get the idea that they have rights!
Pilgrim812 2 weeks ago
The manager, nor Peter should have been discussing issues that weren't work related. Especially with regards to relationships and homosexuality. The manager should be reprimanded as well.
Zdub212 2 months ago
@Zdub212 But people do discuss their personal lives at work. And he had no problem discussing weddings and honeymoons until he realized hers was to a woman. That's a double standard. He has a right to believe what he believes, but he broke company policy by saying what he said to her. Their discussing their lives did not break company policy. Therefore, I do not agree with you in the least.
JerbyVids 2 months ago
Even though I have nothing against gay people I believe that this person should not have been fired. I for one don't like shit, what if my coworker was talking all day about how he was eating shit from the toilet? Again I do not compare gay people to shit, I just brought up what I don't like.
KainSlash 6 months ago
@KainSlash But you did compare a person discussing their wedding with...eating shit. One is not inappropriate conversation. The other blatantly is.
Again--he had no trouble with the topic of weddings and honeymoons. Just that hers was with a woman. He crossed a line with his comments to her. A person may not like black people. As awful as that is to dislike someone for their skin color, that's their right. But it is not their right to TELL a person such in the workplace. He broke policy.
JerbyVids 2 months ago
@JerbyVids It is my right to express what ever I want. If I thought that black people were inferior to white people, there should be no problem in saying that in public, that would be my opinion. Actions and opinions/conversations are different things, I have a right to say that I will rob a bank, as long as I don't rub it it's ok. Also a woman could talk about her lesbian life to a person that didn't like it, it means that a person has the right to tell her things that she doesn't like too.
KainSlash 2 months ago
@KainSlash Not if it breaks company policy. Then, you get fired.
JerbyVids 2 months ago
@JerbyVids Company policy should be a friendly attitude. In this case, anything that a person feels to be an uncomfortable subject should not be discussed. He should have had the right to go to the boss and say that she was picking on him by talking about her gay marriage that he doesn't like and that he asked her not to talkt about. It's the same as somebody at work doing rape jokes around a rape victim all day.
KainSlash 2 months ago
@KainSlash Not the same at all, but good luck.
JerbyVids 2 months ago
@JerbyVids What's the difference?
KainSlash 2 months ago
What a twat!
ldma 8 months ago
I dont give a SHIT what YOU think is immoral or what a book written by male ;bloggers" thinks is immoral. Go work for a church.
thegymrat2 10 months ago
@thegymrat2 Well what's the problem with not thinking it is immoral to call gay people disgusting shit then? What's the difference?
KainSlash 2 months ago
love this!!!
cjm608 11 months ago
The video he is making fun of makes a valid point. Why should one group of people be free of harrassement and not the other. ATTENTION ALL LGBT PERSONS : not everyone is going to be okay or feel comfortable with you bringing up your relationship and or lifestyle. He was trying to politely ask her to be sensitive about his beliefs. Why is it that we are the only ones that are supposed to be sensitive about other peoples beliefs. He wasn't trying to preach to her.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise You favorited Katy Perry's "Firework" and then have the audacity to share your homophobia with me? I think you should take another look at what that song is about--what Katy Perry is saying in that song.
The man I'm making fun of had no problem with the discussion when he thought she married a man. So, the conversation was in no way inappropriate. And he didn't tell her to stop talking about it until the shitty moment when he did.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids Maybe he was trying to figure out how to approach the people he worked with about it. Katie's Perry's Firework could be looked at from a religious point of view because of the verse you gotta ignite the light as in reference to This little Light of Mine or the Christian song Carry your candle. Her song is not specifically targeting a specific group it is directored towards anyone who feel's oppressed. The color's mentioned in her song are in reference to the color's of fireworks.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise Well, watch Perry's video. And, I don't have any problem with your talking about a church picnic or praying silently in the break room or having a Bible on your desk. You seem to think it's all black or white. It's not. I bet if he had mentioned a church picnic to her, she would have thought nothing of it. But her SIMPLY mentioning her wife picking her up was SHOVING it down his throat? Get real. Get. Real.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids No I didn't say Silently I said we won't say our prayers silently, saying them silently would be censoring ourselves. You get real, the whole thing started when she mentioned that her and her fiance were getting married. Then she kept talking about their plans, she wasn't just talking about her picking her up. Listen carefully to the video you probably didn't listen to all of it or listened to it with a biased.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise Clearly, I listened to all of his video, seeing how I parodied the entire video. He crossed a line. If the roles had been reversed and she had said something offensive about his religious beliefs, I would be supporting her getting fired.
Let's do note that you are exerting yourself onto my video. I didn't come into your channel and start telling you that you are wrong etc. And, I see that you have been doing that on other videos, so please don't fancy yourself a victim.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids I don't fancy myself a victim I'm merely standing up for him because if we don't stand together people like you will just take over and our future generations wont have the same opportunities that I have. The only way in which he crossed a line is that he dared to try and ask her to respect his beliefs. He had been hearing about it all day. How'd you like it if you had to avoid a co-worker that's alway's talking about something you don't like. cnt.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
For example I have to put up with this woman at work who strongly believes in Ghost and religiously watches these ghost show's, she also costantly talks about these romance novels she reads. I don't mind her talking about the romance novels but often time it leads her to talking about things that I think she should keep to herself. Look at this on another level, some groups of people expect people to be politically correct at Christmas Time and think it's offensive to say Merry Christmas cnt.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
For some Christmas is part of their faith so it's also a part of their life. Basically what I'm trying to say is why are christians expected to censor their faith but that woman shouldn't be expected to censor her life. In a way her life is associated to something that is political and often subject to very intense political debate in Massachusetts. The first Job I had I was told that it would be best to avoid subjects that could lead to intense debate and or offend someone. cnt.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
Her life is offensive to some so is it to much to ask for her to be a bit sensitive about her life because of the history of what her life is associated with in Massachusetts? Further more often I hear people say "I'm Gay, get over it!" Well how are we supposed to get over it if you talk about it all the time? Your response will probably be to take a brainwashing course that you like to call "Diversity training".
justtoexercise 11 months ago
Anyway this is my last post, thank you for being somewhat polite my appologies if I got a little rude. I never really intended to comment on any vid's on this account, I forgot what account I was logged into this account is just for exercising to the video's I have favorited. I move my chair out of the way and dance to them because I don't have the privilage of owning the game and game console.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise I really feel badly for you that you think you are such a victim. That it's "us vs. them", "all or nothing". That you've placed me on the side that would somehow eradicate your being a Christian and living your life.
And, no. People shouldn't have to edit their lives and thoughts as long as they aren't crossing a line. If I don't like something a person is into, I don't make a case out of it. I treat them professionally, too. The guy in that video (and you) want a pity party.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids okay this is my very last comment. I don't want a pity party I just want people to understand that we deserve right's too. So you'd ,no matter how annoying, a co-worker was in talking about something they like but you don't you'd never say anything? I find that hard to believe. Hypothetically what if beastiality was legal and your coworker kept talking about their relationship with their horse. Because it's legal you wouldn't want to say something?
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise If someone is into something legal that I don't like, it wouldn't be my business. It's not something I'm going to get all worked up about. To each his own.
Live your life. And let others live theirs. You keep acting like Mass has become a fascist state. It has not. You are welcome to live your life the way you please. Your church can preach what it pleases and perform the kinds of marriages it pleases.
You are not a victim.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids I am not claiming to be a victim!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You just don't understand. People like you say "I'm gay Deal with it?" Well people are Christians "Deal with it" When you tell people to deal with it, you are pretty much brushing off their feelings and concerns. But whatever I can tell your never going to get a clue, people like you can't put yourselves in other peoples shoes because you've been victimizing yourselves for too long.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise Yes. I'm gay get over it. It means it's MY life. You worry about YOUR life & how you want to live. The difference between you & I is that I accept your right to live your life.
Like the guy in the original vid: if he didn't want to have personal chats with her, that would be fine. He crossed the line putting her down. & like I said, if she had put him down, I would be supporting her firing. You don't discriminate on the job.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids He was trying to tell her to keep her personal business to herself, if you don't understand that, then obviously you didn't watch the video carefully enough. How if he's not supposed to say anything can he not have personal chat's with her. What he's supposed to avoid her all day? He still probably would have been fired if he merely said "Miss. I'm sorry but I don't like talking about personal things in the office" That would have led to more questions,cnt.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise No. He would not have been fired for saying, "I'm sorry but I don't like talking about personal things in the office". Rewatch the video. He admits he said more.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids But if someone said that to you wouldn't you ask why? Then what is he supposed to say?
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise You handle it like a professional adult. I would never be in his or your position because I don't let difference get me all worked up like that. People have to actually cross a professional line for me to need to say something.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids No I handled it like a scared Christian who doesn't want to be ridiculed. I should have stayed after class and asked him that question because he teaches against biased and in the segment biased was used. There was no need for them to cover that particular braodcast on that video and he should have skipped over that part. obviously it does get you worked up because of the comment you just made that I'm looking for.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise I'm having a debate where I am passionate in what I am saying. Not the same thing as a professional environment.
Scared Christian? Seriously? Christians are the majority in this country. No one was going to beat you up or take your rights away and you think you should be scared?
Well, I'll give you that you are in a minority--People against full equality for gays. That's an ever growing minority. But it's nothing to be afraid of.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids News on campus travels quickly, I do not like to be judge by other's, or made fun of. I've done better than I have in other places making friends I don't wish to ruin that. Nothing to be afraid of? Hmmm being teased, being labeled a biggot, having no one talk to you because you've been labeled something horrible. I don't like to be seen as anything bad by people that know me.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
He was trying to be straightforward with her. Which is more hurtfull to you, knowing that someone is avoiding you because you are gay, or knowing the truth about how that person feel's. At least he had the dignity to say it to her face instead of constantly changing the subject or being non responsive whenever she say's something to him about her life. What was he supposed to do act like he didn't hear her and walk out of the room, then she definately would know how he felt.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise He did ignore it all. But then felt the need to say what he said--all because she kept referring to her fiance who was picking her up.
I mean GET REAL--it's not like she was discussing her having lesbian sex. There was no p*ssy eating talk.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids Yes but then she retaliated back with words, she didn't even give him a chance to explain. Was he fired automatically after she reported him, or did she give him a chance to appologize and explain what he meant?
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise There's no explaining. He crossed the line. She laughed at him. And she reported it. Company policy dictated that he be fired.
Surely, in the course of the firing, there was plenty of opportunity to discuss the matter.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids but stil he was fired because all christians who dare speak up should be made an example.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise Nope. He was fired because he violated the company's employment nondiscrimination policy.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids but was this his first offense? First offense's usually aren't fired unless they are new and weather or not they are put on contract depends on the job performance of their first year of employment. If this was his first offense he was fired because the company is afraid of lawsuit.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise No. If they had violated a proper firing procedure, they would have been liable for a lawsuit. What was the outcome of his story? There are news articles about it. Go read them.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
Then again he could lie but that is also a sin, remember the whole ten commandments thing, but apparently to you telling a little white lie is better then being straightforward. I seriously want to know what he should have done. Should he have said "I'm christian could you not talk about that stuff around me?" that in a way is still putting her down. So basically he's supposed to bite his tongue because it's her life? CNt.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise He should be able to be a professional adult. Ignore it or avoid personal conversation. It's not difficult to behave professionally. People do it all over the country/world. Everyday.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids But doesn't it hurt you if people try to avoid you if your gay? What if eventually she get's the idea that he's willing to talk to Fred about his wife and kid's but not willing to talk about her wife with her? Then she sees him as a fake person.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise If people don't like me because I'm gay, then I don't want a personal relationship with them. But I will treat them professionally on the job (and I damn well expect the same). Most people keep a dislike or hatred to themselves. That's what professional adults do.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
tell you a little story. Today in a class I had to watch a movie on the radio industry. In it was a segment about Talk of a Nation. Of all the news broadcast they choose to film it's host it somehow just happened to be about Gay Marriage. They briefly let us hear part of one opinion from both sides of the argument how ever the commentator that was positive towards same sex marriage got cut off later than the comment that was more negative on the issue. cnt.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
This distracted me from a full five minutes of the show, I had to pause and write down how i felt to help me calm down. Actually what i wrote was a question and I should have asked it. I mean imagine your watching a video that is relevent to the subject of the course and in the middle of it is this breif spot in which something supportive of a hot button topic that you disagree with is said. It was completely irrelevant to the subject of the class and it distracted me from my studies.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise Are you really THAT sensitive? What if murder came up? Or slavery? Or stealing? Things that ACTUALLY hurt people. Things worth getting all upset about. And, I'm sorry, but college is a place for big ideas and big discussions.
You need to be tougher than all that, and I know plenty of Christians (both anti-gay and gay) who are.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids Any other topic would have been more appropriate. If the teacher didn't have a history of making statements in his lectures about Gay rights when it's irrelevant to the topic I wouldn't have minded so much. True College is a place for Big ideas and bid discussion so why was a professor in Illinois fired breifly because he expressed his agreeance with the catholic church on homosexuality in a letter to his class on Catholicism?
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise Ok. Maybe abortion should have been the topic. Or the legalization of marijuana. Or stem cell research. Or the death penalty.
Would those have made you feel better? Less scared?
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids Yes I wouldn't have cared I would have been like "This is some really biased, PC, editing" and moved on.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@JerbyVids Any other topic would have been more appropriate. If the teacher didn't have a history of making statements in his lectures about Gay rights when it's irrelevant to the topic I wouldn't have minded so much. True College is a place for Big ideas and big discussion but only in speech and government classes. There is no need for hot button topics to be brought up in every class especially when they are not relivent to the topic.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
Now correct me if I'm wrong when marriage in MA was first passed it was within congress, they didn't get to vote, then they lost the repeal of the bill. Some feel that it was forced upon their state. It is a real hot button issue for some people in MA. I know it's her life but she had to have known the history of this in her state and she had to have known how some people feel. It was probably distracting to him and he wouldn't have said anything if it wasn't distracting.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise No. She doesn't owe anyone anything. All her life, she's had to edit herself. All her life she didn't have the right to marry the person she loved. She STILL doesn't have full equal rights.
Should black people have been "understanding" instead of living their lives freely after slavery, after the Civil Rights Act?
And, no, civil rights issues should not be voted on by the people. But, in fact, the legislature represents the people. And the courts have the duty to protect ppl.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids See this is the comment that I think show's that you do let some things get to you. I'm pretty sure in MA they have the same rights as everyone else. Civil rights is a whole different ball park than Gay rights, do not pester me with comparrisons to civil rights. Skin color is way way different than sexual attraction. Sure the courts have a duty to protect the people but how are they protecting people when they pass law's that allow people to be discriminatory of another group.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise I never said I don't get worked up about this issue. I said I don't in professional situations.
And, PLEASE educate yourself about what civil rights are. Women fought for civil rights. People of color did, and we call that the Civil Rights movement. Your freedom to practice your religion is a civil right. And, yes, gays are fighting for their civil rights, which we do not (yet) have fully.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@justtoexercise And not one single law regarding my equality as a gay person has or will take away your rights or allow anyone to be discriminatory of another group.
I repeat---you have lost no rights because I have gained some. You will continue to hold onto your rights as I gain mine fully.
Equal rights for me is not even "gay rights". It's protection based on sexual orientation. It protects you as well.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids No it doesn't, Hate crimes legislation has been known to censor religious objection in some locations in which it has been enforced. advocates of polictical correctness with expect people to use words such as "Spouse" and "Husband and wife" instead of words like "Life Partner" and "Significan't other". We'll be expected to censor our lives while homosexuals can say whatever they want in the work place.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise Political correctness isn't enforced by law. Don't be silly.
Equality for all Americans doesn't censor your life. But guess what? People felt the same way when black and whites were allowed to marry each other. Boo hoo then. Boo hoo now.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids You don't understand the religious point of view in this matter so why bother responding to your comment on this. True political correctness is not enforced by law but it is backed by a large majority of society. Oh right not being able to tell a person how talking about their same sex partner bugs me is profesionalism not censorship! n the legal sense, Harrassment is behaviour which is found threatening or disturbing. cnt.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise You make an awful lot of assumptions. I actually know the religious pov very well.
I defend both your right to pray and my right to talk about my husband.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids well thank you but not everyone's syntements will be the same as your's. After all someone once trying to get Los Angelas to change it names, Other people have tried to sue other towns for being named after states.In April 2008 protestor shut down a speaker who was invited by the republican club at smith college to speak about his book that makes the claim that homosexuality was a hoax. I'm just wondering do you support his right to free speech?
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise I think it's silly to change the names of cities with religious names. I think the speaker had a right to speak. The protestors have a right to protest in the proper way.
Because I believe the Constitution is more important than my always being right or having it perfectly my way.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids I believe in the constitution too and I don't think that I alway's should be right or always have my way. I just don't see Homosexuals and Christians being able to be equal in the workplace if one is expected to keep his opinions to himself while the other is allowed to talk about their life whenever they want. Call it criticism if you want but there is no way for a person to avoid critisim all their life. cnt.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise Do you think your discussing someone you are dating or engaged to in casual conversation is cause for concern or trepidation? Because I don't think it is for me either. If co-workers & I are discussing personal things, & I am discussing something regarding my husband, I just say, "My husband & I went to the movies." And if saying, "My husband & I went to the movies" upsets you or comes off as "my opinion" or "forcing my lifestyle down your throat", then I feel VERY sad for you.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
If we are expected to try to be understanding of other peoples beliefs and lifestyles why shouldn't she be expected to be understanding that there might be people who don't care to hear about her and her fiance? I believe in if you expect something of someone that they should be able to expect the same thing from you. This was a manager of a different store, who knew very little about this guy, why be so open to someone you don't really know? Could this have been a set up?
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise Because as his termination letter stated, Her referring to her fiance was her stating a fact. It wasn't her saying anything regarding the topic of gay marriage or engaging in a debate with him about gay marriage. Or judging anyone's beliefs. It was talking about her life in the most casual and benign of ways.
HE stated his opinion about homosexuality and that crossed the HR line.
AGAIN: If SHE had said Christianity was bad stuff, I would be supporting her firing.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids But most of the talk was about her getting married. Even though it was a fact same sex Marriage is a hot button issue in MA. I can tolerate gay people talking about some things but there are some things that make me feel a bit intimidated, such as jokes or political talk. I know I could say something but then people around me would judge me. who know's he may have felt the same way. Nobody know's how he would have felt had she been talking about them going to the movies instead.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise My hope is that one day you will read what you just said & realize not only how ridiculous it is, but how demoralizing it is that you think a person shouldn't be allowed to discuss all the same things as you in conversation. She wasn't having a debate about gay marriage. She was discussing her LIFE.
I don't care that it's a hot button issue. I'm not going to edit my life just to appease your outrageous sensitivities.
JerbyVlog 11 months ago
@JerbyVlog I missed this post, actually I think that to be fair both straight as well as homosexuals should keep their personal lives private in the same manner that people expect me to keep my faith private. Many people look at my faith as something that I take to church with me and can just leave at the door. At work I am cautious about who I say what too, if I am not certain that someone is religious I avoid bringing the topic up. cnt.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
That is what I feel people expect from me, to use fair judgement and not to bring up something that might offend someone. It is for those reasons I avoid hot button political topics at work. While I agree that what the man said may have come off as something that he hadn't intended and was a bit rude. I also understand that this was a manager that was only there for instruction on one of their computer programs. She barely knew this person so why bring up her personal LIFE? cnt.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
I feel that one should be very vague about themselves in the work place until they become better aquainted with their co=workers no matter weather or not they are straight, homosexual , or part girraffe.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise Also, I think if she HAD engaged him in a debate on the subject of gay marriage, he would be entitled to state his view. But this is why it wouldn't be a good idea to have that kind of debate at work.
If they had had this exchange as described in his video in a private setting, he wouldn't have been fired.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids First of all did he say she was a manager at another location. If this is so he may or may not have worked with her before. He doesn't exactly say how much or how little he know's this person. If this is so perhasp she should have used a little bit more caution when deciding how much of her personal life to convey. I think he merely asked her how her day was and she added a little bit more information than "I'm good". cnt.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise It must be nice going through life not having to edit things like "I'm getting married!" "My fiance and I are going out to dinner tonight." or "Our honeymoon will be in Hawaii" without having to worry about offending someone.
Maybe that's why you can't grasp how astonishingly revolting it is that you would demand it of someone else.
BTW--I got married this past July. My husband and I honeymooned at Disney World. My husband and I are very happily MARRIED.
JerbyVlog 11 months ago
@JerbyVlog Really as compaired to trying to share your faith with someone and they up and blame you for all the past transgressions of people that did dispicable things way before you were born, as if you were a reincarnation from a priest back in the inquisition. According to the reports she barely knew the guy. I wouldn't share anything that personal with someone I didn't know very well because who know's what kind of a person they are. cnt.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
For all she knew he could have been a serial killer that had a thing for engaged lesbians. It's not like he worked with her everyday that would be different. I would never share any personal information with someone I barely knew and I'm straight. I'm glad your happily married and I know you just did that to see how I would react. Just because you happy does that mean that everyone else should pretend to share that happiness with you? I'm sorry I just don't believe in being fake!
justtoexercise 11 months ago
also he said he was out of earshot. He may have chosen not to take it to a private setting out of fear of false accusations being brought up against him if he offended her. When I started my first job the way I understood the whole rule about not bringing up things that people might find offensive was not even saying anything related to a topic that might be offensive to others.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise Furthermore, you really should stop making this a Christians vs. Gays thing. There are religious left Christians who do not agree with the anti-gay interpretations/translations of the Bible. The are gay Christians. There are religious left Jews and gay Jews.
The world is not as black and white as you seem to believe.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
my appologies I thought I fixed my grammer mixstakes. I meant to say some people have tried to sue towns and cities named after saints. What's your take on that, also what do you think about protestors preventing people from speaking such as what happend at smith college in april of 2008?
justtoexercise 11 months ago
If some defense team can prove that someones head bowed and hands folded in silence can be seen as threatening to someone, and a judge takes the bait, prayer will then become harrasment. however if someone found the constant mention of a same sex partner to be threatening or disturbing they'd be wrong.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise If you can't handle being around people who are different than you, then I suggest moving to a very remote part of the world where you will never be inconvenienced.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@justtoexercise I live in NYC where people of all walks of life and faith get along and work together professionally. I work with Christians and Jews, people of all ethnicities, straight people and gay. None of those differences matters. We all discuss our lives freely when having personal conversations, and it's no big deal.
That's the America I believe in. And I think it's more than the case than not. If you are one of those people who has to constantly rail against everything, good luck.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids That's NY and not everyone has the same level of tolerance. In Massachusetts it has become a very big issue not because Christian's like to constantly rail against everything but because of inicidences that have occurred. Some are featured on Mass resistance but because of their lack of professionalism when it comes to Journalism and their plan of action to make up a story when they don't have one no one takes them seriously. Maybe those you work with in NY are afraid to say anything.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise There's intolerance everywhere. But you just nailed it on the head. TOLERANCE. Professionalism towards others. Treating strangers with respect unless given a real reason not to. My simply being gay is NOT a real reason not to.
It's not about being afraid to say something. It's knowing that in professional situations it's not appropriate to make a sexist or racist or homophobic or transphobic comment. It's not ok to trash someone for their religion or anything personal.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids Tolerance to you is acceptance but to us tolerance is being respectfull to other's but you don't have to accept what they do. To him she was trashing his religion, she was flaunting it all over that she has the right to get married. To me it's the same thing as a teacher getting fired for saying something against homosexuality being considered a good thing but it's a travestiy if a teacher get's fired for saying something that promotes homosexuality. cnt.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise Well, that's pitiful that you see things that way. That her SIMPLY mentioning her female fiance was infringing on anyone's rights.
That's actually laughable and good luck with that holding up in ANY court.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
She has the right to offend him but he doesn't have the right to offend her? How is that fair?
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise Some people are offended that black people get to eat in the same restaurants as white people. Some people are offended be interracial marriage. Some people are offended by women having equal rights as men. Some people are offended by a cross necklace or yamaka.
I don't care if those people are offended.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVidsI don't care if people are offended by those thing ither. Okay how are his rights respected if he's expected not to say anything about her talking about her fiance?
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise She has every right to refer to her fiance if personal conversations are ok. Clearly it was ok to have a personal conversation. Period. There are people against interracial marriage who would offended to find out the fiance in question was of a different race. That's THEIR problem.
You arent going to win this argument with me. But winning against me doesn't matter. You have a choice--function in a world that will not allow discrimination of gays or don't and good luck w/ that.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids I don't care if I win I'm just having a polite conversation with you, if you want me to leave you alone I understand. Maybe this guy was wrong but if some of the other things are true, such as she was from a different location and they had never met before, then perhasp she could have made some different choices. I understand though I like to brag but sometimes I refrain from bragging to someone about something because while it's a big deal to me it's not to them. cnt.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
other times I chose not to brag because I don't know them all that well.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
last comment I promise.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
I watched the video one kiss between two men doesn't make a music video about Gay liberation, The songs about expressing yourself, not letting things get you down.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
@justtoexercise No, but Katy Perry clearly doesn't condone homophobia. Just a thought. As for your praying. Pray however you like. My point is that I don't care. I think most people don't care. I'm not the least bit offended by Christianity. I sometimes go to church--shock surprise. Our wedding had Bible verses--shock surprise. There IS a religious left.
Yes, she talked about getting married, too. A topic he had no problem with at first. Then, he didn't say ANYTHING to her.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@justtoexercise Everyone has every right to discuss their life. Normal, casual conversation. They weren't having a political debate. She wasn't telling him he was wrong or trying to convince him of anything. He did just that to her and did indeed deserve being fired.
So, ATTENTION ALL HOMOPHOBIC ASSHOLES (esp those who love Katy Perry and Ke$ha): We're not editing our lives to please you. Discussing our lives (the same way you do) is not forcing anything on you. Grow the fuck up.
JerbyVids 11 months ago
@JerbyVids Not they way I look at it, the way he tell's it I think she had an incling that he might be uncomfortable with it the way he assumed she was marrying a man and the way she corrected him. If your not up to editing your lives to please us then don't expect us to edit our lives to please you, dont' expect us not to talk about the latest church picnic and don't expect us to pray silently in the break room. don't expect us not to have our bible out on our desk.
justtoexercise 11 months ago
Also don't expect us not to say "Praise Jesus" when a Co-worker mentions that his mother is cured of cancer. Don't expect us to hold back the urge to say "I'm sorry that things aren't going well for you, would you like me to keep you in my prayers?" Oh and please above all else do not think that we are pushing our beliefs on you, it's just that we don't wish to edit our lives to please you the same as you don't want to edit your lives to please us. God loves you and God bless you!
justtoexercise 11 months ago
You should have started talking about how great it was that God took care of Soddom and Gomorrah with the same excitement she spoke about her marriage. Just don't confront her.
moshesh 1 year ago
he's allowed to have his own opinion. you dont have to understand something to respect it. he respects that fact that she's gay and he tried to change the subject. he respects her. just doesnt understand it,
Anorchous 1 year ago
@Anorchous He said what she was doing as a Lesbian was bad which is offensive to her and shows Christian stupidity.
CrimesonWitcher 1 year ago
Perhaps they had issues prior to this ....I doubt if they had a good working relationship he would have been fired. Who knows.
nocturne1980 1 year ago
No sympathy here for your ignorant azz.
Stupid is-as stupid does... and you are just as stupid as they come!
NSL69 1 year ago
This is a joke, right? This guy is gay, right? HAHAHAHA Gay people should be able to get amrried! Freedom!
AblationDave 1 year ago 2
Does it really bother you that 2 guys or 2 girls want to have sex? How does that affect you in any way?
And you didn't get fired for having a belief in opposite marriage. Everyone believes in heterosexual marriage.
coos678 1 year ago
I believe that homosexualility is a bad thing. It is wrong and she will burn in the fire and lakes of hell. Maybe it is best to keep your sexuality quiet. As far as I am concerned that is Sexual Harassment. Hopefully the democraps will get FIRED soon.
carribbeandreams2004 1 year ago
I believe that abject idiocy is a bad thing. It is wrong and Carribbeandreams2004 will burn in the fire and lakes of hell. Maybe it is best for CB2004 to keep such stupidity quiet. As far as I am concerned that is harassment of intellectuals. Hopefully such dummycrats like CB2004 will get FIRED soon.
MattFrame 1 year ago
I heard this same video, almost word for word, in this video:
/watch?v=BWxOKOcf3zQ
Makes me think this is staged...
If I told a black man that I thought he was a sinner because he was black (in the workplace), wouldn't the same thing happen to me? Being homosexual is not a choice, telling homosexuals they are evil is.
darkwarrior000 1 year ago
hahaha, I disliked the original and I was #666. Disagree with that, B.
y0nd3r 1 year ago
he's not the one this happened too
He's mocking
loveMichael5809 1 year ago
oink oink
tonykeywest07 1 year ago
This would be so much more believable if you used a more butch voice, babe.
LilithMaura 1 year ago
That's how he talks.
JerbyVids 1 year ago
People - this is called satire. The gentleman making these vids is himself a homosexual. Try to recognize comedy for what it is. LOL! This guy is AWESOME!
badmojo19712008 1 year ago
No God does not create gays.
MrTabby5000 1 year ago
Gay is bad stuff.
MrTabby5000 1 year ago
The guy DOES have some points though. I mean if a gay person says "Hey I don't want some straight person hitting on me" a straight person should be able to say "Hey I don't want some gay person hitting on me". Granted it was taken too far. Also he SHOULD have the freedom to express his religion, just as the homosexual would have the freedom to tell him to shut up. Both points are equally valid. I believe in equality for the religious and the homosexuals. No special treatment for either of them
TheAyanamiRei 1 year ago
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TheAyanamiRei 1 year ago
In Jeremiah 83 it says "And then ye lord Jesus got down with his brethren and had mad sex."
--from the Queen James bible
squeakysneakerdj 1 year ago 3
LOL
JerbyVids 1 year ago
This has been flagged as spam show
@squeakysneakerdj You are of the devil and... Jeremiah lived over a thousand years before Christ
sparwood8 1 year ago
hes makin fun guys.. check his profile and youll see^^
2ndsB4 1 year ago
Your wife beater is showing.
BeekersSqueakers 1 year ago
"I think I'm gonna have to make a musical about this" LOL
sensoriussupremus 1 year ago
is this guy for really?
o0BunnieBunny0o 1 year ago
LMAO! I love your videos there so hilarious! People really need to wake up and realize that many jobs have zero tolerence for discrimination.Thinking before acting is a common sense that doesn't seem to apply to everyone.
I believe religious people need to realize their actions is an act of persecution. The religious laws they take up for themselves is between them and god, nobody else.
SimplyEasyBreezy 1 year ago
bad stuff.
MrTabby5000 1 year ago
Being a homo is wrong and jesus saves,only if the homosexual repents and become celibate.
MrTabby5000 1 year ago
Is that what you did?
JerbyVids 1 year ago
Tabby, Jesus was gay, get over it.
GodCreatesGays2 1 year ago 2
No he wasn't.
MrTabby5000 1 year ago
Yes He was. Ask Elton John.
GodCreatesGays2 1 year ago
@MrTabby5000 - then, so should heterosexuals do the same thing - repent and become celibate. Good idea. Kill off the planet with that one.
Are you also against homogenized milk? Where do you find Heterogenized milk? How about Homo Sapient beings? Homo Erectus?
Atatakaidan 1 year ago
No because heterosexual intimacy is not a sin,God said multiply not enjoy yourselves.
MrTabby5000 1 year ago
@MrTabby5000 - So, love is not important, just procreation? Really?
Homosexual intimacy is not a sin, either - and no, Leviticus 18:22 and Romans 1:26 is NOT about homosexuality. Different issues completely.
Atatakaidan 1 year ago
@Atatakaidan fag sex is not love its an abomination you pervert
tonykeywest07 1 year ago
@tonykeywest07, fag sex is BETTER than straight sex. Ask any bisexual. That's why the ancient Greeks had fag sex for PLEASURE, and heterosexual was ONLY for making babies...
lisztnut 1 year ago
@Atatakaidan I've blocked tonykeywest07.
JerbyVids 1 year ago
@JerbyVids - sounds like a rational idea. It is really sad to see humans act worse than rabid rats in a cage with such attitude. Oh, well. Maybe these people are here to help us to insure we remember that we are pretty good folks, after all.
Atatakaidan 1 year ago
bad stuff.
MrTabby5000 1 year ago
I believe homosexuality is bad stuff.
MrTabby5000 1 year ago
Bad stuff you can't seem to get enough of apparently.
JerbyVids 1 year ago
I'm still wondering how normal people think hetero marriage is... jk lol
I still love that phrase "opposite marriage."
9Ghostly9Fish9 1 year ago
It makes me giggle, too.
JerbyVids 1 year ago
if you go to the video of the guy that got fired you cannot leave a comment that is not in support of him.
ricmarc 2 years ago
i for one am getting sick and tired of "christians" saying gays are shoving their sex lives down their throats just for saying they are gay.
ricmarc 2 years ago
going through some of the comments it seems obvious that some of the posters do not realize that this video is a LAMPOON of the guy that got fired and that this is not him. this video is making fun of him. great job! loved the part about the musical!
ricmarc 2 years ago 2
Butt sex and sticking a tongue in a vagina are both perversions.I never done any of these sick perversions.The butt is to expel waste,the vagina is to deliver a baby,the tongue helps you talk and eat,and the penis is for reproduction.
MrTabby5000 2 years ago
Tabby, you Do know that there are straight people who do oral & anal sex to their partners, right? It's possible with ALL gender combos. Not just a "gay thing." Now, you can go back to flaunting in your ignorance & 'morality.'
9Ghostly9Fish9 1 year ago
@9Ghostly9Fish9
Yes and thats wrong too.All sodomy is wrong.
MrTabby5000 1 year ago
What a boring sex life you must have! lol
JerbyVids 1 year ago
@JerbyVids
Heterosexuality is good stuff.
MrTabby5000 1 year ago
Yes. For heterosexuals.
JerbyVids 1 year ago
Thank God for prop 8
MrTabby5000 2 years ago
God had nothing to do with Prop H8.
JerbyVids 2 years ago
Maybe not,but i thank God for the voters,not even california liberals want their queers to marry.Just think rosie odonnel and ellen will never marry their partners.i get so giddy when I think of that.
I am a proud homophobe.
MrTabby5000 2 years ago
You are an ignorant one then, seeing how Ellen already legally married Portia before Prop 8 and her marriage is still legal.
JerbyVids 2 years ago
It might be in california,but the federal government doesn't recognize it.
MrTabby5000 2 years ago
For now. Your side is losing to what is inevitable.
Tell me: what IS the wrong side of history like? Or does all the hate make it seem rosy and cheerful?
JerbyVids 2 years ago
I doubt it,the federal government not even obama is for rewriting marriage from its christian roots.Allowing a person to marry to justify a perversion is a sick.I mean why not let adults marry underage children.Why not make polyagamy legal?
MrTabby5000 2 years ago
Children can not consent. Polygamy is its own issue and should be debated on its own merits or lack of. Personally, I don't care if people want to have multiple spouses as long as it's all consensual. It's none of my business.
Your beliefs do not match history. And they certainly do not match the future. Full equality is coming whether 2 years from now or 20.
JerbyVids 2 years ago
@JerbyVids
But Im making it my business.
MrTabby5000 2 years ago
What about your life? Do you have one? And is it really that perfect that you should be judging other people's lives?
Is all this really what Jesus would do?
I think not. But I bet you do. Poor dear.
JerbyVids 2 years ago
@JerbyVids
Yes, and I dont want to hear anyone telling me about their love life with their significant other,back in the day when I was a punk kid,I was telling my frinds about my sexual conquests,as punk kids do,but as I grew older its no ones business.
MrTabby5000 2 years ago
People talk about their lives. Talking about your partner is not equivocal to talking about your "sexual conquests".
JerbyVids 2 years ago
@JerbyVids
He stated he didnt want to hear it.
MrTabby5000 2 years ago