ik you may not see it, but many sooo of us care . ik you dont know me. but i care, and if all of these people care for you, than think of all the people your lives have touched
no matter how lonely you get.. there is always someone who loves you, weather it be god, or a stranger on the street someone loves you.. i cant say its selfish, because i dont know your situation. but i do know its not worth it. not to your families, not to your kids, or friends... because you lost your job, or because people are teasing you.. ull be better that those jerks one day.. dont end your life before you get there.
I still don't understand how people get so upset and wont to kill them selfs. But I have a copal of friends that have tried to commit sew-aside. 1 tried to kill herself by strangling herself with a thick chain another time see set fire to 1 of her pant lags there were many other times for her. Gladly she still hasn't succeeded at any of her plans. The other is sort of mild now he has tried several times to throw him self off his two story house , his dad being aware of his depression herd foo
In memory of Scotty Hollingsworth (AKA Holly). We miss you and wish you were here with us!! This July 7th will make it 5 years, can't believe it's been that long.
My cousin, best friends grandfather, my neighbors dad, and brother's dad all killed themselves... I have 2 friends, and a boyfriend that have attempted suicide... It's all too common. When I'm a little older and more educated I think I'm gonna in some way help people like this, maybe work at an institute or something to help them... Something needs to be done.... This is ridiculous..
Okay, I don't like country music but this song is truly Ahamzing. I've been suicidal for 3years. I know a lot of you say suicide is selfish but look at it from the suicidal persons Point of view. They are so sad. So hurt on the inside no one bothers to notice no one bothers to care (how they feel) so they try to make themselfs feel better [cutting] but it's temporary its the only thing making them better. But when they want people to care about them when they don't bother to care about the s
@XxXxAustiiXxXx i just wabted to tell you if you still feel that way id really want to ask you to message me or add me on Fb and id like to talk to you. I used to be suicidal for years, now i dedicate my life to makin everyone happy. ^~^ Everyone deserves to live and be happy.
@XxXxAustiiXxXx my brother commited suicide in july and you truely have no idea all the people that care about you just like he didnt but dont do it because you have no idea the amount of love people have for you (and i know i dont you) but my brother felt like no one loved him or cared and when he shot himself we relizaed all the people that loved him that he never even had an idea loved him and it shouldnt have to come to that for you to realize
R.I.P Brett Hughes . . . . lived a young life. killed him self at the age of 19, died 2 days before Christmas. . . . . How did u get the lonely and no body know?
This song makes me cry because i have thought about suicide quite a bit. but listening to this song makes me relize what it would do to my friends and my family. i couldnt hurt them like that. i am thankful for this song, and for my loved ones because without this song and my loved ones i would have probly have commited suicide. :'/
This make's me cry. I just heard it today for the first time. And I cried so hard. Because I had a friend named Justin that took his life this year. And I'm real good friend's with his Sister. And I was pretty good friend's with him as well. He use to talk to me on Facebook all the time, on those little IM thing's. And I just didn't know, I couldn't see just how bad his pain was. I feel at fault, as I'm sure a lot of people do that knew someone that took their life. R.I.P. Justin. ='-(
But They Won't Just Be Bringing Pain To The Ones They "Love" They Would Bringing Pain To Those Who Have Lost Someone Dear To Them To Suicide. "Why?" or "How?" You Are Probably Asking Right Now Because Seeing or Hearing Of Someone Else Committing Suicide Will Make Them Reminisce About That One or Few People In Their Life That Committed Suicide. But Back To My Point About Suicide Being Selfish, Well Actually That Is My Point. Plain And Simple Committing Suicide Is Selfish
This Comment Goes Out To All The People Who Think Suicide "Isn't Selfish" and For Those Who Are Talking About People They Have Lost To Suicide.......
For The Ones Who Think Suicide "Isn't Selfish!":
Let Me Tell YOU How Committing Suicide IS SELFISH! It's Selfish Because Before Someone Commits Suicide They're Only Thinking Of One Person And One Person Only! And That's Themselves. They're Not Thinking About The Pain They Will Be Bring To Their Family And Friends
@MrZoomZoom92 Is it necessary to capitalize every word?
Suicide is selfish. It's taking the easy way out of a problem and it doesn't solve anything. It brings pain to everyone who loves you you, so you're right.
@blackm00n5 no not nessisarily when you have people telling you that they want you to die and that they hate you and that you will never be anything in life other than a failure then you have feel you have no decision but to commit suicide because you think it will make people happy. and this is coming from someone who has thought about suicide and who has had loved ones and friends kill theirselves.
I have a wonderful family and a beautiful girlfriend I love now. Which is all I really wanted to begin. Was love and acceptance. Life has its ups and downs but taking anyone elses life and/or your own, is never the answer. All you need is love. If life is too hard to bare right now, it will get better. Even if it takes a long time, don't give up or forget who you are. I've learned to pay it forward to those that look like they need someone to listen and need help or have troubles.
My suicidal thoughts from all those years of being a loner and not fitting in and having barely any friends turned into Homicidal/suicidal thoughts. Where I wanted revenge for all the years of humiliation. I tried to treat everyone with respect, and I was never given respect in return. Thankfully things improved for me and my friend. I encourage everyone out there who has felt like me and my friend to reach out and help those who look like they need help.
this is a great song but its rough to listen to. i always loved it but when a friend of mine killed himself its all i could think of. i mean all i could say was how do you get that lonely? i just dont understand it, everybody loved him i dont know how he felt like that was the only way out, the only way to ease his pain. when i heard he died i thought an accident or an overdose but it killed me when i found out he took his life, i mean thats such a waste he was an amazing guy. i love you mike
This is such a sad song, but such a good one. I wonder what Blaine must've been doing when he first heard this song. I would have to be so brave to sing it for an audience
Im an idiot and your saying that a mother or father that takes their life isnt selfish and they leave their children with out a parent your a dumb mother fucker and If they r depressed get the fuck over it
@TheRobertBowers you are a complete idiot, people who attempt or suceed in suicide, are not selfish. Your a stupid prick, i hope your not as much of an ass as you seem, else i feel sorry for your friends and family if they ever get depressed and attempt suicide.
ive had 3 friends take their own lives, ive had family members take their own lives and at times i think of those ive lost and the pain sitts there and doesnt go away! its always there. i dont know how to cope with it. i cant talk to anybody cause when i do people insist on callng be a bitch or your a pussy or some dumb shit like that but they dont know how it feels, sometimes i wish it could be over but then i look at the little things and dont do anything but sitt here and listen to this song
My bestfriend attempted suicide. I dont know what id do without her, Anyone that believes they dont have a purpose, slide you had over your heart. Thats your purpose.
This song reminds me of my cousin Brett. He was more then just my cousin, he was my best friend. I miss you babyboy. I wish you could see how many people actually do love and care about you. <3
my dear friend john shot him self 9 days till my birthday ,and this is what i have to remind me. tho myself i have thought of doing the same thing for 5 years
Oh baby, just because your parents don't say it doesn't mean they don't love you! Please try to find a trusting adult that you can confide in. Life is worth living no matter how painful it sometimes is!
My parents never tell me they love me. They often encourage me when I ask what if questions about suicide. I found this song when I was looking for a nice song to die to, but now that I've heard it I don't have the heart to. To this day I have the helium tanks and suicide note as a reminder.
i miss u dusty :( i cryed so hard when he died. he took his on life i wish wouldnt have hade to bring yellow heart for that reson :( he called up his girlfriend and said im sorry and a shot rang after some sorrys and crying :(
Exactly 1 year ago, my cousin, Natalie Rose, 19 years old, shot herself...Nobody saw any of it coming...She posted the song "If I Die Young" on her facebook profile the day before she died...Then the next day, she was gone...I feel horrible for not spending more time with her... She was the most bubbly girl any of us in the family, or out, knew, and still, nobody knows why she had to go...:'( I miss you so much Natalie...I love you! --Shy
It was scary actually, one of my friends showed me this song last week and it made me cry wondering "How COULD someone get that lonely?" And only two days later my other friend texted me telling me that in exactly one month she was going to kill herself. The whole time I was crying and trying to make her change her mind this song was running through my head... Today she told me she changed her mind and was going to therapy to help her with her problems <3 I love you Emmilee
i've listened to this song a million times and might be the only thing keeping me form committing scuicide. this song makes my think of what i would be doing to my friends if i did. i am truely greatful for this song.
@emmaissocoollike1 Please don't. I don't know you, but I care about you. My best friend tried to commit suicide last night, and it hurts so bad. Please don't ever do it. I love him so much and I can't even talk to him because he's in the hospital. I'm so thankful he's still alive. He's the only man that's ever made me feel safe in this world. I care about you, and your life, even though you're a stranger.
Whenever I feel like I can't go on, I listen to Tokio Hotel's Don't Jump and think of the children I worked with at the child care last semester. What would they say if their favorite teacher killed herself? I hate to see them hurt. I don't want to be the reason for their tears.
i know a lot of people in the comments are talking about friends and family who killed themself or died and i want to make a video to this song with all the names of whoever replys to this. So if you want your friend remebered please reply with the name and age of the person and i Will add it to the video
Some of you people are so ignorant and some of you are so right. suicide is not a selfish thing it is a thing that people commit because of a depressing or messed up life. it is NOT out of selfishness. and if you think that you are IGNORANT! and i am most definetly not saying its right but its an act of lonelyness, depression, or lack of self help!! God Bless everyone and don't let it get to you... remember there's someone out here that needs you!(:
It really annoys me when people commit suicide, are they really that selfish to leave behind their family thinking its all their fault ? I understand because of bullying butt people w/ diseases & cancer, etc would love to have a life... even if they were being bullied.
Hater. and really two of my friends tryed. They were never selfish they were hurting the reached out and held on but it overwelmed them to much it hurts like the devil himself was killing you and when the pain gets to intense they let go and think let it be over they give up hope but let me say this
@shelbyyarlene88 and the reason they did was because they were asualted and yes i understand they gave there life but the reason they did was because it hurt to much its like there own personal disease they cant rid of themselves
@jczarnecki101 I know what you are saying & relize you do have a very good point, but like the song says - "How is having no life at all is better than the life u had?"
@gvilledawgs14 Holy Fuck ! i though we established this shit ! I just did . . get over it ! "How is having no life at all is better than the life u had?" Okay now shutup please ? Thnks(:
No one knew how i felt when i was(still am)bullied!but i never told anyone!and know if i am geting bullied i tell my friend and she helps me!I never thought about killing myself and im very happy about that!but very said for the ones who died of bullying and never told anyone!plz who every died because of this plz rest in pease my fredom fly!
this song was wrote about a boy from my town and yesterday was his birthday! were the greenfield mcclain tigers! he was my cousins friend! like this in memory of his birthday!
i was 16 and met the boy of my dreams..was prego 3 months later she was born 5 weeks early , he loved her his baby girl :) 6months later he took his life. (baby) is now 18 and in her 2nd year of collage. i hope he see's her. she lives on in him
On July 17th BWM took his life in his bedroom. He left behind devastated family and friends. His family blamed the girlfriend, whom he spoke with last. She wasn't even allowed to go to the funeral. One has to be very alone and hopeless to leave it all behind. I am sorry for all the folks who have experienced this loss.
May 4th was the worst day my town went through we lost a very funny teenager allways had a smile on his face every time u say him now when we want to see his smile we have to look in a picture no one should go through what he went through and no town should go through what my town went through. R.I.P. CL we miss u bud
Bullycide is getting worse and more common. It would take a death in most schools to stop the bullies. I was that lonely a few months ago. Almost ended it all in the girl's room. I survived only because my friends were yards away in the cafeteria.
this song makes me upset i get overly upset durring breakups but like someone told me once im only 13 i dont need to be worrying about boys at this age and thts right ive thought about ending my life several times even threatened to but then i see my friends and i think tht im not ready to let go of a life that hasnt even started yet
This song strikes way to close to home...i had a friend kill himself when we were only in 5th grade, thn one of my best friends who was like my big brother killed himself bc his gf cheated on him, and thn another best friend/big brother bc hiss gf broke up with him and an uncle who killed himself bc my aunt died.......thts exactly wat ive beeen wondering..how did they get tht lonely? wish things clda ben diff...........
sometimes its not being lonely, sometimes its just you feel so hopeless and that even your friends or family or anyone you thought you cared about suddenly can't help... coming form someone who even with all my friends i still feel utterly alone.
i was bullyed since kindergarden ending it crosst my mind a few times but i always talked myself out of it for nobody noreason is worth hurtting myself or anyone over so to every1 who reads this remember just cuz u cant see the hurt when u or some1 els bullys a person dosnt mean its not there some can handle it and some cant and those who cant most of the time end the pain by endin there life so plz stop the bullyin and spread the word and get bhind me 2 help stop the hurt thanks guys
@larryb921 wow i am truely sorry. i have been bullyed too for about 17 years now bc i have hearing aids but i am here with u on the bullyinq we NEED to put a stop to it.!
This reminds me about thet guy that took his own life for the whole internet, i saw that video, I cant stop thinking about it stil, this quetions comes up and I really wish I could be someones friend to stop people to feel that way.. :(
my 15 yr old Shelbie hung herself in Nov 2010,and 6 months later on may 19th 2011 my 17 yr old boy Tim hung himself..we played this fitting song..so sad for me..i love and miss my babies so much its a pain thatll never go away.listen to your kids your friends pay attention,and remember,bullying is no joke neither is suicide,its a deadly one..rest in peace,mom loves you guys..i love you and im so so sorry
@ape1432 i am so sorry. i had a BESTFRIEND well i called her my sister at one point we did everything together and she did this i was heart broke i can imagin how u feel
my Best friend Allen does drugs</3 I love that kid DEARLY :) Without him? I'd be lost, but still. I don't judge him because of his drugs.... Anyways. I'm scared about him and the second verse gets me</3 He's had to go to the hospital, because it and I'm scared he'll over do it.. </3
he put in his note he left for it to be played for her. i think that was the worst thing bout today, bc she just freaked out basically. she is also pregnant which made it worse. that song caused a fight today bc some of us knew it would be played and some didnt want it to be played. but bc he ask for it to be played they did. it was sad, but true. r.i.p those whom have been lost to suicide.
where i live we have just lost 2 teenage boys due to suicide. just 3 days apart from pressure of other kids. the one just turned 18 in november & graduated high school bout 3 weeks ago. he was also my cousins. the other was a friend. this song has been playing everywhere you go. bc where i live is made up of bout 6 small towns that make up the high school. so everywhere is playing this, and other songs. & today at my cosuins funeral brantley gilbert my kind of crazy was played for his gf by him.
i dont think anyone knows.... how do you get that lonely?.. keep on doing the same routine every day.. looking at stuff from 3 years ago when life was so much easier.. and not seeing a way to make it by day to day today... my wife can work and barely pay bills..even with my job .. or she can not work and not pay bills. but feed the kids.. this world friggin sucks !
Here's how I got that lonely: I've been picked on since fourth grade for reasons unknown. I never had a friend who ever stood up for me. My parents talked to their parents, but it didn't work. Then in eighth grade, I finally got a friend who stood up for me. But I still feel lonely because I fucked up a relationship and I still feel like the residential fuckup because I don't seem to do anything right.
Hi my name is Tammarah im 14 years olded this my story i tried to comment suicide so many times its not funny I've bend bullyed for 9 year i masked my sadness i tried telling the adults tried fighting them back non of it worked so i tried over dosing on meds. i did it in front of my older cuzin i fought her beged her to let me die so i don't feel the pain no more i beg the Doctor's to let me die they said i was in deep depression i was so lonely not having friends, i felt empty inside still do
i know exactly how you get that lonely and i know how you can hurt that bad i've tried suicide few times when i was a teenager now im 23 and i feel better about life
It is to get that lonely in a world full of so many people, sometimes there is no one there for you, I just found this song and it reminds me , you turn around and every time you help they all poop on you!
As far as the lyrics go: 2:27 to 2:32 : "I'm not blaming anybody--we all do the best we can.." Not true! What if your parents set you up for failure and tell you that you will not graduate from high school and yell at you for failing all your classes---and then two days letter your high school report card your high school report card arrives with A's and A plusses in AP classes in extracurricular activities-& your parents are upper middle class and refuse to buy you school supplies, etc?
My cousin that I love soooooo much and miss dearly took his life and they played this song at his funeral. Cole Ryan Weddle was such a great kid with a bright future and we never know why someone commits, but I guess we never really will, I love youu cole...
My friend Kristen; Was Bullyed. She never told anybody how she truely felt. She Shot herself Monday, March 14th After school. She was acting herself all day, just gorgeous and Fun and smiley.. I never saw any of this comming..and I feel so guilty that i didn't see the pain she was hiding behind that Gorgeous smile she had. 14 Years Young; And She took her life, feeling there was no way out.. I miss her more then ever! Rest In Peace Babe; I love you! Save me a spot Kristen!
@basketballkmm10 last night i found out that a 10 year old girl from my town killed herself over bullying i did not know her but all i want to do is cry i have been a victim of bullying my whole life so i know how it is i am trying my hardest to put a stop to this BS and dont feel bad most kids hide their pain where no one knows and its nobodies fault hang it their it will get better stand up to the bullies its no joke and people need to realize that
@basketballkmm10 my friend told me that her stepdad was 'doing things' to her during school one day - (this later turned out to be utter bull and now i hate her for it) but i felt like such a crap friend for not noticing that she was in so much pain, just hope you know that even though she was going through hell she had friends like you to help her carry on for as long as she did - please don't feel guilty you being her friend would have gave her strength :)
Believe me when I say this, no matter how bad your problems are it's not worth killing yourself. if those friends weren't there for u then they werent ur real friends. My advice is to wait a little while longer, and try to be as happy as you can. I'm also moving in a few months and thought of killing myself, but I realized that no matter how bad some problems may seem; you just have to be positive and it will all work out. :)
Once a person dies by suicide, they tend to be swept under the rug and people can't even say their names out loud. Suicide is such a shameful word even today in our day and age. So those of you who are considering suicide to "show them" or to make him or her feel bad because they didn't want to be their love anymore, it doesnt work that way. A week after you are gone, life gets back to normal for everyone. School tests and activities, dances football games or whatever it is that goes
@babieboo72 on in your world will continue to go on with or without you. I am not saying this to make anybody feel less important because that is not true. I am saying this because those left behind to live, do just that. They continue living. Those who have chosen to die, are dead. We all have had someone we love either leave us or turn their backs on us but its part of life. If they didn't care to stay, they sure as hell wont grieve that long. Suicide is stupid.
There are people that love you, and they deserve to have you around for a long time. You are never alone even if you feel like you are. Tell someone what you're going through, they can help. You are a wonderful, unique person and the world deserves to know the person you are and the person you will be in the future. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. I wish you the best.
hey this song was played at my friends funeral in 2008 he hung himself it hurt me more but when i needed my friends they were never there for me and now im feeling as lonely as he did and know one knows the pain i hold inside because i push everyone away from me i need advise because i know that when i move out in 6 months if i dont get the help i need i will end my life i dont want people to be aww man thats rough i just want advice
sad song, though i don't believe its the answer. but my life sucks to shits ; i still don't believe in it! but to all those who have attemtpted suicide stay strong- because no life is worth ending...R.I.P Joshua Amaral..♥ love you bud miss you a lot..
I'm 16 and have attempted suicide twice but somehow miraculously survived both. If you're feeling/have felt like this just know i firmly believe everything happens for a reason, maybe one day like 10 years from now youll meet someone in your position who you can help cos youll understand like no-one else can, cos youve been there. and you might be the one they need to save their life.
@pimp86277 Why do you have to be a homosexual if you dont like this song? Hm? Why do you associate 'asshole' with 'homosexual"? You're implying that it is bad if they don't like this song, and therefore implying that being a homosexual is bad. It's people like you that are the reason people commit suicide. Who the fuck cares if someone is gay or not? >.>
this song reminds me of my friend codie he died 3 months ago :'( he was my BEST friend in 8th grade he moved to ohio and we talked on the phone and texted but he never told me he felt bad and when i found out he was gone i cryed and still cry everyday there is a song we listened to in gym everyday (bottoms up) i cant listen to that song ever again it makes me miss him more then i already do ..... i loved him he was my bestest friend i ever had he was my only best friend ..... i miss him so much
I know exactly where you are coming from and no you are not a horrible friend . . . . anyone in that position would feel that way and every fight im sure you are thinkin this might finally be my chance , but maybe you could just tel him/her cause you never know what can happen!!!
Sure..it's easy to forget someone that left you, because they're no longer in your life..but the pain and heartache of seeing and talking to a friend every day that you're in love with, but is already in a relationship is getting to be unbearable..I've been going through this for months now, and I don't know how much longer I can take it..I try to be a good friend, but I'm not, I'm a horrible friend..every time she gets in a fight with him, I feel bad, but at the same time I feel happy..I feel
My best friend of only 15 passed this week. We were best friends, we told each other everything. Until the night her guy that she really really loved died of cancer. So she killed herself, and I always think of her. And I hope she does the same. Wherever she is now....
There once was a man that stepped off a bridge to take his own life and the instant he did he realized that all his problems could be fixed and he could be happy again.. The man survived and is now my counselor and the only reason several people I know haven't committed suicide..
It's quite hard living day by day being in love with someone that's already taken..Waking up every morning knowing that she's waking up laying next to someone else..Faking happiness and acting like everything's fine when you're around her and him, even tho you're actually dying inside, your heart aching..Yet you say nothing about how you feel for fear of losing her friendship, because at least you have that.
im not far from ending this painful pointless life. i just dont let anyone know because i dont want anyone stopping me. im just waiting for a reason to live
@ludaurcandygrl Because, I love you as a human being. I may not know who you are, what you look like,what youre feeling, what kind of situation you are in, and i may very well never meet you in real life. We all got somebody, and across the internet You got Me. Remorse in that and know that atleast 1 person in the 11 billion on this earth. Does care about your existance. Im not here to be your councellor im here to be your friend.
How do you get that lonely is a thought that i think crosses everyone'd mind when they hear of a suicide that has been commited....but i'll mtell you it doesn't take much! i tried committing suicide 4 times and was never successful and i have come to realize it takes alot to end your own life no matter how shitty it is! But i'd like to put a shoutout to the troubled youth/adults out there thinkin bout endin' it all.....it ain't worth it! life ain't as bad as y'all think it is!
Love this song I' think of suicide alot too but I would never do it because of what it would do to my family and friends and who am I to cause other people so much pain it would be wrong of me to be so selfish :/ "Thirteen Reasons Why" it's a really great book, it shows how one thing you do to a person can affect their entire life :(
@brokensoul335 Thats so brave of you to really think so much about others so much. You are a great sort of person and i can tell that it would be more thn just a shame to lose someone like you from this world
@BigBulgeCheeks same here... thank god. i cant imagine how my family and friends would feel if i actually went through with it... thats what keeps me going.
December 2010. My bestfriend put a gun to his head, pulled the trigger and died instantly, the day after we went to state football and lost. His mom died the same day. I couldnt go to the funeral due to final exams.I still see him walking past my home with his southern accent saying Hey bud, why dontcha hurry up for school.It was about 4 in the morning.
I was thinking bout suicide , because of a girl , when i saw this , and i cried. You'd better just forget and go ahead , and remember that dreams are something far from the reality.
i didnt stop then... but i kept going till i was so paranoid i thought that there were people following me around trying to kill me... that everyone wanted me dead.... so i slit my troat... my wrists, and dug the knife into my leg trying to get the artey..... mom found me... on the verge of death... bleeding out on the bathroom floor... seeing all the docters.. and all the people there praying for me... hoping i would live... made me realize... i am loved my so many more people than i thought.
you would think that you are exactly the same but you would get so thin you would look like a jew from a nazi camp, you would have scars all over your body, from where you thought bugs were crawling under your skin and eventually you would black out... and wake up in a back ally bleeding to death from where you were stabbed cause you pissed of the wrong people but you laugh cause you are too dopped up to feel the pain or to even care...
This song is very hard to listen to. My son Brady McKee shot himself on august 4th 2010. What are these kids thinking? We need more songs like this and more suicide prevention for our kids. They are dying left and right from suicide. Its not right!
I'm having a rough time with life right now and my son is all that keeps me going but he's not home right now and so I'm drinking and IRS not good!! I've tried sucker before but it didn't work thank god but I feel I'd be better off gone and so would everyone else bc they wouldn't have to put up or go through my screw ups with me!!!
@1HaydensMommy ..i no what you kid probly feels like right now, my mom was going through the same thing, and tried commiting suicide 3 different times, I was afraid to leave her alone, and that stressed me out majorly. My mom would say things like I would have a better future without her in my life, and I finally got so scared and just told her that I would have no future at all if she died, because she is my future, and if she died, than I no i would end up dying too.
Suicide is "the permanent solution to a temporary problem"
MrInspirationMan 12 hours ago
ik you may not see it, but many sooo of us care . ik you dont know me. but i care, and if all of these people care for you, than think of all the people your lives have touched
glambertlover507 17 hours ago
no matter how lonely you get.. there is always someone who loves you, weather it be god, or a stranger on the street someone loves you.. i cant say its selfish, because i dont know your situation. but i do know its not worth it. not to your families, not to your kids, or friends... because you lost your job, or because people are teasing you.. ull be better that those jerks one day.. dont end your life before you get there.
glambertlover507 17 hours ago
I never won't to commit sew-side
1lilwarriorchick1 2 days ago
I still don't understand how people get so upset and wont to kill them selfs. But I have a copal of friends that have tried to commit sew-aside. 1 tried to kill herself by strangling herself with a thick chain another time see set fire to 1 of her pant lags there were many other times for her. Gladly she still hasn't succeeded at any of her plans. The other is sort of mild now he has tried several times to throw him self off his two story house , his dad being aware of his depression herd foo
1lilwarriorchick1 2 days ago
Rip Cody Sansbury Jan 19. I'll never understand why. All I know is there is so many of us that love and cared for you :(
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Benjieboy1000 1 week ago
@TheRobertBowers get a freakin heart dude.
MorganSegrest11 1 week ago
R.I.P Amanda Jones 1995-2012 we will never forget you!
MorganSegrest11 1 week ago
In memory of Scotty Hollingsworth (AKA Holly). We miss you and wish you were here with us!! This July 7th will make it 5 years, can't believe it's been that long.
99rondared 1 week ago
R.I.P. David Suetta. we will miss you!! 4/4/1994-1/12/12
Leannethequeen 2 weeks ago
@TheRobertBowers fuck off
Leannethequeen 2 weeks ago
My cousin, best friends grandfather, my neighbors dad, and brother's dad all killed themselves... I have 2 friends, and a boyfriend that have attempted suicide... It's all too common. When I'm a little older and more educated I think I'm gonna in some way help people like this, maybe work at an institute or something to help them... Something needs to be done.... This is ridiculous..
MsBackwoodsRebel 2 weeks ago
A permanent solution to a TEMPORARY problem.. Its never as bad as it seems, no matter what.
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MsTrueAmbition 1 month ago
Oh and. R.I.P Joanne McKinney. October.30.1954-November.7.2007 -33
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I love you Nanny
XxXxAustiiXxXx 1 month ago
Okay, I don't like country music but this song is truly Ahamzing. I've been suicidal for 3years. I know a lot of you say suicide is selfish but look at it from the suicidal persons Point of view. They are so sad. So hurt on the inside no one bothers to notice no one bothers to care (how they feel) so they try to make themselfs feel better [cutting] but it's temporary its the only thing making them better. But when they want people to care about them when they don't bother to care about the s
XxXxAustiiXxXx 1 month ago 6
@XxXxAustiiXxXx i just wabted to tell you if you still feel that way id really want to ask you to message me or add me on Fb and id like to talk to you. I used to be suicidal for years, now i dedicate my life to makin everyone happy. ^~^ Everyone deserves to live and be happy.
PurpleRoni1 1 week ago
@XxXxAustiiXxXx my brother commited suicide in july and you truely have no idea all the people that care about you just like he didnt but dont do it because you have no idea the amount of love people have for you (and i know i dont you) but my brother felt like no one loved him or cared and when he shot himself we relizaed all the people that loved him that he never even had an idea loved him and it shouldnt have to come to that for you to realize
missingyoujared 1 day ago
R.I.P Brett Hughes . . . . lived a young life. killed him self at the age of 19, died 2 days before Christmas. . . . . How did u get the lonely and no body know?
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Y'all are some fucking gay ass weak people.
TheRobertBowers 1 month ago
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wow dick you don't know what poeple go thru when they are like this so shut up cuz your gay! D:<
sistergirl778 1 week ago
This song makes me cry because i have thought about suicide quite a bit. but listening to this song makes me relize what it would do to my friends and my family. i couldnt hurt them like that. i am thankful for this song, and for my loved ones because without this song and my loved ones i would have probly have commited suicide. :'/
KirstynIsabel2013 1 month ago
This make's me cry. I just heard it today for the first time. And I cried so hard. Because I had a friend named Justin that took his life this year. And I'm real good friend's with his Sister. And I was pretty good friend's with him as well. He use to talk to me on Facebook all the time, on those little IM thing's. And I just didn't know, I couldn't see just how bad his pain was. I feel at fault, as I'm sure a lot of people do that knew someone that took their life. R.I.P. Justin. ='-(
TheDanyellebrooke 1 month ago
But They Won't Just Be Bringing Pain To The Ones They "Love" They Would Bringing Pain To Those Who Have Lost Someone Dear To Them To Suicide. "Why?" or "How?" You Are Probably Asking Right Now Because Seeing or Hearing Of Someone Else Committing Suicide Will Make Them Reminisce About That One or Few People In Their Life That Committed Suicide. But Back To My Point About Suicide Being Selfish, Well Actually That Is My Point. Plain And Simple Committing Suicide Is Selfish
MrZoomZoom92 1 month ago
This Comment Goes Out To All The People Who Think Suicide "Isn't Selfish" and For Those Who Are Talking About People They Have Lost To Suicide.......
For The Ones Who Think Suicide "Isn't Selfish!":
Let Me Tell YOU How Committing Suicide IS SELFISH! It's Selfish Because Before Someone Commits Suicide They're Only Thinking Of One Person And One Person Only! And That's Themselves. They're Not Thinking About The Pain They Will Be Bring To Their Family And Friends
MrZoomZoom92 1 month ago
@MrZoomZoom92 Is it necessary to capitalize every word?
Suicide is selfish. It's taking the easy way out of a problem and it doesn't solve anything. It brings pain to everyone who loves you you, so you're right.
blackm00n5 1 month ago
@blackm00n5 no not nessisarily when you have people telling you that they want you to die and that they hate you and that you will never be anything in life other than a failure then you have feel you have no decision but to commit suicide because you think it will make people happy. and this is coming from someone who has thought about suicide and who has had loved ones and friends kill theirselves.
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I have a wonderful family and a beautiful girlfriend I love now. Which is all I really wanted to begin. Was love and acceptance. Life has its ups and downs but taking anyone elses life and/or your own, is never the answer. All you need is love. If life is too hard to bare right now, it will get better. Even if it takes a long time, don't give up or forget who you are. I've learned to pay it forward to those that look like they need someone to listen and need help or have troubles.
guitarblazer4 1 month ago
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My suicidal thoughts from all those years of being a loner and not fitting in and having barely any friends turned into Homicidal/suicidal thoughts. Where I wanted revenge for all the years of humiliation. I tried to treat everyone with respect, and I was never given respect in return. Thankfully things improved for me and my friend. I encourage everyone out there who has felt like me and my friend to reach out and help those who look like they need help.
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guitarblazer4 1 month ago
this is a great song but its rough to listen to. i always loved it but when a friend of mine killed himself its all i could think of. i mean all i could say was how do you get that lonely? i just dont understand it, everybody loved him i dont know how he felt like that was the only way out, the only way to ease his pain. when i heard he died i thought an accident or an overdose but it killed me when i found out he took his life, i mean thats such a waste he was an amazing guy. i love you mike
rebeliciouschik 1 month ago
This is such a sad song, but such a good one. I wonder what Blaine must've been doing when he first heard this song. I would have to be so brave to sing it for an audience
BlinnBelle 1 month ago
Maybe u should b next
TheRobertBowers 1 month ago
I lost 18 people to suicide in 3 years. It's the hardest thing in the world to deal with. I just don't get it
ThatOneGirl8289 1 month ago
Im an idiot and your saying that a mother or father that takes their life isnt selfish and they leave their children with out a parent your a dumb mother fucker and If they r depressed get the fuck over it
TheRobertBowers 1 month ago
@TheRobertBowers you are a complete idiot, people who attempt or suceed in suicide, are not selfish. Your a stupid prick, i hope your not as much of an ass as you seem, else i feel sorry for your friends and family if they ever get depressed and attempt suicide.
bipolarrob3rt 2 months ago
i wish i didnt know how you get that lonely.>_<
cottoncandymusic94 2 months ago
ive had 3 friends take their own lives, ive had family members take their own lives and at times i think of those ive lost and the pain sitts there and doesnt go away! its always there. i dont know how to cope with it. i cant talk to anybody cause when i do people insist on callng be a bitch or your a pussy or some dumb shit like that but they dont know how it feels, sometimes i wish it could be over but then i look at the little things and dont do anything but sitt here and listen to this song
wildturkey11001 2 months ago
may be rest in peace now :(
isabellanlathan64 2 months ago
Your friend is selfish and an idiot
TheRobertBowers 2 months ago
My bestfriend attempted suicide. I dont know what id do without her, Anyone that believes they dont have a purpose, slide you had over your heart. Thats your purpose.
brittneyheartsU 2 months ago
This song reminds me of my cousin Brett. He was more then just my cousin, he was my best friend. I miss you babyboy. I wish you could see how many people actually do love and care about you. <3
123maegen 2 months ago
my dear friend john shot him self 9 days till my birthday ,and this is what i have to remind me. tho myself i have thought of doing the same thing for 5 years
unlabledpack 2 months ago
Omg. I saw this on Tumblr: "When you feel like you have no purpose, put your hand over your heart, that's purpose."
<3
wtfRoya 2 months ago
My cousin killed himself when I was 12, he was the first person I knew who actully died. I will never forget how hard my family wept for him.
Laura7AndSavanna4 2 months ago
Oh baby, just because your parents don't say it doesn't mean they don't love you! Please try to find a trusting adult that you can confide in. Life is worth living no matter how painful it sometimes is!
martinbadillor 3 months ago
My parents never tell me they love me. They often encourage me when I ask what if questions about suicide. I found this song when I was looking for a nice song to die to, but now that I've heard it I don't have the heart to. To this day I have the helium tanks and suicide note as a reminder.
VelMidreamer 3 months ago
@VelMidreamer Stay strong. :)
BreakYourHeartHannah 2 months ago
Simon </3 RIP yd you leave us ?
ytheface0629 3 months ago
i miss u dusty :( i cryed so hard when he died. he took his on life i wish wouldnt have hade to bring yellow heart for that reson :( he called up his girlfriend and said im sorry and a shot rang after some sorrys and crying :(
rip dusty
whyed u have to leave
simpleplan1016 3 months ago
when you feel that no one else loves you, remember that God does and he has a purpose and a plan for you(:
musiicccloverr 3 months ago
Exactly 1 year ago, my cousin, Natalie Rose, 19 years old, shot herself...Nobody saw any of it coming...She posted the song "If I Die Young" on her facebook profile the day before she died...Then the next day, she was gone...I feel horrible for not spending more time with her... She was the most bubbly girl any of us in the family, or out, knew, and still, nobody knows why she had to go...:'( I miss you so much Natalie...I love you! --Shy
BlackVeilBrides100 3 months ago
I wish you would ha/ve come to me son, I wish I had seen. I love and miss you so much. Nick Taylor 6/18/93---5/30/11
sue72006 3 months ago
It was scary actually, one of my friends showed me this song last week and it made me cry wondering "How COULD someone get that lonely?" And only two days later my other friend texted me telling me that in exactly one month she was going to kill herself. The whole time I was crying and trying to make her change her mind this song was running through my head... Today she told me she changed her mind and was going to therapy to help her with her problems <3 I love you Emmilee
PoisonCherry93 4 months ago
i've listened to this song a million times and might be the only thing keeping me form committing scuicide. this song makes my think of what i would be doing to my friends if i did. i am truely greatful for this song.
emmaissocoollike1 4 months ago 19
@emmaissocoollike1 Please don't. I don't know you, but I care about you. My best friend tried to commit suicide last night, and it hurts so bad. Please don't ever do it. I love him so much and I can't even talk to him because he's in the hospital. I'm so thankful he's still alive. He's the only man that's ever made me feel safe in this world. I care about you, and your life, even though you're a stranger.
underthemushroom7 6 days ago
Whenever I feel like I can't go on, I listen to Tokio Hotel's Don't Jump and think of the children I worked with at the child care last semester. What would they say if their favorite teacher killed herself? I hate to see them hurt. I don't want to be the reason for their tears.
Gomaluvsyou 4 months ago
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864brandon 4 months ago
Rest In Peace Bodie :'(
Greer Middle School and Greer High School miss you SO much :(
AnnaEmery101 4 months ago
I can sure tell you how... :'/
RantersOfTheWorld 4 months ago
i feel like killing myself alot but God is helping me
sarahtamara96 4 months ago
i know a lot of people in the comments are talking about friends and family who killed themself or died and i want to make a video to this song with all the names of whoever replys to this. So if you want your friend remebered please reply with the name and age of the person and i Will add it to the video
iamachildofChrist 4 months ago
Some of you people are so ignorant and some of you are so right. suicide is not a selfish thing it is a thing that people commit because of a depressing or messed up life. it is NOT out of selfishness. and if you think that you are IGNORANT! and i am most definetly not saying its right but its an act of lonelyness, depression, or lack of self help!! God Bless everyone and don't let it get to you... remember there's someone out here that needs you!(:
ilovehym20 5 months ago
@ilovehym20 God bless you dude.
MarcBrightside 4 months ago
It really annoys me when people commit suicide, are they really that selfish to leave behind their family thinking its all their fault ? I understand because of bullying butt people w/ diseases & cancer, etc would love to have a life... even if they were being bullied.
shelbyyarlene88 5 months ago
@shelbyyarlene88 dont call suicide selfish. Ever.
cocoacandi 5 months ago
@cocoacandi I just did .
shelbyyarlene88 5 months ago
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Hater. and really two of my friends tryed. They were never selfish they were hurting the reached out and held on but it overwelmed them to much it hurts like the devil himself was killing you and when the pain gets to intense they let go and think let it be over they give up hope but let me say this
THEY ARE NOT SELFISH
jczarnecki101 5 months ago
@shelbyyarlene88 and the reason they did was because they were asualted and yes i understand they gave there life but the reason they did was because it hurt to much its like there own personal disease they cant rid of themselves
jczarnecki101 5 months ago
@jczarnecki101 Then they should have gotten vaccinated ,
shelbyyarlene88 5 months ago
@jczarnecki101 I know what you are saying & relize you do have a very good point, but like the song says - "How is having no life at all is better than the life u had?"
shelbyyarlene88 5 months ago
@shelbyyarlene88 suicide, is not selfish. at all. dont ever say that.
gvilledawgs14 5 months ago
@gvilledawgs14 Holy Fuck ! i though we established this shit ! I just did . . get over it ! "How is having no life at all is better than the life u had?" Okay now shutup please ? Thnks(:
shelbyyarlene88 5 months ago
What about the kids younger than that age?... they do it to....
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glitterbear27 5 months ago
i love this song
cocopuff1022 5 months ago
No one knew how i felt when i was(still am)bullied!but i never told anyone!and know if i am geting bullied i tell my friend and she helps me!I never thought about killing myself and im very happy about that!but very said for the ones who died of bullying and never told anyone!plz who every died because of this plz rest in pease my fredom fly!
ilovepuppy16 5 months ago
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this song was wrote about a boy from my town and yesterday was his birthday! were the greenfield mcclain tigers! he was my cousins friend! like this in memory of his birthday!
musicchic704 6 months ago
i was 16 and met the boy of my dreams..was prego 3 months later she was born 5 weeks early , he loved her his baby girl :) 6months later he took his life. (baby) is now 18 and in her 2nd year of collage. i hope he see's her. she lives on in him
countrybumkin05 6 months ago
On July 17th BWM took his life in his bedroom. He left behind devastated family and friends. His family blamed the girlfriend, whom he spoke with last. She wasn't even allowed to go to the funeral. One has to be very alone and hopeless to leave it all behind. I am sorry for all the folks who have experienced this loss.
wysewilden 6 months ago
May 4th was the worst day my town went through we lost a very funny teenager allways had a smile on his face every time u say him now when we want to see his smile we have to look in a picture no one should go through what he went through and no town should go through what my town went through. R.I.P. CL we miss u bud
maddog0223 6 months ago
Bullycide is getting worse and more common. It would take a death in most schools to stop the bullies. I was that lonely a few months ago. Almost ended it all in the girl's room. I survived only because my friends were yards away in the cafeteria.
musicvideomaker1996 6 months ago 5
i lost a friend cuz of bullin, rip chris save us a mudhole, beer and a couple of big ass trucks, love ya man
MrCwr1993 6 months ago
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beccarachael96 6 months ago
this song makes me upset i get overly upset durring breakups but like someone told me once im only 13 i dont need to be worrying about boys at this age and thts right ive thought about ending my life several times even threatened to but then i see my friends and i think tht im not ready to let go of a life that hasnt even started yet
Crazy2Sisters 6 months ago
This song strikes way to close to home...i had a friend kill himself when we were only in 5th grade, thn one of my best friends who was like my big brother killed himself bc his gf cheated on him, and thn another best friend/big brother bc hiss gf broke up with him and an uncle who killed himself bc my aunt died.......thts exactly wat ive beeen wondering..how did they get tht lonely? wish things clda ben diff...........
blondii7777 6 months ago 2
sometimes its not being lonely, sometimes its just you feel so hopeless and that even your friends or family or anyone you thought you cared about suddenly can't help... coming form someone who even with all my friends i still feel utterly alone.
antorinu 6 months ago 7
i love you kaaine.<3
lovechels23 6 months ago
Great song
CalStateStudent17 7 months ago
i was bullyed since kindergarden ending it crosst my mind a few times but i always talked myself out of it for nobody noreason is worth hurtting myself or anyone over so to every1 who reads this remember just cuz u cant see the hurt when u or some1 els bullys a person dosnt mean its not there some can handle it and some cant and those who cant most of the time end the pain by endin there life so plz stop the bullyin and spread the word and get bhind me 2 help stop the hurt thanks guys
larryb921 7 months ago 4
@larryb921 wow i am truely sorry. i have been bullyed too for about 17 years now bc i have hearing aids but i am here with u on the bullyinq we NEED to put a stop to it.!
tiffanybruce1994 7 months ago
This reminds me about thet guy that took his own life for the whole internet, i saw that video, I cant stop thinking about it stil, this quetions comes up and I really wish I could be someones friend to stop people to feel that way.. :(
SpiderSandra 7 months ago
my 15 yr old Shelbie hung herself in Nov 2010,and 6 months later on may 19th 2011 my 17 yr old boy Tim hung himself..we played this fitting song..so sad for me..i love and miss my babies so much its a pain thatll never go away.listen to your kids your friends pay attention,and remember,bullying is no joke neither is suicide,its a deadly one..rest in peace,mom loves you guys..i love you and im so so sorry
ape1432 7 months ago 13
@ape1432 i am so sorry. i had a BESTFRIEND well i called her my sister at one point we did everything together and she did this i was heart broke i can imagin how u feel
tiffanybruce1994 7 months ago
@ape1432 im sooo sorry for your loss unfourtanetly i no all to well how that feels :'(
R.I.P William E. Dotson
cottoncandymusic94 2 months ago
my Best friend Allen does drugs</3 I love that kid DEARLY :) Without him? I'd be lost, but still. I don't judge him because of his drugs.... Anyways. I'm scared about him and the second verse gets me</3 He's had to go to the hospital, because it and I'm scared he'll over do it.. </3
kayteehale2143 7 months ago
he put in his note he left for it to be played for her. i think that was the worst thing bout today, bc she just freaked out basically. she is also pregnant which made it worse. that song caused a fight today bc some of us knew it would be played and some didnt want it to be played. but bc he ask for it to be played they did. it was sad, but true. r.i.p those whom have been lost to suicide.
wvbitch4lyf 7 months ago
where i live we have just lost 2 teenage boys due to suicide. just 3 days apart from pressure of other kids. the one just turned 18 in november & graduated high school bout 3 weeks ago. he was also my cousins. the other was a friend. this song has been playing everywhere you go. bc where i live is made up of bout 6 small towns that make up the high school. so everywhere is playing this, and other songs. & today at my cosuins funeral brantley gilbert my kind of crazy was played for his gf by him.
wvbitch4lyf 7 months ago
i swaer ifm i didnt have kids and a wife... and i wasnt afraid of screwing it up.. would make life a lot less stressfull !
jacobsdad32003 7 months ago
@jacobsdad32003 but i cant even afford a frickin funeral !
jacobsdad32003 7 months ago
i dont think anyone knows.... how do you get that lonely?.. keep on doing the same routine every day.. looking at stuff from 3 years ago when life was so much easier.. and not seeing a way to make it by day to day today... my wife can work and barely pay bills..even with my job .. or she can not work and not pay bills. but feed the kids.. this world friggin sucks !
jacobsdad32003 7 months ago
I think that you get that lonely and nobody knows is kind of the point. You're that lonely and no one is around to see it.
oneperson2person 7 months ago
Here's how I got that lonely: I've been picked on since fourth grade for reasons unknown. I never had a friend who ever stood up for me. My parents talked to their parents, but it didn't work. Then in eighth grade, I finally got a friend who stood up for me. But I still feel lonely because I fucked up a relationship and I still feel like the residential fuckup because I don't seem to do anything right.
dude249 7 months ago
Hi my name is Tammarah im 14 years olded this my story i tried to comment suicide so many times its not funny I've bend bullyed for 9 year i masked my sadness i tried telling the adults tried fighting them back non of it worked so i tried over dosing on meds. i did it in front of my older cuzin i fought her beged her to let me die so i don't feel the pain no more i beg the Doctor's to let me die they said i was in deep depression i was so lonely not having friends, i felt empty inside still do
MrsBabyGurl4lf 7 months ago
i know exactly how you get that lonely and i know how you can hurt that bad i've tried suicide few times when i was a teenager now im 23 and i feel better about life
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I found out my best friend, my dad has brain cancer today.
MKOCW1 8 months ago
It is to get that lonely in a world full of so many people, sometimes there is no one there for you, I just found this song and it reminds me , you turn around and every time you help they all poop on you!
1cornia 8 months ago
As far as the lyrics go: 2:27 to 2:32 : "I'm not blaming anybody--we all do the best we can.." Not true! What if your parents set you up for failure and tell you that you will not graduate from high school and yell at you for failing all your classes---and then two days letter your high school report card your high school report card arrives with A's and A plusses in AP classes in extracurricular activities-& your parents are upper middle class and refuse to buy you school supplies, etc?
ticks4ticks4 8 months ago
I'm thinking about ending mylife cuz I have to live for
3darkstone 8 months ago
Nice song but really sad!!
Soulchick25 8 months ago
Thats horrible, I couldn't bare to listen to whole thing.
ThexXECAXx 9 months ago
My cousin that I love soooooo much and miss dearly took his life and they played this song at his funeral. Cole Ryan Weddle was such a great kid with a bright future and we never know why someone commits, but I guess we never really will, I love youu cole...
Kmoore94cheer 9 months ago
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no body knows mate ! theres nothing we can do except say to you i hope your ok ! if you need anything let me know
junior1873 8 months ago
My friend Kristen; Was Bullyed. She never told anybody how she truely felt. She Shot herself Monday, March 14th After school. She was acting herself all day, just gorgeous and Fun and smiley.. I never saw any of this comming..and I feel so guilty that i didn't see the pain she was hiding behind that Gorgeous smile she had. 14 Years Young; And She took her life, feeling there was no way out.. I miss her more then ever! Rest In Peace Babe; I love you! Save me a spot Kristen!
basketballkmm10 9 months ago 39
@basketballkmm10 omg, on my birthday? RIP...This will make me remorse on my birthday now.. :(
lslouiseEWS 4 months ago
@basketballkmm10 last night i found out that a 10 year old girl from my town killed herself over bullying i did not know her but all i want to do is cry i have been a victim of bullying my whole life so i know how it is i am trying my hardest to put a stop to this BS and dont feel bad most kids hide their pain where no one knows and its nobodies fault hang it their it will get better stand up to the bullies its no joke and people need to realize that
chasewilliams15 2 months ago
@basketballkmm10 my friend told me that her stepdad was 'doing things' to her during school one day - (this later turned out to be utter bull and now i hate her for it) but i felt like such a crap friend for not noticing that she was in so much pain, just hope you know that even though she was going through hell she had friends like you to help her carry on for as long as she did - please don't feel guilty you being her friend would have gave her strength :)
xMovieMagicx 2 months ago
How do I get so lonely even though I'm on a school trip to Florida?.. Amazing song <3
Jenellegirl3 9 months ago
Wow. How did this song not launch this guy's career into the stars, it's so sad but fantastic! It's amazing, he's amazing, and wow.
TeresitaLove12 9 months ago
I never want my kids to feel this lonely! I love my kids & always want them to talk to me!
tanyarichardson76 9 months ago
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Believe me when I say this, no matter how bad your problems are it's not worth killing yourself. if those friends weren't there for u then they werent ur real friends. My advice is to wait a little while longer, and try to be as happy as you can. I'm also moving in a few months and thought of killing myself, but I realized that no matter how bad some problems may seem; you just have to be positive and it will all work out. :)
kawaiiskull 9 months ago
i dont see how there could be 4 dislikes on this song its so meaningfull
HotCaliBoy19 9 months ago
I'm lonely
Katen424 9 months ago
Once a person dies by suicide, they tend to be swept under the rug and people can't even say their names out loud. Suicide is such a shameful word even today in our day and age. So those of you who are considering suicide to "show them" or to make him or her feel bad because they didn't want to be their love anymore, it doesnt work that way. A week after you are gone, life gets back to normal for everyone. School tests and activities, dances football games or whatever it is that goes
babieboo72 10 months ago
@babieboo72 on in your world will continue to go on with or without you. I am not saying this to make anybody feel less important because that is not true. I am saying this because those left behind to live, do just that. They continue living. Those who have chosen to die, are dead. We all have had someone we love either leave us or turn their backs on us but its part of life. If they didn't care to stay, they sure as hell wont grieve that long. Suicide is stupid.
babieboo72 10 months ago
There are people that love you, and they deserve to have you around for a long time. You are never alone even if you feel like you are. Tell someone what you're going through, they can help. You are a wonderful, unique person and the world deserves to know the person you are and the person you will be in the future. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. I wish you the best.
mek628 10 months ago
hey this song was played at my friends funeral in 2008 he hung himself it hurt me more but when i needed my friends they were never there for me and now im feeling as lonely as he did and know one knows the pain i hold inside because i push everyone away from me i need advise because i know that when i move out in 6 months if i dont get the help i need i will end my life i dont want people to be aww man thats rough i just want advice
weightliftin4life 10 months ago
respect xxx
junior1873 10 months ago
sad song, though i don't believe its the answer. but my life sucks to shits ; i still don't believe in it! but to all those who have attemtpted suicide stay strong- because no life is worth ending...R.I.P Joshua Amaral..♥ love you bud miss you a lot..
lexibabyyxox 10 months ago
I'm 16 and have attempted suicide twice but somehow miraculously survived both. If you're feeling/have felt like this just know i firmly believe everything happens for a reason, maybe one day like 10 years from now youll meet someone in your position who you can help cos youll understand like no-one else can, cos youve been there. and you might be the one they need to save their life.
106141214 10 months ago
for the 4 who don't like this your a homosexual
pimp86277 10 months ago
@pimp86277 Why do you have to be a homosexual if you dont like this song? Hm? Why do you associate 'asshole' with 'homosexual"? You're implying that it is bad if they don't like this song, and therefore implying that being a homosexual is bad. It's people like you that are the reason people commit suicide. Who the fuck cares if someone is gay or not? >.>
MusicalEternity 9 months ago
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31saima 10 months ago
RIP Jesse Gomes
you will be missed
bkmracer5m 10 months ago 2
this song reminds me of my friend codie he died 3 months ago :'( he was my BEST friend in 8th grade he moved to ohio and we talked on the phone and texted but he never told me he felt bad and when i found out he was gone i cryed and still cry everyday there is a song we listened to in gym everyday (bottoms up) i cant listen to that song ever again it makes me miss him more then i already do ..... i loved him he was my bestest friend i ever had he was my only best friend ..... i miss him so much
samact95 10 months ago
I know exactly where you are coming from and no you are not a horrible friend . . . . anyone in that position would feel that way and every fight im sure you are thinkin this might finally be my chance , but maybe you could just tel him/her cause you never know what can happen!!!
taylorcaylin 10 months ago
Sure..it's easy to forget someone that left you, because they're no longer in your life..but the pain and heartache of seeing and talking to a friend every day that you're in love with, but is already in a relationship is getting to be unbearable..I've been going through this for months now, and I don't know how much longer I can take it..I try to be a good friend, but I'm not, I'm a horrible friend..every time she gets in a fight with him, I feel bad, but at the same time I feel happy..I feel
MrTricked16 10 months ago
My best friend of only 15 passed this week. We were best friends, we told each other everything. Until the night her guy that she really really loved died of cancer. So she killed herself, and I always think of her. And I hope she does the same. Wherever she is now....
sweetcakes32533 10 months ago
There once was a man that stepped off a bridge to take his own life and the instant he did he realized that all his problems could be fixed and he could be happy again.. The man survived and is now my counselor and the only reason several people I know haven't committed suicide..
skaterboy10992 11 months ago 2
It's quite hard living day by day being in love with someone that's already taken..Waking up every morning knowing that she's waking up laying next to someone else..Faking happiness and acting like everything's fine when you're around her and him, even tho you're actually dying inside, your heart aching..Yet you say nothing about how you feel for fear of losing her friendship, because at least you have that.
MrTricked16 11 months ago
im not far from ending this painful pointless life. i just dont let anyone know because i dont want anyone stopping me. im just waiting for a reason to live
ludaurcandygrl 11 months ago
@ludaurcandygrl Because, I love you as a human being. I may not know who you are, what you look like,what youre feeling, what kind of situation you are in, and i may very well never meet you in real life. We all got somebody, and across the internet You got Me. Remorse in that and know that atleast 1 person in the 11 billion on this earth. Does care about your existance. Im not here to be your councellor im here to be your friend.
Friend me on Facebook :] Cody Marin
joebong77 11 months ago 3
she was only 15.
and nobody knew she was hurthing that bad.
until they found her on her floor.
now im stilll up late at night crying because i just dont understand how we missed the signs. how we let her do this.
we couldve stopped her.
i love you Carlie. -3
screamtAzE 11 months ago
How do you get that lonely is a thought that i think crosses everyone'd mind when they hear of a suicide that has been commited....but i'll mtell you it doesn't take much! i tried committing suicide 4 times and was never successful and i have come to realize it takes alot to end your own life no matter how shitty it is! But i'd like to put a shoutout to the troubled youth/adults out there thinkin bout endin' it all.....it ain't worth it! life ain't as bad as y'all think it is!
KUnicornz 1 year ago 45
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jczarnecki101 5 months ago
@KUnicornz its all a matter of opinion buddy...
brandon0275 4 months ago
Can't do what? Go on with life??
lionsrule100 1 year ago
i fell tht only rite now.. i just cant do it..
MrCwr1993 1 year ago
wow this song gets to me...
we did about depression and self harm in p.s.h.e. at school and it made me think of this song.
badwolf830 1 year ago
Love this song I' think of suicide alot too but I would never do it because of what it would do to my family and friends and who am I to cause other people so much pain it would be wrong of me to be so selfish :/ "Thirteen Reasons Why" it's a really great book, it shows how one thing you do to a person can affect their entire life :(
brokensoul335 1 year ago
@brokensoul335 Thats so brave of you to really think so much about others so much. You are a great sort of person and i can tell that it would be more thn just a shame to lose someone like you from this world
PhsychedelicFan 1 year ago
danny rip!! christina loves you!:) ill see you one day!
rednekman09 1 year ago
sometimes i feel depressed and want to die, but i dont think i could ever go through with it
BigBulgeCheeks 1 year ago 2
@BigBulgeCheeks same here... thank god. i cant imagine how my family and friends would feel if i actually went through with it... thats what keeps me going.
avenger37x 1 year ago 2
@BigBulgeCheeks Good, dont EVER. <3
Flipflopproductionss 1 year ago
December 2010. My bestfriend put a gun to his head, pulled the trigger and died instantly, the day after we went to state football and lost. His mom died the same day. I couldnt go to the funeral due to final exams.I still see him walking past my home with his southern accent saying Hey bud, why dontcha hurry up for school.It was about 4 in the morning.
D3L0V3R 1 year ago
@D3L0V3R Damn thats scary
OnlyGodCanJudgeMe808 11 months ago
im legit crying
Flipflopproductionss 1 year ago
so sad;( tear stay together stay safe be happy xoxoxo
632daisy 1 year ago
I was thinking bout suicide , because of a girl , when i saw this , and i cried. You'd better just forget and go ahead , and remember that dreams are something far from the reality.
Tord4k 1 year ago
how do you dislike this
Hopperhopperful 1 year ago
i didnt stop then... but i kept going till i was so paranoid i thought that there were people following me around trying to kill me... that everyone wanted me dead.... so i slit my troat... my wrists, and dug the knife into my leg trying to get the artey..... mom found me... on the verge of death... bleeding out on the bathroom floor... seeing all the docters.. and all the people there praying for me... hoping i would live... made me realize... i am loved my so many more people than i thought.
Hopperhopperful 1 year ago
you would think that you are exactly the same but you would get so thin you would look like a jew from a nazi camp, you would have scars all over your body, from where you thought bugs were crawling under your skin and eventually you would black out... and wake up in a back ally bleeding to death from where you were stabbed cause you pissed of the wrong people but you laugh cause you are too dopped up to feel the pain or to even care...
Hopperhopperful 1 year ago
This song is very hard to listen to. My son Brady McKee shot himself on august 4th 2010. What are these kids thinking? We need more songs like this and more suicide prevention for our kids. They are dying left and right from suicide. Its not right!
babieboo72 1 year ago
This song is amazing, Just because it speaks to those of us dealing with those emotions right now.
Get help :)
x Love x
jeraku1 1 year ago
I'm having a rough time with life right now and my son is all that keeps me going but he's not home right now and so I'm drinking and IRS not good!! I've tried sucker before but it didn't work thank god but I feel I'd be better off gone and so would everyone else bc they wouldn't have to put up or go through my screw ups with me!!!
1HaydensMommy 1 year ago
@1HaydensMommy ..i no what you kid probly feels like right now, my mom was going through the same thing, and tried commiting suicide 3 different times, I was afraid to leave her alone, and that stressed me out majorly. My mom would say things like I would have a better future without her in my life, and I finally got so scared and just told her that I would have no future at all if she died, because she is my future, and if she died, than I no i would end up dying too.
xohellokittyxo97 1 year ago
I'm having rough time oblige
1HaydensMommy 1 year ago