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  • never let the hand you hold, hold you down </3

  • OH MY LOL! I meant to say, it's not a song about man hating :L :L wow I'm gonna get soooooo many trolls now.

  • This is a song about women, listen to the lyrics "always 50/50 in relationships" thats all women and men want. Women have the right to live independently of men if they want. Women don't need to reply on men anymore for income. Women are free to do as they please, just like men. Anyway I digress, a relationship should be an equal partnership between both partners.

  • @Uberlaser I'm pretty sure women want to be independent.

  • to be honest, beyonce is probably the person that went futher after them splitting up.

  • kelly has come a long way from de destinys child days....

  • How To Be A Dating Woman; 1. Chase after, suck off, go lez, for all the jocks/thugs in highschool, college, and beyond while completely ignoring nice guys 2. Get pregnant by said jocks/thugs out of wedlock with no commitment, career prospects, vision, etc 3. Chase him around for child support, drama, sex, etc 4. Get on Oprah, Tyra Banks, Blogs, Friends Houses talking about how 'men aint shit' 5. Look for nice guy in your 30s to clean up the mess. 6. Your daughters will repeat this... :D

  • I paid for everything in my last relationship and was happy to do so. My bf broke up with me without explanation :( i guess i intimidated him ;)

  • Working,Independant women rock it!

  • Destiny's Child wants someone who can pay their bills, bills, bills so they can be Independent Women.

  • i pay my rental, i pay my bills, always 50/50 in RELATIONSHIPS.... ain't none of these women sleeping alone at night!! they encourage us ladies to be independent not anti-men! a woman does not necessarily need a man (or another woman) but theres no denying it can be very fulfilling to be in a loving relationship

  • I Love the destiny Child!!!!

  • It's just teaching women to be heartless bitches - They don't need to be this way - Men don't want heartless bitches - And even more to the point, I don't think women truly want to be this way either - It's all very sad

  • @Uberlaser Its not actually,it teaches you to be a women in your right not to leach of men-because this is the typeof women a man will respect.

    this message of this song is bringing 50-50 to the relationship while at the same time being able to hold your own.many of the men I have dated had more respect for me when I had a career -I was interesting rather then be a predictable dependent women whose not really saying anything...theres nothing bitchy about being independent...roll with the times.

  • My favourite song of Destiny's Child!

  • 319 aren't independant women

  • beyonce looks better here

  • I depend on me! :)

  • I like independent women really. But not too independent. They need to be dependent on my love making skills, but not my money :)

  • 320 people can't handle strong women.

  • ohhh well this is just classic... Eternal song :)

  • It's great being independent but a man needs to look after his girl.

  • @greenbutterfly101 Ah, the most contradictory statement ever known to mankind; human stupidity literally knows no bounds.

  • @TheSwireRob Well she does have a point, even if you think her point is stupid. It is a great thing to be independent but everyone needs someone to look after them whenever they are feeling vulnerable.

  • all three gods will live forever and ever!

  • To all the old-fashioned guys out there, get your head out of your fucking ass and look around. Things have changed.

  • they should be called beyonce and co cause she is the limelight in all the videos?

  • ABSOLUTE CLASSIC TUNE!

  • 1. Make me dinner (I like my red meat and chicken)

    2. During the dinner making, I’ll bend you over the kitchen bench and “do it”

    3. Sit down with me, eat dinner and tell me about your day

    4. Clean up afterwards, and then straight to the bedroom, where we’ll copulate for another 3-4 hours after going down on you for "what seemed like forever"

    5. In the morning, don’t forget to iron my shirts (extra starch on the collars)

    Do all this and I’ll treat you like a lady; and with respect…

  • Didn't they once have a song called bills bills bills where they say 'can you pay my bills'

  • do we seriously have to discuss feministic topics here? If someone wants to be old-fashioned, don't bother us modern people on YT. fuck off.

  • I bet these Bitches make great cleaners

  • 0:31 QUESTION

  • @manonmoon12 man kind wouldn't even survive with out women because the reproductive system wouldn't work any more unless your planning to do men

  • @antonczakw  no shit sherlock

  • at 2:55 it reminds me of Aaliyah's Hot Like Fire Picture

  • great kick at 2:32 fantastic k.o. at robot..perfect !!

  • All women need to be independent in some form whether mostly or not. Whether married or single... We can't rely on men 24/7...and we don't need men 24.7 (even though they reckon we do)

  • i love the 2000 years if it becomes on music!

  • Back when I actually loved Beyonce! Key word: loved... as in used to and don't anymore! :) can't stand her ass now.

  • @DoMzZvsMuChE Why?

  • @j04370859 i just think she has changed, like she has become way too up her ass, and she's just not the same!!! :) Music wise, attitude wise etc.

  • I miss Destiny's Child!

  • The shoes on my feet

    Me Ma bought them

    The clothes I'm wearing

    Me Ma bought them

  • IM THROWING MY HANDS RIGHT AT YU

  • ever since letoya luckett and latvia got kiked from the band all there songs were all about beyonce kelly is so talented and has the more powerful voice!!!!

  • @kqlhdjkwbvqhjevbkqef what lol beyonce always sang first line then kelly then michelle then beyonce finishes it off lol i think it was the best thing for the group to only have 3

  • Watch STEFANO GIORGINI 's 'Somebody Different' Video

    great stuff

  • This song is majorly impowering:) x

  • Question... like this LOL!

  • u know what - you're so close minded, i cant be arsed trying to make you change your mind. You carry on thinking what you want. We're never gonna meet ever. By the way, here's something for you to think about. You said you've married for 39 years. That would make u about 60, well i'm 15

  • @iamracheleparker

    I'll tell you what you are:

    In need of cooking skills and discipline, the kind of stuff that will lead to you getting settled down with an alpha male

  • @Dionysiananarchy1

    You're all high and mighty because you're male, yet you're listening and actively participating in commenting on a Destiny's Child video... Not really keeping your whole alpha male role alive are you...

  • I farted.

  • @MrLoves2shaft urm thats Beyoncé dude... and no i dont think she does!!

  • Men need to get their heads out of their asses... No we've got the rights finally.. we are getting into their territory and I think some are intimidated by this... Don't know why though.. there wouldn't be all this anger if we would just do our thing and men would do their thing.. And stop with the kitchen jokes for fucks sake it makes all of you look like eleven year olds that cannot even make a sandwich themselves.. go back to kindergarten people..

  • @horsepheus Yes but saying 'Men need to get their heads out of their asses' is just as unfair. How can we fight sexism if you're doing it too?! Some men do, sure, but you can't generalise like that! It's just as bad as men telling us to go back to the kitchen!

  • @miaxxsmiles not true; men cannot and do not face oppression via sexism. stop mansplaining.

  • FOREVER INDIPENDENT WOMAN.....SO COOL

  • well, you lot can all argue all you want. I just like the song and video.

  • Yes I agree I don't think keeping men and women apart in some circumstances is discrimination but I think it is when a women is doing the same job as a man and is treated differently and paid less just for being the opposite sex.

  • @4chocolatedonkeys I just visited your channel and i really cannot believe you are 13, you are very intelligent for any age let alone yours. You will go very far in life if you stay on the path you are on, regardless of any sexism you encounter along the way.

    All the best

    PS. that video is funny as shit, scared the crap out of me :)

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  • @4chocolatedonkeys Well thank you, me and my friends had fun making that video and the others that are on there. And thanks again for the advise and complements.

  • Love how the only reason these sexists can come up with for men being more useful than women is sperm... which comes with the genetic package. Great job guys.

    Feminism is about choice and equality. We're all human but we're all different, and that's not just confined along gender. Saying one is better than the other is ridiculous, because you're automatically assuming all women are the same, and all men are the same, in order to make such a drastic generalization. Grow up and grow a brain cell.

  • Man girls have the same attidude as men..

  • anyone heard elbows cover?

  • @smellkin it's just a bit genius yeah

  • they are like a musical version of the charmed ones in views and looks: fashionable and modern

  • This song shows a good message. Too many women rely on men and go for the guy with the best income when they themselves don't bother to go out there and do something about it. Women have corrupted society and the attitudes of men. Women is the reason why chivalry don't exist any more

  • I love this :D

  • ATTENTION : come check out the first single of my upcoming U.K. music group NOW up on my page.

  • Independance means freedom and that's hot.

  • 312 people missed the like button

  • @wowvanessawow they didnt missed the like button that are guys who believes that the woman must stay at home and serve them

  • @blackrose309 Well If you think that than your just an asshole ;)

  • @LiilMiiszAniiisah goed engels.(y)

  • NIET NORMAAL MOOOOI ' (ll.)

  • feminism=fascism (and I am a WOMAN)

  • @iSwallowed Then you're an idiot. Tell a woman in a burkha being publicly whipped that feminism = fascism.

  • @saucyviolet You're making a quid pro quo statement. Feminism has nothing to do with religion, it is neither for it nor against it. The opposite of feminism is not donning a burkha.

  • @iSwallowed - I never mentioned religion. I merely suggested that someone in a burkha would be unlikely to agree with you that "feminism = fascism".

  • i'm a man and i'm happy that my wife is independent cause now she don't need to ask me any money... of course i can paye her shoes sometimes but juste because one hour before she gave me her pussy...

  • bellissima canzone

    

  • Is the reason she has to clarify that she bought it because she is from african american descent?

  • @manonmoon12 Oooh, I can't stand you. Do you really think that women are only made for cooking, cleaning and raising kids? (which is really hard) Keep this in mind: women are able to do almost everything men can do and more. Plus our bodies are hotter (:

  • @xxxxbehappy ...everything you are using in your life and to write messages like that has been invented by men, fool.

  • @xxxxbehappy ur right apart from the fact u cant pee in the air

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  • The REAL lyrics are "I FARTED", you listen.

  • manonmoon12 just because youv nvr seen a woman doing all that stuff doesnt mean thea not out there so get your fuckn facts right

  • Why have men always ruled the World? Like if you were a lawyer and a female a man would make more then you at the end of the year for doing the same job what the hell?!

  • @4chocolatedonkeys That might be true, but I work in a factory and in it men and women are paid the very same, yet if there is a shit job to do, like heavy or dirty work, it is always given to one of the guys, naturally. So in that situation (and there are far more people working in factories, shops, resteraunts etc.) do you think the men should get more.

  • @story46 Well yes men are expected to do harder work, but women are expected to house work like cooking, cleaning and taking care of kids! Someone told me the other day that a women tried to be a referee for a football game and everyone thought a women couldn't do that kind of job, yet people think women should cook but there are many male chefs that are accepted. Why aren't women treated the same? Women have never been equal and maybe never will be.

  • @4chocolatedonkeys

    #1 segregating sex's in sport is necessary, due to ability. Should men get to partake in female divisions of sport eg. the 100m sprint??

    #2 a man who expects a woman to clean HIS clothes or cook HIS food doesn't deserve a woman in the first place, and a woman who stays with a guy like that has nobody to blame but herself

    #3 to go back to my initial question, do you feel women should have to do EQUAL work to earn EQUAL pay, or that they should get EQUAL pay for UNEQUAL work

  • @story46 Well men and women shouldn't get equal pay if they don't do equal work but what I initially said was that a female lawyer does the same as male and gets paid less for the same work! And yes, men and women should be separated in sport but a woman shouldn't be told she can't referee for what is claimed a man's sport! If they can't then does that mean a man can't be a referee or a coach for a sport such as netball which is claimed as a woman's sport? Because both sexes can do both sports!

  • @4chocolatedonkeys #1 Womens soccer is a sport too, would you cry sexism if you heard that the referee's in that were all women??? Do you feel ''women only'' clubs are sexist (book clubs, yoga etc) or in that instance is it ok to disqualify men who are just as able to read and comment as women. I agree with you though that female professionals who do the same work as the guys should OF COURSE get the equal pay they obviously deserve.

  • @story46 Well yes, I suppose book clubs and yoga are a bit sexist but there are activity's only men can do as well. I mean you don't usually hear a women say "I'm going to the pub for a few pints" do you? Yes they do go there I'm not saying they don't but there activities for just men and just for women, and I think it's good there are things men and women can do separately.

  • @4chocolatedonkeys #2 But if say WalMart decided tomorrow, that because they felt that the heavier harder work was being done by the men in the store, they were introducing a double structured pay system giving the men more than the women would you support it??? Really???

    I fully support equality, but i dont feel keeping women and men apart in certain things is discrimination.

    Lets just all meet up at the end of a hard day and have a wee dance with eachother, is that too much to ask society ;)

  • @story46 Yes, a man who expects a women to cook and clean for him doesn't deserve a woman at all and it is a woman's fault if she decides to stay with a man who does expect her to do that!

  • @kellykeith

    Men have also been allowed to earn money and own property for a long time whilst women have not. For instance if a woman wanted a loan for a house until during the 70's a man had to co sign for it.

  • @NikkiViolet

    What the fuck are you doing out the kitchen?!?!?!

  • @NikkiViolet

    There is no doubt that women have been discriminated for years, but so have men. Conscription in the army being one thing, which actually still exists in some countries today. Men have been equally discriminated against just as much as women, but its not talked about, or in this case, sung and danced about. For example, in London, there is a statue of women from the 1940s, thanking them for working in the factories during WW2 - something men done before - no statue for them?

  • @kellykeith28 i dont think a statue is over zealous, considering that after the war it was, "thanks for the help ladies, now get the f back in the kitchen." and consdiering that women didnt knoe how to do that because they were not allowed, but still got stuck in there and did it!

  • Beyonce rocks!!!

    Both Women and Men need to get along!!

  • Why are they singing about buying themselves a watch? Men have been doing that for years, we don't sing and dance about it.

  • @kellykeith28 lol!!! SOO TRUE!!

  • And everybody, ALL WOMEN here can see YOU become devalued yourself because of all your comments you are just a toyboy, a sperm bag! Plus you insult your own mother yourself.

    That's pitiful!

    Good wind Cro-Magnon! It was funny to cross your ignorance, i feel a million time better. You made that song more important than what it could be! Ahahaha

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  • beyonce ... we love her ..

  • hey hey all u men out there stop being such dicks its just a mofo song i cant freaking believe u men are all reacting in such an assholish manner! THTS right, i went there! ASSHOLISH!

  • you people should stop arguing about rights and just enjoy the song. This was just for a soundtrack, I'm sure they didn't even write the song theirselves.

  • @OhhNooYouuDidntt hahaha, Beyoncé wrote this song ;)

  • most of the guys i know turn round and say i wanna be on the dole coz it's easier and a lot of the girls i know wanna work! i know loads of qualified female plumbers, electricians, mechanics and builders!!! just coz you've never seen any doesn't mean they don't exist! I wanna be a dairy farmer and I'm a woman, if that ain't a useful and practical job then you are either stupid or ignorant!!!

  • @FOZMONSTER946 congrats, you have the intelligence of an inbred mouse

  • @HiralShah00 yeah but it's more than what you've got 

  • @FOZMONSTER946 ohh Struck a nerve there did i? lol get back in the kitchen you feminazi

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  • @HiralShah00 i'm gonna give into peer pressure and say what other peeps are thinking... douche

  • @FOZMONSTER946 i was thinking more dickless... Just saying! Guys who are like "get it the kitchen" have no dick and no spine so dickless and spineless ;)

  • @FOZMONSTER946 nice comback!!

  • @HiralShah00 Do you have any respect at all for women???

  • @MeIsEvi1 women yes, you, no

  • @HiralShah00 you get back in the kitchen bitch !

    do you have any respect 4 women ?

    because women don't have respect 2 U !

  • This song is very true..Some woman think when they get married and have someone to buy things for them that they have an achievement...Don't brag bout money that ain't yours...What happens when he's gone? Make sure you can do for yourself ..like d child says BE INDEPENDANT!

  • Haha there's a lot of bitter men commenting on this. Instead of venting your spleen on the comment section of a Destiny's Child video maybe you could think of, oh I dunno... wiping away those tears and hardening up.

  • you never see a women up on a roof fixing it, or down a pit (in the last 50 years)

    i've never had a female plumber or electrician come to my house (i move around alot btw) i've only ever met 5(max) women lorry drivers (none are long distance) and thay all looked like men, i've never seen a women working high up on a sky scraper

    where the fuck is the equal rights in that eh? there isnt any

    women will always say "oh thats a mans job we cant do that"

    where's the fucks mens equal rights?

  • @manonmoon12 who says men have to do that?

    it probably doesn't interest women which is why they don't do it, not that they can't.

  • @classicfashionerd men dont have to do that, but if people dont, the job dont get done, im just saying you women want equal rights you should do equal jobs, 90% of women have there fucking heads in the clouds " i wanna be a pop star!!" "i wanna be a fasion designer" where as men its all sensible jobs what thay will do

  • @manonmoon12 if they want to be pop stars so be it? there's just as many men who have the same dreams

    women probably don't do it because they'd rather do something else. i see your point but you can't generalize ALL men having sensible jobs. s'all i'm saying.

  • @classicfashionerd yep i agree, i shouldnt, but im just saying women always bang on about equal rights, and yet 1/2 of them dont want to do the work

  • @manonmoon12 I dont know any woman who wants to be a pop star or a fashion designer and I live in a house of all women. Normally in my family the ones who work and put th food on the table are the women and the man do just nothing. And my mama is a great single mama!

  • @manonmoon12 How many men do we see working as kindergarden teachers, as nurses or carers? Oh wait, you all say "that's a woman's job, we can't do that." Pull the sick out of your arse.

  • @ashtrayheartx rofl, come to england there's thousands of male nurses/careworkers and school/pre-school teachers, infact in some hospitals there's more male nurses then female

  • @manonmoon12 I am a girl but i hate all those girls tat want to be like men thinkin they r strong enough or cool.....i do things that men do but im not as strong as them nd i dont wanna be cuz woman is woman nd men is men..two differnt things..!!! ;)

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  • @manonmoon12 Can a man give birth? NOOOO!! So Shut the fuck up!

  • @TheAngelgirl1992 no we cant, but im sure if we could we'd do it

    but we can get her pregnant,  it takes 2 to tango...

  • @manonmoon12 The point is you cant give birth as a man.

    And think about this: If all men die next week. Women have still the opportunity to have kids because we can take sperm from a sperm-bank. But if all women die next week then there was a big problem!!!! Yes you can fix a lot of roofs, but human kind will not longer exist without a woman!!!!

    So the conclusion is men need women MORE!!

  • @TheAngelgirl1992 if all the women died next week, it would be a quiter place

  • @manonmoon12 you're sick and pathetic!! And your USERNAME is manonmoon12 but it should be manonMORON12!!!!! I will not respond any longer because i have a LIFE MORON!!

  • @TheAngelgirl1992 im sick? your the one surgesting incest 

  • @TheAngelgirl1992 yeah i know this was 5months ago but you like said you had a life and you wouldn't respond but then like you responded again does that mean you have no life.

  • @d3n122036 whahahha LOser!! Look at you!! Who has no life? You are talking about this and it is 5 months ago!! And i responded because i just could not believe that someone was soo dumb like manonmoon12, but now i know that i was wrong. You are more stupid than him ;) PS about your picture: You are not a gangster!! So stop acting like one!! ;)

  • @TheAngelgirl1992 na i was just curious why most comments were directed at manonmoon12 so i had a look and i saw you being a hypocrite so i had to just point it out.

  • @d3n122036 and i am just pointing out that you are a weirdo. You could've asked me also why i responded again. And i will tell you why, because he crossed the line. And that´s why i had decided to respond again. That is not hypocrite at all.

  • @TheAngelgirl1992 i kinda did ask why you responded. Fair enough you think it doesn't make you a hypocrite i however feel it does because you said it makes you a no life to do something but yet you do it. I am not calling you a no life btw im just stating that you are by your own statement.

  • @d3n122036 Well "Dr Phil thank you for your advice". i have told you why i had decided to respond again. I thought that he crossed the line. And what do you think it says about you that you still are talking about a comment that was 5 months ago? Do you have a life?? I know for sure that i have one. I have a good education, great family, nice friends and a loving boyfriend! So YES i have a life :) What about you?!! I just like youtube because it is good to learn the English langue. That's all!

  • @TheAngelgirl1992 yeah i just want to point out that your also commenting on something from 5months ago so your being a hypocrite again.

  • @d3n122036 Whahahhaa you are sooo sad! Get a life you poor guy ;)

  • @d3n122036 Whahah You started first talking about that comment from 5 months ago!! And you still have not answered my question. DO YOU HAVE A LIFE?? I guess not!! ;p Poor fake gangsta boy

  • @TheAngelgirl1992 Yeah but if you reply your also talking about something from 5months ago right. and i do have a life.

  • @d3n122036 Because you are still sending me things. Just Go outside, Have some fun, read a book, go to your girlfriend. if you have one, i doubt it ;) Haha. Just Enjoy your life and drop this nonsense. I know it's hard for you, but try it poor guy. You might enjoy it. I wish you all the luck. Lets me honest, you probably need it ;) And if you really want the last word, i will give it to you not because i think you are right, but just because you have nothing else in your life to be proud of ;)

  • @TheAngelgirl1992 isn't that nice. maybe you will be less of a hypocrite from now on.

  • @manonmoon12 i think thats the most unintelligent thing you've said so far, and thats saying something. Please just accept that we're in the 21st century and women are out their doing 'man jobs' just as well as men do them, and that we are free to do as we like

  • @iamracheleparker 3 words...... kitchen.. sandwich...now

  • @manonmoon12 i'm trying to have a mature intelectual debate here with u but by the sound of it, u arnt either of these things-which nationality are u? are u american?

  • @iamracheleparker why are you on the computer? and where's my sandwich

  • @manonmoon12 u know these replys arnt making you sound any more intelligent! I'll ask again - are u american?

  • @iamracheleparker and why is that any of your buisness? the only buisness what is yours is that you need to make me a sandwich

  • @manonmoon12 ok sorry, that's none of my buisiness. But please, why do you think men are so superior? And dont give me that shit on 'men's jobs'. I'm from yorkshire in england and over here women do 'men's jobs' just as well as men do!

  • @iamracheleparker its been the way since th stoneage! men do the work. women sort the house out, its what where best at, my parents have been married for 39 years and still going strong with this technique!

  • @manonmoon12 acctually, um, women collected 4/5s of the food, and they helped the men protect the caves. In fact, before about 200 bc, in lots of civillisations, (sorry about my spelling) women where the superior sex, and then men took over and so its been since untill now. i do understand and accept that men are generally physically stonger, but women have other aspects which make them just as good.

  • @iamracheleparker yeah.... like cooking skills!!!! oh and tits

  • @TheAngelgirl1992 andc another thing, IF you dont have any boys (and even then, if you do it would be classed as incest for the children to have sex, so you'd end up with fucked up babys) where would you get the sperm from then eh?

  • @manonmoon12 you are sooo dumb!! Do you how many men go to a sperm bank?! No you don't!! There are a lot of sperm to choose from!! It's not that there is only one man who give his sperm to the bank. And that was not even the point dumBass!! The piont was that a woman dont need a man to give birth! And a man needs a woman!!!! That is just a FACT! AND ACCEPT IT YOU MORON!!!

  • @TheAngelgirl1992 get back in that kitchen and make me a pie women, admit it, thats where you feel at home

  • @manonmoon12 Hahaha you Loser!! Are you from 1767?? I dont have to stand in the kitchen because i have an education! And YOU probably need one!! And if i want pie, i can buy it from the money i earned. You are so weak because i can see that a lot of women rejected you and that is the reason why you talk this shit about women. Face it, we women raise our kids....we have fun and we pay our bills! Just like beyonce said: All the women who are independent

    Throw your hands up at me!!!!