How I Became a Single Dad Part 1

[idontgetno]

at a loss for words. your loss, of course, is infinitely greater. alll my sympathies to you and your boys. vaya con Dios.

[METALLICARULES11]

i think its kind of rude to ask people to explain the death of a loved one because seriously i dont think they would want to talk about it

RIP Jeseca

[METALLICARULES11]

im so sorry a few months ago one of my classmates her dad died of blood cancer and he was the only man in ireland with that kind of cancer

[ronnieboy3]

sorry for your loss.

[TheCARISALICIOUS]

i am so sorry. I hope things get better for you. 

[pbscraze]

I am SO SORRY........Dealing with the loss of a spouse totally stabs you hard in the chest. At least she passed away peacefully in God's arms......

[internetfan2005]

while I was searching I saw a news story about a single dad being evicted and your video was one of the options on the side.

[internetfan2005]

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I came across your video searching for something completely different believe it or not, but this was a moving story, and I commend you for sharing it.

[marymonalisa1]

Sorry for your loss....my husband had cancer of the larynx and I thought what I went through was horrendous but listening to your story I realize we never know the path others walk...my son did not want to say goodbye and I respected his decision...he was 13 at the time....thank you for sharing...

[thereedsnc]

I am soooo very sorry for the loss of your beloved wife! My husband has been diagnosed with tonsil cancer and is currently undergoing radiation treatment.

[manilaenglish]

Your wife could still be alive if doctors didn't withhold treatment. She should have been treated in the very beginning and received the proper testing and care from the very beginning. But the doctors wouldn't do the tests, possibly because of back-door deal insurance reasons that doctors won't assign proper tests to young people.

Capitalism has no place in healthcare. The world needs to provide healthcare the same way they provide our police and fire department.

[manilaenglish]

So all the doctors I've seen AMERICAN DOCTORS, South Korea doctors, Filipino doctors are all the SAME.

So, my view from this experience is that CAPITALISM corrupts. Hospitals and doctors can earn more money from us later when they can no longer just wave us off as it's completely obvious it has become life and death. Then they rape us for every nickel. Pay up or die.

Capitalism is fine for selling potato chips, but when it comes to healthcare capitalism kills people.

[manilaenglish]

Why the hell don't recommend any tests? I'm paying them CASH!!! They don't have to play the insurance game with me. I'm paying the CASH!!!

I believe the idiots (most all doctors) have no scientific curiosity. They don't give a shit about experimenting or trying to verify their assumptions through tests. All they want is for us to visit them over and over again so it gets worse and more expensive and difficult to treat before they do anything. They want to milk us in the beginning and rape us.

[manilaenglish]

America is not any different. My right tonsil originally swelled up 6 years ago while I was still living in America. The American doctor told me it was NORMAL but a tonsil to grow 2 -3 times it's normal size over night and stay that way. He said it was a benign tumor growth and I was too young to get cancer so not to worry about it. A few years later the tonsil shrunk back down and 6 months ago it grew back in size again. Since 2 years ago my tongue became sensitive and swells from time to time

[manilaenglish]

2 years ago in the Philippines I took my mother-in-law to a private hospital where the doctor confirmed she had a hysterectomy vesicular mole and said her condition was an emergency and need a done within the next couple of days or the mole would dislodge and kill her. That evening I researched vesicular moles on the internet and learned right away the doctor was lying. In fact, that very night the mole dislodged itself and exited through her vagina as what normally happens in 99% of all cases.

[manilaenglish]

The doctor's logic for recommending to remove my uvula was that if I have the uvula removed then it will never enlarge again. WTF? This idiot who parades himself around as an ENT specialists recommends removing my uvula after it has been severally swollen for only a mere number of hours (and this isn't a recurring problem) yet he completely neglects to recommend removing my tonsils that have been swollen for 6 MONTHS nor perform a single test, not even so much as a strep culture.

[manilaenglish]

I asked him what the complications of having my uvula removed would be and he said nothing. The only thing that would happen is when I open my mouth my wife will notice that I don't have a uvula. That scumbag! Knowing without a doubt now that the bastard is a lying, incompetent, greedy, stupid idiot who probably cheated on his medical exams, I went home and researched the uvula myself on the internet. The doctor is an asshole!

[manilaenglish]

None of the doctors I have seen have recommended any tests. This morning I woke up with a very inflamed uvula. I believe it was caused from breathing throw my mouth while I was asleep and dehydrated. I saw my regular ENT doctor just hoping for some medication for a speedy recovery of the uvula. He gave me an injection and prescribed some tranquilizers and told me I should have my uvula removed on Monday which will cost 500,000 won.

[manilaenglish]

I have the same problem with doctors. They are greedy AND incompetent. I've had a throat infection for 4 months now. The ENT doctor I was seeing recommended me to the most expensive hospital in Korea and I don't have insurance. The ENT doctor first told me he "never heard of anything like that in his life" then told me just to gargle with salt water and the hospital charged me 140,000 won for a 5 minute bullshit consultation with a "specialist". My tonsils are still swollen 6 months in now.

[vertigoa]

I stumbled upon your video doing a search on you tube. I'm having surgery to remove an abnormally large tonsil on one side. But I found your video very interesting and moving. All the best for you and your children

[taze13]

I hope you're doing good. I can't even imagine the pain you must feel, but at least you have your boys to ease the pain.

[oldrestless]

still believe in God?

[singledadJG]

Yep.

[rolltideryan]

dang dude im sorry, even though its been a while ago my prayers are with you

godbless