Mary J. Blige - Not Gon' Cry (from the Waiting To Exhale Movie Soundtrack, 1995-96)

[jaynelldessert]

myyyyy shitttttttttt

[FRESHCOOLAIDE]

The love of self is the best love.

[Kisswish1]

I love when she sangs should have left your as a long time ago! Because that's how I am feeling but for some reason my damn feet aint moving!

[Kisswish1]

This is how Im feeling right now! I been back and forth through this bullshit since I was 17 and Im tired!

[NaturalRepublic]

I KNOW I deserve better than that crapp!

[nohairdontcare100]

@NaturalRepublic u know it!!

[ladybug284]

word they sure enough dont be crying cause they sorry fucking dogs lol

[trezz18]

Classic :) I love you Mary!

[Shelleyd77]

Love the part of the movie when he finds out that she got the evidence of all the hidden assets and he had to give her all of that money despite not giving her a dime earlier~bastard....that is true revenge.

[kiyamaz31]

love you mary because you sing from the heart

[josieufgator]

Some of those days Mary gotta help you remember

[rockabillygal19592]

:))



[jossyubz]

thisss isss maa shit!!!!!!

[SuperKms3]

MJB.-NGC!

[markknize]

she saying im not gon cry but im crying

[bianca12hot]

ill never get old

[sarinhawolski]

bommmmmmmmmmmmmm

[63978]

Ok Who Tf Would Dislike This

[solleilua]

LOVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVEEEEE THIS SONG

[SOUTHSUP]

fuck niggahz iplay them foolz lyk shit bitch haha

[dreababbie]

I just got played by my ex....thought we were goin to work things out..instead got with another chick n hasn't even told me..found out over facebook..I feel like a dumb bitch for beliving the shit he told me...never again...So I got this song on repeat to help me through this and make me realize that shit does get better

[Lilbark1]

I was raised by women, and saw many of them get dogged out and get done real dirty. I've seen some brothas get dogged out too, but it's been mostly women that I have seen get dogged out. All I can say is if you've been a victim, keep yo' head up, there are good people out there on both sides.....just be patient and take your time, I believe there's someone that is right for everybody.

[superyummy30]

This song takes me back...I was sad when this song was came out..Mary pulled me through with this one..Thanks Mary..this is my joint right here!!!

[mizzmonique85]

i love this song i know what she talking about man aint shit when u have a good woman they dont hnow how to act they want just a one night stand and and want to bring there dirty dicks back never be sceond always be first and keep god first before any man they come a dime a dozen

[mstinktink212]

LOVE IT

[TAINA1226]

wow memorie's! she say's 11year's nd i say 15!

[mayoosalah]

@TAINA1226 Me too 15 years :)

[jameserica28]

i not cry i don.t needno men



[prtnst]

when i was 5yrs my single mom would always listen to this..she recorded this song with a voice recorder..Now I'm a 22yrs man & worship my mother for everything she sacrificed for...i know now what this is about...My father was a coward...thanx to my mother & grandmother, I promise I would be the most loyal & loving father & made sure i be ther for my family

[channy257]

@prtnst good on you. Hope you find the right girl

[91curlygirl]

this song among my best songss..!!

[ladybug284]

my husband decided to cheat with a dirty d sucking ho next door why do they fuck the uglyish shit beer belly bitch is all good i took him back cause we havekids together but shit changed im on my game

[2015mesha]

My mom went to see that movie the nite before she had me

[chawmia210]

THIS IS THE DAM TRUTH BUT SAD THAT SOME OF US GOT TO GO THROUGH IT SMH

[MrMiami420]

i jus lived in my living room

[MsTopazblue]

THIS STILL JAMMING, I LUV IT...

[prettyleisha1]

my mother told me mary j Blige was Best i didnt belive her then i listen this song, and she was right, this song help me alot with my first love and im only 18

[jackson6806]

this waz my frindz theme song when she waz goin' thru her divorce... thanks for posting.

[iAmSlimJim143]

Im 15 . . And i always used to wonder why my mom hugged me so tight when i was little . . And then came the confessions recently . . Mom i Love you :'(

[loukiajr]

11.111 likes... funny haha! 

[TheKELLZBABII]

ANY MAN THAT CAN TELL A WOMAN HE LOVES HER AND VISE VERSA AND GO LAY DOWN WITH SOMEONE ELSE IS A PIECE OF SHIT . AND I HATE THEY CRY YOU ONLY SORRY YOU GOT CAUGHT BECAUSE GUARANTEED YOU WERE NOT CRYING WHEN YOU WAS FUXKIN

[solleilua]

@TheKELLZBABII Hell yeah damn i hear you Girl i love how you said this --> BECAUSE GUARANTEED YOU WERE NOT CRYING WHEN YOU WAS FUXKIN :)

[CorleonBills]

@TheKELLZBABII LMAO at some dude crying while he's fuxcking... Thats Hilarious, but You are telling truth though

[FRESHCOOLAIDE]

Ladies, ladies.. What about the men? I got played too. It goes both ways. I gave a woman 2 and a half GOOD years of my life, and as soon as I came back from my first tour in Iraq, for some reason everything changed. I helped her out alot, risking my life trying to build a good home and future for us... Then she ends up skipping out on me with someone who had a little more. I knew something was up when she started all them big ass fights over nothing. Engaged, mysterious mis-carriage and all.

[colemanchick3]

@FRESHCOOLAIDE I know how it feels.. I am a girl I have ben with my boyfriend for almost six years I am 18 and through all the shit he put me through we still going strong.. he cheated more than 3 or 4 times I forgave him, I cheated once an I learned from mine.!

[FRESHCOOLAIDE]

@colemanchick3 Damn.. All them times YOU got cheated on, I can't even blame you for cheatin'. I just learned in life that, the day you find the one you are supposed to be with for life is not gonna be the one you look for, or meet in the club, or through a mutual friend. They will show up when you least expect it. Maybe it has'nt happened yet. But trust me, true love will just creep up on you. It has'nt found me yet but I know it will in the future. You'll understand once you get older : )

[FRESHCOOLAIDE]

@colemanchick3 Love is only right when it happens natural. When either partner forces love... It is destined to fail. Always remember that.

[iiccy02]

after six years i just loss a child and he leaves me for the next bitch

[MPAPA1908]

Ladies, if your man is cheating with another woman, instead of pissing all over him, shouldn't you check ALL the other woman helping him getting hard? If all the WOMEN in this world said NO to a man who had ANOTHER woman there WOULDN'T be all this pain. US men are WEAK when it comes to making a woman MOAN to our rhythms. If you ladies held your head up for each other your pain would subside, the blame goes YOU girlfriend, don't blame us for loving what we love too much.... which is WOMEN.

[catwhoisfat]

i hate how men do this treat women like shit when they treat them like the light of their life, i dont understand it, ive never had a gf probably because im shy and dont go with the norm (drinking, smoking, clubs, etc) yet my mates who treat girls like shit keep getting gf's and have relationships for a couple of weeks and then it ends, even cousins/uncles who have gf's or wife's will talk about women like theyre not in a relationship, im ashamed to be a man because of people like this

[colemanchick3]

@catwhoisfat Where u at I need to find u!!

[catwhoisfat]

@colemanchick3 haha :)

[ashton3002]

@sodoneEsha you should have beat his ass

[MsSheyken]

STUPID MEN SHE HAD JUST LIKE MINE

[Jetplane1123]

And it's not always men who cheat on women, too...

[Jetplane1123]

If you're a hoe, and you cheat on your long term boyfriend on NEW YEARS, go rot in hell.

[AkashaMai6]

remember ladies to breathe and let it all go, cause everything will be ok!

[tippersmami]

if he doesnt give you his best ya dont need him anyway....do for yourself

[mzlott1]

my ex killer got me good many years he dogged me and my pride selfesteam BUT NOT ANYMORE hes HER TROBULES

[AnnetteMatos]

Ladies...when he's letting weeks go by and doesn't call or if he's acting like he doesn't give a bleep, then he truly and genuinely doesn't give a bleep!

[beautifulegyptian20]

@AnnetteMatos Truer words have never been spoken

[AnnetteMatos]

@beautifulegyptian20 I know. Because it means that he has found his next victim!

[prettyslim2010]

i been with this guy 9 years, been married to him for 6 of those years, and it breaks my heart to say everything i thought we had was all based on lies.

[MzCeCeBoo1]

MARY NEEDS TO GO BAK TO DESE DAYS IMA 90'S BABY ND I MISS DA OLD 90'S LUV SONGS!!!! ND @MAKEUPBYMARIAH1 GURL B STRONG FOR UR BABY WEN IT CUMZ ND DNT LET NO MAN KEEP U DWN U GNE B UPSET FOR AH WHILE BT FORGET DAT NIGGA CUZ DA RIGHT ONE OUT DERE FOR U..GOD JS AINT PUT HIM IN UR LIFE YET.. BE BLESSED

[MANRIQUEZSYDNEY]

I LKIE



[bunnyshawts]

tetd

[bunnyshawts]

gdteeteyed

[tammy8114]

why all the time you i was i love for 13 yrs you drinking and cheat now i left u and want me back and leave me hell alone

[thoro321]

The root of all evil isnt money its 'Self-Concern"....

[jimialwaystrue1231]

IM YUNG AND WAS IN LOVE AND WEN I WAS YUNG I USE TO HEAR ERBDY PLAYN DIS WEN THINGS AINT GOIN RIGHT IN THERE RELATIOSHIPS DEN WEN I FOUND OUT WHAT THE WORD ME NA ITS ON REPEAT!!!

[ooberduh]

no kids no hubby no one exclusive and noooo problems.... lol. love's a crock, enjoy the fun in life. love this song tho, mostly just because I like to sing it : )

[tyuanna123]

All the girl don't cry over a boy

[tarkin8]

3 kids and 10 years of bullshit

[tarkin8]

man im so sorry for everyone whos going through this shit!!! i am atm and have just had a baby another one

[makeupbymariah1]

8 & a half months pregnant & I learn my punk ass boyfriends been in a relationship with another girl for 3 months. Smh. All I can say is I wish you all the best in life but any woman okay with being the other woman for 3 months & any man okay with cheating on a good ass woman is not sh**.

[EishabooIeisha]

@makeupbymariah1 i love this

[Xziau1]

@makeupbymariah1 You better stay strong girl. I feel sorry for your baby, but file child support on his dog ass.

[AjTee23]

@makeupbymariah1

Daqqum thats messed up yo ,well just keep your head up for your baby & FUCK that muthha fuckka ,you better than that ish , , 

[redshawty29]

@makeupbymariah1 Girl do u n urs nand say deuces..........there are good men that will handle what he didnt want to! I know, I have one, and like Mary, I'm not gone cry! HE AINT WORTH YOUR TEARS!!!!

[1XxSHAWTYxX2]

im not gon cry its not the time.!

[reach974]

that video is the stuff do it rightt

[ogmookieloc420]

Mary mmm sexy hood and just fine!!

[Letmeb29]

"11years i sacrificed & you could leave me at the drop of a dime, swollowed my fears, stood by your side...i should've left your ass a thousand times". TRUE FRIGGIN WORDS

[Letmeb29]

ANTHEM

[dr7734573882]

Just as there are physical laws of the universe

(such as gravity), there are also laws for

relationships. Just as the right diet and

exercise program makes you physically stronger,

certain habits in your relationship WILL make

your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and

effect. If you know and apply the laws, the

results are predictable - you can "make" love.

[MissPoetry20]

the lyrics would be diff if someone from around here was singing it to their baby daddy lol (while all the time I was stroking or lusting u would be the words lol)

[sanv89]

when my love broke my heart i would listen to this song all day n night n yea i would cry..lol but it sure made me stronger after a min... LOVE IT love her such a strong women!

[EsquireDaDriver]

The official batter woman song....

[kjones1112]

lov dis song n still bumpin it in 2011

[babygirlrockstar1]

im srry i think its 2 late i already cryed. sometime in my life, i think. lol

[TheSexysimms]

love this song

[billionkek]

Any one knows if she ever did cry? Just asking! lol

[misshazeleyes5577]

they dont know wat they have till it's gone...... too all the ladys...

[crazileggsable]

yes ur not worth my tears

[hyphiegirl12]

This song and Resentment I swear they are singing about me.

[MissPerfection19]

nobody will EVER make a song like this again.... everybody can relate to this song... its jut perfect

[billionkek]

@MissPerfection19 Nah. Lauryn Hill ex-factor. Give this a run for it's money. But they both still Good!

[deontaft7]

mymomloveyoursusu

[deontaft7]

bes

[annawilliams65]

THIS SONG WILL ALWAYS BE A CLASSIC FOR THE WOMEN THAT THINK THEY DON'T HAVE A VOICE AND FOR THE B@@@TCHES THAT THINK IT IS NOT KNOWN YOU WEEP WHAT U SOW!!!

[SodoneEsha]

My ex husband.. cheated on me with the same bitch for 4 yrs.... Its all good though.. because whatever is built on infidelity ENDS on infidelity...and thats real talk!

[MANRIQUEZSYDNEY]

@SodoneEsha  HELL YEAH GIRL JUST KEEP YOUR HEAD UP BOYS / MEN ARE STUIPED AND THAT REAL TALK AND THIS IS G@NST@ GIRL BUT MY REAL NAME IS SYDNEY

HOLLA THAT ME!

[Sunnyhaze2006]

@SodoneEsha Unfortunately, your right. It's the old saying..if it can happen WITH you, it'll happen TO you.

[TheMyeshasings]

@Sunnyhaze2006 yup!

[EishabooIeisha]

@SodoneEsha he dont deserve u hunn believe dat!!!!

[manonshell]

@SodoneEsha I agree absolutely.

[PocaTooReal]

I'm not gonna cry - Classic ! <3 Marry !!!

[TheMollyc19]

the 90s has the best musical artist.

[215prettydboy]

dont take no shit fellas in ladies 

[shakiramagia]

Sing Mary Sing!

[ShawtyBaddd100]

I still I seen dis moviie yet!

[cibida1]

@ShawtyBaddd100 its on netflix if u got it

[772277ful]

im soo afraid ill be singing this in the next six years. but u cant be afraid of life rite. so lets live it to the fullest

[TASExeleven12elevenx]

Just had to remind myself just now that crying aint gone get his dumb mama to stop trying to control what I do with my child and get him to learn to stand up to his mama about his kid... Thank you MJB!!!!!!!

[acoolchick]

Not much of a video in itself though I love the song and the movie and of course MJB.

[lovesel193]

This was the jam back in the day still is I love the Old depressed Mary... But I am really loving the new Mary.. Man fuck it I just love me some Mary she has helped me thru my relationships...

[vidhead85]

As much as I love waiting to Exhale, they all were at fault for a lot of the situations in their lives. But when do the MEN exhale? There are some triflin' women out here...but again, awesome movie and this movie makes me glad I'm a gay male lol

[teshiab1987]

I love this. I hate what she went thru, but her music was soooo much better back then.

[Izzycuddles09]

be there.

[FLYGURLS38]

REAL SHIT WANT WAY BACK.... I CANT DO IT....

[aero912]

90s were the Golden Age of R&B

[brandy306]

i cant believe this song only has over 3 million views!! ffs!

[ABSTILLIDIE]

this song is so true

[hhv94]

The whole soundtrack was great! Mary J are one of the few artist I'll listen too nowadays.

[raywill708]

LUV-IT----LIVED-IT-2-!!!

[Kennyswifey]

Mary is the FUC*IN TRUTH! and Fu*k who ever doesn't think so!

[aquia468]

@Kennyswifey I FEEL U



[WWEHardyFan9]

You had to go through something for it to make you cry or a anthem!

Bernadine, you're the one who exhaled and told who was going do what!

[lilkk378]

I LOVE YOU MARY J BLIGE THIS SONG IS MAKEING ME CARY

[myfathersprincess]

Get yo shit, get yo shit and get out!!!!!! Love AB and MJB!

[thevideouser]

"I would stop breathing if you told me to now you're busy loving someone else"-Classic Love Story

[420ajp]

DONT READ THIS CAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS. YOU WILL GET KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMOROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. HOWEVER IF YOU DONT POST THIS ON THREE VIDEOS YOU WILL DIE WITHIN THE NEXT TWO DAYS. NOW, YOU'VE ALREADY STARTED READING SO DONT STOP. THIS IS SCARY. PUT THIS ON FIVE VIDEOS IN THE NEXT 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOUR DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR LOVERS NAME WILL APPEAR ON THE SCREEN IN BIG LETTERS. THIS IS SCARY CAUSE IT ACTUALLY K

[Kimmieleggs]

Sorry but she needs to make up her mind about whether she is black or white. The blonde hair just kills me! LMAO!!!!

dAT.DAT...DAT...DAT...DAT DEY OVA DEM DAT DAT DAT DARN BLEACH BE GITTEN IN ME EYES!!!! HA, HA, HA, HA, HA, HA!!!!!!!!!!!!! TOO FUNNY....

[JadoreDior30]

@Kimmieleggs Regardless of the color of hair she is an exceptional artist and your ignorant comments only solidifies her status as one of the best R&B singers in the world . I mean why else would you be hating on Mary if she wasn't the one of Greatest Of All Times....

[Kimmieleggs]

@JadoreDior30 It's all part of 'the package" No doubt she is an exceptional artist and up there with being one of the best...there are many. What I had to say is not hating, you are being overly sensitive and being way too defensive. You don't need to be that way it shows inability to handle criticism. You don't think that Mary had to put up with criticism to get to where she is today? All artists do. I love MJB, getting in a tizzy...hmm well the constant changes, do confuse. white/black???

[Kimmieleggs]

Sorry but she needs to make up her mind about whether she is black or white. The blonde hair just kills me! LMAO!!!!

[MrAitor40]

Probably the greatest song of this woman :)

[Sammienza88]

I Swear the part were Angela Bassett walks off after she sets her mans cloths on fire *FUCCKIN BADASSS* That scene will forever be an epic one ...

[dgsouth08]

This is my Jam, My momma used to listen to this when I was younger and it transpired into my life! Yes Mary J

[pagspizzapunk]

There is always gon b dat one person dat afta ya split up u wont cry ova dem because u are just so fed up wit dey shyt

[815babygurl]

im not going to cry im having a hard time dealing with life and making my child happy but i know what i have tooo do and i want to live like a real woman and do me like a strong black woman im string i dont need a man to make it im not going to cry i love this jam .

[Lilbark1]

This my jam, love bumpin' this loud when the house is empty...lol....which is all the time. Been divorced for a long time, but it was the right thing to do, at least that's how I look at it. No cheating, but not right for each other. Just a lesson learned and won't let it happen again (bad marriage). Song brings back memories, but gots to play it.

[Kitty25cc]

Yooo I just watched Waiting To Exhale classic you know what's funny is when you don't get the point of somethings in movies until you get older and then it's like something clicks like ohhhhh that's why they did that LOL I was sooo young when this came out I really didn't get all of the movie now I sit back and watch it like DAMNNNN these ladies whent THROUGHHH honey especially Bernadett LOVE this song!

[MsCGary]

@Kitty25cc Soooooo TRUE! I was old enough to get it when it came out and I STILL LOVE IT!!!! Preach it Mary!

[Kitty25cc]

@MsCGary I know right it makes you want friends like this in your life for years because they really know you they know when somethings is wrong and they are suppose to stick by you like a True Friend would you know this makes me have hope that if I go through things like this in my life my friends now will still be there I hope so (cheers to having good friends in your life through whatever) = )

[mendoza1974p]

THIS SONG REMINDS ME OF MY EX-HUSBEN I GAVE HIM 13 YEARS! AND NOW I AM HAPPY WITH MY KIDS..... 

[sexyblack1440]

alll dah tyme det ii was loving yhu .. yhu were busy loving yourself

[lanala95]

i love this song and j will always will

[TheVick408]

I DONT CARE WHAT ANYBODY SAYS THIS MY SHIIITTTT

[kagamigod]

i played this to my ex husband when we divorced....cheating fat mtf

[Rotten103]

i saw that movie awesome

[jlaudiofan1984]

Fuck all cheaters everywhere, male of female.

[qwnjas101]

To all my ladies that have delt with or are still dealing with men who aint sh#t, dont shed a tear show that bumb you better than that!!!

[BaddLilBroad20]

@qwnjas101 aqreee !!!!! ii traded mii " 0 " for a wonderful " hero " .. kudnt ask 4 n'e thinq better :D

[brightwood257]

she STATED SHE WOULD HAVE STOP BREATHING IF HE TOLD HER SO,,,, WOW THATS ENOUGH SAID,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

[KiwiLovely14]

im only 14 yet i love this song to death... does that make me weird?

[me51203]

@KiwiLovely14 no hunny we are the same and u r not the only 1 :)

[pbryant89]

i am speechless- i would have left that nigga a lloooong time ago.(no offense- im black).

[tierra521]

this is my song!!

[Tsholzzz]

and i didn cry...

[rachelshavon]

This is dedicated to my soon to be cheating @ss ex husband!! Your sorry @ss gonna wish the day never came you lost me forever!!! 6 years wasted!! I bleached all his clothes and totalled his car that'll teach you!! NOT ONE TEAR!

[IndiBoo002]

@rachelshavon lmao while im more than happy u did this, take this off of youtube before he print it out and carry it into a courtroom somewhere. lmao

[d11i37n31]

This song was my athem when I sadly went through a divorce in 96. I helped keep me strong and was so right on time.So for the woman who sadly is going through this KNOW it will get better! I re-married seven years latter to the man of my dreams and we will celebrate eight years in twelve days. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!

[Mrsh3artbr3ak]

@rachelshavon Damn!! Good for u! Happy you got out!

[SodoneEsha]

@rachelshavon I know exactly how you feel... What didnt kill you will only make you STRONGER!

[themodel4u]

im not gon cry,im not gun shed no tears, no im not gon cry its not worth the time cause your not worth my tears - real shit.

[Duce102694]

A Fucking Classic!

I love you Mary J. Blige