Finally sistahs Speak Honestly!

[05311990frog]

racism affects the black man and the white man, the black man doesn't know he's being suppressed and the white man doesn't even realize that they're one who keep suppressing. Racism is a system of white supremacy and it dominates us all. It maintains the status qou. Talking like these women did is the only way beat.

[wisenuff1]

THIS VIDEO MAKES ME PROUD OF MY BW, They are not bashing, and are willing to take fellow SISTER by the hand,and show them POWER, true strength. NOT WAITING ON MEN TO DO tell another man to stop this respecting.But take the power amongst themselves and lead women to be women, A man can't teach a women how to be a women. I love sisters with Power that dont play blame game!

[deionc]

it dosent bother me that there are black women willing to be "dancers" in these rap videos, it bothers me that these are the only images of black women that we see.

[rickey2b4]

im not even afended by the fact that he called them nappy head its the hoes part that pissed me off

[melyssafordsis1]

it's okay for a white women but not for black does hue hefner exploit women..........yes he does jus because he has a modeling business doesn't mean he's not doin that to just get him some huh thought so but i think that black women are more than what people think we are

[othajr23]

its a conspiracy they are putting on themselves by being ignor-rant of history,prideful and rebellious...also watching too much sex in the city and girlfriends and all that crap wanting to be jezebels so bad wanting to be white lesbians like the ones who duped us when we got voting rites and told them to join the womens movement b4 they had proper human rites totally out of order and in the plan of white supremacy...n sit n the church and have yet to recognize that she is eve and her weaknesses

[bluchicdotnet]

and i did't see not one perm on this video while the main part was playin... imagine if all black folk wore their own natural hair...

[KamauAmani]

WOW! ho?! whench?! american negro black women?! and we use these words. boy...

[MMAJISTY]

im a black man from the MIDWEST!!!...

I respect most WEST COAST BLACK WOMEN !, who go throuh so much shit out their !.....

im hurt, but feel a sista!

BLACK UNITY !...

or BLACK GENOCIDE !

u decide..

[tauruslove88]

The Majority of Us black women make it ok for our men to disrespect us but when we hear men of other races using these SAME derogatory comments we get offended! wtf?? We BW need to change ourselves 1st, boycott the booty shaking music videos, drop the perms and the weaves, hit the gym, fix ya attitude, STOP HAVING SEX OUTSIDE MARRIAGE, GAIN SOME SELF RESPECT!!!. there cannot be a collective change until the NURTURES of our community change first.

[skypurple15]

everything you said except the perm and the weaves. we have the right to wear our hair whatever way we want w/ no shame.

[tauruslove88]

i hear u sista but that was just my opinion, Im 4 the upliftment of the black community, the real black community free 4rm all eurocentric ideals that we have acquired since slavery including the need that most of us have 4 straightening our kinks, we do it every six to twelve weeks without realising that its a mentality rather than a choice. i cud go on and on, but the world wont change over nite. peace love nd hair grease :P

[900kingkongs]

black community no you must be talking about american community the real real black community is starvin for food not worryed about there hair.

[tauruslove88]

i don't come from america so i wouldn't know, but i have a rough idea... when i said black people i was referring to those who don't live on continental africa, though SOME on the continent have already become too westernised. speaking from experience.

[900kingkongs]

word! its stupid.

[NowFaithe]

Yup. As a faithful relaxer I hate to admit it but for me - I'm saying FOR ME SO restrain the drama - I was devestated a couple of months ago when my relaxer didn't take. I felt horrible; and suffered major self esteem withdrawals. It was then that I realized the hold that the creamy crack had on me; it was then that I decided to ditch it altogether. If I can't feel pretty without it I need to sit it down until I do. It took all of ONE WEEK for me to get excited about seeing my natural hair!

[900kingkongs]

why would you want to put perm in your hair?

[skypurple15]

one word: convenience

[900kingkongs]

see i overstand why you put perm in your hair its and image you concerned about your image your not really into your original hair you see the vivid images and they make you believe that your hair isnt beatiful the way it was.but thats originality and girl lacks personality when she looses orighinality.

[sistahgifts]

Powerful and Truthful comment here. I did exactly the same thing you stressed here...boycott the degrading rap music and booty shaking videos...stopped having sex outside of marriage and gained some self respect. That's why there are so many anti-black women videos posted by so many black men...it started in rap music and what did we do? We shook our booties and then fed it to our daughters. The only way to reverse this is to turn away from that which perverts us.

[tauruslove88]

go ahead sista! ppl like us have to set the pace, hopefully others of this generation will soon follow.

[TheSchola3000]

o shit thats crenshaw!! i live right down the street from there

[DCJusticeDC]

I guess no-one wants to talk about God's commandments on a national level. Too many irrelevant issues are becoming priorities in this country.

[bomsheeta]

stop buying rap records and wearing slut close start calling yourselves queens not bitches stop likuing the bad boys

[mikecockrell]

Rap albums, calling yourself queens and liking bad boys isnt the problem.....Its how you wear your Proof......

[tranmo45]

I hear what these sisters are saying concerning the male rappers who refer in general to African American women as hoes. But what about the women FEMALE RAPPERS who present themselves as gloddigging hoes? What about the video chicks who INDEPENDENTLY CHOOSE to be a part of those videos? When a man doesn't much play from women while he is broke and on the grind, then he is suddenly adored when the fruits of his labor surface...I don't have enough room, but you get it...

[leadingbyxample]

And how does "pointing the finger" solve any of our problems? Women perpetuate these stereotypes everyday. Ok...and what's your point? When are we going to go past the finger pointing stage, and move on to making concrete changes in our communities. Pointing the finger and placing blame on others does NOTHING.

[equationoracle]

tHE PROBLEMS ARE SO OBVIOUS I CANT EVEN SPEAK

IMPROVE YOUR TRUTH!

[swensu]

3% of black woman dAte inter 74% black males no one wants black woman and its so sad if only they would lower the drama level and stop being so nasty.

[g0ronchev]

"sisters" is the correct spelling, stupid.

[hyper10shun]

so much fuking talking here, stop talking and start teaching your little black boys that, little black girlsa are precious and teach ur girls that they are not to be disrespected. It all starts in the home, stop blaming white ppl, stop the mental slavery in America claim your race back, the white ppl around today are not to blame, everyone is responsible 4 themselves, drop the blame, mothers teach ur kids

[BlackstarShip]

THESE WOMEN ARE SO BEAUTIFUL!

[uesat]

This stupid bitch dares to compare Don Imus with hip-hop. Name me ONE hip hop song were the rapper calls black women who go to college nappy headed hoes. Name me ONE. Just one hip hop song that calls college black women hoes.

[leadingbyxample]

You fail to see the point. I don't care if a rapper is referring to a "college black woman" or a stripper...they and Don Imus are one in the same. Ignorant comments like yours are the reason why we cannont move forward. There was a time when hip hop uplifted and educated us. Nowadays, it glorifies fame, fortune and sex, and exploits black women. Hip hop, in my opinion, rarely exists these days. So, stop pretending that rappers are better than Imus. They are not; they are far worse.

[PYROofPNI]

On one hand I can agree with you in saying that hip hop is not what it used to be from an educational standpoint. on the other hand I have to ask at what point do the grown women in rap videos be held accountable for their decisions?Granted, rappers can take some responsibility for in a sense marketing such things but to hold them fully accountable is a bit ridiculous and to say they are worse than imus is even more ridiculous. We cannot move forward because rap is everyone's scapegoat.

[opinionatorX]

Man! Lets cut all this black crapp out! What ever happened to the good ole Godly human spirit? God wants all of us to be saved. Also, it's funny how some women will preach against some hip-hop but will shake their butts to the same music when they're in da club wit there girls....

[renea1977]

You black men are the most hateful towards your own women. You ought to be ashame of yourself, and you want to know why more and more black women are crossing over. What educated woman in her right mind will date a man that hates his own race of women? You ought to be burned in the stake.

[djedchapman]

So you think black men should be burned at the stake? You think that white men are better? Sounds like you hate your race and you should suffer the same fate. Their are plenty of black men with sense, but black women choose black thugs and ingore resepctful brothers and instead get white boys to suit her own self hate!

[tampa76]

I am a white man, and I love my black women! They know how to treat a white man with respect!

[renea1977]

You damn right we do!!!! I love white men.

[LivingSymbiote]

yea... we know you do... since slavery

[KushWarriorReturns]

What Don Imus said was the fault of the rappers? Bull shit! This fucking honky don't even listen to rap and this guy is in is 60's why a 60 years old man would like to listen to rap music for youngsters? It seems that too many ass kissers love to proctect their own oppressor!

[Washanen07]

Who color woman is this I'm about to describe. neck rollin, finger snappin, head bobbin, weave wearin, loud mouthed, attitude havin, dont respect there own men, but submit to white men, gold digging, overweight, thug lovers, good men ignorers, call good men "corny" then complain it aint no good men, manly acting, booty shakin, bastard children raising, hoochie mama, drama queens, non responsibility taking, woman. guess what color woman this is. sterotypes wouldnt exist if it wasnt somewhat true

[Washanen07]

Exactly sistas just run there mouths, more then they run there ears. They might as well chop there ears off, because they never listen. They just want to blame, deny, attack, lie, make excuses, get defensive, personally attack someone, etc. Thats the real reason why 70% of them are single. They're hard headed, and don't listen. Black women need to stop laying up with these thugs, havin babies by thugs over good black men who they call "lame" & "corny"

[agunwaoke]

great post whoever you are.

[DrJPhoenixx]

Sad to say, Washanen07, but the thugs who supposedly have the hearts and minds of a lot of women in the U.S. of A. are responsible for the most sissified sounding music we've ever heard, the glorification of ignorance, and the reason why the women almost have to keep our social institutions (home, church, family, school) alive. so, POP(ular) culture WILL EAT ITSELF. God bless you and good night!

[Washanen07]

Black women always no matter the circumstance, want to blame all of there problems on the black man. Yet they claim they're by our sides I don't ghat. Here a white man calls em "nappy headed hos" and here the brothas are(al sharpton) defending the sistas, and what the sistas do. Blame black men. Like sistas do not talk down on white men, ever. They hold white men on a pedestal, and treat us bm like we are inferior. Then bw wonder why 70% of em are single & rappers call them "bitchs" & "hoes"

[BBRICK123]

Wow... you noticed the same thing. lol

[Washanen07]

I been noticed that about black women. You don't hear any black women, talking down to white men. All of sistas problems, they blame it on black men. Yet they fail to realize these are the same black women, raising these black boys to be men by themselves. But know need to debate with a sista about it though. because they simply don't want to listen to what a brotha has to say. They're going to do there own thing, then wonder why they remain unmarried, 70% single baby mamas.

[BBRICK123]

I'm damn near 45 years old, and I've seen this same pattern as early as I can recall. In my 40+ years I've never heard a Black woman apologize for a damn thang. She can be DEAD WRONG -- DEAD WRONG, and that Black female PRIDE, that ATTITUDE won't allow her to humble herself to admit to any of her fukked up ways. It's ALWAYS the Black man's fault! She can be a crack-head whore, selling her pussy at $50 a pop and SHE'LL ALWAYS find a way to blame it on a BLACK MAN!

[BBRICK123]

I've been working as co-counsel for child portective services for the last 20 years. I have noticed (and their is research to support this) that overwhelming, it is the black male child who is emotionally neglected, or physically and fatally abused his Black mother! And when this gets pointed out, BLACK WOMEN still blame the MISSING Black man. "Where Was The Baby Daddy" is the only thing that comes out of her mouth.

[BBRICK123]

When the child fucks up -- even though she raised and spoiled the little criminal, she blames THE MISSING DADDY who may have seen the child only once in his life. LET THE CHILD DO WELL, and she gladly takes ALL THE CREDIT. Good or bad, she raised him and she needs to take RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE OUTCOME.

[Washanen07]

yep. when black womens baby boy, fucks up, they so quick to say "oh its my no good baby daddy fault" but when that boy becomes an nba star, black women want to shout "hurray" I did it by myself. See there. They want to take credit when the boy does good, but want to blame mr baby daddy when the boy fucks up. 9 times out of 10 the boy will always fuck up, if mama layed up with some thug ass nigga, over a good black man. whom sistas call "corny"

[BBRICK123]

Again, this ISN'T NEW. The Black woman's HATE and disregard for the Black man AND EVEN HER OWN BLACK SONS was noted as early as the 1960's. They denied it THEN and they deny it NOW:

"...Embittered by their experiences with [Negro] men, many Negro mothers often act to perpetuate the mother centered pattern by taking a GREATER INTEREST in their DAUGHTERS than their SONS."

--Thomas F. Pettigrew, A Profile of the Negro American, 1964

[xXNubianQueenXx]

Why do you ONLY attack the Rappers about "Soft-Porn" and never the white internet HARDCORE XXX porn pimps?

Please explain this someone?

Black children are watching our women degraded

for cash by white men's fortune 500 filth!

[mom2dave]

Why do White people go around like vultures on the internet seeking videos pertaining to Black people? What is wrong with you fools? I mean if you hate Black people so much, why would you even look at, search for, participate in anything that has to do with us? It makes me wonder. Maybe you are trying to convince yourselves that you hate us, when you really have a secret fetish.

[C9pherD9v9ne]

BUT ANYWAY fuck don imus.

[C9pherD9v9ne]

people seem to forget HE ALSO SAID JIGGABOOS.

[Bloodsport1]

when mention jiggaboos he also said that with Spike Lee's movie SChool Daze about the different colors of black women. he knew exactly what he was saying.

[rckbttm14]

why do they have original man (negroids) talking whether its ok or not 4 whites to say something as opposed to us saying things. feel like i'm in a time warp. were you able to take a pack of dogs and attack white ppl, no but they were able to do it to you, were you able to take and hang white ppl from trees no you weren't, but they did it to you. get the point here

[blacktownnation]

How come black women have so many "baby daddys??"

Yet, she was never married to any of them....

[leadingbyxample]

The answer is simple...because she is foolish and has made the same mistake time and time again. I don't need to remind you that it takes two the create a child.

Repairing the black community starts AT HOME. I don't care what anyone says, there is a proper order to things. You are to get married, have sex, then have children. This doesn't happen in our society anymore. Nothing is sacred anymore.

[PYROofPNI]

And here I can agree with you 100% for the second half of your statement. YES it does start at home and the more people realize it,the better off we'll be as a people. Sadly, America encourages and condones too many negative and destructive practices and those without a conscious mind and sometimes even those with one get caught up in the nonsense.

[CallMeMiss2]

Very true.

[irocdis]

not, do your research, before Africa it was call Nubia and or Kush

[dolcerockie]

i am black. i love myself. so should we all :)

[irocdis]

WE ARE NOT BLACK WE ARE NUBIANS, PLEASE GET IT RIGHT B-lack people, Love yourself PLEASE

[MrChiCity]

I find it hilarious...that all the women at this confrence....are all unattractive.

Have you ever noticed how you never see women that look like HALLE Berry, Beyonce, Ky Toi Johnson, Deelishous, Hoopz, Pam Greere, Coco T....are never at these Confrences...

Why are ugly women so damn madd...lol

[Pearljr]

How freaking disrespectful and ignorant. Don't you know that those so called beauties are made to look unreasonably attractive due to makeup, lighting, touch up photos and alot of camera angles, plus lots of people put them together to fools idiots like you. These women aren't trying to look attractive, just came to air their feelings about being looked upon as unattractive because they don't look like White women--how brainwashed are you? YOu should apologize!!!!

[MrChiCity]

Well. To be quite honest with you. I dont think you were catching my drift. Read what I wrote. All the above women I mentioned, dont have a problem gettin men. They dont wear make-up 24/7. And they still dont have a problem getting men. I have met all of those women in person. And they were all attractive with minimal make up. Stop making excuses for your self. Get in shape, get your hair together..and i bet you will have a better time finding men.

[MrChiCity]

And you know Im just being honest. Just like you require a man to be on is game financially. Why cant a man, ask for a woman to keep her self up. You want intelligent white colared brothas right..?? Cool, and all we ask...is that you make your self physically attractive. I think its a fair trade.

[rare1986]

Who the hell would want to date a white ignorant man like you? I have never wanted to date white men, and you have made it perfectly clear as to why. White men like you disgust me.

[MrChiCity]

Nigga are you stupid. ??? Im black you moron. Come look at my videos. The term "WHITE COLAR"....means a person with a office JOB. You are a DUMB ASS!!!!!!!

[thecwexperience]

mrchicity basically insults a whole slew of women on the basis of a mirage...ironic huh?

[blahblahblahman]

hahaha that girl was on "hell date" on BET the one with the small twists and the big bottom lip

[MrChiCity]

Oh yea..you are right. She was on hell date...and her date was the guy who used to be a woman..LOL

[pcrudup]

a very nice opening on your video

[orlandomagic654]

Spyke there are black women in the west indies that would love to be with a good brotha.

[SpykeSpillberg]

Damn I love black women. I just wish they would love me back. Oh well, maybe some day.

[pcrudup]

Hair being "less thzn normal".

[NappyDiva]

I picked up on that "less than normal" comment also. Some of us still need to be de-programmed on the way we feel about our hair texture.

[maskedbastard2522]

A/V tip: use a WIND SCREEN for your mic next time you're outside. You sound like you're out on the beach.