Yea sorry, my husband doesn't do that.. he comes to me and talks, that's communication and what our marriage works... its different depending on the person and couple...
@gycsilla if you think he is annoying then don't watch anymore of his videos, this was made for people who wanted to learn more and be entertained at the same time. There are more than 1 billion Muslims that live all over the world, they all have different personalities, hobbies,talents etc . Don't judge.
@USAdude30 i feel women take it the wrong way as if the husband isnt talking and its the womans fault. thts the problem she needs to understand its not HER . its just how alotta men deal with it. as long as his deep thinking doesnt cross the line into avoidng her or becomes rude to her or brushes her off then its not a big deal ! buggin him about it so much will make him annoyed and make what ever hes thinking about that much heavier on his brain ! sm women needa gt their heads outa thes magzns
it depends on the person ali bro; i'm a guy and I need both! If u have someone living in the middle of nowhere for years and has noone to talk to he will be stressed, and if u have an annoying friend following u around ull get stressed just the same!!
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These videos only really apply to the stereotypical relationship. It seems that Ali's description of what a man is like pretty much sums me up in a nutshell, lol.
girls can solve their own problems too, just like men...
but when something happens to us and we wanna talk about it
we tell em what happened and expect them to nod occasionally and say uh huh your right!! because it relieves stress n doesnt leave things bottled up inside
@LostWithoutAllah yeah girls can solve their problems 2 ofcourse,, but he means that we like to talk thru them too, not go silent like guys and try to solve it in our head..
Well, I'm a woman, and I prefer solving my problems alone, and 'being by myself' when I need to sort out issues, and I am UNABLE to sort them in anyone else's presence. I guess I'm wrong, but isn't it just a personality thing? Its a stereotype on girls and guys.. but it's actually an introversion/extroversion thing? Allah knows best!!!
@USAdude30 hello USAdude, i jst wanted 2 say that i appreciate how u r very calm and not blowing off steam like most other nonmuslims. and putting time to understand the muslim world. i encourage u not to judge islam by wat ppl say it is.
But when a guy is all quiet and you know something is wrong, thats when the girl thinks hes mad at HER :( How do you know that the guy isnt mad at YOU and is just mad about something else entirely?
*sigh*...we cant catch a break! Why did Allah swt make us all so confusing? :p
The fact that a student studied with a madhhab does not mean that he cannot go beyond it if he finds sound evidence elsewhere; the only one who stubbornly clings to a particular madhhab (regardless of the evidence) is one who lacking in religious commitment and intellect, or he is doing that because of partisan attachment to his madhhab.
It kinda makes you think why God made women and men complete opposites of each other. But, I guess God made us different, because he wanted us to learn from each other. Am I right?
This is true to an extent. Although i will try to solve any problems by myself, It is nice to know someone cares. So If they just ask whats wrong you look upset its better than not asking at all. But after that one time of asking and i say nothing, then i wanna b left alone. I would hate to be not asked at all.
Hey! I am a girl and the way you described how guys deal with their problems is exactly how I solve my problems...I like to be by myself and think about it and if it is something that's REALLY bad, I go and watch videos or play my ps3 =]
haha another brilliant video. Yes indeed, the EGO of man :) we like to solve problems own his OWN (or while lost during long drive, we won't ask for HELP, we want to FIX it byself by figuring out, HOPEFULLY before we run out of gas") Yes, we need some quiet time to ourselves, can't yap like SOMEONE all day just kidn. Excellent example of "women annoying" while the "GOOD MAN" is trying to solve the problem.. definitely will hit home to the masses. Love the tittle, i know where's that coming from.
Boy do you try to stereotype everyone and stick them into their own little corner. The truth is the men and women are not all that different unless forced to exaggerate their differences by a culture that wants to make one seem silly and irrelevant whole concurrently elevating the other. People of both sexes run the entire gamut of ways to deal with and solve problems. There is no “manly” or “feminine” way of addressing and solving problems. You are extremely sexist and that is plain wrong.
@SSanf I disagree. I understand what you're saying. But women and men do think differently. And they do deal with situations very differently. Not all, but generally they do. I'm not saying one is better than the other, or one sex deals with anything better than the other... just differently. e.g.women tend to be better at like essay-based exams, whereas men are known to be better with kind of maths,physics type of stuff. Even though I'm more the latter myself (I'm a girl), but just generally.
@DiscreetDiam0nd No, you see yourself as a girl. You even stated in parentheses that you are a girl. You are not adult. You are not mature, And, you need a caretaker that you can depend on because you are still a dependent human being in your own mind. And, that has more to do with why you probably do think differently from the men that you know than does the shape of your genitalia. The culture that makes you think you are a girl has bound and deformed you as much as foot binding did in China.
@SSanf No darling. I only have a limited word amount, so I had to reduce the words; girl took up less space. It basically means that I'm a female. The culture that makes me think that way is the western culture in which I've read many scientific journals which show that women and men think differently and solve problems differently. I clearly mentioned that I don't think men are better than women or vice versa. Just that they're different. Different hormones, Different physically and so on.
@DiscreetDiam0nd No, sweetie pie. You could have written woman or female in the same comment using the same number of spaces. The parenthesis were unneeded as was the comma. Or, you could have just left out the final period and gotten the job done. The truth is that you do think of yourself as a girl which is why you chose that word. Words mean things and you meant girl.
@SSanf It's silly that that's the only arguement you could come up with. Whether you think I wrote that because I think I'm a girl or because I had no space doesn't matter. The point is that I made a comment and you clearly don't know how to reply to it because you're just jumping on to my use of language. What does that have to do with the point I was making?
@SSanf And can I ask, what part of what I said shows that I'm dependent. Now you're just making crap up. How can you possibly tell from a comment what type of person somebody is? I could be faking it. I could really be a man. And to add to that, how could you possibly think that men and women are exactly the same? You can see with your eyes we're not. Some women are stronger than men, and not emotional, hate shopping etc and some men are more emotional etc. But generally they're different.
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when I (men) get stressed, i already have a solution in mind. but i'm different i'll express myself more. i will talk about it, but not necessarily accept GIRLS solutions. LOL@the "shh" part. no way u can't pronounce COMPARMENTALIZED, i'm sure you could bro. ! Yeah, thanks for the "script" for girls to say. I have BILLIONS of script for girls too. :)
Bro, since it's a subjective subject, try to INTEGRATE surveys man, i'll benefit inshaAllah, I'll PM you, since u say u read all comments. :)
This is generally very true but not in every case. Im a girl but I act exactly in that way when faced with issues xD Parading my problems to others doesnt have that much appeal to me because I dont want others getting worried or upset as well. And I know other girls like this...guess its to do with choosing practicality over sentiment alone.
sorry bro... i think i can't agree with you... to me it has nothing to do with men or women... it mostly depends on how independent that person is... but most of the muslim women are dependent, so i guess you are right
IT WORKS ! if ur husband wants to talk to u he will ,,,, i leave my husband alone and when he needs my input he'll ask me .... and he does when its his time .... i love him and have been loving him the past 7 years we've been together. i wouldnt ask for any other man. we are this way becuz we r muslim a nd we follow the sunnah and we put ALLAHs rules first<3
@Sunni4lyf The fact that a student studied with a madhhab does not mean that he cannot go beyond it if he finds sound evidence elsewhere; the only one who stubbornly clings to a particular madhhab (regardless of the evidence) is one who lacking in religious commitment and intellect, or he is doing that because of partisan attachment to his madhhab.
Hey, I remember this. This is an excerpt from the lecture 'Men are from Mecca and women are from Medina' by the Yasir trio (Yasir Fazaga, Yasir Birjis and Yasid Qadhi), isn't it?
salam alekum ali ramadan mubarak. im a convert sister from sweden. u really on the right way here. my husband is just like that.. =) mashallah.. u are very good mashallah. hijab reminder very good mashallah. and ramadan mashallah. i watch u some year ago and u got many videos now mashallah. keep up the good work. u inspirer many ppl muslim and nonmuslim.
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not all men are the same. i know sisters with husbands who want to talk about feelings and sisters dont want to talk...my husband doesnt like to talk but he cant problem solve so i 'nag' the problem out of him. give him a solution without expecting him to reply and i walk off...he always does what i say and agrees that it was best (most times anyway) point is all men and women are different, its not always as simple as that...marriage is hard!
how come the music halal/haram debaters don't goto the comment section of the music videos to argue? what i don't get is why they come to Baba Ali's video, which NONE OF THEM even talk about music. can you imagine if he actually brought up music...that would be a field day for you guys. Baba Ali...PLEASE do not bring it up...we'll never hear the end of it...all we talk about is music, beard, and halal meat..i'm happy that at least one person is talking about other issues. keep making videos!
@bluemoonamirty Yes of course, but there is a difference between arguing and debating, and but seriously look at the comments, its filled up by your comments and whoever you're arguing with. Neither of you are going listen to each other, there is no point, just message each other if you guys have that much time on your hands. Off topic is still off topic
@bluemoonamirty walaikum salam - i've noticed that the topic of music comes up in a lot of videos that have nothing to do with music. can't you guys just agree to disagree (check out baba ali's video "agree to disagree"). i really don't understand why people come to the comment section of videos to argue about things that have NOTHING to do with the video. I hope the comment section for this video doesn't get disabled too like the other videos but then again, u can't blame him if he does.
@iwentpp3 Agreeing to disagree does not work on matters of Halal and Haraam. Which is exactly what music is, a matter of halal or haraam. It extends beyond normal fiqh (as all the madhabs, and scholars) agree on a point. There is no tolerating haraam, as Allah says "wa tanhauna a'nil munkar." We cannot tolerate haraam, and we enjoin halal. However there are due places and forums for discussing this, and since there is no music here, I agree that muslims should not argue here esp in ramadan
MashAllah Ali, your videos are wonderful, its inspiring to see how you do not listen to any negative things people have to say. Good job brother. Ramadan Kareem!
I’m confused here. Where exactly is all the music in this video that everyone is debating about because all I hear is nasheeds? Are we just arguing for the sake of arguing? looks like Muslims can’t even take a month of bickering over things even in the month of Ramadan
i really like your videos and i agree with you in many topics
but i think about the men-woman differences, you are seeing things a bit too narrow maybe.
i have seen lots of men who came to me to tell me all their problems to feel better,or men who like to discuss about conflicts in relationships. and i'm a woman, & i don't enjoy talking about my problems to others 'cause i can solve them by myself,quietly.
not everything is decided by the sex, not all men are the same,not all women are the same
Most of the scholars say its haram..but we cant say wrong to the one who sayz its halal becoz they are also having evidences from authentic hadeeth..but the music is not halal for listening bad songs by any scholar..the music is halal only in case of nasheeds..and bayaans where there are no unislamic words...the ahadeeth which say its haram is posted by many brothers below...hope ur problems are cleared..
the hadeeth is..The Two Festivals (Eids) - Narrated Aisha: Abu Bakr came to my house while two small Ansari girls were singing beside me the stories of the Ansar concerning the Day of Buath. And they were not singers. Abu Bakr said protestingly, "Musical instruments of Satan in the house of Allah's Apostle !" It happened on the 'Id day and Allah's Apostle said, "O Abu Bakr! There is an 'Id for every nation and this is our 'Id."
@qwertyfshag lol that's gonna be one of your 30 second vids isn't it? i can just hear you saying 'men are like cats' hopefully followed by a 'meow' but im sure thats one step too far.
will you people (you know who you people are) please keep all the "music is haram" comments to yourselves??!?! if you have such a problem with it, mute the first 30 seconds of the vid or fastforward, then feel free to watch the vid and comment on the vid and go about on your way.
LOL! jump OFF a river? how do you jump OFF of a river? i could jump INTO a river, I could jump TOWARD a river, I could jump ACROSS a river, but NOBODY can jump OFF a river.
i think you should continue watching more of Baba Ali's videos, why don't you start off with the video, "The Haram Police"
@SOLITARY1984 hahahaha - I agree.. WHY on earth wouldn't they want to just talk about it! and I don't think this applies to allll men, I'm sure there are a percentage that does want to talk.
No music is Haraam, with the exception of the drums which the Prophet said is permisible.
Its a blessed day when Allah(swt) brings two people and two different families together. Comprising your deen for one day and begining a new chapter of your life, that goes against the Allah(swt) adn the Prophet(saw), is not a good start.
I know i use to listen to music thnking its harmless and i understand where you are comming from sister. But its for forbidden and blackens the heart.
Sahih Bukhari, Abu Dauod "Among My Ummah there will be a people who make lawful adultery, silk, wine and musical intsturments."
Nabi (saw)) has said:"Indeed, people will change the name of wine to consume it and play with musical instruments, Allah will cause the earth to swallow them and change them into monkeys and swines" Narrarted by Ibn Majah.
And whoever obeys Allâh and His Messenger, he has won a great success. (33:71)
You need to give me evidence from Sahih hadith the prophet made it okay to listen to musical instruments. Because the hadith i quoted, it is clearly prophibited! Why? BEcauce fornication and alcohol is a MAJOR SIN in islam. And think musical intruments were put in this cattegory.
@mnzz1234 there's no musical instruments in the beginning of the video. all the sounds are made by human voices. but for humans to imitate the sound of an instrument is a different debate. music is of course haram and whoever denies that then let them be enlightened inshaAllah. but please, calm down. "do not attain knowledge in order to express pride before the scholars, nor by its help quarrel with people, nor try to overwhelm meetings. But he who does so his destination is fire" [ibn Majah]
nice. gave me courage
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roseylisa 3 months ago
Yeah seriously I have to be involved in solving the problem since it affects BOTH of us!
Princess0583 3 months ago
Yea sorry, my husband doesn't do that.. he comes to me and talks, that's communication and what our marriage works... its different depending on the person and couple...
MrsBBchanel 4 months ago
You know too much o.o
laloca787894 5 months ago
Oh... Lord!!!!!!!!
Soooooo annoying!
Are muslims all like this?
gycsilla 6 months ago
@gycsilla
No , If he is soo annoying ? why u here ?!
Mshaneena 6 months ago
@Mshaneena However I look at him, his annoying...
gycsilla 6 months ago
@gycsilla if you think he is annoying then don't watch anymore of his videos, this was made for people who wanted to learn more and be entertained at the same time. There are more than 1 billion Muslims that live all over the world, they all have different personalities, hobbies,talents etc . Don't judge.
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@USAdude30 i feel women take it the wrong way as if the husband isnt talking and its the womans fault. thts the problem she needs to understand its not HER . its just how alotta men deal with it. as long as his deep thinking doesnt cross the line into avoidng her or becomes rude to her or brushes her off then its not a big deal ! buggin him about it so much will make him annoyed and make what ever hes thinking about that much heavier on his brain ! sm women needa gt their heads outa thes magzns
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this guy is crazy funny. always makes me laugh
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@little0boots Was thinking the "Exact" same thing lol ....hilarious...."Whats the problem....?......u have a solution yet?"....lol
icisprincess09 2 months ago
This is a generalization -_-
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it depends on the person ali bro; i'm a guy and I need both! If u have someone living in the middle of nowhere for years and has noone to talk to he will be stressed, and if u have an annoying friend following u around ull get stressed just the same!!
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COM-PART-MENT-A-LISED (?). A little practise and you'll all get the hang of it : )
These videos only really apply to the stereotypical relationship. It seems that Ali's description of what a man is like pretty much sums me up in a nutshell, lol.
So ... does that mean I'm a she-dude? XD
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i think he's got this a bit wrong
girls can solve their own problems too, just like men...
but when something happens to us and we wanna talk about it
we tell em what happened and expect them to nod occasionally and say uh huh your right!! because it relieves stress n doesnt leave things bottled up inside
but mayyyybe thats just me :)))
LostWithoutAllah 1 year ago
@LostWithoutAllah yeah girls can solve their problems 2 ofcourse,, but he means that we like to talk thru them too, not go silent like guys and try to solve it in our head..
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@sabreensayed yeah i can see how that works :)
LostWithoutAllah 1 year ago
@USAdude30 you said it right
shrbnjm 1 year ago
Well, I'm a woman, and I prefer solving my problems alone, and 'being by myself' when I need to sort out issues, and I am UNABLE to sort them in anyone else's presence. I guess I'm wrong, but isn't it just a personality thing? Its a stereotype on girls and guys.. but it's actually an introversion/extroversion thing? Allah knows best!!!
ApacheMuslimah 1 year ago
@USAdude30 hello USAdude, i jst wanted 2 say that i appreciate how u r very calm and not blowing off steam like most other nonmuslims. and putting time to understand the muslim world. i encourage u not to judge islam by wat ppl say it is.
shrbnjm 1 year ago
@USAdude30 haha no hard feelings, brother :)
MuslimahSoapbox 1 year ago
@USAdude30 AHEM! As an American woman, I resent that "try to tell that to an American woman" part :p
MuslimahSoapbox 1 year ago
But when a guy is all quiet and you know something is wrong, thats when the girl thinks hes mad at HER :( How do you know that the guy isnt mad at YOU and is just mad about something else entirely?
*sigh*...we cant catch a break! Why did Allah swt make us all so confusing? :p
MuslimahSoapbox 1 year ago
@MuslimahSoapbox Remember how Allah said that suspicion can be a sin.
TogetherFinding 1 year ago
haha he's so cute.."compartmentalize" =)))
TheEuaj 1 year ago
people its not okay to listen to music satan loves music and he will be around anybody who plays and listens to music at there house car etc
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The fact that a student studied with a madhhab does not mean that he cannot go beyond it if he finds sound evidence elsewhere; the only one who stubbornly clings to a particular madhhab (regardless of the evidence) is one who lacking in religious commitment and intellect, or he is doing that because of partisan attachment to his madhhab.
TheTableeghisareliar 1 year ago
It kinda makes you think why God made women and men complete opposites of each other. But, I guess God made us different, because he wanted us to learn from each other. Am I right?
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What was the word Baba Ali was trying to say?
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samarpinky 1 year ago
This is true to an extent. Although i will try to solve any problems by myself, It is nice to know someone cares. So If they just ask whats wrong you look upset its better than not asking at all. But after that one time of asking and i say nothing, then i wanna b left alone. I would hate to be not asked at all.
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DenSimSushi 1 year ago
@26oo end of what ?? LOL u made no sense. Music is haram. End of?? LOL
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LaydeeLashez 1 year ago
Hey! I am a girl and the way you described how guys deal with their problems is exactly how I solve my problems...I like to be by myself and think about it and if it is something that's REALLY bad, I go and watch videos or play my ps3 =]
Sup3rZee 1 year ago
@Sup3rZee are you sure you are a girl? :P
reeab 1 year ago
@reeab LOL xD I am kind of tomboy...
Sup3rZee 1 year ago
What was the word Baba Ali was trying to say?
jocker244 1 year ago
@jocker244 I think it was 'compartmentalize'
SexcPrincess16 1 year ago
@SexcPrincess16 Thanks, much appreciated :)
jocker244 1 year ago
I am a girl and when i have problem i like to be alone and try to fix it
09nabila 1 year ago 35
@09nabila
me 2... BUT I ALSO LIKE 2 TALKKKKKKKKKKKKK ABT IT EVEN MOREE :D
UnitedUmmahinshAllah 1 year ago
@09nabila so baba ali some girls may have boy's traits.
shugochara0fortune 9 months ago
haha another brilliant video. Yes indeed, the EGO of man :) we like to solve problems own his OWN (or while lost during long drive, we won't ask for HELP, we want to FIX it byself by figuring out, HOPEFULLY before we run out of gas") Yes, we need some quiet time to ourselves, can't yap like SOMEONE all day just kidn. Excellent example of "women annoying" while the "GOOD MAN" is trying to solve the problem.. definitely will hit home to the masses. Love the tittle, i know where's that coming from.
TigerStyle786 1 year ago
Boy do you try to stereotype everyone and stick them into their own little corner. The truth is the men and women are not all that different unless forced to exaggerate their differences by a culture that wants to make one seem silly and irrelevant whole concurrently elevating the other. People of both sexes run the entire gamut of ways to deal with and solve problems. There is no “manly” or “feminine” way of addressing and solving problems. You are extremely sexist and that is plain wrong.
SSanf 1 year ago
@SSanf I disagree. I understand what you're saying. But women and men do think differently. And they do deal with situations very differently. Not all, but generally they do. I'm not saying one is better than the other, or one sex deals with anything better than the other... just differently. e.g.women tend to be better at like essay-based exams, whereas men are known to be better with kind of maths,physics type of stuff. Even though I'm more the latter myself (I'm a girl), but just generally.
DiscreetDiam0nd 1 year ago
@DiscreetDiam0nd Let me know when you see yourself as a woman. Then, we may be able to talk.
SSanf 1 year ago
@SSanf What do you mean when I see myself as a woman? I am a woman. What are you talking about?
DiscreetDiam0nd 1 year ago
@DiscreetDiam0nd No, you see yourself as a girl. You even stated in parentheses that you are a girl. You are not adult. You are not mature, And, you need a caretaker that you can depend on because you are still a dependent human being in your own mind. And, that has more to do with why you probably do think differently from the men that you know than does the shape of your genitalia. The culture that makes you think you are a girl has bound and deformed you as much as foot binding did in China.
SSanf 1 year ago
@SSanf No darling. I only have a limited word amount, so I had to reduce the words; girl took up less space. It basically means that I'm a female. The culture that makes me think that way is the western culture in which I've read many scientific journals which show that women and men think differently and solve problems differently. I clearly mentioned that I don't think men are better than women or vice versa. Just that they're different. Different hormones, Different physically and so on.
DiscreetDiam0nd 1 year ago
@DiscreetDiam0nd No, sweetie pie. You could have written woman or female in the same comment using the same number of spaces. The parenthesis were unneeded as was the comma. Or, you could have just left out the final period and gotten the job done. The truth is that you do think of yourself as a girl which is why you chose that word. Words mean things and you meant girl.
SSanf 1 year ago
@SSanf It's silly that that's the only arguement you could come up with. Whether you think I wrote that because I think I'm a girl or because I had no space doesn't matter. The point is that I made a comment and you clearly don't know how to reply to it because you're just jumping on to my use of language. What does that have to do with the point I was making?
DiscreetDiam0nd 1 year ago
@SSanf And can I ask, what part of what I said shows that I'm dependent. Now you're just making crap up. How can you possibly tell from a comment what type of person somebody is? I could be faking it. I could really be a man. And to add to that, how could you possibly think that men and women are exactly the same? You can see with your eyes we're not. Some women are stronger than men, and not emotional, hate shopping etc and some men are more emotional etc. But generally they're different.
DiscreetDiam0nd 1 year ago
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creativemuslims 1 year ago
when I (men) get stressed, i already have a solution in mind. but i'm different i'll express myself more. i will talk about it, but not necessarily accept GIRLS solutions. LOL@the "shh" part. no way u can't pronounce COMPARMENTALIZED, i'm sure you could bro. ! Yeah, thanks for the "script" for girls to say. I have BILLIONS of script for girls too. :)
Bro, since it's a subjective subject, try to INTEGRATE surveys man, i'll benefit inshaAllah, I'll PM you, since u say u read all comments. :)
YouShouldSeeThisNow1 1 year ago
This is generally very true but not in every case. Im a girl but I act exactly in that way when faced with issues xD Parading my problems to others doesnt have that much appeal to me because I dont want others getting worried or upset as well. And I know other girls like this...guess its to do with choosing practicality over sentiment alone.
Muslimah1987 1 year ago
As Salaam u 'Alaikum
Jazaak Allaahu Khair
Ramadhaan Kareem
IsmiWSA 1 year ago
dont take me wrong but , i love the old theme song " if you dont know what to do, ask baba aliii " its amazing right !? xD .
3M00RI 1 year ago
BRILIANT BROTHER ALI....MASHA ALLAH ALLAH HAS BESTOWED SO MANY BLESSINGS ON YOU
missundrstood100 1 year ago
love you baba ali :) thanks for making these video's!
ZedEm1 1 year ago
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bigboss2011 1 year ago
sorry bro... i think i can't agree with you... to me it has nothing to do with men or women... it mostly depends on how independent that person is... but most of the muslim women are dependent, so i guess you are right
TheBleedingFire 1 year ago
is it weird that i'm a girl who feels this way?
YaaSalaam786 1 year ago
Aside from the corny intro and outro music, I love this video. I'm a man and for me at least, this is true 90% of the time.
BloggerMusicMan 1 year ago
Thank you
ChuckCh9 1 year ago
IT WORKS ! if ur husband wants to talk to u he will ,,,, i leave my husband alone and when he needs my input he'll ask me .... and he does when its his time .... i love him and have been loving him the past 7 years we've been together. i wouldnt ask for any other man. we are this way becuz we r muslim a nd we follow the sunnah and we put ALLAHs rules first<3
Sunni4lyf 1 year ago 24
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@Sunni4lyf The fact that a student studied with a madhhab does not mean that he cannot go beyond it if he finds sound evidence elsewhere; the only one who stubbornly clings to a particular madhhab (regardless of the evidence) is one who lacking in religious commitment and intellect, or he is doing that because of partisan attachment to his madhhab.
TheTableeghisareliar 1 year ago
good video :D
MrUsama1996 1 year ago
Can you all just watch the video and not start an argument throwing Quran verses at each other! CHILL OUT!
Afgsusan1 1 year ago
@Afgsusan1 loool
bintarabiya 1 year ago
that's not true, guys do want to talk about it after the stress is gone.
chabab 1 year ago
Hey, I remember this. This is an excerpt from the lecture 'Men are from Mecca and women are from Medina' by the Yasir trio (Yasir Fazaga, Yasir Birjis and Yasid Qadhi), isn't it?
abdulmajid88 1 year ago
salam alekum ali ramadan mubarak. im a convert sister from sweden. u really on the right way here. my husband is just like that.. =) mashallah.. u are very good mashallah. hijab reminder very good mashallah. and ramadan mashallah. i watch u some year ago and u got many videos now mashallah. keep up the good work. u inspirer many ppl muslim and nonmuslim.
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Nebulous1982 1 year ago
I like your blunt yet funny and friendly way of getting a message across. mashaAllah. This was helpful! :D
toggerrie 1 year ago
2:43 :D haha
000Petra000 1 year ago
wow, cool
MrZebraPants 1 year ago
@truebeaut Ooops.. Your "husband" needs check up. lol joking :)
aezaki0787 1 year ago
I don't hear any music either!
It's better to listen and benefit then argue :)
YemeniaBlossom23 1 year ago
not all men are the same. i know sisters with husbands who want to talk about feelings and sisters dont want to talk...my husband doesnt like to talk but he cant problem solve so i 'nag' the problem out of him. give him a solution without expecting him to reply and i walk off...he always does what i say and agrees that it was best (most times anyway) point is all men and women are different, its not always as simple as that...marriage is hard!
justafriend08 1 year ago
I'm a girl and I hate talking about my problems, haha. One exception to every rule ;)
Masha Allah this video is great though (:
Bazingah 1 year ago
i liked your older videos...they were a lot more relevant.
eurasianchica 1 year ago
@26oo no it is not the end of, there is no consensus
zaazi123 1 year ago
how come the music halal/haram debaters don't goto the comment section of the music videos to argue? what i don't get is why they come to Baba Ali's video, which NONE OF THEM even talk about music. can you imagine if he actually brought up music...that would be a field day for you guys. Baba Ali...PLEASE do not bring it up...we'll never hear the end of it...all we talk about is music, beard, and halal meat..i'm happy that at least one person is talking about other issues. keep making videos!
muslim411 1 year ago 8
@muslim411 For gosh sakes who said we are fighting??
bintarabiya 1 year ago
@bluemoonamirty Yes of course, but there is a difference between arguing and debating, and but seriously look at the comments, its filled up by your comments and whoever you're arguing with. Neither of you are going listen to each other, there is no point, just message each other if you guys have that much time on your hands. Off topic is still off topic
GardenofTruth 1 year ago 7
@GardenofTruth I already said I'm done debating LOL
bintarabiya 1 year ago
@bluemoonamirty walaikum salam - i've noticed that the topic of music comes up in a lot of videos that have nothing to do with music. can't you guys just agree to disagree (check out baba ali's video "agree to disagree"). i really don't understand why people come to the comment section of videos to argue about things that have NOTHING to do with the video. I hope the comment section for this video doesn't get disabled too like the other videos but then again, u can't blame him if he does.
iwentpp3 1 year ago 24
@iwentpp3 Who said were arguing we are debating do u know the difference between arguing and debating? LOL
bintarabiya 1 year ago
@iwentpp3 Agreeing to disagree does not work on matters of Halal and Haraam. Which is exactly what music is, a matter of halal or haraam. It extends beyond normal fiqh (as all the madhabs, and scholars) agree on a point. There is no tolerating haraam, as Allah says "wa tanhauna a'nil munkar." We cannot tolerate haraam, and we enjoin halal. However there are due places and forums for discussing this, and since there is no music here, I agree that muslims should not argue here esp in ramadan
bobjones3210 1 year ago
رمضان كريم لكل السلمين الطيبين happy ramadan for all the good moslems لا إله إلا الله no god except of allah
ago334 1 year ago
OH WOW COOL. Ahem... Truthful. Men's brains are compartment-al-ised and women do like to talk out stuff. It's all Allah's doing. :D
BarakAllah, Ramadan Cream. Peace & love and twinkies.
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Zaufishan01 1 year ago
MashAllah Ali, your videos are wonderful, its inspiring to see how you do not listen to any negative things people have to say. Good job brother. Ramadan Kareem!
falastinibabygurl 1 year ago
I’m confused here. Where exactly is all the music in this video that everyone is debating about because all I hear is nasheeds? Are we just arguing for the sake of arguing? looks like Muslims can’t even take a month of bickering over things even in the month of Ramadan
iwentpp3 1 year ago 44
@iwentpp3 What's wrong with debating?
bintarabiya 1 year ago
@iwentpp3 mashallah you have say what i was doing to say
aishahveiled 1 year ago
@iwentpp3 mashaallah maybe becuz the brother sings so good it sounds as if there are instruments ! =)
Sunni4lyf 1 year ago
@iwentpp3 ya ur right lol there's not even music in this vid
MuhammadDarr 1 year ago
true and happy ramadan to all my muslim brothers and sister :)
epicfayle 1 year ago
it is true, men like to be by dem self...
brotheryusuf1 1 year ago
LOL I can't stop replaying 2:27
sorry haha
100% agree with your points anyway
leiysky 1 year ago
LOL
Compartmentalize 2:27
anyway thank you brother !
leiysky 1 year ago
i really like your videos and i agree with you in many topics
but i think about the men-woman differences, you are seeing things a bit too narrow maybe.
i have seen lots of men who came to me to tell me all their problems to feel better,or men who like to discuss about conflicts in relationships. and i'm a woman, & i don't enjoy talking about my problems to others 'cause i can solve them by myself,quietly.
not everything is decided by the sex, not all men are the same,not all women are the same
rockinfish14 1 year ago 5
@rockinfish14 wel i fink hes putting it like that bcoz dats wha da majority of men n women r lyk c, n only a smal percentage r da way u c it mayb
brotheryusuf1 1 year ago
Most of the scholars say its haram..but we cant say wrong to the one who sayz its halal becoz they are also having evidences from authentic hadeeth..but the music is not halal for listening bad songs by any scholar..the music is halal only in case of nasheeds..and bayaans where there are no unislamic words...the ahadeeth which say its haram is posted by many brothers below...hope ur problems are cleared..
antitop93 1 year ago
the hadeeth is..The Two Festivals (Eids) - Narrated Aisha: Abu Bakr came to my house while two small Ansari girls were singing beside me the stories of the Ansar concerning the Day of Buath. And they were not singers. Abu Bakr said protestingly, "Musical instruments of Satan in the house of Allah's Apostle !" It happened on the 'Id day and Allah's Apostle said, "O Abu Bakr! There is an 'Id for every nation and this is our 'Id."
antitop93 1 year ago
brothers and sisters dont fight that music is halal or haraam..this thing has Ikhtilaaf..
There were many scholars in the past that said that music was permissible:
Shawkawni, Ibn Hazm, Ghazalli, Abú Bakr al-'Arabi, Qaradawi, and others.
the say it is halal on the basis of few ahadeeth..form which one of them i know is,,,pls see my next comment
antitop93 1 year ago
I really like ur videos, U r so AWESOME !
May ALLAH bless u.
Plz, try to talk about ( Tough parents)
when they over-protected their kids...sometimes their kids hate them :(
Just tell them when they do that, not only their kids will be so sad but also they'll go to other ppl to talk to.. and I mean ( boy / girlfriend)
Alhumdullah, When I see my friend's parents I thank ALLAH that my parents not like that :D
TheStar0909 1 year ago
@bluemoonamirty of course I will always worship and Obey Allah but wallahi I can still do that by listening to good Music no harm in that so relax.
bintarabiya 1 year ago
if your cat is upset do you run after it to try and make it feel better? the cat will get annoyed and scratched. men are like cats
qwertyfshag 1 year ago
@qwertyfshag lol
bintarabiya 1 year ago
@qwertyfshag lol that's gonna be one of your 30 second vids isn't it? i can just hear you saying 'men are like cats' hopefully followed by a 'meow' but im sure thats one step too far.
MizShinobi1 1 year ago
@qwertyfshag omg qwerty even you watch these video!!!?
Afgsusan1 1 year ago
will you people (you know who you people are) please keep all the "music is haram" comments to yourselves??!?! if you have such a problem with it, mute the first 30 seconds of the vid or fastforward, then feel free to watch the vid and comment on the vid and go about on your way.
jumar1281 1 year ago
@jumar1281 excuse me are u like the mayor of what to talk about?? I am allowed to talk about any religion were still on the "ISLAM" topic k?
bintarabiya 1 year ago
@bintarabiya
ya you're allowed to talk about any topic, and i'm allowed to inform you of when you're being annoying. i'm doing you a favor
jumar1281 1 year ago
@jumar1281 I'm annoying cause I'm talking about Islam? Yea ok ur smart!
bintarabiya 1 year ago
@jumar1281 How about doing me a favor nd during Ramadan don't give me lip k?? or jump off a river for all I CARE!
bintarabiya 1 year ago
@bintarabiya
LOL! jump OFF a river? how do you jump OFF of a river? i could jump INTO a river, I could jump TOWARD a river, I could jump ACROSS a river, but NOBODY can jump OFF a river.
i think you should continue watching more of Baba Ali's videos, why don't you start off with the video, "The Haram Police"
jumar1281 1 year ago
@jumar1281 lol
MizShinobi1 1 year ago
@jumar1281 Idiot I meant Jump off a bridge k So shutup
bintarabiya 1 year ago
@bintarabiya
i'm fasting, i won't reply to you anymore
jumar1281 1 year ago
@jumar1281 As am I so u cant debate while fasting is that haram to? lol
bintarabiya 1 year ago
@jumar1281 I meant any topic not any religion sorry
bintarabiya 1 year ago
@jumar1281 The Brother (Ummahfilms) doesn't have music in the start. It's all voice :)
And people in the back going Do dooDooh Do.
AlexanderaCherie 1 year ago
@bluemoonamirty ur not a good muslim to be talking like tht
bintarabiya 1 year ago
wow. everytime my husband and i get into a fight we go through this ordeal EVERY time. great advice.
GreenLikeKashmir 1 year ago
@bluemoonamirty excuse me bequiet u dunno me so hushhh
bintarabiya 1 year ago
This is an explanation of how men have destroyed and screwed up the entire world...
SOLITARY1984 1 year ago
@SOLITARY1984 hahahaha - I agree.. WHY on earth wouldn't they want to just talk about it! and I don't think this applies to allll men, I'm sure there are a percentage that does want to talk.
LaLeLaLeLa 1 year ago
I'm surprised how stereotypical this video is!
And then the comments... you guys must have a LOT of free time to waste it on merely pointless discussions.
UseY0urM1nd 1 year ago
@UseY0urM1nd music is a good topic
bintarabiya 1 year ago
ty!
cursedu 1 year ago
com-par-ta-men-ta-lize :)
pyarisi86 1 year ago
@bluemoonamirty OH GIVE ME A BREAK MAN!! LOL IN A WEDDING U HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO HAVE MUSIC IT'S UR BIG DAY!
bintarabiya 1 year ago
@bintarabiya
No music is Haraam, with the exception of the drums which the Prophet said is permisible.
Its a blessed day when Allah(swt) brings two people and two different families together. Comprising your deen for one day and begining a new chapter of your life, that goes against the Allah(swt) adn the Prophet(saw), is not a good start.
I know i use to listen to music thnking its harmless and i understand where you are comming from sister. But its for forbidden and blackens the heart.
mnzz1234 1 year ago
@mnzz1234 No it's not lighten up k I DON'T BELIEVE IT IS:)
bintarabiya 1 year ago
@bintarabiya
Sahih Bukhari, Abu Dauod "Among My Ummah there will be a people who make lawful adultery, silk, wine and musical intsturments."
Nabi (saw)) has said:"Indeed, people will change the name of wine to consume it and play with musical instruments, Allah will cause the earth to swallow them and change them into monkeys and swines" Narrarted by Ibn Majah.
And whoever obeys Allâh and His Messenger, he has won a great success. (33:71)
mnzz1234 1 year ago 3
@mnzz1234 first of all wth? it doesn't say Musical instruments because Prophet Mohammad allowed it back then but the others yes u r right :)
bintarabiya 1 year ago
@bintarabiya
So now you are going agaist Sahih ahadith?
The Sunan and the way of the Prophet(saw)?
All to defend music?
You need to give me evidence from Sahih hadith the prophet made it okay to listen to musical instruments. Because the hadith i quoted, it is clearly prophibited! Why? BEcauce fornication and alcohol is a MAJOR SIN in islam. And think musical intruments were put in this cattegory.
mnzz1234 1 year ago
@mnzz1234 there's no musical instruments in the beginning of the video. all the sounds are made by human voices. but for humans to imitate the sound of an instrument is a different debate. music is of course haram and whoever denies that then let them be enlightened inshaAllah. but please, calm down. "do not attain knowledge in order to express pride before the scholars, nor by its help quarrel with people, nor try to overwhelm meetings. But he who does so his destination is fire" [ibn Majah]
MizShinobi1 1 year ago
@MizShinobi1 Excuse me just cause I don't believe music is haram doesn't make me bad k?
bintarabiya 1 year ago