Re: Feminism Sucks

[bweazel]

Good lord, why does it even have to be about control? Just enjoy the sex. You've got issues if you're more concerned about being in control of the sex, than the sex itself.

Also, ever had a girl ride ya? Haha. Tell me who's in control then ;)

[ThePhantomLion]

That's not my stand on it, I'm afraid you completely got my stand on this subject completely flip flopped ass backwards, human beings are controlling and savage in nature, always have, always will be, however as you can see I do not exist within human bindings as an intron, I exist as an exon, an outcast of society...I do not see things as anyone else does.

[zobazoba69]

for the woman raping men, ive hears that before, but i dont believe it. a man must have an erection to penetrate and the state of fear created by the rape could not help create or maintain an erection. think about it; traditional rape (men vs women) is psychologically traumatizing but, there is also the pain from a vulva who is contracted and a-librificated.

[setustraight]

@zobazoba69 Who said rape had to be with penises and vaginas?

This guy at my highschool got raped when a bunch of horny drunk girls caught him alone in the wrestling room and beat the shit out of him, then they took turns shoving their fists up his ass.

[puyen58]

I don't doubt that the subconcious image you speak of, where men penetrating denotes dominance, is a commonly held view. I've actually heard that idea expressed many times. However, I find it to be a false notion. If a woman ties you to a bed and then mounts you from above, (girl on top), she is clearly dominant. Women can, and occasionally do, rape men.

[ThePhantomLion]

You make a very good, and valid point puyen58, I've thought it from this point of view as well, and expressed it in a few arguments to women, but they don't really seem to get it, most(not all) women still believe that women are not anatomically capable of "rape", that penetration is needed somehow, if that's the case then all a woman needs is a supliment of some sort, like a strap-on, or worse..a baseball bat covered in sand paper

[monkeytwineball]

Women rape men?

SIGN ME UP!

[scorpion091168]

@monkeytwineball It depends of what kind of woman 'rape' us :)

[Fisherdec]

I can't agree with this, becase a man still must have the erection thus consenting to the sex.

[o7VEMESiSo]

why dont you show your face?

[ThePhantomLion]

Several reasons, but I guess the most important is that I feel that my face and what I look like is irrelevant to what I'm talking about

[MysteryManoLove]

Feminists are obsessed with sex, I like sex too but they just can't not tell someone how to act or behave, they want to impose on every womans life. Gloria Steinem herself said that the very act of marriage is oppressive to women, others say the very act of sex is oppressive to women. They are trying to make you feel dirty or degraded for one of our fundamental instincts and try to control it. In the same breath people like Jessica Valinti say that feminists have "better sex", irrational.

[ThePhantomLion]

I can agree, you make an interesting point

[jenlikeshorses]

traditional marriage by law is oppressive to women, even in the USA..the person penetrating is the dominant one, but i dont think feminists should refrain from sex because of that..its natural! plus, you can always penetrate the guy back hahahaha...why the hell not? they should just go buy a milking stick or a strapon know what I mean? haha..

[mehico33]

we are treated differently is because we are different. i lift heavy things for girls, i would never hit one, i hold doors open for them, i care less when i hear that a man has been murdered than if i heard the same about a woman etc etc etc just like most men. in no way do i consider myself sexist (although i do blatantly like girls better than guys).

my country has been run by women for years and we still get feminazis, stop bitching and become a politician. make change

[ThePhantomLion]

I agree, I hold myself no better than any woman or man, we do need to kind of put a lid on this gender thing

[Kenner81]

Interestingly enough, rape and violent sex crimes have gone down at the same time porno and internet porn sites have gotten more popular. Also women are watching more porn nowadays.

[ThePhantomLion]

I'm not saying I don't believe you, it sounds very true, but I'd like to see the statistics, oh and girls watching porn...is pretty awesome

[CapnJ1mmy]

HELL YEAH!!!! I JUMP ON IT LIKE A BIG OLE BEAR!!!! But in my own opinion SEX IS NOT A SPECTATOR SPORT!!!

[ThePhantomLion]

hehe, spectator sport XD, what about voyeurism?

[keggerous]

i like it when chicks get on top....its wicked hot to have a girl get off while fucking herself with ur dick.

[MunchieAKALilSoldier]

wat do u mean if u dont want to have sex witht that person dont be around them...even if ur around them dont u think the right consent is needed?

[ThePhantomLion]

That's what I was trying to say, consent...we're on the same page you're just reading it wrong, but no problem

[TheEsotericVoice]

How is pornography good to watch exactly, or comparable to a biological necessity like eating? You don't have to agree with everything feminists (not sure if you're opposed to both radicals and non) are rallying for, but lots of people (men and women) in lackluster socioeconomic situations are exploited by pornographers, not just those who choose to willingly work in the industry. That's all I had to say for now, peace friend.

[Joyness333]

What if every woman in the world refused to pose nude, participate in pornography, act suggestively in commercials and videos,or movies?

What do you think society would be like then, and how do you think men would react?

Do you think that sexual aggression and violence would escalate?

If so, You are insulting your own gender.

The very reason why sex sells,and the very reason why there is such a high demand for it, especially among men, in and of itself reveals why we need feminism.

[hannel19]

First of all the suggestion that "what if" doesn't work because there will always be a price. If more women resisted the price would be higher and women would do it because they would get payed a ton because nobody else would do it. But lets play your game and look at counties that do that. Sexual aggression and violence are down in strict middle eastern countries? I don't think so... straw argument. Your last comment makes no sense.

[ThePhantomLion]

*claps*

[harkying99]

I remember when the argumet was first postulated that sex itself was a form of violence against women.And that all sex was rape.I asked a feminist if that included gay male sex or lesbians using objects on each other. I was called a reactionary male pig.