Relationship Advice: Breaking Up : How to Get Over a Breakup

[agnelovesya]

My bf broke up with me after being together for 2.5 years :/ Damn I loved him so much, and I tried everything to get back together...now I have no idea how I will move on..its been 26 days since we broke up but I still cry every day :(

[tg72211]

I'm probably better off then a lot of people, but I have been friends with this girl for many years. I have liked her for much of this time, and now after 1 month of dating, she broke up with me. She said she just would rather be friends. It hurts but this video helped.

[MeepMan95]

@SamTheElectroFreak Same here man, she left me last night saying it was her and that she couldn't handle a relationship.

[SamTheElectroFreak]

she broke up with me today.. gave me a 'im confused..its not you,its me' excuse.. fml

[lzacare]

My gf broke up with me because she felt i gave her too much stress and pressure. But that's all cause I care for her too much. But she openly flirts with other guys on twitter and facebook, and it doesn't matter how close she and her guy friends are, it just feels wrong to see her grab their arms and all that sort of body contact in front me. And I learnt that she broke up with me through my own friends, she didn't tell it to me by text or a call or anything. I dunno how to deal with it.

[RichtoffenRoach]

@lzacare Exactly what happened to me. OMG I wish I could hug you all.

[katiekelley77]

Does anybody else get hurt inside when your bf talks to other girls

[brandonsince1986]

this helped me out a ton! gettingoverbreakup (.) net

[zoe8444]

me n my bf broke up after 3 yrs..he ws screwing around with another girl..i forgave him once but he did it again..i know he loves me but still he does all this shit..m so heartbroken right nw..im going mad :(..wen will this all go away?

[taylorrpg101]

I broke up today it hurts and it makes u mad. I will try to get over him

[Education2010able]

That void he speaks of was full to overflowing when "she" was there, but now it's become a seemingly bottomless pit full of heartache, loneliness, pain, and it's severely damaged my spirit. I thought we were the greatest, that we would walk life to the end, and now it's not there. But something inside me, reading the signs God sends, tells me to be patient. And I shall.

[RichtoffenRoach]

@Education2010able Strong words for me :'(

[johnsson58]

My girlfriend left me last week, after 2 ½ years of no fighting, arguing or other negative stuff. I loved her so much, still do. I'm actually packing right now, moving back to my hometown tomorrow.. Wish me luck guys.

[WildBassfly]

@johnsson58 Good luck

[johnsson58]

He blinks a lot, for a man.

[theKID3847]

I might break up with my gf tommorow

[Trizzy01915]

@theKID3847 make sure your makng the right decision

[theKID3847]

Anymore

[theKID3847]

And is it a stupid reason if your girlfriend that gets jealous of u all the time if u talk to another girl but today it Hurt me cause I asked if she still cares and she said no and I think she doesentnlove

[theKID3847]

Does anybody else get hurt inside when your gf talks to other boys

[loltheless]

@theKID3847 totally...

[RichtoffenRoach]

@theKID3847 I feel like that now :'( It is my first gf and experience and it is the most painful feeling I've ever had.

[Liberater948]

This girl broke up w me not for anythin I did wrong but because she was and still is in love with her ex and I gave this girl ALL of my firsts and it just messed me up so badly this was quite recent but I got a new girlfriend shortly after and the feelings just weren't there it sucks quite a bit and we broke up today and idk what I want but i do just want those terrible people out of my life

[MrWat2watch]

2 yrs down the drain

[angemala]

@MrWat2watch hey, i thought that way too after a 5 year relationship, but I think now "would I have rather been screwing around or not having fun with someone else?" I'm sorry to hear about your loss, and hope that next time works out better.

[blingblang1988]

@MrWat2watch I here ya bro

[MrWat2watch]

@blingblang1988 yea i just hate the thought of her havin sex with another guy it kind of hurts

[dublife43]

1:20 lol

[fufuangeli1995]

My boyfriend just broke up with me... :(

[JENNYYIN2308]

@fufuangeli1995 it's alright!!! my bf broke up with me yesterday... it's the most painful feeling ever

[jte9993]

really makes you wonder how such happyness is possible when there is a chance for such pain.

[JENNYYIN2308]

@jte9993 I agree

[Calcedeaver33]

Try to move on and hope your heart gets better

[RUSSKAYAG]

In personal relationships we attract specific people who help us work out our karmic debt. Pay close attention to the issues with that person- those are exact lessons you have to learn otherwise same situation/relationship will keep on repeating..unless you learn that karmic lesson. Some lessons are very hard, yes. One has to be clear on what he has to work on-then forgive, let it go and move on. Also keep in mind that alike attracts alike..

[rootiest]

break up before you get broken :)

[4tean]

my Girlfriend broke up with me afternoon :( hurts so badly

[ilfully]

sighh love hurts

[SailorCybertron11223]

my boyfriend just broke up with me... i cant think about it without Crying. He was one of the only reasons for me to be happy in this world and now its all gone

[1flynlow]

@SailorCybertron11223

do you live in north alabama? ;)

[SailorCybertron11223]

@1flynlow No, sorry.. I Live WAY farther north than that... bwe can be friedns on here Though!

[1flynlow]

@SailorCybertron11223

that s great cause i realllly need someone who understands the pain i'm going through right now. ...

[SailorCybertron11223]

@1flynlow Okay.. How about we talk sometime?

[PlkiuMnbvf]

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[rsxsixspeed]

I just pop in "Forgetting Sarah Marshall" and pay large sums of money to box again

[savagecanucks]

Katie was everything I had. I've never loved anyone other woman I've been with except her. I made a promise to her if we ever did split and down the road she came looking for me...I'd drop anyone or anything for her. Today was the last day I'll see her for quite sometime. I miss you and love you so much. Paul

[Disturbed928]

I was with my girlfriend for 14 months and she just called last night and told me she can't be with me. I feel so lost and i'm just in too much pain.

[elikewl]

mine too 4 years and she left

[sweetydel21]

thank you

[cvsr6]

hey guys and gals pls realize tis "if somethin is meant 2 be wit u,it'l b wit u no matter wat happens"n'if somebody loves u so truly den they'l b wit u no matter how odd or awkward the situation is' pls i kno how it feels after a break up...but try to realize this....thank god i realized tis tats y i'm tryin to help the poor hearts to relieve the pain of break up...pls my dear friens try to understan and get out of the pain...pls guys n gals realize the truth....u all willl b ok...

[midz500]

What do you call a fish with no eye ?

FSH !

What do you call a sheep with no legs?

A cloud

Two snowmen are standing in a field. One says to the other : "Funny, I smell carrots too".

[sweetydel21]

Me and my ex is going in the same school. I just don't know how to handle things when i see him. I easily panic especially when i see them together with his new girlfriend. It really hurts. Pls. help me how to moved on quick. I want to be happy again. :(

[LordShikarii]

@sweetydel21 hold your head high and hang around somewhere else in a different part of school with your mates, its what i had to do for a while till things got better

[Chowdollas]

my girlfriend broke up with me today :(. I really liked her too. it feels like knives to the heart.

[chaunie1988]

@Chowdollas same here dude, she did that to me last night, it freaking hurt

[Chowdollas]

@chaunie1988

ignorance is sometimes the safest route you can take, what you don't know won't kill you it gives you a chance to live life blindly.

[ColtsFootballFan91]

@Chowdollas yea, you never stop loving someone, your learn to live without them.

[ColtsFootballFan91]

@Chowdollas i feel you bro... i was in love with my girl. true love. and she broke up with me and the worst part is i really dont know why she did. Me and her talked about our future together and like getting married and what we would name our kids :( fuck.... she broke up with me 5 days before my bday too. its been several weeks now, time heals but it takes awhile. just stay positive bro, i feel you.

[Chowdollas]

@ColtsFootballFan91 thank you I'm sorry for your loss. your story sounds very similar to mine but instead of my birthday it was our anniversary this happened.

I still have feelings for her cause after all love is like a sponge no matter how much you squeeze out there is still some left

[RichtoffenRoach]

@ColtsFootballFan91 She broke with me after I told her she was my reason to live D'X

[Meatloaforever]

The best way to deal with being dumped is Shouting Swear Words and Screaming also Punching and Kicking Everything and playing Loud Aggresive Music

[justindepratt]

i was told by my counselor 'how long ago did you give up on her' i cried and cried cuz its something for some of us to think about

[skate1776]

so here is why iam listening to this.. my fiancee of now 9 months just left me and i am 5 month pregnant.. oh thats not the worse part did i mention i am 16, i put a nine mill up to my head and started crying we have been over 4 days and he is dating again, i am so heart broken i want to pull the trigger and end it all, but i guess honestly this is my way of trying to stop it just playing sad songs over and over and crying over and over

[sukiesoya]

I am seeing this guy but he never has time for me and I just can't stop thinking about him it's driving me mad. He uses me when he wants but I can't help running to him, I really love him and he's gorgeous but he don't feel the same way about me, i'm just a convienience I just feel like crying all day I want this guy as my bf.

[blahblahblahyaya2008]

I made the same huge mistake with a guy and this went on for over a year! Don't let him continue to use you! The hurt in the end will be alot worse! You can't get people to change! You deserve better! Stop seeing him!

[hmgthao34]

my boyfriend broke up with me not long ago. this weekend is valentine's day and i feel like theres still a chance that i can get him back. i really need to know what guys/men expect to hear from their girfriend beside sorry. he is a very nice man and a guy like him only come once in awhile in life time.

[kateFAIL]

Thanks for the reply

I know, I suppose you're right... its so hard not being friends with him seeing as we were friends a lot longer than being in the relationship... I'm only 19 and I need to live a little but if he wasnt miles away in uni we would still be together!! haha The world just dosnt work... Its broke :(

[Raspout1981]

University heh, i left my girl shortly after getting in university too. It demand's so much time and effort along with work and day 2 day business like groceries, no time is left for the relationship.

Youll get over it and the next guy you get (if not just a rebound guy, which is not recommanded) will make you forget about it and fill the void.

Its ok, ask everyone around if they ever had a breakup, everyone has, and no one died from it.

There are worst things in life, itll be ok dont worry.

[kateFAIL]

^__^ Thanks x

[Raspout1981]

No problem....ill send you the bill.

^__^

[2iidejay22]

man i dnt no wat to do me nd my gf broke up today because we never hang out its because shes always busy wit her friends so we ended it but i cant stop thinking about her at all nd it hurts idk wat to do i want her bak but idk

[ekserchina]

don't dude...I've been single for 7 months and I still have dreams about my ex....as a matter of fact I will go thru old pics of us and feel sad and bad and all have all those emotions but in a way it's not good to do so but then again it helps so it's really almost like you're tearing yourself apart. I suggest go out and socialize with new people...make new friends, get a new hobby...fu#k that b$%ch. :) No offense to women but you're cruel :)

[240SX951]

people ... dont do myspace. wow it never works!!

[themoaspecial]

I find that no matter what you do its not a run that you can ever sprint through if you get what I mean. Its something that you have to ride out. I even got a replacement for my girlfriend straight afterwards once. It didn't do me wonders at all to be honest..

[andy19678]

post 1. ive been throught a few break ups and in time self evaluation is good but in the early days we r hurting enough and i dont think we should bring ourselfs down even more by looking at our flaws. Instead as hard as it is ive found looking at THEIR flaws is much more theraputic..its hard when u r still in love with them but they r not in love with u and have hurt you..its ok to see their faults and decide that they r not good enough for you

[CMLAFLAMME]

I agree completely andy19678,

If you are in the begining phase of a breakup I don't believe it's helpful to start finding flaws in yourself. You have enough to deal with and plenty of time to work on yourself. It's not easy but think of yourself as lucky for the opportunity to start fresh agian, no matter how old you are consider yourself a newborn with a new chance in life, Thats what you were before your ex and thats what you are again.

[luckymcmahon13]

smoke some weed it will fix all your problems

[oldkingofthesouth22]

It's been almost 3weeks since me and my ex broke up. I'm still crazy about her and have talked to her once or twice since the break up. I should've moved on by now but it still isn't happening for me.....I want her back so bad

[bigfrancis2000]

my girlfriend broke up with me yesterday :( hurts bad

[sasha1776]

man i feel the same way my girlfriend broke up with me 2 days ago and i just feel like something in me just died. she broke up with me to be with another. :((

[OnlineGamer117]

We got the same situation, dude. my girl broke off with me 2 days ago, today was our like 1st month together.. i was really close to her before i was with her, she told me EVERYTHING. i was like her best guy friend. and 2 days ago she told me she wasn't sure if she could think of me as her boyfriend, because she always thought of me as her bestest friend, or a brother to her. and she told me we could still be best friends, but honestly, i don't think it will ever feel the same as before. </3 =(

[OnlineGamer117]

And you have it worse, my girl didn't break up with me for another..i feel real bad for you man, i'm going through some serious heart aches, but i can now imagine what you must be going through especially if you loved your girlfriend with all your heart, kind of like i did..and they ended up just fucking you over..

[coolkidooo]

same for me.. but you just need to fight threw it.

[Dilly91]

i know how you feel mate, mine broke up with me 3 days ago

[billybatson55]

I know how you feel bro,

I broke up with mine today

[moronpaul]

"i know how you feel mate, mine broke up with me 3 days ago

"

losers.

[mgproductions2007]

That's pretty slack.

[ringwormts115]

@Dilly91 hey man my gf broke up wit me 3 days ago , its very hard to cope so it is , well u posted dis comment 2 months ago , how are tings goin 4 u now?

[Dilly91]

Hi mate, just came on here to watch some music vids as getting ready for new years party tonight, it's been a few months now, and to be honest mate, i still think about her now and again but i could not be any better mate, it gets easyier honestly. i can get any better, and hoping the new year will bring much more :P

[chaunie1988]

@bigfrancis2000 same here ,

[toontownfreak1999]

@bigfrancis2000 my girfreind dumped me today i feel so bad im crying

[thunderinthevalley]

@toontownfreak1999 i feel ur pain my bf left after nearly 5 years, just said he didnt love me anymore.

i guess love is something u throw away when you get bored but for me, when i say forever i mean it. im just so sad he didnt feel the same.

[HowToGetOverYourEx]

@thunderinthevalley - people grow together and sometimes they grow apart, you can say forever but you cant really mean it becuase life is a constant process of change and the person you are 10 years from now can want something totally different than what you wanted when you met your ex. realize that he may have just stopped feeling the same way about you and see if there's anything you did that may have caused him to lose interest. check out my page for more tips on how to get over a break up.

[87earth]

@bigfrancis2000 i feel you.. hope your better now, i know ill be too.. we must have to be better

[kakashiandmeforever]

my boyfriend broke up with me two days ago..because he doesnt feel the same way about me that i feel for him.

[arrows4ever]

my gf did the same thing. i made a mistake and she broke up wit me because she didnt feel the same but i love her so much. i want her back so much

[pompyromage]

same reason my girlfriend gave 3 days ago :( i dont know what to do...stay as friends? who knows :(

[240SX951]

dont stayas friends itl hurt you more!!! dont do it... i hope im not being a hypocrite.. because im going thru the same thng..

[janderson505]

@pompyromage lovers can never be friends.tell her to go to hell and move on dude.pleanty of fish in the sea.its hard but we have no option.running after them only ends up in us getting more hurt.i learnt my lesson the hard way so just move on

[Ashita2114]

joe yoU ARE AWESOME!!

[amoyk]

what do i do when i cant get over him i really love this person i tried to spend times with my friends and family but its like a part of me still wanna be with him

[axel7442]

plz read this

my ex got a new boyfriend and im still friends with her

im very jealous of her boyfriend

should i tell her i love her or forget her?

[getravi]

we broke up and my girlfriend got a new guy in 3 days, it was very painful. I decided not be friends with her, and not talk to her at all, that helped me a lot, it helped me find myself and know what i have , what i have to start working with. every time you talk to het buddy, u will feel better for some time and after few hours, u will be in pain

[kateFAIL]

me and my bf broke up 2 weeks ago... we were together for two years... and man the best thing to do is not to be friends... its killing me right now knowing that he could go with anyine...

we were mutual in the whole break up thing... its turned into a long term relationship after he moved to university, and it was really hard... he wants to be friends and I so badly do too.. but if we're ever going to get over eachother we can't.. but I want too... its such a hard decision :'(

[Raspout1981]

Bad idea to be friends.

I was with my girl for 5 years, and i decided it didnt work anymore, and it truly did not. I know she wanted to be friends, and it can seem like a good idea sometimes, but it is not. Only thing it will do is hurt both of you, we broke up 4 times during our 5 years, and the first 3 times we stayed friends, all it does when things dont work is cause even more torture.

Its really best to move on. You have to get BUSY dont just sit home and think about it all the time.

[jesusinacan2]

thank you so much

[peterpetersbng]

great by following this advice i can take the piss out of marriage and get married and divorced more often because due to my new powers of recovery of heart break i will be able to get out there making a mockery of marriage quicker and more often .. wow

[airman355]

thank you

[james1990toon]

thank you joe :)