As I am watching this I am reminded of someone difficult I worked with and consequently a story that I like to share that I thought was kinda thought provocing. It was a good friend of mine who told me that he would take to bus to school every morning, and this one time he said next to the bus driver and had a friendly conversation with him (about his job and his kids). So he gets out and goes to school like any other day.
After a few weeks he sees the same bus driver and as he is asking for a ticket the busdriver says: no my friend you dont have to pay. On which my friend said huh how can you possibly still remember me, you see more than a 1000 people a day. on which he replied: I only remember positive people. If you think about it how many difficult/negative people you encounter as a busdriver, you need a mindset like this to not go completely crazy or bitter. I realized I was remembering the wrong people
Have watched the video and yeah... Personally I find the tips to be very relevant and useful... Not forgetting to mention the fact that they are simple to implement as well. Thumbs up for this video and I'm going to share it with my readers in my self-improvement blog.
few years ago two parents went out for dinner. A few hours later, the babysitter was calling to see if she could cover up the clown statue in the kids' room, the father said "Get the kids and get out of the house, we'll call the police, we don't have a clown statue". The "clown statue" was actually a killer that escaped from jail. If you don't post this on 10 videos tonight the clown will be in your bed at 3:00am with a chainsaw in his hand. Sorry don't want this to happen to me
how do you deal with a relative constantly telling you something you make/play and/or what you do is gay?pretty much never fucking stopping i should add.persistent prick
how do you deal with a older brother whos a totally asshole i just WANT TO KILL HIM im crying trying to deal with him his costently a total douch he thinks hes god he thinks he knows everything about everything how do fucking deal with this before i take a knife to his neck
What if the person is controlling (he won't let me do any of my projects without ruining my hobbies), abusive (he screams at his elderly mom with altimers), stupid (he forgets everything and has broken 2 of my moms cars), freeloading (he's drying up his 85 year old dad's retirement money because he dos'nt fell like he needs a job), stubborn (things have to go his way or he throws a fit) and angry. Someone please help me because we live with him, we have no where else to go as we are homeless
Possibly disciplinary action may have to be taken. You have to take a stand, you were hired to uphold company values but treat the staff member with respect at the same time. Because you are young, you have to find some kind of common ground on a professional level. Go for a coffee break with that person or something. The most important thing for staff though for them not buying into your program is lack of recognition.
harsh4uall sometimes you may have to sit down and have a talk with that individual and fairly set ground rules. I work in an office when I started that all are over my age by 10 years. My success has been work with them. Let them know the truth you are an extension of their position. Document the conversation as it will arise again. Consult with peers in the group to find out if something is really bothering that person outside of work. If not then you have a person that has a will issue .
@SuperDC45 I would agree, i am so sick of faggot ass douchbags, always up my ass, "like leave me the fuck alone", it's like when they see that you don't want anything to do with them they get increasingly gayer, they make me want to jump on a rocket and shoot myself to space. because they are everywhere. it's alright because they will all burn in hell may 21 2011, when the world ends.
@harsh3uall Your co-worker can't cope with the fact that you're his boss, obviously. maybe you should try mediation, where you can make commitments between you both that you have to sign for. that makes it official. Good luck!
hi i am 26 year old business man .one of my co worker,who is a old man always makes me angry. indirectly i am his boss bt he always behave lyk he is my boss and i have to work under him.i have tried so many usual ways to make a good communication with him but he dnt want to understand ..please help me out
@harsh4uall do you mind saying what the job is? what are you doing? there are a thousand variables. are you taller than him? are you both in good shape.. it could be anything other than work, where you his boss be for you got the job? was there another guy he liked better? was he the boss be for you? your comment isnt to old to reply to, 3y/ago maybe, so wats happening now?
I can tell if the boss is jumping your butt all the time sometimes you just can't be nice to them. I used to work in construction and some of the managers were pretty rough. Sometimes standing up to them and yelling back at them makes them realize you are not a push over. I tried for a long time to just be nice to them, but one time I starting pounding my fist on my boss's desk and yelled back.
they realize them you are not a door mat and then will have some respect for you.
And what if you (The superior) are the truly difficult person? But I'm sure this (please hand me your money) video has your target's best interest at heart!
Good one! trying to be good to a difficult person will definetly encourage his or her behaviour. Take your stand and Let them know that they are crossing their limits; straight and great!
protect your own ground? what are we monkeys? there is no such thing as difficult people. you just perceive them that way. if im at the wrong place at the wrong time and someone dislikes me. i immediately present my butt to them and ask for penis. if i fail hard enough i cant fail.
Like the expert said, do not react to difficult people. They are better at this "game" and they will beat you. I once worked for a difficult person who bullied me and I unsuccessfully tried to find a peaceful ground. In the end I reacted angrily and emotionally to her. Guess what? I became the difficult person myself and was perceived by everyone as being so. I became negative and stupid. I became ill. My confidence went to hell! I ended up quitting my job.
Thank you....
My coworker puts me down constantly. And this is my first job.
Got some help, thanks again.
chhayadivyam 1 week ago
what do you do if the butt is your mother.
Superstarveiw 2 weeks ago
This video need a top comment my change! Uhmm........ I LIKE MUFFINS!!!
aez813 3 weeks ago
@MrBrebuci Idiot! I'm not black just more intelligent than you are,clearly.
NewBerri1 3 weeks ago
@NewBerri1 shut up nigger
MrBrebuci 3 weeks ago
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NewBerri1 3 weeks ago
@MrBrebuci maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan your an idiot!
NewBerri1 3 weeks ago
As I am watching this I am reminded of someone difficult I worked with and consequently a story that I like to share that I thought was kinda thought provocing. It was a good friend of mine who told me that he would take to bus to school every morning, and this one time he said next to the bus driver and had a friendly conversation with him (about his job and his kids). So he gets out and goes to school like any other day.
VtjeP 1 month ago
After a few weeks he sees the same bus driver and as he is asking for a ticket the busdriver says: no my friend you dont have to pay. On which my friend said huh how can you possibly still remember me, you see more than a 1000 people a day. on which he replied: I only remember positive people. If you think about it how many difficult/negative people you encounter as a busdriver, you need a mindset like this to not go completely crazy or bitter. I realized I was remembering the wrong people
VtjeP 1 month ago
ya thanks for the advice i tried doing what u said to stay calm when some person starts acting difficult and he punched me and gave me 2 black eyes
thanks alot
mmokitten 2 months ago
Thank you. This means a lot to me.
GaryOldmanfan23 2 months ago
Good stuff. Thanks for uploading
artofthefart 2 months ago
Thank you
haloapa 2 months ago
this is really good, real stuff.
fargowheels 2 months ago
Have watched the video and yeah... Personally I find the tips to be very relevant and useful... Not forgetting to mention the fact that they are simple to implement as well. Thumbs up for this video and I'm going to share it with my readers in my self-improvement blog.
Thanks! :)
Cheers
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few years ago two parents went out for dinner. A few hours later, the babysitter was calling to see if she could cover up the clown statue in the kids' room, the father said "Get the kids and get out of the house, we'll call the police, we don't have a clown statue". The "clown statue" was actually a killer that escaped from jail. If you don't post this on 10 videos tonight the clown will be in your bed at 3:00am with a chainsaw in his hand. Sorry don't want this to happen to me
Adazzz101 5 months ago
thank you.
Fulano2000 6 months ago
how do you deal with a relative constantly telling you something you make/play and/or what you do is gay?pretty much never fucking stopping i should add.persistent prick
KashgroundTM 7 months ago
@KashgroundTM
Hump him while he's sleeping, tell him if he freaks out, he's the gay one.
WatermelonPeppermint 7 months ago
@WatermelonPeppermint actually its a girl relative...but thank you?
KashgroundTM 7 months ago
how do you deal with a older brother whos a totally asshole i just WANT TO KILL HIM im crying trying to deal with him his costently a total douch he thinks hes god he thinks he knows everything about everything how do fucking deal with this before i take a knife to his neck
generalcakeisgood 7 months ago
What if the person is controlling (he won't let me do any of my projects without ruining my hobbies), abusive (he screams at his elderly mom with altimers), stupid (he forgets everything and has broken 2 of my moms cars), freeloading (he's drying up his 85 year old dad's retirement money because he dos'nt fell like he needs a job), stubborn (things have to go his way or he throws a fit) and angry. Someone please help me because we live with him, we have no where else to go as we are homeless
maltiseconure9 8 months ago
@maltiseconure9 how to deal with a sociopath X)
RyukRasenganable 4 months ago
@RyukRasenganable i am going to fix him myself, with a tube-sock full of golf balls. And he will OBEY.
maltiseconure9 4 months ago
Possibly disciplinary action may have to be taken. You have to take a stand, you were hired to uphold company values but treat the staff member with respect at the same time. Because you are young, you have to find some kind of common ground on a professional level. Go for a coffee break with that person or something. The most important thing for staff though for them not buying into your program is lack of recognition.
Thorneization 8 months ago
harsh4uall sometimes you may have to sit down and have a talk with that individual and fairly set ground rules. I work in an office when I started that all are over my age by 10 years. My success has been work with them. Let them know the truth you are an extension of their position. Document the conversation as it will arise again. Consult with peers in the group to find out if something is really bothering that person outside of work. If not then you have a person that has a will issue .
Thorneization 8 months ago
2 people are douchbag difficult people
TheJutt82 10 months ago 2
Can't we just strap all of the douchebags to a rocket and send them to the sun?
SuperDC45 11 months ago 2
@SuperDC45 I would agree, i am so sick of faggot ass douchbags, always up my ass, "like leave me the fuck alone", it's like when they see that you don't want anything to do with them they get increasingly gayer, they make me want to jump on a rocket and shoot myself to space. because they are everywhere. it's alright because they will all burn in hell may 21 2011, when the world ends.
TheJutt82 10 months ago
thanx
harsh4uall 11 months ago
@harsh3uall Your co-worker can't cope with the fact that you're his boss, obviously. maybe you should try mediation, where you can make commitments between you both that you have to sign for. that makes it official. Good luck!
yourivangeldrop 1 year ago
hi i am 26 year old business man .one of my co worker,who is a old man always makes me angry. indirectly i am his boss bt he always behave lyk he is my boss and i have to work under him.i have tried so many usual ways to make a good communication with him but he dnt want to understand ..please help me out
harsh4uall 1 year ago
@harsh4uall do you mind saying what the job is? what are you doing? there are a thousand variables. are you taller than him? are you both in good shape.. it could be anything other than work, where you his boss be for you got the job? was there another guy he liked better? was he the boss be for you? your comment isnt to old to reply to, 3y/ago maybe, so wats happening now?
HeartPiece4u 11 months ago
The title is as nice as it gets. What it actually means is "how to deal with assholes".
jackrumorz 1 year ago
I can tell if the boss is jumping your butt all the time sometimes you just can't be nice to them. I used to work in construction and some of the managers were pretty rough. Sometimes standing up to them and yelling back at them makes them realize you are not a push over. I tried for a long time to just be nice to them, but one time I starting pounding my fist on my boss's desk and yelled back.
they realize them you are not a door mat and then will have some respect for you.
whiskeyify 1 year ago
And what if you (The superior) are the truly difficult person? But I'm sure this (please hand me your money) video has your target's best interest at heart!
laaxe 1 year ago
Good one! trying to be good to a difficult person will definetly encourage his or her behaviour. Take your stand and Let them know that they are crossing their limits; straight and great!
johnchatragadda 1 year ago
protect your own ground? what are we monkeys? there is no such thing as difficult people. you just perceive them that way. if im at the wrong place at the wrong time and someone dislikes me. i immediately present my butt to them and ask for penis. if i fail hard enough i cant fail.
tommy007b 1 year ago
Like the expert said, do not react to difficult people. They are better at this "game" and they will beat you. I once worked for a difficult person who bullied me and I unsuccessfully tried to find a peaceful ground. In the end I reacted angrily and emotionally to her. Guess what? I became the difficult person myself and was perceived by everyone as being so. I became negative and stupid. I became ill. My confidence went to hell! I ended up quitting my job.
rosemaravilha 1 year ago
@rosemaravilha : Can't agree more..a very similar situation happened with me too. My confidence was shattered and I ended up looking like a fool.
bigbrother396 1 year ago
@bigbrother396 yeah, I know what you mean. Good luck in the future. I hope we learn from our experiences.
rosemaravilha 1 year ago
@rosemaravilha : Rite..."Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, ......"
Good luck 2 U 2.
bigbrother396 1 year ago
Even better, learn Kung-Fu!
sfincione2000 1 year ago 2
great tips
panzertoo 1 year ago
Thats a okay video.
HRTOACTIVIST 2 years ago
So true!
7thPlace 2 years ago
FUCKING SHUT UP
dino01 2 years ago
thats a great video post it too to how2answers
stevgittselearning 2 years ago